Table Of Contents

Introduction..4-7

Girls 101.8-27

You have an EGO for a reason.8-9

Breaking Bad Habits10-13

Youre doing it all wrong12-13

What She Doesnt Want You to Know about Her..14-18

The Magic Formula14-15

4 Fundamental traits of any girls personality..15-18

Her Psychology..18-20

Desire: It all starts in her mind.18-19

Emotion: Its always about how you make her feel..19-20
Female Fantasy..20

What Really Turns a Girl On.20-26

The fun factor..21

Intrigue 21
The Chase22
Mental Seduction..22
The number one attraction tip 22-23
The biggest turn off.24
Girls are emotional reflectors.. 23-24
The Alpha Male Syndrome all girls secretly desire 24-25

The Facebook Game27-65

Your Profile.27

Profile Prep: the basic elements of what a girl looks for in a profile 27

Pictures: your face, your name and everything else in between28-39

Your profile picture. 28

The Facebook Cover Photo 28-29
How to use shirtless photos. 30
Photo Albums30-32
Content 32-33
Your About section 35
Friends How many do you have?....................................................................... 33-34
Status updates and comments 35-39

Finding and Meeting Girls on Facebook! ......................................40-44

Hunting ground rules. 40

The easiest way to meet a girl is through common Friend40
Groups: search and location. 40
How to use singles related Pages and Groups in your area to meet hot girls. 40-41
How to use any parties and other Events to meet hot girls in advance. 42
How to use local venues, hangouts and past jobs to flirt with local girls. 42-44
How to properly flirt with her friends.. 44
Reputation management.. 44

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The Attention Getting Game45-64

The Approach: First Messages. 45-48

Message Writing Tips 48-49
What to do if she has NOT responded 49
Wall Posts49-50
Comments and her Status Updates. 50
Private Messaging Magic 50-52
How to Read a Girls Response 53
What to do if she doesnt respond 53-56
Conversation Tips 56-57
Communication. 57
Questions 57-59
The game SHE is playing.. 59
Hot Girl Tests.61-63
The top 3 tests any hot girl will throw your way when chatting on Facebook.63-64

The Friend Zone 65-68

The JUST FRIENDS Zone 65-67

How to avoid her Friendship Zone 67-68
What to do if youre already in her solidly established friendship circle . 68

A Few Final Words From Me...69

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Introduction:
You are about to read how to make use of Facebook to land more and more of Gods gift
to men: GIRLS. And this read is a must because Ive seen (hundreds of times) what guys like you
use as flirts and introductions on girls like me. I can understand why you adore beautiful,
sexy, attractive, fit and delicious girls of all kinds. And I have a feeling you want to learn some
serious date grabbing, panty dropping, game changing skills that will transform the direction of
your social and sex life forever. Im here to be your teacher. In fact, Im probably the type of
teacher that your minds most sexually charged teacher-student fantasy would enjoy. I am your
guide into gorgeous girl hunting-ville. Im about to become your new favorite person and your
key to success with as many beautiful girls as you so choose. All using Facebook; Because its the
single largest collection of hot women from around the world, and (more importantly) from your
hometown and backyard. And its also the easiest place to meet them, chat them up and get
them eager to meet you. Oh and no, you cannot Facebook me.
My mission is to make you a success when it comes to your game with gorgeous girls, but
MY bra size, my hair color, my likes and who Im friends with (or what city I live in) wont get you
laid - Im not your end goal. Dream up whatever you think I look like, Ill even give you a hint
(because I know your imagination needs a little help) 36C, and theyre lovely. But this book is
not about my body or me. Who I am wont end up with you spending more and more time with
girls. So lets focus on you listening and learning and me guiding you on how to Get Girls On
Facebook.
Why am I qualified to teach you? Because I have an obsession with human psychology
and understanding people; I get hit on at a half dozen times a day just for stepping out; I can
introduce myself to any hot guy I want in person or online and have him playing with himself in
eagerness at the opportunity to meet me (especially because I know marketing as well and know
how to package myself so I become a must-have fantasy in his mind before we ever even meet;
But I also enjoy what my beautiful ladies dish out in the sexy dresses and those curves. Put a girl
in some low light and nothing but high heels and thats worth getting excited about, I dont
care what sex you are. I can appreciate the lure of a beautiful set of tits just as much as you can.
OH and one other small fine-point detail I worked as 1 of 3 partners in launching and building
a now well established dating/seduction company and have personally coached at least 400 men
(well, boys that we turned into men) at getting girls offline and in all sorts of circumstances.
After seeing the daily emails and Pokes (my god thats a stupid way to attempt to meet someone)
and messages waiting for me in my accounts like Facebook from guys doing a real SHIT job at
trying to impress me I figured it was time to teach you guys how to meet, greet, flirt and fuck
with girls using one of my personal human-playgrounds: Facebook.

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As for my name: call me Ann Ann Onymous and yes, you great puzzle master, that is
a completely fabricated name. Do us both a favor and stop worrying about me and my identity.
Instead, I need you to focus on what Im about to teach you - incredibly powerful information
that will help you find, mingle, meet, hang out with, fondle, flirt, kiss and fuck as many girls as
you like. You put in the work using what I teach you and you WILL be getting girls you choose
once Im done with you.
Im a girl, but I adore beautiful girls myself and I appreciate you, in all your manliness and
I think that you deserve to be surrounded by gorgeous girls. So Im going to break it down for you
minus the bullshit, because thats the last thing you need. Believe me when I tell you, gorgeous
girls are an interesting and slightly complicated bunch if you dont understand how they work.
Were used to getting attention, we probably know (on some level) how hot we are we know
what were working with, and if you dont understand the process (the working intricacies of our
minds) by which we size you up to determine your sexual potential were going to walk all over
you. Tis is just a simple fact of life. So man-up and pay attention to EVERYTHING I tell you
throughout the pages of this book.
Throughout the pages of this book Im not only going to give you the HOW of approaching,
attracting and bedding hot girls, but Im also going to tell you exactly WHY you need to do things
exactly the way I tell you to. Ive chosen to focus on Facebook when teaching you how to
surround yourself with beautiful girls because Mark Zuckerberg is a damn genius based on this
one simple fact alone: he leveled the playing field for all men, regardless of dollars, social status
or even physical attractiveness. Facebook was originally created so that men (like yourself) could
find and interact with the hot girls within their local vicinity, which at the time was Harvard
University. So, my personal recommendation is that you give the guy a serious man-hug should
the two of you ever meet, or just take a quick break from this reading and do a little circle-chant
dance in honor of Marks name. Hes responsible for building you the worlds simplest, easiest
and FREE tool for getting girls.
Here are a few highlights with regards to using Facebook as your new wingman just to
cover your ass in case you missed the first memo party:
1) Facebook is the worlds largest database of girls and its the single largest selection of
girls anywhere in this galaxy and the next.
2) Unlike a dating site like POF or OkCupid etc, the girls here dont wake up to 100-200+
NEW messages daily, so the competition is far lower and your attention grabbing
messages (which Im going to teach you how to construct) will REALLY stand out and
catch her attention giving you an immediate in.

