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LR: Sinn Has Only 4 Lays This Month

Posted at January 11, 2007

Im on Bootcamp in Scottsdale. The venue we roll to doesnt have many sets. Im getting irritated because I want
to open. I help a few students out and give them as much feedback as I can.
I finally open a set around midnight. Its a semi-cute girl with braces. I open her because she has one of those
bodies you can just punish.
Two Part Kiss(hooks.
She turns to face me. I lock in. I start teasing her about her braces. Its really on so I decide to parade her through
the venue. It turns out she is their with her mother and aunt. Her aunt is eating some 26 year olds face. I tell her
that I have 2 condoms in my wallet and we should drop them off with them.
I move her around and get locked in against a rail. Strawberry fields. Jealous ex deletes my numbers. She then
moves into Comfort with me by asking me what I do, where I live etc. She tells me she has a 6 year old son. I run
First Child Brings Surge of Ambition.
I try to kiss but she rejects. Hmmm(this is weird. Its EXTREMELY ON. Im thinking its cause her mom is there.
I move her again to build social proof.
I open another cute girl (a little chubby). Two part kiss Hooks. Were in attraction. I tell her it will never work out
between us. I run ex deleted my numbers. She tells me her BF just broke up with her a day or two ago. I change
the subject to something I cant remember. Her two friends come in and I have them introduce me to her. She
likes me but Im trying to trade up. I saw her later trying to catch eye contact but I was in set.
I had one or two other sets: one of the girls ignored me, the other opened really well was really hot and started
dancing on me but I had already decided to open this Brunette with awesome long hair, a thin body and nice
boobs. Its about 1:20 or so(
Two part kiss.
Trust Test. Spin. Lock in.
Itll never work out between us.
CJ: Howd you get here?
HBHolland: I drove everybody. Im the designated driver.
CJ: That sucks. Im within walking distance so I can drink as much as I want!
HBHolland: I wanna drink too!
CJ: Hotels have alcohol.
HBHolland smiles real big.
Rings on Fingers.
I picked her up and put her on the bar. This drove her BT through the roof.
Ex Deleted My Numbers. Hookah TB.
Strawberry Fields. (She said 100! strawberries.)
Its really on. I get her number and figure Ill try to get her to meet up with me later.
Closing time at the bar.
Sinn has texted me that he just closed his 4th for the month so my 5 lays are by no means safe. Weve been shit
talking on a level commensurate with a Boxing match.I know I have to step up. It is making us work hard. It is
making me concentrate. Its good.
At 2:35 am I text her Hi sexy lady
She texts back about 3:05 where you at?
I tell her Im eating but going back to the hotel. She texts something about being happy I talked to her(I text back
mmmm(I wanna see you
She agrees to come and get me. She gets there and we start making out by the pool. We get to the hotel room. I
try to pull her into the shower but Sinn is in the bed with one of his peepers open so he can get a look at her. She
laughs and says we need to let him sleep and to come to her place.
We leave and drive back to her place. On the drive:
First Child Brings Surge of Ambition
All Fathers Want the Same Thing
I start dirty talking her. Shes loving it.

We get to her place and I discover that she has lingerie under her outfit. Nice fake boobs. Sex twice. Sleep. Sex
in the morning, too.
On the way back to the hotel in the morning I debrief her. She tells me that I was so dominant and interesting that
she got extremely turned on because most guys are too soft and weak.
~ Captain Jack ~

A Pirate Looks Back on 2006

Posted at January 26, 2007

2006 was awesome.

I racked up 26 or so new lays. Over half of them were women I previously believed
to be outta my league. Whats more fascinating (to me) is I did that while having
my daughters two weekends of every month and being one of the laziest PUAs I know.
I rarely do more than a couple sets a night. Some nights I start talking to
KinoMaster, or Fidelio or other guys Im with and I never get around to talking to
the girls at all.
Isnt that crazy? I could be swimming in hotties.
Hanging with Sinn, Future and TenMagnet has really made me question my (Game) work
ethic. Particularly on the phone. Everytime we hop in a cab these boys are
speeddialing some hottie to lay down an extra little dose of Comfort.
My Hbs get a drunken text at 3:18am in the morning IF theyre lucky.
(After watching those guys, Im going to be doing more phone game more on that
Here are a few 2006 highlights:
* A 19-year old cocktail waittress(smoking hot body).
* A stripper I pulled one night before thanksgiving from an after hours club.
* The 2nd girl from a 2 girl setboth were friendsgot one the first night in one
of her girlfriends carsand the other several months later (see: LR: The 100%
Perfect 2Set)
* A Peruvian girl who would be physically perfect if only she had D cups.
* and thats just a few off the top of my head.
Im going to be putting together a 2006 archive complete with this pirates evolved
thoughts on this part of life we call Game.
Im thinking of calling it A Pirate Looks Back on 2006 or something equally
cheesy. (You can get my other archive by going to http://www.betheseducer.com In
fact, if you are a newbie or find yourself particularly interested in Same Night
Lays and you DONT go and download that right now, you are truly hopeless

I dont know when Ill have that done but my goal is to do it before heading to
Australia on Feb. 15ht.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. If you wanna know as soon as that comes out just join my email list

2007: Meeting Hot Women and Making Money

(Part 1)
Posted at January 27, 2007

Ok, so Ive had a lot of time to reflect on how I want to improve my life.
The last two years Ive been focused almost entirely on getting good at meeting, attracting and seducing girls.
I noticed MONUMENTAL improvements. Ive become a Master. At this point, if I go out and I dont get laid its
entirely my fault. I remember remarking to KinoMaster once over coffee (we go several times a week to chat,
discuss plans, tell stories, etc.) that I could see how a person could get good enough to get 2-3 girls per month.
From my new viewpoint this is funny to me. I now see how a PUA could get 2-3 new girls PER WEEK without
much effort.
Do I think I could realistically get 15-20 girls per month? Yes. No doubt in my mind.
(Would I want to invest the time? No.)
My record is 7 in one month and Im fucking lazy. I do one or two sets a night (sometimes none). I TimeBridge
every set but I hate telephones so I rarely use them to follow up.
Im at 3 new lays this month and I think Ive been out no more than 8-10 nights.
Ten lays month in and month out would be a piece of cake.
So, what stops me? Mainly my disdain for talking to people on the phone. I literally hate it. I dont even know why.
But, Ive been forcing myself to do it ever since Sinn gave me his phone game tips(
(and guess what(
Im sorta starting to like it!
I chatted with the HBIndian from Scottsdale the last night. She is smoking hot and Ive never dated an Indian girl
before. (She was either born here or came when she was really, really young.)
She is super elegant. Very tiny at 5 feet tall(has very long, shiny black hair and big boobs! And, shes smart and
good natured.
Im using Futures Advanced Comfort with her and its working like a charm. Of course, the problem is we live a
thousand miles apart.
Im saying all of this mainly as a way to demonstrate that December and January have been a Bridge in my life.
Im crossing the Bridge and 2007 is going to be all about:

Hot Girls and Money!!!

I need a challenge. I get terribly bored.
During the last two years of getting good at this fun Game(Ive had a few near brushes with financial catastrophe
(all entirely my fault.)
But, this year Ive a goal to make $1million. (Ive already made a LOT of money towards my goal and were only
27 days into Jan. and Ive forged a couple of valuable connections, too.)
I want my daughters to be financially taken care of(When they turn 18 I want them to have all the money they
need to do whatever: college, start a business, travel, whatever it is.
I also want to do the same for my parents. Man, Ive been lucky. I cant think of two better parents than mine.
They got divorced when I was 4 or 5 but theyve always been great.
Last year, when I was having financial troubles it wouldve been SO easy for them to suggest I go back to
Computer Science and get a steady paycheck.
Instead, they both cheered me on and showed faith in my abilities. My dad showed up at my door with groceries
after he found out I ate $1 Big Macs 8 days in a row (and that was all I ate).
And, I wanna send my sister back to college. She has a year left on her Accounting Degree and I want to pay for
it. Shes had to work all the way through school (and accounting aint easy). I want her to be able to go without
working (unless she wants to work.)
Now, about girls.
Im going to up the ante. Im going to go for the hottest models, dancers, cheerleaders and hired guns.
Im in Orlando right now at an advertising seminar. So, gotta go and make an appearance for the attendees.
Im going to discuss this a little more later(
Stay Sharp,
~ Captain Jack ~


Posted at January 27, 2007

Im always surprised by the varying tastes of my fellow puas.

Future loves Asian girls(
Sinn loves redheads and freckles(
TenMagnet loves athletic bodies(
Fidelio loves fingerbangin milfs(
AsianPlayboy goes for big-boobed blondes(
It seems most guys like blondes(someone told me once that we are predisposed to like fair-skinned blondes for
some evolutionary reason(
What does Captain Jack like?
I used to call them Unusuals. (But, Future called them Funusuals when we were all in Miami and the name
These are exotic types. Usually brunnettes but can be any hair color.
The important thing is they must be unusual in some way. There has to be something unique or out of the
ordinary about them.
A hot girl who is taller than 5 9 or under 5 2 usually qualifies( (the Indian girl in AZ qualifies on two counts.
She is only 5 feet AND shes got bigger boobs for her frame)
Or, striking emerald green Almond-shaped eyes on a brunnette(
A normal body with a booty that is 30% bigger than it should be(
Tight body with DDs and a super small waist.
Im not sure I can explain it that well, but when I see one I know.
I met one in Miami. She was half-white, half-korean, slender and very tall. I made out with her but her drunk-ass
gf went nuts and destroyed the pull.
I guess the definition is A hot girl with an out of the norm feature that accentuates her sex appeal(
Girl Next Door is almost the opposite of Funusual (except theyre both considered hot).
There are usually no more than five Funusuals in a club on any given night. Most of the time there are none.
Vida Guerra is a Funusual due to her booty.
Angelina Jolie is a Funusual due to her eyes and lips.
Girl Next Door and your average blonde hotties are everywhere(Go for some Funusuals(youll enjoy it!
~ CJ ~

Keeping It Sexual in Comfort

Posted at January 30, 2007

Question from fellow PUA on the Lounge:

Ive recently got my A game into good enough shape that Im isolating and getting into
Comfort regularly. Back in my AFC days, Comfort was always my strong suit, so I have
not problem building trust and connection. What I do have a problem with is keeping it
sexual, pumping buying temperature, and avoiding being a friend or therapist.
So, besides kino, how do I keep the sexual vibe alive and growing during comfort?
I use my version of Strawberry Fields and Rings on Fingers to frame things as sexual early on(Id suggest not
talking too much about sex as it can actually backfire.
Heres how: Puts too much pressure on her for the second meeting (less of a concern for a SNL BUT it can make
the Bounce harder if she goes out of state before the bounce) and/or it can also lessen the sexual tension for
some females.
More is less. Subtlety builds the tension.
Framing the interaction as sexual is great(framing both of you as sexual beings who are cosmically attracted to
one another is even better.
After two sexual questions in the question game I stop and get on with the rest of comfort.

In comfort, you can outright tell her shes sexy (Juggler-style SOI) and this will let her know you aint in it for the
good conversation.
One of my faves, especially if shes yakking about something I dont care about, is Im sorry, I didnt hear
anything you said for the last 5 minutes(I was looking at your lips. (An example of this in a sarge is in my LR:
OMG! Peetey is dead.)
Also, you should probably be kissing or doing a phantom kiss.
All that said, allow your early sexual framing and kino do the majority of the work.
~ CJ ~

Whats to come
Posted at January 30, 2007

Hey PUAs,
I kinda like this blogging thing. So, Im going to see if I cant make this one of the most valuable PUA blogs on the
entire Internut by giving away all the good stuff in my head on this little area of life called Pick-up.
Im going to reveal in the next few days or so my specific recipe on how to get Same Night Lays.
Now, SNLs are different than One Night Stands (ONS) because in most of my SNLs I still go through all the
stages (a, c, s) and if I like the girl I WONT have sex with her until Ive gone all the way through.
If I have a day2 or (even a day3, god forbid) with an HB its usually because I didnt get all the way through
comfort (time limit) or I fumbled the logistics. (If we go out AFTER we have sex then its not a dayX, its just me
and her having fun()
So, if youre interested in makin sweet luv the very first night you meet a hottie keep your eyes peeled. Im gonna
give my special insight on that soon.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. Ill be the first to admit Im not perfect in this regard. I fumbled TWICE on the 1 yard line this last weekend.
Once with a tiny HB9 waittress and another time with an HB10 hotel guest. BOTH of them were in the palm of this
suave pirates hand, yet slipped away at the last minute. Grrrrr!!! That, notwithstanding, itd be hard to find
someone better than yours truly at SNLs.

InnerGame: Whos in the picture?

Posted at February 2, 2007

Heres a little experiment.
Think about a major holiday in 2007. Something like the next 4th of July or Thanksgiving or Christmas. Where
would you be and what would you be doing.
Example: The first time I did this I thought of Christmas and saw everyone opening christmas presents at my
grandmothers house.
If youre like most people you probably made a quick mental picture or a little mental movie. Bring that picture
back up for a second.
Got it?
Ok, now, let me ask you a question: Is there a hot girl with you?
Your mind uses the pictures inside it as a template to create your reality. Using those mental pictures as its guide
it directs your speech, actions and behaviors.
If there isnt a hot girl in the picture in your mind, there wont be one in reality either. (Unless of course, you
change the picture.)
So, starting today, make better pictures.

~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. You can use this for anything(not just for attracting hot girls.
P.S.S. Imagining creates reality.

Same Night Lay Guidelines

Posted at February 14, 2007

Hola PUAs,
As promised, my insights on SNLs.
The first major attitude shift is this: Women dont go to clubs/bars only to listen to music, drink or talk to friends.
They can do all of those at home or at a friends house. They go because they want/need sex and they want to be
picked up.
Debriefing shows they would have sex the same night more often were the feelings there. Your job, fellow pirate,
is to create the feelings, create the opportunity and do so in a manner that seems so natural and easy that it
seems like it all just fell into place.
Sinn referred to this when he said, Captain Jack Method: Hang out till sex happens.
First I want to tell you that there IS a difference between Same-Night-Lays (SNL) and One Night Stands (ONS).
ONS skips comfort which usually results in buyers remorse. For all the 4-5 hours of precious time you invested
you get one lay. Even worse, if you mismanage the escalation and trigger asd/lmr that you cant get through,
youll get zero lays.
Ive never had any problems seeing/dating a girl who I laid the same night because I qualify and build comfort.
Ill take this from the top(
You need to get there early (in Tejas, that means no later than 10:00) because some of your sets will fail the
SNL screening statements (more on that later) and youll need to close out with a TimeBridge, stay the obligatory
5-10 minutes to solidify and move on.
You should focus on mixed sets. This may seem counter-intuitive but experience has shown me this is true.
Heres why: In all girl sets they often pile into one car. But, in mixed sets you have a greater chance of girls taking
their own car and/or meeting the group later.
Do a little thought experiment: How many times have you witnessed a girl walking into the bar alone(shes
looking for someone(she finds them and before you know it she is seated with a 4-5 mixed set.
You open the group in the standard way, do all the normal things youd do until you hit the How do you guys
know each other? waypoint. If shes not there with someone, then isolate (or atleast get mini-isolation.)
Now that you are in isolation its time to start with the sexual framing. I use my version of Strawberry fields and
Rings on Fingers to frame things sexually and I start seeding the TB.
It is supremely important that you dont convey any judgmentalism regarding sex, sexual preferences or
lifestyles in any way, shape or form.
You also dont want to place too much importance on sex by talking about it or calling it a special thing between
two people or any silly shit like that. The underlying attitude is sex is normal, healthy, fun and about to happen
At the begining of C1 I start to screen for logistics issues(I listen for answers to these questions or ask them
* Who did she ride with. (Best answer is, of course, alone in her car.)
* What time does she need to get up in the morning. (Best answer, later the better.)
(These things just make it easier. The better you get the more willing girls are to ignore things like riding home
with guys she just met or getting up early. I know its hard to believe but experience proves it true.)
If the vibe is sexual and I feel like there are no obvious excuses for her not to come home with me (have to work
early is the main one) Ill stay around. If not, then Im looking for a new set. This needs to be run super-tight. Im
talking 20 minutes in youre making this decision because you need to be solidly in comfort by 12:30 (for venues
that close at 2:00). This 1.5 hours is the MAIN (but not only) factor which distinguishes this from ONS (the other
being non-sexual qualification and peer befriending.) I call 12:30 to 2:00 Putting my time in(

Always TimeBridge, it makes the SNL easier because it lessens asd and lmr.
As it gets closer to closing time 1:20-1:30 I start saying things like, I dont want the night to end, Im really
enjoying myself.
If she agrees or says nothing you can say, Lets hang out at my place. I have xyz alcoholic drinks and we can
watch that show I was telling you about.
Or, you can say, Im kinda hungry.
Youre saying this to see what kind of reaction you get. She may go ahead and propose eating somewhere.
(Though, Ive stopped doing this almost a year ago because I lost a few sure lays as the sexual tension
lessened, the tiredness set in and the alcohol (and fun mode) wore off.)
The after hours club is also a good proposal. Ive used this one quite a few times. Its perfect because you
have to swing past your place to get alcohol before heading out. And, oh by the way, the club doesnt even open
til 3am so we got 45 minutes to burn. Lets see, how are we gonna kill 45 minutes? I know, well have sex! Ha ha.
But, one of my favorite tactics (if she drove) is to get her to give me a ride home. Then, while in the parking lot
you can say Come in for a bit. You can use the restroom and have some water before you head home. Then,
grab her keys, turn off the car and get out.
(Whats that? Do I hear you worrying about your car? Dont worry about it dude, youre going to get laid! Have a
friend take you back to your car if need be. Or, better yet, have the girl do it that night.)
Logistics separate the men from the boys (or the mPUAs)
The best mental image I can give you here is Baby Steps.
I rarely tell them where/how far away I live. Some of the places I go to are a good 35-40 minutes away. Sinn and I
have pulled 2 or 3 times SNLs from those locations so he can attest to my skill in that area.
Fidelio, KinoMaster, and Tribulus have all witnessed with their own eyes me doing this, multiple times, as well.
The goal is to get her to the seduction location and make it look like it sorta just happened. This is why the
gimme a ride home and the after hours venue, oh wait, gotta go home and get alcohol tactics work so well.
Hopefully, you started a good kino progression early in the sarge. Because once shes in your place its time to
amp it up a little bit.
Hot/cold is the order of the day. Make out, pull back, continue with your comfort material. Tease her mercilessly.
Have your LMR skills honed because youll almost surely have to use them.
The good news is: If you dont get the lay, the day2 is almost assuredly going to be her coming straight over to
have sex with you and thats my kinda date.
~ Captain Jack ~

Lay Report: Two New Lays

Posted at February 21, 2007

Lay #2 for 2007, early January:

Sinn, Fidelio and I roll into x-bar. It is target rich. Plenty of 7.5s and above. Im feeling particularly good because I
have a kickass start to 2007. I already have tne lay in Scottsdale (see LR: Sunburst) and have perhaps one of the
top 3 hottest girls Ive ever sarged in my life dying for me to come back. Shes a 5 foot tall, long shiny black haired
Indian hottie with big breasts and a beautiful face. Not too mention I have 5 girls in DFW constantly texting/calling
wanting to hook up again. Naturally, Im feeling like this whole sarging thing has paid off in terms of sexual
availability. This puts a smile on my face.
I open a set and it is a NO-GO. Not a blow out but it fizzles. Sinn opens a set and stays in for awhile before
freezing his target out with a backturn.
I am chatting with Fidelio and as usual the shots are coming hard and heavy. Luckily I can sarge while tipsy
thanks to Fidelio, Sinn and APB.
Sinn opens up a 2set of females and I open what I thought was a 2M, 1F set. It turns out it was a 2F, 4m set.
Uggg. However, I manage to handle the set well. The target is into me but another male brings her a drink and
she tries to cover her attraction with a shit test. This garners her a backturn and a freeze out while I chat with
Fidelio again.

Strapper comes by and intros his roommate to me briefly and they head off. I was hoping to chat a bit longer but
they had somewhere to be.
The Target opens me again and her friend butts into the convo. I briefly consider switching targets but decide that
the brunnette is hotter because the blonde, while having bigger tits, is too chunky.
About this time, Sinn intros me to the obstacle in his set. Shes tall and slender with an average face. I know Sinn
is trying to pull the big tittied Target so I think, Am I gonna fuck this girl so Sinn can fuck his girl? I look her up
and down and decide I would do it. Shes about as hot as my other target but she has NO obstacles as Sinn
already has her friend wrapped.
I qualify and move into comfort. Sinn posted this about the end of the night on his blog:
I had a conversation about how none of us want to time-bridge as I live in LA, CJ hates driving and Fidelio lives
like an hour away. So we start planning the pull. CJ comes back with the obstacle and I hear mention of an after
hours place. So its on. We pull the girls out, send Fidelio back to the pirate pad with the car and get into the most
disgusting car I have ever seen a girl drive. My girl was 53 and she could not sit straight because there was soo
much shite in the back seat of her car.
CJs girls blood sugar or soemthing got low so we had to head to CVS, they both run in and I start escalating in
the backseat. They come back as I have my hand down her pants. Whoops. We start heading to the after hours
place, but on the way CJ(the master of the pull) starts a brillant campaign. He says Lets stop by my place and
pick up some alcohol, cuz they stop serving at 2 but they let you bring your own until 4. So we now head the 30
minutes to the pirate pad.
BTW the pirate pad was in complete disarray as I have been staying on an inflatable mattress on the floor. and
have my clothes in my suitcase as you head inside. So we get inside and the girls go to the bathroom, then I
throw on an episode of the office and we settle into the couch and love seat respectively. About 30 mins in CJ
isolates to his bedroom, and i start escalating on the couch, until we almost fall off. Relocate to the inflatable
mattress. Which is not made for 2. I get her pants off and encounter LMR. Great, my NYs resolution is that I no
longer deal with LMR so I just start to take care of myself and when Im done I cuddle with her and go to sleep. I
wake up a half hour later and decide Ill try to reinitiate. I go to the bathroom to wash my hands, and as Im in
there I hear CJs girl come out and ask my girl if she wants to stay. She does, so I assum it is O-N. I go back start
kissing her back and bada-bing bada boom its over. I do not reccomend having sex on an inflatable mattress as
its not really the most stable surface or comfortable. Funny side note- CJs girl goes into the bathroom while we
are doing the deed in broad view and my girl wants to stop, then as soon as the light goes back off she jumps
Ok. After I pulled my Target to my room I encountered the stiffest LMR Ive had for awhile. My girl was LSE and I
had to work some fucking verbal magic. Luckily, Future had discussed his wicked Advanced Comfort ideas just
a week earlier. Heres one statement based on his ideas that I used during LMR that broke it down by about 8090%:
CJ: You know how you told me earlier how your dream is to design clothes? Well, I didnt want to mention this
earlier but(.(pause)
Girl: What?
CJ: Well, I work with a lot of successful business owners and you reminded me of them when you were talking
about that. I really believe you can do that(
Now, mind you, she is on top of me in just her panties. Ive tried to get them off 3 or 4 times. After I say that she
PULLS her panties aside and sits on my boner (just on top, still hasnt put it inside her) and starts going crazy!
Girl: (breathless): omigod! omigod! (she is saying this in response to what I said, not the extra action()
CJ: Its too bad youre such a dork! (pushing her off)
I KNOW thats the first time thats ever happened to her BECAUSE the look on her face was priceless! She was
literally dumbfounded! She sat there for a good minute confused. I then pulled her panties off and started making
out with her again.
About that time she heard someone in the bathroom and peaked out the door. When she noticed her friend still on
the inflatable mattress she opened the door and stepped out to SHOW her friend she was totally nude and asked
if her friend wanted to stay.
After she shut the door and crawled back in bed she asked if I had a condom(done deal.
Lay #3: A few days later( PlayerT: 0 CaptainJack 3

Ive had many battles with PlayerT and the associated natural/players and Ive always come out ahead. One of
my greatest triumphs was (LR: CaptainJack wins Tug of War(. or something).
One night Fidelio and I were out just bullshitting. This was a weird night because instead of Fidelio getting all the
AIs (as usual) I was getting them. Im not used to that shit so I didnt know what to do. A 2f, 1m set against the
wall called me over. They were both 9s and dressed wonderfully like professionals just off of work from some
Fortune 500 company. Absolutely luscious women. One of them looked over at me and said, You can come talk
to us until your friend gets back or something.
What did I do? Not a damn. I just smiled like a dumbass. Damn.
Everytime I turned around Fidelio was shoving some Alligator Sex Fuck shot that tasted like applesauce in my
face. By midnight I couldnt focus my eyes.
But, I DID notice two other AIs. My drunken attempt at sarging made one hottie regret she had given me an AI. I
knew I was fucking it up with each word that tumbled out of my pie hole yet I kept on plowing until she finally
back turned me and made a face to her friends. Fuck.
Not to worry. A brunnette with a big ass had given me an AI earlier and was giving me another.
Fresh off of destroying that HB9 AI I got I decided to just waltz over and talk to the brunnette big ass chick (called
It turned out she was older than I thought but still fuckable. But, all in all Id call her a 2005 lay. I like to think Ive
graduated a bit.
I number closed her. I briefly thought about attempting the SNL but I knew that if I could barely focus my eyes that
GIGANTOR wouldnt be able to do his thing so I let it go.
The day2, I meet her at the local venue and we start drinking. PlayerJ comes up and starts talking to her. She
introduces us and he says, Hey, I know him! We had a few after parties at his place or something similar. I invite
him to sit down and head to the bathroom. He has a hottie and two ok girls with him. On the way back my Target
says, Hey, do you know PlayerJ?
I laugh. Yep. Well, guess what?! She says theyve been dating for 3 weeks!
She spends the rest of the night kinoing me and making out with me and telling me not to worry, they are just
She leaves about midnight. I hang out and do two more sets both NO-GOs
Day3(My apartment. I get LMR and she tries to pull me out to local venue. I decline. I text Sinn telling him I am
through with her.
Day4( Sinn and I are at local venue and she is there. He agrees she is 2005 status. We game some sets. He
games and number closes a half-white/half-asian girl I consider an HB8+ but hes not very attracted.
I get Sinn incredibly drunk. He comes up with a new opener on an obstacle I pulled over. I have the Target
hooked. She is a tiny half latin/half black girl with a nose ring and perky tits with her tight midriff showing. Sinns
new opener is, Ugggh, girl you dont have a chance! as he wavers back in forth in his drunkeness.
The 2set leaves but I dont care because that was hilarious!
HB2005 comes over and we bounce to Dennys and then back to my place where I close HB2005.
~ CJ ~

Crazy Ex-Boyfriends and Jesus Christ

Posted at February 23, 2007

This was the first time Ive been out since mid-January (except the 2 nights in Orlando). Ive been working my ass
off, reading and just thinking about how my life is going to look over the next few years.
El Topo and I got attacked!
Actually, the crazy ex-boyfriend attacked my rental car. But, that was at 4am. Lets back up a bit. I didnt feel like
going out on Tuesday night but I need to knock the rust off for my trip to Australia. Everything close to me is dead
on Tuesdays so I didnt expect much. Little did I realize that it was Fat Tuesday!
El Topo arrived close to midnight.

He noticed a girl in his extended social circle and opened her up. I was in the middle of a social status chess
match with the hottest girl in the bar at the time and he brought his social circle girl over so we wouldnt look like
two dudes trying to pick up girls.
It worked really well. She was hot, probably an HB9 by most peoples standards, a tan blonde with perky tits and
a nice booty.
Her friend, though, was an UG4 stripper. How on earth shes a stripper Ill never know. Anyway, she was all over
me but theres no point in doing an ugly stripper.
But, we still used them as social proof. El Topo got opened by a cute redhead and number closed her with the
boyfriend just a few tables away. This is becoming El Topos trademark. Ive heard and witnessed this a few times
I sarged the hottest girl in there twice but couldnt get to qualification because she was literally being sarged by
about 8 guys. Everytime one would leave another would take his place. Then, I realized I was one of them! Sucks!
So I decided I had to change strategies and acted like I liked the Stripper.
This indeed made my target a bit jealous and she started dancing sexy about 3 feet away to get my attention.
So I left. Haa. I went to the other side hoping there was yet another girl to attract so I could make her jealous.
That didnt work because 300lb mammoths dont make hot girls jealous.
I talked to her once more but lost her attention again.
Ok, so its the end of the night. My Target, the Redhead and El Topos HB were literally the only sarge worthy girls
in there. I later found out that a new bar/club opened up that very night and that was where the hottest girls were.
As El Topo and I chatted outside we noticed his set talking to a cab driver. He debated whether to go over there
or not because he had to be up early. But, like a champ he went over and I followed.
I agreed to drive them home thinking I could bounce them to my place and give El Topo a chance to close his girl.
But, as soon as we got in the car the HB got on the phone.
I had them in my parking lot and was going to attempt to bring them inside but they started acting weird. So, I
pulled away.
About halfway there the Strippers crazy ass ex-bf called her and wanted to know where the f*ck she was, blah,
blah, blah.
To make a long story short(er) the weirdo was waiting in the parking lot for her. I decided to have fun and taunted
him. He followed us, tried to cut us off in the parking lot and yelling. The highlight of the nite was when I got
behind him and beeped my horn and flashed the lights at him. He hopped out of his truck and kicked the car as
we laughed and sped away.
At the gas station we looked at the side of my rental car (my car is shit so Im not driving it anymore) and there
wasnt even a dent. WTF? I had some good laughs about it.
Last night (thurs.) KinoMaster, Topo and I were at the new place. I wussed out on sarging a girl who I got LMR
from a few months ago who is a waittress at another place I frequent. Fidelio gives me shit about this (as he
should) because she still likes me but I dont do shit about it.
Topo opened a 3set. Turns out his Target was married and in some kind of weird marriage where she goes to
clubs and he goes to buffalo wild wings.
I wing the obstacle and end up pulling her to IHOP and meeting Topo there. Even though shes an HB4 I kind of
like her tits and Im feeling like I should do it, just to do it. Topo leaves and we stay there another 10-15 minutes.
We are holding hands, etc. We get in the car and talk for a bit and then I try to k-close.
I get the cheek and then she looks at me and says, Do you have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ?
Fun times.

"All But Captain Jack"

Posted at February 24, 2007

This is from El Topo(Ive been out with him 3 times now and run into him in the field a couple of times
besides(Hes damn good and getting better, I think he has potential to be one of the best around.

This is a post he wrote a couple months ago just a few weeks after his bootcamp. I was having a good night. Most
nights arent like this (unfortunately) but I remember this night because it was really fun.
So Bar XXXXX it is.
We head on over and it looks good right away.
Man! HB Crazy! Totally packed! There were more HBs than people at the three Bars we
were at before.
I walk around and see Kino Master. Then I see Captain Jack.
Tribulus sees a bunch of other people that I dont know. And like most all the
other guys they are standing in a corner.
All but Captain Jack.
What a motherfucker man (I say this in the Miles Davis phrasing of motherfucker).
He is fucking good. He was an instructor at my Boot Camp in Scottsdale and pulled
twice when he was there.
So anyway I open a few sets, I stay in, but I am not working good game. I
definitely get in, but no isolation, no big kino.
Then I see a model I recognize from my friends work. I hit her up.
She opens right up. Heavy kino. She number closes me and tells me to look her up
and myspace. Then she disappears into the sea of HBs and AMOGS.
I am weak tonight.
Great number close, bla bla bla but I should have isolated.
I go back to the five or six PUA wallflowers.
I talk to Kino Master for a minute.
Kino Master is good to talk to because he actually has applicable things to say
I go and reopen the first set I open. This time I go straight for the target.
I ask her if she is Persian. She says, No, El Salvadorian, but I get that a lot.
I say, thats great, I speak more Spanish than Farsi.
Fucking lame.
She talks to me a bit, and I again dont try and isolate, so I eject.
I go back to the PUA wallflowers, to see if theyve grown any. Of course Captain
Jack has been in set this whole time.
Then a fight breaks out right at closing time.
Tribulus is not around so I follow the other PUAs. We stand in a corner waiting for
Captain Jack.
It feels great hanging out against a wall with a bunch of guys acting cool. Let me
tell you.
Captain Jack comes up and AMOGs me and then like a fucking pro opens an HB9. She
looked like a taller twin of one of the HB I got it on with at Boot Camp.
I have got to tell you, I really dont get it. I watched the whole thing.
CJ Saw the target at the bar, walked up next to her.
Looked her way slightly, looked away and opened.
I have no idea what he said, but she opened right away.
Kino right away.

He says something else and has her locked in. Her BF come over and summons her. She
acknowledges him and then turns back to CJ.
More kino, more kino and then the BF pulls her away phisically.
The club kicks us out. Captain Jack is still inside.
All the PUAs and I wait for him. No one including myself open anything, and there
is still stuff around us.
After about 15mins CJ comes out with a girl. Tribulus finds me and says for us to
I leave the other PUA wallflowers as the watch CJ in the midst.
On the way back Tribulus tells me not to fall into the trap of becoming a
wallflower. Hes right, it is one thing to watch someone whos really good, but it
is another to follow him around and take notes that will never see the light of
We talk about how good Captain Jack is. Tribulus says, Hes doing the same stuff
that we do, he just does it right. But man, it doesnt look like it.
I now realize that my minuscule success of number closes and day twos are nothing.
Yeah, I can open a set, get attraction, get comfort, but I got a long way to go.
I have a new goal.
I have got to get as good as Captain Jack. I have got to work at this thing.

CJ and Sinn Storm Australia

Posted at February 27, 2007

So, I landed in Australia at about 10:00 am (thats australian time, apparently US time just isnt good enough for
them so they made their own time zone up()
And, I gotta say my first impressions are that it is kinda strange.
For example, Sinn and I were getting a lot of stares today. But, we were just acting normal(
We were walking around in our leather bomber jackets (the ones with the Big Ass U.S. Flag on the back), with a
McDonalds Double Cheeseburger in one hand and a super-sized Coca-Cola in another while singing Stayin
Alive by the bee gees(and all they could do was gawk.
Its almost like theyve never seen an American before.
~ CJ ~
P.S. The girls here in Sydney are defnitely HOT and nice. Sinn and I both have daytime bartender number closes.
One set, one number for each of us. He has a short snippet of me gaming the bartender but the background
music prevents my linguistic magnificence from being heard. Sinn and I are going to meet with his Target now, I
wasnt able to get mine out tonight

Rump Steak in Australia

Posted at February 27, 2007

Here are my observations on Sydney Australia(

The place is really, really nice. They have a great lifestyle. While Sinn and I enjoyed our lunch yesterday (their
salad is fucking amazing!!! Its unreal. U.S. vegetables are crap in comparison) there were people having a nice,
leisurely lunch. Everyone seems to eat healthy and live healthy here.
There are joggers everywhere, people playing sports in recreation-type centers all over the city. And, these are
NICE rec-centers. In my area going to the rec center is almost like taking your life in your own hands.
Now, about the women.

Absolutely Gorgeous! The blond girls here are totally different than in the U.S. Im actually REALLY attracted to
the blond girls here. The unusual girl here is also the most striking. She is very tan, long dark hair and crystal blue
eyes. Amazing. Breathtaking. Bonifying. You dont see either of these types in the U.S. Im officially amazed.
Australian women take care of themselves. They are nice. They are very elegant but still very approachable.
Also, every girl has a butt, a very nice, tight booty. The best way we can describe it is to liken it to Rump Steak.
Very tight, chewy slabs of beef.
When I questioned this magnificence, Sinn concluded it MUST be due to the hills. I say, Please Lord, next time
you create a planet let every city have hills!
For those of you with an Asian Fetish youll enjoy the city as well. And, dont think the Rump Steak train missed
the Asian girls. No sir, they have booties as well!
The men. They are unique as well. I havent talked to many but they seem fairly nice, easy going and likable.
Overall its a great place, more Americans should consider touring Australia.
~ CJ ~
P.S. Very well breasted as well.

El Topo FR: God the AMOG

Posted at February 28, 2007

This is by El Topofunny ass shit. This rates as one of my

favorite posts of all time.
El Topo Loco Speaks:
So lets just start off with;
if you get offended by blasphamy
dont read this.
I dont care to hear about the hell I am incurring on myself and how I
have stepped over the line, bla bla bla.
But you know when I die, and there really is a Jesus
I am going to kick the shit out of him.
I cant tell you how many times that motherfucker and his dad have
stood in the way of
that prized pink paradise.
So tonight I am in danger zone.
I go out with Kino Master. |We go to a new bar that has good potential.
And for me I have got to work more method in my game.
I am at the point where social proof has got to be at the root of all
my actions.
So I go in with the photo routine. | I act as press all the bounces
and waitresses help me and then the manager shuts me down due to some
liability bullshit.
He tells me to wait till Thurs when we can do some stagged press shots.
I agree and will do it Thurs. |Mainly because that will not only shoot
me up on the social ladder there, it will get me into comfort with
much of the HB staff. | No better place to spread the seed than within
a circle of jealous drunk women. |Just dont knock any up.
But thanks to Kino Master we are in set. Like within 2 mins.
He opens an HB8 and an Ug.
I work the UG |and Kino Master the HB8
Somehow after 10 mins or so the HB8 switches to me and the UG goes
with Kino Master.

Then we switch back.

The set gets all fragmented, obviously because we are not controlling
well, and nobody is claiming the HB8.
Kino Master ejects and I plan a day 2 with the HB8.
Number close and thats that.
The two girls leave.
But I feel good so far
So my main thing is social proof.
There is a guy I notice who seems to know most of the people.
He is part of a mixed set. | So I open it up.
The set opens but he closes me out of the set and isolates me. This is not good, but can work to my advantage so
i go with it. Besides the night is young.
However I keep riffing with him. |We are both very grandious in our
conversation so to me this aint so bad. |Part of the whole social
proof thing. People are noticing.
For a while Kino Master and I bullshit.
Then I try and work a peacocking experiment. |I try and hold position
in the room and get as many AIs as possible. | It really starts to
This is something that is a no no for PUAs, but Captian Jack and a
few others are able to pull it off.
Body language and maintaining a fun attitude are key.
everyother AFC is doing the same thing, but how do you do it so that
your downtime or time out of set works for you.
My mistake is that I dont open the IOIs that are coming my way. |So
ultimately this sort of thing turns weak.
*Note to self- Open sets constantly, then merge the sets. |Be a leader
of men. |Be the leader of the set. Smile. |Have fun. |Set the Frame.
So this bullshit goes on for a while.
Sooner or later I get to my sense.
I open a set here and there. |Get AMOGed, blow em out. |Stay in, open
again . |Boot out the AMOG.
The women to men ration at this place wasnt that great.
Then I see Kino Master, working some heavy kino with and HB7.
I walk over and as I get introduced, the HB7 tries to eject herself.
Kino Master pulls her back, gets her back into confort right away and
number closes her.
It was really good.
So now I have got to open some more. |I notice some IOI from various
spots. | And if you dont keep going PUA fatigue sets in.
So back out to the field.
I see the guy I was talking with earlier in the night. |I open the
other set hes in.
I am glad I had opened him earlier, because he gets me in good with
another set.
He boosts my value by telling people how hes going to have me take
pictures of his motorcycles, and all that bullshit. |So I am in good.
I am lazy though. |No targets. |So I just stay in to kill time.
This is the constant PUA excuse, no targets. | I could use the
practice, but of course my no target excuse persuades me to not do
any work.

Low and behold Kino Master is doing just what I am not. | He is in

heavy rapport with and HB5 (if you would even call that an HB).
Either way hes practicing, not letting the night go to waste as I
Hes in good, and relaxed. |His game is ON tonight.
In fact I have never seen him so smooth in set.
He is in set for about 20mins, number closes and ejects back to nurse
my sorry ass back to PUA health.
I tell him, this set I was going to go in but(
I was in this set but I didnt care so I didnt number close(
I got IOIs, here. |I got IOIs there, but(
Kino Master tells me to open something. |
So I move in the the group I
havent yet opened, but have been getting major IOIs from.
I go in direct. |By the way it is about 1:45am.
ET So whats your story?
HB Retaining Water What (uncomfortable pause that I maintian) OMG are
you part Asian?
ET What are you talking about(
HB Retaining Water I am part Asian bla bla bla blablabla(.(you
cant write enough bla bla blas for this girl)
Anyway I am in and way in.
Kino Master joins in. |And shortly their after they start kicking everybody out.
I number close and work a TB to the diner down the street.
I actually number close 2 girls in the set, however neither of them
are much to talk about.
So anyway
Kino Master leaves. |Smart move.
I go to the Diner to count down those ever important 5-7 hours.
We get there. |Kino is good. |Comfort is good. |There are definate
sexual frames set, the food is ordered and the fucking HB Retaining
Water has to say Grace when the food gets infront of her.
As you may know, I am not religious in the least.
I cant fucking believe it. |Only in TX.
everything about this girl is crazy. |I mean she could lose a few
pounds, but she would be a good lay.
I can tell.
We all know the truth( theyre all pink on the inside, but it really is tighter in the orient.
But fucking Grace at DENNYS. |What an insult to God!
I mean if youre insulted by this post, then you should really be
insulted by this girl. |She brings the Almighty into this shithole.
So they let God into Dennys but not people of color(you got to love TX.
|So now you have that terrific feeling of comfort knowing that where
she might be getting on her knees for you, she WILL be getting on her
knees for JESUS later.
If he were smart hed make easy access to that loin cloth he wears.
(You know on a side note, a new term for fucking a chick on the rag
could be Going Stigmata Style)
So anyway we eat.
We finish, pay (
and then to the car, where I escalate the Kino and move in to the Make

Out escalation.
By the way, in the bar I had kiss closed her, but really quickly.
Should have escalated then.
Because OOOOOOh Lord! that ripe fruit was not getting plucked from the
tree tonight. She hold off. She really takes(my faith seriously.
FUCK ME! Jesus!
And yet another night of LMR that was established pretty quickly.
The fist of God wedged inbetween those legs, and I drive home cursing him all the way to this keyboard!
And this time there would be no jerking off. |I am too pissed at Jesus.
Although maybe if Jesus((I will stop there, but use your imagination).
So in anycase heres my critique of the night.
1) Social Proof needs to be constant.
2) Inner game- nobody fucking knows shit about you, youre always
the shit(so OPEN THAT SET
3)Stay in Set Plow through anything and Isolate ASAP
4) If no targets work the hired guns, bouncers whatever. |If you are
stationary do it right and for not too long.
5) Escalate better, |allow yourself the 5 hours of comfort. |Work the
emotional and sexual spikes.
6) Do some sort of religious callibration so you know what youre
getting into. |religious people still sin as we all know. |And sin
makes for some good sex. |So develope a religious thread, you can make
Jesus work for you. |Then maybe I will love him as youre supposed to.

More on Sydney Babes

Posted at February 28, 2007

Ok, weve found the ugly chicks. The first two days we were in the pristine area of professionals and moneyed
people. There are plenty of ugly girls here, too.
Someone asked, Do chicks dig American guys? Does it help/hurt your game?
Remember, weve only gamed two nights so far(
They are slightly more curious but so far it doesnt seem to have that much effect. The Australian guys seem
pretty cool and Australia has a great standard of living so were not seen as valuable as if we went to a poorer
The women sometimes feel the need to comment on politics which is annoying because they dont realize
Americas a pretty big country and you can find every political bent and opinion there. Were not uniform at
all(and debating politics is not usually a great way to amp up the sexual tension.
For example, Im neither democrat nor republican. To me, those guys are simply different sides of the same coin.
I lean towards libertarianism which basically means the government should be extremely limited. There should be
a national defense, local police force and court system to hammer out disagreements between individuals.
But, other than that they shouldnt tell us what to do. Nor should they provide any services. Thats the function of
I dont believe in victimless crimes. Example, if you want to pay a woman for sex, go ahead. If you want to take
drugs, go ahead and do it in private (just dont operate machinery or drive while intoxicated).
Anyway, its a cool country with cool people. I like it.

"You HAVE to see the view from the rooftop Pool!"

Posted at March 1, 2007

Hola Puas,
Last night Sinn and I were heading out to meet up with Dr. Owl who was already at a venue. We stopped close by
for a drink before going.
Sinn opened a couple sets and got in deep with a 3set of Irish girls. It was the ugly ones birthday and the two
other friends were really cute. The best looking one had huge boobies which always gets Sinn. The other cute
one was taller and slender and brunnette (which always gets CJ).
But, unfortunately I wasnt much of a wing because the body positioning in the bar made it awkward. Sinn had his
Target extremely interested but the numbers were against us.
I decided to hunt around downstairs and opened a 2set. A very tall big-breasted brunnette and a short blonde.
CJ: Youre short and youre tall(you need a third girl whos in between.
They giggled and said something but I didnt hear because it was so damn loud in the bar.
CJ: Sorry, I have no clue what you said, I dont speak Australian(
The girls laugh again and my Target says: We dont either(Im from England and shes from South Africa
So, once again I open the non-Aussies.
I ran the set pretty well but it got extremely crowded in there so I moved off to opene another set(Sinn and I
came back towards the ned of the night and started gaming them again. I took the tall brunnette and Sinn took the
shorter blonde.
It went really well on my end. Sinns girl was really fiesty.
I seeded the bounce in the only way I knew how. I started talking about the breathtaking view from our rooftop
I run strawberry fields and it goes real well.
Into comfort, I tell her the Light Bill story and she melts.
Sinns Target went to the bathroom and he leaned over and said, Pair bond. So I started.
CJ: Its really strange. Youve travled all over and been to all these places where its dangerous for females so
you can obviously take care of yourself. But, I feel like I want to take care of you and protect you (pause and she
gives the Doggy Dinner Bowl look) I cant even talk to you now.
This really melts her and she tells me everyone wants to feel take care of and she leans in towards me.
As the bar is winding down I go for the bounce to come see the view. I grab my girls arm and begin leading her
out with Sinn and his little blond behind us.
We get to the rooftop pool and I continue cycling between sexual framing and comfort. I take my girl to the lower
I begin escalating down there and its going real well. Were making out hard core and I get to feel those large
breastesses and that booty. Shes from England but her parents are Portugese.
Im seriously thinking about closing the deal right there on the terrace when I remember, I HAVE NO CONDOMS
IN MY WALLET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I stuffed them in my suitcase because I didnt want them in my wallet for the 17 hour flight!
New strategy: I think Ill take her over to the pool again and if Sinn and his girl are still there Ill say were going to
get drinks and what would they like? That will get me back into the room and to my condoms cause Im not
banging a world traveling girl. I must protect GIGANTOR.
As luck would have it Sinn is not there. Im thinking he either threw the fiesty girl off the roof and went to bed or
theyre in the room making the double-backed beast.
I lay my girl down on a pool lounge chair and start escalating again, knowing I will have to back down due to the
condom situation.
When Sinn and his girl come back I have my hand up her skirt feeling her round booty. I shouldve had something
prepared to say to keep Sinn and his girl up there but I didnt so they ended up leaving.
I got her number but this phone is weird and I saved it wrong.
I get into the room to take a piss and theres a condom in the toilet.
~ CJ ~

CJ Makes an Austrasian Cry

Posted at March 3, 2007

The asians here are different, too. Example: They have booties. Im calling them Austrasians. Again, I believe the
above average bootiness is due to the hilly terrain of sydney and the fact that they walk more than americans.
The first bootcamp night I opened a 2set with a really hot slender blonde. Things were going well and Sinn joined
in after about 10 minutes to handle the obstacle.
This set taught me A LOT about meeting and attracting Australian women. I now have a few pieces that I use
early in the sarge that helps me a great deal.
Sydney women are MUCH more polite than american women. A sydney babe will RARELY blatantly back turn
you or otherwise blow you out.
They readily engage in conversation but this is also confusing. They keep everything extremely surface level so
you may be chatting for 45 minutes and not really be making any progress. I started using this piece early on in
the sarge:
I like Sydney women but they have a tendency to talk about mundane stuff. They rarely ever talk about their
emotions and ambitions. Its strange because I feel like Im talking to them but not really getting to know them.
They always agree. And, from then on the conversation is completely different. This has allowed me to run almost
standard game from then on and they accept A3 (qualification tests) now with more realistic answers.
Another piece I created was to get away from political talk. The media here paints a pretty distorted view of
americans, Ive found. So, this is the piece I use (and I think it is very true):
I travel a lot and what Ive found is that people are all basically the same. They want to be able to provide a good
life for their family, have good friends and enjoy life. Its the governments of the world that make everything all
I sometimes add, The dad in Italy, the dad in Syria and the dad in the U.S. all want their kids to be protected, well
food and have a good life.
This also changes the texture of the conversation. They switch from being skeptical about you as an American
and warm up really well.
Now, to the Austrasian. After ending the set with the slender blonde I didnt do many more sets but helped some
students out. We venue changed to another club and I got an AI from a cute, tiny asian girl.
When I passed her again I used my Nose Ring Low Investment Opener (not the ring but those little diamond-type
Is that real? I was in NYC a few weeks ago and I was talking to this girl in a club. I said something and she
started laughing real hard and the thing popped off and landed on the floor. She said, oooh, help me find it and
was about to start crawling around on the club floor. I was thinking, Girl, I hardly know you(Im not going to
crawl around looking for your fake nose ring(
Its always opened. They usually then share their other body piercings and tattoos. Im then free to stack forward.
So, I get her isolated and its pretty on from the get go. Its so on that I get worried that maybe shes a pro. Dr. Owl
is a few feet away so I run over and say, Hey, do you think the asian girl is a pro? He makes a funny face, looks
at her and says no. Ok, I just get worried about that shit when Im in a different country because I cant always tell.
We make out a bit more.
After about 40 minutes I pull her from the club. I think it is so on that Im trying to get her to see the amazing view
from the rooftop pool. She agrees and we start walking to find a cab. We hop in and then she gets really nervous.
About halfway there she tells the cab driver to stop and she gets out.
Im thinking this is strange. We hit another club and we dance some more. We make out in the club again and
shes grinding on me.
We get back in the cab to hit my hotel and about halfway there she says she has a boyfriend and we shouldnt be
doing this(she tries to stop the cab again but I talk her out of it.
We finally get there and in the elevator she attacks me for another make out. I go to my room because I want her
to see the room before heading to the roof. This is so the room is somewhat familiar before I try the final pull for
We get back in the elevator and she starts tearing up.

CJ: Whats wrong?

Austrasian: Im such a bad person(I have a boyfriend and I know if I stay here Im going to have sex with you(
And, now shes crying.
She wants to leave.
We head back outside and wait for a cab. She stops crying and kisses me again, then clams up and says shes
bad for doing this to her bf.
When the cab comes she french kisses me and hops in the cab.
Never got her number.
I think if I wouldve taken another 45 minutes or so in a different venue I wouldve been successful.
~ CJ ~

Lightning with a Goddess

Posted at March 7, 2007

I met and attracted a truly beautiful woman recently( Heres the scoop!
I number closed a super hot bartender the very first day I arrived in Sydney. She is Polish with crystal blue eyes,
tan skin and long brunnette hair. Her body is amazing. Theres not an ounce of fat on her anywhere.
It took me 5 days to get her on the day2 but when she arrived at the little cafe in the harbor it was worth all of the
texting and waiting.
Literally, the hottest girl Ive ever been out with. Not only physically but her personality just rocked all the way
through(she was feminine, smiled a lot, loved to laugh and put lots of emotion into whatever she was talking
We had a beer at the cafe and then I was going to bounce her to a pub but she had a better idea.
We hurried onto the ferry and took the ferry ride to manly beach. I made sure to initiate kino early so I
promenaded her onto the ferry, held her hand and so forth.
We got to Manly beach and walked by the ocean. Very romantic. We held hands some more. The whole
conversation felt so natural and easy. We werent searching for anything to talk about, the conversation just
flowed. I found it hard to stop looking at her.
At the beachside pub they stopped serving alcohol on the patio for some reason so I proposed the Never Fail Pull
check out the view from the rooftop pool.
She readily agreed she just had to make sure the train schedule was ok.
On the Ferry ride back I kissed her. I probably couldve done it much earlier but Ive noticed that stunningly
beautiful women have a way of paralyzing men into not escalating (maybe due to fear of loss?)
When we got to the hotel I could tell she was reluctant to come into the room. She stood right by door and didnt
come in more than a couple of steps.
Not wanting to push it I just grabbed the beers and headed up to the pool with her.
The rooftop view was amazing due to an incredible storm. The lightning was unbelievable each lightning strike
seemed to last 5 or 6 seconds. We sat up there watching it as I told her about my ambitions and dreams.
We made out some more. We went down to the lower terrace and I told her that I love boats because they are
freedom. You just need enough food and water and you can adventure anywhere. She loved that statement and
she squeezed my hand and made out with me.
We got back up to the pool area and went into the exercise room. I really started escalating in there. I got her top
pulled down, felt her beautifully tight booty and sucked on her nipples. She felt GIGANTOR through my jeans.
In retrospect I shouldve just done it right then and there but I wanted to lay her down on the bed and savor it.
Stupid me. I shouldve known that doing it there wouldve GUARANTEED getting to do it again later.
We had about 20-30 minutes before leaving for the train station. I pulled her back into my room and made out with
Unfortunately, I got LMR and had a decision to make. Push for another twenty minutes and try to crack it? Or,
ease off and try again on the day3.

Decisions, decisions.
Turns out I made the wrong one. I backed off thinking Id get one final shot at her but so far she has been working
and going to school so we havent been able to see each other.
Even so, that was the best date Ive ever had in my life. Hands down.
~ CJ ~

Leaving Sydney
Posted at March 7, 2007

Im in the airport right now getting ready for the grueling 18+ hours of flying to get back home.
Sinn, Dr. Owl and TheDon headed to Melbourne this morning. Last night I ran a really good set and got another
number and an invitation to come watch TV at her hotel. Ha ha. I was supposed to call her at 2:30 after her and
her friend got back to their hotel but I was already shifting gears into the world of work. I got engrossed in reading
something on the Internet and before I knew it the clock said it was past 3 am.
Ive got to get my business up and running without me. Right now its all me. If I stop working the business stops.
Actually, its not fair to call it a business. Its me making money, thats it.
But, Im never without a plan and this plan is pretty solid.
Back to hot chicks.
Sydney has really hot chicks. My god are they hot. Its unreal. It has to be seen to be believed. Once you get past
their mundane boring conversations they are ok to talk to(
Its really strange(Sinn and I were looking for the bookstore and we noticed that the whole trip we had never
seen anyone reading. Thats strange.
If you walk by the cafes, the lounges, even Starbucks no one is reading. Even here at the airport no one is
reading. People are just staring into space, talking or eating. Im in the food court here and there must be over
120 people. But, I have the only book in sight.
This was a rather eye-opening trip as well. I learned a great deal about myself, my skill level and how Ive been
limiting my results. I have a much clearer picture now of what I want and how I want the PU part of my life to be
run. Ive been wasting a lot of time and not taking full advantage of all the tools like pre-selection, social proof and
Anyway, it was a fun trip but I dont know how Sinn does it. He travels more than any other PUA in the world.
Think about it. No other Instructor trains so many. He mustve trained nearly one thousand PUAs by now.
Gotta go and check in. Gawd this is amazing. There are 4 HB10s within shouting distance.
~ CJ ~

Cultivating High Social Value in a Venue by Jordan

Posted at March 29, 2007

Hola Puas,
This is the first guest exclusive article for my blog out of several I have planned. The Pickup Podcast guys have
a great blog going and everyone should add it to their feed reader. Great stuff(
~ CJ ~

Cultivating High Social Value in a Venue by Jordon Harbinger

Everyone knows that social value is key coming into a set. Guys work overtime trying to
work the room and be seen with the finest women in the venue. Where most people fall short,

however, is when it comes to cultivating and maintaining that social value in your favorite
So lets say you go to the same venue every week or even multiple times a week. Most guys
come in every time with little or no social value. Thus, every time they approach, theyve got
to generate that value all over again. This is a lot of work. Fortunately, its not entirely
necessary, and there are some sure-fire shortcuts which well outline for you here.
What if you could walk into your favorite venue and stroll around like you own the place
without first having to work the room at all? What if everyone treated you like the high-status
VIP that you are? For one, it would make your sets open a lot easier, and help things run a bit
smoother once you are there.
I have spent years working in clubs and bars and spent many more hanging out in them. I
have also made it my business to know all the right people so that I can spend my time
socializing instead of waiting in line outside or waiting for service at the bar. I do not like
going to the club as a non-VIP, and have since vowed not to do so if its at all avoidable and I
can do so without dropping my hard-earned cash.
Those of you that listen to my show (www.pickuppodcast.com) know Im fond of saying that
pickup, [namely social proof and peoples first impressions of you,] begin when you walk
into a room. Whether people are consciously paying attention to what you are doing when
you walk in or not, it will affect your social value.
Have you ever noticed how within just a few minutes of walking into a room, you can
mentally check off where all the attractive women are? Its almost like radar for cuties, and it
is ingrained into our psychology to be able to locate attractive females. Women have a similar
instinctual ability, only they gravitate to males with high social value. Ask any women to pick
out the most eligible guys in the room and they know instantly. From the moment you walk
in, people are watching you. It might not always be on a conscious level, but its still
happening. Every moment that you look lost, disoriented, bored or lonely, your social value is
dropping. Now, of course Im being semi-dramatic here, but you get the idea.
The entire process of transforming a venue into your house is way too lengthly for this
article alone, but here are a bunch of tips to get you started:
Decide on a venue to make your own and stick to it. Im not saying you have to only hang out
there, but you should go there regularly and be comfortable with the venue and the
Start learning peoples names immediately. When I started I actually made an excel
spreadsheet and threw it in my phone. I had every doorman, server, bartender and manager in
the city on that spreadsheet.
Shake peoples hands when you meet them. It does not matter if you already know them or
this is your first time meeting them.
Speaking of which, greet doormen like you know them. Trust me, itll likely take them a
while to remember you, but if you act like you know them and that they SHOULD remember
you, they will fake it and itll stick much more quickly. I like to use a big handshake and half
hug that I usually give my close buds.
Confidently walk around like you own the place. Not arrogant, but comfortable. Ask people if
theyre having a good time and mean it. Make it your purpose to make sure that you and
everyone around you is having fun.
Meet and befriend the bartenders and servers. This can be somewhat expedited by tipping
extremely well the first time you order. I know this tip seems obvious as hell but I would be
remiss if I did not mention it. Ask them about their night and genuinely listen to their
responses. They are not there just to serve you, as they have lives too.

On that tip, meet and befriend anyone that matters: the management, promoters, hostesses and
servers, doormen (of course), and even the chefs. You would be amazed how many times you
can get hooked up from these people just because youre in their good graces.
What does it look like when I roll into my favorite venue?
The bouncer knows who I am and greets me like I am his boy, because I am. He slaps my
hand and greets me by name. My crew never gets carded or waits in line. I walk up to the bar
and my favorite bartender, also my friend, greets me by name with a smile and handshake,
taking my order first, regardless of how many have been waiting, or for how long. If we get
there late and the kitchen is closed, I can still get food because I am friends with the chef.I
rarely if ever pay for drinks, but I always tip. And, for some strange reason my gin & tonics
are always stronger than those of others. Even the doormen tell me where the cuties are and
whether the nights been good. They watch my personal effects, look out for my friends, and,
most importantly, have my back if someone gives me trouble. The manager always comes to
my table to speak with me and my crew.
Likewise, when people at the venue know who you are, not only are you socially-proofed, but
the women you are with feel comfortable. People always tend to trust people who are trusted
by others. So this works in your favor to help people feel comfortable around the fun guy
everyone knows. This is your house -make yourself at home!

Low Investment Openers: A First Step to Making

Your Seductions Mutual
Posted at March 9, 2007

After youve spent a few months using Opinion Openers or OMG Openers try this(
Lately Ive been doing very low volume, low energy approaches. In fact, lately I havent even been opening
After thinking about how my style has morphed in the last 6 months Ive noticed that a LOT of my openers are
very simple, mundane and directed at the Target.
I noticed that my goal has been to open the girl with the lowest investment possible and then use my calibration
skills to keep the conversation escalating towards sex.
The best openings have the feeling of being light touches rather than bold strokes. If I can make it seem like we
opened each other, all the better.
The Austrasian looked at me and smiled, I smiled back and slowed down as we were passing each other. She
slowed down so I opened her. We were chatting away immediately.
I also realized that my Clown Grin that I stumbled on a LONG time ago is a LIO.
The very last night I was in Australia I opened a cute Hawaiian chick by tapping on her shoulder with Were you
here for Karaoke the other night?
By 1:30 am we were married and she invited me to watch tv at the hotel with her later. (I laughed because her
bounce statement sucked but I guess being a female bouncing is simple for her.)
The proponents of Short Sets use LIOs and now many of the group dynamics practitioners use Pre-Openers.
So, use a simple Low Investment Opener and guage her attitude/interest to being opened. Then, stack forward.
Will it work with a protection shield? Probably not. But, heres the thing. Its not a real blow out. If she is snotty or
whatever its real easy to walk off, open someone else and there are MORE girls in the venue it will work with
than not so I say use it on them and build social proof and reopen later.
What about the obstacles? Ive found that if you can get a girl attracted and into comfort fairly quickly that the
Target will rebuff (man, Ive been waiting to use that word for awhile rebuff) the obstacles by giving them subtle
cues to back off.

MOST of you guys are (necessarily) overdoing attraction and overselling yourselves. After you can get attraction
consistently throttle back and find out how LITTLE attraction you can get before moving to next phase.
At each phase you want to use the MINIMUM necessary to use the next step. This gives the interaction a feeling
of mutual seduction.
What (exactly) are Low Investment Openers? Here are a few of my favorites:
* The Clown Grin * If she smiles back or slows down or stops ask You having a good night?
* You having a good night?
* Were you here on xyz night? Then, Ill mention something about that night I found
* Hows it going?
So, basically EVERYTHING we told you NOT to use when you first started out. Now, if youve been consistently
sarging for 4-5 months then throttle back, give this a shot and make your seductions seem mutual.
~ Captain Jack ~

Sticking Point Analysis

Posted at March 12, 2007

Early on when I wasnt getting the types of results I wanted I decided I needed to take a more systematic
approach to my development. In my area, there were no other PUAs that I knew of so after the bootcamp I was
basically alone.
I had to become my own best teacher by systematically using my in-field experience combined with my analysis.
So, I developed this Game Improvement Plan
The first realization is the purpose of your Game Plan is to get you laid consistently by the type of women you
The second realization is you cant go out with the purpose of getting laid.
The third realization is every action should be judged on its overall (GLOBAL) purpose rather than its immediate
Take number closing as an example. Most guys feel great when they number close. But, are they really any
closer to the Global goal? Could be, but probably not. But, Time Bridging is a better solution because it puts you
closer to the Global goal (it is, of course not guaranteed but much better as a local option than the phone number
A dichotomy? Yes and no.
Your focus needs to be adjusting your behaviors until you can run through your Game Plan with an unconscious
When your Game Plan is not getting you what you want you need to focus on something else(
1. What to change
2. To what to change to
3. How to cause the change
This is what I call Sticking Point Analysis and I credit it with my last 18 lays. I learned early on I needed to have
more than a Game Plan, I needed a method for IMPROVING the Game Plan if I was ever to get to where I
wanted to go.
Once you understand the basic courtship process and start running your Game Plan in the field you will start to
notice where your sarges are failing. Youll notice patterns. They are failing in the same places quite often.
Step 1. Identify Your Sticking Points
Sticking points limit the entire systems output. (The system being your Game Plan and the output being lays.)
Therefore we have to stop focusing on getting laid and instead focus on fixing the sticking points.
Step 2. Decide How to Fix the Sticking Point (SP)
Now that you have identified the SP the next step is to find possible solution(s) for fixing that sticking point. Pick
one way to fix it and commit to 10 tries with that solution.
Step 3: Subordinate your Game Plan to the above decision.

Redesign your Game Plan to implement the fix for that SP.
Step 4: Elevate the Sticking Point.
With your redesigned Game Plan you will go out and start hunting for opportunities to break the SP. You will
subordinate everything to working on your SP. That means you will EVEN give up a lay opportunity for a chance
to work on Sticking Points (unless you havent yet had 2-3 lays from the Game in which point I say take the lays
as it will give you a better Global view and a nice boost of confidence.)
There will come a time when you break that SP.
Step 5: This is a continuous process. Go back to step 1.
My suggestion is to work on 3 SPs at a time. Experience has shown me that every set will not present you an
opportunity to work on an SP. However, if you have 3 then you have a good shot at getting a few repetitions per
~ Captain Jack ~

Ambition and Winning Through Intimidation

Posted at March 20, 2007

Demonstrating Ambition is one of the best things you can do for your life (and for your PU). Just as large perky
breasts turn (most) men into bumbling idiots, ambition turns womens hearts, minds and legs into Jell-O. When
you meet a woman and want to attract her it is important to demonstrate ambition.
I noticed a qualitative difference in my PU adventures when I started telling girls what I was truly passionate
about. When I told them what my real goals were, what I was passionate about they seemed to turn into little
lambs awaiting my further instruction.
The only thing of at least equal (perhaps, greater) power is the pair-bonding routines.
I tied ambition into my life story and paint a picture of my future lifestyle. A lifestyle most women would absolutely
want to be a part of.
Many PUAs led unbalanced lives before which got them into the mess in the first place. They dont realize that
part of manhood from time immemorial is:

So, females still look for hunters. You demonstrate hunting today via languaging your Ambition. You are a hunter
of Lifestyle. This doesnt necessarily mean yachts and caviar. But, it should mean something good, something
that creates a longing inside her(
We have to realize that all Human Action starts with dissatisfaction (see Ludwig Von Mises). By describing your
ambition and current/future lifestyle you will highlight her dissatisfaction with her current life. This creates a
tension for action inside her. The way to relieve that tension is to ally with you!
With that said I want to recommend a website to you, http://www.robertringer.com hes a 3 time bestselling
author. His flagship book is titled, Winning Through Intimidation and is a TEXTBOOK for setting personal
boundaries and living at cause. It is purely practical and not new agey in the slightest.
Im in the process of reading every article in his Archive
~ Captain Jack ~

How to Be Your Own Pick Up Guru Vol 2

Posted at March 20, 2007

Ive just put my 2006 Lays (with a few from 2007) into another PDF and released it on my website at

CaptainJacks Grande Adventures Vol. 2: The 2006 Lays

Right Click and Select Save Target As To Download This PDF!
2006 was a monumental year for me as I finally cracked LMR and had my first 7 lay month.
If you want the Volume 1 which contains ALL of my posts and follows my development from bootcamp until
mPUA go to my website youll find it available for free download there.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. If you want to know when its updated please join the mailing list.
P.P.S. Feel free to distribute either or both of these volumes far and wide. Post them on your lair boards, send
them to fellow PUAs or share them on your blog.

How to Make a Girl Blush through Quirk

Posted at March 27, 2007

Heres something Ive been doing for about a year with STUNNING effect.
First Ill tell you the tactic and then give you pointers on its
Find something you think she may be a little self-conscious
about( (note: the ( between words indicate a suspenseful pause)
For the girl from LR: Chubby Girls Need Love, too it was her
CJ: Omigod! I just noticed that!
HB: what?
HB: whaaaaat???
CJ: You have the cutest(little(overbite.
HB: * blushes and BT goes through the roof. She covers her face
with both hands *
(the above was when I had already cycled attraction and comfort 2-3 times.)
For the girl from LR: Omigod! Peety is Dead! it was her half
crooked smile.
This was during another round of shit-testing.
CJ: You know I didnt even hear a word you just said because Ive
been looking at(wait, smile again.
HB: why? * she cant help but smile and shes also starting to
feel self-conscious like maybe I saw something nasty in her teeth
or something *
CJ: oh(.my(.god(you have the(.cutest little(.crooked
So think about this: what are things girls might feel a little
self-conscious about (of course stay away from no tits, fat, scars,
* Height
* Unusual smiles
* Braces
* Peg leg (haa just kidding)
* Red hair
* freckles
* beauty marks

Ive used it to defuse shit tests in A2, during A3 and in Comfort.

I think it does a few things:
1) Makes them self-conscious thereby knocking her OUT of her normal
societal programs
2) Makes them feel like you genuinely like them
3) Reactivates old pair-bond anchors BECAUSE in a relationship the
HB will bring those things up to her BF(what does he say most of
the time Baby, I love that about you(
I suggest adding it in as an A3 piece. Then, when you are confident
you can select something and use suspenseful pausing, etc, use it
during a shit (attraction) test.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. Handle with care. If you dont do it right it can backfire(
P.P.S. This is a tip from my email tips list at Captain Jack PUAs Tips

Cultivating High Social Value in a Venue by Jordan

Posted at March 29, 2007

Hola Puas,
This is the first guest exclusive article for my blog out of several I have planned. The Pickup Podcast guys have
a great blog going and everyone should add it to their feed reader. Great stuff(
~ CJ ~

Cultivating High Social Value in a Venue by Jordon Harbinger (www.pickuppodcast.com)

Everyone knows that social value is key coming into a set. Guys work overtime trying to work the
room and be seen with the finest women in the venue. Where most people fall short, however, is
when it comes to cultivating and maintaining that social value in your favorite hotspot.
So lets say you go to the same venue every week or even multiple times a week. Most guys come in
every time with little or no social value. Thus, every time they approach, theyve got to generate that
value all over again. This is a lot of work. Fortunately, its not entirely necessary, and there are some
sure-fire shortcuts which well outline for you here.
What if you could walk into your favorite venue and stroll around like you own the place without first
having to work the room at all? What if everyone treated you like the high-status VIP that you
are? For one, it would make your sets open a lot easier, and help things run a bit smoother once you
are there.
I have spent years working in clubs and bars and spent many more hanging out in them. I have also
made it my business to know all the right people so that I can spend my time socializing instead of
waiting in line outside or waiting for service at the bar. I do not like going to the club as a non-VIP,
and have since vowed not to do so if its at all avoidable and I can do so without dropping my hardearned cash.
Those of you that listen to my show (www.pickuppodcast.com) know Im fond of saying that pickup,
[namely social proof and peoples first impressions of you,] begin when you walk into a
room. Whether people are consciously paying attention to what you are doing when you walk in or
not, it will affect your social value.
Have you ever noticed how within just a few minutes of walking into a room, you can mentally check
off where all the attractive women are? Its almost like radar for cuties, and it is ingrained into our

psychology to be able to locate attractive females. Women have a similar instinctual ability, only they
gravitate to males with high social value. Ask any women to pick out the most eligible guys in the
room and they know instantly. From the moment you walk in, people are watching you. It might not
always be on a conscious level, but its still happening. Every moment that you look lost, disoriented,
bored or lonely, your social value is dropping. Now, of course Im being semi-dramatic here, but you
get the idea.
The entire process of transforming a venue into your house is way too lengthly for this article alone,
but here are a bunch of tips to get you started:
Decide on a venue to make your own and stick to it. Im not saying you have to only hang out there,
but you should go there regularly and be comfortable with the venue and the employees.
Start learning peoples names immediately. When I started I actually made an excel spreadsheet and
threw it in my phone. I had every doorman, server, bartender and manager in the city on that
Shake peoples hands when you meet them. It does not matter if you already know them or this is
your first time meeting them.
Speaking of which, greet doormen like you know them. Trust me, itll likely take them a while to
remember you, but if you act like you know them and that they SHOULD remember you, they will
fake it and itll stick much more quickly. I like to use a big handshake and half hug that I usually give
my close buds.
Confidently walk around like you own the place. Not arrogant, but comfortable. Ask people if theyre
having a good time and mean it. Make it your purpose to make sure that you and everyone around
you is having fun.
Meet and befriend the bartenders and servers. This can be somewhat expedited by tipping
extremely well the first time you order. I know this tip seems obvious as hell but I would be remiss if I
did not mention it. Ask them about their night and genuinely listen to their responses. They are not
there just to serve you, as they have lives too.
On that tip, meet and befriend anyone that matters: the management, promoters, hostesses and
servers, doormen (of course), and even the chefs. You would be amazed how many times you can
get hooked up from these people just because youre in their good graces.
What does it look like when I roll into my favorite venue?
The bouncer knows who I am and greets me like I am his boy, because I am. He slaps my hand and
greets me by name. My crew never gets carded or waits in line. I walk up to the bar and my
favorite bartender, also my friend, greets me by name with a smile and handshake, taking my
order first, regardless of how many have been waiting, or for how long. If we get there late and the
kitchen is closed, I can still get food because I am friends with the chef. I rarely if ever pay for drinks,
but I always tip. And, for some strange reason my gin & tonics are always stronger than those of
others. Even the doormen tell me where the cuties are and whether the nights been good. They
watch my personal effects, look out for my friends, and, most importantly, have my back if someone
gives me trouble. The manager always comes to my table to speak with me and my crew.
Likewise, when people at the venue know who you are, not only are you socially-proofed, but the
women you are with feel comfortable. People always tend to trust people who are trusted by others.
So this works in your favor to help people feel comfortable around the fun guy everyone knows. This
is your house -make yourself at home!

