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    A Beautiful Bitch Called Life
    A Beautiful Bitch Called Life
    A Beautiful Bitch Called Life
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    A Beautiful Bitch Called Life

    By Jay Son

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    We are all spiritual beings having a human experience.As we journey through life that experience defines each life. Life happens along the way and according to what happens we find life to be a bitch or a beach.How we meet, perceive and embrace life determines life to be a bitch or a beach. Most important of all is the state of mind.What is your state of mind?What is your perception of life? How do you embrace life?

    A Beautiful Bitch Called Life is about living, about making that journey, about making choices, such as the path that each individual has to walk to reach their destination, about making choices that affect the time that it takes to reach that destination and whether or not that destination is reached. It is about you doing something to take control of your life and fulfilling your destiny.

    Sometimes you find life as a bitch or as a beach. When things do not go according to plan, you find the bitch.When everything is as you want it to be, you find the beach.Sometimes both come together. If it is a bitch all the time, then you are in big trouble. It is time to make life more of a beach.

    You will need some inspiration to find that beach. Inspiration is not that that difficult to find. It comes from different directions and different directions and by different names. The question then is are you looking for it or will you allow inspiration to find you. Will you know it when you see it? Welcome to the pages of `A beautiful Bitch called life' for some perception of life, for some self help, for some guidance and for some inspiration.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherJay Son
    Release dateMar 20, 2012
    ISBN9781452455211
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      A Beautiful Bitch Called Life - Jay Son

      Life, A Series of Relationships

      Life from start to finish is simply your relationship with yourself; with others; with things; with places; with God; with the universe and everything around you. It includes your actions and your reactions to everything, everyone and everything that happens to you. It is not so much what happens to you during the relationships of your lifetime but how you react to them that ultimately determines the outcome of your own life.

      It is how you define these relationships that are so much a part of your journey, or how you allow them to define you, that determines how beautiful life shall appear to you or whether life is simply a bitch for the rest of your life. It is how you embrace and shape these relationships, that determines how your life shall unfold, whether life shall be beautiful or not, happy or sad, joyful or miserable, fulfilling or not.

      Life is such that from start to finish, not all relationships have the capability to endure most challenges or to sustain the joy that relationships should bring. Life happens, Tragedies happen but it is still how you define these relationships and events associated with relationships that shall determine how the future unfolds.

      Because everything is everything and everything a part of the jigsaw puzzle that is life, the missing pieces to relationships impact the beauty that is life. When any piece of the jigsaw puzzle that belongs to a particular relationship is no longer as it should be, life then unfolds like a crumpled piece of paper instead of like the beautiful rose that it should be.

      Accordingly life can sometimes be like a bitch because we make it so or allow a particular relationship to make it so for us. It may be work, it may be friends, it may be family or any given environment. The trick is not to let your relationships impact you negatively and if they do, not to allow them to embrace you for the rest of your life. Sometimes life can be a bitch but do not let it be so all the time.

      Sometimes Life’s a Bitch. Sometimes life is a Beach

      It simply depends on your perspective and your approach to life. If you adopt a negative approach to life, then life will almost always appear to be a bitch. If you adopt a positive approach to life, then you will find life to be a beach more often than a bitch. This rule applies, whether you are rich or whether you are poor, married or single, employed or unemployed.

      No one, not even the wealthiest or the merriest of our kind can be positive all the time, for life presents its own events and experiences that impact even the most positive of lives. The idea though is to adopt positivity as a way of life and to be positive most of the time, if not all the time.

      It is much easier however to be negative all the time, because too many people allow it to be so, by drowning in their own misery or by allowing others to drown them in misery. In such instances life is most likely to be a bitch most of the time and it is for you to break away from such negativity, in order to make life more of a beach. Your choice. Your state of mind. Your action.