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3) Facebook offers THE BEST warm market ways to meet these girls through common
friends!
4) Facebook gets a lot of complainers about privacy and has companies milking it because
its the #1 venue for targeted advertising in the world why? Because we all fill in a
ridiculous amount of detail about ourselves by Liking pages, joining Groups, posting
statuses and comments that include certain keywords and more. Well thats exactly what
you get to use to YOUR advantage too. Finding and meeting girls based on past
employment, schools, local hang-outs, favorite Likes and interests, Groups they are a
part of. Youre going to want to eat me out I mean eat me up for what I teach you in
this section alone.
As a side note of extreme importance: another reason Im using Facebook is because I see
how absolutely lousy guys are on there. I get approached by guys in the laziest and dumbest
ways, and I promise you right here and now that the ones who get my attention arent the muscle
monkeys or the guys posing in front of an Audi R8 ... what I mean is, the toys, the fame, the
fortune, the muscles, the bullshit... sure thats fun and attractive but that is not even remotely
close to your key for success with me, my girlfriends and other beauties. You want our attention?
You want the attention of one of your Friends hot girlfriends? You want that deliciously hot
brunette with the arousing cleavage from your favorite restaurant to add you as a friend, flirt
with you, meet up with you and fuck you? Then you need something very different from what
the majority of guys are dishing out and Ive seen PLENTY of what theyre dishing out, its
complete horseshit.
Just for fun, Ill paint a bit of a picture for you. Yes, I get dudes, duds and dummies hitting
on me but I get hit on by girls too. And its hot. Even if I dont plan on doing anything with, its
hot as fuck when someone gorgeous is hitting on you and very obviously wanting you. I get playful
at times and send a flirtatious messages to a girl Ive never met. Its a turn-on and an ego-stroke.
And I love it. And so do other girls. We crave and NEED this kind of stimulation. We like to know
that someone is paying attention BUT we damn well prefer to hear all this from a MAN instead.
So for the love of all feminine curves in the world, please pay attention to this training and lets
get a lot more fondling and eroticism going on.
A small word of caution before we start
What Im about to share with you is incredibly powerful information that will change your
sex life and your relationships with girls forever; this can be a dangerous toolkit to have if you
dont decide right here, right now to use it properly, and with respect. Quality girls, the girls
you actually want to be spending time with, these are the girls who will be able to spot bullshit
from a mile away. Sure, Im going to show you how to get countless hot dates using Facebook
but you're probably (more likely than not) reading this because you actually want to have sex
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with these hot girls and that requires some sort of physical interaction. Girls are emotional
reflectors which means they mirror your emotional states back to you (they do this
subconsciously and we'll get into this in more detail later) but what you need to know right now
is simply this: If you use the knowledge contained within these pages for evil - ie: breaking hearts
and collecting pussy like a little boy, you will end up getting BURNED, my friend, because
eventually your short-sighted and selfish mentality will result in a an asshole stamp that all of us
ladies can scent from miles away. So, for the sake of your sex life, dont become a red flag
bearing A-hole, your dick will hate you forever. Theres no need. Women love an adventure, and
thats where you want to use game to get the girl. But dont mess with their minds. Its
disrespectful and will COST you more girls than it will gain you. Remember pussy-fucking is good.
Mind-fucking is bad. With that, let's get started!

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Girls 101:
You have an EGO for a reason
There is a reason that you want to surround yourself with stunning girls, other than the
fact that they are well, gorgeous and fun you have an ego that relentlessly seeks satisfaction
and it can be equated with a girls self esteem. It is from this place that you view and structure
your world, which determines how you interact with the world around you. You see, it all starts
with you, and if Im to teach you how to pick-up girls, weve got to make sure that youre actually
worth spending time with (which, Im sure you are) but this is incredibly important to realize
because girls have a heightened intuition, or sixth sense ability to spot insecurity. Its a survival
mechanism that spans back to cave men days. She needed to survive, men were typically stronger
(physically), which means she needed to play her cards right and use her innate female charm
to get what she wanted protection.
So how does this relate to your ego today? A gorgeous girl needs you. Ill say it again: she
needs you, she wants you because you can give her what she will always need: a sense of security.
Im not talking about finances or even physical protection - Im referring to her self
esteem, feeling secure in who she is. The truth is that girls long to be fabulous, just as guys long
to be seen as a hero; Not necessarily Iron Man or Batman hero but hero none the less. Any girl
wants to be appreciated for her beauty this makes her feel happy and associate those positive
feelings with you and I know that you want to make her happy right? So here is how your ego
can help:
This is your first important lesson: you always want to find a way to give a gorgeous girl
what she doesnt already have. You need to make her feel like she needs you and Ill say it again
so you get it: she does need you to help her feel secure in her own skin. She may not even know
it yet, but she wants your approval. Which means (drum roll please) your ability to satisfy a
beautiful girl will feed that ego of yours and girls are attracted to a man who shows security and
confidence within himself. A healthy ego is going to help you feel less insecure in all areas on your
life, including during your interactions with beautiful girls. Have you ever seen that fat, short guy
with a gorgeous model, or that broke-bastard with a stunningly sexy female? These guys know
two secrets:
Number one: Alpha male tendencies do wonders to make you feel like the man aka:
develop a healthy, secure, perhaps overly inflated ego. You want to be the type of man that is
both playful and strong. (More about alpha male attributes later.)

