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7 THINGS TO DO
WHEN YOU GET
YOUR CHILD A
MOBILE PHONE
HOW TO DECIDE
IF YOUR CHILD
IS READY FOR A
MOBILE PHONE
THE SMARTPHONE
FAMILY MEETING &
WHAT TO DISCUSS
HOW TO SPOT
& HANDLE
BAD PHONE
BEHAVIOR
PRINTABLE
PHONE
RULES
AGREEMENT
BE SMARTPHONE
SAFE
Table of Contents
Introduction: Mom, Dad, Can I Have
a Smartphone?
The State of Smartphones & The Family
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It used to be that we could wait until our kids were in high school before the issue of a mobile phone came up but not anymore. Now, its not
uncommon for 11-year-olds or even younger kids to be walking around
with an iPhone, iPod Touch or another state-of-the-art smartphone.
And these days we dont just have to worry about phone calls and
texting. Smartphones are now powerful handheld computers, which come
with completely unfiltered access to the Web and highly sophisticated
apps. And if the pre-loaded programs are not to your kids liking, then no
problem a couple of taps will give them access to hundreds of thousands
of additional apps, covering every imaginable topic and activity.
10
YEARS
OLD
13
YEARS
OLD
22%
14%
16
YEARS
OLD
14%
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TEENS AND THEIR USE OF SMARTPHONES
of teens ages
12-17 own a cell
phone
of parents of
kids 8-12 say
their children
own mobile
phones
of teens say
they exchange
text messages
every day - 1%
said they text
less than once a
week
of teen drivers
admit to texting
while driving
of teens
confessed
to sending
inappropriate
pictures to
someone via their
mobile phone
All this presents both challenge and opportunity for todays parents. Just
when we thought we had the Internet under control, everything has gone
mobile, circumventing carefully installed parental controls and antivirus software on home computers. Meanwhile, these mobile devices can be powerful tools for learning, communicating and teaching kids responsibility. In this
new mobile age, parents should take steps to understand how mobile technology works and teach their children about mobile safety and responsibility.
At The Online Mom we have a long history of advising parents and
care-givers on the ever-changing demands of digital technology. We
understand the risks that technology presents to young kids but we also
understand the rewards and opportunities. We also believe its impossible
to properly prepare kids for an increasingly digital world if we try to ignore
the impact of technology, or pretend that smartphones and other devices
are for other kids but not our own.
Monica Vila
Chief Technology Mom
The Online Mom, LLC
The Online Mom is excited to partner with Lookout, the leading mobile
security and safety company, to produce this valuable guidebook, which
outlines the important steps that parents can take to prepare their kids for
owning a smartphone or another digital device. Generation Smartphone:
A Guide for Parents of Tweens + Teens takes a real-world view of todays
popular handheld devices and will make mobile use a safer and more rewarding experience for families everywhere.
Kim Marie
Mom of 3 (13, 6 and 2)
In any event, whether your child is ready for a phone of their own
is more a matter of preparedness than a black-and-white issue of age.
If youre facing the issue of whether your child is ready for a phone,
here are a few questions you can ask yourself and your kid to help you
determine if they are ready.
According to a survey from The Online Mom, the leading question
parents ask experts surrounding digital life is: what is the right time for
my child to have a cellphone?
Ask yourself:
Does your child need the phone to stay connected with you or for
emergency situations?
Does your child understand and respect the time and usage limits you have
placed on other things like television and video game playing?
Does your child understand what types of apps are okay to download and
how to surf the Internet safely?
Does your child know how to use the phone safely and appropriately? (Do
they know whom and whom not to communicate with? What they should
and shouldnt share online? What sorts of words and pictures NOT to send?)
When you can answer YES to all of these questions, youll know that
your child might be ready for their first phone. (Whether youre ready or
not? Thats another question!)
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You shopped around for devices and service plans, charged the phone,
and now your son or daughter is looking at it with very hungry eyes.
But before you hand over the phone, there are a few things you can and should - do to boost the chances that you and your kid will have a safe
and smooth experience.
ESTABLISH A TRUSTING
RELATIONSHIP
Start out your meeting by laying the groundwork
for a positive phone and relationship experience
- open the meeting by telling your child you trust
them with their phone, but with a new phone comes
responsibility and certain parameters.