Whats Your Promise?

Posted at April 5, 2007

Im constantly amazed and re-amazed at how much Marketing and Pick-Up dovetail.
Right now Im in the throes of re-creating my company to handle larger volume and to be more process driven
rather than expert driven. One of the first things you do in creating a company is decide what YOU (the business
owner, the Entrepreneur) wants out of it.
You quantify it in terms of money but even more importantly Lifestyle. Those who dont quantify it in terms of
Lifestyle end up having lots of money, no time and hating their lives. This causes them to work harder and
eventually implode.
After that there are a few other steps you go through that arent relevant to this discussion but one of the major
ones is: The Promise.
What are you promising the person who does business with you?
The promise you make drives everything else. Your marketing, your product creation and how you service clients.
My business promise is this (this is not the final wording but captures the essence): We turn business owners into
marketing experts so they can FINALLY experience the lifestyle they previously dreamt of.
My question is: What are you promising the women you interact with?
My guess for many of you is that you have never quantified it, youve never described it, or envisioned it so you
cant communicate it to her.
Even worse, your game may be communicating a promise but the reality is far different so your relationships are
Or, your game bounces about from promise to promise confusing her and making you look incongruent.
So, think about it. Is your promise to make her feel like a princess? Is your promise adventurous times? Is it all
about sex?
My promise is that shell be appreciated for the sexual being she is by a man who is ambitious and powerful to
others and theres a chance that Ill take her to the top with me.
Once you have the promise you can begin to employ implicit framing and stop explicit qualification.
Your interactions will appear smooth and effortless.
Your pickups will appear to outside observers as Magic.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. (Explicit Qualification is not bad per se, but implicit framing is more unconscious and gives her the feeling
that the attraction/connection is coming from deep within her because it is.)

Look in the Mirror

Posted at April 6, 2007

I read about 20 business blogs a day. I added this guys blog because he talks about business networking in a no
nonsense way.
Networking is on Captain Jacks list of least favorite things to do (probably related or corelated to my intense
dislike of phone use) but I force myself to do it on occasion.
Im learning more and more that Pick Up is merely a specific application of Self Improvement and closely parallels
Marketing (in execution) so youll be able to find a few great points in his post.

So look in the mirror if you want to know why youre not getting anywhere, and why you never will.
~ CJ ~

[The Asian Playboy] Is Sexual Anxiety Killing Your

Posted at April 7, 2007

The following is a guest article written exclusively for Captain Jacks Grande Adventures by The Asian Playboy.
~ CJ ~
90% of intermediate/average level PUAs fail due to Sexual Anxiety (SA).
If youre reading this, more than likely that percentage includes you. Now is this a hardcore, empirical statistic?
By no means, but it is something I witnessed with incredible regularity with guys (especially Asian men) after they
had conquered their Approach Anxiety (AA). They would run smack into a wall and either score through sheer
mass of numbers (ie the Approach Machines) or their only successes were through rote, mindnumbing persistance (ie Social Robot).
Hell, Ill be honest, it took me more than a few months (half a year, I believe) when I started out on this life journey
to not only identify that I had that problem, but also how to tackle it. Painful, humbling, but at least I knew I had
that problem and it took me several more months to get any kind of decent handle on it.
In my opinion, SA is generally endemic of men who didnt lose their virginity early on (as many naturals do) and/or
did not have the opportunity to achieve sexual experience by building upon lay after lay after lay (again, as many
naturals are wont to do).
Theres a reason why the peeps at Project Hollywood were fascinated with NaturalJ who, at the age of 21, had
already racked up (or at least claimed) triple digit lays. But I digress.

So lets take a look. Imagine, whats the worse thing a girl can do when you approach her?
Ignore you.


Insult you.


Slap or throw her drink in your face.




Now AA can be easily conquered within one month by performing approaches after approaches at something like
10 sets a night, two to three nights a week, for all four weeks. You can easily rack up 100 repititions that get you
inured to social pressure.
Youll also build a level of social precognition where you know what reply to expect from her as well as YOUR
appropriate, socially adjusted, humorous response that will keep the interaction flowing.
In theory at least, not everyone succeeds at this (Sorry, I dont sell pipe dreams. Theyre on wholesale
next door to Compassionate Conservatism).
Now, whats the WORSE imagined thing a girl can do to you when you go for the kiss, the makeout, thehandjob,
the breast touch, the extraction, etc?


Scream rape.


Call the cops.


Knee you in the balls.


Get her guy friends to beat you up.



So how many opportunities in one month can you realistically put yourself in a sexually charged situation(what I
like to call D for Direct Interest in the ABCs of Attraction)?
Compared to mastering AA, an average guy MIGHT achieve a Sexual Escalation Opportunity (ie kiss to actual
ejaculation) twice a week (assuming hes very active and somwhat decent skill) with different women. It would
then take him about ONE YEAR to get in the same amount of practice he took to conquering AA with 100
Or in this case, 100 different, potential opportunities for sexual release under his belt. If practice makes perfect,
virgins and the sexually insecure have their work cut out for them.
So therein lies the rub. In order to attain SEXUAL confidence, you need sexual experience through sexual
practice. So which came first, the chicken or the egg? Or for thee and thine, your overly active sperm or her
willing zygote?
For a lot of intermediate guys, its easier just to hammer away at incessantly approaching and buildingGeneral
Attraction (something I consider wholly different from Sexual Attraction) through verbal game without risking
life, limb, and fragile gonads by avoiding going in for the kill.
After all, theres a feeling of some measureable progress if you can get a number. The thrill of approaching X
amount of women and getting Y amount of numbers counts for something, right? RIGHT?!
So disappoint, sexual rejection, and that fantasy dream are staved off for one more night. But more importantly
that chance- however finite- of sexual success (or at least practice) are all delayed for the indefinite future at
some unappointed time as it lays uncalled in your cellphone.
Eventually after a few thousand approaches, hell accidentally stumble into some willing womans vagina.
Release is achieved. Victory declared. Wash, rinse, repeat.
After enough effort, having laid waste to an entire population of women at child-bearing age, hell achieve some
meaningful level of sexual confidence to where itll build into a snowball effect.
At long last he has achieved the promise land! After several years, maxed out credit cards, regular visits to Miss
Rose Mary Palm, and a thousand annoyed women!
Hallelujah .
But theres an easier way (Dear Buddha you better hope your bulbous belly there is) to deal with Sexual Anxiety.
In my next article for Captain Jack, Ill write about Sexual Escalation.
-The Asian Playboy

Lay Report: The Lay Report About Nothing

Posted at April 8, 2007

Permit me to ramble.
Got laid last fri. night (another SNL, same night lay). She was an HB7 (in 97)(I wouldnt consider her
ugly(.wouldnt consider her cute. Just average and probably in her mid thirties.
It was strange because I literally did nothing to advance the sarge. I didnt even open her.
She opened me.
So, why am I writing about having sex with an average older woman?
Not sure. Maybe Im just writing this down for posteritys sake.
Im not gonna lie. It was fun to be full montying a girl since Ive only been out a few times this year (besides
helping Sinn with his Bootcamps).
Sex with an average girl beats the hand.
(The highlight of the evening was at Dennys hearing El Topos I work in a Bathhouse story. He literally talked for
15 minutes straight about the ins and outs of working at a bath house.)
But, after having a full day to think about it, Im still not totally sure why I did it. I didnt do anything other than not
object to her baby stepping me along.

It couldnt have just been about the sex, because I still have about 6-8 FBs in my phone who are MUCH better
looking and wouldve come over at a moments notice.
Ive run through the nights scenarios in my head and I noticed something strange. I used to NEVER get opened.
Then, once I started getting good, peacocking and opening lots of sets that stuck, I started getting opened by
Then, when I switched to low volume game I stopped getting opened but I didnt care because I knew I only
needed one set to hook and Id probably be closing the deal.
Now, Im getting opened. What has changed? Nothing physically (a little fatter maybe, Im 215lbs but should
weight about 190.)
Friday night, I got opened 4 times. Two of them were hot, one was definitely NOT hot and the other was the one I
ended up laying.
Saturday night, after a slow start I got opened 3 times. Two were definitely NOT hot and one was cute. I had one
good set towards the end of the night with a cute Hb8 latina (who I opened) but disqualified myself a little too hard
and she didnt take my TimeBridge bait. I shouldve just looked at her point blank and said, Hey, Im asking you
out. Sometimes you have to make things clear.
The thing was I had the obstacle totally disarmed and loving me. If I hadnt run out of time (bar was closing) I
couldve used the obstacle (now, MY friend, too) to help me close the Target. But, alas, CJ fucked around and
didnt bring his A game.
Im not in the Game to have girls open me but I try to understand these little quirks.
I also got opened a few times the same night I picked up HB2005 (see LR: Two New Lays
Posted 2/21/2007 in Captain Jacks Grande Adventures Part 2).
These things are mysteries to me, thats why I love taking a scientific approach about them. I LOVE to record this
stuff and look for correlations. Its how I got good.
(This is why I love Tyler Durden and Sinns posts, they really THINK about things and take the time to write them
out, make them clear and back their stuff up with field experience. For two good examples look here: *Michael
Jordan and becoming a man and here: Expanding Your Reality)
What on earth causes girls to open me now versus before when I was essentially invisible? Why does it fluctuate
as I change styles?
Can they sense something? Is it BL? Do I look desperate (haa)?
At this point I have no idea and Im not even sure its all that important. This might be something I chalk up to little
quirks not worthy of further study or it could yield some interesting insight. Time will tell.
After 3 years of intense study and practice, I remain fascinated with the Game.
~ CJ ~

Does Hooking Up Hurt You?

Posted at April 10, 2007

This is an interesting article. It looks like its a reprint from the womens magazine from Marie Claire.
Does Hooking Up Hurt You?
Im going to buy the book mentioned because this woman studied promiscuous young women in todays society.
You can tell the author has an agenda. She probably started the study with the idea in mind that hooking up is
When you can learn HOW something happens naturally/spontaneously then you can work it into your Game Plan.
You can reconfigure your speech to match the realities she has experienced or will experience.
For example, the article tells me that A lot of the women I interviewed for my book say one of the reasons they
have casual sex is the fear that if they get tied up emotionally with someone, they wont be able to do their work or
get ahead in their jobs.
Think thats a useful bit of information?
Ill probably buy it today and hopefully there are some nuggets in there I can use.
~ CJ ~

How to Apply the 80/20 Rule to Create a Kick-Ass

Posted at April 12, 2007

This post has the possibility to vastly improve the landscape of your life. It can affect your pick-up, your financial
situation and your health. Please read it and really stop and think how it can help you, starting today.
Im reading an interesting little book right now called, The 80/20 Prinicple.
Youve probably heard the 80/20 rule before. Its referenced extensively in Engineering and Business. The
premise is 20% of causes are responsible for 80% of results.
Ive known about it for some time in Marketing. Weve found over and over that 80% of profits come from 20% of
customers. But, when we measure the phenomena its often more like 90/10 or 95/5. Most of the profit actually
comes from a very small percentage of your customers. I often have my clients put measurements in place to
track customers from the first time they make an inquiry and each and every sale.
Then, we can look at the graph. Its amazing. Some customers actually COST you money to serve. We get rid of
them if necessary. Then, we focus on the 20% who make us most of the profit.
What else do you need Mr. Awesome Client?
How can we get them to buy more (increase transaction size) and/or buy more often (increase transaction
Then, we find out, Who are these guys? And, where can we get more of them? That takes a little research but
many data miners are able to take the names, addresses and then do a backwards search (not the right wording
but same idea) to create a profile of them. (By the way, a company can get a staggering amount of information
about you. In the future Im going to STOP signing up for things in my own name and use only Trusts or shell corp
Im excited because Im in the process of formalizing all this and making it cookie cutter so I can step a few core
business owners through it.
But, this isnt the point of this post because this post is about how to rid your life of things which suck and how to
increase things which are cool.
This morning I stared at my cell phone for a minute or two. Im supposed to call a biz owner about a project were
working on but I dread it.
Part of me says, You fucking pussy, just dial the number and get it over with(
The other part of me says, Wait! Why should you do things which suck? (In this case, I have to do it because
hes already paid me. Its a fee-based project and I hate those because due to the economics I cant make the
truly monumental changes in his business. Strategy always beats copy. A great ad might double your conversion
rate but a few changes in your Strategy can easily cause 5x even 10x the increases.)
Ive been thinking about this a lot lately because the 80/20 book talks about applying the 80/20 rule to your life.
80% of your pleasure comes from 20% of your activities. 80% of your pain comes from 20% of your
You can improve your life by minimizing the things which suck and multiplying the things that give you pleasure.
If you sit down and write down all the things that suck, then you can build a strategy to minimize them.
Do the same thing for the things that you enjoy. Write them down and then find ways to increase them.
And, set some rules for yourself. You dont have to do things which suck. You may have to do some every now
and then but thats life. But, they shouldnt control your life and if they happen with regularity get rid of them.
If youre not building the life of your dreams its your own fault. And, you can derive so much satisfaction from just
refusing to do the bullshit everyone else thinks you should do.
You get to set the rules about HOW people interact with you. If they decide not to play by those rules then part
ways. You dont have to be an asshole about it but you can tell them you dont do XYZ or dont allow XYZ in your
One of my clients only allows his clients to send him faxes. He doesnt publish a phone number and wont answer
their emails. If they want to send him something its fax only.

He cant possibly make a lot of money with policies like that can he? Only about $5 million this year with just 3
How much does each client bring him? They pay him from $12,000 to $50,000 PER YEAR for the privilege of
getting his faxes, listening to his teleconferences and getting access to his unique system for making their
practices run better.
I could go on and on but its time to wrap this up.
No one is responsible for you but you. Your ideal life is your responsibility. Your time is your own and it is YOUR
CHOICE how you want to spend it.
If you get stuck in a shitty situation, change it immediately. Dont sell your life for money. Dont sell your life for
someone elses desires.
Put you first. Start today.
~ Captain Jack ~

Not Gaming
Posted at April 16, 2007

This may sound weird but(

(at certain times Ive found it easier to NOT game than actually game.
Its weird because you get to a place where you see/understand the dynamic and you KNOW you could go and
own a set but you stay put.
Its almost like you are too cool to bother opening that set. I imagine this happens a lot with the just be yourself
and be cool schools of pick-up. A whole shitload of theorizing about being cool and not much getting laid.
Take tonight, for instance. Fidelio and I are bullshitting and having a great time. There are two hotties that catch
my eye. About 6-9 months ago I wouldve rolled into each of their sets.
When one of the girls I previously laid showed up, that shouldve sparked me into using social proof/pre-selection.
Then, another girl, a bonified HB9 who I number closed one night a few months ago who was all over me, yet I
never bothered to pursue (I disdain all Day2s except those which start/end with come to my place) showed up.
It wouldve been EASY to get something going.
Instead I drank, texted Sinn and Fidelio (who had to leave early due to work at 6am) and whined about it.
Oh well. Someone I told this problem to suggested my Testosterone has declined. I guess thats possible
considering Im 32 and have a horrible diet and drink a lot.
Or, it could be totally psychological, I know at any point I really want sex I can call any of my past lays and have
sex. I also know I can go and seriously game a few nights and have a new FB (or two or 3).
Knowing that sex is merely a phone call away, or a few nights (at most) away, wheres the motivation?
About the only thing that motivates me now is when I see a truly hot FUNusual OR helping students.
I really get a kick out of helping less experienced PUAs. It reminds me of when I sucked at the Game. I get
pumped up helping new guys out. It is sheer thrill for me.
Take El Topo. Dudes a mad man. Hes in the major growth phase and already racked up a shitload of lays. Hes
ballsy and I get pumped up watching him defile everything holy.
He has a hot little Mandarin chick right now that would make the writers for Penthouse blush.
Guys like El Topo cause me to sarge. It forces me to put my socially awesome coolness and vibing bullshit away
and go and talk to some people.
I like that.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. Despite my too cool to game phase I have 2 day2s this week. Thats two day2s off of two half-assed sets.
What could I have done with some effort? Two years ago I wouldve turned cartwheels for two Day2s in a week,
now its considered a bad week.

How to Get Back at Your Ex

Posted at April 17, 2007

This is something Ive had the good fortune to do once or twice.

Believe me, I tried everything and have heard of other guys trying numerous things but this is the only thing that
Step 1: Remember all that cool shit you wanted to do but never got around to? Go do it.
Step 2: Change your style into something MUCH cooler and edgier. Your style can give you a leg up during your
initial approach. Get a cool haircut. I know the hair designers at Toni & Guy are usually pretty good about
maximizing your hairstyle for coolness. Ive tried to cut corners and go cheap but it doesnt work.
Step 3: When you run into your ex, no matter what has happened, treat her like shes a bud. Be absolutely devoid
of any sexual interest whatsoever.
Step 4: Ask her for relationship advice.
Step 5: Tell her how amazingly happy you are and how life is awesome and everything is looking up. This will
make her feel like her life sucks and she was the cause of your misery.
Step 6: Use the secret weapon of Ambition by telling her all the amazing plans and passions youre following
through with (now that youre no longer in her energy draining, vampiric aura haa).
Step 7: Cut all communications short. But, if you have something really cool/fun going on this weekend make sure
she hears about it (but dont invite her unless youll be arriving with a hot girl.)
Step 8: If she compliments you on anything say, Thats exactly what Gina said( this will make her wonder(
Step 9: Ask her how her hottest friend is doing and ask enough questions that she has to wonder why you keep
bringing her up. Jealousy is always fun.
Step 10: Never, ever, ever under any circumstances try to get back with her (assuming you even want her back)
until shes the one pursuing. If she tries to get back with you tell her you are having way too much fun to enjoy
anything more than a physical relationship.
~ CJ ~

On NOT Gaming Part Deux

Posted at April 18, 2007

Im not the bragging type but I do believe I have just as good a shot as anyone out there with the hottest girls.
I think my nights of NOT gaming stem from something else(some weird issue I havent fully grasped yet.
Like Ive said a few times, I believe Nov. 2006 was the last of my Outer Game sticking points (culminating with
LMR SP). I have the tactics/techniques down.
My last remaining issues are InnerGame related.
I know some Keyboard Jockey will try to tell me I shouldve STARTED with InnerGame but I beg to differ.
And, I have a black belt in this area. Everything from Huna (certified in Huna by Dr. La Tourrette) to NLP (Bandler
on 4 occassions), Energy Psychology and a bunch of other cool shit.
Ive been able to use those technologies to do a lot of wondrous things for myself and others. And, Im still looking
for ways to use them.
Every moment you put off getting real world experience to work on your InnerGame is a minute your life is
slipping by.

I dont think you can even truly know what your InnerGame issues ARE until you have ironed out your OuterGame
for at least a year or two. No one has any business working on InnerGame until theyve done about 1000 sets.
Until then you dont even KNOW what your InnerGame SPs are(you only have fear, laziness, excuses and
technical shit to deal with until then(
I wish I could tell all of you to just be cool and confident and talk to people. But, Id be doing you a disservice. Id
be betraying you. Id be coddling you like babies, instead of treating you like Men.
Women can ONLY respond to your Style and your Behaviors. She cant see inside to your InnerGame. She cant
see into your soul. She can only see what you demonstrate visibly for her.
Im wrestling with InnerGame demons. But, ONLY the ones that prevent me from doing what I already know how
to do WHEN I want to do it. Any InnerGame issues that dont directly affect my behavior dont matter, they are
background noise.
These InnerGame SPs are my last thing to conquer. Im taking them down the same way I took down my
OuterGame tactical SPs one by one (see Sticking Point Analysis). Theres no way they can last. Ill root out
each and every one of them.
~ Captain Jack ~

Why Old Ladies Love CJ Mystery Solved

Posted at April 24, 2007

Old ladies love Captain Jack. (And, by old I mean from 35+ year old MILFs to 75 year old shrivel-ovaried
It always bothered me WHY? WHY? Why me? I can be rolling out with a thousand puas and the old ladies open
Is it because I look helpless? Or, easy? Or, nice and harmless?
This has bothered me for a year or more now.
Im sure I know why now and the answer came from a seemingly unrelated source.
On the flip side of this I wondered, Why cant I get hot girls to open me (without absurd/extreme Peacocking)?
I thought about it for a bit and put it in my mind to become aware of the solution (see: Reticular Activating
One night Sinn, Fidelio and I were out and SURE enough a hot girl opened me. Sinn saw it and told me he saw
the whole thing.
Apparently she had given an AI to one of us a couple times. When I noticed the AI I acknowledged it, SHE then
gave another acknowledgment and we started walking towards each other, then she started talking to me.
That sounded right so I tried it again the next night and got opened by two different sets, one hot and one not.
* Get an AI.
* Acknowledge it (eye contact, a slight smile and a slight turning of the body towards them.)
* When she acknowledges back smile and start walking towards her.
Sounds simple enough right?
I avoided AIs early in my PU efforts because Ive seen guys depend on them. Then, when they dont get them
they have trouble approaching or think there is something wrong with their appearance etc and it fucks up their
Then, when I was working so hard on Cold Approach I wanted it to be FREEZING cold, meaning no AIs, no
peacocking, no pawns, just me vs. everybody.
So, Saturday night I am chatting with some people and I notice a girl looking at me from a table across the room. I
acknowledge, she acknowledges back and as I take the first half step she waves me over (format holds true with
positive consequences in 3 out of 3 instances()
But, she intros me to her friend. She AIed me over for her friend. Interesting.
Her friend (HBBlondeTattoo) is hotter, too so this is great!

I ended up pulling her, her friend and another guy back to the Pirate Pad for an After Party.
I got LMR from HBBlondeTattoo so no Lay (yet) but she is a cute little blonde with 3 awesome tattoos.
Im using Sinn and Futures
Breakthrough Comfort
with her now to get more practice.
Now, heres where the Old Ladies come back in. I realized that I had been DIS-Acknowledging (or outright
ignoring) AIs from the hotties and being friendly and acknowledging old ladies AIs.
So, last night I purposefully disacknowledged two old ladies AIs.
Problem solved AND Ive got a better grasp on skillfully taking advantage of AIs from hotties.
~ Captain Jack ~

How to Get More

Posted at April 28, 2007

This post is primarily about one of my favorite subjects: Money. But, youd be actin-a-fool if you think it is ONLY
about money. In fact, youd be AAF (actin a fool) if you thought ANY of my posts are ONLY about the things Im
discussing. Each one of them has multiple applications and multiple layers of meaning.
The title of my blog is Money. Life. Women. Adventure.
Right after I got divorced I promised myself Id never again sell my life. I wouldnt sell it for Marital Peace. I
wouldnt sell it to the wishes of my parents. Nor, would I sell it for a Wage.
Whats that Fight Club quote? This is your life and its slipping away one day at a time. or, something similar.
So, I guess Ive been a tad inaccurate about my favorite thing. Its not really Money. Its FREEDOM. Or, more
accurately Freedom & Adventure.
I look at Money as a means to both but I wont give up either for Money. In fact, Im one of the higher paid people
for what I do but Ill be damned if I work 40 hours per week. (By the way, 40 hours per week would yield me,
conservatively, $48,000 per month.)
Its hard to get me on the phone for anything less than $300 an hour. Unless youre my mom or dad and even
they complain of the trouble.
During a CNN Interview Barbara Walters was asked something like Whats your favorite period of life. She
responded her trip to Italy and France RIGHT AFTER COLLEGE!
Holy shit! Shouldnt your life be getting better as you go? Now, I understand just as much as the next person that
there are gonna be ups and downs, zigs and zags. But, my God, her favorite period was a summer trip she took
Isnt that sad?
Right now on my desk is a research report from an M. D. who Im evaluating as a client. Its about Prohormone
pills (remember, Andro and McGwire?) and how the FDA (the Federal DUMB Administration) banned them
(get this(
Testosterone INJECTIONS have bad side effects. (The reasons this is dumb logic are numerous and too
technical for this post but its essentially comparing apples to oranges, no, never mind that, its comparing apples
to giraffes.)
Anyways, he also provided some extremely telling info which shows that the prohormones were banned
BECAUSE govt types are worried what increased Testosterone will do to us non govt men. It seems that theyve
been allowing shit into our food (especially chicken) that actually promotes estrogen. The goal being to keep us
men pleasantly docile.
Now, Im not a conspiracy theorist in the least, but the evidence is just too friggin overwhelming for me to ignore.
Luckily, he also shows how hes overcome this bullshit for his own patients. I started his program a few days ago
and let me fucking tell you I feel like a god damn Lion. King of the Jungle.

One thing that is really cool about this blog is when I meet other PUAs and they tell me how they applied
something from it and got great results. That makes me happy. A few have even told me they love reading about
the biz/money stuff just as much as the PU stuff and that makes me happy too.
Which reminds me: Right after I got separated from my ex I tried a biz idea I had been putting off because she
criticized it. It took me about six hours to put together.
I made $12,000 the first day.
Right after that, I put another idea into play. It was awesome. 20 people paid me $97 per month just to get emails
updating them on what I was personally doing/researching in a niche field. That was a blast. They loved it. Not
one dropped out. Each person stayed with me the entire time. I conducted free one-day Master minds and
people flew from CA and NY to spend the day with me picking my brains.
Which brings me to my next point: Be More Selfish.
That doesnt mean screw people. It means protect yourself. Set boundaries. Go for what you want. Design your
life to get more of what you want and less of what you dont want.
My question is: Do you wanna be like Barbara Walters all full of estrogen with the best period of your life off in the
distant past? Or, do you want to be a Pirate full of Testosterone, plenty of Gold, surrounded by Beautiful Women
while you gaze hungrily into the horizon, eyes and heart steadfastly set on your next Adventure?
One of my gifts is devouring a subject, quickly discovering what works and what doesnt, discarding the bullshit
and synthesizing it all in a way that people can apply to their lives immediately. Blogging is awesome but there
are a lot of things I cant print here or give a full treatment. Its better for snippets and batting ideas around.
Im thinking about doing the monthly thing again. Maybe via a print newsletter, an email update and an audio
covering money, health, women, adventure and whatever else I happen to be studying at the moment.
Its titled, How to Get More( and its about getting your shit together in every area of your life. Its about getting
that cutting edge(about domination and dominating(its about living YOUR LIFE on your terms the way you
want to, not how society dictates to you.
If there are a group of hardcore pirates out there who want to get involved as Charter members, nows the time to
hop on board.
The first 12 charter members get two days in Big D with me discussing How to Get More(

Male-Female Microcosm
Posted at May 4, 2007

Females (unconsciously) view your interaction with them as a microcosm for how youll interact with the World.
If she can crumble you, then the world can crush you, no problemo(She wants to know that YOU can overcome
the World and fulfill your deepest purpose. This is ALL she cares about.
Most guys handle shit tests all wrong. There are two basic choices:
1) Ignore and continue with your Agenda
2) Change her state using your humor or frame control
The thing NOT to do is tell her you dont allow drama. This MAY attract her but NOT for the conventionally
thought of reasons(it may attract her because NO ONE stands up to her at all, therefore you are different. But, it

still means you are bothered/susceptible/weakened by her drama. Shell continue to shit test you until you are a
limp noodle in her hands or you ditch he
herr looking for a better woman. But, like Groundhog Day, youll keep
finding yourself in the same situations over and over: Bitches full of drama.
The skill to work on is CHANGING her state. This is what she craves. She is UNABLE to do it herself. She is
seeking the MAN who can help her do it.
Your female will always (again unconsciously) test you at your weakest points. This is to HELP you, to PREPARE
you for your battles with the World. She wants to help her man become a Warrior
King. If you fail in your
microcosm battle with her, there is not way youll win when its You vs. The World.
In a way, she is a victim of her own emotionalism. She wants YOUR emotional stability, your sense of logic and
purpose to be there to weather her emotional storms.
So, when she shit tests you, dont get pissy, look her in the eyes, shove her against the wall and tell her youve
got everything under control. Then pin her against the wall and start to ravage her.
I got shit-tested
tested tonight on 3 different counts. I opened wi
th a rapport opener with NO social proof, dressed like
shit in a bar with a 5-to-1
1 ratio of dudes to girls. I changed her state for each one and SHE number closed me. I
could sense her attraction amp with each shit test.
Ignore or laugh it off and keep rolling.
olling. She WANTS that.
The How to Get More Newsletter
Eleven sing-ups
ups so far. One more spot left for Charter Member status. See previous post for details. You eleven
shouldve received an intro letter today (or maybe tomorrow) to confirm and the first iissue
ssue should arrive mid-late
next week.
The How to Get More Newsletter is the primary communication of the newly formed Warrior-King
Society a
Fraternity of Men who want to become what they are meant to be, instead of what society, parents, government
ictates. Stay tuned for details where Ill announce the website (at which point Ill stop posting about it on this

LIOs, AIs and Ay

Ayn Rand
Posted at May 8, 2007

Im getting world class at LIOs (Low Investment Openers).

A Wing and I pulled a 2set of 21 year old hotties last sat. night. My Opener? This song was real popular when I
was in High School. Then, I plowed for 2 minutes. Un
til said Wing came in and occupied obstacle.

We ended up pulling the 2set to the Pirate Pad. I got mine totally naked (awesome fit 21year old perfect body
Day2 is tonight) but I got LMR and ended up fingering her instead. She tried to give me a handjob but its near
impossible for me to get off that way.
Heres one from last night which also went well: Red shoes. Interesting.
Im also getting world class at getting girls to open me off of their AI. I wrote a post about it Why Old Ladies
Love CJ or something a week or so ago.
And, Im pleased with the overall increase in Youth and Quality of my last month or so of Gaming. Some time ago,
not sure exactly when, I made a decision to upgrade the quality. I recommend quantity for beginners, even
intermediates with huge Outer Game SPs, but its time for me to focus on hotter specimens.
Finally, heres an excerpt which I included and discussed in the How to Get More Newsletter(
How do you propose to force your ideas on them?
I dont propose to force or be forced. Those who want me will come to me.
Then the Dean understood what had puzzled him in Roarks manner.
You know, he said, you would sound much more convincing if you spoke as if you cared whether I agreed with
you or not.
Thats true, said Roark. I dont care whether you agree with me or not. He said it so simply that it did not sound
offensive, it sounded like the statement of a fact which he noticed, puzzled, for the first time.
You dont care what others think which might be understandable. But you dont care even to make them think
as you do?
But thats(thats monstrous.
Is it? Probably. I couldnt say.
(Excerpted from The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand, p.26)
~ Captain Jack ~

Lay Report: Good Girl, Bad Girl

Posted at May 10, 2007

Sinn and I hit a Wing place about 6:00 to get some seats early for the De La Hoya and Mayweather fight. Luckily
for Sinn we got a waitress with Jumbo-sized Hooters and the gaming began.
Soon after Twitchy arrived and finally Fidelio.
As always happens with Twitchy and/or Fidelio the shots begin coming hard and heavy. By the time the fight ends
(boo) Im pleasantly buzzed.
Sinn number closes the waitress who has 2 roommates who also work there.
We walk to a nearby venue. After getting a drink, Sinn points out a 2set. A cute innocent-looking brunette with
brown eyes, a slender frame and a really nice ass with perky tits and another cute girl with Jumbo Hooters and a
great ass.
Of course Sinn wanted the Jumbo Hooters girl.
I think about how Im going to open and they walk by, it looks like theyre leaving and I say, You guys cant leave,
we havent talked yet.
I had that cued up because a week ago I was in a bookstore coffee shop and a very hot girl left before I got a
chance to get off the phone and open her. She walked past me and I hesitated. I decided now that anytime a girl
is about to leave my presence before I game her is going to get that statement.
They giggled and walked past. When they came and sat back down I strolled over and said the first thing that
came out of my mouth:
CJ: This song was real popular when I was in High School.
I dont remember exactly what was said but they werent having it for the first minute or so. Sinn came in and
occupied Jumbo-sized Hooters.

Before you know it were in mini-isolation and Im making fun of her for being so young and immature. Turned out
she had just turned 21 a few weeks ago and this was her first time at the bar.
I ran strawberry fields. 10 strawberries she says. Hmmmm(.bad girl I tell her. She says shes not bad, shes
good. Her parents are both Ministers AND shes going to teach church camp this summer.
A bust-fest ensued. I told her I was going to sneak out there and eat strawberries with her at the camp, etc.
Sinn was in good with his girl.
Then, Jesus and Mary arrived. They didnt like me from the get go. I later found out that Jesus had a thing for my
Target and was extremely protective of her.
I knew my girl liked me but Jesus and Mary werent taking my friendship advances so I went to go chat with
Fidelio, Twitchy and Secondchance.
While talking to them I caught her looking at me. I smiled (on the inside) and kept chatting with them.
I went back over there and started gaming again. I told her I wanted to get a drink and made her escort me to the
bar. She really loosened up when Jesus and Mary werent around but when they were around she wasnt willing
to role play so I knew I had to get her in full isolation.
I managed it (later I found out Sinn had to reassure them multiple times I was a cool guy, etc. They liked him and
he was able to at least buy us some time.)
When I got her alone I ran Discovery Channel and I could see her get horny. I made out with her right then.
I backed off a bit and ran $18 for the Light Bill and we made out again.
Sinn had been working on the pull and texted me to work on the pull with my Target. Jesus and Mary came back
by and my Target clammed up again.
Somehow we lost Jesus and Mary and we pulled our girls back to the Pirate Pad. Since both of us had already
made out with our targets we almost immediately started making out right after I put on the DVD.
Sinn pulled his Target to the floor and started making out. I took my girl to my bedroom and got her totally naked
in my bed but she wouldnt let me into the Pink Palace.
I throttled back and started building more comfort in between bouts of heavy make-outs. I made sure to set up a
Day2 for the next Tuesday. Then, I fingered her until she came.
We talked on the phone twice, exchanged text messages the following couple days and she showed up for our
I sat her down and gave her some wine which she said tasted baconey. Haa. I had South Park on and she told
me she was never allowed to watch it because her parents where religious(ha. She liked it. She thought it was
so funny that the little kids were cussing.
I made out with her again and escalated on the couch. I noticed some tension and eased off. She asked, Where
are we going? So that was a confirmation of what I suspected. I needed to take her out or face dreaded LMR
I took her out and resumed the bad girl frame I set up via my version of Strawberry Fields. She loved it at first but
then she started insisting she was a good girl. I changed the subject and we bounced to a different venue.
I ran my Cosmo Routine (which encapsulates Bandlers SRT) and she flushed. We made out again. I then told
her I loved how she was a good girl who could act bad when she really wanted to(
I then dirty talked to her almost the whole drive home. Saying things like, Im going to tie you up and blind fold
you and fuck you from behind. and lots of shit like that.
Got her back to my place under the pretense of watching Superman Returns. I escalate on the couch. Her little
panties were so soaked they were slippery on the outside. But, I was still worried about LMR so I wanted to
penetrate before trying to take her to the room.
Success and shes hot enough to keep in the Top 3 rotation (yay!)
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. Spent last night with her, too. She confessed that she broke up with her boyfriend on Monday night. Haa.

Lay Report: Collateral Damage

Posted at May 14, 2007

LR: Collateral Damage May 14, 2007

(.with guest appearances by PlayerT, El Topo and KinoMaster(
Ok, this is not going to be real long because the lay came from a Secret Society Social Circle I built at this bar
over the last 6 months. In fact, thats the lay report. PlayerT was there with his ex (who I also banged) and her
friend, cute face, big boobs but a little chunky.
The experience was eye-opening though. Heres why: I didnt really want to have sex with her. I was gaming the
2nd hottest girl in the venue (the first was an ex girl-on-girl porn star named Vanity but I didnt open her(grrrr).
The Wing House bartendress was with a Vanilla Icer and she was still wearing her Wing House uniform.
The sarge was going great, she was attracted and she re-opened me 3 times, gave me lots of AIs. One problem:
Vanilla Ice was her boyfriends best friend.
What to do?
One: If I befriend him I could try to get them and a few others back to the pirate pad for an after party and get him
so drunk he passes out giving me an opportunity to bang her.
Remember this: Anytime you are attempting a pull you MUST discover how people arrived there. You need to
know this because it affects HOW youre going to get things done. It turns out they met up there separately. This
bit of information made me
Two: I could ignore him and try to get her to see me after they leave the venue.
This was my plan. Alas, I was interrupted and she and Vanilla Ice merged with another m-f set so I never got a
shot at pulling her.
My biggest mistake in that set was not getting a full isolation. Damnit. It was ON but I was just a little off at one
crucial point.
Anyway, back to the girl I banged.
She literally grabbed my hand and pulled me towards the door. I stalled looking for a chance to re-engage wing
house girl. No go.
I got in her car and drove her to PlayerTs house. At this point Im thinking, am I going to bang this girl? Ive upped
my standards a great deal because Im no longer working on any specific outer game SPs.
Im sure I have some outer game SPs but nothing glaring. When I open enough sets, I get laid. Its really
I decided I wouldnt. I was going to turn this girl down.
So, I did something that is still putting a smile on my face. I gave that girl LMR!
What was her LMR tactic to breakthrough?
She fell back on the power of the Titty Smother. She took her giant tits and tried to suffocate me with them. I
suspect she knew that if she could cut off the supply of oxygen to my brain it would weaken my LMR.
When that didnt work she decided to insult my manhood, Whats wrong you cant? You cant get it up, can you?
Yet, I resisted.
She went back to making out with me. Now, let me tell you, this didnt work. I mean I was enjoying the big titties
and making out is always fun but it didnt do anything to break my resolve.
What finally broke me down? She started jerking me off and at that point I decided it would be easier to just fuck
her than have her attempt to get me off with her baboon like coordination.
So, I fucked her.
I wonder how many girls I closed just by wearing them out(damn, that shit makes me wonder.
It probably wouldve been better for me NOT to bang her because I wasnt the least bit concerned about living up
to my normal feats of Sexual Stardom. I imagine I lasted about 83 seconds. Or, roughly 83 pumps.
HB: Are you through already?
CJ: haaaaa
Some highlights of the night(
El Topo tells one of my ex lays she has tattoos on the ceasection region she gets irritated and leaves.
KinoMaster and I thought it was funny.

KinoMaster gets smashed haa. Ive seen him at my place drunk off of wine but never smashed in a bar. Talked
to him earlier and he was still feeling it.
El Topo saying that having a certain girl with hairy arms jerk him off would be like having a 12 year old boy do it.
Me blowing out an HB7 by machine-gun negging her. She eye fucked me 29 times that night but I was working on
the HB9 Wing House bartender.
PlayerT hugging me and asking me if I needed him to kick someones ass and if so I could just point them out and
say, go.
~ Captain Jack ~

Sexual State
Posted at May 17, 2007

Women are starved for sex. They are sexually frustrated. Its their natural state. The quicker you understand this
and incorporate it into your Game the better youll be.
When youre talking to a girl you should feel sorry for how sexually starved she is(think about it. All this sexual
opportunity coming at her but she CANT have sex with someone until she is truly attracted.
But, all the guys who approach her fuck it up by being too needy, or interesting but not sexually aggressive or
sexually aggressive before displaying value.
Her sexual frustrations are pent up, building, building, building until they are about to explode.
Are you going to help her unleash it? She wants someone too, she puts on make up, she spends hours per day
trying to look her best. Toys just cant compare.
Learn sexual framing and youll become a God among mere mortals.
Sinn performed a pick-up to lay using almost nothing more than sexual state pumping.
The church girl (LR: good girl, bad girl) got a heavy dose of sexual framing and sex talk the first night and then
almost pure sex talk (coupled with dirty music) on the Day2. Im convinced the sex talk couple with her lmr
frustrations from the first night made her give it up.
Going for Same Night Lays has forced me to develop lots of sex-based games, routines and tight kino.
Strawberry fields. Rings on Fingers. Discovery Channel. Natural Woman. Stripper ex-girlfriends.
Sex is good. Sex is fun. Theres no judgment. Dont you feel sorry for people who dont understand this? Who
cares what everyone else thinks. Secrets.
Sexual talk is foreplay.
Theres an old wives tale that says, If you can get a girl to talk about sex with you, 9 times out of 10 you can
have sex with her.
~ Captain Jack ~

Sexualizing Your Game: How Tos

Posted at May 22, 2007

Ok, early in my PU career a few things happened that required me to focus on SNLs. One was that my car blew
up on my first f-close out of bootcamp.
The second was, even when I had access to a car, I could get girls numbers and even timebridges but I could
FEEL on the day2s that there was no sexual energy so they would drag out to day3s, day4s. Naturally, I said
Fuck that shit!

And, put on my scientist hat to design in-field experiments to 1) Get same night sex because I didnt know when
Id have access to a car or 2) Make Day2s little more than coming to my place for sex
Then, I read My Secret Garden and Way of the Superior Man and both of them rocked my world. Those are
must reads for every PUA.
So, how do you get sexual in the sarge? Theres a direct way (which Sinn has been using for a few weeks now
and Im sure hell post about it) and then theres an Indirect way which relies on outside framing ideas and
presuppositions (from the Milton Model created by Bandler).
Heres my normal way of doing it:
DHV Spike Stories(
BUT, my DHV spike stories contain references to a past girlfriend who was a dancer. The presups are that 1)
shes hot 2) she can have any guy but she wants me and 3) shes a very sexual person
At this point, if were still talking I do sleepy eyes ala ijjjjjji and make my movements slow and deliberate with
LOTS of eye contact and shoulder and lower back kino.
At the first opportunity (mini-isolation or full) I run my version of Strawberry Fields. Im not saying shes a sexual
being. Its the test!
When I give her the results I often whisper them into her ear with my hand on her lowerback. Then, I push her
If this goes well I start bouncing between my comfort stack and more sexual presupps. Usually by this time you
can start saying more direct sexual talk (If your friends werent here Id spank you for being such a bad girl.)
I think of this as an interlacing spiral moving upwards to sex. Comfort, Sex. Comfort, Sex. Comfort, Sex. In lockstep.
I try to get Rings on Fingers in after one comfort routine. Rings on Fingers does 3 things:
1) It tells her she is sexually aggressive when she sees someone shes attracted to(
2) It tells her your are NOT judgmental
3) It says that BOTH of you are good at keeping secrets
The change in her demeanor is visible. If youve ever done it youll know what Im talking about. The best way I
can describe it is She softens and then glows.
Now, if I havent gotten the Same Night Lay Logistics info by this time then I make sure to do it now. (look for
Same Night Lay guidelines to find out those questions)
Next, Ill start laying down my Identity Stack which includes my Cosmo Routine I based off of Bandlers SRT. Ive
shared this in my eCoaching program. It MIGHT be on the Lounge as well.
Statements like Im trying so hard not to kiss you right now work well at this point. Kiss tests like going cheek-tocheek to tell her something can often lead to what appears to be a spontaneous kiss, too.
One way to know if youre out of lock-step in terms of sexual escalation and comfort is if she says things like,
Dont you want to know anything about me? or I hardly know you. throttle back and run some more comfort.
The rest of the logistical info can be found here.
~ Captain Jack ~

Captain Jack says:

May 23, 2007 at 2:48 am

I have a new routine which Ill post soon. It has been tested at least 15 times with 14 out of 15 positive results so
Im cool to share it.
Basically, if she intros herself I say, Oh, I have to warn you(Im REALLY bad at names.
Shell usually say something that will allow me to say, My ex was an exotic dancer and she used to change stage
names as much as shed change her underwear(and(well(you know how when you get someones name
wrong but it just sticks in your head? Well, her stage name from the first time I met her stuck in my head and I
couldnt get it out. Well, 3 months later we were fucking and I lost control and screamed out her stage name. But,

she had FORGOTTEN that was her old stage name! It took me HOURS to calm her down. So, Im just
apologizing in advance(.
Then, I have another about a time when I went to the hookah bar and my ex-girlfriend, a dancer, was
EXTREMELY jealous and she started playing with my phone. Well, I thought she was just looking at the pics we
took earlier but later that night I looked in my phone and she had DELETED every female number in my phone.
Even my sister, mom and grandmoms numbers! Psycho! And, my friends were like, Dude! Where do you find
these girls? Honestly, I dont know(Its a mystery to me.
JimSmith, to answer question #2: I use something I call Subtle Qualification now which means I listen for her to
qualify herself and then bait her into telling me more. BUT, if I need to use Explicit Qualification then I do like the
Beauty is Common line because I talk about travel a lot in my sarges so it fits with the overall tapestry of my
~ Captain Jack ~

The Warrior-King Society

Posted at May 22, 2007

Im excited about this(

I already have some good men on board, just finalizing some details before I introduce them. Plus, two of the
biggest names in radio/tv publicity are interested in getting the word out.
The details can be found here.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. If any of you are good at creating logos please contact me at captainjackpua AT gmail DOT com

JimSmith: Stripper Routines

Posted at May 23, 2007

**** This is in response to some great questions by JimSmith to my Sexualizing post below ****
I have a new routine which Ill post here in response to your comment. It has been tested at least 15 times with 14
out of 15 positive results so Im cool to share it.
Basically, if she intros herself I say, Oh, I have to warn you(Im REALLY bad at names.
Shell usually say something that will allow me to say, My ex was an exotic dancer and she used to change stage
names as much as shed change her underwear(and(well(you know how when you get someones name
wrong but it just sticks in your head? Well, her stage name from the first time I met her stuck in my head and I
couldnt get it out. Well, 3 months later we were fucking and I lost control and screamed out her stage name. But,
she had FORGOTTEN that was her old stage name! It took me HOURS to calm her down. So, Im just
apologizing in advance(.
The only Bad response I got to this was a girl say, This is not a good story. and then pulling her girlfriend away.
Then, I have another about a time when I went to the hookah bar and my ex-girlfriend, a dancer, was
EXTREMELY jealous and she started playing with my phone. Well, I thought she was just looking at the pics we
took earlier but later that night I looked in my phone and she had DELETED every female number in my phone.
Even my sister, mom and grandmoms numbers! Psycho! And, my friends were like, Dude! Where do you find
these girls? Honestly, I dont know(Its a mystery to me.
The usual response is that they ASSUME she is either 1) psycho or 2) think I did something to drive her crazy like
that. Number 2 is what I hope for because most girls have had at least one guy who has driven them insanely
crazy like that and if you can cause that response in one girl they assume you can cause it in them (and others).

To answer question #2: I use something I call Subtle Qualification now which means I listen for her to qualify
herself and then bait her into telling me more. BUT, if I need to use Explicit Qualification then I do like the Beauty
is Common line because I talk about travel a lot in my sarges so it fits with the overall tapestry of my Game.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. Sinn helped me smooth out the Trouble with Names routine as I had the Stripper changing jobs and
working at two places and shit and I was frustrated with the weird transition. I told him the story and he just said,
she changed stage names as much as she changed her underwear line which made it MUCH EASIER to
deliver. Props to Sinn.
P.P.S. After reading Tenmagnets post on Easter Eggs in story telling I am going to try the routines WITHOUT
saying my ex was a dancer and see how many girls ask me. You can read Tenmagnets post here.

Fireside with Fidelio: An Apology To The Girl at

IHOP Who Put Her Ass on My Friends Shoulder
Posted at May 24, 2007

Fidelio, long time wing and friend, has just updated his blog. In his usual funny as shit style, hes recounted one of
our nights at IHOP.
Any post which employs the phrase orgasmic chi has got to be good.
For me, the crescendo is right after this line:
Unfortunately, for all the hard work that you did, you were unaware of one thing:
You can read the entire post Fireside with Fidelio: An Apology To The Girl at IHOP Who Put Her Ass on My
Friends Shoulder
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. More tomorrow(

LIO: CJs Nose Ring Opener

Posted at May 25, 2007

Tenmagnet, Sinn and Savoy (see sidelinks to visit their blogs) have all recently posted new openers. I dont think
Ive posted this one yet but it is EXTENSIVELY field tested by yours truly at least 50 times.
Ive been using this Low Investment Opener I designed on the fly for awhile now that has proven extremely
effective. In fact, it has never NOT opened. I usually go direct on the target.

CJ: Hey, is that nose ring real?

HB: blah, blah
CJ: Oh man, I was in NYC a few weeks ago at a club and I was talking to a girl and I made her laugh. Her nose
ring fell off and it started rolling around on the floor. She said, Omigod, help me find it( I was like umm, I hardly
even know you( Now, I have one less fan in New York.
Stack Forward.
You can talk about other piercings, about tattoos, etc, etc. Or, just qualify. Who are you?(and youre special
Simple, quick and easy.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.P.S. Feel free to copy and past to other lair boards, blogs, forums, etc. just please include a link back to my
blog. Thanks.

Men, Mastery and a Deal

Posted at May 25, 2007

One of the guys I brought on board for the Warrior-King Society is Andrew Scott. Hes a hardcore martial artist
who studied with Hock Hocheim. At my behest, he switched his focus from pure martial arts to using the mental
disciplines of martial arts for life improvement and success.
Hes one of those guys Im glad to have on my side. Im pretty lucky in this regard because Ive surrounded myself
with a good group of guys who are all pretty much aimed in the same direction.
KinoMaster drove my ass around for awhile when I didnt have a car and couldnt afford to rent (or buy) one. He
never complained, either. He just worked it into his schedule and helped his friend out.
Sinn and I are constantly helping each other with Game and now with business.
Fidelio kicks my ass if I make a resolution and dont stick to it. I broke a Day2 appointment with an (almost) sure
lay the other night because he called me on my Captain Jack is upping the hotness ante resolution. I couldve
gone just to boost my numbers but after he let me know I was breaking my vow I thought about it and decided not
to(and I actually feel great about it.
Another guy, not in the community, helped me with handling some shit throughout my divorce. Even though his
wife was my wifes good friend at the time. We now get together and talk business and gently badger each other
into action and upholding our personal goals.
All of you you guys need to work on developing a core group like this(Make it a goal to add 2-3 friends like this
AND/OR if you and your friends arent currently holding each other to higher standards start doing it.
It helps a lot and having this core group (and the overall idea of the Community) encouraged me to organize the
Warrior-King Society.
If you want to learn more about/from Andrew I encourage you to take a look here. Hes extended his offer to
anyone I want. If you go to that link and take Andrew up on the Martial Mastery deal Ill also give away 2 free 25minute phone consults with me to discuss anything you want. The first one will be what youre working on, well
devise a plan of action. The second call will be a follow-up. But, due to the demands on my time I can only do it
for the first 10 who go for it.
Youll also get a 1-month trial to the How to Get More Newsletter. If its not for you just cancel anytime before the
30-day trial period ends and you wont get charged.
~ Captain Jack ~

Clarification: Men, Mastery and a Deal

Posted at May 27, 2007

Okay, Ive gotten a couple emails and a couple of comments regarding the last post.
Heres the deal: Take a look here. Andrew has extended this offer to anyone I want. If you go to that link and take
Andrew up on the Martial Mastery deal Ill also give away 2 free 25-minute phone consults with me to discuss
anything you want. As soon as I see the PayPal go through Ill contact you via email to discuss the two calls.
The first one will be what youre working on, well devise a plan of action. The second call will be a follow-up. But,
due to the demands on my time I can only do it for the first 10 who go for it.
Youll also get a 1-month trial to the How to Get More Newsletter. If its not for you just cancel anytime before the
30-day trial period ends and you wont get charged.
So, go and take a look here and read the ad. It wont take more than a few minutes but it could prove to be
extremely valuable to you.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. Tuesday Ive got some more great stuff about Pick-up coming so stay tuned.

Two Questions a Man Must Ask Himself

Posted at May 28, 2007

From Fire in the Belly by Sam Keen:

The last thing he said before I left was probably the single most important bit of advice I ever got about being a
man. Sam, he said, there are two questions a man must ask himself: The first is Where am I going? and the
second is Who will go with me? If you ever get these questions in the wrong order you are in trouble. page 12
~ Captain Jack ~

Jealousy Routine
Posted at May 30, 2007

Ive been using this routine for several months now and it has paid off in spades.
I originally started using it to Seed the Timebridge (seeding is a concept I came up with by accident because I
noticed when I put a future TB location in an earlier DHV stories my TB attempts went through much easier and,
in fact, I could often get them to ask me when I was going again so this also became a Structured Chase
Opportunity for her()
Have you ever smoked a hookah? I go to x-hookah place and its real chill. They have all these pillows and you
just relax and talk to friends and smoke a bit. I was talking to my friends and my girl didnt have to perform that
night (this is bait for them to ask what she does so I can say, Exotic Dancer) and she was there. She started
playing with my phone. We had been together almost all day so we took a lot of pics with the camera phone so I
just assumed she was looking at them. Later that night I tried to call one of my friends to meet us somewhere. I
was looking through my phone and noticed I couldnt find her number. Then, it dawned on me(there were NO
MORE female numbers in my phone. She had DELETED all of them!

This goes right along with something else Ive been doing. Ive been telling HBs how a few of my exs have been
extremely jealous and clingy and then asking them if they are(they ALWAYS say no! but it seems to make them
chase hard.
I love it.
So, try it out and let me know how it goes(
~ Captain Jack ~

What are the fucking chances?

Posted at June 3, 2007

So, Fidelio mans up (cause theres $100 at stake) and opens and gets a make-out (eventually) with a girl and I
wing the other girl in the two-set who turns out to be fucking cool and hotter than I originally thought.
And, I do my Stripper Jealousy Routine and it turns out the EXACT SAME STORY was just told on Kiss FM in
our area.
What are the fucking chances?
Hookah bar check.
Stripper girlfriend check.
All female numbers deleted check.
Even mom, sister and grandmom check.
Umm(cmon dallas PUAs, come up with some original shit if youre gonna call into the radio and talk shit, ok?
Luckily I recovered and got the make-out and Time Bridge because Im Fucking Captain Jack.
~ CJ ~

Whos This Dude Defacing Dallas?

Posted at June 5, 2007

Its late at night.

Theres a helluva line at the hot venue full of snotty rich girls.
Youve gotta piss REAL bad.
You couldve taken a piss at the previous venue but you were too manly for that.
How to fix this issue?
(Haa, care to guess who this is defacing Dallas downtown?)
~ CJ ~
P.S. Its NOT me( I am way too well-mannered for such barbarianism.

Skepticism vs. The Tools-Skills Mindset

Posted at June 8, 2007

One of the things I look for in friends, business partners and other people I might have recurring social contact
with is The Tools-Skills Mindset.
Whenever I come across a new technology, idea or theory that claims to be able to accomplish something
beneficial, I immediately set about learning How to do it. I really dont care how strange or weird it seems at first.
The only thing I care about is: Does it work?
Take EFT(emotional freedom technique), for instance, it seems strange at first glance. But, Im a believer. I have
a book showing brain scans of a person before and then after 12 sessions of EFT. But, thats not why I believe. I
believe because I tried it and it worked. Others have tried it and it worked as well.
Do I care about the theory of WHY it works? Not at this time. Usually what Ill do is get technically good at
something first and then study the underlying theory if doing so matches with my goals in some way.
Another set of tools in my toolbox came from HUNA. Do I believe in the theory? No. Can I do the Huna Ha-Rite?
Like a champ.
This Tools-Skills mindset is why Im willing to try almost anything if I think itll help with a goal/project Im working
This comes from an overarching mindset of Results. When you are clear about what you want and are a resultsoriented individual you get things done. You dont give a shit about how weird something sounds, who promotes
it, whether or not you like them, whether or not you like their marketing or even how much it costs. The question:
Do they have something that could help me get there faster, easier, cheaper, in better style, etc?
If you want to become a top performer adopt the Tools-Skills Mindset.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. Keep an eye on mine and Sinns blog next week for a big announcement.
P.P.S. Future wrote a great post on Skill and Talent.

Lay Report: I Just Cant Take It Any

Posted at June 12, 2007

LR: I just cant take it any more!

Sinn and I hit the venue. Its friggin dead the whole night until about midnight.

I spy a tall brunette (5 8 but with heals almost 6) with a nose ring so I open with the Nose Ring LIO. She smiles
immediately and answers yes and starts to tell me about all her other piercings. I finish the back story and she
asks me why I was in NYC.
This allows me to get my cosmo routine in but it so damn loud in that place Im not sure if it hit. We turn back
around and I pull her to a stool and get locked in.
Now I can tell shes really into me so I continue with my ambition campaign and then roll into Strawberry Fields.
Shes with 3 dudes who I dont bother to befriend because a) They look like theyre in the mafia and I dont wanna
get whacked b) she was so into me it was no longer necessary.
I get distracted for a second (cant remember why) and back turn her. She backturns me and starts talking to the
Mafia again.
I pull her shoulder and then go straight for the number close.
We text back and forth for a few days and then she comes up to meet me, Juice (aka Dr. Dave) and Sinn at a
different bar after ending her shift at Wing House. But, she wont come into the bar and she wont say why.
Finally, it dawns on me. Shes not yet 21.
CJ: aaaaaah, youre not over 21 are you?
HBCantTakeIt: well, almost(.
CJ: How old?
HBCantTakeIt: 20
CJ: oh my God. Youre just a Baaaaaaby!
HBCantTakeIt: Stop! Im not like most 20 year olds(
We chat for about 20 minutes in the parking lot before she leaves. (I thought she was 19 but I was getting her
confused with a super hot 19 year old cocktail waittress that I gamed and number closed earlier that night.)
Day2: Out with Juice, Sinn, El Topo.
That bitch Sinn pulled (again) and we were all eating at this cool little after hours place that Juice knows about
while hating Sinn.
HBCantTakeIt and I had been texting back and forth all day and she said she wants to hang out after Im done. I
convince her to come eat with us and she does.
She rolls in sits with us. El Topo and Juice were having some cool conversation about history that I wanted to
jump in on but I started the process of warming her up instead.
We get to the Pirate Pad and she brings in a bottle of Grey Goose. I pour myself a thimble shot into my glass of
juice and hook her up Twitchy-Style with her drink (by Twitchy-Style I mean about 2 ounces of Juice and filled to
the brim with Vodka).
We start making out and I get LMR. Her ass is so fucking beautiful I literally want to take a picture of it for those
lonely nights. I could just curl up with the picture. Get some of the finest lotion around. Have the towel or sock
already to go and then practice self-love. But, alas, she tells me shes too shy and shes a good girl.
CJ: I want you to be a good girl with everyone else and be a really, really bad girl for me.
Doesnt work.
My boner is so hard I could use it to bust rocks. Im grinding hardcore and then I stop(
(wait, a second(
We already have solution for situations like this. Sinn told me hes given up on LMR and instead he just jerks off
on the girls.
So, thats what I did. But I didnt expect her reaction. She LOVED it. She went nuts and started rubbing herself
and pinching her nipples.
I filled her hot little pierced belly button (with those fucking sweet abs) with my Man Jam.
We fell asleep and she took me back to my car the next day.
Day 3:
She arrives at my place at about 1:00 am. She tried to flake earlier but I got real stern on the phone.
CJ: What? I didnt go out tonight because you said you were coming over. Get out of bed and get your ass over
here! And bring a bathing suit.
She paused for about 5-10 seconds and Im thinking shit, shes either going to cry, hang up or say something

HB: God, that was so hot.
She arrives and we hit the hot tub. Earlier I got a text from Sinn sex in hot tub check. Im thinking that sounds
like a good idea.
But, no go.
Instead we have a frame battle. Shes trying to get into gf/dating frame and Im telling her Im bad news, that Im
only good for sex.
I also start my dont like jealous/clingy girls framing (which I shouldve started on the Day2).
I also do quick, intense make-outs and then push her away. This drives her crazy until she attacks me in the hot
We get out of the hot tub and go back inside. Im hungry so we hit Whataburger. While Im eating I say, Do you
want some?
She says, Oh yes.
CJ: Ok, heres some fries.
HBCantTakeIt: I wasnt talking about the food.
She suddenly starts making out again but Ive only chewed the last chicken strip about way. Clumps of partially
chewed chicken end up in her gum. Haa. Romantic. Sexy.
She plays Scarface Game on the Playstation for awhile.
I throw on X-men 3.
I ignore X-men and start working on her. More LMR. But, my framing has taken hold.
HBCantTakeIt: You want me to be bad for you?
CJ: Yes, bad girls are fucking sexy.
Then, its just a matter of breaking through her remaining LMR through 2 minor freeze-outs.
I go down on her but she wont let me take off her panties. No problem. I pretend like theyre not there.
Panties soon come off.
And, the rest is history.
She said thats the first time shes had sex in a year. Shes called HBCantTakeItAnyMore because while I was
fucking her like Peter North from behind she was screaming I just cant take it any more in cadence
with my strokes.

BJR: Intuition
Posted at June 15, 2007

Its Wednesday night and Im on a day2 with a cute girl. Shes nothing special but shes cool, has great lips and a
nice J-Lo booty.
We met about about 8:30 for drinks. I am toying with Time Constrained Day2s so I told her wed meet from 8:00
to 10:00 as I had to meet friends at 10:30. (My goal was to try to close but if it wasnt going anywhere to bail and
go meet Sinn.)
Its about 11:00 and were making out. Ive already laid down Strawberry Fields and the Cosmo Pattern and shes
going crazy. Im deep into my Ambition campaign but Im having to rebuff her Provider type questions with C&F
because I dont want her for more than once or twice.
It also helps that my phone is blowing up with texts from Sinn and 3 HBs about every 10 minutes.
So, about 11:00 I hear a voice inside my head, Captain! Pull her to your place for Hookah now!!!
I think Good idea but for some dumb reason never do it. We talk more. By this time I imagine were grossing
people out in the bar because it looks like we are trying to each others faces off.
That said, every single HB8-HB10 in the bar has decided to eye fuck me and dance right next to us.
Random guys come by and give me nods, even a high five.

The band rocks, the conversation is actually cool and the makeouts are a blast. She tried to tell me shes a bad
girl but I dont accept it. This sets up a challenge and she starts talking dirty. I reciprocate. I have major wood.
About 1:00 am I propose we go smoke the hookah (only 2 hours late!) and she says K, lets go!
I get to the car and let her in and she says, Well, its late, just take me to my car. We can do hookah another
I act like its no big deal. I drive her over to her car and start to escalate. Things get hot and heavy and I put her
hand on my package and say, Look what youre doing to me! (One of my favorite tactics because I read
somewhere that women get a huge sexual and ego thrill when they know theyve given a man a boner.)
She starts rubbing frantically and then starts sucking on my thumb.
I get the subtle (haaa) kino metaphor and undo my pants and guide her head down.
Niiiiiice. I unbutton her pants and feel the J-Lo booty and do a wraparound to start fingering her.
She is about to explode.
Halfway to finish a voice in my head says, Captain! Tell her itll be more comfortable in the back seat and hop
back there!
I ignore again!
When I finally try it about 20 minutes later the sexual vibe and intensity has dropped to about 1/3 of the previous
level. She says, Oh, I would but I have to be up at 9am.
Damnit. This shouldve been an LR. But, she is done as soon as I can get her over.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. You may be wondering why I wrote this as I usual only write LRs. The reason is to burn this shit into my
mind not to ignore my PU Intuition. Also, I think theres some good stuff you can use in there. Anybody learn

Captain Jack says:

June 16, 2007 at 11:52 am

The weight loss plan is still trucking along just fine. I had to go buy some new jeans as the others are getting too
loose. Im losing about 2.5 3 lbs per week and getting stronger.
The surprising thing is I eat like shit and it doesnt matter. Sinn and I ate mexican food 4 times last week.
I attribute it to the Testosterone Report and the Whole body blasting.
Ill update the other blog as soon as I can get my daughter to take two more pictures. I dont think any of my
friends are down with taking pictures of me in my boxers haa.
~ CJ ~

Lay Report: Tastes Kinda Like Snot

Posted at June 18, 2007

This is an extremely graphic Lay Report. If that offends you, go here.

The Strip club was a bust. Earlier in the week I number closed a hot 19-year old cocktail waittress at the best strip
club weve found so far(so we cant go back there otherwise shell think Im stalking.
The strippers dont approach us. Sinn says its because we dont look desperate, we look like we get laid so they
dont approach.
We bail and head to X-Bar. Its karaoke night but kinda dead because its a new venture for this place.

I get a text from the girl from BJR: Intuition and tell her where were at. Sinn number closed one of her friends
when we met a week or so ago. When she got there she was way hotter than we both remembered. She got lasik
last week and was wearing better clothes. She comes over and starts chatting Sinn.
My girl comes over and hugs me.
Its on and we pick up where we left off. Make-outs. Dirty talk. All that sweet stuff.
She finally says, If I take you home and fuck you, will you be gentle so I can walk at work tomorrow?
Ive started telling girls that Im going to punish their little vaginas. I tell them they wont be able to walk tomorrow.
That theyll be limping for a few days. Its great fun.
I told her No. Im going to destroy it. or something similar.
Sinn has two jealousy threads going and his girl is getting flustered. (But, serves her right she was trying a power
play and didnt realize who she was dealing with haa).
I almost pull off the bounce to Sinns Targets house but it falls apart somewhere. I get my girl to take me and Sinn
to his place.
We start escalating on the couch during Entourage and Sinn soon makes himself scarce.
I decide I want to hit it on the balcony.
So, there we are on Sinns balcony. I got her here by attacking her neck. Thats her weak spot. She goes ape shit
when I suck on her neck and breath heavy in her here.
Sinn has crashed out in his room. But, we still have an audience. A voyeur is watching us from a higher floor.
Two, I think, by the movement of the blinds.
Im doing my best to destroy that J-Lo booty with a series of handprint grade spanks.
Unfortunately, I cant come because of the alcohol imbibance. I put her on the cool concrete floor of the balcony
and start jackhammering away. But, that arrangement lasts barely a minute because of the wear and tear on my
Finally, realizing Im not going to cum, I stand up and start jerking it. Her mouth becomes a suction cup on my
We still have an audience.
Shes very good at this(too good. Im about to go. I angle it upwards and it shoots off landing on her cheek and
in her hair. I still have my head thrown back enjoying the after shocks. Then, I look around to see if we still have
an audience. Check.
She stands up and says, mmmm(.bite my neck
I go to work on her neck like the Vampire Lestat, only to discover the freak has wiped my come from her cheek all
over her neck.
(Tastes kinda like snot.)
~ Captain Jack ~

100% Sell Out

Posted at June 19, 2007

I realized tonight that Ive only sold out about 80% to the PUA lifestyle.
I used to believe that by going through the PUA training and socialization that we could somehow end up as
I no longer believe this to be true. If you arent a Natural (whatever that means) by 18 you are NEVER going to be
a natural.
But, the sorry is only a token apology because what awaits you is something far greater.
Naturals must be pretty fucking frustrated. Sure, they get laid quite often BUT it is hit or miss. And, they dont
necessarily get the girls they REALLY want.

A TRUE PUA has a greater chance at getting the girl he truly wants and getting laid AT WILL than the Natural.
I used to hope/wish/dream that through my PUA training Id morph into a Natural. No longer. I now know that I will
NOT settle for being a mere Natural.
I now know that being a Natural is the equivalent of being imprisoned. Of being UNAWARE of the attitudes and
behaviors that get you what you want.
Tonight I torpedoed it all. I sank my ego and opened multiple sets under the premise that Naturals are inferior
anomalies. That they are simply statistical products of the mass of men who go out.
And, my Game went VERY well.
I now realize that I was only 80% sold out to PUA-dom. Ive committed to sell out 100%. Im now 100%
And, it feels good.
The outrageousness. The peacocking. The egoless opening. The pushing past all custom boundaries and
limitations of those under Societys influence (including even the Naturals). Its ALL gone.
Its time to forget about being other than a PUA. Forget being a Natural. Forget about being Normal. Normal
men get normal girls.
I sent this text to every PUA in my phone:
I realize ive only sold out 80 percent its a revelation i abandoned what made me good im returning to my
pua roots its going to be insane
This was RIGHT before I opened an 2set with Styles two part kiss(made out with both of them and watched
them make out with each other. The main Target had a boyfriend who left just 10 minutes before. The other girl
was jealous. I nearly pulled both of them to the Pirate Pad for hooka but 3 of their tribe got weird. Then, an HB9
who Ive been working on at Glacial speed called and I got distracted.
Sell out. 100%. Right now.
So, who is with me?
~ Captain Jack ~

The Borden Formula

Posted at June 19, 2007

One of the greatest living copywriters (probably THE greatest) has just written an article on story construction
based on the work of the public speaking genius named Borden.
You can read it here:
The Borden Formula

Half Digested Potato Wedges

Posted at June 21, 2007

You can read Sinns version here.

We roll into the Strip club at 8. The previous day we set out to hit the strip club at about 3 and ended up not
getting to one about 8 or 9. This was one of our indicators that God hates us. The SECOND time we tried it the
same shit happened. Weird.