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Number Two: Make a girl feel a certain way, namely secure and comfortable being
around, and interacting with, you. As a result she will adore you (she will crave you more than
her stereotypical need for chocolate.)
The game always boils down to how you make a girl feel always.
The female species is programmed to spot insecurity and avoid it like the plague, so if
youre always beating yourself up, telling yourself that you can never get a hot girl, or that they
are all just bitches anyway (a lame excuse for your inability to interact with them) then youre
probably not feeling too great about yourself and this means you reek of insecurity. I need you
to STOP treating yourself like shit right now. I know what Im talking about when I tell you this:
we women NEED you. This is the truth. However, youve got to help open her eyes to this
realization and Im going to teach you how to do that: keep reading
Simply embrace and understand this simple fact for now: being able to attract, interact
with and keep beautiful girls in your life is first and foremost about you. Make the lifestyle
changes necessary to feel good about yourself (if needed) but know for certain that a beautiful
girl 99% of the time will not care what you look like, about how much money you make or who
you know if you can give her what so many other men (in her mind: no one) can give her those
feelings of security, comfort and intimacy.
Look if youre tuning out thinking this is a snippet out of a romance novel and is all
about the one, the soulmate, love and things you probably arent even interested in stop
being narrow minded my impatient student. Im helping you understand womens NEEDS and
what makes us tick and respond to your messages, invites and what will turn us on quickest
(not a picture of your dick!).
If youre heading out to hunt whatever, you need to first learn where you can find them,
what tempts them and how you can lure them, what frightens them and so on. Whether that
hunting session is out of necessity as a meal or as a sport for a trophy on your walls that part is
up to you.
Im not telling you what to do with your hunt. Marry her? Love her? Relationship the
shit out of her? Or sport-fuck, fondle, massage, flirt, tease, booty call her. I dont care. Thats
between you and here. But to GET HER, you need to understand her. So slow down your
impatience. Ill get to the how-to and the tricks to get tricks in a few minutes.
In fact, what I want you to learn is how to get countless hot girls to CHASE YOU by using
that built-in male need of yours: to feel like you know exactly what youre doing next page.

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Breaking Bad Habits

I want you to think about this. Youre the boss at a major company (see, I told you that
youd love me, I just made you the boss and CEO at some major company already). For whatever
reason though, youre still the one approving all the hires... and as of this week your company is
hiring for a photo shoot. You need a model to pose with the new gadget your company is about
to unveil this is a major gig for any model and you only have ONE spot for this ad. Your marketing
department (which for a girl, our marketing is the makeup, push-up bras, high heels, and
everything else we put on) ... your marketing department does a good job of spreading the news
of how prestigious this one modeling gig is going to be. Major modeling agencies and
undiscovered amateurs are all over this opportunity.
Every single day you wake up to new emails and Facebook messages from beautiful
girls. You go to the gym and girls recognize you, they want to be hired so they are there sweet
talking you because they want you to fuck them I mean hire them for the modeling gig. You go
shopping, the cashier recognizes you, and for some reason shes stunning and models in her spare
time. Random girls in the aisles stop you to say a seemingly innocent. Hi (though what they are
actually wanting is to put their hands all over your goods the modeling gig youre in charge of
hiring for.) You go to a nice lounge with your executives and your high powered friends, girls of
all types wont leave you alone. Your mobile is constantly pinged with emails, Facebook
notifications, text messages even from girls youve already turned down politely. Every single
day, everywhere you go, girls are competing for your attention because they want that one
modeling job. Meaning, every single day, you have DOZENS of options handed to you on a silver
platter. They are chasing YOU because they want something from YOU.
Now picture yourself, big boss man, in that scenario - I bet youre pretty much loving this.
Its a sweet spot to be in, right? The choice. The power. The confidence!?!
Okay ... now THAT is what I NEED you to drill very deep into your inner being because you
NEED to know that every hot girl you want, actually LIVES that life. Every hot girl, on facebook,
off facebook, wherever that you have wanted to strip naked gets roughly the same level of
attention EVERY SINGLE DAY.
You, as a man, dont necessarily know this. Because we, women, grow up in this world
where men chase US. Sure there are guys Ive pursued. And always will be. But in any given day,
I have at least half a dozen offers for sex. Not necessarily in a direct way but you know full well
that a guy giving attention is the first step towards what he wants with you: sex. And I say half

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dozen, thats without logging into Facebook or any of my social accounts. Let alone dating
accounts!!
Imagine having this much CHOICE.
THAT is what youre competing against. BUT lets talk marketing for a second Which
girls are getting this much attention? Every girl? No. The ones who know how to package
themselves well. There are plenty of girls walking around with no real care or effort in how they
look. That girl doesnt get remotely the same attention as I do. Or my girlfriends do. Or the types
of girls you most likely want.
See, we know that for us to get attention from guys and have guys chasing us, we need
to package ourselves well. This means sexy tight dresses, push up bras, staying fit. Hell even
when were in the gym we get dolled up. Its really excessive but its also very simple BAIT.
Because we get MEN chasing us.
However, what we want isnt just any guy. Just like you dont want any girl. You want
quality. And the good news for you is, though we easily get a lot of quantity of men, we get very
little worth-a-second-thought quality.
And the majority of your competitors (other men) are dumb as bricks when it comes to
knowing how to put a best foot forwards to build up our intrigue and sexual arousal. You want
us horny, right? Well we definitely know how to get you men horny. That bit of science works
both ways. Except WE look for different things then what you look for.
Its not a matter of flexing more muscle (though working on yourself to be continually
more fit doesnt hurt) or throwing more cash around, its about strategy and being the best
version of you so that you can have the confidence to attract and keep girls who are constantly
bombarded with an unlimited amount of sexual propositions. So in order to stand out, to get into
her panties, or even just get a date, youve got to get her attention in ways which seem different
and therefore impressive compared to what all the other idiots are dishing her way. Like Im
telling you, girls are living that fantasy I described to you as their daily reality they are never
short on male attention. So youve got to pay special attention to this next part because, in order
to attract these types of sexy girls, you need a serious arsenal of mental weapons, including a
solid understanding of why youre currently not having the type of success you dream of having
with very gorgeous girls. Keep reading, my boy, were about to get very real.