Not only is the phone a financial investment,
it gives them access to a wealth of information.
Teaching your child how to use it appropriately is
the first step.
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SAFETY ISSUES
There are a number of safety issues you should cover
with your child during the meeting regarding their
phone:
Make sure your kid is aware that they can and should
call you and/or dial their phones emergency dialer
or 9-1-1 in an emergency.
I wanted to explain to my
son the importance of
being careful about sharing
personal information. So I
decided to use a real life
example, we talked about
Michael Phelps and how
his career teetered on the
verge of disaster when
a picture of him doing
something illegal appeared
on Facebook. He got it
immediately.
Alana
Mom of 2 (11 and 14)
Boston, Massachusetts
INAPPROPRIATE CONTENT
STRANGER DANGER
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ONLINE PRIVACY
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Q+A
You should tweak these questions and their wording
based on your childs personality and age, but at
some point during the family meeting youll want to
engage them in a two-way discussion so that they feel
their input is valued, and so that you can ensure they
understand how to appropriately use the phone.
Some questions you should consider asking
include:
What do you plan to use the phone for?
Is there anything you want to do that you dont
know how to do?
How do you download an app? Where do you go
if you want to do that?
What do you do if you get a text message or
photo from someone you dont know?
Any time you click on a link, how do you check to
make sure the website is safe?
What do you need to do to make sure an app is
safe?
What do you consider good phone manners?
When are you supposed to put your phone on
silent, or turn it off? Why?
Do you have any questions for me about your
phone? Do you have any questions about the
phone rules weve talked about?
Suzanna
Mom of 2 (13 and 9)
Houston, TX
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SET ALERTS
When you buy your kids phone, work with the
service provider to help you tailor alerts for your
kids phone. Its common to see parents set alerts
for when a kids phone line exceeds a certain amount
of voice minutes, text messages, data usage or even
purchases/downloads.
ONE THING:
You deactivate the power of this lesson and stand to
end up hearing lots of whines, begs and pleas if you
negotiate consequences later or let rule violations
slide, then try to impose them again later.
So let the rules govern, and enforce the
consequences youve set up in advance. It will save
you heartache and wheedling, as well as letting your
kid feel secure in the knowledge that they control
their own phone destiny.
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Its essential to talk to them not only about how to safely use their new
smartphone, but also about how to protect it on a daily basis.
A lost, broken or irreparably damaged phone is not only inconvenient
its expensive! A few simple instructions can go a long way.
DONT LOSE IT
The number one threat to smartphones security is loss
and theft, and even adult phone owners lose their
phone once a year, on average. So, it behooves you
to plant the seeds in your kids mind of some simple
ways they can minimize the chances of phone loss.
A few tips include:
Designate a special pocket in their backpack for
the phone and to make sure they always return it
to that spot. Its easier for them to learn the habit
of frequently checking the pocket than to check
their ever-changing surroundings.
Never let their phone out of their sight and never
to lend it to a friend to use out of their presence.
Do not place their phone on the table while at
a restaurant, park, school or other public place.
Studies show that coffee shops and restaurants are
the most common locations for phone loss.
KEEP IT DRY
This is one of those areas where we parents might
need to model better behavior teach your child to
avoid eating or drinking while using the phone,
and to keep the phone away from the sink, tub, toilet
and pool.
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About Lookout
The Smartphone Safety
& Security App
Lookout is a mobile security company dedicated to
making the mobile experience safe for smartphone
users around the world.
Millions of American kids have smartphones they are simply a fact of
our everyday lives. And these devices are basically mini computers that
pose risks similar to the risks faced on PCs.
Lookout delivers award-winning protection from the growing threats
facing mobile users today, including bad apps, phishing scams, privacy
violations, data loss, and loss of the phone itself.
With 20 million users across 400 mobile networks in 170 countries,
Lookout is the world leader in smartphone security. For more information
and to download Lookout for your and your family, please visit
www.mylookout.com.
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Lookout Mobile Security and Harris Interactive Survey, 2012
Pew Research Centers Internet and American Life Project, Teen Survey April-May 2011
National Consumers League pre-teen mobile usage survey, July 2012
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Pew Research Centers Internet and American Life Project, Teen Survey April-May 2011
National Consumers League pre-teen mobile usage survey, July 2012
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