Anyway, we get to the strip club at about 8. The girls were young and I thought mostly hot but Sinn regards any
girl without a D cup a mutant.
Lucky for us our cocktail waittress is an HB10. True blue HB10. Absolutely gorgeous.
I get bored while hes gaming and start choding out by giving dollars away. Sinn tells the waittress that I dragged
him here. That I love strip clubs and Im a pervert thats why I keep going up there with dollars begging for some
female love and attention.
As soon as I pull money out of my pocket the dancers heads snap in my direction. They angle their little noses up
and sniff the air. I swear they can fucking smell dollar bills.
Before I know it Im swarmed by a gaggle of 21-year old hard bodied strippers trying to crack my frame. I try my
damnedest to turn off their programming. I decide to have fun and sell my $20 sunglasses for $40.00 I almost
had the sale, too money was in her hand, exchange about to be made when her ADD kicked in (or she smelled
fresh money come out of someones pocket.)
Sinn finally number closes his girl in between telling her that I drive a camaro and wear wife beaters and troll high
school playgrounds for dates.
We cab it to the infamous x-bar. Busy enough. Their are 3 waittresses their who love me but I have some
retarded emotional block about properly gaming them. It sucks.
On the way we played How many girls that CJ has already banged will be there I said over-under 3. Turns out it
was 2 and two that I got LMR from.
Sinn drinks.
We order food. I get cheese sticks and he gets potato wedges (foreshadowing).
Sinn drinks more.
Sinn opens a set. She looked hot from far away and sitting down but gained 25 pounds upon standing up.
Sinn drinks more.
So does CJ.
Were looking for sets. A tall hot blonde strolls by. We simultaneously open Youre very tall and then bust out
laughing. She laughs too but keeps on walking. Shes lucky, she almost got spit-roasted.
Sinn drinks more.
Twitchy and Fidelio roll in and Sinn drinks more.
We bullshit for a bit but Im getting frustrated cause I want to open a set.
I go to the other side and open a cute brunnette with nice ta tas using the Chode Destroyer Omigod, hed be
perfect for you(hed take you to expensive dinners(call you 15 times a day(send you flowers all the time!
She says, No, he wouldnt because hes my boyfriend and he doesnt do any of that.
We chat a bit more and he leaves to get more drinks at the bar. Shes super attracted. I do a mini-takeaway as a
test. She reopens me.
I tell her to come meet my friends. She comes without saying shit to her bf.
I lock-in on the other side and begin hardcore sexual gaming. We make out. Her bf keeps walking by(but he
wont come over. He texts her. We make out again.
While Im about to throw down my heart melters Fidelio comes over, Dude, theyre kicking Sinn out. Were putting
him in a cab. I hand Fidelio my house keys.
I number close the hb and Twitchy and Fidelio offer to take me home. I get in Twitchys Toyota Corrola and
Fidelio whips out the breathalyzer. CJ is at .16
We get to the Pirate Pad and Sinn is laid out on the couch. While me, Twitchy and Fidelio are making fun of him
he sits up and does his best impression of that demon posessed chick in The Exorcist. Half-digested potato
wedges grace my couch and carpet.
Twitchy takes pictures. Fidelio keeps calling him a hippy fag who cant handle his liquor.
I text the HB and tell her to come swim with me. She texts back she is trying to lose her BF and she will if she can
get him to go home.
I get a text about 3:20 am that says she wants to another time but hes staying over.
I go swimming by myself mainly to let the apartment air out from Sinns gastric juices.
I just got a text from Twitchy. R.I.P. Pirate Pad Couch. I texted back, Dude, a little febreze and its good as
~ Captain Jack ~
Relics says:

June 21, 2007 at 5:40 pm

I thought deprecating your wing was an overall DLV

Captain Jack says:

June 21, 2007 at 6:06 pm

I broke one of the Stripper Rules by going up and giving them money so to salvage his own value he had to DLV.
Also, I made it out to be much worse than it actually was because we were joking about it later.
~ CJ ~

[Asian Playboy] Sexual Anxiety, Part 2

Posted at June 22, 2007

Heres another great guest article by The Asian Playboy. ~ CJ ~

Ahoy ye scalliwags! Im recently back from my international travels and- delayed as it is- heres the promised
continuation of my guest article on Sexual Anxiety.
To begin with, you can go here on Captain Jacks blog to refresh yourself on my exclusive guest article entitledIs
Sexual Anxiety Killing Your Results?
So lets begin( HOW does one defeat or at least start the process of managing this debilitating fear that has
defeated so many newbie PUAs and stumped the intermediate level guys?
Im no psychologist or pie-in-the-sky theorist( when it came to Pick Up, becoming better with women, and just
getting LAID, I did it the hard way. Through field experience and self-learning. MORE IMPORTANTLY, I called
myself out on my weaknesses and OPENING myself up to CONSTRUCTIVE criticisms and input.
So lets talk sex( Im going to break it down into some general categories on how to better manage your Sexual
1. Education (formal and informal, but real and field-tested)
2. Inner Game (motivation, self-control, reward vs punishment)
3. Outer Game (the logistics what, where, and how)
4. Exposure & Gradual Pursuit of Sexual Opportunities
I. SEX ED 101
First, when it comes to sex, you need to be EDUCATED. Ignorance breeds fear so you need to start by
understanding women AND sex as a connected and related pair versus two separate entities.
I wont go into the finer details, but lets establish that I make a marked difference between what I call GENERAL
ATTRACTION versus that of SEXUAL ATTRACTION. Maybe you dont. To which I say, think back to a time when
you had a beautiful woman laughing and smiling at you. Obviously attracted, right? Youre feeling good. You da
Now think back when she started REALLY touching you, gazing into your eyes, licking her lips, accidentally
brushing with her breasts, sexual innuendos, RIGHT BEFORE THE KISS( Call it chemistry and the release of
Dopamine and Norepinephrine, but to me, theres a world of difference between when a woman is simply
engaged into your story and listening to you versus the seriously different PHYSICAL effects shes going through
in a sexual aroused state like:
1. Elevated Heart Rate
2. Perspiration
3. General Feeling of Sexual Arousal (ie getting wet/hard)

4. Loss of Higher Brain Functions (ie logic)

5. Flushed Skin
6. Sweaty Palms
7. Elation
8. Intense Energy
9. Sleeplessness
10. Craving
11. Loss of Appetite
12. Focused Attention
Therefore to me, General Attractions more common and physical signs commonly include:
1. Laughter
2. Feeling of Wellness
3. Feeling of Safety
4. Bonding on Commonalities
In other words, a woman could be ATTRACTED to you, but still not want to SLEEP with you. Theres a big
difference in my mind between being a GOOD conversationalist versus being a good SEDUCER. One of them
makes you a cool guy to be around( the other makes you a good lover. Sometimes theyre the same. More often
theyre not.
But lets continue. There are CONCRETE and identifiable Sexual Arousal Triggers in a woman that can be
consistently and SUCCESSFULLY triggered once youre past the General Attraction phase and into Sexual
Heres just a few off the top of my head:
1. Erotic Thoughts (conversation leading towards imagining sex)
2. Visual perception (how the other looks);
3. Olfaction (how the other smells, naturally or artificially; the wrong smell may be repellent);
4. Audition (how the others voice and/or movements sound).
Now heres the thing about the Sexual Arousal Trigger that is Erotic Thoughts which is both the boon and bane of
average and even some advanced PUAs. Some guys become routine monkeys, that on one hand have allowed
an average PUA to advance from neophyte to somewhat competent, but are limited in their arsenal in the different
ways to turn a woman on.
In other words, conversation is just one way to turn her on so learn to be more physical instead of limiting yourself
to only one method of seduction. Shoot from all barrels versus being overly dependent upon one form of arousal.
Of course, this is why Speed Seduction, the Gunwitch Method, and similar mentalities and use of sexual story
telling comes into play and can be highly useful.
When it comes to Visual Perception, there are a limited number of things you can do. And yes, I do believe looks
matter( to a certain degree. Its not the ultimate factor, but it helps when you present the RIGHT look. In other
words, you can still get the girl if youre a fat slob, but you WILL have to work harder.
For example: getting a better wardrobe is, in my opinion, far easier to do and once done can be EASILY
maintained without any work on your part. Think of it as PASSIVE VALUE (ie you dont have to TRY and make
her attracted, you already are making her attracted to you with what you currently have) versus ACTIVE VALUE
(ie youre actively engaging her and actively working her Attraction Switches as well as Sexual Arousal Triggers(
in other words youre doing work and if theres one thing I- the worlds laziest PUA- hate is work().
Other things might be simply losing or gaining weight and muscle, better hair, tanning, and whitening the teeth.
Pretty simple things that take only a modicum of effort, time, and pain to improve (well, not the working out part).
Other aspects include:
1. Body Language
I think Verbal Game is very important, but I dont think its the END ALL BE ALL. Having the right body language
for the right situation is essential to subcommunicate what you want about yourself. Be it playfulness, confidence,
and emoting with your face, having mastery of your body can easily enhance ones verbal prowess.
Another aspect of Visual Perception is:

2. Dancing
Thats right, I said it( dancing. Its the dreaded D-word that incites terror and nightmares into those who are
afflicted with the disease known as C.R.D. Tough.
Its almost an unwritten truism that you DO NOT OPEN ON THE DANCE FLOOR which has somehow morphed
into this belief that a PUA should never work the dance floor. Poppy-fucking-cock I say.
I am far from a good dancer, but I have taken a few classes and can fake competency. And if theres one thing
OTHER than being Socially Proofed & Pre-Selected by Women that projects HIGH SEXUAL VALUE is the ability
to MOVE and to DANCE.
So yeah, learn how to fucking dance. I dont APPROACH on the dance floor, but Ive used it to isolate, escalate,
and successfully pull a Same Night Lay or simply to close the deal on a date. Its an awesome, inexpensive skill
that you can achieve some competence within six (6) months.
Your best choices are to learn hip-hop and salsa. Ballroom and swing are decent to learn some basic moves,
rhythm and body language, but only if you dont have it in your area as a secondary choice. Better dancing means
better body language to boot.
Women naturally have more sensitive sense of smell than us men. They also respond to certain testosterone
derivatives in our (fresh) sweat that causes the secretion of dopamine in their brain that makes them more
General word of advice (and no, dont go out and buy yourself those scam pheromone colognes) is to avoid
smelling bad. Curiously, Ive never once been denied because I smoked.
Not a whole lot more you can do other than being clean and throwing on cologne. Ive heard about putting on
baby oil (never did that), wearing womens perfume (never intentionally did that), etc. One thing I did find was
using strong scented body wash that matches your cologne. Its something you rub all over yourself and shell
smell all over your body (Ive been told I smell like snow).
Audition isnt quite like the Erotic Thoughts Sexual Arousal Trigger but somewhat similar. It has more to do with
one of the most powerful tools in a mans arsenal, his TONALITY.
Your tonality projects a huge amount of information about you like:
i. Personality
ii. Mood
iii. Educational Level
iv. Culture
v. Sexual Intent
vi. Etc
I also think its important to identify that there are different types of tonalities. One of which is the Sexual Tonality
that can cause a woman to be TURNED ON. Some attributes of a sexy voice (think Barry White) include:
i. Deep voice (bass)
ii. Projecting from the diaphragm (commanding and dominant)
iii. Volume control (whispering sensually versus deafening)
iv. Suspense (intentionally elongating your words)
v. Judicious use of pauses
vi. Speed (slow versus fast)
vii. Etc
Thus, forewarned is forearmed. The point of this portion of the Sexual Anxiety series is understanding that fear
and anxiety comes from a lack of understanding and education. In order to get better at anything- be it picking up
women or riding a motorcycle- you need to start with some basic level of understanding Sexual Arousal and the
BELIEF that you can indeed not only turn her on, but should do so as it is your right and privilege as a man!
But more on that in the next future article about Sexual Anxiety, Inner Game, and You.
The Asian Playboy

LR In Daddys Bed? Or Not. Plus Intuition Part 2

Posted at June 25, 2007

Its Friday night and we hit x-bar. Ive decided to return to my roots and practice creating the PU Aura that has
gotten me laid so many times.
The PU Aura is that amazing state where things open effortlessly, you begin getting approached, you get
hardcore AIs, solid numbers and makeouts all in the same night. All of these work together and build on each
other to create a massive Social Proof/Pre-Selection snowball to make all of your sets solid. (While you can
create the PU Aura without Peacocking it accelerates it()
One of the principles of creating the PU Aura is A.B.I.S. (Always Be in Set). Lately weve been going to a lot of
small (and VERY loud places) which makes creating the PU Aura difficult.
But, x-bar is where I first noticed the PU Aura. It was almost two years ago, I was peacocking, the first 2 set I
opened went extremely well, I paraded them, number closed and then got opened again while going to the other
side to open a set with a girl who gave me an AI while I was parading the 2set.
Guys were giving me props, high fives and girls were giving me AIs all night long. After thinking about what
happened I tried to reproduce the same results. It worked again and thats where I came up with PU Aura, and
designed a few principles and rules to create it as often as possible.
Anyway, I wrapped up a set and I was looking for another. Technically, you are NOT supposed to leave the set
until you know exactly what set youre hitting next because time in between sets works counter to the Aura.
But, a little Latina walked outside to smoke. She was short, big boobs, a little thick but with long black hair and
nice light brown eyes.
CJ: Youre very little.
HB: Oh, haaa, I know and Im even wearing heels. she kicks a heel off and shows me shes about 2-3 inches
shorter than I thought.
I get rolling and its going great. She tries to take over the convo but I remember to stick to my routine stack at
least until I see the flash of true attraction.
We get interrupted by another girl who asks for a cigarette. I think its her friend at first so I start gaming both of
them (this girl was NOT good looking, her only redeeming feature was decent boobs.) They begin competing and
then I realize they dont know each other so I make it known who my Target is so the HBLatina doesnt get
CJ: Youre friend is so adorable! I really like her!
UG: Oh, we dont know each other.
CJ to HBLatina: You have a little lisp, I had a crush on a girl in middle school who had a lisp and it drives me
She gets embarrassed and tells me most people dont notice because she went to speech therapy as a kid and it
rarely comes out (but comes out more when she drinks.)
The UG is still there listening and they begin chatting again. Sinn rolls over and looks at the UG. The oh-shit-CJwhy-are-you-making-me-wing-this-disaster look on his face is unmistakeable.
He declares hes going to need about 3 more drinks and I understand that means CJ, you bastard, you better
get me drunk if you expect me to do this(
HBLatina says she needs to hit the restroom. This is a great opportunity to parade so I take her to the restrooms
and wait.
Sinn tries to game the UG but his heart is not in it. I cant blame him one bit.
I isolate my girl to the other side where we chat a bit more. I qualify her and she responds with Im going to
school to be a journalist.
I do bait-hook-reel-release and as shes feeling the effects I go back into rapport via the Question Game.
As always, my last question is You want to kiss me, dont you? but now instead of waiting for an answer I just
move in for the kiss.
She has to be up early for work in the morning so I hookah TB for Sunday night.
*** The Day2: Sunday Night ***

She told me on the phone that she lives with her dad right now who is always traveling for business. Shes only
been here for 4 weeks and was going to get an apartment but hes never there so she feels like its hers anyway.
I talk to Sinn on the phone briefly as Im rolling over. He just spent the day with one of his hotties and has another
SUPER hot, sexy girl from Friday night coming to his place.
I joke with him about banging her in her daddys bed. I decide that is my goal for the evening. Not only do I want
to bang this dirty little big-boobed Latina, I want to do it in her daddys bed.
And, while Im doing it, I want to talk dirty about it.
I get to her place and she comes out to meet me. She looks better than the PU night. That night she was wearing
a dress that did not accentuate her features (big boobs, j-lo booty). In fact, the dress made her look too chubby.
She looks a good 1-2 points higher tonight. She has a yellow half shirt, half exposed boobs, tight ripped jeans and
when she turns around she has a tattoo that says, Latina in cursive with a Red rose and thorns wrapped around.
Boner ensues.
We made out a couple times at x-bar so my goal was to see how far I could take it once inside. Why go out if you
dont need to?
We talked for ten minutes and I started upping the kino. Make outs. Back off. Make out. Tension at breast feel.
CJ: Hey, x-bar has karaoke lets go make fun of some people.
We get there and it is filled with Honeys. I want to Game.
There is a girl Ive already f-closed there. She just smiles because shes seen me there a billion times on Day2s
and doing pick-ups.
I roll into my comfort stack:
First Child Brings Surge of Ambition.
Let Grandma Buy You Some New Jeans.
Cosmo Routine.
I meant to bring out the A-Bomb ($18 for the Light Bill) but kept delaying it for later.
She keeps qualifying herself to me. Every sentence is a qualifier. She compliments me about 100 times. Im a
sucker for compliments.
We periodically make out. Sinn texts me he just f-closed his 5th girl for the month. That puts me 3 behind. I text
back U fucking suck.
What I shouldve wrote was, I fucked a chick on your balcony before you did and Im gunning for your elevator,
About midnight my intuition says, Take her back to her place. Close the deal. Shes ready.
Having learnt my lesson last time (see BJR: Intuition) I say, Lets get out of here. grab her hand and walk out.
We get back to her place and head straight to the room.
This is where the gods smiled on me (finally). When her dad is gone she sleeps in his room. On his bed. Which is
where we are(which is where Im pulling her hair, spanking her and telling her I want to taste her.
Clothes come off. Escalation goes smooth. I had to back down once or twice (using the Tension LMR Tactic) but
Ive noticed since Ive become a lot rougher I get less LMR. Spanking hard, pulling hair, tossing girls around and
dirty talk minimize it.
While she is riding me I say, You fucking bad girl, were fucking in your daddys bed.
She goes nuts and starts moaning and riding me like a banshee. I think she is going to break my penis.
Im getting worried about this(I dont want a broken penis. I consider trying to slow her down.
But, about one minute later she squirts all over her daddys comforter.
I smile and think about how good my life is. She squirts 4 more times. I feel like a rockstar-pornstar-gangsta.
After were done. She asks me if Im ok, if I need something to drink or if I want her to make me something to eat.
Then, I remember why I like Latinas so much.
~ Captain Jack ~

Lay Report: Welcome to the Jungle!

Posted at June 27, 2007

Its 2:30 am. (This Lay Report is about a cougar and sexual framing and how it makes Game tons easier()
I just got out of an hour long battle with a 2set with Protection Shields bigger, longer and stronger than the Great
Wall of China.
I still number closed my Target. Her mouth was saying one thing but her body language was saying quite another.
After number closing her friend says, Has anyone ever told you your persistent? haaa.
Me, Dr. Dave, Sinn and El Topo are at Steak. Shake.! when a 3set rolls in. I recognize HBTenessee from a 2set
that Sinn and I gamed about a month ago. I tell him and we stroll up. I want to give him a chance with
HBTennessee so I go to the obstacles opposite shoulder and open her.
Shes actually quite good looking, but a tad older than my recent sarges. Thats ok, her face is great. Brownishred hair, light blue eyes, nice teeth, nice smile and big boobs.
In short, shes a young Cougar at a mere 37 years old. (This is debatable. It seems Cougar is not well-defined.
Ive seen minimum age anywhere from 35+ to 45+. Here are the many entries in the Urban Dictionary)
We banter back and forth for about 5 minutes. They are waiting for an order so I have to work quick. I hookah
timebridge and she hands me her card.
Were done.
We text that night twice then once the next day. I use a time-constrained day2 text to invite her out.
CJ: Hey, gotta meet friends at a club about 11:00 but lets have a drink at x-bar from 8:30 10:30
HB: Cant make it that early but thanks for the invite.
Instead of suggesting an alternate time I let it go thinking Ill just go Game tonight. About 20 minutes later she
texts: Can we make it 9:30?
CJ: Sure, see you there.
She gets there and her face looks even better. Her face is a 9 in my book. We sit down and have a drink.
We sit on opposite sides of the booth. This is on purpose. I want her to feel comfortable first. Plus, I wanna see
how aggressive this cougar is(I may not even have to lift one of my young, innocent fingers.
Not aggressive. In fact, shes nervous. She keeps wringing her hands.
I start with small talk to give her a chance to calm down. We get on work subjects which allows me to start my
Ambition campaign.
I run Discovery Channel which goes off like a sexual a-bomb.
We talk about family(
Heart Melter: Let Grandma Buy You a New Pair of Jeans.
Heart Melter: First Child Brings Surge of Ambition.
Rings on fingers with lots of hand kino.
HBCougar: Do you have a hand fetish?
Wow! That was out of the blue!
CJ: ummm(..no(.why?
HB: Well, you touched my hands a lot at Steak. Shake.! so(
CJ: Oh, haaa, its just a way to touch without being too creepy.
I go to the bathroom, get us two more drinks and sit on the same side as her.
Strawberry Fields. Her answers: Fence = 4 feet, No. of Strawberries = As many as I can get my hands on., The
Farmer = Ill pay him off.
We have fun with that. Now, its time for the Question Game.
Shes not going sexual but I am(I pull her to the band side and ask my final question: You want to kiss me, dont
She stands up and makes out with me and then says, Actions speak louder than words.
Now Ive got body kino and while her face is Grand, her body is kind of flabby. Not fat, just not firm like Im used to
with the 25 and lower hotties Ive been gaming lately.
This is not making me happy. Boobs are still good, though, so its a go.
I keep accusing her of trying to get me drunk and blowing on my breathalyzer.

CJ: I dont have to be up until about 1:00 tomorrow. (baiting to see what time she has to be up.)
HBCougar: I have to be up about 11:30(I have an appointment at 1:00.
I bring up the Hookah again and mention how I have one at my apt.
I blow a .13 and tell her Im now drunk and not responsible for anything I say or do from here on out. She aks how
Im going to get home and I tell her Ill call friends or a cab(OR(we could stop drinking here and drink
somewhere else.
HBCougar: ***making cougar noises*** Like where?
CJ: Well, were both adults with our own apartments, Im sure we could find a place.
HB: Cant be my place, my brother lives with me.
CJ: Guess its my place then.
We chat more and I avoid the beer. I run to the bathroom and blow again 0.07 sweeet! now Ill just wait another
10 minutes and I can drive her to the Pirate Pad (TM).
10 minutes later.
CJ: Lets go!
HB: Just like that? Lets go?
CJ: Yep.
We close out and head to my place.
I put on 40 year old virgin and begin making out. We get down and dirty. Nice face and boobs but rest of body just
doesnt cut it.
Take her back to her car at x-bar about 9:30 this morning.
~ CJ ~

Kill the Excuse Generator In Your Head

Posted at June 30, 2007

The difference between the successful and the unsuccessful is so paper thin Im constantly astounded.
Take my client and Warrior-King contributor Andrew Scott as an example. He used to scrape by with a small
martial arts school in the midwest.
Now, he runs a VERY successful martial arts direct mail company. I do most of the ad writing but hes turned into
a great ad writer himself. I often critique and tighten it up. Hes still regularly paying me for ads I wrote nearly 3
years ago.
Then, theres another guy (to remain nameless) who I wrote an ad for just a few months ago. He wanted changes.
I made them. He wondered if we were on the right track. I assured him we were. He wanted to change our
agreement in midstream and wanted yet more revisions. His partner finally got fed up and bailed on him.
I told him no more revisions until he paid me his balance.
I keep an eye on the media he wouldve been advertising in and guess what, he hasnt done a damn thing.
The difference is Andrew killed the Excuse Generator in his head (or, at the very least, ignores it).
I see it all the time. People are introduced to a new idea, it sounds too good to be true and they start Yeah,
butting( until any sliver of hope is gone.
I think a lot of the problems stem from not realizing that we are all potentially equal. The difference between you
and anyone else is LITTLE more than consistent behaviors.
Its not even beliefs in the strictest sense of the word. Its FUNCTIONAL BELIEFS, its those beliefs that lead to
actions. But, your behaviors and beliefs CAN conflict.
And, when they do conflict guess which one defines the landscape of your life(your behaviors.
So, the first thing to do is Kill the Excuse Generator in Your Head. Its not Yeah, but( its If I could, how would

If I could, how would I?

To paraphrase Ayn Rand,
You, as man, are a heroic being. Your own happiness is the moral purpose of your life. Productive achievement is
your noblest activity. Reason is your only absolute.
Allow yourself to dream again(and while dreaming(ask yourself, If I could, how would I?
Then, map it out and go for it.
~ Captain Jack ~

Time Constrained Day2s

Posted at July 2, 2007

(are one of my new favorite things to do. I created them mainly because I hate spending more than a couple
hours on a Day2 if I know its not going to end in hot lovin.
So, I started setting up my Day2s like so: Hey, on x-day I have to meet my friends at 10:00 but lets grab a drink
or two from 7:30 to 9:30.
My thinking was if it doesnt go well, I have an automatic out and then I can go meet my Wing and Game
somewhere else If it does go well, which it has all 3 times Ive tried it, then I just keep hanging out until Ive cycled
through attraction/comfort enough times to bounce to the Pirate Pad.
Out of the 3 NONE of them have mentioned my supposed plans, I just keep running through my Game Plan all
the way through.
Ive decided Im going to do it this way every time from here on out. It takes the pressure off of both of you, if you
do leave then shell be wanting more (what guy leaves if theres even a REMOTE chance of him getting laid?
almost none!), and you get to go and Game.
Or, you get laid.
Not a bad scenario in any case.
~ Captain Jack ~

How I Lost a Same Night Lay

Posted at July 5, 2007

El Topo and I were out practicing our drinking skills when we decided we would much rather be making love to
We started opening sets after midnight.
My first set was cute but she was attached and invested in someone else and I decided I didnt want to work that
We briefly chatted with the Gang Bang Girls but I got bored because I dont want to do either of them but at least
we got a little social proof from it.
About 1:30 I opened a tall (slightly thick) brunnette with massive boobies. I decided after about 2 minutes that I
was going to SNL her and I adjusted my gaming alternating between heavy sexual suggestion and comfort.
I have no idea what happened to El Topo. I think he went and had sex with one of his past girls in her car.

At 2:00 we walked out together and she said, Wheres your car? I pointed in the general direction of my car and
kept walking to hers. I ignore or gloss over anything that doesnt serve me in the set and me getting in my car
surely doesnt help.
I climbed in and told her to take me home. I showed her the breathalyzer as proof that I was unable to operate a
motor vehicle in the State of Texas. (Btw, Im having so much fun with this portable breathalyzer. Not only does it
force me to drink less, I use it as an excuse to be a jack-ass. Wow! Im at .15(Im no longer responsible for what
I say or do(gawd, you have spectacular tits!)
I use my favorite kiss close, Oh, look, a red light. You know what that means! and then I make out with her. Its
literally never failed but I guess when youre in a girls car having her drive you home you could just start making
out with her anyway.
We get to my place and I shove her against the wall in the corridor outside my apt. door. We start making out
hardcore, feel the beautiful breasts, bite her neck and think to myself Shes going to get destroyed!
I reach for my keys and discover Theyre Not There!!!!!!!
We have to drive all the way back and get my house keys out of the Jeep.
Get back home. Make out. Clothes start flying off. LMR. Do the get food in the kitchen by myself freeze-out. I
wouldve used the jack-n-the-box freeze out but I didnt have my car.
Man, those boobs were spectacular!
I start using the jerking off LMR tactic and she begs me to come on her tits. Alas, too much alcohol and I couldnt
I told her to suck it but she wanted me to put on a condom for a blow job?!?!?!?!? Ive never heard of such
Anyways, Im down to the last condom after me recent run of lays and its the one in my wallet.
I pull it out but its all screwed up. It wont go on right.
I believe THATs where I lost the lay. I think if she wouldve given me a BJ then it wouldve overwhelmed her
enough to play just the tip and then finally give in(
I just bought a super huge box of Magnums. This will NEVER happen again.
~ Captain Jack ~

Thanks to all the PUAs who

Posted at July 5, 2007

(have submitted my blog postings to SargeNation and Grow Your Game I believe I have several articles on the
first page of both sites.
Thanks for submitting me guys!
~ CJ ~

Lay Report: The Acrobatic Monkey

Posted at July 7, 2007

LR: The Acrobatic Monkey

Sinn and I roll to x-bar and start scoping out sets. I have another girl, HBPlainJane, coming up to see me. Sinn is
getting drinks at the bar when two little latin girls come and stand within Proximity AI range. From my peripherals I
dont think they are hot. Sinn brings me a drink and immediately opens what he thought was a mixed 3set (2f,
1m). I get a good look after about two minutes of him gaming and Im thinking Damnit ones hot and ones very
Hes in and HBPlainJane has shown up with her friend. But, I gotta wing Sinn so Im strategizing as to the best
way to pull this off. Id give the slight nod to HBPlainJane because she gets me for some reason, I dont know why
because she is pretty plain. Its odd. But, whatever, Ive got her set up for next Tuesday night.
I keep bouncing between HBPlainJane and Sinns obstacle. Just for fun and because Im drunk I tell Sinns
Obstacle to tell the Target that he LOVES to dance but he wont ask girls to dance so shed have to pull him to the
dance floor.
He sees me with a shit eating grin and he steps over and says, What? and I smile even wider and say, Ive just
put a sinister plan into motion. muahaaahaaha and theres Sinn getting dragged to the dance floor. Man, thats
such a fun trick.
Sinn flips me off.
While they are on the dance floor Im gaming the obstacle and periodically texting my HB who is sitting a mere 6
feet away at a table watching.
I tell her that I really want to see her and talk to her but I promised Sinn Id be his wingman tonight. She texts back
that shes a cool girl and she understands and she wants to see me later if I can.
After I believe I have the obstacle hooked I spend more time with HBPlainJane and make out with her several
times while grabbing her ass and blatantly staring at her tits.
They leave and Sinn who has already started seeding the Bounce says its time to go. The 2set drives us home.
Me and the obstacle start making out in the back seat.
The girl from LR: In daddys bed? is calling and texting me for some late night loving. HBPlainJane is texting me
to see if I want to come over to her place.
This is awesome.
We get into Jons place and I dont even think we ever really sit down together. It seems like he just pulled her
straight to the room and I tossed mine on the couch.
She loves anal play but Im having trouble. I had this once before about a year ago where Im hard as a rock until I
put on a condom and then it softens. My penis hates condoms. This usually lasts a few weeks and then Im good
as new. Not sure what the deal is(
I finally get it back hard enough and enter and stay in for about 1 minute before it goes soft again.
I tell her to give oral but she wont. Grrrrr. This is another weird occurrence. The last one wouldnt give it unless I
had a condom on and this one wont at all.
Shes jerking me off and its working. Im about to reenter when Sinn comes out.
He wants to go eat. We get dressed and we mention were going to try the switch. Were both going to try and
close each others targets after eating. I suggest doing a Running Clown but we remember we dont have
enough supplies for that. Sinn mentions doing a Laughing Squirrel but we realize there are only 2 of us and you
need 3 people for that.
Then, almost as if we had an esp connection we both exclaimed, Acrobatic Monkey!
So, when we got into the parking garage Sinn and the other girl (the one I closed) got out of the car. I told Sinn I
needed some diet coke. He said, Cool, were going to look for her phone. I looked at the girl Sinn closed, the
driver, and before I could say anything she offered to drive me.
At the store I texted Sinn, You really want me to do this? he texted back, I am.
I got the drinks and then when she parked back in the parking garage I pulled her arm and started making out
with her. She looked at me dumbfounded and said, I just had sex with your friend. I said, I know, I just had sex
with your friend.
Then, we made out again. She was very confused and very turned on.
We got to the gate and I called Sinn, no answer, then she called her friend who answered. They had to come
down to let us in.

We made out again and she said, Theyre coming to get us!
CJ: I know! Exciting isnt it!
The security guard comes and lets us in before they get to us and we hit the elevator. As my finger was drifting to
the 7th floor button my mind was saying, Nooooo(you idiot! Go to the 10th floor and get lost to give more time
for escalation! but my hand just kept drifting till it hit the 7 button. Damn.
More making out but her ASD is going up. I pull her shirt aside and suck on her tit. She keeps mentioning how we
all just had sex together but shes not resisting at all. Im thinking its a big possibility.
When we get back inside she goes to the restroom. Sinn and I give each other knowing looks.
When they leave we debrief each other. We were very close to the double close. Im wondering what wouldve
happened had we convinced them to stay and tried again.
~ Captain Jack ~

Lay Report: CJ Crashes A Gay Rave

Posted at July 8, 2007

LR CJ Crashes A Gay Rave

Our 4th venue of the night. The previous ones all had issues and the only reason we were here was because El
Topo was doing a one-on-one and had bottle service and could get us into this club.
But, this wasnt really our scene. It was too hip-hoppy.
Except in the mainly empty VIP room which was techno, nice and dark and with pretty cool seating.
Sinn and I roll around and cant find anything to open. He sees a 3set (2f, 1m) where the hot obstacle looks bored
and he spins the wheel of openers. I give him some room to maneuver over there and when I turn back around
theres a hot girl about 3 feet in front of me smiling. I smile. She says, Hi. I say hi. Do we know each other?
HBSwimmer: No. I dont think so.
What happened here is I suck when a girl opens me. I dont know why but it catches me off guard. I do a lot of
stupid small talk like my next few sentences(
CJ: Oh, you look familiar. I like your necklace.
What I did do right at this point was reposition my body to get locked in. Still stumbling verbally I decide to get my
bearings by using my routine stack(
CJ: Do you believe magical spells work?
Ok, technically this was dumb but it was much better than my bumbling around in small talkville.
I finish the story. Tell her shes short to tease her and she makes another minute or two of small talk, thankfully.
Then, she moves me to the dance floor. Shes really hot but being ADD. Sinn rolls back over and we go to the
edge of the dance floor to meet him. At this point, Im still deciding what Im going to do. I decide theres nothing
else here and Ill ignore her ADD because shes extremely hot and go for the SNL.
She intros herself to Sinn and he gets her super attracted in about one minute. Then, he asks me if Im going to
game her or not. I tell him shes ADD but Im going to try for the SNL so he backs off.
We go meet her friends in VIP. There are 6 dudes and one of them is gay. Flaming guy. Which is always funny.
I let her be ADD and just keep being cool and pumping her attraction up. She buys me 2 drinks and a shot and I
accuse her of trying to get me drunk.
She says shes not that easy and I ignore it and instead talk about why Im never coming here again. I ask her
who drove to the venue. She did(Nice.
CJ: Hmmm(.youre not the jealous type are you? I then tell her the Girlfriend who deleted all my numbers
story. She tells me she isnt jealous at all and she acts more like a guy when it comes to relationships.
Sinn comes over and tells me hes going to leave and go have sex with his HB10 waitress. He says El Topo will
give me a ride and I tell him Im trying for the SNL.

My Target is dancing with the flamer. El Topo is gaming a hot, young, black cocktail waitress and I go over to him
to give my Target Fear of Loss. I get Sinns number from El Topo because my cell is dead and Sinn has my car
When I come back she says, I thought I lost you! and starts hugging me. I think we kissed at this point but I cant
CJ: My friend just left and I rode with him(
HB: He left? How are you going to get home? Did he think you were leaving with me(Im not like that(
CJ: Oh, Ill call a cab or something. No big deal. He got a booty call from this waitress so hes going to see her.
She does more dirty dancing and close to closing time she tells me to come to an afterparty with her.
Now, when I say afterparty I mean more alcohol and maybe the hookah. When her friends say afterparty they
mean drugs.
We get there and there are about 20 people crammed into a 2 bedroom apt. Only 3 girls (including mine) and
about 10 sweaty dirty guys and six or seven clean, well groomed gay guys. And, theyre all on ecstasy except me
and my Target.
HB: I dont do drugs, except for weed, but you can if you want. It doesnt bother me.
Our gracious host, hearing this, shoves a pill in my face and mumbles something about a bunny rabbit.
I decline. (I have nothing against drugs, in fact, I believe they should be legal for any adult who wants to take
them but Im not into them.)
We make out on the couch while these guys listen to David Bowie doing Stairway to Heaven.
If youve never heard the conversations that people on X have it is a real treat. I wish I could remember what they
were saying because it was so funny/weird. I know Dolly Partons rendition of a Pink Floyd song came up over
and over again.
I tell her we should go and get a bed because the couch is too small. She asks where and I tell her well rent a
hotel room. She says, Oh, thatll look real good.
Finally, about 5am they tell us we look tired and theyll be up for a long, long time so if we need to go home we
should. They tell her that theyll take care of Flamer and make sure he gets home OK.
She reluctantly agrees to leave him there.
We get to her place and I nearly get eaten by her two large dogs. The escalation goes pretty smooth. I get some
LMR at the initial entry. She grabs my hips, stops me and says, What are you doing?
CJ: Fucking you. I push it in, she relaxes her body and starts moaning.
Shes really hot. Was a swimmer in college and still has the body. Awesome face and eyes. She has a
professional job.
Shes a keeper.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. F-closed early sat. morning. Had sex with girl from Daddys Bed sat. night at about 8:30 and then sex with
this new girl 6am this morning. Not a bad 27 hours.

CaptainJack Live!
Posted at July 9, 2007

Ill be doing approach coaching at Sinns next Pheonix/Scottsdale bootcamp. El Topo will be there as well(there
are only 3 seats left so if youre gonna do it, pull the trigger ASAP.
You can get more info here.

Lay Report: www.horny-wisconsin-girls.com

Posted at July 11, 2007

Im out with El Topo(Dr. Dave and Fidelio are out, too.

El Topo pulls me into a set he ran a few weeks/months ago. Theres a tall slender hot girl, a shorter cute (but
sorta plain) girl with nice boobs and big booty and a fat girl.
I ask ET who his target is(he doesnt know. I ask him again, he still doesnt know. So, I neg the tall slender girl I
like your cape. because she was wearing a sweater tied around her neck. Her friends laughed. ET tells me thats
his target. Haaa.
I switch to the cute girl, HBPlainJane. I game her for awhile and really like her attitude and mannerisms.
I number close her but she rejects my kiss attempt. (She tells me why during my debrief()
The Day2(
Sinn and I are gaming the girls from LR: The Acrobatic Monkey, Ill excerpt from that LR here:
Hes in and HBPlainJane has shown up with her friend. But, I gotta wing Sinn so Im strategizing as to the best
way to pull this off. Id give the slight nod to HBPlainJane because she gets me for some reason, I dont know why
because she is pretty plain. Its odd. But, whatever, Ive got her set up for next Tuesday night.
I keep bouncing between HBPlainJane and Sinns obstacle.
And, then later(while Sinn is doing his best John Travolta (on Crack) impression(
While they are on the dance floor Im gaming the obstacle and periodically texting my HB who is sitting a mere 6
feet away at a table watching.
I tell her that I really want to see her and talk to her but I promised Sinn Id be his wingman tonight. She texts back
that shes a cool girl and she understands and she wants to see me later if I can.
After I believe I have the obstacle hooked I spend more time with HBPlainJane and make out with her several
times while grabbing her ass and blatantly staring at her tits.
Today I was at the bookstore and I get this text:
HBPlainJane: Where are we going to go? I dont think I can meet you at your place. My parents said its
dangerous and they wanna know your last name in case you kill me

CJ: Were going to church and then possibly square dancing(and tell your parents I havent killed anyone since
they let me out(
HBPlainJane: In that case its fine(lol
Im thinking shes going to flake and while Im discussing future biz with The Professor (from the Warrior-King
Society) I get a text(
HBPlainJane: Almost there
Problem is Im at the Bookstore! I slam my laptop shut and bolt out.
I give her the wrong directions to buy myself an extra 5 minutes. Throw on a shirt, put gunk in my hair and meet
her outside. She looks much better because she has dressed up and put her hair in pig tails (yes, pig tails). Shes
wearing a tight shirt with a mini-skirt. About 1 full point higher then the other 2 times I saw her.
My normal plan when girls come over is to have them sit down, talk to them for 2 minutes, ignore them for 5-10
minutes while I finish getting ready and then sit back down and escalate until they stop me.
We made out but she was being hesitant. I tell her lets go(so we head out and go eat.
I know she likes me. Shes cool, too. I actually liked talking to this girl which is very rare. She has a brain.
Here comes the standard stuff(
* First Child Brings a Surge of Ambition
We roll to a hole in the wall because x-bar has some retarded acoustic jackass playing music.
* Cosmo Pattern
blah, blah, blah
* Let Grandma buy you a new pair of jeans
blah, blah, blah
* Im going to own a boat and a beach house one of these days because Im ambitious!
blah, blah, blah
We get back to my place and I put in one of the greatest South Parks in history The Return of the Fellowship of
the Ring to the Two Towers. I like it because the whole show is about a porn video called Backdoor Sluts 9 and
theres lots of dirty talk in it.

I escalate on the couch. Shes being shy but responding. Get the shirt off and am pleased to find nice boobies. I
was worried she was a bit chubby but shes not. She has big hips and nice sized boobies which makes her look
chubby in normal clothes but naked is just fine. She gains another half point. (Im declaring the point increases
because they usually seem to work in reverse!)
We begin escalating and I start dirty talking. SHE says, Lets go to your bed!
We do the deed and its good. Shes not the best in bed because shes real shy but she is trainable.
I debrief her which is something Ive started doing again after counseling my eCoaching students to do it as well.
After youve banged a girl she is more likely to answer honestly and its great feedback on your Game. It can be
very eye-opening.
She knew she first wanted to have sex with me on the Day2 when I was winging Sinn because you kept talking
dirty to me and saying youd put me on the table and fuck me in front of everyone. I said that 3-4 times. I also told
her Id take her in the bathroom. And, that she wouldnt be able to walk for a few days.
She noticed me at x-bar as soon as she walked in and wanted to say hi but I kept talking to other girls and she
said I seemed cocky so she didnt want to encourage me.
She said she wouldnt kiss me because she didnt want me to know she liked me (???)
When I asked her Well, what if I never called or texted because I though you didnt like me? She responded, I
know(its dumb but thats just what I was thinking.
She also said that my text responding to her parents worries made her decide she was coming over instead of
trying to meet me somewhere.
Debriefing girls youve closed is one of the best things you can do for your Game.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. My schedule is now open for more eCoaching students. Details here.

Lay Report: CJ Gets Gamed

Posted at July 12, 2007

Wow, I really dont know what to say for this Lay Report. The only thing I did was NOT mess things up.
Sinn and I are out at a place that I used to frequent and have pulled from a few times. We have high hopes for
this because it fits the profile of an SNL Venue(
So, for some reason my AA has come back and is stronger than ever before. This truly sucks and is at the same
time incredibly confusing. Ive gotten laid 3 times this month this one makes 4 so far and its only the 12th Im on
pace to hit 10! new lays in one month. 3 of the 4 are Same Night Lays. Yet when I have to open I become a
whimpering, whining little chicken shit.
Sinn has opened a few sets and gotten a number. I havent done shit. I decide to warm up on a girl who has been
eye-fucking me for about 1 hour straight. Sinn says shes a train wreck and then I think maybe Im drunk because
she looks good to me. I game her for about 20 minutes and he sends me a text SERIOUSLY?! and later tells me
shes a 3. Haaa. I number close anyway.
I hunt for another set to open but my fucking heart is pounding and Im hating this feeling because I want to
friggin open.
Im at the bar and I see a girl next to me. I smile big and she smiles and then I say something (cant remember
what, but nothing special), she responds and before I know it she is grinding on me.
I tell her my Jealous Girl Deleted All My Numbers story and she mentions the girl is psycho and shes not
jealous at all. More grinding. We make about 5 minutes of small talk.
Its closing time and we all head out. I lose her as she goes to talk to one or two other people she knows.
A girl comes up to Sinn and says, My friend said shell be here Friday night and to come see her( he goes over
to their car and number closes her.
I find my girl again and we start trying to pull them to Sinns place but the obstacle (who was cuter) says shes
going home. Im thinking the pull is NOT going down and then as were walking to Sinns car the girls go ape shit
over his BMW M3. The obstacle starts humping the trunk like a dog and says she used to be a Car Model.

My Target sits in the passenger seat in awe like shes never seen a BMW before. She gets out and the obstacle
says to follow them if we want to come over.
We get to their pad and chat for maybe 5 minutes before my Target drags me to her friends bedroom and unzips
my pants and gives me an awesome BJ. I proceed to tear it up.
SHE gamed me(haaa.
~ Captain Jack ~

Captain Jack says:

July 13, 2007 at 12:02 pm

>You had AA when you were drinking? >Hahah thats about the only time I >dont get approach anxiety.
Yeah, man, this truly sucks. A nice buzz used to knock my AA right out.
Now, I can function perfectly while massively drunk. I could write an ad, solve calculus problems and still have
AA. Its weird.
Since alcohol is serving no useful purpose at this point Im going to cut way back.
~ CJ ~

Lay Report: Rocker Chicks Love Pirates

Posted at July 14, 2007

Alright so yesterday I spent a great deal of time mentally wrestling with my AA. I used every friggin mental tool in
my arsenal and got it down to a manageable level. I am now COMMITTED to finding a way to get over this for
So heres how the 5th lay of this month went down (4 out of 5 lays were Same Night Lays (SNLs)).
Im with Fidelio. El Topo is training a student. Dr. Dave rolls in a little later.
After about 30 minutes I turn and open a 2set behind me with Styles Two Part Kiss. The set doesnt hook very
well but Im not worried. I dont plow and instead turn around to see a ripple in the Matrix. By ripple in the Matrix I
mean Fidelio is talking to a female.
She was a cute girl.
Her big boobed cougar friend comes over and talks to him for a few minutes before hitting on me like shes going
to eat me. Im considering it but Ive decided no more cougars unless they are REALLY, REALLY hot.
I try to switch to a cuter blonde in the group and she is responding but she keeps regulating her BT. Im
wondering why. Fidelio tells me later that she and her friend kept on talking shit about the hickeys on each side of
my neck (the girl from Wednesday LR: CJ Gets Gamed gave them to me).
Hickeys always polarize HBs. Some of them love it and their attraction goes through the roof, others use it as an
excuse to raise their shield and make it harder for you.
I shouldve plowed the little big boobed blond but, alas, I didnt.
I end up gaming a very tall very voluptuous girl to my left with Rings on Fingers but I didnt notice her engagement
ring till it was too late. She gave me an opening though, But, Im pissed at him right now(
I open another girl at the bar. Super hot body, nice hair but unfortunately her teeth are messed up. They arent
dirty or decayed they are just crooked. I am gaming her and still wrestling inside(can I ignore the teeth? I keep
trying to focus on her eyes (nice eyes) but my eyes keep gravitating to those teeth.
She puts her hand on my knee and leans into me pressing her nice boobs on me and talking in my ear. The
warmth is beginning to awaken GIGANTOR from his slumber.
I decide to TimeBridge her after all. If she just stands there with her mouth closed shes hot enough. (All her
parents had to do was buy the girl some braces when she was younger, how hard is that????) Im TBing mainly
just to keep opening sets and see if I can trade up.
I run into El Topo near the female restrooms and a girl overhears him say something about being gay and she
asks if hes gay. Hes already deep in set with a hot girl (who he later bounced to eat with) so he breaks off and I

take the set over. It was ON! and she was insane hot. I lost her somewhere, though, I think she IOIed me on my
necklace and saw the hickeys when she took out my necklace to look at it.
She didnt take my TB bait and her and her friend walked off after her friend got out of the bathroom.
About 1:20am I see a cute little bitty rocker chick walk by and I say something but she doesnt hear. I follow. She
has a few tattoos and multiple ear and a tongue piercing. Her hair is dyed that dark, crimson red. She has
matching lipstick on. Nice little tight body.
Very Little
Rings on Fingers
Jealous GF Deleted My Numbers
She mentions my hickeys and says, Damn, what did you do to that girl? I just smiled and said teased her like
crazy. She rubbed it and licked her lips. GIGANTOR began to rise.
Let Grandma Buy You A New Pair of Jeans
$18 for the Light Bill
First Child Brings Surge of Ambition
Hookah TB (gets interrupted by a friend coming by)
CJ: Whats on the agenda for later? This is when the bar lights are coming on.
HBRocker: Were going to an afterparty, come with me.
CJ: Cool(
HBRocker: Ok, I have to go find someone, wait for me outside.
CJ: Alright, lets exchange numbers in case something comes up.
I go outside and she meets me there about 1-2 minutes later. I dont engage her much to test her. I want her to
feel like it might not go down. Two guys that she sorta knows come out and start chatting her. I do a semi
backturn and notice El Topo and Fidelio walking across the parking lot.
She grabs my hand and pulls me to her car. Apparently the people we are going to meet are drug dealers and
they are supplying drugs for the afterparty. Im not a big fan of drugs personally (although I believe they should be
legal for adults.)
Were in a shady ass parking lot somewhere in Dallas. The drug dealer is trying to game her and I tell her well
just go to my place. She says ok but only if her friends come along. They have to make a delivery which will take
them about 40 minutes.
Heres my thinking: I VERY RARELY lose a tug of war. If I can get her to my place and get my hooks in deeper I
WONT lose. I tell them to just call her when theyre done and Ill give them directions. I was thinking that Ill get
her phone under some pretense and turn it off.
We get to my place and I turn on the greatest closing dvd of all time: South Park and specifically The Return of
the Lord of the Rings to the Two Towers episode.
I caveman her. I carry her 100lb body to my bed and throw her down. I pull her hair, spank her and keep pushing
her down. She gives BJ. I put my hand around her little neck and I think she is going to come then and there. She
grabs the hand I have on her neck and SQUEEZES so Im basically choking her.
Now, I dont want a dead girl in my apt. so Im not down with this(I push her down on the bed and take her shirt
She says, Fucking be rough with me(
I learned this from a PUA who shall not be named: I slapped her. Not hard. But, hard enough. She started rubbing
herself through her pants and moaning and screaming Fucking god, oh yes!
Im feeling strange. This is new territory for me. She asked me to slap her again. I opted to unbutton her pants
She stops me and says, Oh god, I want to(but we cant.
My intuition says shes on her period. Im right. But, I have run into this enough times that I have a piece just for
this objection(
Thats natural, its part of being a woman. I was married for 5 years. Its not a big deal to me(I have condoms.
HBRocker: Get the condom.
She gives another BJ(
CJ: Are you a squirter?
HBRocker: Sometimes, if its done right.

I pick her up and throw her down on the bed. I start fingering her with the come hither motion and about 2
minutes later she launches a stream all over my forearm and bed.
We have sex for a good 30-45 minutes. I hear her phone vibrating but I dont say anything. The chumps are here
and Ive already banged her so Im not the least bit worried about Tug of War.
The complain about being in the parking lot for 10 minutes.
They hang out for awhile mainly on the phone trying to do deals. I cant wait till they leave.
They try to get her to come with them but I tell them my Jeep is at the venue, she has to take me to it later, but not
now because I cant drive.
Feeling the sting of defeat, they leave.
I bang her again.
~ CJ ~

Captain Jack says:

July 16, 2007 at 12:43 pm

Dear Anonymous,
Yes, I did. I fucked her on the rag too. She mustve been on the tail end of it because when I looked at the
condom it just had a slight pink tint to it(and my fingers had nothing noticeable when I washed my hand.
~ CJ ~

The Years Half Over, And You?

Posted at July 17, 2007

This is from one of the better blogs I read. Hes a smart guy, really knowledgeable about networking and I like his
short to the point posts(Go read it and then come back.
About this year(
Man, I cant believe its half over. I HAVE made significant progress in many areas. Ive increased the average
hotness of the women Im seeing. Ive also decreased the average age (both big goals of mine) for this year.
While I am NOT LIKELY to have my first $1million dollar year this year I have made huge strides in stabilizing
myself financially by creating more dependable, repetitive income streams. My cash used to come in huge
surges. It was feast or famine. I felt RICH when several huge checks hit at once and poor as a junkyard dog when
the money ran out.
Exciting for awhile but it gets old after about 2-3 years.
I major shift in HOW I created my income came after reading Buffetology By Mary Buffet and David Clark. I
decided the next business I created would be one that Warren would invest in. That required that it have HIGH
(Hugely simplified but its a great guideline.)
I havent stopped the activities that cause the huge cash surges, Ive just made sure they dont get in the way of
building a true (and nearly automatic) income stream.
Ive also taken back control of my weight. I allowed myself to get derailed here for 3 weeks now for no good
reason at all. But, Im holding steady between 211-213 whereas before I was 220-223. I have an image of how I
want to look and I think Ill get there at about 195, which will take me another 6-8 weeks.
Another simple thing I did was create my 80/20 Process after reading The 80/20 Principle. You can read about it
here: How to Use The 80/20 Rule to Create a Kick-Ass Life!
That simple process alone, done weekly or whenever needed, has created a major difference in the overall quality
of my life.

Finally, Ayn Rands writings have helped me finally grasp the inner unrest Ive experienced since I was a kid. Ive
always had potential but Ive then gone on to do my own thing. I was making gobs of money as a turn around
artist for software projects. I was published twice and everybody wanted me to teach them my methodology of
taking a small team and saving a major project from bleeding cash and spinning out of control. I was poised to
make $300-4000 per hour.
Then, I walked away.
This caused some to be upset that I wasnt living up to my potential. In a way they were right BECAUSE I thought
my potential was what they told me it was instead of realizing it was what *I* wanted to make it. This made me
feel like something was wrong with me before. Like I had some sort of prosperity block or something like that.
Fact is, I just didnt know how I was supposed to fit into this mess of people, responsibility, authority and
expectations. Now, I know.
Hence, the Howard Roark post below.
~ Captain Jack ~

Lay Report: Cantalopes

Posted at July 22, 2007

Thisll be a short Lay Report one because Im so tired, unshaven, havent brushed my teeth in over 20 hours and
still wearing clothes from yesterday(basically I feel like pooo.
Its the second night of bootcamp. The first venue was a bit rough for the students so we bounced to a second
venue which I have great success each time Im here.
I open a blond girl with gigantic boobs. I think she is too chubby but I think Im just warming up and her boobs are
good enough. But, when I get her to lean into she is not really chubby at all. The gigantic boobs make her appear
that way. Nice.
I do my basic stuff. Lots of teasing. I tell her she would make a great wife(for a midget.
Trust test and spin.
Im locked in against the post and shes leaning into me. This is looking good in terms of creating the PUA Aura.
Strawberry fields.
Are you the Jealous Type qualifier which leads into Ex Deleted My Numbers(
She is eating it up. She moves me into Comfort and we discuss her previous relationship, which I dont normally
do but she was using it to qualify herself and it allowed me to imply to her that after a 7 year engagement she was
mentally and physically ready for fun and variety.
Rings on Fingers.
I parade her to the bar to get her a drink. We lock in against the bar. I qualify her again. Her friends come up but
they are butt ugly. A couple students try to occupy for me and give me an extra 2 minutes of alone time.
I TimeBridge(
I run one more set which goes pretty well. I look for HBCantalopes but cant find her.
Its closing time so Sinn and I roll out. I send my standard text to HBs who Ive timebridged. Hi sexy lady, where
you at?
This is my Drunk and Lonely Theory. Heres the theory:
Point 1. Women go out to get laid.
Point 2. 99.9% of guys game sucks.
Point 3. A female CANNOT have sex with a guy she is not attracted to. Due to Point 2 she is sexually frustrated.
Point 4. At 2:30 am the girl is at home, sexually frustrated, drunk and lonely.
This is the best time to send a text.
She texted back that she was at her friends house and asked where I Sinn and I were( I called her and she told
me to come over and to bring Sinn with her friend.
Just one problem. Sinn was passed out on his bed. I tried for about 5 minutes
I did. She looked even better. She had a little pink wifebeater on with no bra and her big fake boobies were
busting through her shirt. She was wearing short boxers. We started making out almost immediately.

I go rough but she tells me Softer(

This is interesting because my Dutch girl from Friday night told me the SAME thing. Strange because my OTHER
lays from this month wanted to be manhandled.
Sinn, Sexual Chocolate and El Topo picked me up and took me to the bootcamp.
~ CJ ~

The Window Escape Story

Posted at July 24, 2007

This happened when I was about 19 or 20. It was LONG before I new anything about PU.
My friend and I were at a 24 hour pool hall in Arlington, TX. Two cute girls walked in while me and my friend were
playing pool. My friend and I did what we normally did: Stared at them and then talked about how wed do bad
things to them.
There was only one problem: Both of us were scared shitless to talk to any girls, even in our social circle talking to
girls made us both extremely nervous. The idea of going and talking to a girl we didnt even know was entirely
foreign to both of us.
But, one of the girls just kept looking over at us. We argued over who she was looking at for about 5 minutes.
Finally she walked right by the pool table looked directly at me, slowed down her rate of walking and then smiled
REAL big at me.
I looked down immediately.
He conceded: Dude! She wants you! Go talk to her!
Me: I know man(I know. I looked at her up at the bar. It was merely 15 feet away but might as well have been
1000 miles.
I turned around and took my shot. When I turned back around she was walking back by and smiling. Hi she said.
I squeaked at a barely masculine Hello.
Before I knew it we were in a conversation. I have no idea what we talked about. But I remember mentioning we
should go out. She asked if I had a pen and wrote her number on the back of a receipt.
I tried not to look her way for the rest of the game. The pressure of not looking over there was unbearable. I told
my friend we were leaving after this game.
We paid and left and when we hit the parking lot we high fived each other (ugh, Im getting nauseated
remembering this).
I had him drive the car. I looked at that piece of paper as if it were the winning lotto numbers.
We went to eat and every 5 minutes Id check my pocket to make sure the number was still there.
I called her one night and she invited me to a friends party. They were all drinking but I declined the beer
because I was underage and driving.
She got plastered and we stumbled a few doors down to her place. As soon as we got to the front door there was
a loud thud followed by frantic scratching, growling and barking. The door actually shook as the dog tried to crash
through it. She told me to take a few steps back because she had to lock the dog in another room.
CJ: Jesus! What kinda dog is that?
HB: Rottweiler
CJ: shit
I didnt take a few steps back. I took a few steps back and about 12 feet to the right behind the Oak tree in the
middle of her lawn. I eyed the lowest branch to get a fix on it because this girl was no more than 105 pounds and I
wasnt convinced she could hold that frothing monster back.
When she came back I was pretending like I was just touring her lawn.
We get inside and were making out on the couch. But, I cant concentrate because that beast is trying to chew
through her bedroom door. I keep imagining his gigantic paw hitting the doorknob in just the right way, springing
him loose. I imagined using her as a human shield as I dove through the large living room window and up the Oak

We are making out hardcore. I slip my hands down her pants to feel a wondrous booty. She had a beautiful body.
She started falling asleep while we were making out. I had no escalation skills back then otherwise this wouldve
been a done deal on the couch.
She says, Lets go sleep in my room.
She gets up to get the dog and Im fucking cringing on the living room floor on the side of the couch using the
armrest as cover. Shes in her socks and the dog is fighting to get to me. He pulled her a few feet in my direction
more than once as her socks provided no traction.
When shes a safe distance I head to her room and shut the door. I look around the room and see a nice water
bed, some pictures, a small bookshelf and a HUGE, MASSIVE fishtank. It mustve been about six feet long.
Only this fishtank is empty. And, it has a spotlight. And a tree branch.
She comes back in and I say, What happened to your fish?
She says, Oh, haaa, thats for my boa constrictor.
I squint my eyes and say, I dont see it.
She laughs again and starts undoing the covers. I begin laying on her waterbed when she drops a bomb on me,
He escaped a few days ago. Last time I found him by the Clothes Dryer, guess he liked the warmth
So, there I am laying in her waterbed with a frothing demon dog sniffing and clawing at her bedroom door while
theres a boa running loose in her house.
She passes out.
I lay in her bed still as corpse. I hear everything. Every little sensation on my body is cause for alarm. Every itch
triggers panic and fear. I cant sleep because I dont want to wake up to a satanic dog eating my liver or a boa
constrictor wrapped around my neck.
I am literally trapped.
I look at her window and theres a bush outside about halfway up the window. Thats my only escape.
Fuck it.
I open the window, kick the screen out and push myself through the bushes. I have scratches on my face and
arms but its worth it!
Im a free man!!!!
I never called her again. She never called me.
~ Captain Jack

God Helps Those Who

Posted at July 27, 2007

(help themselves.
You may have heard this bromide a million times or more. I believe it is basically true.
But, what if you try and still fail?
What if you know what to do, know you can do it and really want it yet still cant?
For example, I know EXACTLY how to get down to my goal weight. When I follow the plan it works like a charm. I
easily and comfortably drop 2-3 lbs per week. No problem. But, for unexplainable reason I stop doing the things I
know to do(
I got down from the low 220s to 211(then stopped. For no reason. Frustrating.
I could (and have) berated myself. But, Ill pick it up for another day or two and then stop again.
Im always studying successful people. Whether its reading all of Trumps books, or Sam Waltons or Richard
Bransons or interacting with the successful business owners who hire me Im knee deep in the psychology of
men who make the world move.
Heres something Ive noticed: They know when to get help.
Everybody fantasizes about hitting the winning 3 point shot at the buzzer in the NBA finals. Or throwing or
catching the winning touchdown pass at the Superbowl.
But, thats just one instance in a series of TEAM plays.

Jordan was fucking unbelievable, but put Jordan alone on the court against 5 guys and guess what(he gets
These Gods Who Make The World Move get help when they need it. And, they dont feel bad about it. In fact,
they FEEL GOOD that they can be more efficient and get their goals. They LOVE paying someone to do the shit
they dont want to do OR getting help from someone with more talent or more money or whatever. It actually
makes them feel good.
Im as individual as they come but Ive recently realized I try to do too much by myself and eschew asking others
for help. This is a sticking point so Ill bust it like I bust all other sticking points.
Im getting help.
Ive pinpointed 3 areas (through the 80/20 process) where Ive been stuck for quite some time.
One of them is weight.
A part of me says, Motherfucker, just do it. Quit making excuses and fucking do it already!!!
I think back to before I took an MM bootcamp. What if I had said, Dude, you know what to do, just do it!!! instead
of admitting I needed to get help. Where would I be now? Probably in the same position, maybe a tiny bit better
but certainly not where I am now.
The question here is: Do I want to pretend I can handle this shit myself, even though Ive tried multiple times and
failed, or do I want to enlist someone elses aid, get my goal and move onto bigger and better things?
Heres another one: Do I want to be in this same fucking spot a year from now?
No, I dont.
~ Captain Jack ~

Stuck at 7 Lays
Posted at July 30, 2007

Stuck at 7 Lays(
After Scottsdales back-to-back lays I was poised to break 10 lays this month. Sunday night I felt horrible and
Monday during Breakthrough Comfort I could barely stay conscious. It hurt to swallow. I had zero energy.
Breathing, normally an unconscious, effortless endeavor, seemed like work.
Tuesday night I couldnt go out due to Strep throat. I forced myself to go out Wednesday night but wasnt myself.
Thursday night Sinn and I pulled (he opened, I winged) two girls who had nice breasts but lacked in every other
aspect. Neither of us ran Tight Game so we were hit by LMR (although Sinn got a BJ, I merely came on the other
girls DDs).
I picked up my daughters Friday night and still have them. Their mom has had another baby who is having trouble
at the hospital so I will be keeping my daughters another day or two. This means Ill likely be stuck at 7 lays for
El Topo hit 8 new lays Saturday night and Sinn hit 6 last night (with a girl who has a boyfriend, haaa.)
I have 3 very promising girls but none of them are at the point where I can get them to come over and see me.
Even though I wont get the title this month, Im extremely happy with July. These new lays seemed effortless. I
feel like Ive done very little work. Six of the 7 were Same Night Lays. I probably opened less than 30 sets this
entire month. Also, the overall quality this month beats every other month easily. Id say there were 3 HB9s in this
mix and the rest hovered around 7-8 range.
Not bad.
~ CJ ~

Lay Report: The One

Posted at August 2, 2007

My heart is racing.
Every other girl in the club disappears. I lock my eyes squarely on her Goddess Like figure. I little brunnette with a
perfect body. Beautiful firm breasts. A flat stomcach. Long hair. Brown eyes.
She is Athena, Aphrodite and Jessica Alba all rolled into one.
I feel myself slipping into the warm embrace of infatuation as my brain commands my glands to secrete
Norepinephrine, Dopamine and Serotonin.
She looks at me with those Bambi brown eyes, smiles and says: One dollar.
Im frozen like a deer in the headlights and say nothing for about 5-10 seconds. Shes looking at me like I just
asked her to explain Relativity Theory. The Bouncer looks at me funny and starts talking into his fake Secret
Service microphone clipped on his lapel complete with attached ear piece.
I take my Michelob Ultra, hand her two dollars and scurry off.
Time for some Patron. The interesting thing about Patron is you can tell when it hits you. I get sort of numb on the
surface of my skin. I get very blunt.
Twitchy comes to talk to me. He does a shot of Tuaca and I do a shot of Patron. Hes gaming this Asian tease.
Sinn and Future have opened a few sets but I havent done shit because Im still pissed that Im not asleep.
Back up an an hour and a half ago(
There I was at the Pirate Pad sleeping like a baby who had just sucked his mommas breast dry when Sinn calls
from the club. Its White Girl Wednesday at this place and weve pulled almost every time weve been there.
I fake like Im awake but that shit never works. People always know you were just sleeping no matter how
coherent and awake you think you sound.
I hop in the shower, get dressed and roll whining about how good it felt to be in my bed.
So, Im scoping for a set to get warmed up in. Its a good night. Quality is high.
Sinn has been gaming this weird girl from a Girl Group we got in good with a while ago (I already got one of
them see LR: Tastes Like Snot).
He comes over and this is the conversation as I remember it:
Sinn: Its on with HB but I dont want to do her tonight because I want another Same Night Lay.
CJ: * Looking dumbfounded *
Sinn: * Looking at me like What did I say to make you look at me like that? *
CJ: If I didnt have two beers in my hand right now Id slap you. Shes fucking hot!
After he finished laughing his ass off he rolled back over to her(
He waves me in to occupy the obstacle. I go in. I immediately think More Patron please. When most guys refer
to The One they are talking about the perfect hb. When I refer to the one Im talking about this girl(and The
One is her rating on a scale from 1 to 10. (One being the lowest.)
The second shot of patron hits. Im thinking, Well, at least shes not fat.
I have two Michelob Ultras(one in each hand(both of them get downed. After a few more minutes Im thinking,
Well, she doesnt stink.
Two of Printers female friends pull me away. Were saving you.
CJ: Umm(Im winging for Sinn.
Printers Friend: Does he need your help?
CJ: Umm(For a little longer I think.
I go back in and do Strawberry fields.
Ex deleted my phone numbers.
She lifts her arm to play with the back of her hair. I notice two to three days of underarm stubble.
I turn to the bartender. Patron and another Ultra!
Shes up to a 4 now but Im suddenly surrounded by hb10s. I have an internal battle ditch the 1 (Patron4) and hit
on the PatronHB10s (HB6-7s). I consider it but realize that any girl with viable options at this point is not going to
understand Drunk dialect.
We pull back to Sinns pad. I cant feel the surface of my skin. I know the wind is blowing on me but I cant feel it. I
look at the moon and think it looks awesome! Then the mental clouds roll in and I pass out.
After coming to were at a stoplight and some girl in a drop-top Saab asks us if we have any alcohol. She follows.
Huge breasts. Sinn mentions cardboard conductor hats (run a train).

We get in and I take The One to the bathroom. I cant come. I put her on the floor but its hurting my knees. When
I put her back on the counter facing the mirror to do doggystyle I look and notice she has a really hairy back. I
look closer and realize its not HER hair. Its Sinns fucking pubes covering her back. I momentarily go soft(I use
her shirt to wipe them off.
Im not coming so we go into the living room. Sinn is threatening the Saab girl because shes psycho. She
basically stated in so many words that she wanted to be gang raped but we are not down with Jail so we took a
pass on that one.
She is trying to leave but shes so drunk nobody with a conscience can bring themselves to let her leave. Future
and Sinn are cracking me up with their one liners about the situation.
Why did I bang a one? Good question. It was weird because while I was not really turned on, I was not really
turned off either. It was as if I was on auto-pilot. I was just doing what I do.
This made me think about why Naturals have a rep for closing hot girls AND nasty girls. Its not that they WANT to
bang the nasty girls its that its an auto-pilot behavior and if they dont stop it then it runs its full course.
Whats even stranger is I truly dont give a shit. I fucked a one.
~ Captain Jack ~

Posted at August 3, 2007

Women want sex just as much as men do. The differences in how women view sex are less a function of
male/female differences and more a function of the ease with which a female can get sex. Males who have
roughly the same level of sexual opportunity tend to treat sex more like a female does.
If a woman is at an attraction location then she wants to have sex and she wants to have it with a NEW guy that
night. If a woman didnt want sex she could spend her time doing a million other things. If she wanted sex but
NOT with a new male all she has to do is answer her phone. There are dozens of men calling and trying to take
her to a nice dinner, a play, a movie or even to attraction locations.
Seduction is primarily attaching her raging sexual desire to you specifically.
The 7 hour rule is bs.
With the proper frames a female will do almost anything sexually.
The Efficiency Principle The PUA does the minimum necessary to advance the courtship.
Baby Stepping The Efficiency Principle applied to maneuvering the HB to the Sex Location (aka Logistics
Management). You guide her along with small, seemingly innocuous steps that she is unlikely to say no to. Can
you give me a ride to my car? I parked for away. Then, when you get there Wow, Im kind of tipsy. Can you drop
me of at my place? Its not far. Take a right out of the parking lot. In your parking lot, Come in for a minute. But
you cant stay long, I have to be up early. etc.
Statement of Sexual Interest (SSI) Also called a Sexual IOI. Very similar to Jugglers SOI concept. Letting
the girl know you are interested in sex with her.
You should stop that or Ill be forced to kiss you right here. or Stop. Im trying so hard not to kiss you right
Hmmm(.thats such a turn on. You better stop or Im going to put you on that table and fuck you in front of
Oh God, you wouldnt be able to walk after I was done with you.
These are also baiting her to respond sexually. A common response to Im trying so hard not to kiss you( is

well, dont try( at which point you kiss her.

I believe SSIs accomplish a few things:
They demonstrate to her you are not afraid of sexual escalation
They demonstrate to her you are super confident.
They force her to have sexual thoughts and make sexual mental images which turn her on
They let her know her time with you will NOT go wasted (since she is HOPING for sex.)
The IOI-SSI Alternation and Escalation Principle The idea that IOIs are more powerful when followed by an
SSI and the IOIs and SSIs should become more intense and more direct as the seduction progresses. (We need
better def. for more intense and more direct most will understand but its sloppy and ambiguous.)
At the airport flying to a new city to set up our Project house with Printer, El Topo, Sinn and Future(
More to come later(
~ The REAL Captain Jack ~
P.S. I dont have a money printer, so for this money chase Im outrunning sprintas.

Lay Report: Ass Parade

Posted at August 5, 2007

This Lay Report is coming to you LIVE from Sexual Framing and Strawberry Fields! haa(
Sexual framing works just as well (maybe even better) on the first date. I gamed this girl a few weeks ago for
about 20 minutes. I remember using the Nose Ring Low Investment Opener, then teasing her quite a bit, using
the Jealous Ex Deleted Numbers to seed the Hookah TimeBridge, doing Strawberry fields and then number
closing with Hookah TB. The venue was closing so I wrapped up. Sinn had pulled a hot little brunnette with a LIO
he made up on the spot which hes used successfully many times now. (Not sure he wants to share it but it
involves a yellow brick road.)
In keeping with The Drunk and Lonely Principle, I texted her around 2:30am and she said she was going home
and had to get up early in the morning. I tried to get her out but no go.
Time passed. I forgot what she looked like but remembered that I liked her booty.
I texted her and set up the Day2. She arrives and El Topo and his Cambodian Refugee are sitting with me. They
chill for a few minutes and then Bounce.
I ask her what she remembers about the first night so I know what Ive covered with her.
She remembers Strawberry Fields but not much else. She said she didnt remember what I looked like but
remembered I was hot.
I started Sexual Framing with the assumption that the thing she most wants in the world is great sex with me.
I told her that the thing that attracted me to her was her obvious sexuality and sensuality and her beautiful booty
because Im a booty man (not really, but I go through phases, each phase lasting a few months until I switch
favored body parts()
I switch to High Status DHVs by telling her I travel a lot, work only 4 hours a day and 2 hours of that is telling my
employees what to do.
She tells me what she does for a living (insurance) and I IOI her that she seems intelligent.
Flip back to sexual framing. I tell her that i appreciate a woman who isnt afraid to express her sexuality, that I
think its bad to hold desire inside.
This is an additional frame I came up with when Sinn and I were in the hotel room discussing sexual framing. He
had about 15 pages of notes and a well-designed Game Plan that incorporates all of our new stuff(I noticed that
AFTER you set the Im not judgmental frame an extremely effective follow-up frame is I APPRECIATE and
VALUE your sexuality and sexual freakiness.
I kiss her.