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Youre doing it all wrong

Obviously, youre doing everything wrong when it comes to interacting with gorgeous
girls because, if you were doing anything right youd be getting at least some lucky hits. So (no
apologies) Im about to scar your ego slightly by spelling out for you in laymans terms exactly
what you are doing wrong. (Oh, so very wrong) and yes, you will probably cringe as you
remember times when you made these brutal mistakes. However, I promise to re-build that
wonderful ego of yours right back up by making you feel like a freaking rock star by the end of
this book because, I will say it again, you will be able to pick-up (aka: seduce) countless hot girls
with the tools Im giving you throughout these pages.
You are NEVER, ever again to do the following things: (seriously, you need to STOP right now,
just STOP doing the following lame-ass shit.)

Chase her relentlessly and shamelessly (have some self respect man!)
Worship at her feet (hypothetically speaking if youre literally into doing that behind
closed doors, thats cool)
Disregard your own value
Annoy the cake out of her by being pathetically over eager (desperate cologne does not
smell good on anyone and should never be worn.)
Bombard her with countless messages and reminders that you exist (even if she is, quite
obviously, not responding or has even politely asked you for space which is really code
for: leave me alone you weak idiot!)
Pay so much attention to her profile and pictures that she could start a freaking blog with
all your comments.
Creepily mention her body parts, or sex, in every damn conversation (nice one man that
will totally make her feel comfortable and not like a sexual object.)
Negativity is an epic and most definite turnoff. Blatant negativity is going to get you friend
zoned (or Deleted) faster than she can bat those pretty little eye-lashes your way.
The angry-because-I-neglected-you-follow-up message (Shes not your mother, she does
not care if you are sad or upset because she didnt respond to one, or any, of your
messages. Dont be lame just leave it alone.)
The instantly ineffective Youre Hot message of any kind (this is basically a message that
states the obvious about her appearance this stuff is what she always hears from almost
every guy she meets, she doesnt need it from you.)
Being generic and boring (I promise you this: you have an imagination and Im going to
insist that you use it if you want to bag those sexy, quality girls we will come back to this
important factor a little later.)

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Lying and other low-class, low-ethic habits. A mans reputation always precedes him, and
its one of your most valuable assets if you want surround yourself with gorgeous girls
who adore you. Keep in mind, girls gossip and talk a hell of a lot more than guys.
Rushing into wanting to meet-up too soon. That scares a girl because its, again, overeagerness and raises a red flag that you may be desperate, or worse, a predator.

A girl's confidence in a man hinges on the all important element of trust, without which
dating online using Facebook to get girls - is a mere waste of time and doing all of the above (in
any shape or form) nullifies your chances of building trust, respect and rapport as a man in the
eyes of the girl you are pursuing. Again, the point of showing you what you are doing wrong is so
we can get to the parts where you will do it right and create a life for yourself filled with endless
streams of beautiful girls - the steps to seduction always remain the same, whether you want to
have a hot stream of one-night stands, or find that one awesome relationship, youve got to
understand a girl... deep inside her very core. You've got to first understand what youre doing
wrong before I can teach you the technicalities of doing it right, otherwise youre going to mess
up your game, man, because basically, youre making her feel all the wrong things about you, and
It will always come down to how a girl feels about you. The game of sexual attraction and
seduction is all about painting an illusion for her that she will connect with. You can use her
emotional tendencies to your advantage, in fact you have to use them to your advantage if you
want to go anywhere near her naked body and Im going to show you how to do this with pristine
brilliance, but youve got to stick it out with me here, this is VERY important platform building
stuff.
The goal is always to get a girl to chase you, to have those I cant stop thinking about
you and those I have to have you feelings. This means youve got to start fresh, right now
this is your fresh start. You are a now a new man going forward I have the power to say such
things, and you will NEVER again, ever repeat your old mistakes with sexy girls.
Were going to get into more of the technicalities of using Facebook to pick-up gorgeous
girls soon I promise. Stick with me here, any game of seduction requires that you understand
exactly who youre dealing with, so let me do you a favor by quantifying us, female types, for you,
because I know youre going to need this knowledge.

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What She Doesnt Want You to Know about Her

Here is a breakdown of the 4 fundamental personality traits of any girl. These key aspects
of her personality, her very way of being, will help you figure out how to approach her, how to
talk to her, how to set up dates, even how to work with her. Knowing these fundamental traits
of her personality make-up will allow you to hook up with almost any gorgeous girl when you
understand how to use them, and youre going to do it using Facebook as your platform, armed
with in depth knowledge of the hot girl psyche. So before we go further: let me state the obvious
any girl that you meet and are interested in, you want to get her added as a friend on Facebook
ASAP because then you can start using pretty much an assembly line approach to the end result
of more girls to play with. However, there is a very specific way to do this (and yes, were going
to address it again later just go with the flow here, were building up to the orgasmic magic.)
Just know this for now: in this day and age youre playing a Facebook name getting game, NOT a
get her number game because almost every girl youre going to want to hook up with is on
Facebook.
If you do get her number first, then text her using some of the same psychology and tips
Im about to lay out, but then goal #1 should be to get her onto Facebook. You might say thats
crazy! I have her number, I want her to hook up not get her onto Facebook. Dont be shortsighted. You want (1) better ability to attract her (2) access to her friends (3) more girls on deck
than you can fit into your schedule. Right? I mean those are 3 goals you do have right? Well then
dont dick around on this. Trust me. Get her as a Friend on facebook FIRST.
Girls are the gate keepers of sexuality, but guys are the gate keepers of commitment.
Thats why youre reading this because instinctively you know this so going forward just know
that you really hold all the power in the long run. This is not to say that every girl wants a
relationship of some kind, oh no that is a gross myth, and if you believe that scrap that
mentality right now. Lets also be blunt for a second. When YOU meet girls, what do you run into
the most? Relationship types, right? Boyfriend/girlfriend or marriage types. The ones who want
you to wait 3 dates before you get some because they dont want to be just some girl. Thats
MOSTLY what you find, right? Okay now think of what a girl mostly finds. The baby youre
beautiful, I want to fuck you types. The physical attraction, just want to get laid, let me fuck you
types. It doesnt mean men dont want relationships but damn it, you just want to have some
fun. Why are all these women wanting you to date and marry them? Now consider the opposite
its not like women wouldnt just love to take a guy home from a club or have a random adventure
with a boy they just met on Facebook for some very fun sex but damn it, why is it that just
about every guy only treats us as some pussy to fuck?

