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    Stop Doing That Sh*t: End Self-Sabotage and Demand Your Life Back
    Stop Doing That Sh*t: End Self-Sabotage and Demand Your Life Back
    Stop Doing That Sh*t: End Self-Sabotage and Demand Your Life Back
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    Stop Doing That Sh*t: End Self-Sabotage and Demand Your Life Back

    Written by Gary John Bishop

    Narrated by Gary John Bishop

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    From the author of the New York Times and international bestseller Unfu*k Yourself Gary John Bishop presents a no-holds-barred guide to breaking through our cycles of self-sabotage to get what we want out of life.

    In Unfu*k Yourself, Gary John Bishop told us it was time to stop making excuses—to recognize and take responsibility for the negative self-talk holding us back.

    In Stop Doing That Sh*t, he builds on that message, teaching us how to stop self-sabotaging behavior. Bishop explains how our destructive cycles come down to the way that we’re wired. He then identifies different types of people and the ways we fu*k ourselves over: We can’t save money. We land in the same type of toxic relationship. We’re stuck in a rut at work. Analyzing why we act the way we do, including what our common grenades are that blow up our lives, Bishop then shows how we can interrupt the cycle and stop self-sabotaging our lives.

    Written in the same in your face style as Unfu*k Yourself, Stop Doing that Sh*t will help us get in touch with our psychological machinery so we learn to interrupt negative thoughts and behavior before they start, allowing us to give our attention to something else, and start to find success in the areas we thought we never could.

    We can take back our lives. We may have fu*ked up in the past, but Stop Doing That Sh*t will show us how to break the patterns in order to live the lives we yearn to have.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherHarperAudio
    Release dateMay 7, 2019
    ISBN9780062872388
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    Gary John Bishop

    Gary John Bishop is a leading personal development expert and the New York Times bestselling author of Unfu*k Yourself, Stop Doing that Sh*t, Do the Work, Wise As Fu*k, and Love Unfu*ked. His “urban philosophy” approach represents a new wave of personal empowerment and life mastery that has led to miraculous results in the quality and performance of people’s lives. He lives in Florida.

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    • 3/5
      The negative tone of the book was a little disappointing. There was an assumption of perspective on the part of the writer that left me frustrated at time’s.

      3 people found this helpful

    • 5/5
      I love this fucking guy just plain raw facts no filter

      2 people found this helpful

    • 2/5
      dude uses waayyy too many stupid similies. I get the appeal of the saying it like it is, and making self help more accessible, but the character he plays is turned to 11, making it hard to take him seriously.

      2 people found this helpful

    • 4/5
      Very well read, down to earth, and easy to understand.

      1 person found this helpful

    • 5/5
      Book is not for the weak, entitled, or just pos’s this book will help you take that next step Gary pushed me in the right direction in less than a year I’ve lost 80 pounds cleaned up my diet and mental health and overall don’t blame people anymore read the book and take all our reviews with a grain of salt happy listening lovely people
    • 5/5
      the honesty and wit was mesmerizing and truthful. loved it
    • 5/5
      I love his witty humor and beautiful insights on how to develop ones self!
    • 5/5
      Fucken amazing way to take control of the now with the future.
    • 5/5
      A must read, definitely recommend this book. Very straight to the point.
    • 3/5
      I don't like this book as much as his previous one. He seems to put everyone in a small box so its hard to relate at times.
    • 5/5
      Absolutely amazing! I can't be thank Gary enough for helping me change my be life.
    • 5/5
      Thank you for being f*CKing real. Truth hurts sometimes, but as you said change hurts, it's not supposed to be easy.
    • 5/5
      A very encouraging book,would recommend this to anyone out there
    • 5/5
      What do you have in common with a magic sponge? How should you handle damaging self image and past life events? What did the creators of Star Trek have in common with Michelangelo? Well Gary Bishop is about to f*****g let you know in this enlightening, entertaining, and straightforward plunge into self help and future life building. 5 stars!
    • 5/5
      This book transformed me, my therapy for 2021 and beyond!
    • 5/5
      This book is real, raw & to the point. Listen to it & you will eventually realize what it is that makes you self sabotage. Allows you to dig deep into another part of you that you didn’t think existed. Cuts all the phrases you hear daily or all your life & allows you to see “What it really means”. I love this book! Love the author!
    • 5/5
      Wow. Amazing. Inspiring. Truth to the core. No bs. Thank you.
    • 5/5
      Such a good book honestly. Love the perspective of Gary J Bishop ??
    • 4/5
      Way to call me out, bro. Great book to make you look yourself in the mirror.
    • 5/5
      Made me stop and think of how I have been leading my life. I good wake-up call.
    • 5/5
      I really enjoyed reading this book. This is a book I will be rereading every few months to keep me motivated. I highly recommend!
    • 5/5
      My goodness! I never saw it this way till now... See the future and bring it to the present
    • 5/5
      I listened to the book while i was working, the passion Gary expressed could only have come from the author.
    • 5/5
      I absolutely love the way he presents a problem in a light I have never looked at it before. This book was one of the hardest nonfictions for me to get through. It shoved a lot of my own shit in my face.
    • 5/5
      A wonderful book to read. Uncovering the shades behind why we behave the way we do, why we are stuck in the cycle of starting and then failing.
      Provides three powerful reasons embedded in our subconscious responsible for why we keep sabotaging our self and our progress.
      Really a good book that will put you back in shape, while giving better perspective to why we do the things we do.
    • 5/5
      Hands down BEST book to give it to you straight in your face. Do yourself a favor and maybe in addition to buying the book listen to the audible. Usually not a fan of audibles but this one read in his Scottish accent with his 'I'm not going to sugar-coat it for you' attitude will have you sit up and pay attention. Brilliantly written, I laughed at the the truthful descriptions of the facade we envelope ourselves in whilst thinking he must have a hidden camera on my life.
    • 5/5
      Very good book i highly recomed fir you to read it!
    • 5/5
      Straight to the point. Wonderful and eye opening. Highly recommended!
    • 5/5
      Dayuuuuum! If you know anything about GJB than that should suffice. If not, highly recommend not reading this book if like your “get your life unstuck” assistance served with a pint of Ben & Jerry’s - stick with binge watching Netflix it that’s the case. You want a real foot up the @$$, well press play, take notes and, prepare to dive deep into the depths of self to pull you out said depths. Cheers!
    • 5/5
      This is a life changing experience in a book. A great piece of work!