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    How to help kids deal with ‘big feelings’ during COVID-19

    During the pandemic, children are struggling with difficult issues and parents are struggling over how to help them. Listening may be the best thing to do.
    by Yale Sep 02, 2020 1 minute
    A mother listens to her daughter while they sit outside

    For parents, helping children cope during the COVID-19 pandemic may be as simple as listening, Steven Marans argues.

    Children are struggling with difficult issues, says Marans, a child and adult psychoanalyst at Yale University Medicine and chief of the Trauma Section at the Child Study Center.

    In a year marked by COVID-19, discussions around racial justice, a crashing economy, and a divisive presidential election, he says parents need to first acknowledge their own emotions and stress reactions in order to be most attentive to their child’s responses to recent events.

    “Then, if children are having ‘big feelings’—or showing signs of their distress—it’s an opportunity to hit the pause button and help them recognize and reflect on those feelings,” Marans says.

    Marans has worked closely with previous White House administrations, members of Congress, and other leaders to address mental health and other issues related to trauma, terrorism, and national disasters.

    Here, he explains how to help children understand their feelings around the pandemic and what has been a difficult year in general:

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