How to Sext: For Guys and Girls

Submitted by Manwhore on August 14, 2012 5:04 am6 Comments That was alot of fun. The best was when you had me pinned up against the window. I get so turned on thinking about it. Ya. and seeing your luscious ass then sliding down your body and seeing your pussy looking so delicious oh gawd I had to lick it all up And when you bent me over the table..mmm.. Loved getting picked up and tossed around by you, youre so strong. Its hot. I liked it when you wanted me to lay back so you could ride me. The look on your face when you felt me sliding up inside you Mmm.. I enjoyed riding you. I was scared your huge dick wouldnt fit inside my tiny lil pussy.

HERE is the definitive guide to sexting for guys and girls.

This is 12 years of naughty writing composition based on years of dating and seducing the opposite sex; all consolidated into one source. I wrote this because Cosmopolitan magazine tried to write an article on it and it was so horrible I almost cried. Disclaimer: Sexting must be done properly, especially for people you have never sexted with or for people you dont already have a physical relationship with. For guys who are trying to learn this as a way to seduce girls for the first time.. YES, it can be done.. however, sexting is not a replacement for proper game, and in the hands of a weak practitioner, an impatient one, and most importantly an inexperienced one, it will do you more harm than good!

For the Women:

This is a very sticky area for women, and to be honest, if you start sexting with a guy before getting physical/sexual with him youre honestly just risking a lot to gain very little. Theres a couple different reasons for this, the first being that 90% of men are completely clueless when it comes to this stuff. Even AFTER hooking up with a girl, if a guy gets a sexy text he has NO idea how to respond. Dont blame him its just not his style. Guys dont read romance novels, and they dont place a lot of importance on feelings or emotions or expressing themselves. So generally you wont get any kind of worthwhile response anyways. BUT, the potential for negative consequences in initiating sexting with a guy you dont know too well can be quite hazardous. He might judge you, or find it easier and safer to just get a kick out of showing your texts to his buddies and looking cool, rather than actually making an attempt to get things heated up with you.

If you havent hooked up with a guy, but are just super attracted to him and want to initiate some kind of sexual dialogue with him just to bait him to meet up with you, OR simply because you cant help it.. thats fine, but just understand the chances of it netting you a boyfriend are pretty damn slim. That being said here are some good safe tips for the ladies:

DOs

Send him PICS.. these are the way to a mans heart for sure. Ask him what he thinks of your new dress or skirt and send a pic. ** Find out something hes good at, thats casual and fun, and say you want him to teach you. If hes good at pool thats perfect. Beer pong, miniature golf, darts, are also good. You can say things like Ill be a good little student. I really want to earn an A! This will get him amped up to no end. (Ive actually done the reverse of this with girls and gotten laid several times this way ) You can also follow up with something like If I get a bad grade are you going to spank me? Insinuate playfully that hes talking about sex, his dick, or something naughty in whatever conversation you two are having. This is a bit tricky but if you can playfully accuse him of being naughty, youll get him in the right mood and will get him thinking about you in the right dating or romantic context. If he IS someone youre dating and youve gotten past all the initial dating nonsense then youve got free reign to talk about anything you want. I would stay away from the hokey Cosmopolitan nonsense though. A nice Baby please fuck me I need it is GREAT and is an immediate home run. Do NOT say Baby please fuck me good tonight I need it as this insinuates he sometimes doesnt fuck you good and that is BAD. You need to stay away from these little negative insinuations. This might sound strange but sometimes insinuating that his dick scares you and makes you nervous will make him hot. It makes him feel powerful and that hes got emotional and physical control over you and this will get his engine humming. Dont judge him for it, its simply a remnant of his male reptilian brain

Donts:

Dont try to make him jealous or send him a pic of you with another guy(s). Sure this will work on some guys, but those are the wrong guys. Those are the whiners and the bitchers, the ones who are looking to gain some kind of validation by competing with other guys for your attention. A real guy would look at that and immediately declassify you as not being worth any real time. Dont overdo the Your dick is SO big comments. We actually get sick of these after awhile. Give us a day and then remind us again . Use other descriptives such as Baby I love the way you feel inside me or Oh my gawd you fill me up!. I also rather enjoy the occasional Your penis is perfect!

Do NOT imply hes better than the rest youve been with. You might think youre complimenting him but you are fucking up royally. No guy wants to have any thoughts of your past lovers in his mind when hes giving you the business.