She adds to the interaction with her own framing and a reward for me kissing her, she said, Guys these days are
such pussies! Theyre scared to talk to girls, theyre scared to make the first move, its so annoying.
(TRANSLATION: Be dominant because I like it.)
The conversation turns even more sexual. She switches chairs because Everyone coming in can see my crack.
I tell her we could make money. Twenty dollars per crack view and I get ten. Then I make her stand up so I can
look at her ass. She LOVES this. Im taking a physical feature she probably often feels self-conscious about and
showing her I value it. (If you want to get an idea of her ass just go to assparade.com )
I move her outside to the patio because the rain has stopped and theyve taken the plastic covers off the couches.
I sit her down on the couch and make out with her.
She talks dirty to me and I tell her if she doesnt stop Im going to put her on the table and fuck her in front of
Make out again. I pull her hair and she goes crazy and almost straddles me.
Sinn texts me where theyre at and I decide its time to take my first shot at f-closing. I tell her were going to meet
my friends but I have to stop by the hotel firs to use the restroom and get my gum.
As we walk to my room I stop the sexual talk and bs about random subjects like the pool and where we ate today,
blah, blah.
We get in the room and she goes to the restroom. As soon as she comes out I grab her throat shove her against
the wall, and start making out.
Her clothes start flying off. Both nipples pierced. While I go to work on those she undoes my pants and then gets
on her knees gives me a great BJ. I stop her, flip her around and take her from behind. Her booty was unreal! Her
clit was pierced, too.
She tells me to let her know when I get close because she wants me to stick it in her ass and finish in her ass!!!
This accelerates my orgasm and I instead pull out and start jerking it to completion. She puts it in her mouth and
sucks me dry but its too intense so I push her back. Wow!
Its about 11ish and Im thinking I can still go game but she wont get the hint that it is time to leave so she comes
The Printer has us on the list using his mad negotiation skills so we bypass the line and Sinn is in set with a cute
Shes grinding on me and kissing me and Im trying to decide if I should take her back to the hotel and do more
dirty things to her when the urge to game takes over.
Printer is in set with a hot little brunette girl and is parading her around.
I ask El Topo to occupy her and then Sinn and I leave the Venue. El Topo told me she was looking around for me
all night haaa. She texts me and I tell her we had drama and had to go rescue a friend. She wants to see me
again but, of course, thats probably not gonna happen because Ill be out trying to get some Fresh.
~ CJ ~

Can eBay Help Your Game?

Posted at August 9, 2007

I think eBay may be one of the coolest things on earth.

I always feel like an idiot when Ive been looking for something, cant find it and forget to go look on eBay. Im
now adjusting my strategy. eBay is now my first choice.
For example, this is the EXACT breathalyzer I purchased a few weeks ago. It keeps me from drinking too much
(especially if I have to drive) AND it doubles as a great way to start hitting on a chica. You blow into it and if you
are above .08 you can say, Wow, Im drunk! Im officially no longer responsible for my actions!
NEW AL-2500 Alcoho Search

Need some New Rocks?

Hmmm(this is too easy. How about a 1953 Mickey Mantle Topps Baseball Card in Vg-Ex condition(

See there? Thats awesome.

What does this have to do with the Gaming. Well, shit. Im sure I can come up with something here.
Hmm(lets see(
Ok, I think I got it.
You see, eBay is analogous to girls. And, your mind and your Game are like the search function. What you get is
what you Game. If a girl (the result of an eBay Search) is a prude, its NOT the girl, its your Game (the search
See, Sinn and I have been running into weird girls lately. We discussed this in between bites of Bacon and
Cheddar Fries. We think its because the new Sexual Framing tech is so out of what most guys do that they have
no pre-programmed responses so they are being erratic, acting based off of their own ever-morphing emotions.
In any case, eBay is awesome.
~ CJ ~
P.S. If youre going to drink and Game, I cant recommend the breathalyzer enough. First, it will stop you from
drinking and driving. Second, its like a party in the palm of your hand (Thats what she said( credit Michael,
Office). Third, you can use it as plausible deniability and hit on her mercilessly. Not a bad use of $30 at all.

The PUA Core Bookshelf

Posted at August 11, 2007

In November 2005 I put this amazon Listmania! list together for the 400 or so PUAs on my personal email list(
Ive since updated it but heres the email that I sent:
Ive put together a list of the core books I believe every PUA
should have on their bookshelf. I own, have read, studied, pondered
and pontificated about each book on this list. The ALL caused a
profound shift in my attitude and thinking that carried over to the
To view this CORE bookshelf hop on over to Amazon.com to my store(
To see my comments on each book click The PUAs Core Bookshelf
Now, there is ONE book missing on my list (no, its not the Bible)
but it is probably the MOST important book of all of them. It is
called Way of the Superior Man by David Deida and it is a must
Im going to devote an entire email to it in the future.
In fact, if I had to choose just two books for PUAdom Id
choose Way of the Superior Man by Deida and Sperm Wars by Baker.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. Way of the Superior Man is now on the list. If you dont buy anything else buy that one.

Who is Captain Jack?

Posted at August 12, 2007

A few weird things have happened in the last few weeks.

1) I got an email from a confused blog owner asking me why I was posting pick-up challenges to him in the
comments section of his blog. I assured him I wasnt and it must be someone imitating me.
2) Then, I get a Comment on my own blog from someone claiming to be Captain Jack (granted I cant be sure it
was the same guy posting pick up challenges in #1) you can read our comment exchange here.

3) Then, a moderator of Mysterys Forum emails me that someone is asking questions about two Captain Jacks
(obviously referring to me and guy from #2). Heres his post:
There seems to be a Pickup 101 instructor who goes by this handle who is, apparently, Bulgarian-born and not
completely fluent in English, (judging by a post of his on the Pickup 101 blog. ) I assume the TMM Captain Jack
(whose posts are incredibly well-written) is a completely different person?
4) TokyoPUA from fastseduction (politely) emailed me about possible shills on their site promoting my peacocking
book. I tell him its not me because I have no style and dont really peacock.
More on this: I wish I COULD peacock but as anyone who goes out with me can attest my idea of peacocking is
two black wrist bands, jeans, a black t-shirt and MAYBE a black straw cowboy hat (if Im feeling frisky). Im the
LAST person youd want to take peacocking advice from. In my earlier FR/LRs you may read something like I
was peacocking and( now I know the atrocities of clothing I was wearing back then were NOT EVEN CLOSE to
peacocking. (however I do believe a truly peacocked PUA has an advantage and loved both J-Dog and Mysterys
style on the VH1 show.)
Also, since my blog readership has nearly doubled in the last couple months its probably time to let everyone
know where they can get more info about me (besides the blog).
I took my bootcamp in November 2004 from Mystery and Savoy in Las Vegas. My name has been Captain Jack
since around that time and even a few months before that. You can read all about my Adventures by going tomy
website and downloading my PDF archives.
~ The REAL Captain Jack ~

Captain Jack says:

August 12, 2007 at 3:51 pm

I have no idea what they really did as I wasnt there but I know of and have been to clubs that you could only
enter after seeing a sign and getting verbally asked/warned before paying cover that you could be filmed and by
entering you were giving consent.
Im willing to bet thats how they did it.
Plus, Ive seen Mystery in person and those are the same class of responses he was getting.
~ CJ ~

Motivation Dissipation
Posted at August 16, 2007

This sucks.
Anyone who has read my pick-up archives knows Ive struggled with severe Approach Anxiety most of my PUA
life (strike that most of my LIFE). Ive had month long stretches where Ive had none. And, other months where it
was so strong that going to open a set was like walking through a swamp off molasses while crows were trying to
peck my heart and eyes out.
Curiously many PUAs who start off without AA often get it after several months of gaming. We think this is
because their social intuition has increased so they somehow get the understanding that a cold approach is out of
the norm.
When Im on a bootcamp I can do it because there is a higher purpose, a reason. The reason is I WANT these
new PUAs to see what is possible. I want them to SEE firsthand the shit that we write about is for real and (finally)
within their grasp. That motivates me.
Im going to write out what my motivation for pick-up was during different periods of my gaming and then Ill tell
you about the recent developments in my AA.
When I first stumbled onto the name Mystery on fastseduction.com I couldnt find that much information about his
system. His website was down and I suspect I found out about him was when he was in the mental hospital or
somewhere about that time.

I finally managed to find a post where he deconstructed his system in fine detail but I misunderstood it.
Heres how I did my first 50 or more sets.
Complete Story 1
Complete Story 2
Complete Story 3
Isolation attempt
Ok, the absolute newness of the idea that I could actually TALK to the girls at the bars managed to keep my AA at
bay. The discovery that I could go up to a group at a bar with a Game Plan was even better than when I stumbled
onto my daddys Playboy magazines at the tender age of 6 and saw a knockout beautiful woman completely nude
thus discovering what a raging boner was(
When I signed up for my first Mystery Method BootcampI set up a plan to do as many approaches BEFORE the
bootcamp as I could. I remember my goal being 250 sets. I cant remember how many I did but I know I did a lot.
My approach anxiety seemed to ramp up with each new set.
Then, at the bootcamp it manifested in all its glory. I was frozen. I looked at a super hot 3 set at Light in Vegas
and fear seemed to replace the blood in my veins. Savoy mustve noticed because he gave me a shocked look
and said, Go! and then put two hands on my back and shoved me into the set. I was still stumbling when I got
into their group.
It went well enough. They didnt pull out a knife or mace. None of them threw their drink on me. Didnt get
But, the logic and the mental knowledge didnt keep the AA at bay.
On the 8th set of the night I decided I was going to take this shit as far as I could, mainly because the thought of
opening another set sent a shiver of dread throughout my body.
I got laid.
After the amazement that you could actually approach girls faded, my Second motivation was my new found
freedom (got divorced). I felt like I had just won the lottery of vagina and all I had to do was go and get it.
The idea of fresh, new hotness propeled me past my AA for nearly a year. I still had it but it was overcome by
visions of hot women writhing in my bed. Asians, Latins, Black girls, Brunettes, Redheads, Blondes. I wanted one
of each. I wanted tall, short, thick, model thin, exotic, girl next door. Gimme, Gimme, Gimme some Fresh!!!
Then, my AA battled it out with a deeper issue of NOT being in the in-crowd in High School and feeling like I
couldnt match them socially. After I got really good my motivation took the form of Not cool? Watch me bang all
these girls! haaa!
Finally, I went on a stint of Mastery. I figured I am going to want to fuck for the rest of my life. I gotta get good at
this and it is really fun!
My AA has been back in full force in the last 2 months. Strange because I had 7 new lays in July and 6 of those
were cold-approach Same Night Lays. Does that sound like the results of someone who has extreme AA?
Well, yes, but only if the following is true.
1. He has near-ESP like calibration skills. I used my elite understanding of groups, bodylanguage and social
situations to understand the BEST sets to approach and the best point to approach them. I stacked the deck in
my favor by picking my spots. Its paid off well as you can see.
2. He has a good Wing (Sinn)
3. He has ninja mind control when he gets in isolation (haaa). If I get a girl one-on-one (especially if I opened the
set) she is going to want to make the double-backed beast with me. I cant remember the last girl I got into full
isolation with that I didnt lay. (Strike that, yes I do. But, she turned out to be legitimately psycho and she still calls
and texts me.)
If I opened 6 sets per night I could most likely turn in consistent 12-15 lay months.
So, my AA sucks ass. What to do? Well, I could say fuck it and be in pain everytime I go out. Not my thing. Ive
done that for the last year or so and I hate it. I cant imagine doing this with this level of AA for another few years.
Or, I could get help. I wrote a post not to long ago about God Helps Those Who( and another post called The
Tools-Skills Mindset.

With those two things in mind I signed up with sessions with a therapist who specializes in cutting edge methods.
The first session was mind-blowing. We identified something that happened back in High School were a hot chick
in the in-crowd rejected me. I had no idea how much or how far reaching the impact of that 5-10 minute slice of
my life had on me but as the tapestry of this event began to unravel and we followed the threads, I discovered I
had actually made SEVERAL decisions only after wondering what she would want me to do. Now, Ive had NO
contact with her other than being in the same class but her effect lingered and affected other aspects of my life.
How WEIRD is that!!!
So, we took care of that shit and BAM! no more approach anxiety. Only, theres a small problem. The way I used
to motivate myself in field was through this dynamic tension technique of having my AA battle it out with my desire
to approach.
Theyd fight it out and one of two things would happen:
1. At some point Id snap and say fuck this! and Id open.
2. At some point Id snap and say fuck this! and get stupid drunk.
Now, that those arent there to battle it out I feel like a ghost inside the club. I have no pain to motivate me but
theres also no pleasure.
So I stand there. Emotionless. About the only way to explain it is when you have a cold and you take Nyquil and
you just kind of sit there like a zombie.
Weird thing is Ive been getting a LOT of AIs. More than Ive ever gotten before.
When the prove yourself and get back at your past and want to be recognized as a great pua and all those
other motivations are dissipated, why do I want to do this?
Im seeing the therapist again next Monday. So, between now and then Ive gotta figure out.
How can I build a HEALTHY motivation that propels me to approach?
~ CJ ~
Captain Jack says:
August 17, 2007 at 1:18 pm

Yeah, I used EFT to get my AA to a level where I could actually just ignore it. It worked really well.
The guy Im seeing knows EFT, TFT, Applied Kinesiology and hes the creator of REMAP.
I decided to go see someone because it seemed to me like I wasnt able to ferret out the deeper shit on my own.
So I needed someone to guide me into probing things.
~ CJ ~

Lay Report: Sudoku

Posted at August 17, 2007

So Im laying in this girls bed enjoying a refreshing Diet Mr. Pibb. Still breathing hard from bringing it. Shes sitting
on the floor on the OTHER side of the bed looking at me like Im a big Sudoku and she cant figure that shit out.
CJ: Ive never had a Diet Mr. Pibb before. Tastes pretty good. Diet RC Cola is pretty good but for me its a toss
up between Diet Coke and Diet Dr. Pepper. Just depends on my mood really.
HB: * Still looking at me like Im a giant Sudoku Puzzle *
CJ: Why are you on the floor? Come sit here. ** I was considering a round 2 having been refreshed by the Diet
Mr. Pibb **
HB: You dont even know me!
CJ: Haaaaa haaaa haaaa
*** The Pick Up ***

Future, Sinn and I are at a Ginormous cowboy bar. I havent opened shit and its about 1:30 am. I see a brunette
with awesome dark brown eyes, nice lips, dimples and long brown hair walking past me.
I make strong eye contact, she slows down, I slow down, we start turning towards each other. I put out my hand.
CJ: Who are you?
HBSudoku: HBSudoku
CJ: And youre special because?
HBSudoku: Excuse me? Im not sure I like that(
I dont remember exactly what I said after that but I remember guiding her over to a table. Sinn came and winged
the cute blonde.
She couldnt get over the youre special because line. I remember framing it with something along these lines(
CJ: Im a busy man so I like to find out really quickly if someone is worth my time. Youre good looking but so are
a lot of people.
She mentioned that she graduated with honors (summa cum laude) and shes extremely smart.
I run rings on fingers. Strawberry fields.
She keeps going back to my Challenge Opener.
HBSudoku: I dont know if I like that!
Its closing time so I number close her. It looks like its on with Sinn and the blonde friend. My intuition tells me we
can pull but verbally she and I are still sparring.
Sinn and I debrief each other. He also felt we couldve pulled. We formulate a plan for next time. I believe it was
something like we each make sure the OTHER girl knows we like her friend. Girls DO NOT want to be in the
awkward position of her girl fucking some dude while she is alone with another dude who she doesnt know if he
likes her enough to fuck (i.e. theyd rather both get laid then just one.) Letting them know explicitly helps diffuse
that possibility.
*** The Day2 ***
She is REALLY nervous. She is breaking eye contact. She is wringing her hands. I start in with the Sexual
Framing but it doesnt seem to have an effect. I ditch it and go more into Comfort. She time constrains the date
because she has an interview in the morning(aaaah! I forgot my new policy which is to set up all Day2s with a
built-in Time Constraint.
Plus, shell only have ONE drink. I tell her that wont work because Im trying to get her drunk so I can take
advantage of her. She laughs and looks away.
Up to this point she has been sitting across from me across the table. There has been NO kino besides a small
hug when she first arrived.
I pull her to the other side.
I walk her out to her car at about 10:00.
I force kino by giving her a hug and then lifting her up and twirling her around. It spikes her BT but I dont attempt
the kiss because it would seem awkward at this time.
She drives off and I go back inside to game a bit more.
*** Day3 ***
Im at the bookstore writing when she sends me a text: Im going to ginormous cowboy bar tonight celebrating my
new job. You should come! at 5:31.
After finishing up my writing I hit TGI Fridays at about 10:00. Im debating if Im going to go out tonight. Its
Thursday so the closest place to me will be dead. I could get some shit done at home(but I want to go out. Its
such a habit now that I get antsy when I dont go out.
About 10:15 I send this text:
CJ: Are you drunk yet?
HB: Wouldnt you like to know haa so are you going to come?
CJ: say please
10:55 HB: I dont say please
Im still debating at this point. I dont feel like going there to have to entertain a group of drunk people. But, I also
dont want to miss an opportunity to close her. I watch one of the most motivation videos of all time (and NO its
NOT The Secret) its Playing With Ms. Geyser from teamsquirt.com My sexual energy is high.
11:14 HB: But you should come

Her persistence is starting to make me think I should go. Plus Im horny as hell from the squirting video. I get in
the shower thinking Ill see how I feel after I get dressed. I could hit the local x-bar or roll out there.
11:32 HB: Are you coming?
Im convinced now. She wants it so Ill go.
About 11:45 she calls me and I answer. I tell her Ill be there soon. I get there and she is DRUNK.
She tells me 4 times in a row that she got the new job and feels bad about quiting the other one after only 3 days
on the job.
Her cute blonde friend is making me crack up because she keeps throwing up Hook em horns signs and yelling
woooooo. She is complaining that no one is hitting on her and asks me why. I tell her that most men are wusses
and she agrees.
HBSudoku breaks in the convo and asks me why I take 6 hours to respond to her texts. I tell her I was writing.
She says, Im not sure about you!
Then, I tell her that there are 3 levels. Someone who is at the first level only gets texts returned within 4-6 hours.
People at the second level get a text returned within 3 hours. People at the top level get returns in 1 hour.
She gives me a dirty look and I laugh.
She is being real stand offish. At one point she looks at me and says, We dont even know each other. I know
nothing about you. Whats your last name? You dont even know my last name do you?
She makes me put her last name in my phone and I text mine to her. She says, That way the cops will know who
you are.
CJ: haaa haaa thats the weirdest thing Ive ever heard. *** backturn ***
She leans over and tries to re-engage. THe drunk blonde says she wants to dance but no one is asking her to
dance. I tell her to make better eye contact and smile at the guys who pass by.
HBSudoku is looking at me like shes skeptical. Heres the only way I can describe the look. Have you ever met
someones 3 year old and they look at you like Who the fuck are you? And why are you talking to my
We go to get another drink and sit at another table. A dude they have seen here a few times comes over and talks
to the blonde. He takes her to dance. She likes him but HBSudoku keeps girl-coding her friend that she doesnt
approve. I keep trying to distract HBSudoku to stop because its obvious drunk blonde is cool with it.
Im getting shit tested hardcore. Im thinking I need more comfort.
CJ: Hey, lets play the question game, here are the rules(
HBSudoku: I dont like games!
CJ: Hey, lets do the question activity(
HBSudoku: Why does it take you 6 hours to text me back.
And, thats the basic texture of the next 20 minutes. BUT, Im not terribly worried because nearly everytime this
has happened Ive gotten laid.
HBSudoku: I thought Id know about you by now but I dont. Im not sure about you.
CJ: What do you want to know?
HB: Tell me something true.
CJ: uhhhhh(it takes 3 licks to get to the center of a tootsie roll pop.
HB: *** dirty look ***
CJ: What do you want to know? I have an older sister.
HB: I already know that.
I keep pushing the kino by leaning in direct to her ear to say stuff. I put both hands on her thighs. I touch the back
of her head and gently tug her hair.
HBSudoku: I dont like playing games I just wanna know whats going on!
Aha! I got it! She needs a strong IOI. I lean over real close and into her ear(
CJ: I think youre fucking sexy. You have awesome eyes. I love your hair. Your lips are amazing. I could be a
million other places but I came here alone to see you.
This softened her considerably. We talked another 3-4 minutes and then drunk blonde her guy came back. We
talked as a group for another 3-4 minutes. They went back to dance.

CJ: Stand up.

HB: no.
CJ: Stand up.
She stands up and I kiss her. We make out for about 2 minutes straight then I push her away.
Shes real quiet now.
About closing time she looks at me and says, Do you want to come over?
CJ: Of course.
At her place the escalation was quick. She went and got me the Diet Mr. Pibb and then sat down on the bed. I
grabbed her arm and started escalating. No LMR.
Bad thing is she wanted the lights totally off. I hate that. I wanna see titties bouncing, etc.
Heres another thing. Missionary only. I tried like a mofo to do her from behind so I could tax the J. Lo Booty but
she said, Thats gross!
What? Doggy style is gross? Are you fucking retarded? Doggystyle Rules!
~ Captain Jack ~

The Heat is On!

Posted at August 19, 2007

Sinn has 3 new lays(I believe 2 out of 3 were SNLs.

Future has 3 new lays(
El Topo has 2 new lays (that I know of)(
And, Im at 3 new lays with only 1 of them being an SNL despite being in my ultra-strange funk.
Who will take this months title?
~ Captain Jack ~

Pure Gangsterism
Posted at August 21, 2007

Since Im in a bit of a funk and weird shit is happening game-wise Ill link to two recent LRs(
Future just posted an awesome LR on his blog.
Go check it out: A book with an ending (LR).
And, Sinn just posted one titled, Fear the Stache.
Both exhibit the Pure Gangsterism of the new style.
~ CJ ~

Fireside with Fidelio: Porn Chicken

Posted at August 23, 2007

Porn Chicken by Fidelio. Need I say more?

Fireside with Fidelio: Porn Chicken

Attack of the Mexican-American Gorrilla

Posted at August 23, 2007

Im sitting at McDonalds a mere 5 miles from the Rio Grande. Tejano music is blaring at me from the ceiling.
Apparently Texans this far down south dont believe in Starbucks otherwise Id be there sipping some awesome
Coffee and using the internet there.
My dad is getting dental surgery done and being the ninja bargain shopper he is he hopped on the internet and
discovered that there are a shitload of US trained mexican doctors who will give you a smile like Brad Pitt for
about 1/3 the cost.
He calls me late Tuesday night and tells me hes rolling to Mexico and am I in? He wants to roll out the next day
in the afternoon for the 10 hour trek through the plains, then the hill country and then the desert until we collapse
at the Super 8 where well wake up to a Continental Breakfast (aka a banana, cereal, yogurt and burnt coffee).
Im in.
The next morning I wake up, throw my shit in a duffle bag, grab my iPod shuffle and an armload of books and
meet him in the Avalon.
We roll out like two pirates on a mission.
This morning after the sumptuous continental banana we drive to the border park, pay our 25 cents and cross the
Its awesome!
There are about 50 dental clinics with signs like youd see at wal-mart!
Crown and Bridge Special $15 dollars today only! (or something like that()
Ive got a little money in my account and Im imagining what Id look like with a mug full of Brad Pitt teeth. Or, I
imagine (with my luck) Id end up more like Matt Dillons character in Theres Something About Mary a mouth full
of overly large capped teeth.

I decide against impulse dentistry and start the short walk back through the border crossing.
And, then, I hit a slight snag.
The turnstile requires $3.00, problem is I dont carry cash. Theres a reason for this. Ill start the morning at 9am
with $60 (really it can be any amount but) and by 3pm that afternoon my pockets will be empty besides some
assorted change. Then, Ill have to stop and think where the fuck did all my cash go? Ill stand there a good 5 or
so minutes retracing steps, doing quick mental calculations and still have no idea wtf happened. (I was wondering
why Enron was so friggin interested in me()
I shove my hand into my pockets and dig up all my change. $2.63. Fuck!
I go back to Rio Dental Care. My dad is sprawled out in the dental chair with a blinding light shining down on him.
CJ: Yo, I need $3 for the border.
Daddy: agga la rosh ah ma
CJ: ????
He points to his front pocket. Why he couldnt go the extra 6 inches and pull the twenty out of his front pocket Ill
never know.
I grab the $20 and head back to the border.

I go to the little change booth and hand the guy a $20.00. He looks at me like whats this for? But, he doesnt
say that(he says something in Espanyol.
I stare back. Blank.
He says something else. I grunt and make hand motions. He makes bigger hand motions and talks louder.
We establish that yes I am, in fact, a 32 year old man who left his native homeland, walked across a border patrol
checkpoint to another country and walked back without bringing the correct change for the trip.
Neither of us said that, but our knowing glances said as much.
He leaves with my $20. I look back at the turnstile and it says, $3.00 in pesos or 30ct.
Shit. I feel stupid now. He couldnt believe I didnt have 30 cents.
He comes back with $19 in ones and 10 dimes. He puts the dimes in my hand and says, Three and makes
exaggerated hand motions at the turnstile.
I smile and nod, knowingly, because I had already figured that shit out all by myself while he was breaking the
$20 which I didnt need broken.
I stick my iPod earbuds in and turn on my trusty shuffle walking back to the parking lot on the U.S. side.
I walk by this imposing building and Im already considering what Im going to do with the rest of the day.
Maybe Ill find a Starbucks and have a nice cup of steaming hot coffee of the day while I write.
Maybe Ill pop into a movie theater and see a nice matinee.
When I hear such a clatter Im forced to take the ipod earbuds out of my ears. I look to the building to my right and
theres a 6 3 Mexican-American hopping around like an enraged Gorilla while banging on the window inside the
building next to me.
And, he has a gun. And a badge.
Im thinking. What the fuck did I do now? And, then, oh shit my Dad violated some mexican custom that nobody
ever told us white folks about and hes being hauled off for questioning by the Mexican secret service.
He points (emphatically) to the front door of the building I passed while rapping along with Lil Flip.
I get to the front door and theres a Department of Homeland Security symbol emblazoned on the front door.
The Gorrilla has calmed down.
Gorrilla: You asleep this morning?
CJ: Umm(never been here before.
Gorilla: What did you buy in Mexico.
The adrenaline is still coursing through my veins. Shit, Im a drug suspect. Some other white dude with purple
highlights in a black t-shirt with an iPod shuffle just fucking bought some heroin from an undercover agent and Im
about to get sent to federal pound-me-in-the-ass prison while he gets off free and gets to bang all the meth
whores he wants.
CJ: What? Uh, nothing, sir.
Gorilla: What were you doing in Mexico this early in the morning.
A few more questions and then he lets me through.
I hop in the Avalon and roll back towards Highway 83.
A free man (for now).
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. Viva La Mexico.

Posted at August 24, 2007

Ok, some weird things have been happening over the last week. Specifically since last Sunday night.
I start off at the x-bar close to my house for Karaoke night. Im alone.
When I first get there no one I know is there. I feel really calm and serene.
Im having a beer every now and then just laughing at the silly people singing.
I look back and this HOT girl with two Affliction Dudes is burning holes into me with her gaze. She smiles. I smile
and turn back around. Happens every now and then, not a big deal.
A few minutes later, a hot girl on the other side of the room is staring at me. When I look at her she leans over
while still looking at me and whispers into her friends ear. She looks over, too.

Now, they are both staring. They both smile.

I smile and then look away.
Waitress who is serving me is awfully close to me. Shes a new one. Great body. Face is good enough. Each time
I order she lingers a little longer than a Waitress normally would, standing a lot closer than a waitress should.
Waitress I got LMR from over a year ago does her obligatory smile and chat with me. I smile and do nothing but
answer her small talk questions. She holds my gaze as she walks off. Her head turned fully around to look as long
as she could. (This is normal, happens every time I go and shes there.)
Girl with two Affliction shirt dudes walks with them to the back pool table stealing backward glances all the way.
By this time, I notice 4 girls who Ive had sex with in the past are there. They are all now atrocities. Something
about sex with me causes women to gain 10-15 lbs. (Alright, 2 of them were barely passable to begin with but I
was practicing, and besides, Sinn forced me to nail the old lady.)
Its about 11:15 and Im thinking this is kind of strange. I want to go to one of the places Sinn and I hate. It doesnt
get rolling till about midnight so Ill make it just in time.
I get there and the ever-growing weirdness continues.
Im noticing lots of things Ive never noticed before. I feel disconnected, like Im there but outside of it all. Its
almost like theres a hurricane going on around me and Im in the center, the eye of the storm, all calm and shit
like a Buddhist monk.
Im standing at the edge of one of the table tops. When I notice an extremely hot blonde. The hottest girl in there
without a doubt. I literally wouldnt have changed one thing about her.
She looks at me, comes over with her other hot friend following, sets her drink down right in front of me, looks up
at me and says, Hi, how are you?
CJ: Good, how are you?
Hotness: Im good.
CJ: Cool.
And I say nothing else. I look over the top of her head surveying the surroundings. She stands there another 2
minutes, periodically looking at me. Almost begging me to re-engage.
About 20 minutes later Im at the other table and she comes over AGAIN. Sets her drink down and looks at me
several times. I do nothing.
There are two SUPER HOT Spanish twins. EVERY guy is fawning over them. Theyre the hot shit and they know
Im still watching the madness around me. I smell, see and feel the neediness of the guys all around me. I also
notice that the girls, even the ones who are accepting the kino, dancing and talking to the guys are in the midst of
an internal battle. They WANT to have sex, but on the other hand, these guys are so needy that they are also
turned off. The battle rages inside them.
The fact that guys get laid at all is a testimony to the power of the female sex drive. I actually felt sorry for the
Im posted against a column. One of the spanish twins grabs my hand, slides across me, rubbing her ass on my
crotch, grabs my other hand and pushes her ass into my crotch. About this time a chode walks up and leans in
and says, Are you a twin? she leans back into me with her whole body, makes a bad face and points to me as if
to say, Im with him.
He slinks away, she looks back at me smiles and saunters away.
I cant believe it. This is weirdness.
I go outside to see what is going on out there. Not much. On my way back another hot latina grabs my hand and
says, Hi, are you Dusty?
CJ: No. *smiling*
Hottie: Oh, sorry. and then she turns full towards me, standing about 6 inches from me. She gave me AIs all
CJ: Thats ok. and I smile as I walk off.
Two super hot blondes, tall with slender bodies with those tight fitting full body skirts that hug there bodies stand
next to me, periodically glancing up, waiting for me to open.
Tuesday, another venue I hate.

More of the same. I get opened three times. I do better managing to engage in a minute of convo before I stop
talking and walk off.
I literally get eye-fucked about 10 times. This is on a higher level than AIs. This is girls burning holes through me.
But I like it.
~ Captain Jack ~

Captain Jack says:

August 24, 2007 at 12:05 pm

Sunday night I was entirely by myself. Tuesday night I started by myself but Shaft ended up coming later and I ran
into Vector and his friend, too.
Sunday night I had jeans, a black button down shirt with silver stripes and Tuesday night I had a white button
down, the type youd wear with a tie.
Dressed pretty normal. No peacocking at all.
Like I said, its strange.
Captain Jack says:
August 25, 2007 at 4:13 pm

The AIs, random openings and proximity alerts continue(

(gas station(
(stop lights(
(grocery store(
(apt. mailbox(
Weirdness. Unexplainable.
~ CJ ~

Sudoku, Thoughts and Stuff

Posted at August 26, 2007

Its 2:28 am.

Im laying in my bed getting ready to read. My daughters are crashed out in the living room having fallen asleep in
the middle of The Santa Clause. (They literally watch it every time they come over at least once, maybe twice.)
A day at the bookstore, chuck e. cheeses and the playground can really take it out of a kid.
I hopped on the i-net to check some email and see if anyone updated their blogs (in the last 67 minutes Ive been
off the i-net.)
My phone is blowing up. The girl from LR: Sudoku has called 5 times since 2:10 a.m.! Earlier today I received an
email from an ex who wants me to come to her city to see her. Whats weird about that is someone who heard
about my marketing prowess contacted me just a few days ago offering to pay me a rather large hourly fee to
spend lunch and a half day talking advertising in the same city.
Then, another SUPER HOT girl contacted me off of an old internet dating profile. She sends me a nice email
saying that she doesnt normally email guys but found my profile so interesting she had to respond and asked me
to look at her profile and message her back if I was interested in meeting.
And, guess where she is?
Yep. Same city.
All within about 7-10 days of each other.

What are the fucking chances? My first reaction is(setup! But, after my paranoia subsided a little bit I couldnt for
the life of me find out how in the hell they could know each other or what other possible threads connecting these
situations there could possibly be(
My phone is buzzing now(its Sudoku girl again. Damn. Shes not leaving voicemails. Thought it mightve been
Sinn texting me something like, Thats #4 fag!
Sudoku = Stage 5 Clinger.
Banker to the Poor
I just finished watching an A&E documentary about J. Pierpont Morgan and Im about to start reading Banker to
the Poor by Muhammad Yunus. The story in a nutshell is this guy gives microloans to the poor and guides them
in basic business/financial knowledge thereby helping them lift THEMSELVES out of poverty. Its been a
tremendous success and he won the Nobel Peace Prize.
Now, most people who claim to be friends of the poor are usually (for lack of a better word) retarded. Instead of
helping them, they treat them like permanently wounded animals offering them food and shelter instead of offering
them the means to help themselves.
That style of help actually KEEPS them in poverty for life and makes them dependent on financial support from
others forever.
A great book so far. Im on page 45 so I got a ways to go but Im liking this guys thinking patterns so far(worth a
look for those of you interested in Economics and helping people out.
From the back cover:

He aimed to help the poor by supporting the spark of personal initiative and enterprise
by which they could lift themselves out of poverty forever.
One of the Warrior-King Society members sent me an article for next months newsletter about a tactic he uses to
simplify his life so he can focus on the good stuff. Its a great article and Im hoping as time goes on more and
more WKs will contribute in this manner.
Captain Jack Really Is Human Dept.
Members of the WKS know Im quite human as they watched my latest business launch go embarrassingly awry.
About $1,000 down the drain and a couple weeks worth of work returned a giant 0.
Oh well. Shit happens. Thats the thing with business launches. Most of them fail, but when you hit one it is
So, Im back to the drawing board on that front. Ive also had to confront some of my own issues in regard to how I
view myself in relation to wealth, etc. See, when it comes to making someone else rich, Im pretty good.
This realization come to full fruition when a WKS member (not sure he wants to be named so leaving his name
out) sent me this eye-opening email(
Can I give you my opinion of what I can see at least from the website
marketing for The Big Cash Letter? Im sure it is an incredible
product you are offering but that is because I know of your high
quality blog posts [you quite possibly have the absolute best PUA
blog out there....no flattery intended], your reputation within TMM
[heard great things about your training from people who've had bootcamps with you, big names there obviously vouch for you, etc.], and
also I really like the direction you are taking the W-K society and
the ideals you are afteras Im after the exact same things. If we
were to brush all that aside and assume the average person this
letter was direct mailed to, which I believe is the marketing method
you chose, knew none of this about you= Well, Im not sure if I
would buy the product because your credibility is strong from sources
that you cant really decipher from the website. Was your mailer the
same as the website? If so, it is a bit incomplete. You may need to
really create a story that compels people to buy that would assume
they didnt know of your other high quality endeavors. If these

problems were taken care of in the mailer, please disregard my


To which I replied:

Yes, I agree. In fact, what I noticed is that I treated this on a subpar level compared to
what Id allow to go out for a client of mine. In fact, this is a pattern in my life. When it
is for someone else I turn in high quality work but if its for myself I leave out important
pieces of the puzzle. The list selection alone shouldve set off alarm bells but I simply
ignored them. I wouldve NEVER allowed a client of mine to use such a shoddy list, not
build proper credibility, not test two headlines against each other, not have a phone
order option, etc.
Thanks for the feedback. This is one of those strange/fascinating/exciting times where
everything seems to be blowing up around me but whats really happening is the
realizations and learnings are coming hard and fast and I know they are preceding a
huge leap.
I noticed a GREAT DEAL of how Ive structured my life has been to avoid confronting my own personal
inadequacy fears.
These fears exist ONLY in certain areas. The overall belief is that Im just as good as anyone else, just as
valuable, just as capable. But, in specific instances and areas this belief breaks down and gives in to self-doubt
and fear.
Im in the process of identifying those specific areas and rooting them out. And, it is working well.
Its now 3:15 am. Time for me to read for a bit and then catch some sleep. Kids have a silly habit of waking up
about 20 minutes after the crack of dawn.
~ Captain Jack ~

Captain Jack says:

August 26, 2007 at 11:56 am

Thats awesome! Ill probably do a separate post about this one. Cool idea.
The Grameeen Bank (Yunus bank) has a 1% default rate, which is AMAZING it is so low given the situation. He
uses a mixture of education and social support groups to increase the likelihood of them repay. This is fascinating
Im going to have to increase my giving. I give monthly to St. Judes Children Hospital but I want to add something
like Grameen or Kiva to my list. If I cut my drinking down by another half that would free up the cash easily.
~ CJ ~

Kiss Tests
Posted at August 26, 2007

So, youre talking to this woman in a bar or club environment. Things are going well. You are past qualification
and having a real conversation. You think, Maybe I should kiss her(
How do you know she is ready to be kissed?

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And, the very question itself shows the difference in how men view kissing versus how women view kissing.
For women in the very early stages of talking to a man, the first kiss or two is more of an exploratory experience.
It is NOT a sexual act for them. It is more of a way to discover more about the man and their feelings for them.

If youve experimented with club makeouts before you may have noticed something curious. You make out with a
girl, you think its on. You get her number and begin fantasizing about how amazing its going to be on the Day2.
Youre thinking youll probably full close her. I mean, why not? You two were just kissing in public.
You call, no answer, no return call. Nothing.
Or, how about this one. You make out with a girl. It seems pretty on. A half hour later while youre in another set
you look over and shes making out with another dude. Youre thinking WTF?
In those early stages men put more sexual meaning in the kiss whereas for women its more about curiosity and
exploration of their feelings in relation to the man. (This is NOT to say that a kiss wont turn her on. She WILL start
to get turned on by kissing.)
An intermediate PUA running Flash Game could easily get 4-6 makeouts in a night and have little to show for it
at the end of the night.
Kiss Tests
How do you know when a woman is ready to be kissed?
Simple. If shes talking to you for more than 20-30 minutes, its going well and she is smiling and looking at you,
then she wants to be kissed. It really IS that simple.
Ill detail here a few kiss tests Ive used in the past and then tell you what I do now.
Mysterys Kiss Close
This was my bread and butter for a long time. I used it as the 4th or 5th question of the Question Game if her
questions were sexual.
PUA: You want to kiss me, dont you? (I say dont you with Command tonality, not question tonality)
IF HB: Yes
THEN *Kiss*
IF HB: No.
THEN PUA: I didnt say you could, you just looked like you had something on your mind.
IF HB: Maybe or Not Now/Here
I like this for a couple of reasons:
1. It is simple.
2. It allows you to add to your Calibration Reference Points
3. For the maybe or not now/here answers it builds anticipation
4. It subtly implies she wants the kiss more/before you did.
I DO NOT like it because it uses ego protection. Theres nothing like a lean away to burn the kissing calibration
into your bones. It can kill sexual tension and for less grounded PUAs a no can derail them.
Styles Evolution Phase Shift
Not going to list it here as it is rather long and involved. It does work. Ive seen many a PUA use it with success.
Great for Flash Game if you need to make an adjacent Target EXTREMELY jealous.
Pros: Interesting. Intriguing. Uses built-in physiological attraction mechanisms (hair pull).
Cons: Cant think of any(
Kino Test First
When I used to be a Wuss I devised this plan for kissing on the Day2 or on the Same Night in deep comfort. Id
lean in real close to her, if she didnt move, looked me deep in my eyes and opened her mouth a little Id kiss her
(maybe, depending on my boldness at that point.) If she leaned away even a little, Id reach for her earring or
necklace and give her a compliment on it.
Pros: Simple. Builds calibration. Builds anticipation.
Cons: Still protecting the ego. Missed opportunities because she could lean away out of nervousness or tension.
Stoplight Kiss
If Im in a girls car after pulling then I couldve kissed her LONG ago. I DO NOT want to have NOT kissed her by
the time I get to the sex location so when we hit a stop light I simply look over at her and say, Oh look a stoplight!
You know what that means! and pull her over and start making out. Never failed but then again it should work
because were already on our way to sex location.
What I do nowD
Now that I use sexual framing it is actually advantageous for me NOT to kiss her until the car ride home. It builds

anticipation and sexual tension to talk dirty, fill her mind with dirtiness and let it build. I WILL tease by getting real
close to her like Im about to kiss her and then not do it. Ill also talk in her ear a lot for the closeness and heat in
her ear.
Which brings me to another point. If you are talking in her ear and she presses her cheek to yours, she wants to
be kissed.
If its your goal to get really good at this you need to be debriefing the women you have sex with.
When did you know you wanted to kiss me? Or, When could I have first kissed you?
Youll be surprised at the answers.
There is another benefit to kissing in the club that I havent yet mentioned. It shows you have balls and youre
comfortable with the male/female dynamic.
But, so does telling you if she doesnt stop youre going to put her on the table and take care of business.
I like the dirty talking. It seems to work better than kissing.
~ Captain Jack ~

Posted at August 27, 2007

I feel so Zen in the field now. It is really interesting and intriguing to me. I have no idea where this whole
experiment is headed but I like the feeling so far and am enjoying the weirdness that abounds.
I did a mental calculation and figured out that in the last 10 days or so Ive been opened 7 or 8 times. But, couldnt
take it anywhere due to my Zen Ninja Calmness being so detached that I just dont even game.
Last night the venue seemed to have a 9-to-1 ration. That venue is hit or miss. I did get a few strong proximity
AIs, one of them being from the Spanish Twins, one of whom shoved her hot ass into my crotch, held both of my
hands and grinded on me last time.
About 1:30 am, while the Spanish twins are crowding me I look over and see a really cute long haired latina
staring at me. When she realizes Im looking at her she smiles and I smile back. A few minutes later its time for
another martini and I walk to the bar. She immediately comes and stands next to me and looks up at me.
HB: Hi!
CJ: Hi, hows it going?
HB: Good.
CJ: Cool(
* Dude, try to keep this one going unlike the last 9 times youve been opened( *
CJ: You look like youre having fun. What do you do?
HB: blah, blah, blah
CJ: Awesome, where you from?
HB: * Some town close to Oklahoma Ive never heard of(which means shes about 1hr 20 minutes north of me.*
CJ: Nice.
* She is leaning into me, whispering this stuff into my ear with her hand on the back of my head. I feel the heat of
her nice big breasts on my arm. *
She returns the questions, I answer. I do a week attempt to blow the guy she was with out but my Zen
DeAttachment causes me not to finish the routine.
HB: Give me your number!
She calls it and then chats with me, intros me to her hot friend and then goes back to her group.
Later, outside she comes up and says hi and high fives me and walks off looking back at me a couple of times.
She was with 2 guys and her hot friend. Not sure how they know each other.
While she was leaving I was already thinking how I couldve done things differently. I sincerely think this wouldve
been an SNL had I snapped into my Game Plan but I didnt.
We texted back and forth a few times at the end of the night and even today. Probably not going to go anywhere
as Im not driving 90 minutes to see a girl. I text her this:

Cool. When you come back down text me and well talk about maybe getting together.
HB: Hey babe! Sounds like a plan!
So, thats that(

My Dad told me this joke on the long drive to the border(

Hey, by the way, did you hear about the Buddhist Vaccum Cleaner?
Punchline in(
It comes with no attachments.
~ Captain Jack ~

The Magnification Principle

Posted at August 29, 2007

Ive said for a LONG time that Reactionism is the number one enemy of all PUAs.
My first rule of Pick-up is IGNORE anything that doesnt serve you.
Sinn and I dont do that many Day2s anymore because we have high SNL ratios. We were talking about flaking
earlier today and how we have no emotional reaction to it anymore. One of the main reasons is because it feels
like we have just as good a possibility getting laid by going out as we do on a Day2.
I remember the old style of PU said that you should berate a girl for flaking on you. You should tell her that you
are an important person and she cant treat you like that and you dont accept people like that in your life.
I disagree wholeheartedly.
If she flakes act like nothing happened at all. If she asks, you had a blast (and it should NOT be a lie(you need
to have so many options that you have a blast no matter what happens). If she reaches out again, set something
up again. Or, just tell her to come over and bring some beer/wine/snacks/a-movie. (Thats even better()
Because what you give attention to (either positive or negative) gets magnified.
Theres a metaphysical belief that says: Energy flows where attention goes. Put your words/attention on her bad
behavior and you give it energy.
My #1 rule says to IGNORE stuff that doesnt serve you and MAGNIFY what advances the seduction. When she
does something good for you or something you appreciate, praise it. I often praise a woman for her sexual
freedom and appetite. This magnifies it.
Im calling it The Magnification Principle and its a core principle of Zen Ninja seduction.
~ CJ ~

How My Ideal Pick-up Would Look

Posted at August 30, 2007

Sinn, Shaft and I were burning time at the mall before going to see Superbad when I launched into a description
of my perfect pick-up. Hopefully Sinn will post his, too.
I stroll into the bar about 12:30, dressed nice but not too nice cause I aint trying to impress anybody.
After about two minutes of me sitting down enjoying the chaos of neediness around me a Super Hot Jessica Alba
look-alike comes over to me.
HB: I noticed you saunter in and Im savvy to your style.
CJ: Thanks babe. Get me a drink and well rap for a spell.

HB: I would love to baby(Im guessing youre a Martini Man.

CJ: That I am(vodka martini, extra dirty, two olives.
She returns with my martini(
We rap for a spell.
HB: What are you doing after this?
CJ: You obviously have something in mind.
HB: It involves us naked with baby oil and lesbian porn on my 50-inch flat screen tv.
CJ: Cool.
HB: Shall we go then?
CJ: But of course(
~ Captain Jack ~

Same Night Lays and Evaporating Clouds

Posted at September 1, 2007

After I created Sticking Point Analysis my Game really took off. Id discover and bust Sticking Points with such
speed and ease that Id be forced to revamp (mainly streamline) my Game about every 3-4 months.
The end result was the Same Night Lay technology that makes Day2s almost unnecessary. And, even when you
need to resort to a Day2 its pretty much a slam dunk lay.
One thing I HAVE NOT mentioned is the other tool that allowed me to create SNL technology (or as Ali G would
say, Tecmology)
That is the tool of Presuposition Busting, extremely similar (and inspired by) Goldratts Evaporating Clouds
When I was first learning the MM model the idea that getting girls to go home with you the same night was
considered rare and fools mate or not tight game.
The quickest way to create a fantastic model is to start with your goal and then list what you believe the
constraints are(
Then, you systematically examine the presuppositions by asking Why? or What makes me think that? In this
way, you are challenging the very foundations of the system.
The presupps (and the tactics/methodology that implement them) CREATE the characteristics of the system,
positive and negative.
When brought to light you may discover that you actually dont believe the presup at all, it exists because of
society programming or whatever.
People get stuck in a rut when they use experience to prove something is the way it is while not realizing that
their very experience was the effect of the presuppositions. (i.e. The presupps become self-fulfilling prophecies in
your experience.)
As an example, Mysterys 7 Hour Rule. What most people dont realize is that (very) long time frame was arrived
at anecdotally. He asked the other PUAs what their meet-to-lay time frames were and it seemed that most fell
between 4 and 10 hours.
These were all indirect PUAs so they were using his Method (or something close). One of the fundamental
presupps in Mystery Method is women need a certain amount of Comfort before sex. So, we have PUAs all over
the world bouncing girls from the club to the after hours diner thus ADDING a couple hours to the timeline.
Notice also that a certain amount of Comfort is not a precise description by any means. Contrast this with the
explicit steps and fundamental principles in Breakthrough Comfort and youll begin to understand the value of
precise definition and identification of core principles.
Another presup in almost all of Gaming is that females arent as interested in sex as males are. (If you believe
that ask yourself, What makes me think that?)
There is a MOUNTAIN of scientific evidence that actually points the other way. But, if this was/is your presup, how
would that affect your Game?

So, right now, I am examining every single presup in the community regarding meeting, attracting and seducing
women and reformulating. Its a grand experiment and cool things are happening. In the last 10 days Ive been
opened well over 12 times. Ive had 4 girls number close me.
Are those spectacular results? No. Had I been running my usual stuff I mightve racked up 2-3 lays in that time
frame. (To be fair, though, I did lose 2 girls at the last minute who were almost sure SNLs.)
I got opened twice last night. I lost one girl because I violated Metaframe Consistency (more on that in a future
post) and the other waited an hour to open me and was so drunk by the time she opened that I couldnt do much
besides number close her. She texted twice and called me this morning.
I believe all great breakthroughs come by questioning presups. (Or, are created by outsiders who never adopted
the presups.)
~ Captain Jack ~

AsianPlayboy:10 Fool Proof Sexual-Kino

Compliance Tests
Posted at September 2, 2007

Another solid article from The Asian Playboy. Hes got a lot of great stuff going on. Go visit his new website atThe
ABCs of Attraction
Understanding & Mastering Sexual Anxiety
10 Fool Proof Sexual-Kino Compliance Tests!
Sexual anxiety was- without a doubt- my biggest sticking point that easily held me back for months if not more. It
prevented me from escalating whether for a one night stand, bathroom fuck, or going sexual on the date. Talk
about frustrating, until I finally clued in that General Attraction is different from Sexual Attraction which required
me to modify my early Buying Temperature and C&F Verbal Game tactics.
Quite frankly, in my honest opinion, I rank paralinguistics (ie Non-Verbal Game) as important -if not more so- than
Verbal Game. So instead of getting all verbose as in my previous article dealing with Inner Game, let me simple
give you ten (10) of my personal favorite and field tested Sexual-Kino Compliance Tests.
I use them quite often not only to ascertain her Sexual & General Attraction, but also to spike her emotional
Buying Temperature as well as Kino Plow into the fun zone of sex!
Sure youll feel awkward in the beginning, but theres the nice side benefit that, by using them as part of your Kino
Game and Compliance Testing, they will slowly help you get over your SA and become more comfortable around
women and conveying more dominance and sexuality through constant kino and compliance testing.
First, I- with regards to both the what and why- define Compliance Tests as:
1. A method (either verbal and non-) by which you gauge her Attraction (General or Sexual) to you.
2. Providing an OPTION for her to either pass or fail.
3. Encouraging and qualifying the right choice through a reward/punishment stratagem.
4. Establishing and maintaining the leader/masculine/dominance versus the follower/feminine/submissive frame.
5. Testing for, declawing, and/or eliminating Cat String attention whore / stripper types.
6. Finally, with regards to the objective of the article, the more you sexually CT her, the more comfortable you
become being, encouraging, and expecting sensuality from both you and her.
Secondly, here are some additional guidelines by which you can increase the successful CTs:
1. LEGITIMACY: Verbal CTs should always be phrased with a legitimate excuse. Trust me, girls are NOT
stupid. They KNOW why you want to get them upstairs. They just need it to pass the common sense test when
they brag about you to their girlfriends. It doesnt need to be logical or foolproof, it just needs to SOUND
legitimate. For Kino CTs, this is done with unspoken subtlety and confident body language as well as appropriate
levels of BT and privacy.
2. SPIKING THE CT: CTs are best off paired with some sort of Attraction Switch DHV or a BT Spike. The more

emotional and attracted she is to you, the more willing she is to comply and follow you without asking questions.
3. CT WITH KINO: ALWAYS try and pair a CT with a light KINO touch. Dont go out of your way and make it
weird, but throw in that little extra kino so shes physically stimulated at the same time.
4. INTIMACY BUBBLE: The closer you are to her- whether shes attracted or not- the more willing she is to
comply. You dont want to be creepy, but when youre sharing the same personal space, she is less likely to reject
the CT.
5. FASHION: Unless you or her are hardened criminals, a uniformed office gets your attention and demands
respect. In other words, dress like a MAN whos dominant and sure. Baggy, ghetto, or kiddy gear doesnt garner
respect. Power suits or a cohesive fashion sense can show youre someone to be followed.
6. SMILE: Smiling- like CJs Clown Grin- is essentially a BT spike. People feel good when theyre presented with
a genuine, infectious, and full smile. Its natural for her to feel comfortable around a friendly, vivacious, and fun
loving person.
7. NO FORCE: A lot of newbies carry the concept of The Illusion of Input as forcing her to jump through your
hoops. Bad PUA! You arent supposed to force her to do anything, simply encourage/highlight/present the RIGHT
8. RANDOM POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT: This is for the Negs Gone Wild or I am the Prize extremists( If
shes basically willing to do everything you want, you need to reward her whether it be with BT Spikes, BL, kino,
kisses, sex, or whatever. Dont be predictable, but do show that you acknowledge her enthusiastic compliance
with the SLIGHT hope that she might actually be able to win you over. Constant punishment and/or tests will
eventually convince her that you arent interested and/or attainable while constant rewards shows that youre
needy. Mix it up.
But enough theory, already!
Here are my fun, personally field tested, Compliance Tests. Some are new. Some are old. Some are purely kino
BT spikers. And some are sexual in nature. Field tested, APB-approved!
1. POINT & CLICK: This ones REALLY easy even for the novice amongst us. When youre in set for more than 5
minutes, start thinking where to maneuver and/or sit. Kino her shoulder, smile, point a short distance away (ie a
foot or two away from the crowd), and smoothly GLIDE over there. Do maintain eye contact, your smile, and a
steady flow of conversation. If she changes her BL and moves with you, its a mild sign that youre on the right
track and willing to distance herself from her home base/friends and be mini-isolated with you.
2. KISS & KINO LADDER: The Evolution Phase Shift is probably the most infamous of our PUA Kino Escalation
tactics. You can also do the Kiss me here, kiss me there, now kiss me riiiiight here( to go from cheek kisses to
full on makeout. Whatever the tactic, the kino/kiss ladder starts small and ends up big while maintaining a
sexualized conversation.
3. SENSUAL SHAKE & GLIDE: When youre introduced to her after some time, youll more than likely shake
hands. Feel free to do so but then HOLD YOUR PALM UPWARDS without releasing her hand, BUT without
holding her hand in place. Basically youre seeing if shell maintain the kino and hold hands with you or pull back.
If it lasts a while, you can start holding hands, tickle her palm, and/or simply do a caress & glide with your fingers
from her palm.
4. GENTLEMANS GRACE: Similar to the above except you flourish your hand out and kiss her hand while
smiling at her. Yeah, its archaic and seemingly anti-PUA, but think about it. One, youve initiated sexual kino.
And two, just GAZE into her face, lift her lips, smile, and observe her reaction. Is she turned on? Attracted?
Embarrassed? Freaked out? Remember, you use CTs to figure out where you are in the sarge and then use
small CTs to progress to larger ones like isolation, venue changing, and penis insertion.
5. CAVEMANNING: Women love to have their picture taken. They even practice their poses in the mirror and
come up photogenic tactics. So the next time you get a picture taken with a girl, PICK HER UP! Hey, Im 56 and
slim. Now I wont pick up a big boned girl, but Ive lifted my fair share of tanorexics, spinners, and flyers. Its an
easy and kino CT that you can pair up with something else.
6. PAPAS KNEE: I should invent a cool PUA Community name for this one, but its essentially a play off of the
very simple Hi-5 CT. This is best done at a BT Spike, seated, and semi-isolated. When you Hi-5, casually bring
her hand down to your knee, place it there, and let go while still maintaining constant eye contact and
conversation. Dont force her to maintain kino, youre simply trying to see if shes physically and sexually

compliant towards touching you. If she takes her hand away like a shamefaced monkey then you simply consider
it a sign post for you to Game more and Game better. Now, of course, if she starts to slowly move her hand up
your thigh(
7. BOOTY BUMP & GRIND: Booty bump her playfully with your ass to her ass. See if she reciprocates. Hell, take
her to the dance floor and ascertain her level of grindability. In either case, dont push it, simple see if she
responds positively. Of course, it helps to have rhythm.
8. SIT/LAP TEST: Make her sit in your lap or you in hers. You can motion, pat your knee, or verbally convey it.
Again, this isnt necessarily an ESCALATION move though it could turn into one. The primary goal is to see
where shes at on the Sexual Attraction thermometer. Cold means more BT and Game. Hot lap grinding means
its time to think logistics and extraction. For the more timid amongst you, simply motion for her to sit next to you
while you press your thigh against her thigh and knee. Again, judge her reaction if she stays in constant kino with
you or not.
9. PROMENADE: An oldie but still a goodie. When you walk with her, simple put out your elbow and see if she
holds your elbow. Advanced versions could include both hands, palm squeezing, tickling, booty bumps, etc.
10. TRUST TEST: Another oldie but still a goodie. Advanced tactics include tickling, caressing, palm reading, and
sticking out your tongue at her.
Now go out in the field and try them out! And be sure to post up what kind of shenanigans yall got yourselves
-The Asian Playboy
P.S. Other excellent references on verbal/sexual CTs include CJs How To Article and for other non-verbal
CTs Sinns Comfort Threshold. Or one of my favorite articles( Sexual Identity: Less Talk, More Sex!

Lay Report: Girls Want to Chase

Posted at September 3, 2007

HBFreakazoid and I are both naked on Sinns couch which is quickly approaching The Pirate Pad(TM) couch in
DNA levels. Im sweating and breathing heavy from bringin it.
Im about to glaze her so I ask her where she wants it. She moans and says, Inside me. Then she says, No,
wait. Im not on the pill. I say, I already got 2 kids and thrust a few times to try to pull out to finish on her
beautiful breasts. Right as Im about to nut she says, cum inside me! and clinches her legs to keep me in. I pull
out and almost immediately go limp.
We mess around again and I go back in. Im about 10 thrusts away when Sinn and his HB come out to smoke on
the patio.
We start again and in the middle she says, Lets go to your place. I want you to fuck me all night and all day!
I go, Cool.
We start getting dressed and we run out of the apt. giggling like two teenagers who just toilet papered the
neighborhood grumpy old mans house.
We get down to the parking garage and Im looking for my car.
Then, I start laughing because I forgot Sinn picked me up that night. She wasnt so amused.

The Pick-Up Friday Night

Sinns on fire and hes all over the place. Im chilling, practicing my Zen nature and seeing how far I can take this
non-approaching system.
Ive been opened a couple times. One was by a tall latin girl who I thought was at least a solid 8. (Sinn didnt like
her at all.) She was also very cool, elegant and down to earth.

I had just ordered a Shiner Bock draft and it didnt taste right at all so I got the bartenders attention to get a
different kind of bear.
HBTallLatina: Are you being difficult?
CJ: Yes, Im very picky.
We made a LOT of what is usually called fluff talk. She was into it. I think the idea that I wasnt pursuing at all
made her start pursuing me. A couple of times when shed talk shed lean into me and put her cheek on mine.
I seem to remember that this is significant(something in my brain senses a slight remembrance to(oh fucking
yeah(not even a week before I wrote a post on Kiss Tests in which I, like a GrandMaster Sex Escalation Wizard

What I do now
Now that I use sexual framing it is actually advantageous for me NOT to kiss her until
the car ride home. It builds anticipation and sexual tension to talk dirty, fill her mind
with dirtiness and let it build. I WILL tease by getting real close to her like Im about to
kiss her and then not do it. Ill also talk in her ear a lot for the closeness and heat in her
Which brings me to another point. If you are talking in her ear and she
presses her cheek to yours, she wants to be kissed.
In any case, I lost this one and after mentally reviewing I thought it was because I missed the sexual escalation
window so she had to figure that either I wasnt really interested or I didnt know what I was doing.
I took another shot at her later but when I switched from being Zen to pursuing it wasnt there.
I post up at the middle bar and almost immediately theres a really hot girl with a shirt that is about 1/4 of an inch
from revealing her nipples staring at me. She is being extremely blatant about it(
(and theres a hot girl in these gray tight cottony pants who keeps rubbing her ass on my hand and looking back.
She does this no less than 10 times.
I look over and say, If were going to be this intimate we should at least get to know each other. She giggles and
waits for a second for me to say something else. I dont so she turns back around.
I stay there enjoying the music for awhile. Shes still staring and I keep saying mentally, If you want it you need to
come and get it.
Another girl walks by and says something to me briefly and when I dont keep the convo going she stays about
two feet off to my left with her friend. They keep looking over.
At about closing time HBFreakazoid comes over right next to me and says, Im HBFreakazoid but I wasnt
looking at her so I didnt know if she was saying it to me or someone else. I decide it was for me as she was
staring at me all night. I say something like Hows it going(
We small talk for a bit and I invite her to go eat with us. She says ok but she has to close her tab first. She is
EXTREMELY drunk, though, and her friend is obviously driving. So when I come back around and tell her to
follow us south, she says they are going north.
I already have her number so I pat her on the head and Sinn and I roll out.
She calls me on the way home but she is making NO SENSE. It was so funny I put her on speaker so Sinn can
The next morning she sends me two texts. I text back and she calls. We chat briefly and I tell her Ill be heading
out tonight but Im not sure where. She says she wants to hang out and I tell her to give me a call later to see
where I am.
Im still not pursuing and everything is framed that she has to do the work.
The Close
The girl texted me earlier and I told her where Id be but dont hear anything back.
Saturday night we end up at the same bar. Her friend recognizes me and starts chatting and then says,
HBFreakazoid is here! Wait right here!

When the friend comes back Sinn starts seeding the pull. There was a cute enough Mexican girl who was burning
holes in me with her eyes. I finally hold out my hand and she comes over. We talk a bit before she heads back to
her friends.
A little later we start talking again and I number close her in the parking lot right before HBFreakazoid comes out.
Weve been texting back and forth so Im going to get her on a Time Constrained Day2 this week.
By the time we get to her friends car were making out. I finger her in the backseat.
Get back to Sinns pad and we both close no LMR.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. You can read Sinns version here.

On The Verge
Posted at September 4, 2007

Sinn is taking our Sexual Framing shit to a new level by deftly mixing it with Breakthrough Comfort. Hes also
reaching a point (as have I) where he truly doesnt care when or even if he closes a girl.
Im going a completely different direction. In fact, its probably the OPPOSITE direction. I am REFUSING to open
girls with anything more than a Hey, whats up? and then using the Death Topics until I can get them to
pursue. (Actually, I am RARELY opening at all, leaving it to them unless the AIs and proximity are so undeniable
that I feel they couldnt be any bolder). When they begin chasing I apply Magnification Principle by encouraging
them to continue pursuing me but never letting them feel like they have me 100%. It is an intriguing dance and
hard. But, when it works it looks like it just happened.
Ive noticed that girls often strain themselves to make you open them. I am now seeing more proximity AIs than
ever in my life, even more than when I peacocked. When I refuse to open them, theyll often stare at me, if that
doesnt work theyll open me with Kino.
Last night two girls opened me (thats the average, it seems). One did so by putting the martini menu in front of
me at the bar and looking at me. When I looked at her she said, Which one is good?
The second girl, hotter and a lot more bold, felt it would be a great idea to look at me and then step on my shoe
and smile. I smiled back but said nothing. She kept looking, I kept looking. Stalemate until one of the 89 guys
orbiting her grabbed her away.
It seems that girls are much more keen to use bodylanguage and kino to entice you to open and only the bolder
ones will actually take the final step of verbal opening.
Another observation which I may have mentioned before is the women seem genuinely conflicted. Their desire for
sex is the only thing that keeps them going to these places because I can see the disdain for 99.9% of males
neediness. They are literally having negative kinesthetic reactions to guys they are all over but they push through
because it is all they know.
My belief is if I can get great at this phenomena the seductions will go smoother and quicker than any of us ever
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. A post on Advanced Refinement and Metaframe Consistency coming up real soon along wih more on
examining the core presupps prevalent in the community and my experimentation in bustin them.

Chicago, More Zen Pick-Up and Leonardo DiCaprio

Posted at September 10, 2007

Sunday morning I wake up with a massive headache AND a massive boner.

The headache is from going out with Printer and some of his peeps in Chicago. He called me Wednesday and
said he had an extra plane ticket to a convention in chicago at which I might be able to make some direct mail
contacts. I dont have my daughters so I was game.
Saturday night every time I turn around these fuckers are handing me drinks. We ditch the first venue and head to
another one but when we get there the line to get in stretches off into the horizon as far as the eye can see. Its
about 12:15 and doing some quick mental calculations we deduce that we aint getting in tonight.
Printer considers paying off the door guy to get us all in(but decides not to. But, as we are walking by the patio
door he meekly (yes, I used the words Printer and meekly in the same paragraph) walks up to the bouncer and
says, Hey, Im with clients and Im trying to show them a good time. Is there any way I can get them in?
The door guy, feeling the surge of power as he holds the fate of 6 dudes in his hands, puts on his Im cool like
that face, gives Printer a wassup hand shake and opens the door. We roll in for free.
A hot blonde opened me but I got tired of trying to hold a drunk girls attention so I chatted another girl who
opened me about my tie. She wasnt good looking in the face but she was tall and slender and her body was
extremely tight and every third sentence out of her mouth was a compliment. So, I focused on her a bit.
Printer and I pulled the cute blonde and her cute brunnette (both with nice boobies) to another club.
I had the blonde as a Target but actually liked the brunnette better and I heard her (the brunnette) tell the cabbie
that she had a boyfriend so I told Printer to take the blond and Id try the brunnette as Ive had more experience
with girls w/ bfs.
The blonds drunkeness was reaching epic proportions inside this other club and I think I missed (again!) the
escalation window for the brunette and our opportunity just fizzled.
I got attacked by a hot girl in the street because she saw me laughing at her boyfriend who was about to get into a
fight. All I could do while that skinny girls arms and legs were flailing was laugh while trying to fend off her
whirlwind of fury and Printer grabbed me and we went down the street to get something to eat.
While were waiting for the food I go back outside and shes there with her boyfriend. They look at me, he says
something and I say, Nobody wants you guys here. Nobody. Leave. Youre not wanted. Go! as Im shewing
them away with my hands. Being shewed away while someone is yelling youre not wanted here seems to have
a great effect. The girl looks hurt as she says, Dont shew me! but they keep walking as the guy is trash talking.
Im not a violent person at all but I envisioned knocking both of their teeth out with a flying elbow slam to the
Printer and I both have to piss REAL bad but its about 4:30 am and theres nowhere to pee. Were laughing our
asses off about various things on the cab ride home and get rather giggly so that almost everything makes us
We hit the elevator and were laughing so hard that Printer is about to pee his pants. So, he whips it out and pees
in the corner of the elevator. Im now laughing so hard and *I* have to pee as well and the sound of *him*
laughing and peeing in the corner intensifies my desire so much that I feel the first sensation of piss making its
way through GIGANTOR. If I dont whip it out Im gonna be a grown man who pissed his pants. Im good at
making these types of split decisions. I unzip and let it loose in the elevator.
The relief was amazing.
This is how I imagine that maintenance call going.
Dispatcher: Um(we need cleanup on elevator 4 please. Make sure you bring gloves, febreeze and a mask. Two
drunken retards just peed in the elevator.
House Keeping: Repites por favor(did jew say peed in elevator.
Dispatcher: That is correct. Two retards peed in elevator 4.
Thats been the story of Chicago. Mega hot girls. They open, we talk, the set evaporates before my eyes for
seemingly no reason. This new style can be frustrating but new things seem to be happening every time I go out
so Ill ride this out.

Leonardo DiCaprio

So Sunday I take my massive throbbing head down to get something to eat. Theres a little pizza place here in the
lobby that is really good.
I feel like death so I send this text to Printer:

Heres a big middle finger to everyone who bought me drinks last night Im now on a quest for advil or horse
tranquilizers whichever comes first.
The pizza here is the kind where they pile stuff on. Lots of pepperoni, lots of cheese. I take the first delicious bite
of my pizza but dont bite all the way through the cheese so everything comes off the slice and is dangling from
my mouth.
There is now tomato sauce on my soul patch.
I dont have a napkin handy. Decision time. Do I shove the whole wad of cheese and pepperoni into my mouth
and chew on it for five minutes or do I bite down and pull on the wad of cheese until it separates?
As Im contemplating this I glance up and theres a hot blonde milf giving me the *fuck me eyes.* She is ultraelegant, wearing one of those lady suits professional women wear. Every hair on her head is immaculate and her
jewelry shines.
I bite through the cheese and it drops back on the plate. When I look back up the two dudes (also in suits) are
staring as well. I smile again and notice the womans mouth is moving while shes looking at me.
CJ: What?
MILF: You look like Leanardo DiCaprio(Im sure youve heard that before.
CJ: Oh yeah, all the time. *Ive never heard that before in my life, every 2-3 months Ill get Mark Wahlberg but
never Leanardo.*
I continue enjoying my delicious pizza. As theyre leaving she is fucking me again with her eyes.
MILF: Actually, youre MUCH BETTER looking than Leanardo as shes smiling and walking off.
CJ: Thanks.
I spent the rest of my meal contemplating the optimum move for those types of situations.
~ Captain Jack ~

Fireside with Fidelio: Dream a Little Dream

Posted at September 11, 2007

Fireside with Fidelio: Dream a Little Dream(

Classic Lay Report: Apples or Donuts

Posted at September 16, 2007

While Ive been laying low, devising a new Pick-Up Methodology AND planning my eventual domination of the
entire Advertising industry, Ive been too busy to put some thought into a valuable blog post. I DO have some
things percolating regarding my new methodology but its in the Theory, Planning and Observation stages and I
need more field data to tighten up the ideas(
(and, since Sinn and I just announced the Same Night Lay program I figure Id pull out one from a little over a
year ago. Now, this LR does NOT contain the stuff well be teaching because what Ive discovered over the last
year BLOWS THIS AWAY completely and thoroughly. There are some similarities, though. But, while reading this
just keep in mind it was over a year ago(and Ive had over 25+ new lays since this one, a GREAT DEAL of them
Stay tuned(
LR: Apples or Donuts
August 8th, 2006
So there I was in the local QuikTrip at 4:24 am, hungry as hell and thirsty, too.
I had to get something to eat. I thought, Man, you need to lose 15-20 lbs. You should grab an apple. As my hand
started drifting to the apple, a Krispy Kreme display jumped out at me.

Hmmm. Apple or donut. Dude, you gotta lose some weight.

An inner voice said, Lose weight? What for? Do you think its gonna matter to your Game?
And, the truth WAS that it crossed my mind. But, its untrue.
(I want to get this off my chest because I read between the lines when I chat, watch or read some of your
posts(its been bothering me for awhile so Ive gotta get out before I explode()
- Be Taller
- Have More Hair
- Be Skinnier (or more muscular)
- Make More Money
- Be Younger/Older
blah, blah, blah, fuck
Weight doesnt matter.
Looks dont matter.
Age doesnt matter.
Height doesnt matter.
Any one who thinks it is important (for Game) is wrong OR theyre just hiding behind a fucking excuse.
Actually, it does matter, but only to YOU and in YOUR mind.
Ive seen some of the weirdest shit since starting to game. One time Blincubus and I saw TWO different HB9+
with dudes who were about 5 3, bald and probably around 300 lbs in the SAME NIGHT.
We couldnt believe it. I remember it clearly. Blincubus was going ape-shit over this brunette church-girl hb9+ who
was playing darts. He was about to approach her but got distracted. Not even 5 minutse later she walked by with
said epitomy-of-not-hot specimen and she was ALL OVER that dude.
Not even 5 minutes later ANOTHER HB9 walked by with another dude with roughly the same stats (maybe an
inch or two taller).

