Get Ready for Retirement: Retirement Books, #1
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Are you apprehensive about having a life after work? Do you wonder how you'll manage without the routine of work? This book will enable you to get ready for
retirement.
This book provides you with simple strategies in an easy-to-read format and a step-by-step approach so you can enjoy life after work and make the changes you want to make.
Susan Kersley is a retired Medical Practitioner who became a Life Coach and Writer.
She is the author of personal development books for doctors including 'Prescription for Change for doctors who want a life,' 'ABC of Change for Doctors,' and 'Life After Medicine.
She has also published novels: 'Pills and Pillboxes' and 'Connection Deception.'
Susan Kersley
Susan Kersley has written personal development and self-help books for doctors and others, and books about retirement and novels. She was a doctor for thirty years and then left Medicine to be a Life Coach.. Now retired, she is updating her books and writing more. Please visit her website https://susankersley.co.uk If you enjoyed this book, please take a moment to leave a review. Reviews are so important for independent authors.
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Get Ready for Retirement - Susan Kersley
Chapter 1 Introduction
You’re going to spend some important time focusing on you, your life, your hopes and dreams, your challenges and the solutions that are right for you. You will be encouraged to examine your interests and life purpose, your beliefs and values, your relationship with friends, family and partner, your health, well-being and your spiritual self.
Not only thinking about your challenges at this time in your life, but also on the solutions right for you.
I will be introducing you to ways, which you can adapt so they are custom-made to your particular lifestyle. Since you are an exceptional individual it’s understandable that what enables you to get ready for the transition and change in relation to retirement may be very different from what is suitable for the next person.
This book is about getting ready for retirement from the inside out. It’s a book about you, your greatest resource. To get ready for retirement and have a life after work, you need to find the confidence and courage to connect with your own inner resources so that you can let the person you really are shine through.
You may want to change things and you want to know what actions to take. You want to take a leap into the unknown, confident that you will manage a new part of your life. You may hope to transform yourself overnight with no effort on your part.
The truth is however, you don’t get yourself ready for retirement in just a day or two. There is no magic formula to do that. It’s a process of adjustment. It takes time to become accustomed to no longer having your familiar pattern of work, to deciding how to spend your days and to keeping yourself healthy and happy.
There may be a time when you experience uncertainty about the transition from your familiar life pattern to something different and new.
As you read and understand the contents of this book, you will begin to recognise a bright future is possible after work has finished, and feel positive about your ability to enjoy life without the routine of the job you’ve been doing for years. Your friends and family may be surprised at how you change, and what you decide to do, during this time of transition.
Your attitude to and acceptance of retirement happens over a period of time. You may wonder if you’re taking the right path. Don’t worry if this happens, it is part of your process for change. You may only discover if it’s the way forward, for you, by being willing to try something different.
You won’t get yourself ready for retirement by going through a standard process. You have to accept that it is a major life change and the way you react may surprise you. It takes time to adapt to new circumstances.
You might find it’s similar to grieving because you may experience the loss of your identity, as the professional person you’ve been for years. You will discover who you are behind the professional person.
Like it or not, other people will regard you differently when you are no longer actively engaged in a profession. And yet they may still regard you in that light and expect you to offer the same information or services that were part of your working role.
However, even before you finally retire, you will be discovering a new identity. You will realise you will be a person who has more freedom to do a whole lot of things not possible before. This may include starting a new career which is either connected, or not, to your previous profession.
If you think you won’t notice anything different in your attitude to life then you may be in for a shock. Once you leave a long-time profession your outlook will change dramatically and your priorities will shift too.
You really need to listen to what your inner voice tells you. Answer the questions and think about the course of your life and where it’s going. If you notice a twinge in your lower chest or upper abdomen as you do this, don’t dismiss it, but ask yourself what that’s about. Ask the feeling to explain what’s going on and listen to the answer it gives you. Remember it’s common to talk about our ‘gut reaction’ to something. Begin to notice what yours is saying.
As you think about planning for a major life transition, retirement, you may become aware of an underlying dissatisfaction about your life which has been there for a long time. If you notice this, you are not alone. Retirement is a time for you to address any unhappiness about your life and do something to make changes before it’s too late.
There are thousands, if not millions of others who, just like you, get by day to day and never achieve what they want from life. They settle into the routine of get up, go to work, come home, eat, fall asleep in front of the television, see a few friends, or more likely not, go to bed and so on, day after day.
Do you recognise this picture?
It’s not much of a life is it?
If your life is bit like this then you may be, or have been a doctor, lawyer or other health-care professional, or have run your own business, perhaps a service business, you now may reflect that the long hours and the stress was not what you wanted when you started out on your path through life.
However, retirement gives you an opportunity to make changes for the better, to learn about and try new experiences, to explore new places, and to enjoy life to the fullest.
As you approach retirement you may wonder with some apprehension how you’ll cope without the routine of work, and if you can cope without it, if you will be able to find enough to do to fill your days. You may dread becoming a couch potato or wonder if you will manage financially on your pension.
You may also be unsure about your health and whether you will suffer as a result of a lifetime of unhealthy habits.
Is it too late to enjoy better health and fitness at this time in your life, without being fanatical?
Perhaps you are a very conscientious person, possibly a bit of a perfectionist. If so, you probably like to be in control of what’s going on. The thought of retirement and being away from all of that may be daunting for you. Your working life has enabled you to have structure and order in your days instead of an open plan stretching ahead of you.
Yet here you are, reading this, thinking about getting ready for retirement and wondering if the long hours and stresses have all been worth it.
Retirement is a time in your life you may have been looking forward to for years and promised yourself all the things you would do, ‘when you retire.’ Perhaps the prospect of actually doing those things now seems a bit scary.
At this time, it’s very important to acknowledge what you have achieved during your professional life. Don’t only dwell on what you would like to have done.
You have been resigned to it all or felt upset when frustrations in relation to work, went on and on, week by week, month by month, year by year without much in the way of improvement. You may have tried ways to change the situation but found that either