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My point is this. EVERY girl would love to meet a guy to just fool around with and have
careless sex with. But, on their terms. With the right guy. Because every guy is offering them
that and nothing more. Just another dick offering dick.
You need to go beyond this. Im not talking about dating her. (Thats your choice). Im talking
about being different and not in some goofy wear-goggles-on-your-head way. But in a way that
grabs her attention and makes her take notice in a GOOD way.
All girls work on a very specific formula when it comes to when or if theyll let your tongue
play with their nipples (there you go, a fun little visual for you).
Imagination = Emotions = body
This is how it works: Imagination (her mind) = Emotions (what she feels for you) = body
(what she wants you to enjoy.) A girl is lead by her imagination (the illusive perception she has
created about you in her mind) and when you figure out how to give her what she needs, she is
going to start imagining you as the star Hero in her life this is when her emotions get involved,
and this triggers those quintessential feelings of attraction for you, this is when she starts losing
her marbles (her sensibilities and logical brain center when it comes to thoughts about you.) For
example: if shes the hyper sexual type, and youve triggered those small but all important
feelings of attraction within her by first playing her mental game shell probably start touching
herself with thoughts about you because youve captured her imagination in one way or
another and if you keep working the right angles she will eventually make her way into your
bed. This is why your mind is such a crucial tool when learning how to score with countless sexy
ladies. I speak truth. This is how it works, rather simple really once you understand how to do
it.
Four Fundamental Traits of any Girls Personality:
1.
2.
3.
4.

NEED: there are two types open need and closed need.
DRIVE: there are two variations: "rational drive" and "emotional drive."
FOCUS: there are two extremes: "global focus" and "specific focus."
DIRECTION: there are two attention directions External Direction and Internal
Direction.

Memorize these traits because, as you learn how to use them, you will be able to interact with
any girl successfully - regardless of cultural background or upbringing. Following is a solid
breakdown about each trait and how to spot each one:
1. NEED: there are two types open need and closed need.

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An open need girl usually hates having things planned and scheduled without any breathing room
for change. Shes the type of girl who will tend to prefer anything spontaneous over something
scheduled. An open need girl will be hard to pin down, or get a hold of she may very well be
late often and be kind of flaky.
If shes a closed need type of girl then she needs situations and circumstances to be settled,
decided and final. She wont be comfortable with things left hanging and unfinished. If shes a
closed need girl you better be on time, because, if you run late even just once you had better
have Abercrombie and Finch Model worthy attractiveness, or have some other seriously good
game if you expect her to give you a second chance, this type of girl is obsessed with timing,
planning and her schedule.
2. DRIVE: there are two variations: rational drive and emotional drive.
An emotionally driven girl is driven by her emotions. She will make decisions based on what
she is feeling at a certain point in time. She is influenced heavily by how she feels about you,
a certain interaction or a particular situation. Read: show a little emotion to make progress
with this girl. She will be impressed by emotionally charged gestures on your part and shes
going to wait to see these from you because this is how she relates to the world around her.
The second type of girl in this category is the rationally driven girl. No, not all girls are
emotionally driven this is a myth. (Do not mistake this fact for the knowledge that all girls
are emotional creatures, they are, but the way in which they approach people within their
realm varies based on personality.)
The rationally driven girl will take a logical approach to the people and situations in her life,
including you. Shes going to expect you to be logical and rational when dealing with her
read: dont lose your rational logic around her, shes not going to be cool with that because
it will mean (in her mind) that she has a better head on her shoulders than you do. This girl is
going to expect you to impress her with some intelligence and shes going to test you for that.
If you pass her tests then her guard will come down and her imagination will be free to take
over, leading to an emotional attraction and you know where that leads to all things good.
3. FOCUS: there are two extremes: global focus and specific focus.
A globally focused girl will live in the future and in a world of abstractions. Shell come across
as having her head in the clouds. Youre going to want to chat with her about dreams (yours
or hers) and abstract concepts such as hypotheticals concerning the two of you doing this,
or doing that.