      Sometimes life can be a bitch and sometimes life can be a beach indeed. If it is a beach most of the time, then that is a good thing. If life is a bitch most of the time, then that is not a good thing. If life is a bitch always or all the time, then you are definitely in trouble.

      It cannot be a beach all the time even for the wealthy, for life is not all about the money. Money helps but it is not all about money. Money brings its own issues, so for those who think that money is the only solution to make life a constant beach, think again.

      It is much bigger than that and it has more to do with the universe that is your mind. It has something to do with your approach to life, to your circumstances, to matters of the heart and to wealth also. It is your state of mind that sometimes makes life a bitch and sometimes a beach. Others play their role also, but your state of mind is the key.

      It should not be a bitch most of the time but unfortunately sometimes extends itself to become most of the time, because you allow yourself to reside on that side of life for too long. How you meet and greet life as a bitch decides the duration of how long life remains that way or whether or not life becomes more like a beach.

      Sometimes while life is a beach, it can in an instance transform itself into the bitch. Something can and will most likely happen as you journey through life that makes it so. You have to be careful as you journey, in order to avoid that transformation and should it happen or when it happens, be quick to act. How long the transformation from beach to bitch or from bitch to beach, depends entirely on you.

      The beach or the bitch that you make of life is linked to your perception of and your approach to life and its duration to your temperament at the time.

      We are all emotional creatures and the mood swings that are associated with our emotions play a significant role in sometimes making life a beach or sometimes a bitch. These mood swings take us from the beach to the bitch and from the bitch to the beach without much notice.

      The Positive & Negative Effect on Life Being a Beach or a Bitch

      The positive and or negative state of your mind will determine the fluctuation as to whether life is sometimes a beach or whether life is sometimes a bitch. A positive state of mind will usually make it a beach and a negative state of mind will make it a bitch. The positive takes you to and keeps you on the side of life that is a beach and the negative takes you to the side of life that is a bitch.

      The negative side of you and to your mind is associated with all the negativity in your life, all the negative people under the banner of misery. Every time something goes wrong, every time you encounter emotional or financial turbulence or meet with disappointment, you are likely to find yourself embracing negativity and transporting yourself to the side of life that is a bitch.

      The positive side of you and your positive mind is associated with and linked to all the good things, all the things that bring pleasure and the ones that you love, under the umbrella of joy. Here there is not much emotional turbulence or disappointment and if there is, still more fulfillment than dissatisfaction.

      This is the content and peaceful side to you that is naturally happy with or without abundant wealth. Here there is less internal struggle and it is much easier to find yourself to the side of life that is more of a beach than a bitch,

      The Negative vs. The Positive

      When the negative comes, it comes. It is a stream of energy. It flows from different directions to different directions and sometimes it flows to you and through you.

      It can be still, like a pool of still water. It can be a torrent or a down pour like a waterfall going down stream. It can touch you like rain drops, it can drench you like a down pour of rain or it can be like an earth quake and disrupt the foundation that is you.

      The negative has many forms, many names, comes in many shapes and form, many sizes and from different sources. The weight of negativity varies from place to place, from time to time and person to person but one thing about negativity that is constant, is its nature. It is not good.

      If it is not good for you, how do you get rid of it? How do you keep a pulse on it? How do you contain the energy or avoid it?

      Let’s try this. Imagine that you are in a river and that river is this negative energy. Next imagine a force field in the river and label it as a force field of positive energy. Imagine this force field as powerful as you can and picture it as rising from the bottom of the river towards the sky. You are contained in this force field so the negative energy may flow towards you but has to flow around you because of the force field.

      The negative energy has to flow around the positive force field and continue its flow because it cannot go through it. It must touch the force field but cannot penetrate the shield in order to consume you.

      If you can adopt a very strong positive approach to life, then you become like that force field. If you are like that force field, and have a positive approach to life, negativity may still touch you but cannot overwhelm or consume you.

      The positive is the strongest remedy to the negative. Build up your fortress of positivity.

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