Saboor 01 Farasat Saboor Kelly Turnbeaugh EN-1010-029 Aug 08, 2013 Being as pregnant in a teenager couple.

Marriage is the beautiful relationship between men and women and for the opposite sex, marriage is also called wedlock. Why people get marry? To make a family. But now a day teenager take this in a different ways. Basically they just miss use of meaning of marriage. If we do a small survey in our neighborhood or even in our family mostly teens get married in an immature age. Because they start thinking we are an adult we can do anything thats their approach. And later on they having problems in their lives. Problems means here they have an issue with their partner, stability with the family, health, education and numerous of things start taking place in their lifes. I find out doing my research, in the early age marriage is mostly 90% goes to down fall. Why immature age of marriage is not successful thats I am going to show in my research. Immature age is just enjoying life this is not a good age to make your own family because in this age you arent able to understand the life and even yourself. If we talk about some religious aspect some countries I know personally marriage as teen its not legal. The background to get marry as a teen basically starts from Rome and spread all over the world. Because in the old times when they dont have enough education, time and enough money, usually parents decide, when their kids born they are going to get marry in the age of

Saboor 02 around 12-13. And that was not a good age, which was an illiteracy in the old times. Now we have everything, we have to learn good things and show our experience with kids, so they dont make that kind of mistakes again. Now during in my research about teenager get pregnant in the immature age what problems they are facing in their lifes. Mostly research shows us pregnancy in the teenager is the common issue in our society. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention National Center for Health Statistics Each year there are nearly 900,000 teen pregnancies in the United States. Eight in ten of these pregnancies are unintended and 79% are to unmarried teens. Approximately one half of the pregnancies result in a live birth. According to (NCHS), reports for 2003, 81.3% of births to teens 15-19 are nonmarital, up from 80.0%in 2002. In the research of NCHS, these numbers are very huge numbers of our society, and we see every year it goes up and up where is the problem? We have to find it and fix it for our kids. This effort its not a single person we have to work together as a team. Every second one baby was born in the world. I know its hard to find where we need to start and how, but if we start from our home thats the best way. We have to explain things in detail in front our family, so they can understand and talk about it because mostly kids or teenager they are shy especially in front of parents when they talk about something about that kind of issues. So its a parents responsibility to feel our kids more comfortable with them and feel like it that they are the best friends. So they can share good and bad things with them and parents help them to make a better choice. So this process dont keep it just inside of the home its a team effect, so we have to unite as a team and try to evaluate all these issues from our teenager that they are facing after they get pregnant in the age of instability. One make bad decision effort on your whole next generation.

Saboor 03 In the research of Charissa Mennell, she talk about the risk factor that mostly teenagers are facing in their life. Basically pregnancy is the normal process for the women, but in the teenager is a little bit different because a lot of risk factors include in the teenager pregnancy such as health, safety, education issues. In the young mothers, in some cases that cause young mother died or sometimes baby die. In other factors or I think the most important factor is the safety for the young mother because if your partner isnt supportive, in some cases young male teen dont want to be a father because they know if they become a father they have more responsibility and they are not ready for that. And as a young teen mother she starting thinking unsafe with her partner. So if we conclude all these things facts what are the other most important factor to stop young teen pregnancy? For everybody life is based on the good education, if you have good education you successful in your life because you know what is good or what is bad for your life. In mostly researches young teen couples they left their school just because of that they are pregnant. Less education makes their life more difficult and more problems for the pregnancy. In the report of National Campaign to Prevent Teenage Pregnancy, an average of 60 percent of teenage mothers will terminate their education early and not return. And these numbers are getting increasing day by day just because of dropping school in a young youth. Whose responsibility to teach our young youth? Its everybody include in this circumstances I think first school then home because kids spend half of the day in school, but after that its parents responsibility. Its not a one person job but its a whole community job. In the research of Kristen Fisher, she talk about the teenage pregnancy problem that include other factor such as risk for a baby, economical struggle, more risk in teen mothers. According to March of dimes, over 750,000 teenage girls become pregnant in the U.S. every year. In mostly teenage pregnancy most of the time when a teen girl birth a baby, baby having a

Saboor 04 low weight problems as compare to a little bit older mother. Because in the immature age your body function is not perfectly ready for birth a baby. But if we see the other facts during teen pregnancy most of the time teen mother having problems with their health problems during birth a baby such as high blood pressure. In some cases of pregnancy doctor have only one option to save one of them if the mother is teen? And the most important fact is the economic struggle in their life because of less income and less support from the family, in some families they dont accept their kids as a teen mother. Because of all these facts mostly teen mother start taking drugs and miss use their lifes. All these issues are very important to understand because if we educate our kids in more details. We can probably prevent a lot of teen pregnancy from our nation. In my conclusion, I read all my researches I seen mostly teen pregnancy are unplanned and due to less education in our teenager about sex and the marriage because when they get marry they left their schools. Education plays an important role for everybody life especially in teenager and good education teaches you the right meaning of life. Now a days the way our teenager thinks thats the sign of less education and after that they facing problems in their life especially girls as a single teen mother. In the United States they make a very famous show on television its name is teen mom on channel mtv. Show is about for teen mother those teen girls get pregnant in early ages mostly people watch that show, but nobody learn from that show how hard as a teen mother or father in the immature age. As in our society thats the most common problem that I found usually if you have a big group of friends someone have done sex before and they ask you and you dont have it yet. They start making jokes on you just because of that you havent done it. So thats kind of basic thing usually teenager having sex in early age and then facing problems in their life. So good friends are also important in the life. If you want to do

Saboor 05 sex or marriage wait for the right time? In order to make our marriages and pregnancy more successful we have to give it all these basic knowledge to our teenager, so we can stop unplanned pregnancy from our society and country. In the researches the numbers of teen pregnancy every year shot almost 3% in the United States. Dont give too much freedom to our teenager and then later we think we should them stop before. Its not too late we can still stop a lot of teenager for taking wrong way. This effort of work is not easy as we think, but if we explain all those matter in details and make sitting with them as a good friend and they have a right parents guide I hope we can save a lot of teen couple for a pregnancy and marriage those ends up unhappily. A good marriage is a contest of generosity -Diane Sawyer