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    Mind-blowing Relationship. Practical Tips To Rekindle Your Love Life
    Mind-blowing Relationship. Practical Tips To Rekindle Your Love Life
    Mind-blowing Relationship. Practical Tips To Rekindle Your Love Life
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    Mind-blowing Relationship. Practical Tips To Rekindle Your Love Life

    By Dmitry Novikov

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    What is love? For most people love is a mysterious feeling that is suddenly sent and taken by unknown power, by destiny, by elements. But there are also those unique people, who see in love an incomparable creative activity. These people become designers of their love life, turning it into a work of art. They are pilots of their life, not passengers. They’ve managed to make happiness their habit. Wanna join them? Then I have wonderful news for you. Here is a book that will help you to find, develop and design the best relationship you would dream of. On its pages you will find only tested and proven methods that you can start using right away, making your life much happier.

    What are the ingredients of happy love life? Real love? Following your bent? Financial independence? Creative self-realization? Supportive family? Sounds a bit vague, doesn't it? You know why? Because very few of us have seen all these things pretty close. Because no one has ever taught us clearly, what happiness really is. No one has taught us how to date and how to seduce. No one has taught us how to save and how to invest money. No one has ever taught us how to grow personally and how to find the occupation you really love. No one has taught us how to effectively raise our children. No one has taught us how to build strong relationship and strong family. When we are young we are total dilettanti in these fields but life doesn't give us an easy time in taking a test on survival. Our lack of knowledge has to show up in real-life disappointments that can be total disasters. The goal of this book is to give you such knowledge, to prevent many of the problems you may face if haven't read the pages below.

    Relationship is like work. Just like in work to produce the best results in relationship you need to work harder and wiser. Most of the people work on relationships only in the beginning and during crises. And even at these stages direction of their energy is miles away from the most effective. This book is a great instrument to help you in choosing the best ways to become emotionally closer to your partner or even to a person you don't know.

    No matter what your goal is: whether you're obsessed with finding a partner, or you want to seduce a particular person, or you wish to solve severe problems in your family, or you simply want to grow personally, be more attractive to the opposite sex, or your desire is to become an expert in relationships – you'll surely find tons of useful information in this book.

    My appeal to all men and women of all ages and beliefs: If you let your life drift like a log, you can never be sure when you meet next waterfall! Stop doing things others want you to do! Start learning and practicing building with your own hands and responsibility the relationship you've been dreaming of. Start opening your genuine internal feelings, desires and talents!

    This book is named “Mind-blowing relationship”. This is because the idea of refreshening relationships presented in it is based on so called “mindblowers”. Mindblower is a very creative action taken by one partner to get closer to the other rapidly. It is mostly used to restore crisis relationships; however you can effectively apply mindblowers towards the person you even don’t know in order to win his or her heart. In this book you’ll find the idea of how mindblowers are constructed and certainly a list of 50 best mindblowers that will help you to add a new spark to your relationship.

    It’s time to start acting now – life is too short to let yourself drift.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherDmitry Novikov
    Release dateAug 27, 2012
    ISBN9781476406909
    Mind-blowing Relationship. Practical Tips To Rekindle Your Love Life
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    Dmitry Novikov

    Dmitry Novikov is a popular Russian psychologist, trainer, coach and writer. He devotes most of his research to improving all aspects of love life. His approach is always aimed at finding exact actions and effective solutions. Dmitry Novikov sees his mission not only in providing the plan for achieving the desired goal, but also to train people to find and realize the necessary actions themselves without external support.

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      Mind-blowing Relationship. Practical Tips To Rekindle Your Love Life - Dmitry Novikov

      Mind-blowing relationship

      Practical tips to rekindle your love life

      D.B. Novikov

      -

      Smashwords Edition

      Copyright 2012 D.B. Novikov

      All rights reserved. No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without the written permission of the author.

      drivespace.drivespace@gmail.com

      Table of Contents

      Introduction

      1. Relationship search

      1.1. Three brains theory

      1.2. Partner search

      1.3. Art of seduction

      1.4. Initial stage of relationship

      2. Relationship design

      2.1. What’s important for relationship?

      2.2. Love to yourself and to others

      2.3. How relationships work

      3. Relationship refreshment

      3.1. Intimate space

      3.2. Mindblowers

      3.3. Relationship crisis management

      3.4. Seven-step rescue plan

      3.5. What can you do right away

      4. Questions and answers

      5. Top 50 mindblowers

      Conclusion

      Appendix I. How to make a rose from a napkin

      Introduction

      What is love? For most people love is a mysterious feeling that is suddenly sent and taken by unknown power, by destiny, by elements. But there are also those unique people, who see in love an incomparable creative activity. These people become designers of their love life, turning it into a work of art. They are pilots of their life, not passengers. They’ve managed to make happiness their habit. Wanna join them? Then I have wonderful news for you. You are reading a book that will help you to find, develop and design the best relationship you would dream of. Here you will find only tested and proven methods that you can start using right away, making your life much happier.

      What are the ingredients of happy love life? Real love? Following your bent? Financial independence? Creative self-realization? Supportive family? Sounds a bit vague, doesn't it? You know why? Because very few of us have seen all these things pretty close. Because no one has ever taught us clearly, what happiness really is. No one has taught us how to date and how to seduce. No one has taught us how to save and how to invest money. No one has ever taught us how to grow personally and how to find the occupation you really love. No one has taught us how to effectively raise our children. No one has taught us how to build strong relationship and strong family. When we are young we are total dilettanti in these fields but life doesn't give us an easy time in taking a test on survival. Our lack of knowledge has to show up in real-life disappointments that can be total disasters. The goal of this book is to give you such knowledge, to prevent many of the problems you may face if haven't read the pages below.