Proper Escalation for Women:

Theres a couple different ways a woman can correctly initiate sexting with her guy. If she feels like being blunt and hitting him with a hot surprise she can start with a simple Baby I really want to feel your hard cock right now. Or something else as blatantly sexual. OR, she can hint at being in the mood and start off with not so sexually explicit language like Baby Im really horny right now, what are you going to do about it. The second part of that sentence is very important as it forces him to participate. Then as she gets into it with him she can get more explicit with her language.

For the Guys:

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I. Proper Way of Sexting

Proper sexual texting means you correctly escalated from casual texting to sexy dialogue with a girl. Basically you have to prepare her for sexting with you, you cant just start up the horny dialogue without warming her up. As they say, penetrate her mind before you penetrate her body. Heres the problem: guys are about the action. They want to thrust, and fuck, and ram and penetrate. Girls are different. They want to feel, and be caressed, and imagine being nibbled on, their scalp pulled, their hips tucked in against you. These are the things that get a woman ready to be penetrated. You must take care of this stage first. Only THEN can you tell a girl you want to fuck her hard till she cant breathe and leave her a quivering little mass of jello What does this mean in application?? This means you must go from casual texting to sensual texting BEFORE hitting porno-style dialogue. It is crucial you hit this stage of sextual escalation.. Id been doing this for years, but it was my buddy that made me aware of what I was doing. Until he brought up this initial sensual stage of sextual escalation, I hadnt realized why sometimes my sexting was a massive success and then sometimes it sputtered out. By hitting the proper stages of escalation, you communicate to a girl youre trustworthy and are experienced enough to handle business with her. So.. first be sensual, when she responds to this and gets into it, THEN you can use stronger sexual language and more action type verbage of what you want to do to her. Learn to enjoy the process of written seduction. It is quite luscious to seduce a woman the way she wants to be seduced and to witness it unfold.

There are multiple ways of doing this and below Ive put down a few examples that include: roleplays, descriptive touching/caressing, appeals to a girls nurturing side (while not looking like a weakling), taking control of her body, assigning her womanly chores such as making you a sandwich or being your nurse, or describing a previous encounter with her in a very descriptive fashion.

Roleplay
Create a scenario where you and her are together and it starts to get hot and heavy. This could be silly or it could be serious. E.g. you could say Girl youre acting suspicious! Im going to have to arrest you and search you for contraband. From here you go into..

Description touching/caressing
Women love to be touched. This is why they are always asking for foreplay before getting fucked, it revs up their motor and gets them all warm and tingly. (contd from example above) Slide my hands all over your body, make sure youre not hiding anything. Tuck your lil hips in against me, so I feel you against me

Taking control of her body

Women love the feeling of losing control of themselves to a guy who they can trust to take control and will guide them in the direction of good emotions and experiences. (contd from example above) Pin your arms to your side so you cant get away from me. Hold you against me as I feel your lil hips tucked against me. As you can see I put these all together, but you can use just a couple of them at a time to really get a girl hot and bothered. I also introduced good context for setting up the sextual dialogue. I took her acting funny about something, and misinterpreted it playfully about her being suspicious and that i would now need to search her for contraband. Below you can see other examples I used to set up the dialogue,such as being injured after robbing a bank and needing her to be my nurse, or telling her to make me a sandwich (yes womanly duties DO make good text game lol)

Boss Daddy
A very important concept in sexting as well as in general in male/female dynamics is the ability to come off dominant and unquestioning of yourself while also being playful and sensitive to her and aware of her needs. This is NOT about being arrogant or egotistical, because these are both too self-engrossed and emotionally sensitive (e.g. manboyish). The correct vibe is one of you taking care of her while putting her through an amazing experience. Nothing here should trigger a girls feminist side, because its playful. Unless youre dealing with a sensitive feminazi type, then I would tell you to RUN. These types are not worth your time at all. Find other girls.