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A specifics focused girl is going to come across as feet on the ground and totally sensible and
concerned with practical application. A specifics focused girl is going to care about the past
and the now the future is probably of minimal interest to her, comparative to her globally
focused peer.
Just a personal note of caution: since opposites tend to attract (and have the best amounts
of physical chemistry at first) if you find yourself relentlessly attracted to a certain type of
girl, 9 times out of 10 she is your exact opposite in this area. Figure out if you are globally or
specifics focused yourself, then pay attention to which females make you desperate with
desire because the girl you so desperately desire is probably your exact opposite in this very
specific area. Get used to lots of negotiation and compromises which will actually work in
your favor with regards to coming across as a challenging and strong man (more about this
soon.)
DIRECTION: there are two main directions in which attention is focused: external direction
and internal direction.
This trait is all about where she spends her time. An externally driven girl is going to be very
outgoing and sociable. Shell be the girl surrounded by lots of people on a constant basis and
have lots of friends. However, she wont necessarily have deep relationships with all those friends
this girl mostly cares about social proof (something were going to discuss soon concerning the
creation of your perfect hot girl attracting profile.) An externally driven female is probably going
to care more about what kind of date you take her, so youve got to know who youre dealing
with as you construct your interactions with girl. This is all part of the research process:
understanding girls, and then really paying attention to what type of girl you are dealing with, so
that you can strategize how to approach her by executing on a perfect pantry dropping, girlfriend
making (whatever your deal is) plan.
An internally direction orientated girl will have fewer friends but will have deeper relationships
with those few friends. Shes going to be harder to get to know because shes probably incredibly
sweet, but also shy and slightly withdrawn but once you get inside her world she will open up
in delightful, most often, very surprising ways - dont say I didnt warn you.
The bottom line: what you dont know will stop you from bedding the girls you desire.
Start paying some serious (not creepy) attention to the girls you want to hook-up with and use
those stereotypical male analytical skills to notice what she does and how she does it, focus on
one trait at a time and become familiar with each of these four central elements of a girls
personality (and how they relate to yourself.) Youll very soon start seeing the connections
between the girls in your life and how you interact with them. As you notice each one of these
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traits you will learn how to use them and create an elusive sex appeal about yourself, because
you know how to give her what she needs she will just simply think that you really understand
her, or that youre really smart or whatever goes through her mind.
And, on Facebook, all of the above becomes very simple. Thats why I told you to get
Friends on facebook, not phone numbers.
The game of charm and seduction is all just smoke and mirrors, my friend, and thats why
it is so important to always know who you are dealing with (which type of girl.) Its your job to
make her believe the things that will spark massive amounts of attraction within her for you, and
knowing how she works, at her very core, will help you to successfully do this because you will
understand, on a structural level, how to make any beautiful girl feel exactly what you want her
to feel for you (this is strategy at its best) and from here on out watch her slowly come over to
needing youinside her. Yes, I just said that.
These 4 fundamental personality traits are that powerful when you learn how to spot
them and apply the knowledge you have gleaned from me so far. Knowledge is the ultimate
power in the game of seduction when applied correctly, and Im teaching you how to do that.
Side Note: Creep her Facebook profile and look for clues as to what type of girl she is (seriously
we all do it, were all little creepers who check each other out online, the trick is not to act
impulsively when youre snooping you want to make calculated interactions with the object of
your desire.) Im going to show you how to do that with smooth and flawless game on Facebook,
but first you MUST KNOW a few crucial facts about hot girls which will make or break your game
of sexual seduction.

Her Psychology
Desire: It all starts in her mind
Lets talk about sex for a moment. Recently, the New York Times ran various articles
about the study of female arousal. The conclusions were varied, but one thing is very clear:
there is a distinct difference between subjective and objective arousal in a girl. What does that
mean? A girl will become physically aroused, as a precautionary measure, when sex is simply
discussed or showcased in any form within her surroundings. This is an evolutionary, instinctual
response and what you need to know, my fellow lover of sexy female company, is that arousal
in a female (the type of arousal you want to achieve which will result in delicious amounts of
sex) is objective. This means, cupcake, it all starts in her mind.
Imagination = Emotion = body.
Are you starting to see why Facebook will be your best hook-up tool ever?
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A girl will decide to sleep with you for many different reasons, which is outside the scope
of this book, but what you need to know is that because female desire is objective, it does not
really matter what you look like, or who you are it matters who she thinks you are. Sometimes
perception is just as good as reality, and the goal of this book is to teach you how to use
Facebook to create a certain perception about yourself which will capture her imagination.
You see, us, females, are very analytical creatures when it comes to men especially those
we have the slightest hint wed like to sleep with. Were always over-analyzing EVERYTHING,
living in our minds. No matter how impulsive the girl is, we choose to sleep with you because
youve gotten inside our mind first. Youve helped us to create a story about who you are, and
that has made us want you in a deeper, more intimate way.
Now hear me very clearly: Im going to show you, very soon, how to use Facebook to
capture a girls mind so that you can generate a specific emotion inside of her, which will if
done correctly lead to glorious amounts of sex. Im speaking the truth. Ill admit, Ive used this
same play to get girls (those who shy away from and claim theyd never be with a girl), Ive had
them in the downstairs games room of a house party, smiling eagerly, completely naked in a
strangers house, while I went down on her. Ive had one girl who I had only 2 online interactions
with, drive over to my house. The given reason was to talk in person (thats how I invited her
over) but it didnt take long before a few compliments of her skin, an offer for a neck massage,
turned to Ill show you mine if you show me yours and then a pretty sexy shower at my place.
Ive also seen my male friends use this formula out and about and you guessed it, on
Facebook to find and excite seriously hot girl some for random play, some for continuous
amounts of hot sex, and Ive even seen it work for my friends who are looking for ridiculously hot
girlfriends. Believe me when I tell you, this formula works, and very soon Im going to show you
exactly how to apply it to the realms of your Facebook kingdom.
Just remember this simple, but very important, fact from now on: the art of seducing
any girl all starts in her mind.

Emotion: Its always about how you make her feel

Remember when we were discussing the very basics of female psychology in Girls 101
and I said its all about how you make her feel? Well, Im now about to piece together the most
important part of the formula which will enable you to bed countless sexy, gorgeous girls. Youve
got to figure out what a girl needs (and Im going to show you exactly how to do this) so that you
can make her feel a certain way about you. Remember, perception is as good as reality, and us,

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ladies, do not like to change our perceptions once we have carefully constructed them around
the idea of you whatever that idea may be.
Female Fantasy
If there is one thing you should understand by now is that female fantasy is a domain
manipulated by her. Whether that means agreeing to meet up with you, or wanting to sleep with
you the power all lies in how you capture her mind (imagination) and how you make her feel
(emotion) because the power for a girl lies within the allure of being desired by you. That is
why the goal is always to get her to think she is chasing you, because it is in her very DNA to want
your approval of her sexual prowess. However, because girls are complex species, simply being
desired is not enough for her to want to ride you into all hours of the early morning. Youve got
to make her feel other things as well, and this obviously applies to how you make her feel when
interacting and engaging with her on Facebook.
Following is a break-down of a few key aspects of how the female psyche works and how
you can use these to turn her on when you first chat and interact on Facebook, when you finally
get her on the phone, and when youre interacting in person.