      Relationship is like work. Just like in work to produce the best results in relationship you need to work harder and wiser. Most of the people work on relationships only in the beginning and during crises. And even at these stages direction of their energy is miles away from the most effective. This book is a great instrument to help you in choosing the best ways to become emotionally closer to your partner or even to a person you don't know.

      No matter what your goal is (if you are reading this page, I think you have one): whether you're obsessed with finding a partner, or you want to seduce a particular person, or you wish to solve severe problems in your family, or you simply want to grow personally, be more attractive to the opposite sex, or your desire is to become an expert in relationships - you'll surely find tons of useful information in this book.

      My appeal to all men and women of all ages and beliefs: If you let your life drift like a log, you can never be sure when you meet next waterfall! Stop doing things others want you to do! Start learning and practicing building with your own hands and responsibility the relationship you've been dreaming of. Start opening your genuine internal feelings, desires and talents!

      This book is named Mind-blowing relationship. This is because the idea of refreshening relationships presented in it is based on so called mindblowers. Mindblower is a very creative action taken by one partner to get closer to the other rapidly. It is mostly used to restore crisis relationships; however you can effectively apply mindblowers towards the person you even don’t know in order to win his or her heart. In this book you’ll find the idea of how mindblowers are constructed and certainly a list of 50 best mindblowers that will help you to add a new spark to your relationship.

      It’s time to start acting now - life is too short to let yourself drift.

      1. Relationship search

      1.1. Three brains theory

      "What made marriage so difficult back then was yet again that instigator of so many other sorts of heartbreak: the oversize brain."

      Kurt Vonnegut

      More than five years ago I found some literature on such discipline as Ethology. It is the science that studies the mechanisms of instinctive behavior of animals and from this standpoint tries to explain many features of human life such as hierarchy, social roles, morality, love, family, unfaithfulness, social traditions and so on. I was shocked with how simply ethology explains the processes taking place around us every day. At the same time, these explanations appreciably differed from those of classical psychology stating that the major determinants of a person's identity is his environment and his experience gained mostly in childhood. I also paid attention to works of modern psychologists who believe that the identity of the person is mainly determined by his own choices and decisions. On the pages of this book I have attempted to combine different concepts of my colleagues, examining the human identity and relationships from different sides and angles.

      The result of such efforts was the development of the theory which I call the triple brain concept. According to this theory, human thinking can be conceptually divided into three parts, each of them is to some extent controls our desires and aspirations.

      * The first component called the logical brain helps us to objectively evaluate the surrounding reality, to set goals and to build plans to achieve them, to make deliberate decisions and draw conclusions basing on the past experience.

      * The second component is an emotional brain. This brain is responsible for such our inner manifestations of our behavior as affection, conscience, nostalgia, inspiration, tenderness, vanity, romance, etc.

      * Finally, the third component is the instinctive brain. It is in charge of the management of our primary needs such as sleep, rest, food, sex, and security.

      All three components of thinking regularly come into a confrontation with each other and the fight between the last two is usually more severe. One of the most illustrative examples of such confrontations is the process of finding a partner for relationship.

      Each brain has its own opinion about the best potential partner and, while men do not suffer much from contradictions between logical and emotional and instinctive brains, the things for women are completely different.

      Logical brain forces both men and women to look for partners corresponding to their cultural and intellectual level, the ones from similar social groups and with a similar mentality, those whom they are not ashamed to present to their relatives and friends, who conforms with those percepts and beliefs that were shaped in childhood.

      Emotionally men are looking for good mothers, wives and friends. Sensual part of brain attract them to open, sociable, romantic and sympathetic women. In turn, the emotional brain of women encourages them to seek for good husbands, potential fathers, reliable, loyal and stable partners, courteous romantics and family oriented persons. With support of this brain we create a family - a unit of society providing the best conditions for bringing up kids and preparing them for adult life.

      Instinctive brain, which usually plays the leading role when we choose a partner, offers men and women quite different innate programs.

      First, the satisfaction of one of the most important and ancient of our instincts, which is procreation, ensuring the development of mankind as a system, determines for men and women completely different strategies for finding a partner. In order to pass their gene pool to the next generations with the greatest probability, men due to understandable reasons stick more to a quantitative strategy of collecting women's bodies, while women are much more oriented to focus on winning men's hearts in order to later select the right man with the best gene pool.

      Secondly, the criteria of choosing a partner are also different. Men instinctively are attracted to women’s appearance, health, novelty, feminity of behavior, physical weakness, to a lesser extent - vitality and unavailability. Women’s instinctive brain, in turn, makes them to choose dominants, leaders in groups mainly in men’s ones, guys with high social status, self-confident, experienced and resolute men, carriers of enviable genes, possessors of such personal qualities that provide the highest survival potential in extreme conditions.

      The chance for a woman to meet the combination wanted by all three brains in just one man is far lower than that for a man, although the latter is not very high as well.

      This explains why despite the mutual desire to have a partner both sexes can barely manage to find each other. That's why both men and women need to consciously work on developing particular features in them which they lack and which are in great demand.

      Besides partner search process the human behavior is influenced by the three brains in a variety of situations such as choosing a profession, breakup, overcoming conflicts, interaction

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