Real Examples:

Sensual Roleplay
Got it pumpkin. Was thinking I could get busted for robbing a bank and sustained injuries escaping and you had to come be my nurse Ok I will come be your nurse then. Perfect. While you are making my lunch (nurse make lunch now) I will admire your sexy lil outfit Oh really?? Ok you can admire all you want. Come up behind you slide my hands around your waist. Pull you in against me, interrupt you while you make my sandwich Mmmm that sounds nice Slide my arm under your legs and pick you up, set you down on the counter. Lean down and softly bite into your neck as I curl you up into me Ok I like the sound of that even more Press your legs down firmly run my hand up between your thighs as I kiss your delicious little lips Keep going My phones going to shut down will have to keep this going later. But I dont want my sandwich anymore. I want to devour something else Ok well then get back to me when you can and we will just have to see what else you can devour. This above is a perfect example of how to use a setup to initiate sexting. Below you can work on developing more..

Drills for Sexting

Develop your own sensual roleplays. Use an easy setup: Ouch I just kicked my table! (nurse) Oh youre a dancer, ehh? Work that pole!

(misinterpret her artsy lifestyle as her being a stripper. Turn this into a sensual little stripper role play where youre her new boss and she needs to audition) Omg I knew you were a softball type chick! Stay away from my balls! (when you find out shes sporty. Maybe create a coach/player sensual role play, or a manager for a pro team she wants to get drafted to) Ask her what kind of fine silverware she has. Tell her youre going to come to her house and rob her all night long. And make her cook for you while youre at it. (I pulled a stripper from her club the night I met her working with this role play, then had a threesome with her and another stripper about two weeks later)

Homerun
Once you get things hot and heavy you can get into more porno-esque language: Sensual Plus Porno: I like taking your sexy lil legs and pinning them back so yer lil kitty is exposed to me and its all mine and I look down into your eyes as I slide inside you and feel you on my cock damn ur sexy Baby. Im just thinking about when you were perched in my lap, my thick cock up inside you and you riding me as I hold you in place and squeeze your luscious hips and booty into me so I can go deeper inside you. Feeling the weight of you and gripping that body.. never thought we would experience that together.. Escalated Boss Daddy (Past sensual. Already fucked presumably) Im going to bend you over and put you in a little ball on your bed with your little ass sticking up then Im just going to sink my dick into that little coochie wow Boss Daddy Humor (arrogant but enjoys her. Unquestioning, blunt and unsensual. Boss/employee type joke rapport): got a stiff proposition for you heard you had an opening possibly bahahah Ok. Id like to fill that slot as soon as possible

(This particular example I got from a porno I saw. There are TONS of good sexual one-liners in pornos, USE them, with a deadpan no nonsense style. Reliving a shared sexual experience: (The following example is what I consider exquisite and sensuous sexting) Are you in vegas? Nope not yet. you texting me up to be mean again? Im not mean lol. I actually miss you.. Yesterday you said I wasnt your boy toy and I was on crack I was just teasing you lol. We need to stop doing that! I know :/ Tho I do enjoy seeing you in that proper little indian girl dress and then remembering the things I did to you all over my suite That was alot of fun. The best was when you had me pinned up against the window. I get so turned on thinking about it. Ya. and seeing your luscious ass then sliding down your body and seeing your pussy looking so delicious oh gawd I had to lick it all up And when you bent me over the table..mmm.. Loved getting picked up and tossed around by you, youre so strong. Its hot. I liked it when you wanted me to lay back so you could ride me. The look on your face when you felt me sliding up inside you Mmm.. I enjoyed riding you. I was scared your huge dick wouldnt fit inside my tiny lil pussy. You do have a tiny little pussy. Its just..smaller n cuter than normal. I could fit it all in my mouth and I definitely ended up stretching it out a bit I liked watching it hurt you a little bit when I stuck it in. but you were a good little girl and let me turn you into a little whore for my pleasure Im glad I gave you your first face fucking Still cant believe you got me in the eye! Lol. You were so rough with me, but it turned me on. Im so wet right now thinking about it. I cant wait til you fuck me again.