AceOfHearts, Otto, Tribulus and I met at Sherlocks.

We bullshitted for awhile and Trib and AceOfHearts did their cool winging gambit on the cute waittress. Trib did
some good work and had her HOOKED with his take-away. Gave me goose-bumps and shit.
Ace and I rolled to the other side and I saw this little hottie with a PlayBoy shirt plastered over her tits. She also
had a lip ring and a few tattoos (butterflies).
She was alone and I thought, Naw dude, wait for her group. Then, I thought, Screw that man. Go in now and if
her group comes deal with them later.
I think I left Ace in mid-sentence(sorry man.
(Turns out she JUST broke up with her BF a few days ago. She came up there alone but met a couple people she
knows. Including two of the waittresses and the manager.)
Just the highlights(
Opened with David Bowie.
Teased her with statements like, Umm(Note to self DONT date this girl
Shake my head, Omigod, can dress her up but cant take her anywhere.
Played Guess My Age Game that I made up about a year ago.
Told her I had you at 18, I was wondering how you got in here. Fake id or connection. (Shes 22)
Told her she lost points for drinking a fake beer (Rolling Rock).
Qualified her Beauty is common(
Took her to meet Trib, Otto, Ace to parade and then isolate.
In isolation ESP Gambit hit both numbers. This freaked her out because she was raised religious.
I Like( Game
DHVed with story about ex who was a stripper(
Turns out SHE is a stripper (excuse me, exotic dancer). I immediately get up and act like Im leaving. She pulls
me back.
Mysterys Never work out between us( gambit(
I move her to other side.

She dances on me and I push her off and tell her thatll cost her one dollar. Her jaw drops.
She tries again. Youre up to two dollars and push her away. She cant believe it.
Listen to some music. Vibe a bit. Play the TV Game.
Move her again to booth.
Try Mysterys Kiss Close. but she turns her head.
I back turn and tell her she ruined a great moment. She apologizes and tries to get me to turn back around. I
gradually do and start chatting about mundane shit.
Right in the middle of my sentence she kisses me on the cheek.
I say, Nice. Reminds me of middle school.
Heres something funny I did. She said I have to go to the bathroom. I start a new thread to keep her there and
mid-thread say I have to pee. and I get up. She tries to get up but I push her back in the seat. Ha ha.
Kiss close comes soon after.
At 1:30 I say, wow! almost 2:00. Ive gotta go get some sleep soon.
A few minutes later she says shes having fun and doesnt feel like going home. I dont respond.
At 1:40 I say, geeez, its already 1:40. Ive gotta be up early. She immediately responds I dont wanna go home
yet! Do you live alone?
CJ: yep
HB: Well, I dont want to go home yet
CJ: ok
HB: can we hang out at your place for a little while.
CJ: hmmm(ok, but only for a little while.
During the drive I gave two small routines I call Heart Melters (I dont have a better phrase, maybe you can think
of one)(
Ill post them later if anyone wants them. They have NEVER failed to make the girl go Awwwww! Thats sooooo
Took me about an hour to escalate to Full Monty. My LMR tactic of doing a take-away AS SOON AS I notice
muscle tension works like a charm.
She has squirting orgasms! How fucking awesome is that!
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. I didnt get the apple or a donut. Instead I opted for a box of 15 Jacks Pizza Bursts for $1.59. I AM going to
lose 15-20 lbs but not because I think itll make a difference in my game but because I have felt better when I was
around 190lbs versus my current 210.
P.S.S. She number closed me while I was taking her home. Asked me if it was a fake number and doublechecked it while we were driving. Ha ha. Playing hard to get is fun.

Captain Jack says:

September 19, 2007 at 2:39 am

I would LOVE to do an interview with the Pickup podcast crew. We talked about it about a month ago but I kept
having retarded interrupts. But, Ill recontact them(
I know. Ive been restructuring my Game and that always accompanies a dip in my Game. But, my future doesnt
lie in PU instruction. I am building a huge marketing co. so Im about to get back to refining my SNL technology(I
just lament not being able to continue refining my newer InnerGame based gaming tech(I think it couldve
revolutionized PU.
Anonymous3, my point was that physical stuff has LITTLE to do with Game. I AM concerned with my health but it
hasnt nothing to do with Game. Ive had LOTS of super hot girls while being 30 lbs overweight so its no excuse.
Id LOVE to hit Cyprus. Once I get this company rolling I plan on sailing for a bit and that region Greek Aisles and
Cyprus is on my list(

~ CJ ~

CaptainJack, APB and Propeht in D Magazine

Posted at September 21, 2007

This is an article below published about 2 years ago about a workshop APB and Prophet conducted that I helped
out at. Seeing as how I was there for the whole thing and can read the article from an eyewitness standpoint, I no
longer trust anything I read.
But, its at least an entertaining read.
How To Score with Hot Babes
At a Holiday Inn Express in Addison, I went to a $300 seminar that supposedly teaches men how the female mind
works. Now Im scared for women everywhere.
by Paige Phelps
Asian playboy calls me on my work line.
This is the guy youve been speaking to, he says carefully, then pauses. I pause, too. I have no idea who it is.
He speaks again: About the group Im involved with? The seminar?
Of course! Asian Playboy! Id been communicating with him via e-mail for a few days, trying to convince him to
allow me to attend his workshop. He runs an outfit for dateless men called Natural Attraction, teaching The Game,
a step-by-step method for scoring with hot babes (or, in The Games parlance, HBs). These men aspire to
become pickup artists (or PUAs, pronounced pooh-ahs), and they pay money to learn, supposedly, how the
female mind works.
Online PUA communities, called seduction lairs, can be found from here to China, claiming millions of members.
The Dallas chapter is small, but Asian Playboy says that under his able leadership, it has recently tripled in size,
up to 128 members. Think of it as a lonely-hearts club with a Dungeons & Dragons twist.
For this phenomenon, we can thank Neil Strauss (aka Style, because everyone uses a pseudonym in Game
circles), for unleashing the secrets of sex-seeking machines into the mainstream. His book The Game:
Penetrating the Secret Society of Professional Pickup Artists, published in September 2005, spent six weeks on
the New York Times bestseller list and told of his life inside the PUA Game, living in a grotto-like frat house called
Project Hollywood under the tutelage of a man named Mystery, who claims to be the greatest pickup artist in the
world. Mystery, like Asian Playboy, also teaches men how to score with women. His Las Vegas special boot
camp costs $2,750.
I wanted to infiltrate the secret society, learn the lingo, see the technique at work in the field. Asian Playboy (APB
for short) was calling to find out my angle, my level of interest, and, most of all, my sincerity.
What about meeting in the morning? I ask Asian Playboy, looking at my calendar.
He laughs. I dont wake up in the morning, he says. He suggests we meet instead at happy hour at Chaucers in
How will I know who you are? I ask.
Wear something pink, he says. Ill find you.
characters and fake ivy. Waitresses wear a Goth fem-bot uniform of black knee-high boots, black micro-minis,
and tiny black tanks. I am way overdressed, wearing clothes.
I spot the only Asian man, in the bar outside on the patio.
Are you Asian Playboy? I ask timidly.
It depends, he says. Whos asking?
It is him. I can tell by the voice.

There is a man sitting next to him, a man I will know only as Captain Jack. I nod my hellos.
So you want to attend a PUA seminar? Asian Playboy inquires. He is sipping raspberry sake. He says if I am
allowed inside The Game, I will have to adhere to certain parameters. For instance, I will not be allowed to
describe the distinctive jacket he is wearing, because everyone recognizes the jacket and would immediately
know whom I was writing about.
I agree to this term, but I tell him that I have some ground rules, too. First, I need someone inside the lair to give
me a real name. They tell me that Jason Danger Bailey is my man. A newbie whos been gaming for less than a
year, already he has real PUA potential.
If I were a girl, Id sleep with him, Asian Playboy says. This is not a joke.
The two men allow me to advance to the next phase of my approval process, which essentially involves meeting
Asian Playboys partner in Natural Attraction, a man named Prophet, and buying them many margaritas at
Primos on McKinney. (A PUA cardinal rule is never, ever, under any circumstances whatsoever, buy a woman a
drink when you first meet her.) Finally, it is decided that I can attend a PUA workshop, time and place TBD. I am
instructed to look for an e-mail from Asian Playboy in the next week.
When it arrives, it says, 1) The first rule of Fight Club ( You do not talk about Fight Club! 2) The second rule of
Fight Club ( You DO NOT talk about Fight Club! 3) If this is your first night in Fight Club ( you HAVE to fight. I
am to meet the lair at 4 pm at a Holiday Inn Express in Addison.
hours of field training at a local club, plus individual follow-ups later that night at IHOP. The cost for the
workshop is $300, alcohol and dinner at Chipotle not included.
I head to the inexplicably named Belmont Room at the Holiday Inn Express. Prophet stands at the head of the
class, writing his course outline on an easel notepad. Eight guys, more than one wearing a t-shirt tucked into
khakis, sit silently at the back of the room, which has a green floral carpet. Plastic cups filled with tap water sit on
tables with pleated, mauve tablecloths.
Before I teach you the basics, youve got to learn what it means to be human, Prophet begins.
He asks us all to take out a piece of paper.
I want you to write down three goals you guys have for yourself. One, what you want to do with these laws of
attraction in 10 years. Two, where you want to be in one year. And, three, where you want to be tonight.
As we write, Prophet passes out reference texts: Sexology, Why Men Love Bitches, and The Art of Seduction.
We are asked to read our goals aloud to the class. Captain Jack volunteers to go first.
Before the workshop, Captain Jack told me his story, how learning The Game transformed him. He sounded
almost born-again. In the weeks and months after his divorce, he told me, he found himself lonely and unable to
connect with women. I would get all dressed up and go to bars and spend hours just drinking alone, he said.
Later, driving home, Id be almost in tears. I felt like such an outsider. But today Captain Jack is a lair expert.
Newbies look to him for tips on peacocking, an over-the-top dressing style used to attract women. Only the most
confident of men are advised to attempt peacocking. Captain Jack prefers a loud shirt and an acid-washed
cowboy hat.
In the workshop, he tells the class that in 10 years he hopes to be remarried, maybe adding to the kids he has
from his first marriage. But, in the short term, he would really like a relationship with a bisexual woman who will
pleasure him with hot threesomes.
A skinny Asian guy stands to read next. In a year, Id like to be where Captain Jack is now, he tells the class.
Eventually, we get around to the basics, how The Game is actually played. Natural Attraction teaches a simple
ABC process for seducing an HB: A stands for approach; B for buying temperature; C, comfort; D,
direct interest; E, escalate and extract; and FF you can imagine. APB and Captain Jack explain that it is
simply a method to teach guys to be cool around women, to cut out any creepy vibe or friend vibe they may or
may not know they give off.
Its about conveying your personality and understanding how women act and react by their body language and
their responses, Captain Jack says. A lot of critics think were trying to pull the wool over womens eyes, but
thats not it. Its about getting to the same level of social skills as the women we are attracted to.
Its not a science. Its an art, adds APB, smiling.
Our art lesson focuses on our night game. In other words, how to act in a nightclub to woo women: how you chill
and how to dress, APBs territory; how to bring a woman emotionally closer (hint: tell her a sad story involving

your dead best friend), Prophets territory; and, most important, how to perfect the sarge, or how to hit on an HB.
For this last one, each guy walks to the front of the class and demonstrates his opening line on me, the closest
thing around to an HB.
Captain Jack tells the class that a great opener is ,Your tits are cute.
I frown. Theres no way that will work, I tell the boys.
It worked last night, Captain Jack says.
The guys look at me, then at Captain Jack, and without a doubt the room tilts in his favor.
I am the only woman in the Belmont Room, and no one wants my opinion on how to approach women. The irony
appears lost on everyone.
The lesson continues: at stage F, a man must determine whether his conquest is an ONS (one-night stand) or
LTR (long-term relationship). This stage is very tricky. Thats why Prophet teaches ways to avoid LMRs (lastminute resistances), excuses a woman has for avoiding sex. LMRs are also referred to as ASD (anti-slut
defense), which is what lair Fast Seduction defines as chick logic, to relieve the guilt from having sex too quickly
with a man.
The men in the class are silent. They are busy taking notes. After dinner at Chipotle, it will be time to change into
our sexy night-game clothes for field training. The tension is palpable. I am scared for women everywhere.
Carsons Live in North Dallas is like. Theres music, loud and lots of it, all styles. And themed rooms and chicken
wings and champagne and sexy women in miniscule outfits who dance on the bars whenever the urge strikes.
This is the setting for our field training. Asian Playboy secured in advance a VIP table for us inside the Vortex,
Carsons dance club that spins techno remixes of Jesses Girl. I order a drink (the first of many, none of which is
paid for by any PUA). Asian Playboy tells us not to hit on the waitresses because he was working that scene and
has already slept with two of them and is, in fact, working on a third.
The PUAs-in-training dressed themselves. One donned an all-black suit with a banana-yellow Batman tie.
Another wore a sweater that Bill Cosby wouldnt touch.
Prophet sits beside me in a booth and points out a guy through the window separating us from the pizza-parlor
part of Carsons. The obvious non-PUA is attempting to hit on the beer-cooler girl, an unseasonably tan woman
with a tiny outfit so badly ripped and torn that one might assume she headed to work directly after a bear attack.
I would try and close her, but you cant, Prophet says. The club has bodyguards watching her. Anytime a guy
talks to her for too long, they send a bouncer in to run him off. Theres not enough time to Game her.
Meanwhile the newbies are going crazy. They pounce from set to set (groups of girls) with the energy of
hyperglycemic junior high students, opening and closing as quickly as they can. They never sit down to chill, as
they were taught.
We dont use lines, Asian Playboy says. Lines dont work.
Instead, the guys use openers. Asian Playboy demonstrates for me.
Okay, he says to a set of girls by the dance floor. Settle a bet for me. My friend and I were just arguing about
who would win in a fight, James Bond or Indiana Jones. I say James Bond.
The set of three girls giggle outrageously, as if it is the funniest thing they have ever heard.
Hey, that really worked, I tell him later, amazed.
Yeah, but those girls were dogs, he says. I only used them as a warm-up.
Meanwhile I spy our 21-year-old college student newbie walking with the grace of a Storm Trooper across the
room. His opener goes something like this: Who lies more? Men or women? When he says it, he moves his arm
up and down stiffly, like an action figure. We tried to work on this during the seminar. His colleague, an Asian
newbie who had driven in from Houston to learn The Game, preferred the opener, If a girl kisses another girl, is
that cheating?
On the opposite side of the room, a Russian guy (The Vigo) isnt having much luck and quickly becomes
distraught. When Prophet returns to our table escorted by a couple of girls with bad boob jobs, I really think The
Vigo might cry. I feel sorry for the guy. So I give him the pep talk of his life, telling him he is awesome and he
could get any girl he wants, including the ones with boob jobs.
I grab The Vigos hand. Come on, I command. Lets go sarge some women.

I take him to a table filled with girls and overhear one say the words happy birthday. Bingo. I tell The Vigo to give
me one second to warm them up. When I give the signal, he will walk over and sing Happy Birthday to them. He
nods, and I go to work. I speak quickly to the girl at the end of the table.
Listen, can you just help me out? I say. My friend, hes been a family friend forever, and he just sucks with girls.
Can you act happy when he sings Happy Birthday? Please? Itll make his whole night.
When The Vigo scuttles over and squeaks out the most uncomfortable version of Happy Birthday I have ever
heard, the nice girl smiles and claps and pretends to be charmed. And when it is over, I drag The Vigo the hell out
of there. But, man, the look on his face, he is glowing. A girl smiled at him.
God bless that girl.
Go, Vigo, go! I think as I watch him recount the hilarious story of his conquest to his peers.
Because, look, I dont loathe these guys. I feel sorry for them. None of them is evil, just confused. If one of them
would just take up a co-ed sport, maybe get a haircut or a new pair of jeans, hed be fine. Instead, out of
desperation and loneliness, each has spent $300 to learn a bunch of acronyms.
Later in the night, as the rush of the sarge begins to wear off and the spin of alcohol sets in, Asian Playboy plops
down in the red corner booth and puts his head on my shoulder. He tells me all about Prophets girlfriend troubles.
(Yes, Prophet has a girlfriend.) Asian Playboy says the girlfriend doesnt like Prophet to sarge, but he wont stop.
Asian Playboy says she doesnt think theyll last, which is sad because Prophet really believes shes the one.
Thats when he starts piteously whining about his own troubles with The Game.
Ill never find a girl, he tells me. Every time I meet one, I know exactly what shes going to do and say next.
Hes rolling his head back and forth, clearly oiled. The Game is just too good.
To see APBs factual corrections, go here.
~ CJ ~

Being a Force of Nature

Posted at October 2, 2007

This is the True Joy of Life, of being used for a Purpose recognized by yourself as a
Mighty One of being a Force of Nature instead of a feverish, selfish little clod of
ailments and grievances, complaining that the world will not devote itself to making
you happy. George Bernard Shaw
~ Captain Jack ~

Lay Report: Dumpster Diving

Posted at October 18, 2007

I gamed this HB3 a few months ago to warm up and because she was eye-fucking me from a distance. It turned
out she was actually kind of cool so I number closed her thinking if I got bored or something Id call and have her
come help me relieve boredom.
While I was gaming her on that occasion a few months ago I got a text from Sinn: REALLY?! (This is his subtle
way of asking why the fuck Im talking to a 3 when the place had some hot girls there.)
Later that night I got gamed (see
LR: CJ Gets Gamed) and got the lay but had I not I was going to use The Drunk and Lonely Principle to go and
see her after the bar closed.
Heres how the night started(
Sinn and I ate dinner with Shaft and El Topo who are breaking new ground.

One of the things Ive been doing for the last few months (somewhat related to Zen stuff) is to boil everything
down to the principle level and derive tactics from that. The Presupps are the most important part of any system
because they filter what you believe is possible/not possible and therefore what you try and/or the congruence
with which you try it.
I truly believe we are going to crack the code on 1Hour Lays From Meet to Lay in an Hour(TM) (not including
driving time) and it wont be Fools Mate. Sexual Framing is the best thing Ive seen to meet, attract and seduce
women in the shortest amount of time possible. Plus, Ive rarely ever had a problem with continued sexual access
to a female I closed in an extremely short time frame.
So, Sinn and I are chatting and this girl walks buy. She has nice big titties, a cute face and strawberry blond hair
and is short. I see her and I immediately know Sinn is going to open her(when I look back at him he is in a
trance and already moving in to open.
I laugh because I KNOW he is going to get laid. One of the signs of a Master PUA: When he is presented a clear
shot at his type of Funusual he rarely makes mistakes (if any).
Twitchy is on the scene and we chat a bit, he mentions that Sinn and I underestimate ourselves. Strange thing is,
I was thinking that exact same thing earlier. Sinn pointed out something to me about my game that made me
think, Fuck, I wish I had that confidence level in my game. and then I immediately realized that I also seemed to
have more confidence in his game than he did.
I take a lap and the girl eye fucks me. Its 12:20 and I have nothing else going on so I smile back. She is not hot.
But, I like her face and her hair and her latina accent. She is tall (which I like) but her ass is too big and shes a
little chubby.
We dance a little. Her friend is all over some dude so I take that opportunity to open a sexual frame. I forget what I
said but I implied that her friend and the dude were doing naughty things in the corner and we shouldnt deprive
ourselves of nice things like that.
She smiled and said, Maybe we should be in a dark corner then(
CJ: Or, maybe we shouldnt give a fuck what other people think( and then I kissed her and shoved her away.
Youre a BAD influence.
Sinn texts me: save me
I leave the girl (perfect opp for a takeaway) and roll over. He tells me his text was premature and everything is
cool. I talk to Twitchy again and then roll back to the girl.
A little later(Twitchy is making out with one of his FBs and Sinn tells me hes leaving with the girl and Twitchy
can take me home.
I tell the girl that my friends left me so shell have to take me home. No objections. I think we said about 5
sentences the whole night.
Stoplight Makeout, pull out her boobies and suck. Get to my place. Clothes come off immediately. Take her
straight to the room and do the deed twice (and once this morning).
She wouldnt leave. She kept having a conversation with herself. I said two words to her. She talked for about 30
minutes complete with pauses awaiting a response from me.
Cant call this an SNL because I already opened her a few months before, but it was REAL quick. Total time
about 2 hours.
~ CJ ~
P.S. Sinns pick-up was pure Gangsterism. His funusual put him in the zone and he pulled it off.

Captain Jack says:

October 22, 2007 at 2:26 am

For anonymous(
But a 3 is still 3 times better than thine hand( thus saith Captain Jack (Lord of his penis)
~ CJ ~

Pure Ninja Skills: Peaks and Flows: The Top 1%

Posted at October 22, 2007

Not only do females find the best attractive(so do males.

Think about it.
We respect, love, admire and adore people who are the best at what they do.
Sinn and I talked tonight about Tom Brady who threw 6 touchdowns this weekend, and 5 last weekend (against
my beloved Dallas Cowboys) and is likely to break the single season TD record this year.
George Clooney kicked ass in Michael Clayton.
Brad Pitt, who Id probably consider a pretty boy, wuss had I run into him in the grocery store, on the street, in a
club(has my respect due to his performances in Twelve Monkeys, Fight Club and a few others. (Not to
mention hes closed and kept many of hollywoods hottest leading ladies.)
Who CANT appreciate Andrea Bocelli and Sarah Brightman belting out the most beautiful song every sung.
(Though I LOVED Mr. Bocellis voice LONG before I knew it, the fact that Andrea Bocelli is blind gives his
performances a little more impact for me, especially because a Soccer accident made him blind at 12.)
Warren Buffet and Bill Gates, nerds in every way imaginable, garner the respect and admiration of millions in
business and NOW in Philanthropy.
We relish, respect and are attracted to the BEST in people. Peak achievement and performance fascinates and
inspires us, in part because they bear witness to the possible greatness in each of us.
AMCs Mad Men series exudes peak achievement. The writing, the acting, the casting is so brilliant Ive never
been more enthralled by a show. I relish every episode.
Which reminds me, someone once told me to forget about correcting my weaknesses because weaknesses make
you believable, human and endearing. He said to focus on improving my strengths and talents to top 1% levels.
It is by cultivating your strengths, talents and unique desires that youll inspire others to worship the god of
potential in every human being.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. To see two people at the top of their talents, watch the video below. Imagine hearing this, slow dancing to
this with a woman who interests you, and NOT having a peak experience.

InnerGame and Pure Imagination

Posted at November 15, 2007

Pure Imagination Lesson 1

by Captain Jack
This is the first weeks lesson of a 6-week eCoaching program on InnerGame that I am about to start
selling. It applies to more than picking up women. It is a recipe for utilizing your unconscious mind to
create your world. If you are interested in helping me refine it there is more information at the
bottom of this post after the lesson

ould you agree that you are only experiencing a very small portion of what is possible in
this world?
Right now, there is someone on a beach somewhere sipping on his favorite drink while
his investments earn him more money per hour than most people make in a month
Right now, there is a 60 year old man enjoying a hot 25 year old woman (or two)

Someone else works just a few hours per week and spends the rest of the time in their cozy
apartment in pure bliss reading Shakespeare and other favorite authors.

Someone else is married to the woman of his dreamsthey live on a ranch with a nice house on top
of a hill. At this moment he might be riding his horse checking the fences in the far regions of his
The above examples all live their ideal lives. Structurally, there is no difference between you and
these people. Conversely, there are people addicted to crack or heroin lying in their own urine
craving another hit.
Both have a conscious mind and an unconscious mind. The difference lies in the contents of their
unconscious minds.
We are going to start with the basic presupposition that if anyone else can do it, you can
approximate their results.
If someone else can make a billion, so can you.
If someone else can attract and date models, so can you.
If someone else can retire early and sit at home reading literature, so can you.
Whats the difference? The difference lies in presuppositions and beliefs.
pre * sup * pose to suppose or assume beforehand;
take for granted in advance.

Presuppositions are so important because they filter what you believe is possible or not possible and
therefore what you try and the congruence with which you try it.
Additionally, they give direction to your subconscious mind about what to make you consciously
aware of
A man who believes, I am not attractive. will not notice a female who is giving him every sign in the
book that she is attracted to him. The subconscious mind literally filters it from his conscious
awareness. How likely is he to try to take the interaction to the next level?
But, it gets even worse (or better depending on your viewpoint). Since your unconscious is filtering
according to your presuppositions and you are noticing only what the unconscious allows, your very
experience onlymatches your presupps.
This is a reinforcing feedback loop. The unattractive man can point to a million occurrences of his
unattractiveness. Pointing to this reality he says, Its not in my mind! Look at all this external proof!
Then, he lists the overwhelming proof.
The feeling of his unattractiveness causes him to speak and move in unattractiveness. The females
unconscious mind, working off of minimal cues and feeling templates of past interactions with men
responds with the feeling correlate he is unattractive, thus fulfilling his belief.
(The same thing happens with the poor man, the sick man, the rich man and the man in peak physical
How does he escape?

Pure Imagination!
The only escape is pure imagination bordering on self-delusion.

He may be able to capture the feeling of attractiveness and rehearse it to such a degree that it
becomes his dominant mood. He may be able to say, I am attractive and really feel it. Then, his
unconscious mind will begin providing proof and resources to help him.
New questions will burn in his being that must be answered. He will notice how attractive men
interact with women. This will provide templates inside his mind for styles of dress and presentation.
Movement and body language. Speech patterns.
The power of his unconscious mind will reveal Attractiveness in him in a time process.
That is, if he can say I am attractive with enough belief to produce the feeling of attractiveness
inside of him. Most of the time such a jump will produce a snapback response, actually reinforcing
the opposite.
If he says, I am attractive. and he instantly starts an inner dialogue that confirms the opposite then
he is experience snapback and reinforcing his unattractive feeling.
Is he hopeless, then? No! Because the mind moves in directions.
All he needs to do is get his mind moving in the direction of attractiveness by reaching for a better
feeling thought. He might start with a thought like this:
I have had a few women interested in me.
And, then he notices the feeling. If he still feels good then he can continue. (If he still has snapback
he must seek a smaller movement of mind.)
Maybe there were others that I didnt notice.
Surely, there were others I didnt notice.
There are men like me who Ive seen with pretty women.
Im sure there are a few things I could do starting now to make myself a little more attractive.
Now, his mind is moving in the right direction. As he continues this process his unconscious mind will
add more references to strengthen these new thoughts. After a few days of doing this exercise, he
will have moved up the belief ladder and he will be moving in the right direction.
Every time he starts this exercise again he will start at a higher level of belief on the spectrum of
attractiveness vs. unattractiveness.
Until one day, probably around 60-90 days later, he will be able to say with utter conviction, I am
attractive. And, he will move, act and react from a feeling of attractiveness. The world around him
will (must!) morph in response to his belief.
Over the next few lessons well be working on a series of processes to recreate your self-concept and
guide your conscious and unconscious minds to transform yourself easily and naturally.
So, here is your first assignment
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this as part of your membership

"Because We Like Each Other"

Posted at November 18, 2007

Heres a little pattern I heard Sinn use once when Gaming an extremely hot waitress(
He said something like this (a liberal paraphrase):

Im not giving you this big tip because we like each otherIm doing it because you
did a great job as a waitress and I believe people should be rewarded for doing a good
Im not sure where he got that, if he made it up himself or he drew from the deep Game reservoir in his head but I
used to do something similar (although a little sloppier) and after hearing him do it I adopted it instead.
Its sweet on a few levels.
#1) If you run a lot of neg/disqualification (as Sinn does) then the confirmation that you do like her will give her
poor widdle heart a ray of hope.
#2) The we part of it assumes that she likes you. Unless she outrightly denies it (which she wont) then she
passively accepts the we like each other frame. The very worst thing that could happen is shell think, What
made him think I like him? which will make her unconscious mind start sorting for things she did to demonstrate
she liked him, thus strengthening the references.
#3) It allows you demonstrate a piece of your personality so she feels like she knows you better. I believe people
should be rewarded(
Pretty sweet, huh?
This is one of those cool things that after trying it mentally on the fly 10 or 15 times you could probably use on the
fly in-field the very same night.
Lets practice(
Deep in comfort. Both of you are drinkless.
Im going to the bar to get a drink. Keep me company.
At the bar.
Im not buying you this drink because we like each other(Im buying it because my mother raised me to be a
Or, how about this one.
Wow, thats amazing! I LOVE knitting, too! Im not just saying that because we like each other, my grandmother
taught me how to knit because she always wanted a granddaughter but my parents just kept popping out boys(
I didnt just give you a squirting orgasm because we like each other, I did it because Im a Sex God and I want
you to tell all your friends. Then, theyll get so curious about me theyll try to nail me behind your back.
See, its easy.
~ CJ ~

The Girl Next Door

Posted at December 5, 2007

I never go out unless I look like Joan Crawford the movie star. If you want to see the
girl next door, go next door. Joan Crawford.
Theres an interesting lesson in that quote(whats your take on what that lesson is?

~ CJ ~
P.S. This is like a Rorschach Test(theres not a right answer(so put your two cents in.

The Non-Judgmental Frame

Posted at January 17, 2008

My ability to pull SNLs made a steep jump when I discovered the power of the Non-Judgemental frame. I picked
up on it quite by accident and lucky for me I had some analytical tools in place to realize what I had done so I
could add it to my repertoire.
Read this entire LR and youll see how I invoke the People are Sexual Beings and Non-Judgmental Frames to
make my lays super easy(
This was originally posted on Mysterys Lounge on Sat Oct 15, 2005 12:06 am
(P.S. If you dont have my archives you can go to http://www.betheseducer.com and download them from there(
Over 300+ pages of all the shit your parents told you not to do(
Hi PUAs,
I opened a 5+ set at a new venue one night will waiting for AsianPlayboy and one of his wings (dont know what
hes called). My Target had a Sombrero on with crazy shit on it like condoms and decorations and shit(
I was peacocked in a black cowboy hat with the silhoutte of two naked chicks on the front.
CJ: Awesome! Where can I get one of those!
HB: *everyone laughs* Ohhh, my friend made this for me its my birthday!
CJ: mine was last week, I turned 30
HB: me too! Im 30!
CJ: Cool, wanna get married?
* group laughs *
HB: Im already married, but thanks!
CJ: have fun guys!
I open a couple more sets and then a little girl in a pink top and mini skirt comes up to me.
Im on the patio and I just got a message from AsianPlayboy that hes here so Im fucking with my phone
messaging system when I feel a slight tug on my shirt(
HBGirlNextDoor: Here, this is from Michelle. * handing me a jell-o shot *
CJ: who is michelle?
HBGirlNextDoor: Over there(
CJ: * I look over and the HB waves and smiles the whole group is looking at me I wave and mouth
thanks and walk off to meet AsianPlayboy *
A few minutes later AsianPlayboy pulls over a 2set with a really cute blonde. AsianPlayboys target is the
brunnette and he goes to work on her leaving me to occupy obstacle.
AsianPlayboy told them I was engaged and he needed to find a good place for a bachelor party. This was great
because the Blonde is also engaged and her fiance is out of town visitng family.
I role-played and started talking about how chicks are more mature than guys and are able to compartmentalize
their relationships much better than most men (i.e. im different).
I then tell her that Im not judgmental and understand there are different kinds of sex, different kinds of love and
differing needs. She goes along with all of this agreeing with me 100% and talks about how dumb guys are to
think that gfs go out and are innocent.
I had already took her around the bar to get myself a drink ( I might have bought her one, too not sure)holding
her hand all the way as I pulled her around. She held my hand completely, no hesitation at all.

CJ: Does your bf come here? or have friends that come here?
HB: no, never( *smiling seductively*
CJ: good
By this time, AsianPlayboy has his Target on the dance floor and I am sitting on a couch with obstacle with my
arm around her.
CJ: how old are you? too young to be getting married.
HB: noooo, Im 24
CJ: 24! Oh god, youre just a baby! But, I like girls that age(
HB: why?
CJ: They are so gullible
HB: whaaaaat?
CJ: * i lean into her ear and pull my arm tighter around her and act like Im talking to a girl that age *
noooo, baby, anal sex is NORMAL when you get engaged. promise.
HB: * she gives me a doggy-dinner bowl look and then starts giggling * Yeah, I like it. ive done it with other guys.
My fiance is mad because I wont do it with him.
CJ: * pops a boner *
About this time APs target comes back and somehow we get separated. I go open up more sets. HBGirlNextDoor
reopens me and I talk to her group. They are asking to take pictures with me and put this pink boa on me and
crowd around for pics.
After about 10 minutes of working on HBGirlNextDoor my phone buzzes and it is a text from AP mini-isolate or
pull to a table
I agree. I pull her to the bar to get myself a diet coke. Making sure to hold her hand so others see us. Then, i lock
into the bar to make sure it looks like she is gaming me.
We go back to the table section and I start talking to her. I do jugglers gf test and go for the neck kisses.
She pulls away and says, I hardly know you but smiles.
I smile and get real quiet. The Blonde from earlier sits in the booth in front and gives me fuck me eyes. If youve
seen that before then you know what I am talking about. there is no mistaking it.
HBGND: You want me to leave you alone so you can talk to other girls?
CJ: no, Im just sitting here enjoying the moment.
We start making out.
The night ends and I pass on an opportunity to fuck her that night (she told me this later that I couldve come
After a week or two and a slew of text messages we finally get together last wednesday for a Day2 but she
brings 12 friends!!!! aaaaargh!
I wasnt expecting this. I text AsianPlayboy a whiney message about her bringing 100 friends (it seemed like we
would be alone) and he tells me to work them like a set and be the social center. I do it and it works well.
I make up a DHV about rings on fingers to set a framework for getting sexual.
Did you know that what fingers you have rings on says stuff about your personality?
I point to the right pinky ring and say, that means you are good at keeping secrets.
HB: i tell my brother everything.
CJ: just your brother?
HB: thats ok. thats like a diary, plus hes family.
CJ: and your right ring finger, that means when you find the right person and youre attracted (pointing to
myself), you become sexually aggressive
HB: yessssssss!
Then, I look at my left middle ring and say, This means Im not judgmental.
HB: mmmmmmm(.
Finally about 1:00 I completely isolate her and we do some rapport stuff.
I run Discovery Channel on her and she gets hot.
We make out hot and heavy again and then go back to our cars. I do the hair pull and she goes fucking nuts.

During this time she plays with my left middle ring and says, not judgmental
But, I decline going to her house again because 1) i was dog tired, 2) she lives with mommy (college girl) and 3) it
is about 3:00 am and she has to get up for work at 5:30 or 6:00 am
HB: what are you doing fri?
CJ: have my daughters so Ill be staying in.
HB: ooooh, I could come over and bring a movie and popcorn!
CJ: cool, lets do that
She came over tonight and it was pretty much on from the time she got here. In fact, I waited too long to start
making out with her.
She has a super hot body. Very slender, perfect tits, wonderful ass. Only problem is she is not exotic enough for
me. She is sort of Girl next door innocent looking and a little plain. But, then again she never wears make-up so
who knows if she made herself up maybe she would look more exotic.
LMR? Minimal she stopped my hand the first time I tried for the bra and the first time I tried for the pants we
were well into 10 hours by now and there had been 2 opportunities that I didnt take before.
While we were fucking 3 people called (but I didnt answer):
1) HBPuertoRico I met with AsianPlayboy last sat. voice mail said, Hey handsome, call me!
2) Mommy (mothers have this weird sense when their sons are getting pussy and they decide to call about
mundane shit at about midnight )
3) KinoMaster figured I was done already and was calling for a report

Can You Use Framing for Online Gaming?

Posted at January 21, 2008

Im amazingly surprised at the applications of Framing. I really think the surface hasnt even been scratched. Ive
spent about 2-3 weeks (off and on) looking at the current ideas about Framing in the community and its
absolutely shoddy(
No rigor.
Bad presuppositions.
Some of it obviously untested (i.e KJ bullshit).
I have a heavy NLP background so Ive done a lot of framing including the much vaunted Sleight of Mouth (SOM)
patterning and Clevelands system, too.
But, if you use SOM as its taught for in-field gaming you are likely to annoy the girl. Annoyance is not a state that
leads to sex(
My question was: Can you use framing for online gaming?
The answer is yes! And, it works like crazy! (At least for getting numbers).
I sent seven emails the first week (principle one is to test in small batches first) and got 4 numbers and a chat id
Im sending out 20 more emails tonight on a new service that I like better to see how the numbers do(
Im calling one of the girls tonight and the other few tomorrow. Ill update you on the progress tomorrow or the
next day. My goal is to get them to come straight over!
No date.
No coffee meeting.
The girl comes over.
I run game.
We make sweet love.
Check back in the next day or two( where Ill discuss the frames Im setting in the profile(
~ CJ ~

Online Frame: Im Cooler Than You

Posted at January 24, 2008

(and probably anyone you know.

My online profile is built to attract a certain girl. I want a girl who thinks traveling is fun and exciting, enjoys talking
to people from diverse backgrounds and can enjoy herself in any situation (basically, the EXACT opposite of my
(AND who is down for some light-hearted fun. There are a LOT of girls out there looking for a serious
relationship and/or a Sugar Daddy. Those types can certainly still be gamed but why make it hard on yourself?
My basic frames are:
1. I am adventurous (a traveler), I love to see new places and explore.
2. I am comfortable anywhere. Youll see a girl often say in her profile I am just as cool getting all dressed up to
go to the club or having a night in snuggling and watching a movie. Thats her way of saying I am
COMFORTABLE in my own skin. I phrased it like this One night I might be mingling with rich old business men in
suits and ties, the next night hanging with my friends at a hole-in-the-wall with a mechanical bull(
3. My friends are COOL and interesting( My friends range from an ex-navy SEAL to a pro comedian( etc.
4. I DO NOT like to talk about myself but I have my act together.
BUT, one of the most important pieces to my profile is this: I tell her to take the smallest action possible and Ill
handle the rest. If youre interested send me an email or wink at me and Ill take it from there, I wont bite (well,
maybe just a nibble).
This directive to act sets a Leadership Frame and the I wont bite (well, maybe just a nibble) gives it a playful yet
sexual vibe to begin pre-screening the prudes out.
A lot of the dating sites have winks or pokes or a step BELOW email in effort level that you can ask them to
take. By inviting them to take that small step (rather than having to think of something to say in an email) you can
get some interest initially so when you DO email them you arent wasting your time emailing someone who is not
interested at all(
What is EQUALLY important about how I set up my profile is that I am not telegraphing ANY sort of romantic or
courtship vibe. It is entirely about me and my lifestyle of fun and adventure. It will NOT resonate with a girl looking
for long-term or marriage. I say nothing about finding a good girl, the one, settling down, or being tired of the
scene. It is clear I am out there and I am having fun(
Have 2 first dates (both time-constrained) set up for tomorrow and one pending. My basic plan is to have a one
hour date to use some of my best Stealth Patterns and Sexual Framing to set them up to come over late on a
night when I have my daughters(
~ The Dread Pirate, Captain Jack ~

Online Gaming: Day2

Posted at January 24, 2008

Im sitting here on Sinns couch watching him get beat by the CPU in Madden.
Id forgotten how much I dislike Day2s( Im supposed to be meeting her at the bar across the street 2 minutes
ago. Hopefully she will look like her pictures.
I have to go pee and then Ill head over there(. Ugggh(
Ill update later how it went( My goal is to try to frame her sexually so deeply and quickly we go back to her place
and make sweet love within 60-90 minutes(
~ CJ ~

A Key Under Utilized Frame

Posted at February 11, 2008

I got another SNL the other night from winging one of Sinns sets. Nothing special really to report. She was kinda
chubby, cute face, dimples, etc but would never have opened her on my own(
But, there were a few take-aways for me from that night.
Number 1: The power of ignoring is truly awesome. I literally ignore anything/everything that doesnt serve me.
Ive completely given up trying to come up with witty/clever/smooth comebacks for things girls say or do that I
dont like. Instead, I completely ignore it. The principle here is what Ive called Magnification. When you talk
about something you are magnifying it( if you dont want it then ignore it.
Heres an example( With Sinns set we went to eat and while we were sitting there the following convo took
Ob: Do you have any tattoos?
CJ: Naw( Im too fickle. Id get one and then immediately decide I dont like it(
Ob: I have one.
CJ: where?
Ob: Its right here (pointing to her hip)( Its a four leaf clover( but its not really lucky, my dad died the day after
I got it.
CJ: (looking up at the lights) Its really bright in here(
Number 2: Discretion is a key, underutilized and rarely talked about Frame but it is truly powerful. In my version of
Rings on Fingers I talk about keeping secrets. That night another of Sinns sets the obstacle was really, really
hot( she was just my type Brunnette, nice eyes, beautiful ass, great smile and great perfectly straight white
teeth( I didnt say more than about 15 sentences to her but one of them was:
I dont kiss and tell(
It had a profound impact on her. She number closed me at closing time. She texted me about 2:30ish
Hottie: Im horny
CJ: Be there in a minute.
Hottie: You dont know where I live
CJ: text me directions
She did and I REALLY wanted to roll over there but I (mistakenly) thought Sinn was in it for the long haul for his
Target so I continued winging.
When I texted and called later she didnt pick up. Damnit! I wouldve put her at #3 in the rotation and then played
my favorite game: Get a hotter hottie(
So, I went and boned the chubby girl instead.
~ CJ ~

Zans Zen and How to Kill Someone Instantly

Posted at February 12, 2008

I wanted to point out two great posts from a blog I read regularly(
Post 1: Vs Zan Perrion Notes
Post 2: I Could Kill The Next Person Who Walks Through That Door
I actually used lines from Post #2 on my last SNL(
After you read them come back here and tell me one thing from each one that affected you in some way.
Ill post mine if someone gets the comment ball rolling(
~ CJ ~

P.S. The C key on my computer is acting up( I may have to change my internet name to Aptain Jak

Captain Jack says:

February 14, 2008 at 10:08 am

The thing that struck me most about these two guys (Zan, Deida) is they are saying the same basic thing except
just from different angles.
Deida is saying get really in touch with your Masculine power(
Zan is saying really appreciate the feminine and come to grips with your desire of them(
Its really interesting to me.
I just bought Zans dvds and Im re-reading Deidas book. Im going to start experimenting with their ideas soon.
~ CJ ~

Fuck Alcohol
Posted at February 13, 2008

This post is a waste of fucking time. Save yourself 3 minutes and dont read it.
The night ended with me in the car with vomit on my brand new jacket ($27.98 at Target)( I was shivering from
the cold and dizzy as hell.
The day started innocuous enough. I met Sinn at the bookstore to do some work( Sinn and I have similar
working styles.
Type 2-3 sentences( take a 5 minute break. Another 2-3 sentences, bathroom break, etc. until about 8 hours
later we have a full paragraph.
Then, we hit the fucking alcohol store because Sinn wanted to get alcohol for the after party that were always
trying to get stupid girls to come to(
This is where it starts going south.
I decided to have a taste of the Chimay I bought but Sinn is so fucking poor and disorganized he has no cups. So
there I am with a gigantic bottle of Chimay and it has one of those gay ass lids that once you pull it off it wont go
back on(
Decision time( Finish the bottle or let that delicious concoction created by Trapist Monks in Belgium go to waste.
Fuck it( cant be wasting beer. There are poor people in the world who cant afford Chimay.
And, whats a 40 without rap music?
So, I log onto Youtube and search for all the true gangster rap. The chimay bottle is almost empty and Im thirsty
and already buzzed.
Eazy-e would have more beer(
Shiner 1 down.
Sinn is laughing at me because Im drunk at 4:00 pm on a Tuesday, but whatever, hes not drunk so his input
doesnt matter.
We stumble out to go have some mexican food with one of our friends and he says we should have more beer.
Miller Lite #1 and #2 go down over dinner while our friend tells us hes awesome and some other non-coherent
bullshit. I agree that hes awesome because I dont hang with unawesome people.
I spent most of the time whining about how I hate to approach girls and how they should just come fucking talk to
me if they wanna unleash the beast in the sheets.
Sinn says he loves women. He loves everything about them( how they smell( how they cant make a rational
decision( He says all girls are his and he loves them whether they have sex with him or not, that he respects
their decision and theyre valuable anyway( (Oh, wait a minute( no he didnt).
After dinner our friend is still talking about how awesome he is and we go back to Sinns apartment.

Im watching rap videos on Youtube while Sinn and awesome friend talk about how they want to be like me( how
they wish they had been born with my intellect and wit( its making me blush and I pretend like Im not listening.
Theyre making plans to get a massive manly physique like mine and shit but its really all genetics man, nothing
you can do about that shit.
We finish off the Shiner and decide were going to have to leave the apartment if we want more beer.
Fucking inconvenient.
I stagger down the hallway. Someone mentions having more Chimay and thats what we do when we get to the
After 3 more chimays I open my phone and start talking shit to pretty much everyone in my phone. One of the
fucking dumbasses Im with says we should go drink somewhere else and we do(
About 1:15 am I black out after calling the bartender a lesbian.
I got about 15 messages this morning from girls that said, Wtf? Whats that supposed to mean!?!
Fuck Alcohol.
~ CJ ~

Captain Jack says:

February 13, 2008 at 4:55 pm

Hey man, today is the day of apologies( I think Ive apologized to nearly a dozen people so far for being a drunk
idiot yesterday( so might as well add all Belgians as well(
I apologize for comparing your great belgium beer to our shitty beer(
The music really just depends on my mood( couldve just as easily been Yanni.
~ CJ ~

Captain Jack says:

February 20, 2008 at 9:40 pm

And, now I have all your private info( muaahaahahaha(
Just kidding. I have a lot of tracking code to see what posts people read the most, how long they stay on the site,
etc( its all in mass aggregated data so theres ZERO chance of any personal info but thats probably what the
AV software is worried about.
~ CJ ~

Fuck Buddy Rules

Posted at February 15, 2008

Down at the bottom of this post are The Fuck Buddy Rules. I wrote them on 12-26-2005 on Mysterys Lounge to
help a fellow PUA out who kept having his FBs try to get him into committed relationships.
Im posting it because Sinn just wrote something on his blog about Instructors getting girlfriends, etc. I agree with
him and I think that if guys knew how down girls are with these non-traditional type relationships they wouldnt
bother with the tradition bf/gf arrangement.
When you learn the power of the debrief youll have girls tell you all about the crazy shit they do. I think female
orgasms release an Honesty hormone.
(And, while I have your attention go to Debauchery Mass Sexual Framing and sign up for info on my new 63
day eCoaching program( video, audio, lessons, feedback, teleconferences( its going to be a blast (and itll get
you laid, too).
Anyways, the post follows:

Hey Guys,
Well, I havent given A LOT of thought about this so maybe my early observations will
help us to start cataloging this information. Maybe we can come up with FB Rules
(sorta like Stripper Rules)
I have 4 fbs right now (exhausting)
FB #1) LR: Smoove as Butta
FB #2) LR: The Right Pinky Finger Means You Are Good at keeping secrets
FB #3) LR: It will NEVER work out between me and HBMexicanaNurse
FB #4) FR (sat) and LR (sun): HBKaraoke Sings For CaptainJack
During the Sarge

Really I just focus on running standard MM game all the way through. I DO rely
heavily on Chick Crack from Tylers old posts.
I stay away from anything that would say Boyfriend Material or LTR.
I was talking to another PUA the other day on the phone and he used a lot of standard
stuff that to me goes too deep and says relationship.
I prefer my version of Strawberry Fields over the CUBE for this reason.
The CUBE seems to go pretty deep and gets into LIFE and RELATIONSHIP issues that I
dont want to get framed in. I suppose if you ran that and then poured on some serious
Cocky & Funny youd balance it out but it seems to be a hard frame to get out of and
youll often get the boyfriend objection.
Furthermore, even if you DONT get the BF objection youll be subject to her LTR
programming which often includes holding out for sex and expecting you to buy her
flowers and shit.
I suppose you could turn the CUBE sexual but by its nature it seems to be a DEEP look
into her soul type of game.
I am slanted almost entirely the other way. I run jerk routines, chick crack, strawberry
fields, cocky and funny, the Marriage Game all the way up to Qualification.
I tell her I could NEVER take her home to Mommy. I tell her she is a freak. I run
Jugglers GF test (but I NEVER call it the Girlfriend test) and tell her she failed so we
can only be friends (in contrast to strawberry fields which always frames her as a sex
fiend no MATTER WHAT I always analyze it the same way).
I look at the standard stories like Spells, Who Lies More, David Bowie simply as ways to
get me into the group so I can start obliquely spiking my Targets BT and priming her
for qualification.
And after Qualification I like to go into the Question game and go sexual with that
pretty quick. But, that doesnt always happen (as you can tell from the FR: Cats, Cancer
Survivors and Miss America)
Id say if you dont full close by the Day2 or Day3 then you are likely headed towards
more than an FB
After the Close

So if I had to build some FB Rules just based on what I know now, heres what Id say:
1) Stay away from Relationship talk if it does come up I C&F my way around and
change the subject
2) Dont meet with her unless you know you are going to fuck her.
3) Do NOT talk about life plans, or ask her about her family, or plan anything more
than a few days in the future (You CAN do this later AFTER she is an established FB
I waited 3 months)
4) Do NOT call just to chat
5) Only sms her if you are going to invite her over to fuck (related to #2)
6) Dont see her on a regular basis. And, DO NOT go out with her on Fri/Sat nights.

7) Try not to meet with her friends. If her girlfriends like you they WILL start putting
BF thoughts into her head. I LOST a fine FB Black Girl that way
I dont talk about other women and I NEVER ask her about what her and her friends
did last weekend. If she asks me I just say, My friends and I went out and had a blast!
Right now I have only 6 phone numbers in my phone. 4 of them are the FBs and 2 of
them are HBs that I havent Day2ed yet. If I cant get them out on a Day2 quickly or I
get to a Day3 and dont close I delete them. New chicks are turning 18, getting divorced,
breaking up with Bfs or deciding to have something on the side everyday.
Have fun!
Captain Jack
Captain Jack says:
February 24, 2008 at 1:58 pm

Anonymous1, I like The Toyota Way and The Goal both are great books.
bobby rio, thats actually a pretty common problem. You can probably replay the fuck-ups in your head and
compare/contrast so you get a list of dos, donts to start implementing when you really like the girl.
anonymous2, asked have your FB rules changed at all since the original post? Sort of. I dont really have FBs
anymore since I would rather be out practicing some experiment OR just relaxing at home. I think now I probably
wouldnt even take them out at all. Probably just be pure dirty sex, haaa(
anonymous3 asked about Day Game( I dont do Day Game mainly because when Im out during the day Im
focusing on writing or running errands or reading( if I was going to do Day Game Id probably just do Direct.
anonymous4, asked how do you get them to leave? I dont really care either way if they stay the night. Its the
morning that kinda sucks( what I do is say, Oh shit( I forgot I have to be xyz at certain time. But, I have a
friend who has a lot of FBs and what he does is immediately after sex he gets on his computer and ignores them
until they get the picture.
~ CJ ~

Can You Get Laid Everytime You Go Out?

Posted at February 21, 2008

Ive been saying for quite some time now that huge increases in my game wont come from optimizing tactical
seduction. Im not going to see huge jumps by teasing better( or TBing better or handling logistics better. Sure, I
could squeeze out another 15-20% but Im looking for 200%, 300%, etc.
I believe getting laid nearly EVERY time you go out is not only possible, its eventual.
Of course youll have weird shit happen( one night Sinn and I were pulling a two set and the girl got in a fight in
the bathroom. (Nothing like getting kicked in the head to break your state.)
Another night I was pulling a 21 year old massage therapist from x-bar and her friend threw up in the passenger
seat of her car as we were leaving the parking lot.
(Yet another time I was taking a Stripper home and SHE opened my door at a stop light and puked( Ive never
seen so much liquid come from such a little human being( I remember thinking, Where did she keep all of
Shit happens. But, besides uncontrollable random shit happening I believe its possible.
Anyone who reads my blog and archive knows that I have Approach Anxiety. It comes and goes and varies in its

I could certainly just say, Fuck it and slog through it. The AA DOES subside after the first set or two but I keep
having this nagging feeling that it is just not good to keep punishing yourself and suppressing emotions will make
things worse for you. (This is why there is a LOT of self-medication going on in the community. Id even go so far
to say that AA and Misogyny are linked.)
(The opposite tack is to Express your emotions using state-pumping techniques and run around opening sets like
a Clown on Ecstasy.)
I also believe that even when you force yourself and it goes well you are still working under less than optimal
conditions. The emotion itself still lingers in your unconscious like a black cloud coloring everything you do.
When the set does go well and you are rewarded you are rewarding the AA as well so it gets reinforced.
The thing that keeps me going is that there are people who dont have this issue. Normally, in NLP Modeling
youd find 3 Exemplars and take them through the Modeling process to discover the commonalities, build the
model and then test it.
The problem is all the guys Ive met who dont have AA arent getting the kind of results I want so their value as
Exemplars is questionable.
All the guys who are extremely good who have AA also are not getting better results than me AND are usually
self-medicating (via Alcohol Abuse) as well.
Does this mean that there arent guys at the level who dont have AA?
Not sure. Maybe not.
My thinking is that many of those guys never even found the community because they didnt need to( If you
dont have AA and you work and get really good results then you either 1) wont look for the community or 2) look
but be so turned off by the non-coolness of everyone that you leave.
Societys conditioning puts pressure on us to get a nice girlfriend, get married, etc. Many of these guys played for
awhile( found a girl they liked and settled down( or have periods of play between longer periods of LTR.
So, whats a PUA Zen Ninja Scientist to do?
The answer: Run experiments!
My apologies to Sinn. He had a really hot two-set going. His target was exactly his type. I thought she was really
hot as well because in addition to being thin, big boobed, nice assed, she was really elegant looking and not
drunk. The obstacle was hot, too. Blonde, big titties, blue eyes, great face.
They were ready to go but I was running my experiment. In retrospect I shouldve cut it off at 1:30 and helped him
pull. It was on. Looking back I dont think it wouldve necessarily hurt my experiment( so I shouldve done it.
Heres the experiment:
As Im sitting there in the club I become extremely aware of my internal feelings and my internal dialogue as I set
my intention to go open a set.
Wow, the shit that is in there. Really weird stuff. Then, you acknowledge the feeling, delabel it and let it go.
When I say delabel I mean that you are not allowed to give it a big nominalization like fear. You delabel it by
identifying only the kinesthetic associations.
Knot in my stomach, coolness down the centerline( exhale and let it go.
Why would someone do this instead of going and trying to bang a hottie? Because hes committed to Mastery.
The process of delabeling helps to stop the automatic subconscious programs that kick in when youve decided
you are experiencing something.
If you are experiencing FEAR right before you approach then you have automatic programs that kick in. They
might cause you to open in a clowny manner( or subdued manner or whatever to protect yourself.
This is NOT what we want. We want to open from a position of pure power, peace and calmness.
Thats the next level.
~ CJ ~
P.S. If you think others would benefit from reading this let them know at Grow Your Game

Captain Jack says:

February 24, 2008 at 1:46 pm

-papa, yeah Sinn really likes Osho and has recommended him a few times. His ideas sound very interesting in
this area. Thanks for the recommendation.
-evolpha, Ive been hearing about Tolle for quite awhile now. I have his first book but at the time I started reading
it (about 2 years ago) I couldnt really get into it. Im going to go back and read it soon. Im a writer so I spend a lot
of time at the bookstore coffee shop and I swear everytime I go in there at least one person is reading A New
Anonymous Joe, I went and looked at Satoris blog and its pretty cool. I think hes got a lot of useful ideas.
Thanks guys for the recommendations/feedback.
~ CJ ~

Mass Sexual Framing Pre-Release

Posted at February 22, 2008

Hey PUAs,
Ive taken my eCoaching Bootcamp off the market. I did this because I wrote it over 2 years ago and since then
Ive learned so much.
I did a minor update right after Savoy and I did a joint-venture to his MM list but other than the minor changes I
made for that it remains the same.
But, theres so much more to teach and learn. I recently decided to revamp the whole thing to incorporate ALL of
the results from the various experiments Ive done over the last 3+ years.
The result is something Ive called Mass Sexual Framing and for guys who want a STREAM of women in their
lives it is killer.
We set up and use EVERY tool in our arsenal to create a pool of women in our lives. But, there is a BIG
difference in the ROLE those women will play.
You see, most guys think in terms of getting a girl and working to seduce her( But, Mass Sexual Framing looks
at each new girl in your Pool as a Magnet for pulling in 3-5 OTHER females just like her.
When done correctly with sexual framing it creates a feeding frenzy.
But, I dont want to release it community-wide until Ive ironed out all of the kinks. This wont simply be email
lessons (like the old program) it will be audio and video as well and the last thing I want is to have technical issues
with nearly a hundred guys breathing down my neck.
So, if youre interested I want to take you through the first 4 weeks of Mass Sexual Framing. The full version will
be 9 weeks long AND youll be guaranteed a spot and get a full discount for everything youve already paid me
when I release it.
But there are three little conditions(
Number one: If there are a couple of technical glitches youll promise to be patient while I work through them.
Nothing will take more than a day or so to fix, if theres even a problem at all.
Number two: For this version Ill want to talk on the phone with you three times for 40 minutes. This WONT be in
the full version because there will be too many people. But, talking on the phone with you and coaching you
through your Game issues will help me help you more AND give me better feedback on improving things.
Number three: You wont share any of the audio, video or written lessons with others.
For this limited pre-release I can only take 10 PUAs( The cost of the first 4 weeks and the 3 one-on-one phone
calls with me is $975.00.
You can split that up into 3 payments of $400.00 spread 4 weeks apart.
Im not sure what the final cost will be when I release this publicly but it will most likely NOT be less than $1900.
If you want all my newest stuff, all the stuff I only talk to my closest Wings and coaching students about then
nows the time to pull the trigger.
1 payment of $975
3 payments of $400.
~ CJ ~

Wang Stew
Posted at February 23, 2008

*** I originally wrote this for the Warrior-King Society for the upcoming Feb. issue. ***
This is the story of a normal person. Well call him Jimmy.
When Jimmy was a wee little boy his parents would take him to the local Small Town Diner every week. The diner
was famous for Chef Berthas Wang Stew. Not only would you see the gray bearded locals enjoying a steaming
bowl, youd notice the obvious out of towner shoveling bite after bite into their greedy pie holes.
Pure gluttony in action. But, Wang Stew has that effect on people.
Chef Bertha weighed about 300 lbs and stood nearly 6 feet tall. She rarely showered and always had a nice
yellow film on her teeth( but, it didnt really matter. Everybody loved Chef Berthas Wang Stew, especially
Jimmy and his family ate there weekly, like clockwork, until Jimmy (now Jim) went off to college in the Big City. He
missed his family of course, but he also missed Wang Stew. None of the Big City diners could come even close to
that chunky deliciousness.
Wang Stew gave Jim comfort. Freaking out over an exam? Have some Wang Stew( Rejected for a date? Have
some Wang Stew( Irritated about your life? Have some Wang Stew(
He had his momma freeze and ship Wang Stew out to him so hed have some ready anytime he got beat up in
(at every college break he made sure he got back to his home town to get some of Chef Berthas Wang Stew.
After college Jim got a nice job back home in Small Town. Almost daily hed have lunch at the Small Town Diner.
Delicious, delicious, chunky, Wang Stew.
One day as Jim settled down into his seat at his table the unthinkable happened.
Marge: Hi Hunny( whatll you have?
Jim: Hi, Marge( the usual( and a cup of decaf.
Marge: oh( you didnt hear? Chef Bertha isnt here anymore(
Jim: What?! Why???
Marge leans closer( Im not supposed to tell you this but( she looks around, pauses and takes a seat. Chef
Bertha was fired a couple of days ago.
Jim: But(why?
Marge: Somebody was stealing supplies out of the kitchen so Mr. Jones had a hidden camera installed
Jim: Bertha stealing??? Cmon!
Marge: no(no( thats not it( as she lowers her voice and looks around again.
Jim lifts his eyebrows awaiting an explanation.
Marge: Oh( I shouldnt tell you this( but I have to( brace yourself hunny( You know how everybody loved
Berthas stew( and how she always mentioned a secret ingredient but would never tell anyone the secret( not
even Mr. Jones?
Jim: Yes( go on.
Marge: Well, the video camera( we couldnt believe it( every morning when Chef Bertha made the stew( just
when all the ingredients were in the pot and ready to go( Chef Bertha would pull down her pants( and take a
shit in the pot.
Jim sat there for a second( a blank expression on his face.
Marge nudged him, You alright, hunny?
He slammed his hand on the table and said, Damnit Marge, dont bother me with the fucking details( just tell me
where Chef Bertha works now so I can go get more of that delicious Wang Stew!
And nowhere is there more Wang Stew than in the Community.
Youve got different kinds( some is extra chunky with bold Wang flavor( some has been blended real well so
you hardly taste the Wang as it goes down( some of it is almost pure Wang.
I guess it all depends on what kind of Wang Stew you grew up on( but this isnt about finding a better tasting
Wang( its about getting the Wang out of your Stew so you can really have that sense of fulfillment, so you can
really get that life and lifestyle you want.

Right now Im still battling the Wang Stew I adopted a long time ago. That Wang Stew says that all the cool
people at the club are better than me socially( mmmm, can you taste that Wang? It says that I cant get girls of
a certain type( but I can get girls of another type. Nice, chunky Wang.
The thing about Wang is in order for you to eat it, it has to be hidden in some Stew.
This means that Wang is gonna be a floater just below the surface.
You have to open neutral because the group isnt gonna like you. Wang.
You have to neg because she is higher than you. Wang.
Girls arent sexual so you have to pair-bond first. Wang.
Same Night Lays are Fools Mate. Wang.
Only x-guys get girls like that. Wang.
Were awash in Wang Stew.
You can grab a spoon and dig in( forcing down each bite until you hate your life( or you can say, No more
wang for me, thanks! and start examining all the harmful presuppositions and root them out(
Which is it gonna be?
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. With special thanks to the Huna Kumu.
P.P.S. Join me and stop eating Wang Stew.

Captain Jack says:

February 24, 2008 at 1:42 pm

crac, hey man glad it helped! Ill be doing more vidoes in the future.
a, Ive written about the non-useful presupps quite a bit in scattered posts. Probably time for a dedicated post.
~ CJ ~

FUR: The Octopus and The Nurse

Posted at February 26, 2008

FUR = Fuck-up Report.

So, I went out last night feeling pretty good. The internal work Ive been doing is paying off really well.
Im experiencing the phenomena the Masculinity writers named Fire in the Belly. Its a real thing and its a good
description. I have this pleasant swirling sensation at the top of my stomach right under the sternum. Its moving
to the center of my chest were it radiates to my limbs. Occasionally, energy seems to move up the top part of my
spine and shoot out sending goose bumps all over my shoulders and upper back.
I got to the venue a bit early thinking Id have a delicious diet beverage and an appetizer but when I got there all
the tables were taken by couples and groups( so I nixed the idea.
There were only two girls when I got there and about 25 dudes. I started talking to a black guy (well call him
Black Dude from here on out) from Louisiana who had me cracking up.
While we were talking a really cute blonde with big boobs walked by and gave me an AI. He said, Dawg( thats
you man( she wants it.
I nodded in agreement. She had a big friend (and by big I mean tall and fat) with her. My utter disdain for 2sets
with bad logistics made me hesitate and before I knew it a guy who looked like Clark Kent (not the acceptable
looking Dean Cain version but the dork in the original movies) came in and chode introed himself(
(and then he went for the big friend! His friend came in and introed himself to the cute blonde and about 2
minutes later they were all over each other.
Black dude looked at me and said, Hes getting laid tonight!
I said, Hey, whats up( to another few sets and they really didnt take off so I kept rolling around.

Black dude was cracking me up again because of his approach. His idea was to simply poke the girl as she
walked by( if she stopped and smiled hed talk( if she kept walking or looked at him like hes a weirdo then hed
act like he didnt do anything.
Around midnight the place was getting packed but the ratio was still about 5 guys to 1 girl.
A set of really hot girls strolled right up next to me at the bar( I looked at all 4 of them and said, Hey, hows it
They all smiled and said, good! and the taller strawberry blonde one who was closest to me said, We just got
back from the mavs game
(CAUTION: One of the most boring conversations in the history of the earth follows()
CJ: Cool. You having a good night?
HB: Oh yeah, were having lots of fun. The mavs won!
At this point shes facing me. The other 3 girls have kind of faded and are just looking at us.
CJ: Howd Dirk do?
HB: He kept on missing!
CJ: Hmm( hes usually pretty good (I looked this morning, he scored 29 points( theres not a lot of missing
going on when you score 29 points)
She says something I cant remember.
CJ: Where you from?
HB: Im from New York.
CJ: Oh yeah, I was there awhile back. I dont think I have an accent but when I was up there they kept on pointing
it out and asking me to say things( like yall.
HB: Haaa( yeah, Ive been here 11 years and when I talk to family they say an accent has rubbed off on me( I
say yall sometimes but Ill never say fixin
CJ: Were fixinta go(
HB: Haaa( yeah
At this point I notice that with each sentence she has been inching closer. She now has her luscious, above
average, lightly freckled boobies pressed up against me.
GIGANTOR begins to stir(
CJ: So what do you do?
HB: Im a nurse( ER nurse( all of us are( (pointing to a group of about 6 hotties who are still watching us)
CJ: Oh good( another nurse.
HB: What?
CJ: * Shaking head *
HB: What?
CJ: I used to date an ER nurse, she was always stressed out!
HB: I dont get stressed out.
CJ: But it was so cute because she was so nurturing( One night we were hanging out watching a movie and I
was going to pick up some food for us( as I was leaving she rushed over and said, Oh no( you cant go out
there without your jacket. She got my jacket out and zipped me up( it wasnt really even cold outside.
HB: Yeah, I guess all nurses are like that(
CJ: So you probably have that nurse schedule( 3 or 4 long days and then time off.
HB: Yeah( But, I dont think Im going in tomorrow because I hurt my ankle.
At this point she is pushing her whole body against me. Her face is barely an inch from me.
Shes looking up at me with those big Doe brown eyes. But, Im supposed to be indifferent(
(MUST remain indifferent(
(indifference is the dif ah fuck it I pull her into me and we make out like pornstars. She is cleaning my tonsils
with her tongue. She grabs the top of my pants and pulls my hips into hers.
GIGANTOR nearly busts through my pants going from slightly chubby to fully erect purple headed womb ferret.
I run Jealous ex deleted my numbers(
HB: Im not jealous but I do have a temper. Its the Irish in me.
CJ: Irish huh? Not sure about you(

Strawberry fields. 8 Strawberries( Oh my god, youd wear me out. Did the farmer see you? Oh my god( youre
such a bad little girl!
Make out. She rubs GIGANTOR.
CJ: All catholic girls I know have been into handcuffs and being tied up.
She gives me another tonsil cleaning.
Some Miami tennis guy comes over and we go over to the table full of nurses. Theyre all so hot I briefly consider
trying to switch targets but then I nix the idea becaues theyve seen us trying to swallow each others faces.
We hang out there another few minutes before I pull her back to the bar.
Not much talking. Lots of making out. I undo her bra in about 2 seconds and cup her breasts and pinch her
nipples. She says, oh my god( you did that so fast! You better reconnect it!
CJ: Im really good at undoing them( not so good at redoing them.
HB: You better! (Shes super turned on and attracted()
I manage to do it( and then she turns around and shoves her booty into my crotch and says, Hmmm(
somebody is having fun.
HB: Youre a player arent you.
I ignore.
CJ: Get out your phone. You can reach out to me sometime when youre not busy.
She calls me, Now you have my number.
I really, really shouldve tried for the pull. Damnit. I waited and then her friends came by and got her about 1:15.
At 1:36 a.m. I sent her this text: Bad girl.
She replied, No problems, no worries. Really enjoyed talking 2 u. Hope to talk 2 u soon.
I replied, Yeah, reach out to me when youre not busy.
She replied, If I would have been busy, i wouldnt have messaged u. Have good night and b safe!
I strategized via text with Sinn if I should go for it( but I think the Have good night and b safe! phrase closes the
door on Drunk and Lonely especially since neither of us were drunk (or lonely).
She might be worth a Day2. Superb body. Flat stomach. Juicy booty and big boobs.
I fucked up by being too sexual AND not trying for the pull. I think even a Im done with this place( walk me to
my car wouldve at least advanced it far enough for a possible car close or her cracking and coming home with
Fun times even though it wouldve been a lot better to have another SNL to add to my body of work!
~ Captain Jack ~

Lay Report: I'm Not Easy!

Posted at February 28, 2008

I dont know a lot about you( but I do know this:

You are one smart mother fucker. I know this because you read my blog instead of wasting your time on stupid
shit like working, doing your taxes and cleaning your toilet.
You know what all that stuff is? Its LMS Lesser Mortal Shit
Lesser Mortal Shit is anything that interferes with you sucking all the nectar out of life. Now, I can hear some of
you saying, What about responsibilities? What about being a good citizen?
I say, Yeah man! Do that stuff( BUT, Im proposing that the stuff you were told is being a good citizen is
actually the stuff someone ELSE thinks you should be doing to be a good citizen and NOT what youd decide had
you sat down and CONSCIOUSLY decided how you want your life.
Why be a COG in someone elses wheel, getting only an hour or two per day (and the weekend) to do the shit
your SOUL aches for when you can be your own self-determined being?
Leave that Lesser Mortal Shit to someone else. There are beautiful women to be orgasmed.
A couple of days ago I posted FUR: The Octopus and the Nurse(
I texted her this afternoon: 8 Strawberries! and she texted back right away with Haaa! Whatre u doin?

CJ: Arent you at work?

HB: No. Sprained ankle that night.
CJ: Wow! What a wimp! I was going to see if you wanted to hang out but cant be seen with a girl using a
HB: If you ask me nicely Ill leave the walker home.
Set her up via text for coming over 8:30. My standard day2 is to get them to come over. When they get here I
have them come inside and hug them to test their body tension. She was only about half way open so I offered
her some wine (picked it up at the gas station earlier).
(Had she been fully open I wouldve shoved her against the wall and started heavy make out, hand on throat, hair
pulling, etc.)
We chatted a bit. I made fun of her wound. We drank wine on my couch and I escalated more. Got her shirt off.
She started resisting so I immediately stopped. Went back to chatting for 5-10 minutes and tried again. More
resistance so I took her to the local bar.
Cheese sticks. Potato Wedges. Beer. Cool music.
We got into a frame battle there. Or, more accurately she tried to set frames which I rejected, turned around and
then utilized to reinforce my own.
HB: What church do you go to?
(This is a question a girl asks for future relationship compatibility. She has a checklist of things she wants from the
dude in LTR and her goal on the date is to check them off one by one.)
CJ: Were here! First X-Bar of Arlington!
(Im pretty sure she DID NOT want me to say that a bar was my church since a few minutes earlier she said she
doesnt go to bars much because of the smokiness and loud music. Haaa. So, Im rejecting the Frame that this is
an evaluative LTR date using cocky-funny.)
At one point after making out I tell her shes turning me on( I put her hand on GIGANTOR (naturally, she gasps)
and tell her its her fault. That shes doing it to me and Im not responsible for whatever happens.
I mention taking her into the bathroom, the car, the alley or right there on the table.
HB: Im not that easy!
CJ: Oh god! Stop! That turns me on when you say things like that!
That steals her frame. Now, anytime she tries to reiterate her Im not easy frame then she knows it will turn me
on. Since it doesnt have the effect she originally wants then she has to either abandoned it and try to set the
frame a different way OR if she DOES decide she wants to turn me on then she has a way to do it.
CJ wins.
She makes a few more attempts to set an LTR Evaluation Frame which I reject by turning things sexual, using
cocky-funny or misinterpretation.
We get back to the Pirate Pad and clothes fly off with no LMR, no hesitation.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. The new Sticking Point Analysis Presentation is now on YouTube( minus the Coughing. Follow the link to
subscribe to the Channel. More Web 2.0 stuff to come.

