The Art of Flirting: How to Engage Women in Sexy Conversations
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Although flirting tactics tend to be one-of-a-kind for every species out there, their goals aren't. Human beings need to use non-verbal and verbal cues to attract potential mates. Men, for one, need to take certain actions in order to impress their choice of women: humor, intelligence, money, confidence and social status are all a part of this. Just like male apes beating their chests, these are merely several signals that we emit to show how worthy and desirable we can be to women. This is why flirting is considered a mating ritual.
Moreover, flirting is actually done unconsciously, just like with the animals. Do animal mating rituals look pre-planned to you? Well, they aren't. The truth is: these rituals all come from nature and are done to keep the life cycle going. Each creature on this planet was bred for this particular purpose, after all - human beings included. And, as with animals, human beings do not think before they flirt; they simply flirt. As a matter of fact, we only become aware of flirting when it ends up backfiring. Each guy on earth has come across a situation where some girl flirted with him and ended up acting annoyed after he flirted back.
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The Art of Flirting - Anthony Ekanem
The Art of Flirting
How to Engage Women in Sexy Conversations
Anthony Ekanem
Table of Contents
Preface
Chapter 1
Chapter 2
Preface
What do you know about flirting? This question might seem easy since we've all at least tried to get it done properly a couple of times. Dressing up to impress the opposite sex, complimenting them, and sending cheesy pickup lines their way are all various techniques created to attract women, but do you really know what flirting entails?
In a nutshell, flirting refers to a sort of mating ritual that isn't exclusive to human beings alone.
Take animals, for example. Do you ever wonder if the songs that birds sing have any meaning to them? Do you think it's only a coincidence that peacock feathers are so colorful and stylish? Have you ever wondered why apes beat their chests like that?
Well, there is a simple answer to all of that: they are a small part of these animals' mating rituals.
Although flirting tactics tend to be one-of-a-kind for every species out there, their goals aren't. Human beings need to use non-verbal and verbal cues to attract potential mates.
Men, for one, need to take certain actions in order to impress their choice of women: humor, intelligence, money, confidence and social status are all a part of this. Just like male apes beating their chests, these are merely several signals that we emit to show how worthy and desirable we can be to women. This is why flirting is considered a mating ritual.
Moreover, flirting is actually done unconsciously, just like with the animals. Do animal mating rituals look pre-planned to you? Well, they aren't.
The truth is: these rituals all come from nature and are done to keep the life cycle going. Each creature on this planet was bred for this particular purpose, after all - human beings included.
And, as with animals, human beings do not think before they flirt; they simply flirt. As a matter of fact, we only become aware of flirting when it ends up backfiring.
Each guy on earth has come across a situation where some girl flirted with him and ended up acting annoyed after he flirted back.
She may have said something like, "Sorry, you simply aren't my type." or You're a great friend.
This will confuse the guy as guys often misinterpret the friendly signals of girls as sexual attraction. They are not.
Chapter 1
The Right Way to Flirt
Before talking about how to flirt and succeed, you have to take one essential fact into consideration: women hate cocky assholes. Bragging about your new car, talking about how right you are, or flaunting about how your workplace would fall apart without you might appear to be a great way to catch a woman's attention, but it really isn't.
Bragging actually only shows weakness and will harm you more than anything else. Now that I've gotten that out of the way, let's get into the real subject at hand: how to flirt. Essentially, flirting refers to a subtle and fun way to let a girl know you like her. (Notice on the emphasis on the word subtle
).
Imagine you're talking to some girl for the first time. She's attractive, she's listening to you and, best of all, and she seems to be looking at you in that
way. Truthfully, this kind of sexual tension is a part of the mating ritual of humans. Through it, we can find out if the overall attraction is actually mutual and whether we should move ahead or not.
While flirting, try to use all of the masculine qualities that women like (more tips later in this book). But for this particular discussion, you should know that women respond to confident and emotional men, in general.
The purpose of flirting is to give you the opportunity to show her that you have the main character traits that women like in guys. However, the most important factor of flirting would be the use of non-verbal cues, otherwise known as body language.
Were you aware that most communication isn't actually verbal? It's true. Instead, the majority of communication is shown through personal actions. But having said that, you shouldn't think that talking to girls - and nothing more - will spark their interest in you.
Consider this scenario. Two guys might say the exact same thing, but send out different messages. This is why you have to find out how you can put your voice, gestures and body language to use to get a more penetrating message out of it. Another essential and effective factor of