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    BDSM Primer: A Woman's Guide to BDSM - Fetishes, Roles, Rituals, Protocols, Safety, & More
    BDSM Primer: A Woman's Guide to BDSM - Fetishes, Roles, Rituals, Protocols, Safety, & More
    BDSM Primer: A Woman's Guide to BDSM - Fetishes, Roles, Rituals, Protocols, Safety, & More
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    BDSM Primer: A Woman's Guide to BDSM - Fetishes, Roles, Rituals, Protocols, Safety, & More

    By Elizabeth Cramer

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    BDSM is a whole different world where people speak in their own formal and informal language, have rules and social norms, and create expectations based on everything from names to symbols you employ.

    As a sex educator and an active member in the BDSM community, I found most information floating around to be inaccurate and some even unhealthy. As a primer this guide will demystify the world of BDSM and present it in a straightforward and easy-to-understand way to you.

    This guide is more than just a list of who and what. It is a map that will take you into the heart of the BDSM lifestyle, explore the motivations and expectations, and offer suggestions for the safe and sensual journey you are undertaking.

    In "BDSM Primer for Women", you will learn:

    - The vocabulary, roles, and rituals
    - The reasons you may want to participate in this lifestyle
    - Ways and places to get started
    - Safety concerns and legal issues
    - Emotions, consequences, and actions
    - What actions meet what needs
    - What kinds of fetishes meet what kinds of needs
    - How to communicate healthfully
    - How to create your sexual self
    - And much more...

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherLiving Plus Healthy Publishing
    Release dateJul 31, 2013
    ISBN9781301188130
    BDSM Primer: A Woman's Guide to BDSM - Fetishes, Roles, Rituals, Protocols, Safety, & More

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      Seems like a good introduction but I have no actual experience to verify. Would like more information on safety practices and plans. Frustrating to get suggestions on safety practices without specific information on how to achieve the goal.

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    BDSM Primer - Elizabeth Cramer

    BDSM Primer

    A Woman's Guide to BDSM - Fetishes, Roles, Rituals, Protocols, Safety, & More

    Elizabeth Cramer

    Copyright© 2013 by Elizabeth Cramer

    Smashwords Edition

    BDSM Primer

    Copyright© 2013. All Rights Reserved.

    Warning: The unauthorized reproduction or distribution of this copyrighted work is illegal. No part of this book may be scanned, uploaded or distributed via internet or other means, electronic or print without the author’s permission. Criminal copyright infringement without monetary gain is investigated by the FBI and is punishable by up to 5 years in federal prison and a fine of $250,000. (http://www.fbi.gov/ipr/). Please purchase only authorized electronic or print editions and do not participate in or encourage the electronic piracy of copyrighted material.

    LEGAL NOTICE

    The Publisher has strived to be as accurate and complete as possible in the creation of this report, notwithstanding the fact that he does not warrant or represent at any time that the contents within are accurate due to the rapidly changing nature of the Internet.

    While all attempts have been made to verify information provided in this publication, the Publisher assumes no responsibility for errors, omissions, or contrary interpretation of the subject matter herein. Any perceived slights of specific persons, peoples, or organizations are unintentional.

    This book is not intended for use as a source of legal, business, accounting or financial advice. All readers are advised to seek services of competent professionals in the legal, business, accounting, and finance fields.

    The information in this book is not intended or implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. All content contained in this book is for general information purposes only. Always consult your healthcare provider before carrying on any health program

    Table of Contents

    Chapter 1: Introduction

    Chapter 2: Hello, My Name Is…

    The Top Side

    The Bottom Side

    Other Roles

    Chapter 3: Terms of Endearment

    Chapter 4: Why Am I Doing This?

    Responsibility

    Simplicity

    Release

    Chapter 5: See All The People

    Chapter 6: Personal Policies

    Personal Information

    Pictures

    Meeting Safety

    Sexuality and Scene Safety

    Chapter 7: Who Else Has The Cuffs?

    Universally Banned Topics

    Federal Laws in the United States

    State and Local Laws

    Internationally

    Chapter 8: Creating Your Sexual Self

    Chapter 9: On Your Mark, Get Set, Go…

    Chapter 1: Introduction

    Whether you are engaged in some casual weekend play, or in the process of discovering your sexual identity, you’ll discover BDSM (Bondage, Discipline/Dominance, Submission/Sadism, and Masochism) is a complex, compelling and highly faceted arena. It is a whole different world where people speak in their own formal and informal language, have rules and social norms, and create expectations based on everything from names to symbols you employ.

    In this world you can find what you are looking for and experience unimaginable pleasures, or end up taking a wrong turn and endure at best an awkward situation or at worst unimaginable unpleasantness.

    As a sex educator and an active member in the BDSM community, I found most information floating around to be inaccurate and some even unhealthy. As a primer this guide will demystify the world of BDSM and present it

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