Heart Melters and Babies

Posted at February 29, 2008

Whenever I write about HeartMelters I use the example of how Mothers would always seem to want to show your
new friend or girlfriend your baby pictures.
Do you remember that? And you would say, Mom! Dont( but before you knew it shed grab the EXACT photo
album with the picture of you as a naked baby getting a bath in the kitchen sink to your prom date.
And, there your Mom and your prom date sat on the couch like old girlfriends giggling away at your tiny baby
Well, it seems like Moms KNOW by intuition (or culturization, their moms did it to them, etc, etc) that it has an
effect on the brain.

Check out this post from a Neuroscience/Marketing blog I read regularly.

~ Captain Jack ~

The Rise of Shaft

Posted at March 2, 2008

Shaft is a PUA I would actually pay to be in a seminar room to learn from, and there are damn few of those.
Further, hes a PUA I would cough up money to take a one-on-one with (if he even did that sort of thing) and there
are even fewer PUAs (probably 3) on that list.
Read about Shaft and Subpersonalities here.
~ CJ ~

What Would You Do if The Community Did Not

Posted at March 7, 2008

Tribulus emailed me and a few other PUAs/Friends this email(

Ive actually been doing this for a few months now( except Im acknowledging that the Community exists just that
it is wrong about everything(

Just for a moment, Imagine.

No community. No help whatsoever aside from Barbara DeAngelis and Men are From
Mars, Women are From Venus.
No Gurus, No bootcamps, No seminars, No TV shows, No online forums or DVDs or
CDs. No RSD, Mystery Method, No Speed Seduction.
All of it.Gone.
Imagine a big dupster in your mind and all that stuff going into the dumpster and then
the dumpster fades into nothingness.
What do you do?
You are alone with no help.
You still need to meet a sex partner or a girlfriend or lover. Biological urges are the
same. But now its just you and girls.
Take this seriously.
What does your heart tell you to do?
Tell us what youd do in the comments section below(
Read what OTHER community bloggers wrote when posed this same question:
Solace from LetsInspire.net
Maysins Musings

Phone Coaching
Posted at March 8, 2008

A week or so ago I posted some information about the Mass Sexual Framing eCoaching program( which I am
about to start the phone conferences on next week( if you want in then sign up by Monday details here.

What Im going to do is find out EXACTLY where you are now and where you want to go (ultimately) and then
help you apply Sticking Point Analysis and formulate Field Experiments for you to run. You do the experiments
and report back to me( which starts another round of Sticking Point Analysis and Field Experiments. If you think
this is something that can help you then you can join Mass Sexual Framing to get 3 rounds of it(
Or, if you want a more focused in-depth package email me here.
~ CJ ~

Cookie Cutter or Customized?

Posted at March 11, 2008

Ok, Ive had a few people sign up for the Mass Sexual Framing pre-release w/ 3 40-minute Phone Consultations
and Ive had a few more people email me asking some questions about how the phone consults work.
Even if you never sign up for this, understanding what I do and working through the questions below is likely to
help you a great deal(
Heres the idea behind the Phone Consults. I use a series of targeted questions to understand you, your desires
and your current level of Game. Based on that, I help you flesh out a new Game Plan along with a series of
Experiments to go out in-field and run. You email me with any questions/results during that week for feedback.
Instead of Cookie-Cutter Question and Answer phone consults its entirely customized to your specific
The next week, we discuss in more detail whats going on and I diagnose your current sticking points and help
you find solutions to bust them. We design more Experiments for the next week(
..and so on.
Here are the beginning questions:
Hey, man, hows it going? (Haaa()
1. Whats your ultimate goal for pick-up?
Ex: Have fun for a few years, then get married(
2. If you achieve that what will it do for you?
Ex: Feel more confident, feel like I have control of my life.
3. How long in The Community?
4. Any formal training like a bootcamp or 1-on-1?
5. What systems/products have you studied?
6. Give me an example of a normal night out for you( what do you normally do in-set, give me an example of
your standard Game Plan.
7. Whats happening now?
This is where we start really trucking( What Im looking for here is the patterns that show up in your Game.
From here on out Im trying to discover EXACTLY what is preventing you from getting to the next level.
Once I discover that through further questioning I develop a custom solution for the Sticking Point that is holding
you back. We then re-design your Game Plan around that solution and drill it together until you understand
PRECISELY what you need to do in every set, every night you go out.
Each night you go out you can send me a summary of what went down for comment.
After a few of these phone calls youll GET and fully understand how Sticking Point Analysis and the focused help
of someone who has been (and surpassed) where you are can really rocket your Game.
More details here(
~ CJ ~
P.S. Stay tuned( LOTS of cool shit coming soon!
P.P.S. Ill be in NYC this weekend

Podcast: CJ on Frames!
Posted at March 19, 2008

Yo, Im sitting here with El Topo enjoying a delicious Chicken Caesar Salad from Boston Market. El Topo just
burped into his MacBook as a mic test. Were about to do another podcast, this time on Framing.
Same Night Lays (SNL) should actually be called, Same Night Lays as an Application of Framing.
The framing methodology itself can be adapted to ANYTHING provided you know what the Societal and/or
Authoritative frames (the default frames) are and you know WHAT frames you need to set and which frames to
~ Captain Jack ~

Captain Jack says:

March 24, 2008 at 6:43 pm

evolpha the new podcast with ET is almost 2 hours long(

anonymous1 posted that when I was drunk. Its safe to assume any rap video posting is due to drunkeness
anonymous2 dont know anything about Styles Annihilation Method

Other Than What You Think It Is

Posted at March 28, 2008

Think of something youre stuck on or struggling too hard to figure out and ask yourself this simple question:
Can I let go of being so smart and allow it to be other than what I think it is?
The Can I question is not a question of capability( its a decision. You CAN, so decide to and then notice how
your thoughts and feelings around that subject change.
~ CJ ~
P.S. Post any observations/experiences you have in the comments section below.

Captain Jack says:

March 29, 2008 at 9:10 pm

What were trying to get rid of here is an attachment to being right which will keep you stuck in your current
When you are in this situation you will stay in the same (or just slightly improved) state no matter how much effort
or expertise you develop.
Allowing yourself to think that it could be other than what you think it is allows you to attract new ideas,
opportunities and contacts.

Mass Sexual Framing Success

Posted at April 2, 2008

Heres an email from a MSF (Mass Sexual Framing) student I received earlier. This is after just one phone consult
where I helped him refine his opener and the first 20-30 to set the proper sexual frames(

Youre the real deal man, I just pulled after 20 mins in the club, never
done that before strawberry fields, making her stroke my forearm, Time Bridge,
Rings on Fingers, bounce to play guitar.
Got LMRd tho, been watching too much Calipimp, tried to ger her hand
on my beast but she retracted, also forgot to run questions game.
Do you have a favourite endgame M.O. e.g. go rough talk, dirty, try get in her pants
or get her in yours first?
Heres my response:
Awesome dude.. VERY quick pull hence the LMR. With that quick of a pull Id suggest doing a lot of sexual
teasing via push/pull. Pull her in and kiss her then push her away= talk normal= then do that stuff I told you
about that makes it seem like SHE is seducing you with her mannerisms. Use the specific ones we discussed as
theyre tailored to YOUR game. Keep doing that over and over and over again and shell basically go nuts and
start pulling YOUR clothes off=
When shes there just assume you two are going to have sex so you can relax a bit( slow down and tease.
You can still get in on the MSF Pre-Release here.
~ CJ ~

Posted at April 3, 2008

Fidelio gives Farewell(

Fireside with Fidelio: Farewell

Question from a Stud(ent)

Posted at April 6, 2008

ok, ive been LMRd 4 times in one week, twice on the beach, plus another pull from a club. How many
times do u recommend doing the make out/push away thing bf going for the jugular? I did 2 push aways +
as u said she loved it, but when I went all in, she was going crazy, then suddenly, she just stops started
shit testing about my dirty talk. Possibly my dirty talk is too elaborate, premediated so it kills the frame
that shes seducing me?
Anyhoo, I guess this is a good problem to have, I love how efficient your game is, doesnt require memorizing
anything, its completely effortless. One other point, the downside of all the sexual framing seems to be there isnt
that dreamy deep, meaningful comfort vibe that u get if e.g. u run the cube instead do u have natural ways of
creating that as well so that even if the SNL doesnt go down, shell still think ur amazing amd be down for the
Thx man, MSF is the balls
My reply:
The answer, my friend, is Heart Melters. See, now that youve established and gotten good at setting the sexual
frame(you can give a very deep 3-dimensional look into your life in a way that DOES NOT kill the sexual vibe(
instead it will make it deeper and more meaningful for her. Youre going to give her a very intense shot of NONSEXUAL emotion to bring everything to the next level.
Once you combine those two youll be able to do WHATEVER you want with her(
Want her to be your girlfriend? Done.
Want to keep her around forever for sex only? Done.

Want just one night of awesome, dirty sex? Done.

But, what do MOST guys try to do? They try to get an emotional connection and THEN go sexual( doesnt work
that way.
Waste o time.
(Ok, now Im talking to my blog readers()
She WANTS sex. She got fucking dressed up for 2 hours to get everything just right so a guy would notice her
and come talk to her so she could possibly (finally) get laid by someone new.
So, quit being so goddamned stingy and give her what she wants. If she wanted a nice tame conversation, an
enjoyable dinner and a PG-13 movie she could simply answer one of the ass kissing texts or voice mails of the
horde of chodes shes given her number to (so theyd finally leave) in the past couple of weeks.
But, she hasnt done that has she? Nope.
She wants some strange. Give it to her.
~ CJ ~

aptain Jack says:

April 13, 2008 at 5:44 am

The first frame to open is male-female dynamic frame(
then, sexual frame(
then, emotional connection.
~ CJ ~

Is this a Lay?
Posted at April 9, 2008

Yo, so things have been getting fucking nuts in Big D. I woke up at 2:00 pm on Sunday and didnt sleep again
until about 7 or 8 pm Monday night.
Printer, a good friend who Im helping refine his Game (he also worked with Sinn and El Topo), posted back-toback SNLs this weekend and ALMOST posted his 3rd in a row on Sunday night had he not been so smashed he
couldnt get it up. And, man, did she try to get it up. But, no go.
That same night I got a super hot 20-year old blonde from the in crowd at the Sunday night venue we usually go
to( she was in one of those little bitty dresses that go just an inch past the ass.
Heres my question: I spanked her, I sucked on her tits, I fingered her 4 or 5 times but she was giving me HUGE
LMR for penile insertion( I finally got GIGANTOR(TM) in halfway before she totally clinched up and said, oh my
god. oh my god. We just met. Oh my god.
I wasnt able to take another shot as we were interrupted soon after that.
But, this has happened a few times now. The few times its happened, the girls are in the 18-22 age range. I
usually DONT write an LR until I see them again and bang them properly but I figured Id throw it out there to see
what you guys think(
Is this a Lay? And, should I change my policy and write LRs? Or, should I continue waiting to write them until I
can do it proper?
And, if you think I shouldnt write one, where is the line?
Well ignore the fact that half a GIGANTOR(TM) is about the size of a normal male penis(
Debate in the comments(
~ CJ ~

P.S. I dont think Im going to get a second shot at her. I texted her earlier and got no reply so unless I run into her
again or she texts me out of the blue its probably not going to happen.
P.P.S. Saturday night made out with a cute girl with the biggest natural tits Ive ever seen in my life. Shes in law
school and damn was she tough to break down(

"She Stripped Down Within 5 Minutes"

Posted at April 14, 2008

So, the success stories from Mass Sexual Framing clients are started to come in with greater frequency(
A client who Ive done 2 phone consults with so far had a night where he did 2 approaches and got one SNL(
Heres what he had to say about how MSF helped him:
====== Begin Clients Email =========
(what I think has really helped so far has been your uncanny ability to figure out (remotely) what my initial
sticking point(s) really were:
1) Too much in my head / trying to memorize too much canned script;
2) Not having an Expectation of convo, and;
3) Not having my fun hat on, i.e., be out primarily to have fun; and if a SNL or Day 2 is generated along the way,
so much the better.
Because, if you look at it, pretty much everything I said to that girl last night, I already knew before we started
working together, its just that most of that knowledge was mixed-in with 100 pounds of other information that was
not congruent with who I am, and therefore was holding me back to the point that I wasnt even going out. The big
thing weve done is field-strip my game, take the gamey-ness out, reduce it to the minimum core components,
get those components organized, and then add additional tailored components on an as-needed basis. So right
now, I feel like Im working on building a strong foundation and once I get that down cold, well add-in the MSFs.
Cant wait to see what the MSFs are all about!
I really like those tame male-female dynamic statements, though(cant wait to hear the less-tame ones!
(What hes talking about here are the male-female dynamic frames I introduced to MSF clients during Phone
Consults= I havent talked or blogged about them previously put they make the Sexual Frames MUCH stronger.)
Btw, the girl that blew me out on SF, prior to that, her entire body-language underwent a major shift right after I
told her she has a great smile. She smiled, turned towards me (and away from her g/f)(it was pretty interesting.
What I was thinking about at that moment was your comment about how chicks prep themselves for 2 hours
before going out, and how a comment like that is basically giving them what they really want(they want that
almost as much (maybe more in some cases) as they want sex. Powerful if youre sincere when you deliver the
I suppose with SF, its good news/bad news, anything that is super-effective like SF (good news) gets out there to
such an extent that it becomes a victim of its own effectiveness, and therefore becomes less successful (bad
news)? Im not saying weve reached that point yet with SF, but, nothing wrong with planning for that reality(.so I
hear what youre saying about taking the core elements of SF and creating a different game. Ill have to think
about some new variables(strawberries are so perfect though, its tough to top that.
Thinking-back on the SF approach, and it probably wouldnt have made much difference, but I did ask her, So
how many strawberries did you eat? She said 4. So I said, Wow and looked away in slight disbelief(.so she
said, Why? What? Me: Well, thats a lot(I mean, most girls say 1 or 2. So at this point, in retrospect of course,
it could still have been salvageable(Heres where I screwed it up(She said, Why, how may did you say when
you played? Me: Well, its really a girls test(its not really a guys test Her: What do you mean? Me: I dont
know( (brilliant). At this point, I basically wanted to drop the whole subject(.so I said I probably would eat 2025 strawberries(trying to shock / hook her into a different thread - didnt work((so thats where the convo
started to get a little uncomfortable-feeling. I was feeling like a chode. And I couldnt think of anything to qualify
her on, b/c she already told me she was Indian(we had already been talking for 20 minutes or so, so a lot of
ground was covered in terms of Q&A, so I was sort-of tapped-out(thats where I think some good Qualification
threads would be good, b/c at that point, you cant really do another male-female dynamic line(

I was under the weather last Friday / Saturday, so I didnt go out at all, consequently no approaches. Last night
was the first night I did any approaches since our last phone call, and I only did 2 approaches, the second being
the SNL (such a naughty girl). Took approx. 30-45 minutes from approach to bounce. Within 5 minutes of getting
to my place she had completely stripped herself(.good lord(.
========= End Clients Email ==============
Not bad, at all.
Im ready to take on some more clients. So, heres the deal: 3 40-minute phone consults where I break down your
game, access to ALL my past eCoaching programs, the new MSF videos, a few important Warrior-King Society
issues and whatever else I come up with in the next few months.
1 payment of $975
3 payments of $400.
I can only handle 5 more guys right now.
~ CJ ~

Captain Jack says:

April 15, 2008 at 8:24 pm

I actually prefer bars/lounges over the club scene.

This program is tailored to you so I take an inventory of your current situation and skill set and build whats called
a Current Reality Tree.
Then, we talk about what you want your future to look like, the Future Reality Tree.
And, from there I build a Transition Tree and we work on implementing it over the 3 phone calls.
email me at captainjackpua AT gmail DOT com if you have any other questions.
~ CJ ~

Introducing A New Zen Master From The Poontang

Posted at May 3, 2008

What follows is a yahoo chat I had with a good friend and student( I fixed a few of his early game sticking points
and he made some great progress BUT he had some of the worst Approach Anxiety ever. It was right around my
level. His previous solution was to get smashed and work within his extensive social circle to get new girls into the
We installed some new stuff for him the week of April 8th which knocked out his Approach Anxiety( Since then
his results have been spectacular.
(Ill have a LOT more to say on Approach Anxiety in the coming month,)
CaptainJack: im really clear on it( making good decisions( what happened with your SNL last night?
ThePrinter: dude, it was like I had a target on my back she tried to have stronger frame and each time she
walked away, I had multiple chicks all around
CaptainJack: the target on your back says, Mantacular(give me the scoop dude, how did you open?
ThePrinter: she was starring at me across the bar(so I walked over and said, , , hey, hows your night
CaptainJack: WTF? What about Hey do you believe magical spells work? haaa
ThePrinter: she said, very well, how about you(I said, good and I would like to introduce you to my group of
friends, but we are going to dance first(put out my hand, didnt even ask(we danced for 1/4 of a song and I did
no effort from that point on(brunette, fake tits, size 1/2, 55(she was smoking, 8.7 to me
CaptainJack: FB material then?

(This is me checking his goal progress. He wants 3 FBs in his rotation at all times with a min. score of 8+ each.
He wants the ability to keep it full by rotating out ones hes tired of and using cold approach to fill the vacant
ThePrinter: YES! she left the bar and text me good bye(I replied: are you really going to throw me to the lions
without a good bye hug(she replied, I have not left the parking lot yet(I said, up to you, do you have manners?
She said she would come in if we could dance, but she had to be good tonight. I said, I dont feel like dancing, but
I have a hug if she wants it. She came back, 10 minutes later, I said, ready to get out of here? She said, Where?
ThePrinter: I said we are going to my house to play pool(she said do you have a pool table(I said no(no
resistance, no LMR(I didnt even take off her skirt
ThePrinter: I told her I would invite her back agian if she could squirt(she got REALLY turned on(and said: is
that really ok?
ThePrinter: she watched 2 girls make out with me last night(and said, you did everything you could do to
respect me, but why do girls throw themselves at you? I was thinking, they dont usually(I said nothing
CaptainJack: did you tell her you were a Zen Master from the Poontang Clan?
ThePrinter: no, I told her that this kind of thing never happens to me( she believed me because I was pushing
chicks off constantly. I was so turned on, I made her get on top and I had to plug my ears with my fingers, she
came 4 times(first time I listened and didnt have my fingers in my ears I had to let it rip
ThePrinter: wanna go out?
CaptainJack: itll be a game-time decision for me fucking gets in the way of meditation
CaptainJack: approach anxiety when you went up to her?
(This is me testing again. Weve taken care of it BUT Im checking for the possiblity of its return. Since taking care
of it Ive also learned theres another little barrier. Weve been motivating ourselves with negativity for so long that
when we remove it there is a calmness and peace in the Approach environment which makes it FEEL GOOD to
just enjoy the lack of negativity. You are really ok to not approach( but, this makes for a lot of standing around.
Ive recently developed a new exercise to install and use positive motivators for approaching (or even better,
being approached!) More to come( )
ThePrinter: NONE(which was weird, I have never approached a chick instantly direct that was eye fucking me
CaptainJack: stumbling around like a drunken pirate?
ThePrinter: sober, red bull only
CaptainJack: fuck yeah, man
CaptainJack: where were her friends?
ThePrinter: I never asked, I assumed it was on and ran it
CaptainJack: good
ThePrinter: expressed zero insecurity
CaptainJack: On an effort scale 1( being lowest to 10 being Highest where was it?
ThePrinter: 3(she didnt make me try(I led her by letting her believe she was in comp with the other girls
CaptainJack: nice( how did you do that? Did you say it explicitly?
ThePrinter: I told her( I can tell you are the leader of your group(you must be the boss at work(I am really
attracted to women who take charge(we are the same because we both know what we want and have the ability
to go for it
CaptainJack: fantastic!
ThePrinter: told her that I know she really wants to kiss me right now, but I am going to kiss her when I am
ready(she tried to kiss me and I took her hand and led her to get a drink(she was confused(she didnt realize
that it was close to the side of the bar and a wall was 12 feet away(after we got a drink I walked to a table, she
put her drink down next to mine and I pushed her against the wall and kissed her(she was really into that
CaptainJack: sweet(How did you get the number?
ThePrinter: very early(I told her that we needed to hang out soon, but I would have to let her know because my
travel schedule was full(and she better get my number before my fan club draggs me off (. huge challenge
CaptainJack: haaa(. did you use the new frame I told you about? The just-relaxing frame?
ThePrinter: she really led, I just guided, she thought I was leading(I was not, I was mostly reading(when she
typed her number in my phone I took it back and erased her name(I said, Im putting you under H for
horny(she said that she was going to put me under T for tired( I said that I hoped she had gatoraide

ThePrinter: AHH, one important point was overcoming LSE. About an hour in, she said, why me? She said that I
could have all these girls, why her? I said: if I wanted those girls, I could leave for sex an hour ago, but I only talk
to people who I find interesting. Those girls are judgemental and do not have the ability to stimulate me like you
ThePrinter: Continued by saying that I thought there was something here and she should correct me if I was
wasting my time. She said: I am not going to sleep with you I said: I am not here to judge you, what happens
happens, I may take you home so you can clean my house, I like my shirts folded and my pants ironed
ThePrinter: she laughed and still looked a little insecure, while thinking, WTF, Why, I looked at her and said: I
like you, let yourself enjoy me. While I said that, I grabbed her hand, squeezed it and then pushed it away to grab
my drink(she smiled for like 3-5 minutes straight
CaptainJack: So, what is that now 3 SNLs, a social circle 3-some, a bad BJ from a SUPER HOT married chick
and a sure-lay that you couldnt close because of drunkeness( all since since we put in the new foundation on
April 8th?
ThePrinter: Yep, you are the man!
CaptainJack: I know.

Lay Report: Juggs.

Posted at May 15, 2008

When I was a kid my dad and I moved in with my Grandparents for awhile after my mom and dad got divorced.

It was cool with me( They had a big backyard, a big

front yard and plenty of quiet streets to do wheelies on my bike. I ordered a bunch of stuff from Asian World of
Martial Arts a bunch of Shuriken and a Bokken and my Authentic Ninja Suit complete with Tabi.
Id lose myself for hours running around hurling Shuriken into my Ninja Enemies (the trunks of my Granddads
prized trees) then slicing their heads off with one simple pass of my Bokken.
Every morning Id wake up deciding what new missions I would have to perform or what scenes Id be re-enacting
from Enter The Ninja.
Until I discovered porn.
And, heres how it happened: One day my friend and I were riding our bikes around the neighborhood. I got the
crazy idea to go past Vickery. You probably had a Vickery in your youth too. Its that street that your parents said,
Dont go past that street( Its too far.. Its too dangerous( Youre liable to get kidnapped and molested by
weirdos in a white van with no windows( blah, blah, blah(
My friend looked at me like I was nuts.
I spoke not a word to let him know I was serious. I could see him calculating in his head. The punishment versus
the payoff. After a full minute( the faint etchings of a smile started on the right side of his face and then, gaining
speed with each second, spread all the way across until he was grinning like a monkey who had just discovered a
barrel of bananas.

I slammed down my highest pedal and looked back at him( Cmon!

He sped towards me. We pedaled like Tour De Force bikers for the Vickery finish line.
Our enthusiasm came to a dead stop when we got there. The steel cars rushed by so fast the wind actually
moved our bodies a bit. Those suckers were moving Fast!
We decided we needed a little more training, plus( what did we really want to see past Vickery anyway?
We headed back home. Across the railroad tracks we looked down and noticed a box. Being curious kids we
thought it could be treasure or something(
(and it was!
A box full of porn magazines. Im not talking about 4 or 5 or even 10( There had to be nearly 40 or more. An
entire assortment!
And, they werent Playboys either. They were Oui, Penthouse, and my all-time fave: Swank.
But, the one that really caught my eye was Juggs. It was unreal! After that find I played less and less Ninja and
got more and more interested in girls.
So, tonight I was reminded of that time I first encountered Juggs when I pulled this girls bra and top off.
They are etched into my memory. I took mental snapshots of them in action sequence after action sequence.
And, bonus she happens to be cool. We never went out.
I met her at a hotel after party when Mr. X prank called her friends party acting like Hotel Security. They came
down (8 of them) in their P.J.s to drink with us. Me and Mr. X and 8 hot girls.
At first I thought she was being bitchy(
I started getting into subtle verbal battles with her. I considered outright negging her.
But then I asked myself,
Could you let go of being so smart and allow it to be
other than what you think it is?
As soon as I did that I noticed a considerable shift in our conversation. I began to see her bitchiness as a
manifestation of Ego-Protection and her tendency to relive her Story more than paying attention to what is actually
occurring right in front of her.
(On a semi-related note: I had been noticing and pointing Low Self Esteem (LSE) out to friends/students/puas
for a couple of months. I now believe 95% of girls in the bar ARE LSE so bad it is dumbfounding. Ill write more
about this later( but, start watching for it and youll start to see it all over the place.
Stories are another layer of Ego-Protection. People make split decision assumptions about where things are
going based on their past experiences and then behave and communicate in a way that give higher probabilities
for the Story to be confirmed. If you see it happening you can break it. I believe one of the strengths of Sexual
Framing is it pre-emptively breaks Stories.)
In fact, it wasnt bitchiness at all. It was actually her deciding that our communication wasnt going to go anywhere
so she was doing NOTHING to try to help it.
The result of her Story (in this case) was simply speaking her mind in a direct and unembellished way.
Once I caught this I did the same thing. I accepted what she said and spoke my mind, too. The more we did this
the more attracted we became.
After about 40 minutes her friend wanted to leave so we exchanged numbers and kissed.
We only texted back and forth for a few weeks before seeing each other again. I literally did NOTHING to try to
advance the relationship other than try to get her out.
She flaked once( I flaked twice.
Finally, she came over last week, we watched Entourage and made out and got boob access but as I sensed
some resistance I backed off.
She came over again tonight. Done deal.
Total elapsed time: 3 hrs 40 minutes. No dates. No phone time. Not even Strawberry Fields.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. What is this post REALLY about? Layers within Layers.

P.P.S. Essential substance partakes neither of identity nor difference.

The Only DHV You Need

Posted at May 19, 2008

How many DHVs are there? (DHV=Demonstration of Higher Value) Shit man, I dont even know( I think there
are 5 or 6 standard ones and the list just seems to keep growing.
Thats the problem with not understanding root causes. Since the root cause isnt really known a solution based
on the faulty cause can at best be a PARTIAL solution. With each PARTIAL solution you SEEM to be getting
closer to MASTERY(
But in reality you are like the sick person who takes a bunch of drugs. Theres the drug for the sickness( then,
theres the drug to handle the first drugs side effects( then theres the drug to handle that drugs side effects..
etc, etc.
The ability to subtly communicate that you understand female sexuality, that you appreciate it fully without
judgmentalism of any kind and you VALUE it completely for what it is( IS the only DHV youll ever need.
Its the reason a PUA can walk in alone into a crowded venue( do a few sets and walk out with a girl. (Or, at the
very least, walk out with a few OPTIONS for low-maintenance, low-effort sexual relationships.)
Sexual Framing. Empty your mind of everything else.
~ Captain Jack ~

Captain Jack says:

June 5, 2008 at 8:59 pm

>This is a terrible post(you need a >bit more than that Im afraid(.
If you want to make it harder on yourself that it really is, then go ahead.
I prefer to get to the root causes and let the behavioral effects take care of themselves.
~ CJ ~

Low Self-Approval or Low Self-Esteem?

Posted at May 25, 2008

I think what you NAME things matters a great deal. One of the problems with innovating is you are stuck with the
vocabulary of the system/environment( We have a VERY extensive vocabulary in Pick-Up.
But, I think much of it is extremely inaccurate.
LSE or Low Self-Esteem is one such word. It SEEMS to describe a personality trait (or function/behavior) but it is
really not descriptive.
Ive been telling friends/puas/students for awhile now to NOTICE how MOST of the people at bars are LSE. In
EVERY instance Ive shared it they have come back to me saying something like this, Holy shit man! How the
fuck did I miss that?
The reason lies in the concept and the vocabulary. It has NOTHING to do with esteem.
Heres the dictionary def:
1. a realistic respect for or favorable impression of oneself; self-respect.
2. an inordinately or exaggeratedly favorable impression of oneself.

WTF does that mean? Sure we can think we know what it means but it is so ultimately non-descriptive that when
you try to dig deeper into solutions you quickly discover how meaningless it is.
There is, however, an often used phrase in The Community that is more functional and more descriptive than
LSE. In fact, if I had it my way Id say lets strike LSE out of the Canon and just use Approval Seeking or
Seeking Approval.
Thats right on the fucking money.
Everybody is Seeking Approval. And, when do you feel more approved of than when a member of the opposite
sex wants to have sex with you?
Letting the girl KNOW you APPROVE OF her as a female and APPROVE OF her as a sexual being is the end-all
of Sexual Framing.
Heres the kicker.
Think about a time when you did something you felt proud of yourself about( something you really gave yourself
a nice big pat on the back about. Maybe you felt great when graduated college( Got a promotion at work( Got a
girl you thought was out of your league(
Now, ask yourself where did those feelings come from (literally)?
Inside you.
If you werent feeling them one second and you were the next second, where did they REALLY come from?
So, who gave you the Approval?
You did.
If you gave yourself the Approval, who was holding the Approval away?
You were.
Weve been conditioned by Society to get approval OUTSIDE. Of course. How else could you Mass Control
If everyone gave themselves approval they would give everyone else approval, too. This would SEVERELY
reduce all other problems. People who approve of themselves DO NOT do destructive things.
(The mind, being linear, treats other people like you treat yourself and vice versa.)
On the other side, can you see that youve been giving yourself disapproval? And, because youve been
disapproving of yourself it has caused an intense craving for approval inside you?
And, knowing yourself intimately, could you see how someone else (a complete stranger) would be hesitant to
give you approval IF your behavior, speech, mannerisms and body language gave them the intuitive impressionfeeling that you disapproved of yourself?
Could you decide (right now, as best you can) to stop disapproving of yourself?
Then, could you decide (right now, as best you can) to give yourself approval?
Could you DECIDE to do it for no reason?
Dont do it for anyone else. Do it for yourself. Decide now to approve of yourself.
This constant seeking of happiness OUTSIDE of you is what Buddha was talking about when he said things like,
Attachment to Desire (craving) is the root of all suffering.
Going even deeper, Buddhas Twelve Links of Causation start off with Ignorance.
Ignorance of what? Ignorance that you are a complete, infinite Being already. (Even if you dont feel like one, act
like one or think like one( what separates you from knowing it is FEELINGS and THOUGHTS( relinquish those
and youre done.)
Giving yourself Approval is a NATIVE ability and its only a decision. Everyone can do it.
When you get your own approval back, you can approve of others fully BECAUSE of who they are, not IN SPITE
of who they are.
Then, people will gravitate towards you magnetically because they sense intuitively that you ARE closer to your
innate being and everyone is trying to get BACK to that state.
But, it all starts with YOU.
If you can feel Superior to someone you can feel Inferior to someone. Both are Ego functions, and they cant exist

Remember in my post LR: Juggs how I THOUGHT the girl was being bitchy? And, remember how I made the
decision to quit being so smart and allow it to be other than what I thought it was(
(and it turned out to be very different?
Well, Im going to propose that you think about, consider, ponder, contemplate the idea that MOST of the negative
experiences (and even NO-GO sets) youve had (or imagine having) with women are due to your MISTAKING her
Low Self-Approval statements and behaviors for stuff that is consistent with Your Story.
Its actually pretty comical from my new viewpoint.
You put a bunch of people in the room who dont know how to love themselves( give them a shitload of alcohol,
turn up the music so loud you cant even think (let alone talk) and then you expect them to get together(
( the fact that people DO IT every night across the world is a testament to how compelling and pervasive this
need for Approval is.
Anyway, thats a very SLIGHT and basic groundwork into the newer AA stuff Ive been working on( this has to
be understood before the processes can be taught and have an effect.
What if, instead of asking you to give yourself approval, I had asked you to give yourself some Esteem?
Not quite the same effect is it? Now, imagine developing, describing and constructing exercises to help people
get it while using bad naming all the way through.
The entire Communitys vocabulary and conceptual framework was built haphazardly over years by guys who
didnt get it( by guys who were still trying to figure it out.
Is it any wonder its such a mess?
~ CJ ~

Captain Jack says:

May 25, 2008 at 10:18 pm

Operation Chaos (etc)

Probably not. It would be best to use an entirely new word or phrase and include any lacks or other identifying
characteristics in the definition.
This concept, once explained and understood by the listener, can then be invoked by the new word (or phrase) to
increase communication efficiency.
~ CJ ~

Captain Jack says:

May 26, 2008 at 4:11 pm

Think about all the DHVs in terms of Approval. Heres an easy one: How would being Pre-Selected by Women
affect the females who view it in terms of your approval of The Feminine in general?
Anonymous -cp About giving behavioral examples( The idea is when you stop disapproving of yourself first, then give
YOURSELF approval the Linearity Principle of the Mind takes over and begins approving of others automatically.
This will come through in your behaviors in ways that are 100% congruent for you. Therefore they wont come
across as approval seeking or kissing anyones ass. Master the exercise by constantly stopping the disapproval of
yourself and giving yourself approval every moment. Be diligent. You will begin to feel so high youll wonder if
someone spiked your Gatorade with Morphine.
Brett Does anyone want to read Bretts comment, re-read the post and comment on what is happening with
The Anonymous Right Above This Comment Hey, thanks for reading( Did you do the exercise?
~ CJ ~

Posted at August 9, 2008

So, I did something that is still putting a smile on my face. I gave that girl LMR!
What was her LMR tactic to breakthrough?
She fell back on the power of the Titty Smother. She took her giant tits and tried to suffocate me with them. I
suspect she knew that if she could cut off the supply of oxygen to my brain it would weaken my LMR.
Luckily I recovered and got the make-out and Time Bridge because Im Fucking Captain Jack.
Im hungry so we hit Whataburger. While Im eating I say, Do you want some?
She says, Oh yes.
CJ: Ok, heres some fries.
HBCantTakeIt: I wasnt talking about the food.
She suddenly starts making out again but Ive only chewed the last chicken strip about way. Chicken clumps
end up in her gum.
Im doing my best to destroy that J-Lo booty with a series of handprint grade spanks(
Finally, realizing Im not going to cum, I stand up and start jerking it. Her mouth becomes a suction cup on my
We still have an audience.
Shes very good at this(too good. Im about to go. I angle it upwards and it shoots off landing on her cheek and
in her hair. I still have my head thrown back enjoying the after shocks. Then, I look around to see if we still have
an audience. Check.
She stands up and says, mmmm(.bite my neck
I go to work on her neck like the Vampire Lestat, only to discover the freak has wiped my come from her cheek all
over her neck.
(Tastes kinda like snot.)
We sit on opposite sides of the booth. This is on purpose. I want her to feel comfortable first. Plus, I wanna see
how aggressive this cougar is(I may not even have to lift one of my young, innocent fingers.
And, then later(while Sinn is doing his best John Travolta (on Crack) impression(
Today I was at the bookstore and I get this text:
HBPlainJane: Where are we going to go? I dont think I can meet you at your place. My parents said its
dangerous and they wanna know your last name in case you kill me

CJ: Were going to church and then possibly square dancing(and tell your parents I havent killed anyone since
they let me out(
I climbed in and told her to take me home. I showed her the breathalyzer as proof that I was unable to operate a
motor vehicle in the State of Texas. (Btw, Im having so much fun with this portable breathalyzer. Not only does it

force me to drink less, I use it as an excuse to be a jack-ass. Wow! Im at .15(Im no longer responsible for what
I say or do(gawd, you have spectacular tits!)
Id lose myself for hours running around hurling Shuriken into my Ninja Enemies (the trunks of my Granddads
prized trees) then slicing their heads off with one simple pass of my Bokken.
Every morning Id wake up deciding what new missions I would have to perform or what scenes Id be re-enacting
from Enter The Ninja.
Until I discovered porn.
And, heres how it happened:

Lay Report: Good Girl Face

Posted at August 9, 2008

Ive been SUPER Busy but still out there having lots o fun.
Printer and I went down to Austin last weekend to see about a software project for his Dads Co. but at the last
minute his Dad caught a cold or something so it was postponed and we were on standby throughout the weekend
in case he felt better(
Austin, TX on a weekend( hmmm( what to do(
We go out and I use one of my favorite low investment openers. Never really thought about why it works but Ive
probably used it 30-40 times now in the past year. The only requirement is you can stack forward.
CJ: How do you know my friend, Printer? *** pointing towards the bar where hes ordering me more liverdestroying liquids. ***
This can be said if theyve never even seen the guy( or if he just casually said something as he walked by( or if
hes already in set.
HB: Oh, we dont.
That seems like a dead-end opener, doesnt it?
CJ: Wow! Im surprised( He seems to know everyone!
Can you FEEL the sexual tension?
No, you say?
Neither can I. Were not there yet, dude. But, watch this.
CJ: Hmmm(. You pick interesting fingers to wear your rings on(
And, were off!
But, thats not how this one went down.
Instead of Rings on Fingers it went like this(
CJ: Wow! Im surprised( He seems to know everyone!
HB: Well, were from Dallas.
CJ: Really? So are we! Figures all the cool Dallas people would find each other.
(Anyone want to comment about WHY the above statement is Ninja-esque?)
We do some more fluff talk for about 2-3 minutes. I tease her a little bit and get some kino in(
CJ: You know, youre kinda throwing me a little bit(
HB: What? What do you mean?
The following is one of my FAVORITE pick-up routines( it almost NEVER fails to get the woman attracted
hardcore( it is a bit of sexual framing as well.
CJ: Well, you have a good girl face( but( (dramatic pause)( bad girl mannerisms. *** I stress the BAD GIRL
and look her up and down with lust. ***
She went from mildly curious and attracted to downright Porn Starlet in 1.3 seconds.
HB: How do you know?

Notice shes NOT arguing. In fact, shes asking me how I know its TRUE!
CJ: You had better stop.
I kept eye-fucking her, looking her up and down while having the most innocent conversation. I made it a point to
stare at her lips, back to her eyes and to her tits several times while biting my lower lip.
And then, I said something close to this (cant remember exact wording).
CJ: It must be rough for you. All the guys think youre all innocent and it keeps you from getting what you really,
really want( as I leaned in closer( and then lightly pushed her away.
After I pushed her away there was a good 10-12 inches between us. She closed the gap and pushed her whole
body against me and gave me those Kiss me now, pleeeeeaaaaaase! eyes.
Naturally, I obliged.
From then on we were like Siamese Twins joined at the tongue.
Printer told me the next day when talking about the night at lunch that he stayed away because he was
embarrassed. People were pointing.
I heard people talking and one girl said, Oh-my-god! as she walked by(
Whatever. A good girl needed to get some bad girl lovin(
CJ: Man, this sucks( the bar is closing.
HB: What do you want to do?
CJ: Um, we could go watch a movie at my hotel( Its not far. But I have to be up early for a meeting.
HB: We hardly know each other.
CJ: Im not going to make you do anything you dont want to do( Tongue down again.
She handled the obstacles for me, one girl and one guy, when they tried to pull us apart by the cabs.
Got to the hotel and wrecked it.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. Not even Strawberry Fields! This is an example of Less is More. If I wouldve gone into my routine stack or
done all my Heart Melters and shit she couldve developed different feelings for me and tried to put off the SNL.
You develop a sense of knowing when youre done and all you need to do is chill out. Ive gotten pretty good at
P.P.S. She has a boyfriend.
P.S #3: She texted that she wants to see me this week.

Captain Jack says:

August 11, 2008 at 11:57 am

She mentioned him later in a text, said she hoped I wasnt mad and really wants to see me again. She tried to see
me last week but I was busy.

Student Lay Report: 'Fuck me like you'll never see

me again!"
Posted at August 14, 2008

This is an LR from someone who took my eCoaching class awhile back. We had emailed quite a bit back and
forth even before that and touch base on MySpace every now and then.
Long time no talk(
Probably the last time was back when I took your e-course back in February. I wanted to say thanks for that and
acknowledge it was a great investment.
My lays are up from sporadic to consistent since Feb, and I owe that in no small part to your 6 week ebootcamp. Heres my latest field report from this weekend.

Went to X-Bar on Saturday Aug. 9, and met up with Rhythmman and Clit Tease. Clits shipping over to X-City
soon, so this was a goodbye outing for him. I was having fun experimenting with take-aways and breaking rapport
with different sets. Also was entertaining myself using the hated jealous girlfriend opener for the hell of it. Haha!
At one point, I get separated from the guys, and I strike up conversation with tall Latin girl, lone wolf set. She is
friendly; cant really remember what I said to her to open or what we were talking about. I learn she lives at X
Beach and is a Mexican citizen. Were talking for a bit, and it turns out she was waiting for her friend who was in
the bathroom. When I see the friend, I decide I want her. She is a very cute dark-skinned Latina about 55 with a
sweet smile and really warm demeanor.
So Im working the, now, two-set for a little bit. Im able to DHV by showing a genuine interest in their country and
telling stories about my trip to Mexico. I learn my target is on vacation. Nice! Girls on vacation are always more
adventurous than they are when they are at home. She compliments my eyes. Its on.
So Im talking to both girls, they are having a good time, but I know I cant focus on my girl too much or the other
girl will feel left out and Ill lose the set. Im thinking of suggesting we all hit the dance floor when suddenly, like
some bald-headed angel come down from heaven, Rhythmman shows up, and Ive got a wing.
I introduce RM, and after a bit of the four of us talking, our group breaks up into RM and the obstacle, and me and
the target. Beautiful. I intensify kino by taking her hand in mine. Then we regroup as all four of us and I keep her
hand in mine, hidden from the view of our friends. Our little secret. When the group divides again with RM talking
to obstacle, still holding her hand, I start walking to the bar. She complies and now we are totally isolated.
Kiss close: Look into her eyes deeply. Slight smile. Savor the moment. I love the last few moments before the first
kiss. That small period of time where all the social bullshit of the game meets the primal attraction of the game.
And lies defer to truth. So she says, a little nervous, a little excited, What are you looking at me like that for.
What? Take the back of her neck gently, but confidently. Pull her in.
I spend the rest of the night dancing and making out with my girl, seeding the bounce. Dont get it. She claims
they are getting up early to go water skiing, so she cant stay out late. I dont even get her number! For some
reason she doesnt have a cell phone right now. So I settled for an email. I also had learned by then that she was
going back to Mexico on the upcoming Tuesday.
So yeah. the next morning I realized that it was most likely game over for that, which was cool. I had fun with her
for what it was the night before. But we had talked about trying to get together, so I dropped her a quick email and
forgot about it.
But Ill be damned if my little IM icon doesnt pop up later in the afternoon. Its her. We make plans for the three of
us (me, her and her friend) to go to a movie the next night (Monday 8/11). But after about 45 minutes of IMing all
of a sudden friend doesnt want to go out and its just going to be her and me. The next day, the day of, we do a
little more IMing. I tell her that we should do something where we can talk, especially since shell be gone on
Tuesday. We decide on dinner.
We meet up for dinner, and we are in a booth sitting across from each other. She wants to show me pics in her
phone. Perfect excuse to be on the same side of the booth, so I make my way to her side. So thats how we have
dinner; lots of touch-feely going on while we eat.
Dinners over and its like whats next? I suggest we go to my place and watch a movie. She laughs and is like
right. a movie. She says she wants to do something public. I say cool and suggest we go to a karaoke bar and
she can watch me sing. But Im thinking Ive got the time between paying the check and getting in the car to get
her to change her mind.
We walk to my car holding hands. I spin her around instead of opening the door for her and give her a super hot
make out session. I get hard and put her hand on it whispering in her ear look what you do to me( Its like that
for a few minutes, till she is weak in the knees. Finally we get in the car. I as we are sitting in the car, I say to her,
you know Ive got a guitar at my place. I can sing you a song there( She succumbs, with the obligatory nothing
is going to happen speech. Youve all heard it.
Cool thing was at my place she says with skepticism, so lets see this guitar of yours. I bust it out and sing her a
song. She melts. Make out. Heavy Petting. LMR. I point out that we may never see each other again.
One of the hottest things was when I was fucking her for the second time she whispered in my ear fuck me like
youll never see me again( as I pounded into her her she cried out in Spanish.

When I drove her back to her car at the restaurant later, she told me the first point where she knew she wanted
me. It was when she introduced herself. She has a pretty unusual, traditional Mexican name, so she lets people
off the hook by saying you can call me, M I told her No I will call you [her full name]. She thought that was
really hot.
I feel lucky to have gotten into the community when your teeth were getting cut Capitan!
Regards, doctor_r

Meta Sticking Points

Posted at August 16, 2008

1. Approach Anxiety - the horrible physiological fear reaction at the very THOUGHT of approaching.
Physiological reactions include: rapid heartbeat, lump in throat, sweating hands, fear kinesthetics in solar plexus
and/or throat.
2. Society Blocking Programs After AA is removed you dont experience the physiological reactions. Instead,
at the thought of approaching your excuse generator starts throwing out negative inner dialogue in a rapid
manner. This short-circuits your motivation program causing you to do nothing. (I think Shark has the most
developed ideas on this. EDIT: just read Sinns Flawless Natural Review( Tim may have surpassed Shark on
this subject.) This creates a different kind of physiological pain. The feelings and inner dialog become a selfreinforcing loop that seems nearly impossible to break out of( This is why many PUAs (myself included) use
copious amounts of alcohol.
3. Self-Sabotage - everything seems to be going fine but you consistently throw something out to ruin the set.
Stems from deservedness issues.
4. Sexual Escalation Anxiety - fear of escalating sexually. This could be due to lack of experience. Sometimes it
appears when the seduction is going well and we dont want to do anything to ruin it. In that case its related back
to #3.
Interestingly, most of the people who end up getting really, really good had/have horrible AA. It seems to force
you to improve in the hopes of avoiding the pain. Another odd thing Ive noticed is that the people who never had
AA and can ignore Society Blocking Programs have 3 and 4 fairly bad(

Captain Jack says:

August 18, 2008 at 5:08 pm

godspeed, I think theyre all related to an underlying problem of Low Self-Approval.

The main differences are WHEN they happen in the process and WHAT triggers them.

Shark (Ranko Magami)

Posted at August 16, 2008

Im reading his archives and relistening to his Attract and Date CDs. Love this guy. Cool, smart and funny as hell.
Unfortunately, I lost CDs 4 and 5
Is he still actively posting anywhere?
Here are few funny one-liners from his posts:

To a pua who designed a tactic for taking off a girls panties:

Well, thats a very interesting way to take off a girls panties, however I would prefer to take them off like a MAN!
To a pua who designed openers about gaysD
You are well on your way to becoming a certified gayboy!
I dont talk to ugs( cause they are UGLY!
It is better to approach one time right, than 1000 times like you are about to dismantle a bomb!
From his CD set:
Those fat feminists! They are everywhere, jumping out of my TV set.

Captain Jack says:

August 17, 2008 at 5:08 pm

J.D., do you use his Direct Method? Id be curious to know.

I used it once a LONG time ago. I did 10 You are beautiful( and I want to get to know you approaches and got
10 numbers. Those were all during the day(
I suck at follow-up so I never closed any of them.
Ive been too chicken to use it much at night.

Posted at September 3, 2008

This girl found my Myspace and decided to vent to me, I tried to respond to her but the system said,
You must be y-persons friend to email y-person.
So, it gets put on the blog.
>First and foremost, what you do with your life as a PUA is
>disgusting. Then to make things worse, you sell this
No. Its not disgusting. If you knew the pain that men who dont know how to start a sexual relationship with
women feel, if you understood their loneliness and felt their helplessness you would be applauding me.
And, women are ALSO tired of boring guys who dont have a clue.
I dont advocate lying, and I never lead women on. I dont have to( they LOVE it that I am up-front about my
intentions and we get to decide what form the relationship will (or will not) take as ADULTS and without
puritanical, judgmental society bullshit.
They love it that we can flirt and she can be who she really wants to be without being judged( or lied to(
I am sorry YOU were deceived but that is NOT something I advocate.
> You see, I know about this because you trained
> the love of my life, xxxxx, to do the same thing, and I
> have lost him to this community of sexual predators. You
> know him(xxxxx?! Yes your little buddy XXXXX
> was just once an artist and father. Sure he fabricates an
> amazing life of photography and travel, and rarely seems
> to include that there are three other people in his family
> that are dying inside. I understand that it is not your
> fault that he took it a little too far, but you certainly
> encourage him regularly.
That isnt true. I havent seen him in MONTHS. I think it has been over 6 months since weve really hung out.
When people ask me for help I try to do what I can. Im sorry if he didnt think about you and his children but that
gives you ZERO right to judge me.

> And the funny thing is that PICK UP artists are more
> gossipy than Jr. High School cheerleaders. I get to hear
> from xxxx, that creepy fag Sinn and Fidelio on a regular
> basis that you are a lazy, fat loser, but happen to be
> really good at bedding strippers. Do any of you people
> actually like each other? Perhaps being a professional
> liar bleeds over into friendships too(I dont know(
Again, I dont lie to anyone.
I am 6 feet tall and 217 lbs and I should weigh 200 lbs. So, yes I do have love handles and could certainly stand
to lose those.
As far as being a loser, I guess that is up for debate. BUT(
My daughters love me.
My family loves me.
I become one of the best at anything I put my mind to (have done it in 3 industries now) AND,
According to the U.S. Census Bureau (and the IRS), I make more money being lazy than 97% of the population
makes working hard NOT including the money I make from pick up (which isnt much because I do it mainly for
And, I can have as many girlfriends as I want (and they WONT mind each other)(
(or I can decide to have zero, as I do now, and be totally o.k. with it.
> Let me offer an applause for the stripper thing, you are
> good at fucking over drug addicts with daddy issues that
> just want to be loved(no easy feat I am sure.
I am NO GOOD at picking up strippers. I dont like them that much so maybe youre getting your gossip mixed up.
>Let me close by saying that women are people. Not notches,
>and you should be ashamed, or at the very least concerned
>with the response karma just may offer.
I dont deceive. I dont lead on. I let women know I am sexually attracted and its primarily a male-female attraction
And, you know what?
They love it that a man is so secure in his sexuality that he is comfortable with it and is not becoming some clingy
wuss after a few hours of talking to them.
Its obvious you know very little about me or about my philosophy or what I do. The women Ive had sex with in
the past come up and say Hi and give me a hug when I see them out.
>You know a few years down the road when one of your minions
>is balls-deep in one of your daughters, after her first
>night on the town with a fake ID. It hurts when it hits
>home(and the little ones grow up so fast. Too bad you
>are a shitty dad like xxxx, you two have lost focus on
>what is really important.
You are projecting big time. I have a great relationship with my ex-wife and my daughters. I know that my
daughters will have sex one day and no matter HOW, WHEN or WHO Im probably not going to like it.
Overall, Im afraid that youve mistaken me for someone who gives a shit about what other people think( I have
COMPLETELY given that up. I can honestly say I really do NOT care. My main concern is: Am I honestly
improving myself in the best way **I** know how?
A Line in the Sand Rule # 11: Spectators DONT Count!

Captain Jack says:

September 5, 2008 at 4:11 pm

The other industry is Software Development. I became extremely good at saving failing projects and was
published about my methods for introducing it smoothly into organizations.
~ CJ ~

A Dirty Little Secret and Mental Modeling

Posted at September 4, 2008

Hola PUAs,
After listening to that Bandler audio clip I started to take more notice of what Im cueing off of in field and what my
internal dialogue is when considering an approach.
The results were surprising (for me) because if I had sat down and thought about it outside of the
environment/situation I wouldve gotten it wrong.
So, if youre game, Id like to do a little experiment. Post what you think you say inside your head before
approaching in a comment here( and then pay attention to the things you actually say when you go out tonight
(or this weekend) and see if theres a difference. Then, come back and post another comment about what you
P.S. The Dirty Little Secret will be in Part 2 of this post.

Captain Jack says:

September 5, 2008 at 4:15 pm

@a girl who cares:

About Intuition. The answer is No. Guys get into this BECAUSE when they just walk over and start talking it
doesnt go well.
Often, it goes POORLY.
Intuition is the result of accumulated experiences, both positive AND negative.
But, what if MOST of your experiences havent worked? Then, your intuition is wrong and ineffective.

A Tour of the New Blog

Posted at September 24, 2008

Welcome to the new blog!
Ive spent a few hours in my spare time over the last few weeks getting this all set up. Im going to point out a few
things I want you to notice. As always, my goal is to create a resource you guys can easily and quickly learn
from( I also want it to be something that you go to for inspiration, motivation and information on making
improvements to your game.
The main reason I switched to WordPress is because it has the ability to add plug-ins to make information easier
to find on the blog.
The search feature is MUCH better.
Also, youll notice at the bottom of each post a Share This graphic. This allows you to send my posts to social
networking sites, post it to your own blog and/or to email it to another PUA you think could benefit from it.

Right below that, youll notice a See Related Posts section. I have over 200 posts now so theres a LOT of
information that you probably havent seen unless youve followed me from the beginning. This little feature will
show you whats related so you can read other posts if its a subject you want to read more about.
One thing that Ive wanted to do for awhile is make comments more like forums. Ive searched long and hard for a
plug-in that would allow integration to a forum but havent found one yet. Then, we could have more indepth forum
conversations based on the blog post. But, I HAVE found a nifty second-best option. Now, you can subscribe to
comments. So, if you comment and want to know if someone else has commented, too, youll get an email. Then,
you can read and decide if you want to respond.
EDIT: Thanks to Hammer for his suggestion of Disqus as a more forum like commenting plug-in. I haven it
installed and it seems to be working. Disqus allows threaded discussions, ratings and even video responses so it
looks to be a great addition.
On the right hand side in red youll notice a Most Popular Posts section. The plug-in bases the most popular
posts on a few things: how many times its been read, how many comments, how many people have linked to it
and a few other things.
And, if youre a Blog owner yourself, if you comment on one of my posts it will AUTOMATICALLY read your blog
and create a link to YOUR latest blog post and append it to the end of your comment. Fucking cool! Its a plug-in
called CommentLuv
So, thats it so far( I have Twitter integration and a few other things in store as well when I get time.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. More Game related posts coming soon!

Make Her Feel It.

Posted at September 26, 2008

Ive been saying for awhile All you gotta do is make her feel it.
Its part mantra for me as I am using repetition to install a better thought-feeling link at the very end of the
automatic Strategy chain that fires off when I see a hot girl or a hard situation I want to go into(
I also say it to PUAs Im talking to for the same reason.
One of the blogs I read is A Bad Man In A Bad Place. The writer, in addition to being a PUA, is also interested in
BDSM and such. (His tumblr is AWESOME! and he inspired me to create one myself -> see my tumblr feed on
the right hand side)
He posted an interesting question (see Poor Submissives Need Not Apply?) to his readers most of which are not
PUAs but into exploring all the interesting sexual possibilities out there.
While I dont know much about the sexual situation he is discussing I DO know a lot about applied persuasion, so
I felt compelled to respond.
Read the post Poor Submissives Need Not Apply (only a few paragraphs long) and Ill elaborate below.
Here was my comment:

Giving thought to a persons financial situation shows that they are logically engaged
and not emotionally engaged.
If Axe can improve his ability to affect her emotions, to really make her FEEL all the
emotions necessary for her to move forward with this type of relationship then financial
status will no longer matter.
In fact, when you get good enough at it, the attribute or status that she wouldnt
LOGICALLY choose becomes PROOF of her true feelings for you!
I must really, really like him because I feel this way even though hes not X.
~ CJ ~
Let me elaborate even a little further.
If you watched the 5:00 minute video in my last post, Words Matter, you noticed a huge difference in the
EMOTIONAL impact of the two different sentences written on the sign. One phrase garnered very little for the
blind man, the second phrase, even though it logically MEANT the same thing, packed so much more power.

Theres a saying in copywriting that people buy with emotions and then justify with logic.
We could just as easily say, People fuck because of emotions and then justify with logic.
The simplest PU system could be described in these 3 steps:

Heighten sexual emotions


Remove mental-societal barriers


Structure closing opportunity

So, the question is HOW? How do you make her feel it?
Heres the kicker: Shes probably already feeling it, or just felt it, or about to feel it again real soon.
Let me ask you a question: Is the only time you get horny right after you see a hot woman? No. Feelings and
images and thoughts are popping into your head constantly. You could be locked in a room with nothing but
Calculus textbooks and Ill guarantee your mind will drift to sex and youll get horny.
(Of course, seeing a hot woman will trigger it as well. But, if youre a normal healthy male you get horny several
times a day (an hour, if your PUA name is Printer).)
I could make the case that all you have to do is ATTACH it to you when it comes again. Strawberry Fields and
Rings on Fingers do exactly that.
Almost all women are sexually frustrated. They dont get it enough. They dont get it with who they want. They
often dont get it the way they want it. Society makes them hold back.
This is pent-up demand. When you release that pent-up demand it gets attached to you.
If they are already feeling it or about to feel it and all you have to do is attach it to you, remove the barriers and
structure the opportunity, where did Axe go wrong?
Axe (probably) went for step 3 BEFORE she felt it. Since she wasnt feeling it she used the income excuse as
the logical reason for her emotional decision.
Captain Jack

Text Message: I'm starting to forget what you look

Posted at September 26, 2008

I havent talked a lot about text messaging in the last year or so mainly because Ive been so focused on SNLs
(Same Night Lays) that I dont bother doing all the texting/calling necessary to get dates(
And, lately Ive been helping a friend with Gaming and doing a lot of internal stuff so I havent been actively
gaming at all but somehow ended up with 5 numbers in the last 10-12 days and I actually want to have close
them so Ive been actively texting them.
One of the text messages Ive used for quite some time that has proven effective for getting a meetup is this:
PUA: We should hang out soon, Im starting to forget what you look like.
It has worked very well for me in the past.
Why do you think it works?
And, if you have some numbers in your phone give it a shot and post a comment about the responses.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. The Refer-A-PUA contest is heating up! The Leader currently has 8 referrals( Go to Refer-A-PUA to get in
the game!

CaptainJack says:
September 26, 2008 at 11:55 pm

I usually delete stale old numbers as soon as they haven't responded to me 2 or 3 times( OR, I haven't texted
them in 2-3 weeks.

But, the good thing is if you DO text them and they start responding again it's like gravy. I'd then move them to
MySpace (if you have it, I've de-activated mine.) as it will give them a chance to see you and remember you.

September 28, 2008 at 9:37 am

I just used this yesterday, and got a meetup.

Anyway i think it works because by saying that you forgot what she looks like, you are taking away one of her
main ways of feeling validated (her looks). on the flip side you are also qualifying her at the same time, Because
you want to meet up with her irrespective of her looks.
In a nutshell their is a pull/push dynamic going on where the woman feels the need to revalidate her looks (ie the
sexual side of her) by meeting up with you. Makes for a great message
Thanks CJ!

CaptainJack says:
September 28, 2008 at 9:51 am

Used it and got a meetup, great!

I agree with your assessment of why it works, too.

Public Service says:

September 29, 2008 at 8:50 am

Holy Shit. I'm not one of the 'ass-kisser' types( but, here is what just happened.
PS: We should hang out soon, I've almost forgotten what you look like.
Her: Haha awe( I agree! I want to see Igor ..how lame.. haha but maybe if there's a movie you haven't seen yet
we can do that and then grab a bite..??
Wow( Too bad I have this name saved twice in my phone and I can't figure out which one it is!! (both would be
great to see again, lol.)
CaptainJack says:
September 29, 2008 at 11:39 am

Awesome dude!
You're in a great position with this since either one is one you'd like to see(
That movie Igor sucked big time.
~ CJ ~

CaptainJack says:
October 4, 2008 at 12:50 pm

Well, I'm thinking that you got into the friend-zone during the initial interaction. Her second text in that sequence
she was already talking about a FRIEND flame. so she's trying to make it clear(. Not a shit test. You didn't
make her feel it during the initial interaction.

This CAN be turned around BUT it's much, much easier to go out and get new girls in the pipeline. You could
always just keeep teasing/sexual framing and then take her out as a pivot.
If you keep dating her she will most likely go for an LTR if she starts to get attached to you.

Refer-a-PUA Contest!
Posted at October 1, 2008

Sometime early in November I will give away $9,499.00 worth of products and services to 15 PUAs,
Heres how you can be one of them(
As you can see, Ive posted a Refer-A-Friend Form at the end of this post.
Why have I done this? Ive done it for 3 very important reasons:
1. I LOVE helping you guys. The recent Text Message post where guys actually PUT my text message to work
and started getting meetups from numbers they THOUGHT were blurred makes me happy to no end. And, when
someone emails me or comments on the blog to tell me they used my ideas to help them meet and close a hot
girl I LITERALLY feel like the good guys are winning.
2. Were all in this together. Its highly likely you found the community because someone you knew (or someone
on the internet) told you about it. What if you hadnt discovered the community? Lets keep the positive trend of
SHARING alive(
3. And, Im trying to put together the best FREE Pick-up blog on the internet. (Some already say its not only
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words like Pure Hilarity! and Ultimate Comical Genius!( I dont know if Id go that far but it CAN be funny
I want you to help me get the word out to other PUAs who might find this blog useful and I want to reward you for
your work so Ive decided to do this in the form of a referral contest.
Ive subscribed to this special software service that tracks WHO you refer and if they actually visit and/or
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The entire contest runs from Oct. 1 to Midnight, October 31st and will give away $9,499 worth of products
and services,
But, what could you win?
Ill reward the top 15 referrers (this number may go up, depending on results, but will NOT go down).
Places 10-15 will get my eCoaching bootcamp. Its no longer for sale and hasnt been for quite a while now. It sold
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The Grand Prize will be A Weekend with Captain Jack. (value $3,000). (NOTE: This CAN be sold or transferred
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NONE of this is currently for sale and probably wont be anytime in the foreseeable future.
But, not only that, if YOU refer the person who ultimately wins youll win the same prize as they do! (This is so you
can feel free to refer even the guy who seems to know everybody! without jeopardizing your chances of
Ill be giving regular Refer-a-PUA Contest updates on the blog(
Plus, EVERYBODY who refers will be invited to a special Referrers Only conference call with me to be held
sometime in Nov. or Dec.
If you have any questions please post them in the comments for all to see and Ill answer them as quickly as I

Women and Their Fantasies

Posted at October 2, 2008

Theres a GREAT conversation going on over at Bad Man, Bad Place that is worth reading. It has to do with the
Female Sex Drive. The cool thing is Bad Man has a LOT of female readers and their comments are extremely
Go have a look, there are 19 comments (including one from Yours Truly). Read it and comment to throw your 2
cents in!
Women and Their Fantasies
Captain Jack
P.S. The Refer-A-PUA contest is heating up! The Leader currently has 8 referrals( Go to Refer-A-PUA to get in
the game!

6 Steps to Ninja Calibration

Posted at October 2, 2008

Back in May, 2008 I ran a Blog Improvement Survey to which 121 PUAs responded. At the very end of the
survey I asked a simple question:

Whats your single most important question regarding success with

Ill be going through and answering most of those questions in the next few months.

Question: A 31 year old, Network Developer from Maryland asked:

Whats the easiest way to calibrate and recognize when that calibration needs tweaking?

Ok, calibration is a useful skill because it allows you to baby-step. In every Pick-up you are trying to increase her
Response Potential whie simultaneously avoiding Snap Back. If you pump her state too high she will hit a
threshold where she tries to downregulate her BT. (Sounds like were working on a jet engine or something.)
Calibration will allow you to notice when these things are happening thereby adding it into your unconscious so in
the future you can do the right thing without thinking about it.
Calibration can also help you know when you are DONE and you dont need to actively Game anymore. You can
just chill with her and wait for the right time to pull.
But, the question you really need to ask is: What am I really in this for? If you just want a girlfriend or a little
more active dating life then Id forego Calibration drills because the dividends come after months and months of
working at it.
If you want to become REAL good at pick-up then here are 6 Ways to Ninja Calibration:
1. You need a Game Plan. You cant calibrate what youre not measuring. A Game Plan (or Routine Stack) will
provide more consistency to your Game so you can start noticing patterns. Calibration is DERIVED from noticing
patterns and then noticing what happens LEADING up to that pattern.
Having a Game Plan also makes writing FR/LRs much easier. People think I have an amazing memory because I
can write such detailed FR/LRs( The reason I can is because I run the same basic Stack over and over, so
when I sit down to write all I have to do is ask myself What did I open with? What did she say? What did
I run next? so what Im really remembering is what SHE said. The points in my stack act as RECALL triggers
for my memory. (Another tactic is I usually write the FR/LR or at least some notes about it as soon as I get home
when it is fresh on my mind.)

2. Use Sticking Point Analysis. If someone put a gun to my head and told me I could only write one last post to
help guys with women Id probably just create a link to Sticking Point Analysis.
3. Debrief the women you have success with. I usually only debrief girls Ive just had sex with because female
orgasms seem to be a truth serum of sorts (has something to do with Oxytocin). Standard debrief questions are:
When did you first notice me?
What did you think when I first came up?
When did you first realize you wanted to kiss me?
When did you decide you wanted to have sex with me?
Then I try to get them on the subject of guys hitting on them in general to see what their main complaints are(
4. Make an assumption, then verify. I used to do all sorts of fun things. Id look at a male-female set and think,
hmm( wanna open but theyre probably together. I caught myself and Id say, You dont know that man, go in
and see( Id roll in and chat and then ask, How do you guys know each other? to verify your assumption. I
found out a LOT of the time that the dude was an Orbiter.
Another thing Id do when I used to use Mystery Method was guess who would try to pull the Target away. It got
to the point where I could not only guess but I could see it about a minute before hand.
A friend of mine got to see this uncanny ability of mine a few weekends ago on his way to pulling another SNL. I
texted him that her friends were about to try to pull her away( not even a minute later they came over and made
the pull away attempt. (Which failed because he had moved her, thus locking her in even tighter. See: Sinns 2
Bounce Rule.)
5. Could I let go of being so smart and allow it to be other than what I think it is? This question kicks ass.
Remember, we are all trying to develop NEW ideas, beliefs, behaviors( even a new World View. Realize that
your first assessment of the situation is GROUNDED in old data and interpretations that HAVE NOT served you!
So, be willing to let them go and allow it to be something else.
Another similar tactic is to generate all of the possibilities and pick the most positive one.
6. Debrief other PUAs. When I help my friends out in Gaming the first question I ask when they come back from
a set is What happened? I do this because I want to see if what I SAW from the outside MATCHES what they
think happened. When I used to help Sinn with bootcamps Id have aspiring PUAs leave a perfectly good set. Id
say, What happened? and theyd say, She was being bitchy, she said shes not really into skydiving so it fucked
up my skydiving dhv story. Bitch. Many a time I wanted to take them by their lapels and say, DUDE! She doesnt
like skydiving! It was ON! Go back into that set now!
Once you begin to see the mismatch between what they say is going on and the body language and dynamics of
the set youll realize that you, too, are probably NOT seeing a lot of the positive things going on.
And, as always, if you have any other questions about this feel free to post them in the Comments section!
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. Take part in the Refer-A-PUA Contest so other PUAs can benefit from the content in this blog.

CaptainJack says:
October 3, 2008 at 8:36 am

It varies according to what I'm working on AND I don't have one in the same way a beginner/intermediate would
because I have a lot of material in my head and I try to use the bare minimum at each point to take the interaction
to the next level.

How to Release Her Inner Sex Fiend

Posted at October 4, 2008

A 44-year old from San Jose, CA asks(


How do you release her inner Sex Fiend?


All of sexual framing is designed to get her to be cool with a short-time frame until the first sexual

encounter. So, what Im assuming is that you are asking, How do you get them to be freaky in bed. The good
news is if youve used sexual framing you are 90% of the way there.
First, youve demonstrated that she has an abnormally high sex drive.
Second, youve told her that she doesnt REALLY care about societys rules and regulations regarding sex and
sexual relationships.
Third, youve told her youre not judgmental.
Fourth, youve told her that youre good at keeping secrets.
Fifth, youve told her that she becomes aggressive when she finds someone shes really attracted to.
What that has done is created a framework where short time frame sex is acceptable and O.K.
So, youre most of the way there(
The next part reminds me of a scene in The Office where Andy Bernard is trying to get Pam to hook him up with
Angela. When Pam cant think of anything he says, Well, maybe you should try looking in the smart part of your
Now, if you want her to get really crazy you need to create another framework where slutiness is OK *AND* it is
valued. Youve got to get her accessing the slut part of her brain and relating it to you.
You can start with the Question Game and make it sexual (if someone wants to post a link to the Question Game
in the comments Ill update the post with it)(
I try one or two sexual questions to see if she reciprocates, if she does Ill keep going. If not, Ill match her type of
questions and end about 4-6 questions in with Mysterys Kiss Close as my last question.
A slut type question would be: Whats something you love to do in bed but are usually too scared to do it or
request it?
Or, you could say something like this, You should probably leave now( You are so elegant and sexy but I
KNOW behind closed doors youre probably really crazy( Im thinking handcuffs and whips.
Or, I bet it can be frustrating for you sometimes. I bet a lot of guys mistake you for a good girl( not realizing that
you just want to be treated respectfully in public, but, they dont realize you dont want that behind closed doors(
you want to be a bad, bad girl. And, of course, everybody is bad in her own special way(
Those are all types of comments I make a lot when talking to a girl. I havent tried it but Ive heard about PUAs
talking about fetish clubs in set to see if she takes the conversational thread.
In the bedroom(
Once you have her in the bedroom you can say something like, I want to make you cum hard, but you gotta let
me know what you like( nows not the time to be shy.
I LOVE it when a girl squirts. Ive posted quite a few times about how when I started ASKING girls if they could
squirt when they come it seemed like almost ALL of them could. Before I started asking them it was almost like it
only happened when the girl lost control.
The girls want to do a good job for you in bed. That is why El Topos Kung Fu Penis is so awesome. She wants to
do a good job BUT shes not! So, she has to try harder. That means she has to be sluttier.
If you have a question, or you have a tactic youd like to contribute, post it in the comments.
~ Captain Jack ~

CaptainJack says:
October 5, 2008 at 9:42 pm

What I'm saying is that if you're pumping her buying temperature you better go for the sale, because if you don't
some other guy will do it.
That's actually a great tactic to use when you are at a venue where the guys approach a lot. Most guys will get
blown out or THINK they were blown out but getting hit on STILL pumps her state either way(
This increases her Response Potential. So, when you approach her you actually do better than you normally

You can also notice when a girl's state is pumped while the guy is still in there and enter the set and steal it from
the guy.
~ CJ ~

6 Things Ill Be Doing Instead of Watching VH1s

Pick-up Artist
Posted at October 13, 2008

My buddy Sinn is keeping a journal of his musings on VH1s Season 2 of The Pick-up Artist. This made me realize
Sinn has a stomach of pure steel.
I cant stomach that show. In fact, I only made it through 4 episodes of the first season before I vomited. So, here
are 6 Things Ill Be Doing Instead of Watching VH1s Pick-up Artist.
1. Getting LMR from girls. Im pretty rusty right now so Ive been getting a LOT of LMR. Sucks. But, its still
better than watching The Pick-up Artist on VH1. That show makes my skin crawl.
2. Watching episodes of Its Always Sunny in Philadelphia. on hulu.com. Sinn told me about this show last
week. Super funny. My favorite episodes are Season 1, Ep. 2: Charlie Wants an Abortion. The scenes with
Dennis and the pro-life religious girl are hilarious. You really shouldnt make jokes about the Apacolypse.
Another fave( Mac Bangs Dennis Mom.
3. Shredding my ball sac with a cheese grater. (Not really, but Id rather do that than watch the show.)
4. Perfecting my drawing skills. I bought Drawing on the Right Side of Your Brain by Betty Edwards about a
year ago. Holy shit it works. I used to be the worlds worst drawer but now Im amazed at what I can do. Shows
you just how much you can accomplish with a superior strategy.
5. Doubling my Hindu Push-ups stats. Im not going to tell you how many I can do (embarrased) BUT I think I
can double it in the next 7 days. Im starting to see seperation between my upper/lower chest muscles and
between chest and shoulder.
6. Anything Else.
~ Captain Jack ~

Lay Report: The Power of Drunk-n-Lonely Texting

Posted at October 20, 2008

For those of you unfamiliar with Captain Jacks Drunk and Lonely Theory of Texting heres an excerpt fromLR:

Its closing time so Sinn and I roll out. I send my standard text to HBs who Ive
timebridged. Hi sexy lady, where you at?
This is my Drunk and Lonely Theory. Heres the theory:
Point 1. Women go out to get laid.
Point 2. 99.9% of guys game sucks.
Point 3. A female CANNOT have sex with a guy she is not attracted to. Due to Point 2
she is sexually frustrated.
Point 4. At 2:30 am the girl is at home, sexually frustrated, drunk and lonely.
This is the best time to send a text.
So one of my friends is in town from London and weve just finished a night of Gaming. Were at the local Steak-nShake and Im going over a few technical points with him( His body language is perfect. He spins the girl. He
locks in. He can stay in set pretty much as long as he wants to. Hes already got pretty good game but I notice a
few things that will help him skyrocket in the next few months and Im giving him the breakdown.

