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AN ASSIGNMENT ON
BY
SYED WAJAHAT ALI (9718).
Submitted to
Respected MADAME: Mrs. BATOOL RAZA.
Submitted on
TUESDAY, 9TH FEBUARY, 2010.
Section
12:00 to 03:00 EDC-5.
Non Verbal Cues In Different Cultures:-
“If personality is an unbroken series of successful gestures, then there is something
gorgeous about him”- F. Scott Fitzgerald regarding his character Gatsby who in his novel was
regarded as a gentlemen not by the words he spoke but by the mere nonverbal cues that he had mastered.
Non verbal cues are the interpersonal process of sending and receiving information, both intentionally and
unintentionally, without actually using written or spoken language.
1. Facial Expression
2. Gestures and Postures
3. Vocal characteristics
4. Personal appearance
5. Touch
6. Time and space.
Non verbal cues are very imperative in a communication process. According to the Mehrabian study
conducted by Prof. Albert Mehrabian of the University of California, non verbal cues account for 55% of
the message that one transmit. These non verbal cues vary from culture to culture and countries to countries
in terms of meanings. These non verbal cues can get you out of difficult situations at the same time get you
into a rather undesired situation as well. Entire books have been written on this topic which shows the
significance that people pay on the different non verbal cues around the world. Business deals can be
struck, at the same time deals can be broken if wrong body language even though unintentionally are
exchanged.
Following are some hand gestures which have different meanings in different cultures.
1. U.S.A:-
2. JAPAN:-
3.United Kingdom:-
4. Italy:-
5. Australia:-
Touch:-
While the element of touch is not seen as an important
convention in countries like the US and UK, Arab countries are
notorious for their extended hand shakes and hugs to show their
acceptance and friendliness although this is not the case with
women in those same countries. China, Japan, North and South
Korea and other eastern Asian countries rarely use touch instead
they use bowing down as an indicator of respect and acceptance.
Personal appearance:-
Personal appearance also plays a vital role in non verbal cues. Your
personal appearance directly sends either good or bad messages to
everyone around you. For example turning up in a T-shirt and jeans in a
board meeting can definitely get you into trouble .Personal appearance
vary from people to people and places to places.
The Golden Rule is an ethical code that states one has a right to just treatment, and a responsibility to
ensure justice for others. It is also called the ethic of reciprocity. It is arguably the most essential basis for
the modern concept of human rights, though it has its critics. A key element of the golden rule is that a
person attempting to live by this rule treats all people, not just members of his or her in-group, with
consideration.
Practical Example:-
Let's consider an example of how the rule is used. President Kennedy in 1963 appealed to the golden rule in
an anti-segregation speech at the time of the first black enrollment at the University of Alabama. He asked
whites to consider what it would be like to be treated as second-class citizens because of skin color. Whites
were to imagine themselves being black -- and being told that they couldn't vote, or go to the best public
schools, or eat at most public restaurants, or sit in the front of the bus. Would whites be content to be
treated that way? He was sure that they wouldn't -- and yet this is how they treated others. He said the
"heart of the question is whether we are going to treat our fellow Americans as we want to be treated."
The golden rule is best interpreted as saying: "Treat others only in ways that you're willing to be
treated in the same exact situation." To apply it, you'd imagine yourself in the exact place of the other
person on the receiving end of the action. If you act in a given way toward another, and yet are unwilling to
be treated that way in the same circumstances, then you violate the rule.
The golden rule is best seen as a consistency principle. It doesn't replace regular moral norms. It isn't an
infallible guide on which actions are right or wrong; it doesn't give all the answers. It only prescribes
consistency -which we not have our actions (toward another) be out of harmony with our desires (toward a
reversed situation action). It tests our moral coherence. If we violate the golden rule, then we're violating
the spirit of fairness and concern that lie at the heart of morality.
• ISLAM-- Hurt no one so that no one may hurt you(Farewell sermon of the Prophet Muhammad
(P.B.U.H)
• JUDAISM-- You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against your kinsfolk. Love your
neighbor as yourself: I am the LORD.( Leviticus 19:18 )
• CHRISTIANITY-- “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you” (Matthew 7:12).
• CONFUCIANISM-- Never impose on others what you would not choose for
yourself.
• HINDUISM-- One should never do that to another which one regards as injurious to one’s own
self. This, in brief, is the rule of dharma. Other behavior is due to selfish desires.( Brihaspati,
Mahabharata)