Well, "welchem" is the der/das (male/neutral) form of "welch.

" "welcher" is the female form, because

"mit" takes the dative case; thereore, any object that complements "mit" must be in the dative case, so
basically, only "welcher" and "welchem" may be used after "mit," it just depends on the context. If
you're talking about dogs, you'd use welchem, if you're talking about cups, you'd use welcher.

BEIDE
If there is an article, it is with "n": die beiden Brcken.
if it is without article, it is without "n" but can have case endings:
beide Brcken (nominative) bridges
der Standort beider Brcken (genitive)
auf beiden Brcken (dative)
ber beide Brcken (akkusative)