After that I begin my usual thread about how females are sexual beings. That they want sex and they are
extremely frustrated. Then, I tell him about Drunk-n-Lonely Texting(
He ran a pretty good two-set and he TimeBridged her. Her friend was really hot, too, but I dont wing so hes
forced to handle them all by their lonesome.
I have him text her and this is how it went down (I had him email me the text message exchange):

IrishPUA : Hey Sexy (notice the complexity of this text message I had him send!!! haaa)
Hotel Girl : Hey!!
IrishPUA: Where you at?
Hotel Girl : Plano
IrishPUA :
Hotel Girl : Why the sad Face?
IrishPUA : Im not really tired, we should hang out
Hotel Girl : Im in Plano @ a hotel
IrishPUA : Come see me
Hotel Girl : Come see me!!
IrishPUA : What hotel?
Hotel Girl : X inn I-XX and X-Street
IrishPUA : Ok sexy what room number?
Hotel Girl : 214 you coming
IrishPUA : My friend is dropping me off, be there in 20
Hotel Girl : K
Hotel Girl : Where you at?
Now, this is NOT a rare occurence. I do this quite often. Remember, they went out for SOMETHING and they
didnt get it! But, out of the blue, comes a man( A man with balls( A man who LIKES them and wants to make
them feel good!
By going to bang her you are making the world a better place! She will feel less frustrated, more feminine and
satisfied. This means shell be nicer to everyone around her the next day. All of those people will be happier that a
girl was nicer to them than usual( Puppies and babies will be happy.
Its a giant ripple effect!
Back to our story( She calls as we are nearing the exit. He tells me it sounded like someone else was in there.
I have to make a decision. Do I have him go it alone for experiences sake? Or, do I roll in so I can occupy the
friend to give him more chances to escalate.
We debate a bit and then I decide to throw it back to the girls. I have him text her something like, Do you want my
friend to come in too?
She says, Sure.
We go in. The obstacle is hotter than I remember. This is a good thing. She has nice blue eyes, is skinny with big
tits and that long wavy type hair I dig.
My friend immediately lays down on his Targets bed. I sit towards the edge of the obstacles bed and we begin
To make a long story short I elicit her values, run the cosmo pattern and two other standard pieces. I do a few
kino tests and she is responsive.
At one point she says shes going to sleep and turns and lays on her pillow facing me. I touch her hand and she
looks at me with a submissive look (dont know how else to describe it). I grab her hand and she interlocks her
fingers with mine. I whisper, Come closer. she inches forward a bit on her pillow and I kiss her.
From there I did a lot of whispering in between kissing, saying things like:
This will be our secret.
Dont worry they have no idea whats happening over here.
Theyre making out, too. So, this is ok.
She kept saying stuff like, We have to be good. I have a date tomorrow night.
Id respond, Since nobody else knows about this, it technically never happend.

I put my hand down the back of her sweats and wrap all the way around her tiny ass and touch her pussy. Super
wet. I begin fingering it and shes breathing heavy.
After a minute of that I put her hand on my cock and say, Look what youve done to me. She starts rubbing it
and slowly moving her hips.
She turns around puts her ass on it. I pull down her sweats slowly. She wiggles her hips and I push it in.
At one point I was slowly fucking her from behind and she was trying to pretend like nothing was happening and
still trying to talk to her friend in the other bed. Haa.
She said, We shouldnt be doing this, but Im going to cum( and that made me get close to coming and then I
realized I didnt have a condom on!!!
I put one on and re-entered.
But, with the other girl interrupting I never really got to tear it up. Oh well, another time.
My friend got LMR. In hindsight I realized that she wanted to know if WE were fucking because if we were then
she wouldve given in. I believe this because several times my friends Target tried to use code phrases and shit
to ask her friend if we were or had fucked but my girl missed them and so did I.
Then again on Sat. night I used Drunk-n-Lonely texting to pull a tall, hot, innocent looking girl. I was pooped from
thurs and friday but got bored sat. night around midnight so I headed to a local venue.
I opened my second set (first set was a no-go) at 1:40a.m. and talked with her till closing. I opened her by saying,
CJ: Hi, I noticed you from over there and I wanted to come meet you but you had all these guys all over you.
TallHottie: I know. Its not usually like that.
I felt like I wanted to tell her why but refrained because it wouldnt have led anywhere. But, Ill tell you guys. She
was with one of her friends who was all over a guy shes been seeing for about a month. With her friend so
occupied she looked bored so she might as well have been a single AND she was at the end of the bar giving
guys the perfect opportunity to open her from her right side without having to engage the guy-girl seated on her
From there I made some small talk and then stacked strawberry fields with rings-on-fingers. She got
EXTREMELY curious/intrigued when I talked about the Non-Judgmental finger. But, when I interlaced the
sexually aggressive finger with the amount of strawberries she ate she said,
TallHottie: Well, Im a good girl. I go to church.
I ignored that statement. Tell her shes cool AND extremely sexy and Hookah TimeBridge.
Cosmo pattern and the lights come on. But, she is entranced and stands there for a second just staring at me.
Her friend nudges her and they all smile and walk off.
Good thing I got her number(
Text message, 2:05 am.
CJ: Hey sexy, its semi-handsome CJ. Where u at?
TallHottie: In my car, where r u?
CJ: In my car too. Come see me.
TallHottie: Where?
CJ: Best Buy parking lot.
About that time I get a text message from the girl I closed thursday night: Come see me!!! Damnit. I want to
bang her again because shes fucking hot and I feel like I have unfinished business since I didnt get to let loose
on her big tittied skinny ass.
But, in the battle between Already Banged Vagina and New Vagina, New Vagina always wins.
The Tallhottie rolls up next to me and smiles. I get out of the PirateMobile and hop in her car. I say, Gosh, I wish I
wouldve met you earlier.
We small talk for another 5 minutes and then I say, I dont think Im going to sleep for a few hours. Im not tired at
all. Do you like Wedding Crashers or Old School?
TallHottie: Yes, I like both of them but I have only seen parts of Old School.
CJ: Cool, lets go watch them at my place.
She says Ok and just like that were off.

Unfortunately, she gives me LMR so no close BUT hopefully this gives you an idea of Drunk-n-Lonely and
prompts you to begin trying it. Get the TimeBridge in every set possible and around 15-20 minutes after closing
simply text, Hey sexy and see what happens.
After several years of doing this Im STILL amazed its this easy. Try it, youll like it.
Captain Jack

CaptainJack says:
October 21, 2008 at 1:41 am

mmapua, you'll get the best results with TimeBridging by setting an exact date/time. You are really making a date
right then and there. This forces her to imagine you and her outside of the current bar/club frame and plants you
more in her day-to-day reality. This is what lessens LMR and ASD.
If you don't set an exact date/time then you will have a lot less success in meet-ups because you are back to
chasing her.
~ CJ ~

CaptainJack says:
October 21, 2008 at 1:42 am

After qualification and after you guys are basically having a normal 50/50 type conversation. If you search the
blog for Hookah TimeBrdige you should be able to find the right phrasing.

CaptainJack says:
October 28, 2008 at 2:51 pm

How sexual are you going in set? Seems to me like you are getting caught in the friend-zone quite a bit(

JUST Be Yourself
Posted at November 12, 2008

Bet youve never heard that one, have you? Haaa(.

Womens magazines and mainstream, clorox-bleached dating gurus often say it( Hell, Ive even heard girls say
it after debriefing them.
Are they all wrong?
Well, yes (mainly because they disagree with me)(
You see, from the Females viewpoint, when she HAS been picked up thats exactly how it appeared to her.
Let me give you the run down of how these things happen in real life:
Some dude was just being himself and chatting her and as he was she thought to herself, Im horny, hes not
weirding me out( I should start sending him signals.
So, she twirls her hair. Thrusts her chest (or ass) out. Plays with her hair. Touches his arm. Laughs at all of his
jokes. Leans into him(
Of course, he completely misses all of her signals and concentrates on saying something funny or cool.
At some point, usually after shes given up all hope of getting laid that night, he thinks. Damn, this chick has been
talking to me for nearly an hour. I wonder if she likes me? Probably not, but I should try to get her email or
something anyway.

He gets her email or phone number. Then chases her for a few weeks trying to take her to dinner or a movie. She
hasnt been laid in weeks (or months) and she is super horny and the batteries have run out on her vibrator, so
finally, she decides the offer of a movie and dinner for free is the perfect way to try to get laid without scaring the
guy off or being considered a slut.
She responds to his 5th voice mail.
Eventually, they kiss.
A few weeks later they have sex.
See that? To her, he was just being himself. And, she eventually had sex with him. The massive amount of TIME
he spent resulted in her having feelings of familiarity with him. The sex hormones combined to create a feeling of
Her experience based conclusion? He was just being himself, he got laid.
Now, what about the One-Night Stand or quicker lays?
Usually the same thing just compressed a bit.
Now, lets take another facet of this(
When have girls been hurt and pissed off by guys? When the guys MISLED or LIED to them. So, when guys were
just being themselves the girls got sex and/or a boyfriend( when they werent they got USED or found out they
had been lied to!
Whats the lesson here?
The lesson is simple: Do the LEAST amount of work necessary to get laid AND be upfront about your intentions.
This doesnt (necessarily) mean you announce your intentions but if she is getting the wrong idea or trying to set a
frame that you have no intention of maintaining nip that shit in the bud.
You want to be smooth?
The SOONER you start stripping shit out of your game the better. If you feel like you are working your ass off in
set, it probably shows and then you are not matching her mental template of a guy just being himself. This
scares her BECAUSE it is associated with past pain and rejection.
After a few months of steady progress using the same basic game plan, strip shit out. See how LITTLE you can
do to get the same results.
For Example: Dump your standard openers for awhile. Go out for a few nights and say Hi and make small talk
for a minute or two before introing your first major Piece.
Another exercise: See if you can small talk your way all the way to a TimeBridge.
Experiments like this lead to pure smoothness.
~ Captain Jack ~

CaptainJack says:
November 25, 2008 at 6:53 pm

The one impression I DON'T want people to get is I'm jumping on the You don't need Techniques, just be
yourself bandwagon that (almost) gained a lot of traction a year or two ago.
My take on it is a little different.
You START with a linear Game Plan because it shows you very quickly REAL WORLD proof of where you are
fucking up.
Then, you keep refining your Game Plan based on the feedback, progressively improving.
Without this feedback you won't improve.
The be yourself guys don't have students with proven track records.

Getting Really Good, Really Fast A New Blueprint

to Lays!
Posted at November 20, 2008

I believe EVERY word of these first few parapraphs

If you want to get really good, really fast then lay reports are by far the most important thing you
should be studying.

Lay reports cannot be matched when it comes to learning how to get good with
women. With lay reports you get to see the actual dialogue and the actual context of
how the guy got the girl. These are things you cannot learn from reading another 200
pages of pick-up theory.
Reading others Lay Reports, dissecting them and trying to get an overall sense of what REALLY happened is
something Ive been doing for several years now. I even go back and read MY OWN from time to time, partly for
motivation, partly for inspiration but mainly because when doing so I notice patterns.
Success Patterns I can distill and use over and over again.
But, what if you dont have my eyes for noticing these kinds of things? Well, Sinn has just released his Lay
Report Book and it is killer.
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Captain Jack

Teleseminar: How to Avoid Losing Lays by

Pressure Stacking Waypoints
Posted at November 22, 2008

Hola PUAs,
On December 3rd, Im going to do something very, very rare (for me). Im going to actually get on the phone
VOLUNTARILY and give a Teleseminar. Youre invited and you wont have to pay for it provided you meet one
simple criteria.
Heres a little preamble to the call( This Pressure Stacking principle sounds kinda complicated at first but in
reality its pretty simple. But, once you take conscious control of it youll find your game skyrocketing. In fact, you
are LOSING lays because you arent employing this OR you are inadvertently killing it.
One of the journals I read blends psychology research with selling and I read a great article there the other day
about Loss Avoidance. Ive known about it and used it in PU for quite some time now( Heres the gist of it:
(By the way, I invest a LOT in learning about marketing and advertising. I believe that anyone who isnt willing to
INVEST in their own education via books, seminars, audio and TIME just isnt going to make it past medicrity.)
You know what baffles many a scientist about us Homo sapiens (that means humans)?
Its that most of us would do more to avoid a LOSS than to get a GAIN. (Some think loss avoidance has TWICE
the psychological power as potential gains do.)
Now think about it for a minute(
Most people are TWICE as likely to spring into action to avoid a loss than to gain something. You may have heard
me describe a lot of pick-up dynamics in terms of Response Potential and Snapback in some of my previous
posts. (Stated in simple terms, All of pick-up is increasing Sexual Response Potential while avoiding triggering
Snapback reactions.)

In those terms, Loss Avoidance has TWICE the Response Potential as Gains. The interesting thing about Loss
Avoidance is that it doesnt create Snapback.
Because the fear of the loss is an internal feeling that comes from the INSIDE of the other person, they feel like
they had it, theyd rather have it than not have it, which makes them think they really want it. Notice all the feelings
stem from them therefore there is nothing to Snapback from(
Heres a very simple example: Do you know why I almost NEVER have a girl tell me she doesnt want to do
Strawberry Fields? And, why she always AGREES with my assessment?
Its because I Pressure Stack right before I give it to her.
You know, you SEEM interesting. In college I studied Psychology and one of the first things they taught us was
the Strawberry Fields Test. Now, imagine youre walking down the street and you come across a Strawberry
Now, she knows that I think she is interesting (actually the word seem leaves room for doubt, but most people
miss that).
Doesnt everyone want to be interesting to the opposite sex? She doesnt want to LOSE her status as
interesting so she gladly plays along. Not only that, she accepts the answers because she doesnt want to seem
less interesting.
Thats a very simple example. There are more complex ones, too. Like how I elicit values and then make
comments to get her to agree that doing (or not doing) xyz behavior violates the value. Then, when it comes time
to do xyz (or has the idea NOT to do xyz) it looks like it is perfectly aligned with her core values. (That application
is particularly Ninja and would require an hour or two of explanation, and weeks of in-field practice before you
could pull it off successfully).
I ALWAYS like to Pressure Stack right before Time Bridging.
So, Pressure Stacking is one thing Ill be going into on the Teleseminar. I will also do an in-depth walk through of
one of my LRs( and, if we have time Ill take one or two guys through Sticking Point Analysis so you can see
how I identify an SP and then how I generate solutions.
Whats the simple criteria you need to meet to get in on the call? Real simple, use the link below to invest in
Sinns Lay Report Book. When you buy it, ClickBank will send me your email address. When the Teleseminar
details are set up youll get an email confirming your attendance. If for some reason you cant be on the call itll be
recorded for you.
>>> Heres the Link <<<
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. For those of you who purchased the eBook through my email blast or the last blog post, Ive got your email
addresses via ClickBank. This Teleseminar is the surprise bonus. If for some reason you cant be on the call itll
be recorded for you.

Sex and the Ninja

Posted at December 10, 2008

A couple of weeks ago (or more) I posted about Drunk-n-Lonely and gave an example of how an Irish PUA and I
had used it successfully in one night( I gave the complete text convo between him and the girl that got us over to
their hotel.
Well, the dude is fucking hilarious. We spent about 75% of the time laughing while he was here. We have similar
sense of humor so we were able to take the smallest little item and turn it into a fit of comedy. He recently started
a great blog called Sex and the Ninja he recounts his and his friends (a hilarious cast of characters)
adventures in drinking and getting laid.
Go read it Sex and The Ninja
My favorite is probably Mad Mal 2: The Road Warrior because I get a great picture of the guy he is talking about.

Isolation. Do you need it?

Posted at December 11, 2008

I have an interesting Facebook chat going on with a fellow who has had a bootcamp but is having some troubles
getting isolation. He asked me about the Cosmo routine but that is for use in Isolation (usually) and wont
necessarily help.
Heres the thing about Isolation: Its merely symbolic.
If you do it right you and her will BE in isolation even if her friends are hanging on every word. I think of Isolation
as a description of the level of your communication with her. At a certain point, a few minutes into the interaction, I
begin focusing almost entirely on her. The conversation should become AT LEAST 50/50. In fact, Id say it should
be 60% HER, 40% you. Females are wired to talk more so if its not that way it seems strange to them.
I dont see anyone else. I dont hear anyone else. Its just us two. There is a bubble around us. We are
communicating and focusing much more on each other than anyone or thing around us. I bring the energy down. I
talk slower, I move slower. I begin telling her she is a sexual being. That it is only natural. That it is a good thing.
Thats Isolation.
Do you need to get her away from her friends?
I often do it if they are much higher energy than I am( but usually what happens is the friends get it and give
you some space.
AND( the normal view of Isolation is you taking her to the other side of the room. I suggest this if you are trying
to create the PUA Aura but often a few steps away is plenty of space.
Think of it more as a change in the tone of communication and how you guys are relating to each other.
Focus on her, feel masculine and imagine her as a sexual woman who WANTS to be valued for her feminine
sexuality, then tune all other shit out.
Captain Jack.
CaptainJack says:
January 2, 2009 at 8:44 pm

Dude, I haven't formally isolated in a LONG time. And being out in the
field lately or not it doesn't matter. Female psychology and responses
in relation to a skilled PUA isn't changing from week to week.
AND, I really have to wonder what you'd be disagreeing with in the post. I think you are still caught up in the
formal rigidity of the pick-up system instead of taking a more Bruce Lee approach to flowing like water.
Captain Jack flows like water. It's fun and the sex is cool too.

5 Profound Volumes
Posted at December 19, 2008

Its no secret that I read a lot( so people often ask me what Im reading or if I have any good books to
recommend on a particular subject.
I consider ACTIVE reading, that is reading with an eye towards actually doing something with the information, a
weapon in your arsenal. If you become an information hub you become more valuable.
I have a particular method of note taking that allows me to retain an amazing amount of the material I read
because it focuses on recall and building connections among many concepts.
BUT, as much as I love reading and acquiring knowledge I KNOW and have SEEN with my own eyes it is not the
most important skill you can have.
Nor is it marketing (although that is HUGE), neither is it being great with numbers.

What is it? Its making connections with people. One of my friends and a business mentor of sorts told me a few
months ago, Theyre just MEN! There is nothing stopping you from picking up the phone and striking a deal with
And, hes exactly right. I created a small little business (not in pick-up or marketing niche) just this month that has
made enough to pay my rent and utilities( and, its a monthly program so itll keep coming in. I have more plans
to grow it in the coming months. His Theyre just MEN! mantra as my own. He meant, they arent anything more
special than you/me.
So, as far as business success is concerned I consider this book to be the number one(
Never Eat Alone: And Other Secrets to Success, One Relationship at a Time
This book by Keith Ferrazzi isnt just fluff and common sense. He has REAL action items and strategies you can
put into play. His idea about Super Connectors is really the most developed Ive seen. And, his strategy for nearly
taking over an entire conference is superior to any other as well.
Think BIG and Kick Ass in Business and Life CD
Love him or hate him Trump is successful. Hes stared defeat right in the face and came out on top. I loved his
first book The Art of the Deal. Now, he has published a few real horrible books. Trump: How to Get Rich was
pretty bad. But, Think BIG and Kick Ass was worth it. I bought the CD version for listening in the car and it
helped motivate me.
One Small Step Can Change Your Life: The Kaizen Way
Once you are on the right path you can begin to smoke your rivals by making consistent, constant small
improvements. The author discovered in his Therapeutic practice that if he asked people in an APATHETIC state
to do too much theyd shut down because the Amygdala would view it as a threat, have a fear response and go
into flight (run the hell away) mode. Once the brain was conditioned to the smaller steps they could then take
bigger and bigger steps until they were running FULL STRIDE towards their goals.
The Goal: A Process of Ongoing Improvement
This is where the core level of Sticking Point Analysis comes from. It is in novel story format so it is a fast, easy
read but the ideas are golden. Bust those constraints!
The Fifth Discipline: The Art & Practice of The Learning Organization
This book will show you how to see stuff that nobody else can see. One friend of mine said You have an uncanny
ability to pinpoint the exact problem and exact solution within about a minute( how the hell do you do that?! This
book is how. But, it is HARD to read. And, even harder to grasp( but the end result of this one and the Goal is
pure Ninja Calibration.
If you have any experiences with these books comment below (good or bad) AND if you end up buying any of
them and reading them come back and comment. Theres GOLD in each of them.
Captain Jack

CaptainJack says:
December 20, 2008 at 11:59 am

Hi Will, thanks for commenting and thanks for the kudos at the end of the comment.
I want to make a few points about my list and your comment.
There is not a book on that list that is traditional self-help or has a myopic focus. In fact, every book on that list is
contrary to traditional self-help drivel. Other than One Small Step none of them are 'self-help' and that one
certainly goes against pretty much every other self-help book I've read.
You have a taste for Literary Fiction and, like most people who like Literary Fiction, you seem to look down on
others who don't like it or who haven't read it. More people would probably read it if the people who recommended
it didn't seem like they were always trying to be intellectually superior and snotty.
Throwing out names and titles of authors might work in the circles you run in but that is a VERY small circle. I'd be
willing to bet that if everyone on this blog sent a text message to all the girls in their phone, What's your favorite
book by Tolstoy? they'd be lucky to get a 2% response. Again, you can say it is because these women aren't
cultured or intelligent but they like what they like and they don't deserve to be judged because they were never
exposed to it or they couldn't get into it.

As far Ayn Rand being universally derided I think that is a ridiculous statement. Perhaps in the circles you run in
that is true. But, Atlas Shrugged reads like prophecy today. Her idea that a mixed economy eventually leads to a
dictatorship she talked about in the 60s looks pretty darn true when you take the Bush Administration AND all the
mixing of business and government we now have with the bailouts.
It is not in anyone's best interest to have the government controlling industry. This creates a new Feudalism
where the families with the most pull in the government fleece the average person. The rest of the unconnected
rich and the middle class are left to foot the bill while these few hundred families continue to pile on wealth and
status. What Rand warned about IS HAPPENING right now and has been for awhile now.
They scream against the rich and powerful and pound tables with one hand while the other hand signs laws and
taxes and prints money and sends it to the few hundred families with the other hand.
All these people know each other( and, Obama is just their newest poster boy. He will simply continue to help
them like all the other world leaders do.
If a person were to read Rand's books ONLY with an eye towards masculinity and how the feminine and
masculine interact they would be doing themselves a HUGE favor. And her message of being bigger than the
world around you and being an individual has helped thousands. You CANNOT help anyone else unless you
have your shit together.
The type of person that Ayn Rand lauds is the type of person who CREATED the middle class. The individualist
entrepreneur who threw off Collectivism and PRODUCED something meaningful that saved us time, effort and
You mention Neil as an example. Have you met him? I have. Do you know he is a big fan of the universally
derided book, Atlas Shrugged?
As far as Neil goes he was given this whole Pick-up thing as an assignment from a book publisher. Do you also
think he is a Motley Crue groupie? No, because they don't make any money. But mPuas do(
You CANNOT do any good to society if you can't do well for yourself. Gates, Buffet and Ted Turner are probably
going to wipe out Malaria in our lifetime. They are doers and producers, not government 'officials' and collectivists.
Do you think someone who has malaria gives a shit about Gabriel Garcia Marquez or Tolstoy? Or, are they
praying to God for someone like Gates to give money, organizational expertise and VISION to galvanize a group
of DOERS and PRODUCERS to make something happen?

CaptainJack says:
December 22, 2008 at 2:45 pm

About the Trump book( The thing about Trump and a lot of these other guys is they don't really do 'baby steps.'
That's one thing I've learned in the last 6 months or so and why Trump's book struck a chord with me. He does
everything big.
I have a friend/business mentor who is the same way. He just doesn't see these smaller baby steps because he
passes them by like a whirlwind. OTHER people do the baby steps. When I'd think calling 10 people was a lot of
action he'd put a plan in motion to contact 100. Scale is one of the things missing.
I didn't like Millionaire Next Door that much because I think most of those people were accidental milliionaires.
Their lives aren't really how I want to live. Many of them scrimp and save and their millionaire status is primarily
business equity that they'd be hard pressed to cash out because their businesses DEPEND on them. They
haven't turned it into a real business that could run with professional management.
I am reading Millionaire Mind right now and I like it more. The group surveyed is quite a bit higher than the group
for the Millionaire next door.
Here's something interesting to do: If you write down the major Theme's in Trump's book and then compare it to
Table 2-1 in Millionaire Mind I think you'd find a HUGE overlap.
The other thing I liked about the Trump book was Zanker's story about influencing one of the guys to speak at the
Learning Annex. He sent the guy flowers every day for a long time. That's persistence.

Just Say Yes.

Posted at January 2, 2009

So Im walking through the biography section of the bookstore and I come across a book that catches my eye. Im
a bit skeptical but something about it makes me want to take a closer look. I open to the Prologue and I read this:

It was nearly midnight. I was standing in the rain, outside the house of a
rich banker in Las Vegas.
I checked my pockets. I had everything I needed. The photos. The keys to the car. The
silver pocket watch.
Most important, I had the gun.
Because I had been asked to kill a man.
And I had said yes.
Holy shit!
I keep reading and Im glad I did. It has been one of the best random finds Ive ever had. The book is called Yes
Man by Danny Wallace. I was skeptical about the book because the movie with Jim Carey called Yes Man is
currently in theaters and I had already seen it.
(Good enough, kinda funny, good message.)
I dont read books that are merely fleshed out transcripts of the movie but the cover said, The book that
INSPIRED (emphasis mine) the movie. The book is about a year of his life in which he said Yes to any question
or request made of him.
You can imagine all the adventures that kind of behavior could get you into(
Well, let me tell you. The basic premise is the same but the movie is like a speck of gold compared to finding a
friggin treasure chest.
Its a life-changing book AND I think is a perfect way to ring in the New Year.
Go and get it( Hilarious, thought-provoking and all around a great read.

Romance = Male-Female Sexual Tension

Posted at January 12, 2009

Women are starving.

Im sitting in the bookstore right now and the Cafe points directly to the
Sex, Relationships and Romance Novel section. There is an absolute STREAM of
women going over there. Those sections are NEVER empty.
Women are literally starving for the male-female sexual dynamic. Now, thats
not the word they use for it.
They call it Romance.
But, most men cringe and think of Romance as flowers, expensive candlelight
dinners, chocolates and kissing her ass.
Its not that at all! And, women know that. Have you ever READ a romance
novel? They are filled with sexual tension, secret sex liaisons, forbidden
pleasures( I made my way through half of one and I swear nearly every
character had sex with every other character by the midway point. I stopped
reading.. I got it.
Romance = male-female sexual tension.
Not that other shit weve been trained to think. Romance can occur anywhere.
A bookstore, a sidewalk, an expensive restaurant( wherever. Its not the

environment, its the tension. If you make her feel feminine and sexy,
shell WANT to have sex with you.
And, theres no better way to create that male-female sexual tension than
with Sexual Framing.
Mastering Sexual Framing will give you the absolute power to have sex pretty
much whenever you want it.
(It has NOTHING to do with dirty talk or being a creepy horny guy( Its
MUCH MUCH MORE than Strawberry Fields or Rings on Fingers, too.)
Not only can you have a life filled with sex, you could easily use it to get
a girlfriend. Or, have a few girlfriends at a time. If you were really
perverted you could use it to create a Harem of chicks who basically act as
personal assistants. (Thats right, theyll run your errands and shit and
ENJOY IT! Strange, I know but Ive done it and so have countless others.)
And, you can have these types of relationships without lying or drama. See,
YOU set the rules by your frames. The problem is when you go around Gaming
you have no friggin clue what Frames you are setting.
Even worse, you have no idea of the Frames SHE is setting and you are
unwittingly AGREEING to(
Shit man, you could even use it to get married.. and, then, keep the
marriage alive and spicy for years to come.
Sexual Framing and understanding the female psychology of sex really
decomplicates things( Do you feel pick-up is hard or draining or
complicated or takes too much time?
Sexual Framing makes it easy.
While Ive talked about it on my blog and a little in my eClass it is
something that requires a little more delving into. Framing is derived from
NLP and relies heavily on Presuppositions.
Its just as much a mindset and understanding female psychology as it is a
framework of techniques. You need ALL 3 to really make it work.
Once you get it you will look so smooth people will watch you and
swear youve been good with women all your life.
No one understands it better than I do and I can TEACH you how to apply it
every day no matter where you are or what youre doing.
Shit, you can even apply it to business. About a month ago, I got 6 experts
in the spiritual self-help field to hand me 4 detailed lessons for a new
membership program for FREE because I understood their values and framed it
so that if they DID NOT do it for me theyd be violating their values.
(Thats right( I CHARGE $49.00 per month for the lessons I got them to
give me for free. But, they will gain valuable exposure to several hundred
thousand people as a result.)
Its pure mental Ninjitsu. You can discover it as well.
And, the women? Well, they will be so relieved, so glad, so HAPPY that
theyve met a guy who REALLY GETS IT they will do pretty much anything you
P.S. To get started simply click the button below.

What's this Pick-up Thing REALLY About?

Posted at January 14, 2009

Louise Hay, Author of

Hey CJ,
First of all, I hope youre enjoying the holidays!
I am reading Louise Hays book you can heal your life.
In that book she wrote we are afraid of intimacy and allowing anyone to get too close,
so we have anonymous sex.
Well this got me thinking about something that I thought about before, which is that a
lot of people in the community (instructors) rarely seem to get involved in long term
Which made me wonder why.
It wouldnt surprise me if this is one of the underlying reasons, and if so that is a big
Offcourse its cool that guys learn how to attract beautiful women.
But, its much more fulfilling to find a wonderful woman who you enjoy spending time
with outside of the bedroom as well.
Dont you think thats the ultimate goal of pick up? to find a girl that truly enriches your
life and makes you happy?
And that if theres something like fear of intimicy that stops guys from really getting
involved with a girl, it should be something the community focusses upon as well?
I think that the community needs to come full circle by looking beyond the SNLs and
Please share your thoughts.
Blog Reader
First off, glad to see you are reading NON-community stuff. Good move. 99% of the stuff in the community is pure
crap. Especially the stuff about meeting and picking up women. AND, ALL of the stuff about Inner Game.
(Except my stuff, of course, my stuff is golden.)
So, lets take what you quoted from Hay: we are afraid of intimacy and allowing anyone to get too close, so we
have anonymous sex.
Its important to realize that almost anything of the form We are(, I am(, People are( is a generalization.
And, it probably has more to do with the speaker than reality. When someone writes or talks about a subject
they are giving out their map of the world.
Its how they see things BECAUSE of what they believe.
You can ONLY see what is inside you. You can only see the contents of your own mind.

To translate( Hay is PROBABLY saying, If I was afraid of intimacy and allowing anyone to get too close, Id
have anonymous sex.
Or, The only way I could have anonymous sex is to not get intimate or let them get too close.
Got that? Mull it over a bit. This realization will change your life.
When you get that you can really start accepting and loving others because you realize no one is really wrong.
They are right from their own viewpoint, because their belief plays out in their experience.
Does it HAVE to be that way for them? No. We know that by changing their belief they can experience something
entirely different.
Now, to your next statement:

Of course, its cool that guys learn how to attract beautiful women.
But, its much more fulfilling to find a wonderful woman who you enjoy spending time
with outside of the bedroom as well.
Really? Much more fulfilling for who? Remember, you are talking about yourself.
Notice how you are projecting just like Hay does?
Nothing wrong in that( we all do it. Its how were designed. The place where people mess themselves up is
when they believe it is the objective reality and it should be that way for everyone. That their experience is the
RIGHT way and how it should be( and anyone who doesnt follow that way is somehow wrong.
Your next question seems to head in that direction:

Dont you think thats the ultimate goal of pick up? to find a girl that truly enriches your
life and makes you happy?
You are making a HUGE mistake here. Do you notice how you are giving the power over your own happiness to
something outside of yourself?
a girl that(makes you happy?
Why not be happy anyway?
A lot of people get scared thinking that if they were happy for no reason at all they wouldnt do shit, would fail and
then die. (Not on the surface but if you keep digging youll find fear of death is ultimately behind all of your fears.)
Not true. When you are happy you can do more, you cut out the stupid shit you do trying to get happy or avoid
bad feelings, and you are generally more positive and feel better so you can focus more and make the best
Your question is also leading down the road of Shouldnt it be this way for everyone?
Heres my thinking about this(
This whole Pick-up thing is really about freedom.
Freedom to CHOOSE what kind of relationship you want (or dont want) to have with women you choose.
You want to rack up lots of SNLs with girls youve only known a few hours. Cool.
You get tired of that want a girlfriend for awhile. Cool.
You want to get married. Cool.
Want to chill out, do your own thing and not have sex at all. Cool.
Its about being able to CHOOSE without the burden of society and past programming making you feel guilty
about it.
The difference is it is all more real because you are choosing it WITHOUT the influence of your past
P.S. How would I bang that old lady? Lots of heart melters( elicit how she knows someone and fill in the blanks
through stories, all the while in a Sexual Frame having to do with connections and freedom.
P.P.S. The Sexual Framing 4-Part Teleseminar is about half filled. Sign up now so you, too, can get the
FREEDOM to choose(

Importante! Sexual Framing Telecourse

Posted at January 21, 2009

If you signed up for the Sexual Framing Telecourse please check for an email with the subject line Sexual
Framing Teleseminar Details it contains the details about tomorrow nights calls.
If you DID NOT receive that email please email me at captainjackpua@gmail.com immediately.
We have 7 seats 5 seats 4 seats 3 seats left if youre still interested sign up here. Ill accept registrations until
Thursday 5pm CST or until I have 20 puas.
The REAL Captain Jack.

A Quick Lesson in Frame Rejection and Double

Posted at January 22, 2009

I just emailed the following LR to all the lucky asses who were awesome enough to sign up for my Sexual
Framing Teleseminar.
I gave them instructions to read it, absorb it and notice how I used Connected her frames to automatically trigger
mine. She wanted an LTR, I wanted porno stuff. I did Ninja Frame shit, she no longer cared about LTR, she
wanted porno stuff.
Im going to analyze this one and a few others in pretty good detail because they resulted in a lay. A lay that
MOST Puas wouldve fucked up.
P.S. 3 spaces left.

Do You Want a Girlfriend?

Posted at January 26, 2009

Please forgive me(

Sometimes in the hustle and bustle of trying to teach you guys how to have sex with as many chicks as possible,
in as short a time as possible, I forget that there are some of you guys who just want to get a girlfriend.
This is an easily ATTAINABLE goal when you know what to do( but seems damn near impossible when you
DONT know what to do.
And, Im not talking about SETTLING for some mediocre chick and trying to convince yourself that shes a good
So, my question is( Do you want a steady girlfriend? If you do, then I have a few questions for you, only 9, and
they wont take long to answer at all (probably less than 10 minutes).
I might be following up with a few of you (who are open to it) for a little more insight into the matter.
Take the Get a Girlfriend Survey!
Captain Jack

She Wore My Ass Out.

Posted at February 3, 2009

I know it may come as a shock to you, but I am actually not perfect.

Calm down, calm down( Its true.

st in case you dont believe me I am going to provide proof. I emailed a 4
page pdf letter to those guys who
took my Do You Want A Girlfriend? Survey.
In that PDF letter, on page 2 I wrote this:

Its how I got the 28 Year Old E.R. Nurse who ALSO owned ov
er a million dollars of real
estate and a sex drive bigger and longer than the Great Wall of China. She, quite
literally, wore my ass out. (P.S. She paid for everything the entire time we went out!)
When I wrote, She, quite literally, wore my ass out. I meant to say that we had a lot of sex and she made me
really, really tired.
But, right AFTER I emailed it, I was re
reading it and busted out laughing because I had quite a different image of
that statement when I read it without my writers eyes on.
Had this been written in html (or in a blog post) I couldve simply edited it and maintained my perfection. But, it
was in a PDF in an email. So, there is no way for me to do that(
So, just to make it clear:
The Latina Millionaire E.R. Nurse did
not violate me anally in any way.
Captain Jack
P.S. I am still 99% perfect.

hy Captain Jack is All Depressed and

Find Out Why
Posted at February 4, 2009

Oh look, somebody finally decided to drop in( Well, at least SOMEBODY is reading my blog.
Not that anybody cares or anything but Im feeling a bit depressed.
Why? Look down below this paragraph
aragraph and youll see a little feedburner thingie. It has a number inside it and that
number is ridiculously small.

Now, Im not exactly sure how all this shit works but that is supposedly the number of people on any one day who
are subscribed to Captain
in Jacks Grande Adventures (the insanely magnificent blog you are now feasting your
eyes upon).
Pathetic, huh?
Do you know how many SINGLE people there are in the U.S.?
Well, in 2004, the most recent report I could find, there were 95.7 million. Of those, 95.7 million, 46% were male.
(By the way, that means there are 9,570,704 MORE single women in the U.S. than men!)
So there are 44,022,000 single dudes. If we subtract the number above (which at the time of this writing is a
measly 704) were left with(
,021,296 Single Guys Who Are NOT Subscribed to My Blog.
This doesnt even include all the guys in the UK, where my biggest fan on earth makes his home, Connor from
Sex and The Ninja.
(or, Australians(
(or, the Germans(
(or, the Papua New Guineans(
etc, etc.
Anyway, my main point to all of this depressing math is: I think more single guys should be reading this amazing
ridiculously useful shit Im writing.

So, if you read my blog and you have NOT clicked that little button thingy please do so. (Y
ou DO want to cheer
Dear Ol Captain Jack up, dont you?)
Also( tell others about this blog. You could probably use the good karma.
Depressed in Dallas,
captain jack
P.S. Whenever I want to cheer myself up I hit up Sex and The Ninja to see if hes mentioned my name lately. I
believe it is TRULY the funniest blog Ive ever read (besides mine). Heres an excerpt from his latest post,Just
Like Rocky IV:

Im delighted with myself at this stage and just to make me feel even better the waitress
wants to give us a new table and asks us which one we want, suggesting she will clear
any other people! I think this is the best th
ing ever and strut over to a table of girls and
simply demanded that they BE GONE ! So Im shouting at these chicks
GONE! All of you GONE !!!
Then turning to the waitress
I want these chicks out of here, NOW!
And the fucking waitress is actually gettin
g rid of them! I cant believe it! This must be
what its like to be rich and powerful. I like it!
These chicks are pissed and moaning but I am having none of it!
Out of here paupers, I can SMELL the poverty off you
P.P.S. Click on this thingy [

] before you read his blog, though.

P.P.S. Whats that I hear? You dont care to hear about all my psychological ups and downs( You only read this
blog to learn how to get hotties to drop their soaking wet little panties, you say. Fine. I promise my NEXT post will
have information so shocking youll probably nut immediately upon reading it. (Jerk.)

CaptainJack says:
February 5, 2009 at 2:36 pm

Actually, I have ZERO fuck buddies and ZERO numbers. I do that when I get ready to go on a tear( Sorta like
not feeding a shark
rk for awhile so when a little blood gets in the water it goes nuts(
For the most part this post was a playful joke. My blog readership has actually tripled in the last 6 months. So
while I DO believe all 44 million single guys should be reading my blog, II'm
'm not terribly worried that it's only about

Sinn, Depression and Rhythm Mastery

Posted at February 6, 2009

About Yesterdays Depression post(

Wow! First off, I have to say I didnt mean to cause such a stir.
I got quite a few private emails from readers that were concerned about me. They ranged all the way from Tough
Love to Inspiriational.

One guy wrote a two-pager that detailed numerous events in his life that were difficult and how something I wrote
or something in the Grande Adventures PDF helped him turn it around. Quite inspirational.
Another guy offered his encouragement and told me to email or call him anytime.
Another PUA took the Tough Love approach and told me to grab my balls and deal with it. Ha.
For the most part that post was me sort of clowning around with words and concepts like I normally do. Im not
really depressed. In fact, things are going really well.
Heres what happened: I was researching info for the Get-A-Girlfriend Project when I came across those U.S.
Census numbers about the number of single people. I realized that my measly number of readers was just a
SPECK on the tip of the iceberg and it got me to thinking about the absolute potential out there(
(and, how many SINGLE GUYS I was not reaching. Look, I know Ive got stuff that can help those guys out
immensely so it can be a little frustrating.
So, that was the main reason for the post.
I am not depressed at all( In fact, I was at dinner with Sinn the other night and we were talking about how shit is
going magnificent for us. Hes really kicked it into high gear, hasnt he?
He has hit a real fever pitch and is just knocking shit out of the park.
I once wrote this about Sinn:

The first time I saw Sinn in action my jaw dropped to the floor, and stayed
there all night. Most instructors get good enough at one facet of the Game to
impress AFCs and youd be hard pressed to find an Instructor who had
achieved Mastery at even one facet of Game, yet Sinn seems to have achieved it
in all of them. From Day Game to Strippers to Same Night Lays I cant find a
weakness in his Game anywhere.
Captain Jack
Guess what? The first time I saw him was like 2 or 3 years ago in NYC. He has gotten about 3 times better since
He has this dry erase whiteboard thing on his refrigerator where he lists all the major stuff he has to do and how
many times per week he does it and on what days( Did you know he only allows himself to go grocery shopping
once per week? On Tuesday? (Haa( Not sure why but I found that amusing.)
I mentioned to him how the best times in my life were when I had a basic Rhythm and a rough daily schedule.
But, not that kind of schedule where you say, 9:00 pm this, 10:30 that.. blah, blah it was more like a mental
rhythm and schedule where you are doing roughly the same things at the same time but its all guided from the
inside not forcing yourself to do it( you are just doing it.
As for me, I dont know what the hell has happened (actually, I think I have a clue which Ill mention in a future
post) but it seems like everything I do lately has started working. It started in mid November and just keeps getting
People are coming out of the blue offering me support, opportunity, ideas and even money!
I started a website in December in an industry where I had no connections, no name, just a tiny bit of expertise
and it just keeps growing and growing. I get between 200-400 email sign ups PER DAY.
I chose that little niche because I had an idea and I wanted to see if I could make it work starting from ZERO, and
I did.
Im going to do it in Pick-up and Copywriting, too. If I get 200-400 emails per day in that little ass niche( Ill
probably get 2,000 or so in a larger niche.
Not too shabby, eh?
Anyways, what Im trying to say is this:
Get into a Rhythm! Ive found that the Rhythm is usually caused by a few things:
1) The belief you can do it and you deserve it.
2) An idea that EXCITES you!
3) A COMMITMENT to 10 times more INTELLIGENT action than you would normally do when you are just
coasting. (It is even MORE important to follow the 80/20 rule when you increase your action.)
Captain Jack

P.S. This is not the post that I mentioned would make you nut immediately upon reading. I am still working on that
P.P.S. Did you look at the feedburner thingie? Notice how its no longer 704 but now 1928? Turns out one of my
readers pointed out that I didnt have things set up right. Nifty, huh? Hes got a great site you should go look at. I
know youre probably not interested in Money or how to be your own boss or anything silly like that but you should
still drop by his site http://www.startbreakingfree.com

CaptainJack says:
February 11, 2009 at 11:13 am

I have my daughter's this weekend(

Next week I'll be in Tampa Fl. from the 19-23rd.
I'll have my daughters 27th-March 1st.
From March 1st-8th I'll be at a Retreat in the Monterrey Peninsula.
From March 14th-March 22nd I'll have my daughters for Spring Break(
So the competition is going to have to wait!
However, I have started actively gaming a bit more so I'm sure the LRs will start to pile up.

CaptainJack says:
February 11, 2009 at 11:14 am

Yeah, I'll start throwing some more LRs up here on the blog as they come. I'm not sure if I'll make another PDF
out of them. I was kinda thinking the Blog takes place of pdfs(
Also, I'll be putting some stuff out very soon.

The Unsatisfiable Hunger

Posted at February 13, 2009

in the hundreds of questionaires I circulated for Garden, I described myself as an

avid crotch-watcher, and asked if the reader was too. That question never failed to get
a response. Most women wrote that they were crotch watchers too, others said they
loved seeing mens bottoms, examinging their pants to see which leg it hung down
in, or just plain looking. Nancy Friday

As I look at those photos, I imagine him teasing me, fingering me to get me going, and
then teasing me with just the head of his cock. I dont know where I get these ideas, as
these are not things my husband does to me I mean, teasing me with his cock In my
fantasy, this man from the pages of Playgirl then licks my tits and belly button until I
plead with him to fuck me, and at last he does. Sally

But becoming your own woman, becoming highly educated and choosy in your sexual
tastes, leaves you vulnerable to loneliness. You can be a virgin and be sexually
frustrated. But every experienced woman knows that to have had sex, good sex, and
then to have to do without it, leaves even more room for real pain.
In our culture, the pain a woman suffers from sexual deprivation isnt considered
seriously. Not so with me.

So he (a guy she was dating) and his friend got me when I went outside to go to the
bathroom. I was scared at first, but he kept on saying, wow, feel this cunt, isnt this the
best cunt youve ever felt? This was before they were inside of me, he was using his
fingers and hand. That is when I started getting turned on. Then when he started
fucking me, I was lost in sexual pleasure. He kept on talking all the time By this time, I
was starting to scream with pleasure, and he told his friend to keep his hands over my
mouth as there were other people around us When he was done, it was his friends
turn, and believe me, he was just as good. All the time, they were fucking me, they were
talking about my tits and cunt, which made me unafraid and enjoy it I guess that
couldnt be called a fantasy, as it actually happened, but I often think about it, and then
I masturbate.

Another is that I am being fucked by two guys while my husband is watching. One is
shoving his cock down my throat, and the other is sucking my cunt. My breasts are also
being massaged. I cant move because of the size of the cock going down my throat. The
two guys agree to come at the same time, so simultaneously, one goes off in my cunt,
and the other in my mouth, which I proceed to suck and swallow
So, those are just a few quotes from Forbbiden Flowers by Nancy Friday. Its a continuation of My Secret
Garden. For those of you who dont know, Nancy Friday put an ad in the newspaper asking women to send in
their sexual fantasies. She then reprinted them in her book with insightful commentary.

Entering you is one of the biggest sexual rushes for him. It starts out feeling like hes
being cocooned in warmth and wetness, and then the pressure and wetness increase as
both of you become more aroused. His genitals fill with tingly electricity, and he can
feel your muscular contractions tightening around him, says Kanaris. This blissful
feeling is intensified by deep thrusting, so try positions that let him get inside you
further, such as woman-on-top or doggie-style.
And, that one is from Cosmopolitan Magazines March 2009 issue, page 115. This is the stuff they are reading in
their spare time! Their circulation is 2.9 million women monthly.
Reading these books along with Sperm Wars and Way of the Superior Man will give you huge insights into
female sexuality.
They are extremely sexual and I URGE you to get in touch with that aspect of them WITHOUT judgment about
If you do this something in you changes that women really pick up on. My SNL ability really skyrocketed when I
got this( I fought it for awhile because some of the fantasies are utterly shocking (farm animals, etc)( however,
it is what it is.
My main point with this is you (like almost every guy) dont fully grasp just how sexual women really are( Your
ideas of female sexuality have been conditioned in haphazardly over time and from a very young age. This affects
your behavior, your body language, the tempo of your escalation, the things you try in bed, the subjects youre
willing to broach with them.
Immerse yourself in this information until something snaps mentally and you get it! How will you know when you
get it? There is an Holy fucking shit! moment and when you go outside into the world you see women at various
stages of turn-on as they go about their business.
Captain Jack
P.S. Try not to read this if you are trying to concentrate on something important. Also, make sure there is a
bathroom or other private area available. Youll probably need it. Heres the entire Forbidden Flowers book:
Do yourself a huge favor and absorb every word.

Covert Behavior Control

Posted at February 23, 2009

By now youve probably already read or heard that my Wing, Sinn, has left Dallas. We had our last night out on
Thursday and I got pretty emotional.
We spent a lot of time reminiscing about girls we made sweet love to, 2-sets that we cold-approached and
handled like seduction Ninjas, sets that blew up in ridiculous ways. Nights of drunken Tomfoolery in distant cities
and so forth.
The biggest injustice during this whole time period was that we didnt have a third party chronicling these
adventures. That sucks.
I remember one night Sinn opened this absolutely hot brunette girl with big knockers and her cute enough little
Now, at this time there was ALSO a girl I had number closed a few days earlier who was at the bar. Sort of a
dilemna because I need to wing. Theres a lot of shit to keep track of( I need to wing but do it in a way I dont
fuck up my lay with the Wisconsin girl. On the flip side, I cant torpedo this 2set and fuck up Sinns chances with
the hottie.
At one point, Sinn and his hottie have wondered off a bit and Im actually talking to BOTH the girls (the obstacle
and my previous number closee).
I look across the bar and Sinns Hottie has this concerned look on her face. I look at Sinn and he just doesnt look
right. He is wavering a bit and twitches awkwardly every 10-15 seconds.
Im thinking, Oh shit, whats happening? Somebody has spiked his drink and its fucking with his nervous
system. I get a little scared, put my beer down and begin to walk over.
Stay calm, get him some water, see what he is feeling, I tell myself in an effort to calm my nerves. I have visions
of my friend being put in an ambulance and driven to a hospital with IVs and shit stuck in his arm.
Im pushing my way through the mass of people and as Im about half way there, he dips his right shoulder and
then snaps his fingers. Hmm, thats weird. Maybe hes trying to play it off. I take a few more steps and he then
dips his left shoulder and snaps his fingers again.
Then, it hits me(
Sinn isnt having an adverse drug reaction or suffering
from a rare spinal cord disorder. Hes Dancing!!!
Can you imagine my relief?
Then, I started to chuckle. Everything was going to be alright. That night we pulled the two-set and laid them. A
few days later I got the Wisconsin girl. (LR: The Acrobatic Monkey and LR:www-horny-wisconsin-girls-com).
Now, you probably think this post is ONLY about me reminiscing about our adventures and making fun of one of
my friends, dont you?
You dont think dear Ol Captain Jack is going to be able to pull a nice pick-up lesson out of this little story do you?
O Ye of Little Faith!
When I thought Sinn was suffering from a Neurotransmitter Deficiency on the dance floor and I was walking
towards him, what types of behaviors, scenarios and possibilities was I thinking about?
Getting him some water
Calling an ambulance
Getting him to sit down and asking about his experience so I could later relate it to the Paramedics
Picturing Him in the hospital with IVs and such
Collecting his drink for lab analysis and the fingerprints of the Perp
But, once it hit me that he was dancing, what types of behaviors, scenarios and possibilities was I imagining
Pointing and laughing
Challenging him to a dance-off to boost my club cred
Taking video for future black-mail possibilities
Pretending like I didnt know him and quietly exiting the back way with the Wisconsin girl
Teasing him mercilessly to make myself feel better
Arent those all VASTLY different from the previous?
Lets bring this home(
Lets imagine a common pick-up artist talking to a hottie. (Not any of my readers, of course.) Hes talking to the
hottie who has herself all dolled up complete with mini-skirt and push-up bra and hes telling her all these stories
that demonstrate he has high value and that hes a social guy, blah, blah, blah(
In other words, hes royally boring the shit out of her.

But, lets say he stumbled on The Greatest Pick-up Blog On the Entire Internet* and he picked up a little
sumpthin-sumpthin about Framing and in the midst of utterly boring her he lobs this gem into the convo,
So, whats on the Agenda for later?
Simple question, right?
NO!!! Not at all, my fellow pirate**.
That question is MAGIC!
(I wish I could take credit for it but I learned it from Brent of Absolute Power Dating.)
Why is it Magic? Because, NOW youve alluded to the possibility of seeing her LATER( she is pretty likely to
assume you are leading towards something like an after-party or you and her doing something later at night, when
the club is closed( And, if were honest with ourselves, we all know what happens when the club closes, dont
Boys and Girls Do Naughty Things to Each Other in Private!
Which is something she could be interested in.
That question makes her reframe all the other shit you said previously as having Probable Sexual Intent!!!
Now, what behaviors, scenarios and possibilities are opening up in HER mind?!
Do you get it? Do you see it!
Fuck man, if you dont see it I think you should consider the priesthood or something.
The One and Only Captain Jack
* The Blog you are now reading
** Pirate in the sense of someone who enjoys adventures, tasty alcoholic beverages, gold and wenches. Not
one who steals shit.
P.S. Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is only so much I can do in writing.
Especially in a blog because it is difficult to really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space.
But, with an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.
Heres the plan, I am going to do a monthly conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of
those minutes will be me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this whole Gaming
thing easier, funner and more effective. Its pretty safe to say that no one has the same perspective and ideas
about this stuff as I do.
The last 30 minutes of the call Ill answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the
Ive thought about charging monthly for this but Ive decided not to. Its a one-time payment for the full year. Thats
12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price Ive settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to
$295.00 for the year.
The calls will be recorded and transcribed in case you miss them, or youre in Europe, Asia or Africa where the
calls will likely be at an inconvenient time.
You can sign up by pushing the button below.

How to Get More Girlfriends, FuckBuddies or

mLTRs Than Your Poor Little Body Can Handle!
Posted at February 25, 2009

Notice those little blue pills in the picture Ive attached to the left?
The technical name for those little pills is Sildenafil Citrate but you probably know them simply as Viagra.
Why have I attached such a picture to this post?
The 5-page pdf which Ive ALSO attached will explain. Just click the red link below
How to Get More Girlfriends, FuckBuddies or mLTRs Than Your Poor Little Body Can Handle!
Captain Jack

Tap Into Unconscious Behavior Sequences to Get

What You Want
Posted at February 26, 2009

Hola, Numbnuts!
No time for chit chat. Lets get right down to bizness(
You wanna guess how much of a persons behavior is habitual? Cmon( give it a shot. What do you say?
Twenty-Percent. Nope.
Thirty-Percent, anybody else say 30%? Nuh, uh.
Okay, how bout 55%? Nice guess but not even close, Dorkface.
Try this on for size:
Those Behaviorist Lab Nerds Believe it is About 95%!
And, all along youve been thinking you were making all the choices and shit everyday. Not really. Your actions
(more appropriately, your REactions) have been calculated and foisted upon you by your Unconscious Mind.
AFTER your Unconscious Mind has already decided for you it thrusts this mental mass into your Conscious Mind
where you run a little sequence over it and then think you choose the already decided course of action.
I can hear you guys out there in Chorus, So, whats all this gotta do with Vagina?
Calm down, Ill get to that (jeesh). Im not quite finished with this preamble.
Once upon a time (in 1300s Japan, to be exact) there was a Zen Master named Bassui Tokusho. Bassuis deal
was hed sit high up on a tree branch and ask, Who is it that hears?
Bassui was examining the function of being that is already, always listening. Notice this( Can you stop yourself
from listening?
Just for a moment, stop hearing shit around you. Cant do it can you?
Whether you are aware of it or not, that stimuli constantly rushes towards you and you cant shut it down. You are
always hearing, feeling and seeing, even while you are asleep.
And, we are always REacting to this constant stream of stimuli.
So, what we have so far is 95% of behavior is unconscious AND we are always receiving stimuli(
Is that cloudy little muffin brain of yours starting to see what Im getting at?
No? Alrighty then, well sally forth.
The external stimuli hits you, the receiver looks for a pattern match in the list of available behaviors, it narrows
these down by the Context you are operating in, further modifies it by your Dominant Intention (supposing you
have one) and then executes the match.
External Stimuli > Pattern Matching Loop > Unconscious Sequence Fired > The Meaning Maker Attaches

Now, something important to know about this is the Unconscious Sequence CAN fire without the External
Stimuli( In fact, for most things simply imagining the stimuli will start the process.
Another REALLY important thing to know is you can access the Unconscious Sequence without the stuff before it
and if you are successful in getting the first 3 major steps in the sequence you WILL get the attached Meaning(
The easiest way starts thusly: Hey Bambi( whats the first sensation (first major chunk of unconscious
sequence) you get inside your body when you first realize X?
Where X = Some Meaning.
Do you think that might be useful if you wanted to grab ahold of Bambis unconscious process for feeling like she
wants a guy to be her main squeeze?
Some possible meanings that might be interesting to a dude who is so uncouth and barbaric as to want to have
sex with hotties:
* Youre Really Attracted To Someone
* You Cant Stop Thinking About Someone (oooo, sinister)
* You are in love
* Youre turned on
Interesting, eh?
If you get this, and get it in its various and sundry forms, you will make pick-up look ridiculously easy. This is one
of the things we are going to DRILL like crazy in the upcoming Viagra Dialogues teleseminar until it becomes
YOUR automatic, unconscious behavior.
Will you join me? Gosh, I hope so( I hate to think you are out there doing all the silly worthless shit that
everybody else is writing about and teaching.
The Party starts on March 11th( I can only accept 20 PUAs so I can make sure to answer questions, emails and
so forth in a timely manner.
To read more How to Get More Fuck Buddies, Girlfriends or mLTRs Than Your Poor Little Body Can Handle(
Or, just sign up here...
Captain Jack
P.S. 8 PUAs have already signed up.
P.P.S. Just so you know( Numbnuts, Dorkface and muffin brain are all terms of endearment.

These Interesting Facts Can Get You Laid

Posted at February 28, 2009

The following is a collection of interesting quotes and ideas that have EVERYTHING to do with seduction (
When a person perceives you to be of higher authority they unconsciously shift their voice and speech
style to match yours. (Gregory & Webster,1996).
There are definitely differences in outlook and perspective between men and women that require a
higher level of communication sophistication. For example, women generally respond better to stories,
anecdotes, and metaphors, while men are more fact-oriented and statistical( The biggest difference
between the genders is in response to tone. Women react much more negatively to negative
messages than do men. They dont like companies that trash the competition( Cola wars, beer wars,
and burger wars are entertainment to men( and noise to women. When you articulate what you are
for or about, you reveal something of yourself. [Emphasis mine] Words That Work by Dr. Frank
When the barrier was high enough to be a true obstacle, however, the boys went directly to the
obstructed toy, making contact with it three times faster than with the unobstructed toy. Influence by
No matter what their self-proclaimed sexual orientation, they showed, on the whole, strong and swift
genital arousal when the screen offered men with men, women with women and women with men(
And with the women, especially the straight women, mind and genitals seemed scarcely to belong to
the same person. The readings from the plethysmograph and the keypad werent in much accord.
New York Times article titled What Do Women Want Discovering What Ignites Female
Desire (HmmD this has interesting implications, doesnt it? I know a lot of people have
wondered why I dont bother with a lot of kino escalation to arouse her. Maybe kino escalation
is worthless, even detrimental, if her mind aint in it.)

Laboratory experiments have confirmed that exciting experiences can enhance the feelings of
attraction. Why We Love by Helene Fisher
If you have this dyad, and one part is pumped full of testosterone, is more interested in risk taking, is
probably more aggressive, youve got a very strong motivational force. It wouldnt make sense to have
another similar force. You need something complementary. And Ive often thought that there is
something really powerful for womens sexuality about being desired. That receptivity element. Dr.
Chivers (Do you think this might explain why me saying, You should really stop doing that, If
you dont quit turning me on, Im going to lay you down on this table and fuck you right here
has such an effect?)
A man typically has sex with thousands of partners in his imagination over the course of his life.
Women are much more likely to fantasize about people they know. Survival of the Prettiest by Nancy

Do you find those quotes intriguing? I know I sure do. All of them provide a template or backing for using a
language construct to get what you want.
For example, when I say I like it when girls do X it isnt just something I say to fill out time. I say it because
1. If they like me it gives them an opportunity and directions to SHOW it.
2. Women LIKE to do things for the men they like because it makes them feel more feminine and shows their
Heres something else I found both interesting and useful(
Once upon a time I was in a bar talking to a hottie. Things were going good and we were discussing male-female
interactions and I was in the middle of telling her I loved it when girls put their hand on my forearm or chest when
they are trying to make a point.
Not 5 minutes later she placed her hand on my forearm looked across the bar at some Jackass and said, That
guy is hot!
Wait a minute( I want to be hot, too!
Wheres my hotness compliment?
From that moment on I worked even HARDER to woo her. I focused more intently.
Naturally, that got me to thinking( What if *I* started doing the same thing? What would happen then?
Ill tell you what: Pretty much the same thing. It seemed to make a girl try a bit harder.
But, I found that it seems to work better if you make the statement with your eyes instead. But, once or twice is
enough( more than that and youll destroy her confidence or shell just think youre a perv.
Hey, in case you havent heard Im doing another 4-part Teleseminar. Its all about how to get a Girlfriend,
Fuckbuddy or mLTR WITHOUT having to become a master of Same Night Lays first.
The first call is on Wednesday, March 11th. You can find more details at the link below.
How to Get More Fuck Buddies, Girlfriends or mLTRs Than Your Poor Little Body Can Handle
Also, if you already know youre interested but want to pay in two payments, spaced 30 days apart you can do
that by pushing the button below.

Only New Strategies Cause New Possibilities

Posted at March 9, 2009

Asilomar State Park

The picture on the left is of Monterrey Beach at Asilomar State Park. I just spent 8 or so days there relaxing,
talking to people and meditating. And, damn, the food was good.
One morning about 7am I walked out of my little room and there were two deers nearly within touching distance.
One of them looked at me curiously, flickered its ear a few times and then started sniffing around in the grass
again before munching down on some flowers.
So, if youve emailed me and I havent responded its because I havent had a computer for about a week.
(Actually, I had it with me but never fired it up( who wants to get on the Internut when youre on 175 acres of
amazing land?)
If you emailed me, please email me again and Ill get back to you asap.
With that said, I want to talk a bit about Strategy versus Tactics.
Imagine you are a Miner.
You spend years perfecting your stroke. You know Pick-Axes like the back of your hand. Youve punished your
body in the Gym using Arnold Schwarzeneggers workouts( etc, etc.
You then go out and look for rocks to bust( after driving a bit you come across a rocky cave on the side of a hill.
You go to work like a madman! You work day and night, scarcely stopping but to eat and evacuate. You are
DETERMINED to find that gold!
I dont care how perfect your form( how quality your pick-axe( how strong youve made yourself(
The Chances of You Striking Gold Falls Between VERY SLIM and NONE!!!
You see, none of that shit matters if your Strategy for finding a Gold vein is inadequate.
Hey, that reminds me of a true story.
Once upon a time there was this door to door encyclopedia salesman. He was about average as far as
encyclopedia salesmen go. Hed make his prospecting calls during the day( get 3 appointments for the evening
and sell one set of encyclopedias each night.
Hard work( but, in todays dollars he was pulling in about $125,000.
But, money is fucking worthless if you dont have time to enjoy it. He thought, There must be a better way!
SOMEBODY had to have a better way!
He went to all the guys in his company and swapped tactics and techniques. He tried all of them( some of them
worked and some of them didnt. But, his income didnt really move that much. Sometimes a little more(
sometimes a bit less.
Right about the time he was ready to throw in the towel and resign to the fact that this is just the way it is( he
ran into a retired salesman (in a different industry) at a social function. That man said 17 simple words that
changed his life entirely.
The man said, I only spend time talking to people who really want to hear what I have to say.
Doesnt seem so life-changing does it?
Well, it hit our hero like a ton of bricks.
Ill tell you what he did in just a sec but first I have to give you some background. Whenever someone agrees to
an appointment with a salesperson a little program runs in their head afterwords saying, Should I have agreed to
that? What is he gonna try to sell me? Is he going to pressure me? Ugh( Maybe I shouldnt have done that(

Now, when he gets there they are dreading it. Their sales defenses go up and sometimes they dont even open
the door. Or, if they do open the door they mentally check out and coast through the pitch while looking at the
clock wondering when the dude is gonna give up and leave.
Every second he spends with THOSE prospects is absolute wasted and worthless time. Most salespeople take it
as the way it is or part of the numbers game.
Not our guy(
Heres what he didD He would set his appointments like he normally did.. BUT, a few days before hed call up
and tell them he couldnt make it at the scheduled time and asked if he could reschedule for another day-time.
See that? See what he did?
He is giving those people who had already regretted the original appointment a way out. They were the time
wasters anyway and werent going to buy anything.
This cleared his schedule to deal with people who were
actually interested in what he had to say!
What effect did this simple Strategic Change have in his life?
Well, for starts, it doubled his income. But, even more importantly, it decomplicated and destressed his life so
much that he actually started LOVING his job.
Plus, he started taking 3 day weekends so he could enjoy all his extra moolah.
A simple change in his Strategy was responsible for that and it came because someone who had been there gave
him a tiny bit of wisdom that shifted his focus and opened up new possibilities for him.
Would you like new possibilities in your life with women?
It doesnt start with new tactics or techniques( it starts with new Viewpoints and new Strategies.
I can help you with that(
Heres a new way:
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could do A LOT.
Heres the plan, I am going to do a monthly conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of
those minutes will be me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this whole Gaming
thing easier, funner and more effective. Its pretty safe to say that no one has the same perspective and ideas
about this stuff as I do.
The last 30 minutes of the call Ill answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the
Ive thought about charging monthly for this but Ive decided not to. Its a one-time payment for the full year. Thats
12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price Ive settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to
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The Same Old Seduction Shit?

Posted at March 13, 2009

Are you wondering if the stuff I sell is just the same old shit you can read on my blog for free?
If so, I have a way you can find it for sure if it is or isnt.
As you know Ive been selling the shit out of my Get a Girlfriend Teleseminar. Im doing that because I think it is
important for you to know this stuff. I have 13 signups. I want 20-25 because thats the biggest group I can
reasonably support through the learning process AND I feel like the more input from various PUAs we have the
better learning experience well all have(

I have a feeling that there are some of you out there on the fence. You are a bit worried that it wont be anything
but me repeating the same old stuff that is on my blog. If thats the case I want you to listen to the first call for free.
We had it Wednesday night.
But there are a few catches:
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2) Im going to ask that you enter into a Subscription via PayPal. You wont be charged anything for the first 9
days( but, if you dont cancel then you are agreeing to pay me $175 on the tenth day and another $175 30 days
3) You DO NOT share the conference call playback information with anyone at all.
The Second Call will be on 3/25.. that gives you time to listen to the first call, absorb it, do the homework and get
ready for the second call.
If you can agree to the points above, click the button below to start the free trial. Ill send you the conference call
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Ninja Focus (and, a brief history of Captain Jack)

Posted at April 4, 2009

Someone emailed me this quote by Priest. Not sure where it was posted so I havent gone there to respond
personally so Ill do it here.

CJ has magical powers that cannot be taught or learned.

He is very inconsistent depending on his current inner game state and level of AA but
when that motherfucker is on, he is an unstoppable rebel force that NOBODY can touch.
I dont care who we are talking about.
I miss the Pirate King! Priest
Aw shucks( You are making me blush. But, I want to point a few things out(

magical powers that cannot be taught or learned

This is not true. There are a few things I do that cannot be taught or learned EXCEPT in person. But, 80% of the
results come from the Sexual Framing ideas Ive been shouting from my blog for a couple of years. The things I
would show someone in person are specific corrections applied to their specific problems. Id have to see it
happening IN SET with my own two eyes before I could even begin to recommend a fix.
In fact, the recent Sexual Framing Mastery teleconferences have yielded over 20 new lays for the PUAs on the
calls in the first 4 weeks. (I stopped counting at 19). Most of the lays were SNLs.
Id like to tackle the statement

He is very inconsistent depending on his current inner game state and level of AA
The only thing inconsistent about my game is whether I open or not. When I open I am extremely consistent.
While AA has plagued me in the past it is really not a huge deal for me now. Sometimes it is there full force just
like the first few times I even opened a girl and other times it is gone entirely for days or weeks.
Id say most of the time it is at about 20-25% the intensity as when I first started. Easily overcome by the decision
to just do it.
AA is sort of like the monster in the closet you imagined as a kid. It scared the shit out of you but once you got up,
flicked the closet light on and flung the door open, the fear disappeared completely and you felt kind of silly for
getting so worked up about it.
Same thing with AA. Once you get about halfway to the hottie, pick your opener and start talking the AA melts
away and you wonder what was so hard about the whole thing.
Ive spent a lot of time thinking about and experimenting with AA and getting rid of it. Some people have it, some
people dont. The fact that some people DO NOT have it means there IS a way not to have it.
It doesnt bother me so much anymore and I have about 5 ways to make it disappear when I feel it starting.
The other part about my Inner Game(

I dont consider this to be much of a problem either. My main problem at this point is overall lack of desire.
Something happens when you know, when you are truly convinced, you can have sex with as many girls as you
Then you start asking questions like,
Why am I still devoting so much time and energy to this?
What is having sex with another 5 or 6 girls this month really going to do for me?
Who am I doing it for?
When I first started Gaming I felt pretty powerless and clueless. I felt like I was on the outside. Finding Mystery
Method gave me a feeling of power.
I went wild with it. There was no one to hang with so I had to be my own worst critic, my own coach, my own
support system.
I focused like a sniper on targets.
When I latched on to them, I held on like a boa constrictor.
And, I got blown out( a lot.
Id sit down at 2:30am from the club and write field reports. I reran the entire night in my imagine. I burned it into
my mind. Replayed certain sets over and over again to see what I missed. To try to get the scenario from HER
viewpoint. How did I appear to her? What would she have to believe about me, about the situation to say what
she did?
I read other FRs and LRs. I compared them with mine. I tried to imagine the scenarios. I imagined what Id do
differently. Id try to predict what would come next.
Time disappeared.
The glimmer of the sun coming up in my peripheral vision was the only thing that broke my trance.
But, I didnt care( Every new waypoint, every new TimeBridge, every new Pull filled me with feelings of relief,
excitement and possibility.
The lays started piling up. I loved it.
This is Ninja Focus. It is a decision. I DECIDE, I CHOOSE to focus on this( I decide to absorb myself. I decide
to throw myself into this, as much as I can, for as long as I can. You might have to let a few things go for a little
while. Less video games. Less aimless Internut stumbling. Less boob tube.
But, itll pay off. Itll bleed over to other areas of your life too. Focus is a decision first and then takes practice. I
look at practice as re-deciding continuously.
The last 6 or so lays have happened so naturally and smoothly it really seems too easy. They seem almost like
flukes. I cant really write LRs for them because they are so strange. It is almost like we both know we are going
to have sex and everything else is filler. I hardly even talk. They talk 70% of the time. Sixty-percent of that is
Ive thought about just going nuts. Stringing together 20 lays in a month. I can do it. My blood begins to get hot.
My pulse races a bit. I get excited. But, then it goes away after about a minute.
One-hundred (or more) hours of my life( gone.
What for?
I know I can do it. Im not trying to prove anything. I dont really care who does or doesnt think Im the best PUA. I
dont feel this lack of approval from women anymore. I dont feel like Im on the outside.
I feel pretty damn good. Actually, I feel amazing.
Captain Jack
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and ideas on Game? There is only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to really
flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I
could do A LOT.
Heres the plan, I am going to do a monthly conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of
those minutes will be me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this whole Gaming
thing easier, funner and more effective. Its pretty safe to say that no one has the same perspective and ideas
about this stuff as I do.
The last 30 minutes of the call Ill answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the

Ive thought about charging monthly for this but Ive decided not to. Its a one-time payment for the full year. Thats
12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price Ive settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to
$295.00 for the year.
The calls will be recorded and transcribed in case you miss them, or youre in Europe, Asia or Africa where the
calls will likely be at an inconvenient time.
You can sign up by pushing the button below.

