Live & Learn / Learn & Live: Lessons from Men & Godly Mentors
By Art Phinney
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How do we learn true important lessons in life? Do you know the answer?
• Through various family members or relatives?
• Is it in our homes and through our parents?
• Is it done in the class-rooms of education or the sanctuary of churches?
• Does it take place on the street corners of our highways to maturity?
In his book “Live And Learn / Learn And Live” Art Phinney takes each reader on a journey through life and many of the life lesson’s he acquired. He suggests many of the important lesson’s we learn in life are taught to us by a collage of people that cross our life path. From family and relatives to the newest of friends or even the shortest acquaintances all may have a contribution to offer. The question becomes will we live better or smarter by what they have to teach us?
Art Phinney
Originally schooled at Calvary Chapel School of Ministry / Costa Mesa, Art Phinney has served as an assisting pastor from 1993 to 1996 at Warehouse Ministries - Jackson, CA and then senior pastor of Calvary Chapel Valley Springs since 1998. His areas of emphasis are systematic Bible teaching and leading worship. Art and his wife, Sherry have been married 32 years and live in lone, CA.
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Live & Learn / Learn & Live - Art Phinney
LIVE & LEARN / LEARN & LIVE
Lessons from men & Godly mentors
ART PHINNEY
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ISBN: 978-1-6642-6649-0 (sc)
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ISBN: 978-1-6642-6648-3 (e)
Library of Congress Control Number: 2022908806
WestBow Press rev. date: 05/14/2022
DEDICATION
To my precious and amazing wife Sherry, who’s love, and devotion has carried on and continues to do so at this moment.
To the late Don Levi and Chuck Smith. To George Stathos and finally Carl Westerlund – School of Ministry (SoM). Four pastors in my life who encouraged me to move forward in God’s calling.
To the countless men, some are named in this book, who have been an instrument in the hand of God to shape this wayward boy into a God seeking man.
PREFACE
FROM CRADLE TO GRAVE
He had been silent on the way to the hospital. Although he’d been propped up and in his car seat he wasn’t saying much. Earlier on the phone, the advice nurse had clearly said: …keep talking to him and don’t let him fall asleep…
As I made the twenty-minute drive into town all I could do was pray, sing and talk as much as I could believing we would make it!
David was only three at the time. Somehow, he had found his way to a bottle of children’s Co-Tylenol. This was back in the day before safety lids, and I had not properly secured the cupboard. As I recall it there were twenty-three pills missing. Panic struck and I got on the phone to ask a nurse what I should do. Bring him in
she replied, that was the directive. Once David and I arrived at the hospital I was quickly informed that they would need to pump
his stomach and remove as much of the medicine as they could. I gave my consent and into a clean triage room we went. They laid my three-year-old down on the table while I held his hand and spoke words of comfort as often as I could.
First, the clear small tube was lubricated with gel and then inserted into his left nostril and forced down into the small intestine. Next, a medium syringe was attached to the tube and they began the extraction
protocol. Basically, it meant that each time they pulled up on the syringe David would feel as though he was vomiting. Then little pink particles of Children’s Co-Tylenol would appear in the syringe for discarding. Then we’d do it all over again and again. Ouch!
At one point David looked up at me and yelled: Dad, mak’em stop!
It was in that moment that I learned a lesson. I could’ve lied and told him that I will. But I knew that wasn’t true and I didn’t ever want to lie to him. I could’ve told him I can’t and face the obvious fact that his dad
is not superman with all power! (We all know that’s not true either but many of us young fathers like to give our young boys that impression!)
So, I decided on a truthful compromise. I said this: … I will as soon as I can.
Which meant that as soon as they’d saved his life, I can ask them to stop! (smile) Yes, David made it through that night resting peacefully. I continued to thank the medical staff for their concern and professional help. And I understood that night that there will always be things to learn.
From the cradle until we enter the grave we’ve been set upon a path of learning. We all have. We learn to cry when troubled and hurt, eat when hungry, smile when glad and on it goes. The question becomes are you living better and or smarter because of the things you’ve learned?
Especially for the child of God there are necessary things that each of us must learn once we come to faith in Christ! As a babe does in the physical world so the babe in Christ does in the Spiritual world. We learn to walk, sit and finally to run. But who is our teacher? The Bible informs us the Holy Spirit will teach us all things that Jesus has said. But often in life the lessons that God will teach us come to us through the people in our lives.
This book is simply a record of many of the men that God has used to instruct me in various ways. Each one of them is infinitely more precious than the lesson I learned from them, but I remain grateful for the lesson as well. My hope for the reader is that they will find a bit of themselves in these accounts and perhaps even learn for themselves some valuable and tangible lessons that help them along their way.
That’s what this book is all about.
…For whatever things were written before were written for our learning, that we through the patience and comfort of the Scriptures might have hope.
(Ro 15:4)
CONTENTS
Grandpa Jenson – A Fork at The Table
Ken Poore / Hume Lake
…what did ya do that for?
Ben Tiapon – God’s Providence / A Real Job Miracle
Dick Mills – A Life Verse from The Scripture
Ron Kenoly – Mentor’s from Afar / Impact for a Lifetime
Don Levi – Never Try to Box God
The Elder / The Memorial – A Compact Compassion
Lucky’s Meat Supervisor. – A Tool In The Hand
Ed Galloway – A Lesson