What Really Turns a Girl On

You must know by now that how you make a girl feel is the name of the game here, but
in order to do that with extreme brilliance, you need to not only know what her key driving and
decision making factors are, you need to know how to use these to gently, patiently and
deliberately lure her into wanting you.
The first thing you need to know is that girls are not like you. All you need to be turned
on is cleavage, ass and legs. But not her a beautiful girl knows how hot she is and sure, if you
are totally cut and ripped she wants to look at your abs, touch your pecks and maybe be under
you, but she doesnt desire you yet not with full force abandon. In order for that to happen
youve got to know what turns her on in the same way her naked body would make you need to
(at the very least) tug one out.
The fun factor

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All girls like and appreciate a man who can make her laugh. The Daily Mail recently ran
an article which concluded and I quote, the best way to get a sweet young thing back to the
heezy is to down on yourself a bit. To put things in perspective, the data upon which they based
their conclusions were from a study titled, Dissing Oneself: the sexual attractiveness of self
depreciating humor. Translate that as: humor and humility work. This is different from putting
yourself down in gross ways, but having a little fun and not taking yourself too seriously is a
massive turn on for all girls. Again, you want to be playful but also show your strength. Being able
to make a girl laugh is one of your biggest assets in the game of seduction because laughter and
humor make her feel (theres that word again) comfortable around you. Making her feel good,
wanted and in charge (meaning, she is the one seducing you, she is the one chasing you - you are
the one surrendering to her need for you), this is the key to your success.
What Im trying to drill home for you here is simply this: have some fun with this whole
thing, man, dont approach this gorgeous girl hunting thing like your very life depends on it. She
may be hella hot, but shes just a girl and now, thanks to me, youre starting to understand how
they work its really not that big a deal. The element of playfulness to seducing any girl is a
must. Have some fun as you go about interacting with her on Facebook, and interacting with her
in person, and you may just get to the part where she will let you hit that from the front, and
maybe the back. Bringing a playful attitude to interacting with a lady is that powerful there is a
reason why comedians (regardless of shape or size) are lusted after by girls worldwide, humor
and playfulness make panties drop by the dozen.
Intrigue
Girls love a good mystery because we are wired to want to figure you out. Its in our DNA to
be curious and you, Mr., need to learn how to spark her curiosity for you. Im going to show you
how to apply all these factors to your profile and message interactions with hot ladies, but just
know for now that what a girl doesnt know about you is probably the very thing that will get her
to adore you. Loose lips sink ships, and spilling your life story, and every aspect about yourself
too early on in the game just makes a girl feel like you want a mother, and most of us arent
looking to baby you weve got our own shit to handle.
To summarize this means two things for you:
1) The tall, dark and handsome stereotype exists mostly as a metaphor for any type of man
who are both intriguing and mysterious (Im soon going to show you how to weave these
elements into your Facebook profile.)
2) Its the very thing that she doesnt know about you that will drive her to want to get to
know you more and more and more
The Chase
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All my hot female friends admit it the chase is what drives them crazy, absolutely insane.
Look, its in a girls very nature to realize that she holds a very powerful tool: her sexuality, and
if you think for one minute that she doesnt want to seduce you youre crazy. She wants to use
her sexy deliciousness to drive you crazy with lust and desire. She needs to believe that she is the
one in charge and that you are surrendering to her efforts to seduce her. How do you get her to
that point of no return? Keep reading
Mental Seduction
Weve already discussed this: the gate keeper of a girls sexy-time bliss is her mind. This is
why so many stunningly attractive girls enjoy playing mind games because it makes them feel
powerful, in charge and sexily untouchable - welcome inside the mind of a beautiful girl: she
knows how powerful her physical beauty is, yet she is incredibly insecure about it for two
important reasons which are ultimately, your best weapons in this hunt:
1) She knows that one day her beauty will be gone, and someone else will/can replace her.
2) Shes also well aware of the fact that many men want to love her long time so shes
constantly on guard to weed out those men who only approach her based on how
attractive she is.
It all seems like a contradiction right? Heres the catch. Gorgeous girls are insecure as hell.
Thats right, you heard me. NO matter how confident and beautiful she may appear to be, shes
secretly terrified that she is not good enough, not attractive enough etc and if you get inside
her mind by making her feel an attraction for you shes going to want to prove to you that shes
worthy of your attention and thats going to want to make her show you exactly how hot she
really is. Basically, she wants to drive you crazy because she is so damn insecure she needs to
prove to herself that her physical seductive powers are desirable. All girls want to feel desired by
the objections of their affection and that is exactly where your power lies: turning the tables on
her in a devilishly sly way that will make her pursue you.
This is exactly why the entire Facebook game of getting hot girls to adore you is about getting
them to a point where they feel they need to chase you, and that is all found within the game of
mental seduction using some cleverly constructed Facebook strategy, some smart keyboard
action and an LED screen - technology has never had a better use.
The number one attraction tip: Emotion
Every interaction with her (whether thats a wall post, photo comment or private message
etc.) is extremely important because every time is an opportunity to create an impression in her
mind of who you are and what youre about. Her perception of you is her reality about you, and
you are now gaining the tools to wield that perception in any which way you choose so that she
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can feel the right type of feelings for you. In other words, my friends, Im teaching you how to
influence her emotional tendencies.
Lets review:

Girls are fundamentally emotional creatures, so the entire game of seduction, and really
understanding anything about her, is all in how you make her feel. If youre not getting a
successful result then youre not making her feel the right things about you.
In order to get inside her panties, or get a date with her, youve got to go through the
doorway of her mind. Perception is reality in a girls world.
All these little tricks and gimmicks (this intimate knowledge of her psyche) is really just a
finely tuned system by which to get her to chase you. Once she is pursuing you (at least
in her mind), shes going to want to get you alone.