You are wet down there. I remember when you got in my car you were just so moist and ready for me I dont know what it is about you but you turn me on so much. I get wet just thinking of you. I really wanted to 69 you. Just something about having my face in between your legs devouring your little dark private place while I forced you to give my cock pleasure in that warm little mouth of yours I want to choke on your huge cock again and suck on your balls. Maybe next time ill let you cum on my face. I want to feel your cock inside of me so badly right now. I love it when you hold me down and take advantage of me. Im going to shove my cock in your tiny little holes. Watch your lil eyes stare up at me begging me for more. Think Im going to tie you up when I see you again I want you to fuck me in the shower. Im your lil indian slut Look in your eyes as I grip you and slide u up n down my cock in the shower () I want to undress you out of one of those little indian girl dresses and sacrifice you to my cock You are such a bad influence on me. i cant keep my hand outta my pants. I want you to pet my pussy. Gawd I want to touch it too () then stick something real big inside it so you moan cuz it hurts so good Fak i want you So bad right now. I cant wait to jump on your cock again and scream like a lil whore. Oh ya I remember that. You come pretty loud. Its REALLY cute I hope somebody saw you kissing my pussy at the window. I want you to take me in the bar next time. Ill wear a tiny skirt with no panties. Im sure they did. They were very jealous they wish they could have been raped publicly like that Oh ya. Ill fuck you where you can watch everyone while you get pounded I want everyone to hear me moaning in pleasure as you satisfy me. Ya Ill bury it real deep in you. I know a few clubs go od for that Wow i just came not once but twice thinking about that day in your suite.

Damn. I want to be there for it. How close together Would we get kicked out if we got caught fucking? Youd have to cover my mouth so i dont scream too loud. One after the other. Felt so good. I need you here to lick up the mess i made. Depends. Getting caught means acting like youve been caught. Act normal and the little robots dont know how to act n you just walk away. I dont clean up messes I just make them Is that so lol But I wouldnt know because I am a virgin No way me too! Maybe ill let you pop my cherry. K babe im really tired. gonna take a nap. Ill talk to you a lil later k I dunno. my parents wouldnt approve Your tired cuz I just made you come from 1000 miles away End Disclaimer for Guys: Say you met a girl at the club, or you have classes with her at school and got her phone number. You began texting her or calling her, and things started off well, you guys were having a good conversation. So you suggested a time to meet up so you two could hang out and she was receptive to the idea.. and then you just randomly start sexting her! What happens here is by taking things sexual, you put a LOT of expectations on the girl. All of a sudden your casual little planned meet up is no longer so casual. Now the expectation is that its more like a consummation of your sextual conversation. And an hour before your date with her she gets cold feet because shes just not in the same mood she was in earlier when she had that conversation with you and so she FLAKES! Plus she doesnt want to feel slutty by meeting up with a guy she was naughty with over text, shed rather just forget the whole thing happened. The truth of the matter is that this is extremely common behavior for women when theyve taken things too sexual too soon over text. They get nervous and bail. Girls seem strong and independent, but in reality, at the slightest hint of potential social awkwardness they will gtfo. And in their minds its still your fault because He just doesnt understand me *sniff* or Hes a perv! The other reason sexting can potentially set you back with a girl youve not hooked up with yet, is that if you sext incorrectly, youre basically demonstrating your lack of experience with chicks, OR, youre demonstrating youre a player by going for the gold way too quickly. Sexting properly follows guidelines that show a girl you know how to make her feel comfortable, understand her, and can get her in the mood before going for sexual intimacy. Funny enough, these are the exact reasons why girls appreciate true players so much.. because a real player can actually navigate a woman properly and make her WANT to get intimate.

Another danger in sexting is actually rather unexpected but somewhat common. You can get a girl all hot and bothered over text SO much that she goes and meets some other guy for some hanky panky! This happens!! So be sure if youre getting all sexy time with a girl that shes got no other way out then to fulfill her ramped up desires with you! Whatever you decide to do however, make sure to have fun! And as always, if you have any questions, send me an email. Manwhore at manwhore.org

Post subject: Re: MICRO-MANAGING CONTACTS Post subject: Re: MICRO-MANAGING CONTACTS Post Posted: Tue Apr 03, 2012 9:21 pm Offline CC MVP Sept. 2008 & Aug. 2009 User avatar Joined: Mon Dec 10, 2007 5:10 pm Posts: 3651 Location: Orange, CA This is one thing I liked from my former employer...this is how he saved his numbers in his phone and it's actually pretty dope. I use to just put "cutie" or "trouble" but once you get 16 "cuties" it gets stupid. Girls Name ? - Numbers of girls you just have in your phone Girls Name SC - Girl you met through or in your Social Circle Girls Name SS - Girl you met on Social Sites/Dating Sites Girls Name Now - Girls you're actively gaming Girls Name Y - Girls you actually have feeling for Girls Name Yes - Girls you have a sexual relationship with I still haven't done it to my phone yet but I thought I'd post it since it's a smart idea. _________________