Attract Women: Gun to the Head Gaming

Posted at April 22, 2009

Hola Numbnuts(
Imagine this: You are sitting on your couch eating Bon-Bons with your eyes laser locked on Oprah when you hear
a crack, the door flies open and 3 goons rush towards you.
You hurl your bon-bons at the goons but it doesnt even faze them.
Next thing you know there is a gun pointed at your temple and one of them says, Is this the guy? The other
looks at a photograph and says, Hes not wearing the feather boa, jade necklace and high heels like in his
MySpace profile but yeah, Id say it is him.
One of them says, Look, Mr. Pua guy, you go out tonight and have sex with a girl or were going to shoot you in
the face.
Gun to the head. Shot in the face.
Do you go out and do the same thing you always do?
Do you do a few laps around the bar, have a few drinks, hover a few times, look for the perfect opening?
Not unless you enjoy face shootings.
What WOULD you do differently?
Heres what Id do(
1. Dress like almost everyone else but a tad better.
2. Get to the bar early. I want to get there about 10-15 minutes before the crowd does. I want to chat with the
bartender a minute, chat with a waitress or two for a minute before they get ridiculously busy. Get the ol mouth
movin a bit.
3. Approach as soon as possible. Even if it is Hows it going?
4. Watch the girls who have wandering eyes. They are looking for something.
5. Approach the girls who make eye contact.
6. Never leave a set until a few minutes after Ive TimeBridged.
7. Set the sexual frames early.
8. Ask her Whats on the agenda for later?
This one needs some explaining. A lot of PUAs think this is about Logistics. It isnt. In fact, Logistics arent nearly
as important as everyone believes. Shocking? Not really.
Imagine this( you have plans to go bowling tonight. Its Tuesday, you almost always go bowling on Tuesdays.
One of your buddies calls you up and says,
Buddy: Whats going on man?
You: Not much, just going to go bowling later, have a few beers, see if I can top my Galaga score.
Buddy: Sounds cool. Well, would you like to get together and sew a little bit( maybe share our feelings and
You: Umm( Well( I always bowl on Tuesdays( kinda my normal thing and uh(
But, what if Buddy called you up and said, Dude( These concert tickets just fell into my lap and blah, blah,
Do you think thatd change things a bit?
Logistics matter LESS and LESS the more interested and turned on she is( I used to let logistics derail me. Now,
I hardly even pay attention.
Can they fuck you up? Sure. They used to fuck me up all the time. Then, I discovered Drunk-n-Lonely Texting.

Focus on getting her to really, really see you as a liberator of her sexual frustrations and SHE will handle the
logistics for you.
The purpose of the question is to establish in her mind that you have probably sexual intent AND you are seeking
a way to create an opportunity.
9. After you have 3 or 4 TimeBridges set up, focus on the one who seems like your best shot. This is always a
little bit of a crap shoot BUT your Intuition will grow with time.
10. Tell her she is sexy and that her mannerisms are driving you crazy. Use a Bounce statement about 30 minute
prior to close.
11. If she doesnt take the Bounce invitation, walk her to the car. Get in and say you are going to talk to her a bit.
Make out with her.
12. Tell her you are not sure you can drive home and ask her if she would mind, Its just right down the street.
(Ive used this a billion times for venues that are 30-45 minutes away! Haa!)
12b. As she is driving mass text the other girls and say, Hey sexy just in case this one does leave you after
dropping you off. This will increase the possibility of another honey coming over thus DECREASING the chance
of you getting shot in the face.
13. As shes driving begin using one or two word commands interspersed with normal conversation. Turn here.
Go left. when you get to your place say, Park here. I like to use stop signs and stop lights as a chance to make
14. Come in and get some water before you head back.
15. Get her some water, tell her where the bathroom is( while shes in the bathroom put on a DVD. I like
Wedding Crashers or, South Park: The Return of the Fellowship of the King to the Two Towers because it is
sexual in nature and hilariously funny.
16. Have her sit down on your coach. Make small talk 3-5 minutes. Kiss her again.
17. Begin escalating heavy.
18. Push her away and tell her she is naughty for doing this to you.
19. Escalate more. Spank her. Tell her she is bad. Ask her what she is doing to you.
20. Make sweet love.
Send her on her way, And( try not to think about me constantly as you pull her hair and kiss her deeply again.
Go into your closet and get your Flame Thrower. Wait for the knock on the door. When the Goons rush in, fling
your used condom at them and then use the Flame Thrower to set them all on fire. This should make your point in
a fairly dramatic way.
Captain Jack
P.S. I thought about using the Grenade Launcher instead of the Flame Thrower. But, I felt like Grenade Launcher
was a little too obvious. I feel Flame Thrower gives that extra little bit of twist.

CaptainJack says:
April 22, 2009 at 9:29 pm

I've probably thought about, tested, retested, talked about, theorized, and banged my head against the wall more
than anyone on SNLs( that ends up giving you a lot of clarity on the subject.
Especially after you get good at debriefing girls and they just can't for the life of them understand why they can't
get more guys to do this to them.

Gun to the Head: Charred Remains Checklist

Posted at April 24, 2009

After charring your doubters with the flamethrower youll probably want to get some fresh air and reflect.
What if you are not as good as Sinn or El Topo (yet!) and you DID NOT get a Same Night Lay?

Well, now its time for some Brutal Honesty. Use this checklist to hold your ass to the fire. This is the time to be
honest and real about your effort level and whether or not you have your shit together.
When performance is measured, performance improves. When performance
is measured and reported back, the rate of improvement accelerates. Thomas Monson
Use a checklist to help you measure your work rate.
1. How many sets did I open? (If its less than 3 per hour then you MUST increase your work rate)
2. Of those sets, how many did I open with the INTENTION of taking it as far as I could?
3. When something didnt go as I planned, did I take it the wrong way?
4. Did I latch on to conversational threads that didnt serve me?
5. Did I leave before attempting a TimeBridge?
6. Of the TimeBridges I attempted, how many times did I meekly put it out there instead of really making an effort
to pull her out of the current time/place and into the future with me?
7. Did I make it clear to her friends who I was gaming?
8. Did I tell them I liked her and thought she was cool?
9. Did I ever get out of my head and attempt a REAL connection with the woman in front of me?
10. Did I set sexual frames and show that I valued her sexuality as well as my own?
11. Did I show her I was interested in making something happen very soon?
12. Did I tell her I liked her (lips/hair/certain mannerism/smell)? Did I tell her I thought she was sexy?
13. How many times did I attempt the Bounce?
14. Did I attempt a kiss close?
15. Did she give me any openings (conversationally) that I missed? Like a compliment? Or, a hint that she was
open for something happening?
16. Did I miss her qualifying herself before I even tried to qualify her?
17. Did I drunk-n-lonely text about 10 minutes after close?
What is measured improves.
Captain Jack
P.S. Im starting the Master Strategies Monthly Teleseminar soon( details below.

CaptainJack says:
April 27, 2009 at 4:03 pm

The TimeBridge is for another day/time. Most people think it is to set up an actual date. It's more about changing
the dynamic of the interaction. I noticed when I set TimeBridge's it made SNLs (and Dates that were little more
than come over, hangout, have sex) much, much easier.
My thinking is because the TB answers the nagging question in her mind (if she likes you) of Will I see him
I believe it also has a little bit of a Time Distortion effect AND makes you seem a little more real as a person
because they've had to imagine you and her together in the future.
There's also Cialdini's Commitment and Consistency Principle( all that from a little invitation!!!

Audio Clip: Someday, Maybe

Posted at April 28, 2009

Here is a little audio clip from the Get a Girlfriend Teleseminar where I am instructing the guys about a mental
pattern that sucks the life out of you and kills your aliveness. There had been a lot of discussion and chiming in
but during this 7 minutes you couldve heard a pin drop.
Someday, Maybe( Kills Your Aliveness.

The Pain of Getting Good

Posted at May 3, 2009

Ever since The Game and Vh1 show, Its been more difficult for me, and I assume, all the other PUAs who help
other PUAs, to find out who is really serious or not( and thus, who to really help or ignore(
Before Neils book and the VH1 show, we could be pretty damn certain that anyone coming to us for help came
from a pretty intense PAIN that drove you to do an INTERNET SEARCH on how to pick up girls.
This PAIN drove you to do novel things like go out and actually OPEN sets( memorize routines( digest material
and so forth.
Now, it seems too many want to dress the part, throw out vocab and spout theory.
But, the TRUTH is The Game is played in the field.
Its not played in your head.
Its not played in a Lair meeting with you dueling other posers in a Pick-up themed Jeopardy match.
In the field( where all the girls are.
Are you playing the Game? Or, are you waiting, wishing and hoping that knowledge will make you feel better?
It wont. You feel how you feel.
Describe that feeling however you want( Fear, scared, worried, excited, approach anxiety, whatever(
acknowledge it and open anyway.
Go earn your stripes.
I know it sucks. You want it to be different, you want it to be easier. You want the perfect saying or idea or thought
to make it all better.
Yeah, so do all the guys in their rooms masturbating to FHM and Maxim.
Revel in the pain, feel it, acknowledge it, curse that it is the way it is, and go open anyway, thats where the
growth is(
Captain Jack

Crush Mental Barriers To Change The Way You See

Posted at May 9, 2009

I had a few people email me and facebook message me wondering what happened to this audio. I decided to take
it down while attending two Seminars back-to-back. During the seminar/retreats you arent allowed to use
computers and have very limited internet access so if someone had tech issues I wouldnt be able to help them.
Heres the original post:
Sticking Point Analysis gives you a systematic, methodical way to incrementally increase your Game. It starts at
the level of behavior and works backwards.
But, there is another approach that I think is even more powerful. I give it credit for the paradigm shifts in my
The problem is( I dont know how to describe it to you. I dont know how to put it in a blog post. It revolves
around the use of language and how our past dictates what behaviors we can even SEE as possibilities.
In every single moment you have infinite choice. What causes you to go down the same path? What causes you
to choose the words and actions you do?
Why do PUAs consistently miss the BLARING interest signals of the HBs they talk to? Why do some people get
it and their Game takes off like a rocket, while others languish for years?
I GUARANTEE you have never heard or seen anything like this in The Community. I consider it to be 1000x more
important than Sticking point Analysis or Sexual Framing.

Heres what someone emailed me recently after hearing my 2 hour presentation and discussion with other PUAs
on a Teleseminar about this methodology.

Just wanted to let you know I just finished listening to the audio and I am 100% sure that was the
most important 2 hours of my life. No exaggeration. That was not at all what I was expecting to
start off with and am very very happy.
I took 9 pages of notes over the 2 hours. I cannot believe all the dating science people do not make
you start out with this subject OR JUST IGNORE IT. This is really the first I have heard about it and I
consider myself well read on dating science.
I would almost bet that you get excited when you find a new racket to crush. I am on a ton of
antidepressants about my wife leaving in October and have been pushing it back in my mind
(unseen/unspoken) as much as possible but am excited about doing the exercises and getting it out
into the open! I know it will help a ton. I almost dont want to go out tomorrow night to bars/clubs
and just do the exercises!

I just wish I would have discovered this sooner. If I would have had this before
bootcamp. wow. Thank you. I cant wait for the rest. I am sure I have a ton of rackets
and cant wait to crush them.
I am very excited about the generative statements exercise. I consider myself the typical tall dark
and handsome guy, 26 years old, have a powerful respectable job, have ambitions, and decently
social. I am NOT getting laid at ALL! Barely kissing girls in bars That is some shit I am going to have
to crush. I know now that this path I am taking is going to get me to where I want to be. I know I
have all the skills to be with the hottest girls just if I apply myself.
Thanks so much. I have never thought like this at all. It kind of feels like the Matrix.
Thanks again!
What if you had a way to discover the patterns that have been invisibly holding you back, bring them
to light, examine them and then crush them?
With each pattern that is crushed you will find yourself spontaneously moving in the right direction
becoming aware of new possibilities and being FREE to move into those directions.
This is NOT standard self-help stuff either. You wont find it in any self-help book. Nor is it New Age
If you want the presentation on this new methodology and one month of email support from me to
help you implement it in your life, simply click the button below.
It costs $99.00 and if you dont think it lives up to the hype or, Ive misled you in any way you can
ask for a refund. The audio will begin to download immediately after the PayPal transaction is

CaptainJack says:
May 30, 2009 at 8:21 pm

I've made a commitment to help as many guys as I can in the next year or two. So there will be even more offers
to learn my ideas.
The people who do buy make great strides in effectiveness. Though I do NO advertising of any kind my
readership has shot up since I started selling more. My email unsubscription rates haven't increased noticeably in
my weekly aweber reports either.
The way I look at it is if more people are reading, sending me result emails and so forth I am on the right track.

I am no longer concerned or committed to people who don't have enough interest (or need) in Pick-up to invest
their time, effort and money producing results.
Captain Jack

CaptainJack says:
June 4, 2009 at 4:28 pm

Not exactly, it's on the first audio of the GAGF program. The GAGF has 3 other audios with it AND a one-to-one
phone consult.
Also, I don't have you in my records as having purchased either one so how would you know?

Intention, Commitment and Measuring to Improve.

Posted at May 30, 2009

I got back 6 days ago from 10 full days of continuous mind-melting exposure to new paradigms of thinking and
being. We worked from 8am to about 10:00 (sometimes later) every night. It was awesome! Ive done this a few
times now and each time I get a HUGE boost in my life.
Im now closer to my Mom, my Sister, Dad and children even though I thought things were great to begin with( I
walk with a LOT more confidence. I speak my mind a lot more freely, have become a lot more persuasive and a
bunch of other things I dont have enough space to mention. I have a genuine love for ALL people I encounter(
And, I am MUCH, MUCH happier each and every moment and I rest in (or on) a background of peacefulness and
expanded awareness.
Like I said, Its awesome!
Im gearing up for the Master Strategies Teleconference series and I know its going to be killer.
One of the keys to effectiveness is strong Commitment and Intention.
Once upon a time when I was in college this hot girl waved at me on campus as we were walking towards each
other and I slowed down to see what was what( She was carrying a few folders and books in her arms and a
huge smile seemed permanently plastered on her face.
She asked me what class I was going to( then, what sports I liked( where I was born and what I did in my
spare time. About halfway through our conversation I got the sense something strange was going on. I stuck
around though (she was hot) to see where it would lead.
After telling her what I did in my spare time she enthusiastically whipped this flyer out of her book and said, Were
having this contest and the winner gets to go to Hawaii. Im ALMOST in the lead and the contest ends soon. Will
you help me win? All you have to do is subscribe to magazines( You told me you like x, y, z( we have
magazines in those areas(.
Suddenly, she was a LOT less attractive. I couldnt get away fast enough.
Slimy, eh?
Many in the Community suggest you shouldnt go out to try to get laid because it reeks of desperation or
neediness and girls can sense that right away. Instead, what they suggest is you go out and be the social guy and
wait to see if she likes you.
It comes across to me much like the girl in my story (Yuck) because no matter how much you pretend( you ARE
going out to get laid.
It IS true that many women can sense neediness, but going out to get laid doesnt mean you have
desperation or neediness.
Desperation or neediness comes from wanting something but feeling you cant really have it OR the feeling you
must give up your values to get it.

You can go out with the intention of getting laid WITHOUT being needy. Neediness does NOT automatically
follow the intention to get laid. Neediness is an internal state or belief system that exists because of the habit of
disapproving of yourself.
Guys who dont go out with the intention of getting laid dont get laid.
I even go so far as to imagine what it would be like with her while Im talking to her. I allow myself to feel SEXUAL
(not horny) as Im talking to her and even as Im approaching.
There are others who suggest only focusing on the things you can control. I may have said something like that in
the past because it sounds like a good idea. But, I dont agree with that anymore.
Now, I say you MUST set goals and measure things you cant control.
Lets dig a little deeper into this(
You cant actually control if a girl sleeps with you or not. You CAN set a goal to open 25 sets. BUT, you need to
measure and STAT how many of those sets resulted in a lay otherwise your goal is meaningless. If you arent
doing measuring (at least mentally) then you dont have a basis of improvement.
Any Game has defined results, measures and stats.
The result is a verbal description of the games objective. The measure is what can be seen/observed in reality,
meaning you observed it did happen or didnt happen. The stat represents the measure as a numerical fact.
You want your results, measures and stats to be TRACEABLE to WINNING the Game.
Here is an example:
Result: Captain Jack has sexual relationship with 10 new hotties this month.
Measure: Female gets penetrated by GIGANTOR(TM)
Stat: No. of females penetrated.
Okay, got it?
Now, in this Game there are other measures and stats as well:
Measure: Female agrees to TimeBridge.
Stat: % of females who agreed.
(For me personally, if I go a long time with less than 40-50% of the girls saying yes to the TB I know something is
off in my initial presentation and I need to examine it. This doesnt mean all the TBs will HAPPEN only that they
agreed to it at the time I put out the invitation.)
Im not saying that you power up excel and type this shit in a spreadsheet by any means( what Im talking about
is a mindset and commitment to measuring for the purpose of improving.
You dont get the results by committing only to what YOU can physically do because it is incomplete in the realm
of effectiveness. Do you get to write a Lay Report after saying, Well, I opened 25 sets this weekend. I cant
control anything else but at least I met my goal.
That is completely backward. You keep the end goal in mind and keep intelligently analyzing and varying your
behavior until you get closer and closer.
Imagine a salesperson going to his boss and saying, Well, I know I got 0 sales this quarter instead of at least 30
like everyone else but I cant control that( I made 200 calls and that was my goal.
Then, imagine that salesperson with a box of all the shit on his desk stuffed into it as he takes an elevator ride
down to the street because that is what would likely happen.
My main point is in order to WIN the game you are going to have to set goals for things which are considered
outside your control. But, you still need to set the goal if you want to master this area of your life.
Set your Intention and Commitment to win the Game( measure it and be aware of your stats so you can improve
each and every time you go out.
And, if you think you might be putting out a creepy vibe read this: Low Self-Approval or Low Self-Esteem?
Captain Jack
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CaptainJack says:
June 14, 2009 at 12:16 pm

Hey Bolo, don't worry about it( You are designed to be a father.
Set aside specific blocks of time to be with them and when you are with your child focus on him/her 100%
when you make decisions about your future, keep them squarely in mind.

Elephants, Monkeys and RecordedVoice

Posted at June 8, 2009

If youve done almost ANY success, motivation or self-help reading youve probably come across the example of
the baby elephant and the rope.
They say that the Elephant trainer keeps the baby elephant in place by driving a large stake in the ground and ties
a rope to one of its hind legs. While the Elephant is a baby it isnt strong enough to pull up the stake even though
it tries with all its might. Eventually, the baby Elephant realizes it cannot escape from the binding rope and gives
The story goes that even when the Baby Elephant grows into a ginormous Adult Elephant it never pulls the stake
out, even though with its adult strength it could pull it out easily. Im not sure if the idea is that the Elephant never
even tries, it just doesnt occur to him or the mental idea that it cant affects its performance.
Im not an elephant trainer so I have no idea if the anecdote is accurate but the idea behind it seems to be the
case for most adults.
A principle of hypnosis is that the first time you encounter an idea it has the appearance of being true and it goes
right into the unconscious mind unhindered because there is nothing else to compete with it.
I like the Elephant story but it only partly explains lack of real, lasting change. It would be easy enough for a
FREED elephant to go and communicate to the bound elephant that there is a way to freedom. The Elephant
could easily say, Dude( what are you doing with that rope around your leg? Man, dont you know you can just
tug and be free like me? Im about to head down to the river and go swimming( eat some peanuts, perhaps lay
out and do some tanning. Pull out that stake and lets go!
With a bit of coaching that bound elephant (provided it is willing to try on the possibility and follow instructions)
would become free. In a few years, circus would be devoid of elephants.
But, it doesnt really seem to happen this way.
Why not?
The answer lies in an experiment involving monkeys, cold water and bananas.
This is a quote from Put Your Dream to the Test by John C. Maxwell:

Business professors Gary Hamel and C. K. Prahalad wrote about an experiment

conducted with a group of monkeys. Four monkeys were placed in a room that had a
tall pole in the center. Suspended from the top of that pole was a bunch of bananas. One
of the hungry monkeys started clibming the pole to get something to eat, but just as he
reached out to grab a banana, he was doused with a torrent of cold water. Squealing,
he scampered down the pole and abandoned his attempt to feed himself. Each monkey
made a similar attempt, and each one was drenched with cold water. After making
several attempts, they finally gave up.
Then researchers removed one of the monkeys from the room and replaced him with a
new monkey. As the newcomer began to climb the pole, the other three grabbed him
and pulled him down to the ground. After trying to climb the pole several times and
being dragged down by the others, he finally gave up and never attempted to climb the
pole again.
The researchers replaced the original monkeys, one by one, with new ones, and each
time a new monkey was brought in, he would be dragged down by the others before he
could reach the bananas. In time, only monkeys who had never received a cold shower
were in the room, but none of them would climb the pole. They prevented one another
from climbing, but none of them knew why.

This same dynamic functions in humans but with a twist. We dont climb poles to get bananas. We set goals and
work towards them. We imagine a better life and set about creating it.
We do get pulled down but not physically. Others MAY try to pull us down with words but most people are
perceptive enough and strong enough to discount that form of pull down.
The way this pull down manifests is much more insidious, it appears in what is alluded to but rarely ever
verbalized( it appears symbolically in societys art, film, stories and sayings and as presuppositions embedded in
language. Since it exists in this way it is very difficult to discriminate and decide NOT to allow it into the mind.
Im calling it RecordedVoice. The mind gets these concepts unconsciously. Then, when you decide to become
more or better or transform yourself the desire to do this activates the hidden ideas giving it a voice in your mind.
The problem is( You think it is YOUR voice. You think it is YOUR thinking. It has the appearance of your voice,
your thoughts, your thinking, your deduction( but its not.
It isnt you.
It is the mind giving Voice to the deep impressions that society has passed onto you. Becoming aware of
RecordedVoice and what powers it gives you the chance to enter into greater freedom and more effectiveness.
Disabling RecordedVoice disappears limitations and puts you more in touch with your true, unlimited nature. You
are more free to act, to choose and to be what you want to be.
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CaptainJack says:
June 9, 2009 at 12:27 am

Gotcha. The meanings they are meant to convey is still something I believe. The elephant story is about personal
mental limitations, the monkeys about societal limitations.
Those stories could be easily swapped for real life stories from thousands upon thousands of individuals who
bucked personal mental limitations and society's programming to overcome and create better lives for

7 Ways to Bust Yourself Out of a Pick-up Slump

Posted at June 15, 2009

It happens to all of us sometime.

Your best lines fall flat.
Time Bridges get declined.
Phone numbers blur(
and, before you know it youve gone weeks without making the Beast with Two Backs.
You begin to sweat a little. Shit, was the run just a bit of luck? Have I lost IT?
No worries, man. Even top pro athletes go through slumps. Heres what Ive done in the past to bust myself out of
pick-up slumps:
1. Take a bit of time off.
You may have depleted your mental and physical energy, especially if youre doing the extremely hard club/bar
scene. Irregular sleep patterns. Too many patron shots. Taking the girl to IHOP and stuffing yourself full of bacon,
eggs and pancakes( and, then getting an hour of LMR. Get some sleep. Go outside during the day and
rediscover what things look like when illuminated by the Sun.
2. Redo your stack.

I remember Sinn and I both being in a slump about the same time once. We instinctively began examining our
status quo stacks and started dumping certain items and replacing them with other things that had worked in the
past. After about an hour we both had fresh stacks, got a little rest, and went on a 5-day run of glory.
3. Kill a Sacred Cow.

You know that principle or idea of Gaming that you think is The Truth. ??? Kill it. Whatever it
is, and do something else, maybe even the complete opposite. If your Sacred Cow is Indirect stop it for awhile
and go Direct. If your Sacred Cow is Ive got to be a bad boy, mix it up and dress like a good boy for a few nights.
Mix it up. Kill the Sacred Cow, at least for a few days to see what happens. (I do this Kill a Sacred Cow
technique quite often.)
4. Have Someone You Trust (Who Actually Gets Laid) Give You Some Feedback.
The key in that phrase is Who Actually Gets Laid. They might be able to spot something or simply ask you
questions about what is going on that could jar you into something new/novel to try. Of course, if you dont have
someone in your life like that, you might resort to a tape recorder. (Come to think of it, you could do that anyway).
5. Use Sticking Point Analysis.
If youve read this blog for any amount of time youre probably tired of hearing about it but its simplicity and
effectiveness is proven. If youre new here hit the Youtube button on the right hand side of the screen.
6. Go Freestyle.
Go out with No Agenda, No Stack and No Pressure. Just hang out. Talk to friends if theyre there. Talk to people if
you want but be totally ok with just being there. If you get the sudden urge to Game do it, if not then chill. If you
DO Game then dont use your normal routine stack( just chat, get as far as you can with playful small talk and
genuine interest.
7. Put Your Back Against the Wall
Anytime Im working on SNL Game and I hit a slump the FIRST thing I do is delete all my female numbers. All of
them, including FBs( no one is spared. NO ONE. Man, come to think of it I do this even when Im not in a slump.
This frees you up a bit. You cant fall back on texting girls and trying to set up dates( you cant booty text( its
either get some new opportunities in a hurry or start stocking up on the vitamin E lotion.
Realize slumps dont last forever. Try a few of these slump busters and youll get back in the groove.
If you have a favorite method for getting out of a slump let me and all the other PUAs know in the comments.
The REAL Captain Jack

Lay Report: Last Call

Posted at July 3, 2009

Its been a while since Ive written a Lay Report. One reason is because I dont really learn much from writing
them down anymore. At first, when you are learning and practicing a lot it is GREAT, Id say even required, in
order to get really good.
Anyway, I had a meeting from 7:00-10:00 and met Printer at the standard Thurs. night venue. I think that was the
first time Ive been there since last November.
Surprisingly, I didnt recognize many people. Theres been a pretty good amount of turnover, which is good.

Printer does his thing of handing me double shots all night long, primarily because I do funny and stupid shit when
Im drunk. Case in point: We were in Scottsdale Az and about 20 minutes to close I walk over and start talking to
a cute girl. She was interested and then abruptly left.
Printer said she looked real interested and asked me what happened. She abruptly left after I said, Girl, gimme a
sample of what youre samplin
I guess she thought it was crude or something. I simply meant I wanted to bone her. (Girls are so complicated.)
I dont do shit for the first 2 hours there except bullshit with Printer and one of his friends. Printer leaves with an
FB and I feel like a tool just standing around so I start throwing out LIOs and even using Situationals to practice
gauging initial interest and then picking up from where we are in agreement (of sexual interest) and moving from
there forwards. (You can actually erase it by keeping your communication at a lesser level of male-female sexual
dynamic( then it is a bit harder to get back because there is already an established pathway between you two to
move downwards on the sexual dynamic.)
It is actually kind of fun to do this( I think in large part because the level of significance Im placing on the
interaction is much less.
I situationally open a blonde milf. She is wearing those kind of shirts that are elastic waist band on the top that
sort of rest on top of the breast. The thin shirt material then drapes over the breats and tightens again at the waist.
She isnt wearing a bra and her breasts are big and bouyant. Her nips are hard.
(GIGANTOR begins to stir a bit.)
However, this is where Printers get CJ drunk so he is amusing kicks in full force as you will see.
CJ: Patron shots? You are bad, bad, bad.
MILF: I know, my last one, Im driving.
CJ: Does she know that guy? (Im referring to a guy in the set who is creepily all over her hot friend.)
MILF: Theyre married. Whats your name?
CJ: Omigod, you have a little country accent!
MILF: Really? Ive never been told that( I went to a catholic school and we were taught proper english.
CJ: Catholic girl! Really? You should leave right now( All the catholic girls Ive known have been into bondage(
tied up, handcuffs
MILF: What?
*** cue dumb drunkeness ***
CJ: Handcuffs, handcuffs, handcuffs. You like to be handcuffed. You know, handcuffs! (It was real loud so I
thought she couldnt hear me, thus the repetition! Oh yeah, the alcohol probably had a little to do with it, too).
MILF looks at me weird.
I manage to partially recover. A few minutes later her friend gets her attention and they walk away. She doesnt
look back.
Two girls stroll by. I forgot what I opened them with but they are both attentive from the get-go. The slightly cuter
one gets asked to dance by some guy.
I remember telling her she was tiny. She responds well and I use that to get her giggly. I ask her things like,
When you go to a restaurant do you get a booster seat or climb up into a big people chair?
She is giggling hardcore so I tell her I like girls who laugh at my jokes.
She says no one has ever said stuff like that to her before.
Strawberry fields.
She number closes me as we are being kicked out of the bar.
HB: Sooo( are you going to call me?
CJ: Were here together right now. Drive me to my car.
She drives me over and we make out for quite a bit.
The cops actually shine flashlights on us through the window and tell us to leave.
CJ: That sucks, Im still having fun. Come to my place. I dont have alcohol but I have water, Coke Zero or tea.
She follows me. I put on knocked up dvd and escalate on the couch.
Seems too easy, doesnt it? It is that easy sometimes. Knowing where she is at in the interaction is one of the
things that separates the advanced PUA from the intermediate. The Intermediate wouldve set the Timebridge

and then pushed too hard or too soft to get a bounce. He wouldve wasted time and put sexual vibe in jeopardy by
withdrawing sexual intention while running comfort.
The problem with most peoples calibration skills is that they are calibrating to the wrong thing. You dont calibrate
to attraction or whether or not she likes you or whether or not she is paying attention. You calibrate to whether or
not she becomes more engaged when you are sending sexual communication.
If you are aware of where she is then it becomes easy to just gently lead, baby-steps along a gradual incline.
Captain Jack

CaptainJack says:
July 16, 2009 at 12:07 am

LIO = Low Investment Opener( it's serves as a way to warm up and get extroverted. It is also a quick way to
gauge the openness of the Target. I like to use them because too much investment early on can lead to nowhere

Do the Drills to Get the Skills

Posted at July 16, 2009

I still hate to see it. Seems like every couple of weeks I get a guy who emails me about my stuff and asking if it
can help him.
He rattles off all the stuff hes done previously( product after product, guru after guru. Hes desperate( he just
wants to be able to have a normal sex life. Please help?!
A quick question shows THE problem( How many sets do you open per night? How many nights do you go out
to practice? Do you have a Plan?
Usually, silence follows or some excuse.
If any of you are stuck in this pattern let me put it to you this way( More knowledge, a different style, better
routines WILL NOT help. Youve got to do the drills to get the skills. You already know enough.
Look at every piece of pick-up data as an INPUT to a skill that you are going to drill.
Making eye contact is a skill.
Opening is a skill.
Moving a set or a girl is a skill. (Promenading is the best version of this).
TimeBridging is a skill (maybe the second most important one).
Push/Pull is a skill.
You need to design drills for each one and do the drills. When you run into trouble its ALMOST NEVER the
CONTENT of the communication, it is almost always the timing or structure (sometimes the delivery).
When is the last time you said, Tonight, I am going to promenade 2 girls. Heres how Im going to do it( Right
after I run the Best Friends Test Im going to say, Hey, you two are awesome( lets go meet my friends. Then,
Ill put my arms out and motion for them to hook elbows with me.
(I used to have a saying that if you promenaded 3 girls in a venue you were pretty much guaranteed to get laid.
That was based on personal experience!!!)
Drills Give You Control
The reason you want to do drills is because it gives you CONTROL.
Control Includes the ability to start a process, modify it in action and then stop it at will.
Unless you have tangible drills set up your only hope would be to do so much work that you get it at an
unconscious level. (If you ever do).
Athletes have drills because it gives them finer control of the processes in the game that increase their chances of

One thing that I have ultimate respect to both El Topo and Sinn for is their ability to get themselves to do crazy
El Topo talks about Sexually Transmitted Diseases in set and Ive seen Sinn run Huge Cock Game for almost 10
minutes straight to a bitchy 2set. Hed often finally blow them out by saying, So, I guess a blowjob is out of the
Those are crazy drills!
I dont know why they did it (Im guessing pure amusement had a lot to do with it) but the result is they got control
over spinning a set wildly out and then recovering. I used to completely stop talking in a set and wait for them to
re-initiate. Then, Id give one word answers. When I could sense they were about to leave Id extrovert again and
talk more. This data helped each of us with calibration in the future. Im sure both of them can see if a set is
starting to drift and can easily put it back on track. (Their track record proves it.)
Where to Start?!
That depends on you of course. You start with a little bit back of where you are( If you are decent at opening and
holding a set then commit to getting finite control over that AND THEN the very next smallest thing in the process.
In my eyes, that would be shifting to let the Target and the rest of the set know you are interested in her without
the shadow of a doubt.
If you can do that then Id say introing a Sexual Frame is next.
This is a game of having control over social interactions by having control over yourself in executing the
processes that we have empirically proven add up to sexual relationships.
You gotta do the drills to get the skills!
Captain Jack

Sex and the Ninja Lay Report: The Attack of

Posted at July 24, 2009

Love this blog as Ive mentioned before(

He posted an LR that shows a few cool things( I like how he showed appreciation of her sexual effect on him
while they were on the couch, how he diffused the situation as they were in the cab and what he did when he got
LMR. (By the way( hes officially CJ Trained!!!!)
Sex and the Ninja LR: The Attack of Blondzilla
P.S. If youve used some of my tech to get Lays and post them on a forum or blog let me know! LRs help others(
help your fellow man!

Fuck-up Report: The Hot Blond Animal Lover

Posted at July 31, 2009

Sinn wrote a Fuck-up Report recently and I realized its been awhile since Ive done so I thought Id throw it out
there as well. They are a bit cathartic, haa.
When I fuck up it is usually for one of two reasons: 1) I misinterpret a statement that shows interest and dont
acknowledge by reward or 2) I dont keep the Intention strong enough to keep things advancing forward and
through all the random shit that happens in field.
This particular fuck-up contained BOTH but I recovered from the first one.

After finishing eating dinner at a bar/restuarant I was debating what I wanted to do next, everything sounded
boring so I decided to hang out for a bit until I could decide( the bartendresses and the waittresses were just hot
enough to keep me there. (Notice the weak Intention?)
A Cougar sits right next to me even though there are 12 available seats nearby. I have a No Cougar policy
because I hate getting tricked. Hot body in clothes, soft stretch-markey, etc when out of clothes. (Ok, not
ENTIRELY true but its happened enough to me that I dont like the risk.)
She opens me and we chat. I figure there is no harm in Gaming her because its better than just sitting on your
In the middle of our conversation a hot MILF walks by and sits one seat away from her. I notice this and think at
some point I may try to get her involved in the convo.
Its so weird because I sometimes forget just how strong social proof is( as Im talking to the COUGAR the hot
bartenders and waitresses are giving me more (and longer) eye-contact.
Im getting a little bored with this conversation because she keeps bringing up the I was a gymnast back in the
day and Im amazed that Im still so flexible after all this time Thread( I keep trying to make eye contact with the
MILF but a complete Chode is talking to her so she is facing slightly to her left and away from me.
It turns out that the COUGAR is actually waiting for a younger dude (i.e 38 year old) who has not yet been scarred
as I have( he arrives and they start talking. I leave it be and silently pray for him.
They leave a few minutes later and that leaves only 2 seats between me and the Blonde MILF. The chode tried a
number close but got shot down fully and completely. He said something like, Well, if youre leaving soon Id like
to walk you out to your car and we can talk about maybe going on a date. (um, what?) to which she said, No,
thats ok. I think Im going to stay here instead. She was visibly creeped out at that point.
He left and I leaned over and opened her situationally about The Dog Whisperer. Id overheard her talking about
her dogs earlier.
She gets up and sits right next to me.
We immediately start talking about that for a bit. She asks what I do and that opens up my Advertising thread
which gets me into Psychology and eventually(
wait for it(
can you guess whats coming? (.
wait for it(.
Stawberry Fields!
Bet you didnt see that shit coming!
She asked me if I had to work in the morning. She asked me if I lived close by. She asked me what I was doing
the rest of the night. She asked me if I was looking for a relationship because she wasnt and shed just gotten out
of one.
I answer each one logically.
Somebody kill me.
She says, Maybe Ill see you again here sometime.
I say, Probably not. I dont ever come here.
She looks super-deflated and confused.
A few minutes later it dawns on me( shes been coming on to me for about 30 minutes and Ive been missing
them all( I try to repair but all momentum is gone.
Rust sucks. Ugg.
She was hot.
Captain Jack

FR: College Girls!

Posted at July 31, 2009

Okay, I NEVER write FRs anymore but this was a fun night, Ive been rusty and maybe it will help me a bit to get
some thoughts down on paper.

So Tribulus tells me about this new place that is PACKED with hot college girls. Hmm( Young, hot, college girls,
alcohol and me all in the same room. (See picture for my feelings on the subject!)

I get there about 10 and its pretty dead. Tribulus SWEARS that it was
good. Of course, I believe him but Im just not seeing it. Its happened to me MANY times, I go to a place where
its been full of hotties one night and then not another. Sucks! and I figure it may have happened here.
But, every few minutes a few HOT, HOT girls would stroll in( which would keep me in my spot.
By 11:00ish the quality is HIGH and quantity is building. Im rusty. It sucks. Im battling motivation issues.
AceOfHeartSS is there and its good to see him because he gets into set quickly and says other shit that makes
me laugh. Theres another guy there that I met recently through Tribulus. I dont know his secret community
name but hes cool to hang out with, too. With some work I think hell be good.
Tribulus intros a set by asking them if theyve ever taken the strawberry fields test and immediately hands off to
me. This super-hot blonde bites but her little friend says, I dont get it and walks off.
I tell the super hot blond that she is hitting on me. I tell her it would never work out between us. I tell her I go to
Austin (she is from UT-Austin) every few months and tell her the places I go. She loves those places, too.
Rings on Fingers.
I body rock in and out of her space.
After Rings on Fingers I do Thumb Wars and annihilate her. I make sure to make a big show of it by raising my
hands in victory. She wants another go so i destroy her little thumb again.
She asks me how old I am and I make her guess. Shes 21 and a half haa. The age difference makes her
EXTREMELY interested.
We talk a bit more and shes CONSTANTLY touching on me and play hitting me. I TB and get her number. Weve
texted back and forth and Im going to try to get her out on Sunday night. She goes back to Austin in a few weeks.
She mentions something about my age and if I want to get married in the future and I say, Oh god( my heart
just started beating( dont say relationship or commitment. I did it to block that option out of her mind since we
only have 3 weeks any holding out would suck, plus I dont want a relationship.
Probably couldve done that a bit better( I usually say something like, Im cool either way. Not looking for it(
not against it. I think a lot of people make a mistake and rush into things if theyre looking for that( I like to just let
whatever happens happen(
Some more banter and flirting and she is smiling and beaming the whole time.
She has to go the bathroom and says, Stay right here, Ill be back while touching my upper arm. (Naturally, her
fingers didnt touch because no human fingers could wrap around the guns.)
Im not gonna lie( her hotness threw me off my shit and I made the mistake of going back to the MM-based
adage of NOT being there when she got back.

I think that was dumb because Im so good at this stage of game and it was so ON that I had a REAL shot at
pulling her same night. I shouldve stayed with her and ran some more sexual framing, one or two heart melters
and the bounce invite.
Ah well( I still have the TB and shes responded to my s-fields callback text so Ive got a shot.
Next set: I open a girl with something situational( Its a short exchange because she is getting a bunch of drinks.
She makes eye contact and smiles as shes leaving with the drinks and I mentally decide to re-engage with full
intention if I see her again.
Next set: Tribulus does the s-fields intro again and immediately hands them off to me.
The girl is cute, not HOT, but certainly very cute. Its on from the beginning. Her friends are at a table across the
aisle and are watching like hawks. It turns out she is 21, a VIRGIN with some special signature virgin ring that she
shows me. She has a boyfriend back home AND an ex in the venue.
Despite all this she is all over me. Hands on my thighs, hands in my hand. I tell her that her dimples are driving
me crazy, etc, etc.
I tell her to forget about her bf and ex and concentrate on me. This heats her up a bit more.
I ran Rings on Fingers and thats when she showed me the special Keeping my legs closed for Jesus ring.
But, as DD says, Attraction isnt a Choice and its on( except for one little problem. Do I really want to invest time
in this? How fun could LMR from a virgin be?
Had I wanted to invest more time in this I wouldve had to run the Group Innoculation that I do(. For the most
part I dont do a lot of group handling. If you can get her interested SHE will do a better job of handling the group
than you could(
In order to insure this I say something like, Your friends seem cool. I have friends like that, too. We protect each
other. But, right now they are over there and were here. They dont know what Im feeling or what youre feeling
or what were feeling together. I like you and Im enjoying this a lot( They might try to break this up or whatever
to protect you so if they try then you have to let them know everythings cool and we like each other.
Final set of the night(
I open a SUPER hot brunette. We chat for a bit. Im not getting the responses I think I should( I sense she is
holding back a bit( the set swings wildly between super on and cold.
Im a little confused.
She gets distracted away by a friend and I hang back and watch. Then, I notice she is in the middle of a Jealousy
ALMOST impossible to break a girl out of the J-Thread.
When I get near her again she brightens up and waves. I go back in and decide itll be cool to at least try( I go
back and flirt a bit and tease some to loosen things up( I spin her and she loves it( I spin her again.
She starts asking questions to justify her attraction. I feel momentum building(
Unfortunately, its past 2am and we get herded out. I make a weak attempt at a TB but she says, I dont really
know you. Fair enough( I made a weak attempt AND it was hurried so I normally wouldnt have even tried. She
asks my first and last name and says, Ill facebook you I laugh and say, You wont remember. and lightly push
her away and walk off.
It sucks because I know under different circumstances I wouldve gotten her. Such is life.
Overall it was fun and good to be out.
Captain Jack

CaptainJack says:
August 2, 2009 at 6:27 pm

Once you two are in agreement that you like each other and you are going to see each other again I think it is
better to keep talking as long as you can( The more time you get with her when things are going great the more
you are assured you'll see her again.
I am very good at keeping things moving towards sex so it is better for me to be with her.

Opening and Social Proof versus Player in the

Posted at August 2, 2009

Since Im going out to meet and seduce women more and actually working on SPs Ive done a bit more
experimentation and then, OUTSIDE THE FIELD, analysis of what Ive noticed versus what I expected versus
what I want.
I noticed the other day I was only marginally interesting to the hot bartenders and wait staff until I started talking to
cougar and the milf.
Normally, I explain this as Social Proof. Its one of the communities favorite theories. And, it seems to explain a
lot. Cialdini popularized it and the definition is people will be more likely to do what they see other people
What about in the case of a normal bootcamp when guys are opening, but getting blown out or failing to get
attraction( they still get more AIs after opening than when they dont open. And, in this case youd expect them
to get blown out so much the first few times that theyd be done for the night due to all the negative social proof.
But, that doesnt happen.
So, whats going on?
Lets examine this a bit further(
Have you ever looked at a woman and thought it looked hard to approach her and you werent sure if you
wanted to risk it. Then, some chode went and opened her and she was extremely nice to him and everything went
fine. Then, you said to yourself, Holy shit( I could do better than that chode and you walked over and opened?
Have you ever seen a hot girl with a chode and thought, Damn( how the fuck did he get her? Im 10x cooler
than that guy and if you had a smooth chance youd have attempted to flirt?
Both of the above have happened to me and others many, many times. Heres another related question:
Did you know that guys have been blown out after approaching women, gone back in later, and had it bust wide
What Im going to say is that Social Proof doesnt explain the warm responses you get from approaching women
when youve been seen in set OR you merge sets with pawns(
I think it has to do with how she categorizes YOU in relation to the Game being played. Shes not keying
off of the ACTUAL responses of the other women (thatd be pre-selection) as much as shes keying off the
realization that you are playing the Game.
See, women know that this is a Game. The Game is find an attractive mate to have sex with!
In any game there are Players and Spectators. If you are not talking to women, approaching women or already
with women then you are a Spectator until proven otherwise. (She may HOPE that you are a Player and give you
AIs to find out.)
Why do AIs increase when women see you open? Simply because they realize you are a Player and so are they
so its an invitation from one Player to another Player to engage in the Game.
What about opening sets with a woman with you? First, it demonstrates youre a Player in two ways, the opening
and you are already with a girl. Second, much like you look at a dude and think you could do better than that guy,
the girl looks at the girl and does the same( except girls seem to be much more aggressive in this area than the
average community male. An Hb3 WILL try to unseat a 9 or 10( whereas most dudes who feel outclassed will
shy away and ask if she has any friends or something.
You are most likely missing a lot of AIs. Assume any eye contact is an AI for the time being and youll get a lot
of real world experience around the subject. Also, many afc/PUAs have trouble with making or keeping eye
contact so practice holding eye contact if you havent done those types of drills. Especially if this is a weak point
because it just wont be tolerated in set. If this is a weak point for you literally stare girls down until you dont feel
any pressure to look away. A few days/nights of this is usually all you need.
You can make the assumption that if you see one AI youve probably missed 2 or 3.

Now, this snowballs. You open a set, girls notice, they start changing their body language and giving you AIs.
They look in your direction more. Other girls pick up on this( you open more, new girls pick up on it plus the old
girls. Snowball.
(If youve ever been in a club with a celebrity or sports star youll notice this on steroids magnified by one
hundred. You can hardly keep a womans attention when theres a big celeb in proximity.)
As you move around girls will shift body language towards you. Youll get Proximity AIs from all girl sets, etc.
(In my eCoaching bootcamp I discuss Parading girls( its the fastest way to warm up the entire venue. I have a
saying that if you can Parade 3 times in a night you will most likely get laid. It is magical.)
Cant this be described by Pre-Selection?
Again, only partially. See, pre-selection means the women were visibly and intensely attracted to you and the
other women noticed it. We have PLENTY of examples of guys who have a lot of hot female FRIENDS who
couldnt get laid if their life depended on it. What is going on here? Well, though they are surrounded by hot girls
they never show new girls they meet that they are in the game. They never show her that they know her Goals
and move her across the barriers/obstacles to the win.
Dont get me wrong Pre-Selection DOES help. But, what Im talking about is something even before and more
basic. Im talking about girls giving AIs and becoming warm just based on her/their analysis that you are playing
the same Game they are. Pre-selection comes later( it is Hes in the same Game AND hes obviously good at it
(Parading, which I mentioned above, activates Pre-Selection especially when multiple girls are paraded together
or close together in the same night.)
EVERYBODY in the game hates wasting time. Females dont want an opportunistic Spectator to suck up their
time so they usually reserve their AIs for proven Players. Girls also intuitively know that if she can get one guy to
open her then a few others will get more courage and open. Thus, more Players and more opportunity for her to
What about Celebrities?
Lets analyze this a bit( Why do women like Celebrities? I can think of a bunch of reasons.
1. Money? Money doesnt hurt BUT, it cant ONLY be money. Pro PUAs have many, many super rich guys come
to us for help. Many super rich end up as sugar daddies for hotties and those situations arent usually exclusive.
2. Looks? Well, women dont have the same physiological responses to looks as men do. Their acceptable range
of looks is MUCH wider and is weak enough that we can totally ignore it. (Provided your grooming and style is
good). Plus, many Celebrities are dog ugly.
3. Status? A strong contributor. Society has conditioned us to treat celebs better. Even dudes want to meet other
celebrity dudes.
4. An Assumed Player in the Game. This conditioning of status begins the SNOWBALL we talked about earlier.
When you get the multiple girls visibly interested, the society conditioning of treating celebs as special plus the
idea of bragging rights and money, then you have a lot of factors working together. It is deduced, assumed, that
they are prime Players in the Game( thus, the females play all out.
The Case of the Man with Social Proof but Not a Player in the Game.
Take a guy out with 3 women. One of them is his wife, the other two are her sexy girlfriends. He has a wedding
band on. Does he get massive AIs? No. He might get a few at first( some women are screwy and like to try and
others may not have noticed the ring but after about an hour or two in the venue he is essentially invisible to the
other Players.
I noticed this when I was out with FBs/Girlfriends. Id get a LOT of AIs at first and after a bit I was essentially
invisible again. Sure I was with a hot girl (social proof idea) BUT it was pre-empted because the girls realized I
wasnt in the Game.
So, I put the idea of Social Proof on the backburner as something that, while valid, only partially described what
was happening and opt instead for the fuller idea of Player in the Game. It better describes what actually occurs in
the field. Spectators, Players, Winners, Obstacles and Goals.
This also helps to mesh Sexual Framing with some of the more standard MM structured approach. Though, I
usually avoid the standard Peacocking, Pawning, Social Proof/DHV routines (ex. the routine where you show you
with pics with hot girls, doing cool shit, hanging with cool people), with this idea they start to make sense together.

When I open and start Sexual Framing Im demonstrating Im a Player in the Game( that we are both playing
the same Game, that I value her Game Goal (finding a guy who can make her feel sexy and sexual) and Im
willling to carry it home (so to speak! haa).
Since Ive gotten good at opening one or two sets, hooking and staying in for the long haul the other girls notice
it( if the set busts or unravels, many girls in the vicinity have noticed the deep sexual attraction between me and
the other girl and have me pegged. Opening any girl who witnessed that makes my set go that much easier.
She isnt looking for Value or Social Proof, shes looking for the man in her near Vicinity who is the best Player in
the Game.
If you understand this it will lessen your worry about people seeing a set go bad. It wont matter, by opening youll
show everyone else youre in the game.
Captain Jack
P.S. You should also feel less pressure from others watching you open because Spectators dont count! And,
Male Players are too busy playing to notice or care! In fact, if anything theyre probably thinking of allying with you
to give both of you better chances to win.
More on The Game Dynamics

CaptainJack says:
August 2, 2009 at 10:34 pm

You are most likely missing a lot of AIs. Assume any eye contact is an AI for the time being and you'll get a lot of
real world experience around the subject. Also, many afc/PUAs have trouble with making or keeping eye contact.
You can make the assumption that if you see one AI you've probably missed 2 or 3.
Now, this snowballs. You open a set, girls notice, they start changing their body language and giving you AIs.
They look in your direction more. Other girls pick up on this( you open more, new girls pick up on it plus the old
girls. Snowball.
If you've ever been in a club with a celebrity or sports star you'll notice this on steroids magnified by one hundred.
You can hardly keep a woman's attention when there's a big celeb in proximity.

CaptainJack says:
August 3, 2009 at 6:51 am

>Interesting post, and practical too, in that I know that if I get AI's I can imagine >feeling more confident and likely
to open.
This is actually a good sign. A 'more true' theory is more likely to make you more confident to act. It's your
unconscious mind's way of confirming that it more closely matches the billions of computations it's made in the

CaptainJack says:
August 4, 2009 at 1:18 am

It would be semantics if it didn't explain more and/or explain more precisely what actually occurs in the field.

Game Dynamics and Player in the Game =

Posted at August 4, 2009

Hmm I think this is boiling down to a bit of semantics and how you exactly define it. If I
go to a bar with my hot female friends I get tons more AIs that if I go with my male
buddies. Sure, if I dont do anything about it then the AIs will die down over time
(except for new girls entering the venue). But either way simply having hot girls with
you gets you more interest than not, therefore scientifically proving that social proof is
a contributory factor!
It wont get you laid (youll still have to open duh!) but is sure as dandy helps!
comment by charliereay on Opening and Social Proof Versus Player in the
Game post
I am surprised I didnt get more of these types of comments. When I published the post I expected to get a lot
more of these types than the all out positive ones.
Let me start by saying this( Im not saying Social Proof isnt right or is wrong. What Im saying is that it is
INCOMPLETE. Im pointing out that it leaves A LOT more unexplained than explained.
I discussed quite a few things that it left unexplained in the last post. There is a higher level dynamic at work
when attracting, approaching and seducing women that better explains what is going on and that is the player
in the game concept.
One GREAT way to know if you have found a better organizing principle is if you experience a surge in motivation
to act or a desire to do things differently. Two or 3 commenters noted they felt more pumped toapproach women.
The reason is because when they adopted this idea it caused a spontaneous release of competing and inefficient
ideas leaving more energy and attention available for action. And/or it stabilized a lot of floating thoughts thus
lessening confusion (and confusion causes fear and apprehension.)
Ill show you how it better explains common field phenomena and then Ill show you how it ALSO explainsSexual
Social Proof
Covered in previous post.
Someone who is peacocking but not opening is a tool. Why? Socially we know, and women know, that
Peacocking is something you do when you are Playing the Game. A dude who is Peacocked and not
opening is socially weird. Likewise, people with low game awareness call scantily clad women in the
club sluts not realizing this is what women do to invite the real Players to open. Saying that women
open guys who are peacocked because they realize the men are Players in the Game is a leap( but,
it is a very small leap. It might be better explained by saying that women can use it to show everyone
THEY are playing the Game thus, getting her opened more without making it too obvious.
I covered this a bit in the last post. Pre-Selection is a VERY valid and observable phenom. But, again
this only applies to Players in the Game. When they realize you arent in the Game their awareness is
no longer on you and all invitations and attention shift to find Players.
Jealousy Threads
Again, you have to be a Player in the Game and have her attracted for a Jealousy Thread to exist. JThreads are incredibly powerful. They are so powerful BECAUSE the Game has a limited time span (a
Game Obstacle) and a limited number of Players (another Game Obstacle). Her desire to win compels
her to focus more energy on a proven quantity as does her desire to IMPROVE against competition.
(The competition is other females, not the males.) Add to that the fact that she WAS on her way to
Winning and youve got a deep sense of loss and self-doubt creeping in. The idea that other females
could be BETTER was theoretical, now it is all too real. She will do ALMOST anything to beat the
There are two valid players. It looks like they are headed to winning( but, now one of them seems to
be questioning whether or not the other is a Player( the chances of winning drop causing fear and
increasing desire to get back in the Game.
Im skeptical about the real use of DHVs EXCEPT when you are talking to a girl to whom that shit is
important AND her logical mind is engaged. She can use that stuff to talk herself into liking you or
giving you more time/chances.
Ok, Player in the Game refines those a bit without colliding and give us a better understanding.
We KNOW Mystery Method works AND it works very very well for what it is designed to do( Those items listed
above are given as the reason MM works( But, what then explains the massive success of Sexual Framing
which isnt built on any of those?

Sexual Framing doesnt use Jealousy-Threads, Pre-Selection, Demonstrations of Higher Value (DHVs), Merging,
Pawning or Social Proof except as a consequence when a set unravels and you have to open a new one.
In fact, Sexual Framing VIOLATES many common MM principles.
Can the Player in the Game concept describe it? Yes! Wonderfully!
A Game is made up of Spectators, Players, Winners, Obstacles and Goals.
Im not using Obstacles in the MM definition here. Although her friends COULD be Obstacles they arent by
default. They are only Obstacles when they dont KNOW that you and her friend have AGREED to play the game
Approaching, attracting and seducing women is often called The Game.
All Games are Based on Agreement.
Game Dynamic 1: You and her must agree you are both Players. Naturally, this is you making a smooth open,
hooking the set and her entering communication with you. If you cant get agreement on this you dont have a
Game Dynamic 2: You and her must agree you are both playing the same Game TOGETHER. By opening
Sexual Frames you are telling her what Game you are playing. As she continues talking with you and playing
along she is AGREEING that this is a male-female conversation with a sexual dynamic. If you cant get
agreement on this you dont have a Game.
Game Dynamic 3: You must show her that you VALUE her Game Goal. By being non-judgmental and telling
her you LOVE how sexy she is, etc you are showing her this. If you cant get agreement on this you dont have a
Game Dynamic 4: You must demonstrate that you can carry her through the ObstaclesD first by handling
them in her mind, then in the immediate environment then over time. This can be done explicitly by getting
the group to like you( getting her so into you that she does it and/or using an Inoculation Routine like I
mentioned in FR: College Girls! Then, by baby-stepping her along ever so gently shell know/feel that she is
having all the good feelings and none of the bad (like she usually does), she gets even more comfortable and
puts more trust in you. If you cant get agreement on this you dont have a Game.
Also, you can look for her to show you the same! For example, when I ask her Youre not the jealous type( are
you? and then tell a story about how I was hanging out (code for fucking) a girl and she got jealous and I didnt
approve Im beginning to define what Game we are playing and putting in question her agreement on Dynamic 2.
She has to alleviate my concerns by agreeing with me that jealousy sucks.
The Most Evil of All Evils
What about LMR? Can this even shed some light on LMR?
LMR is primarily an unclear agreement about whether or not you are both playing the same Game (unclear Game
Dynamic 2). It can also be that you havent shown her that you value her Game Goal (unclear on Game Dynamic
If she is playing Potential GF Game and you are playing ONS game and she THINKS you are playing Potential
GF Game but isnt exactly sure due to mixed communication signals then( BAM! LMR. Youd have to have told
her that your game works like this Primarily Sexual and then possible grow into GF over time in order to avoid it.
On the flipside, If you WERE playing to get a GF and she was CONVINCED you were(
(and she WAS playing that Game too(
(and she believed that giving it up wouldnt destroy that Game (clear on Game Dynamic 3), then(
(shed have no issue having sex with you the first night.
This is why so many of the PUAs trained in social forms of Pick-up have such a hard time getting laid.
They broadcast social, fun guy potential fun bf on Game Dynamic 2 and then wonder why it takes forever to
lay her( furthermore, they never make it clear that they VALUE sexuality so she has to be double certain it wont
fuck up that Game before having sex. They have methodically built tons of agreement on a DIFFERENT GAME
(fun, cool, social bf) and wonder why the Game Goal of a DIFFERENT GAME isnt happening.
Those Silly PUAs.
Captain Jack
P.S. Knowing what you know now about The Game Dynamics you should be able to pinpoint on WHICH Dynamic
any busted set failed on. All no-gos are failure on Game Dynamic 1. All sets that unravel come from failures on

Game Dynamic 4, etc. What would you do with said information? Why youd examine your Game Plan and look
for deficiencies in your common routines/stacks/ideas/beliefs in that area, shore it up, set up
experiments/solutions and get your ass back in the Field!
P.P.S. Disqualifiers work because they threaten agreement on Game Dynamic 1. See that? If there isnt
agreement on all the Game Dynamics, there is NO GAME, thus no chance of winning. Jealousy Thread threatens
Game Dynamic 2.

driftwood says:
August 10, 2009 at 3:56 pm

But by your theory, if you threaten the game dynamic, won't that cause the game to fall apart?

CaptainJack says:
August 10, 2009 at 10:49 pm

That's one of the risks if you totally devalidate it and she feels like it can't be repaired or it would be too hard(
But, that usually requires a LOT of that( if you challenge it and she responds with what you consider to be a
valid attempt at Clarifying then you accept it and it is not clear and strong.

I Think I Made A Stripper Cry

Posted at August 5, 2009

Went out last night and had some fun. I was going to write a full FR but I am pressed for time. I have to research
something for the Warrior-King Society, put out a product for my other little company, meet my friend Tai for
lunch, exercise and then synthesize more material on Game Dynamics for the next Master Strategies
Monthly audio.
I have a full day! (All these to-dos are seriously interfering with my Prime Objective of being the Most Chill Dude
in the Game.)
Update on the super hot blonde college girl from FR: College Girls! Weve been texting back and forth. I dont do
a lot of texting and now I remember one of the reasons I cut it out of my game: Its fucking annoying! (The real
reason I dont do it much is because I prefer to tighten up the first 20-30 minutes of my presentations so well that
they will just be down to meet up. It has worked for me but now that Im working on a special class of Sticking
Points I need to take each set as far as it can go to get more data on how *I* occur to the specific types of HBs
Im working on. You Master Strategies Monthly guys will know what I mean by the special use of occur.)
Unfortunately, she is at the beach until Sunday( That leaves only about 2 weeks to close her before she goes
back to Austin for school.
I am going to be a sad Pirate if I dont get a chance to close.
Back to last night( I started off at a strip club. I rarely go to strip clubs because I dont like beggars or suckers
and strip clubs are full of both. I went because I am working on redefining interactions on the first 2 Game
Dynamics AND I want to do it while feeling the intense internal state change that hot girls give us.
It is actually kinda fun! Plus, the girls there are so hot its ridiculous.
So, there is a smoking hot brunette sitting in my lap rubbing my chest and a girl who could be in playboy about 7
yards away on stage trying her best to suck her own nipples. She is exerting great effort at accomplishing this but
her neck is not long enough.
Long story short, I disqualify the shit out of her and get stuck in full out Neg mode. I just cant stop myself( Negs
are being tossed like hand grenades in Vietnam. I dont use Negs often preferring instead for teasing because it
works better and it keeps the playfulness level high. When she leaves it looks like she is about to cry.

I bounce from there to x-bar. After fucking around for 30 minutes and texting Sinn that I am practicing the 3-Hour
Rule, I end up opening this cute 7.5 blonde with hot tattoos. Shed be an 8 maybe even a 9 to me but has a little
too much on the hips and thighs( We end up making out a bit, she snatches my phone out of my hands and
says Im giving you my number. We went to eat with her friend and the dude, in the parking lot I alluded to her
coming home with me but she had said earlier she had to be up at 8am for work.
At 3:26 am she sent me this text Hello gorgeous, Im home and in bed. Good night.
I missed an opportunity to Clarify what Game I was playing (Game Dynamic 2, playing the same game) and this
could lead to trouble later on( She mentioned that the guy with her friend (it was a 6 set, 4 girls and 2 guys) was
only down for one thing and she had told her friend what he was up to( she also mentioned that she no longer
had a boyfriend and missed having someone to go out with regularly. I shouldve noted both and then used
framing to Clarify what I was after, something like my standard Youre not the jealous type, are you? routine
wouldve worked perfectly.
I tried to Clarify it after she number closed me. She asked me to text her so she would know its me( I texted her
Jason, aka Sex God.
This WILL need to be clarified to get short time frame sex because if shes like most girls she has a Game Rule
that doesnt allow short time frame sex with a potential bf without at least the assumption of commitment.
Oh yeah, gotta disclose this to keep myself accountable( There was a 4 set of SHBs, each of them as close to
10 as you can get, in proximity of me. I didnt open. I let that rare opportunity float away. Sucks.
Captain Jack

Player States of Existence and Nested Games

Posted at August 6, 2009

Hola PUAs!
Recall from Game Dynamics and Player in the Game = Elegance Game Dynamic 1: You and her must agree
you are both Players.
So, Im going to introduce Player States of Existence to you to help you improve Dynamic 1.
Before she sees you or is aware of your presence your state is Non-Existence. After she becomes aware of you
and/or you open and the set progresses, she updates your State to one of the following:
Potential Player of a Game I Want to Play
Doubt (could be Doubt about Dynamic 2, 3, 4)
Playing a Different Game
Someone I Want to Play With
All of her communication is geared towards Clarifying the Dynamics and/or forwarding agreement on them. If you
are in an Existence of Doubt on Dynamic 3 she may call a certain girl in the club who is dancing sexy a slut to see
what you say about it. (Also remember that most of this is unconscious, we are wired to gain certainty about the
Game we are playing and our states of existence in it.)
If you call the girl a slut as well then youve shed some light for her on Dynamic 3. You need to respond in a way
that reaffirms what Game you are playing and that you VALUE that Game Goal.
Contrast these two responses:
1) For real, her boyfriend needs to put her in check.
2) I like it when women express their sexuality so freely.
In one simple exchange youve created entirely different scenarios.
Shit Tests?
What we used to call Shit Tests arent Shit Tests at all. They are attempts to Clarify. Simple as that. Youve
done something or broadcast something or she has flat out ASSUMED something about the Game and wants to
get a response from you about it to Clarify.
In the writing of Field Reports (or, even better, audio recordings) you can notice when youve been in a Doubt
Status in her mind. It is clear as day. The stuff she says or asks you is so obviously trying to Clarify that I now
wonder how I missed it for so long.

When the Dynamics are Clarified and Agreed on sex is a matter of keeping them clear and getting her to a place
where you can escalate physically to sex.
Almost all sets that blow up after things have been going well are because youve cast Doubt on one or more of
the Dynamics.
I did it msyelf just yesterday. Super hot 19 year old asian waittress, disqualified her so much that Dynamic 1 got
thrown out and she didnt feel like she could play.
Whats the Strategy now? I have to go back there and Clarify on Dynamic 1 and work back through the rest of
Nested Games
I have the working Hypotheses that women go to bars/clubs to find attractive mates to have sex with. That
hypotheses has served me well and it is one that I continue to work within(
For some people, the hardcore clubbies, sex occurs inside of another game. That Game is Faux Celebrity. Think
of the super-hot club chick. Her primary Game is Faux Celebrity. Almost anyone who wants to gain Agreement
on Dynamic 1 for the Sex Game has to be playing Faux Celebrity Game first. For them, Sex seems to be a
Nested Game inside of it( I think that since Mystery didnt have any awareness of Nested Games he took this to
mean this is THE ONLY way to do it. This is where his Celebrity and Entourage games concepts come from (and
hence DHVs.)
Since the problem with Nested Games stems from having to Clarify and Agree on the Game Dynamics TWICE
(once for each Game) it appears more difficult.
People who have Sex as a Nested Game have larger Social Circles and/or serial LTRs or some other side effect.
You see a lot of hot girls with Social Circles that have a lot of guys who passed on Dynamic 1 of the Outer Game
and then failed on the Nested Game. Caught in the Friend Zone!
The Master Strategy is to cast DOUBT on the validity of the Outer Game and then BYPASS it to go straight to
Clarifying on the Nested Game. If you can get Agreement on them then she will backwards rationalize why the
Outer Game doesnt matter or apply in this case.
She will HOOK MUCH HARDER because she has those intense feelings and it makes her feel like it must be
more REAL.
For the next audio (or two) in the Master Strategies course I am going to be releasing all the current research
information about Game Dynamics I have. ALL Master Strategies result in increasing your capability IN THE
FIELD. It is Theory FOR Action.
If you sign up now youll get the two previous audios as well.

CaptainJack says:
August 6, 2009 at 11:19 am

I agree with your statement that no system works 100% of the time in all situations. But, what we have here is
something that can improve a GREAT DEAL.
Knowing WHY sets that were *ON* suddenly and, before now, inexplicably unravel gives us a great leap forward
in repairing our Game Plan to have more of these sets end up as lays.
All of the sudden Sticking Point Analysis becomes much, much easier.
We now KNOW WHY Sexual Framing works so well.
Much like Sexual Framing yielded a big boost for SNLs and easier Day2s I expect this stuff to really boost lay
numbers by giving us a way to fix mixed communication signals we send that confuse the girls and cause them to

Merchant says:
August 8, 2009 at 4:56 pm

The Master Strategy is to cast DOUBT on the validity of the Outer Game and then BYPASS it to go straight to
Clarifying on the Nested Game. If you can get Agreement on them then she will backwards rationalize why the
Outer Game doesnt matter or apply in this case.
Would you say this is what you're doing when you direct approach a girl within a group set without speaking to her
friends first, or would you draw a distinction there?

CaptainJack says:
August 8, 2009 at 5:31 pm

Wasn't what I had in mind but I think it is worth testing.

I think it would be important if she shows any interest still after 2-3 minutes to get her to intro you to her friends all
around, then go back to talking to her( I'd then use some of the Group Innoculation stuff I use (I think you can
find it in FR: College Girls!) and a few of my old LRs.
I would also frame future cockblocks by friends as Jealousy and how something about loving to go out with
friends but I see them and know them and hang with them a lot so I don't mind getting a little distracted if a special
opportunity comes along and REAL friends would get that.

3 in the Works
Posted at August 10, 2009

Hola Gentlemen,
This is a little update..
Went out last Sat. night. It was monumental. I worked a 2set (blonde hb7, brunette hb9) and had a helluva a time
because the 7 was ALL over me almost from the get go. Her Persistence is unparalleled. She kept on coming. I
almost gave in a couple of times. I thought about going with it and SNLing the 7 but the 9 was too ridiculously hot
for me to pass. The 9 was holding back giving her friend all the chances, though I could tell I was attracting her.
She purposely muted her responses so it made it harder on me to use Magnification Principle on her. The whole
night it was a tightrope walk gently fending off the 7 without offending her and gradually shifting to the 9( She
was a brunnette with the Swing Bob hairstyle. A perfect face, real slender body and a nose ring. Perfect teeth
and beautiful lips.
I opened them about 11:00 I think and the set ended at 1:20 am when they left. The 9 only had 2 drinks because
she was driving them home.
I kept gradually shifting convo towards the 9 and the 7 just kept reasserting herself. I would linger eye-contact with
the 9 even while shifting to speak to the 7( Id look the 9 up and down and then look her in the eyes. I would
gently kino her hips and waist( Then, at one point I decided it had gone on long enough, while talking I looked at
her and held eye-contact hardcore for a LONG time (basically eye-fucking her)( she held it back and then a
slight smile started to spread. She got the point.
Another 30-40 minutes passed and the 7 FINALLY went to the bathroom. Girl was tall and slender but had a
bladder the size of a watermelon. I grabbed the 9 and whispered in her ear, I think your friend likes me( Shes
cool and sexy but Ive had my eye on you all night. I think youre sexy.
She said, Im glad you think that because I think you are sexy, too.
CJ: This is cool. I wasnt going to stay out tonight past 12 (I had told them this earlier) but Im glad I did.
HB: Me too.
Having her that close to me for that long actually created physical arousal in me which RARELY happens
She did, however, reject my kiss close.

She said, We hardly know each other or We just met. not sure

what that was about so it makes me wonder.

In any case, I have her number and we are going out this week. I made sure to use a lot of C&F during the couple
of hours with them and give off player vibe because I have a natural tendency to lean towards LTR with the hotter
more professional girls (she has a bachelors in MIS). They also do a lot more screening around this on D1 so I
have to make a point to not give Agreement on that.
The Hot College girl is back in tow