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Why Selfies Sometimes Look Weird to Their Subjects

It's not your face, it's how your brain works.

Welcome to the department of discarded selfies, a dark place deep inside my phone where dimly lit close-up shots of my face are left to fade away into the cloud. I’ve thought about sending these photos to friends many times—that’s why I took them, after all—but each time my finger lingers over the share button, a few questions stop me: Why does my face look so weird? Are my eyelids that droopy? Is my chin that lop-sided? And how come nobody warned me?

encourages photographers to seize control of their self-image by rejecting beauty standards and embracing the imperfect humanity ugly?

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