Girls are Emotional Reflectors

Im going to tell you a story about a gorgeous girl I know. Shes a model, pin-up poster worthy
and both guys and girls (of all kinds) constantly tell her how beautiful she is. She is basically a
walking, air-brushed photo-shop advertisement, yet her discomfort around men, and even
other girls, is at sky-high levels of insecurity. How can a girl like this be that insecure?
The truth can be found in this simple fact: girls are all emotional reflections, which means we
mirror back your exact emotional state to you. If you are feeling nervous and insecure when
chatting with a gorgeous girl, shes going to feel nervous and insecure as well. So guess what?
That gorgeous girl youre hitting on all the while needing to pee yourself because youre so
intimidated by her beautiful attributes, well, she is feeling every inch as nervous as you and
then some, WAY more because she is now asking herself, What is it about this guy that makes
me feel so uncomfortable and nervous? So, right there, youre losing the battle because she is
going to equate feelings of negativity to interactions with you. This is NOT what you want, so
youve got to learn to control your emotional state and exhibit an air of comfort and calm. Im
telling you right now, how safe and comfortable you can make a beautiful girl feel is in exact
proportion to how often you will get laid.
Girls love to ride their emotions, no matter how rational she may appear- and as we have
already discussed, she is an emotional creature, which means your biggest asset is learning how
to stimulate her emotional state. Now, this very topic alone can fill an entire book on its own, so
were just covering the basics here to make you a master at getting girls on Facebook ok,
pumpkin?
Above all, I want you to always remember this key element of gaming the girls of your choice:
keep validation and attention just slightly out of her reach. If she feels like she can get you too
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easily she will quickly lose interest and become bored (obviously, shes not going to give you
attention if you immediately shower her with compliments because youve already given her the
validation her insecurity requires. Likewise, if you act as if you are completely unattainable, she
will give up and lose interest in you.) There is a very fine balance and a line that you need to learn
how to walk. Im teaching you how to do this so I hope youre paying careful attention; youre
going to need this information when we get to the technicalities of interacting with beautiful girls
on Facebook.
The biggest TURN OFF for ALL Girls
Pay serious attention here dude: THE biggest HELL NO for girls according to the 2012
Harlequin Romance report is: Neediness. Posting on her Facebook wall 100 times a day,
consistently commenting on almost all her posts, all her pictures and messaging her relentlessly,
comes across as needy, insecure and generally pathetic because it clearly indicates one of two
things to a girl who already has the attention of many men at her disposal: 1) youre obsessed
with her and you have no other options 2) you dont have a life. Both options are undesirable
qualities, and since she already has the attention of many, many men (being the gorgeous female
that she is), she has options so youve got to level the playing field by acting like you have
options (even if you dont) and even if she is the one youve been searching for all your life
play it cool, Facebook is not the way in which you want her to know these things, but it is the
perfect tool to stimulate her emotional state and make her feel attraction for you because youve
carefully constructed a desirable perception about yourself. It is your job to create the illusion
that you dont really care her company, her presence, her naked body in your bed, is only an
option, not a desperately sought after necessity.
Emotional dependency, of any kind, is a highly unattractive trait to all females: go re-read
the section, What you are doing WRONG, if you still have any doubts in your mind about the
validation of my instruction. Im sure you can see, by now, why all those things you were doing
to try and get her attention were NOT working. Its all good though, man, clearly - Ive got you
covered here. Get ready because Im about to bring you to place of subliminal wonder and rockstar ecstasy with your new found abilities to interact with hot girls and gorgeous creatures of all
kinds.
The Alpha Male Syndrome all girls secretly desire
This is the truth: all girls crave a cave man type caring, no matter how independent or
feminist orientated she may appear to be. What does this mean for you? Your ego is your biggest
asset, as we have already discussed, even if youre migrating into the area of arrogance, this male
thing you have called your ego is your gift. All girls, regardless of type, stereotype, cultural
upbringing or background want, on some level, to be taken care of. They want to feel like the
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fairer sex. They want to feel like you can handle stuff because this makes her feel safe around
you. The feelings of security and comfort are two of the biggest factors which play into whether
a girl will sleep with you or not. If she feels comfortable with the idea of you, she will agree to
meet up with you in person. If she feels comfortable being around you (and youve ignited those
other sparks of desire weve chatted about), shes going to want to sleep with you. Its simple
math, but before I can break it down for you some more I want to discuss your psychology briefly
and show you why you need to start exhibiting and embodying a few key traits that all Alpha
Males have which make them seem very attractive to all girls.
In short these are the qualities of an Alpha male:
They are fun and fun loving (they are great to be around because they bring an aura of
happiness and positivity with them.)
They are confident and determined (no doubting yourself!)
A side note about presence here: confident men are irresistible men (and that includes in your
messages, and any and all interactions with her.)
Alpha men demonstrate wealth and intelligence but not in a look at me way (the same
way a girl may push up her large tits, bare her midriff, and wear ass cleavage all at the
same time out on the street interesting, good to look at perhaps but not all that
intriguing the same goes for you, show a little at a time.)
Alpha males are fair and humble, they do not brag about their status, because they know
that they dont need to. They are confident, proud and sure within themselves.
They display strong Alpha male body language, taking up space and ensuring you know
they are there (standing legs apart, torso facing your subject etc.)
They are aloof but enticing (that means, yeah she is hot, we already know this, but stop
focusing on that make something else in your surroundings, or something else about
her, your focus. Always remember, she is only an option for you.)
Hot girls have beta males laying themselves down at their feet like doormats all day long.
An Alpha male will never, under any terms, do that because you need her to be more than
just beautifu. (Beauty works for beta males because they dont value themselves and are
prepared to do anything for a little romp in the hay with a half good looking girl alpha
males require more than good looks.)
It is a girls wish to be beyond will, beyond thought thats where we want you to take us
to that place of, I knew I shouldnt have, but I just had to (insert explicit details of your
greatest sexual fantasy) We need you to make us (beautiful womankind) get out of our
minds and into our bodies, and you do that by acting like you can handle stuff because you
are secure and confident in who you are. We want you to be in control, we want you to be
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an Alpha male, so that we can let our guard down and feel safe, secure and comfortable being
around you.
As a final note, keep these facts about girls and seduction in mind as we go forth into the
territory where I teach you to how use, and interact on, Facebook to attract and seduce hot girls
of all kinds. And now welcome to the intimate details of the Facebook game!

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The Facebook Game

Welcome to Facebook, Mr. fellow worshipper of sexy girls, this is your prime hunting
ground for seeking delicious female company. Now that you are finally armed with a head full of
knowledge about how the segment of the gorgeous female population works, were going to dive
head first into the technical specifics of how to use Facebook to pick-up countless hot girls.

Your Profile
Profile Prep: the basic elements of what a girl looks for in your profile
A girl is going to view your profile in detail if she is even remotely interested in you, and
with the stuff Im about to teach you, re: getting her attention she will be. On Facebook, this is
where all the magic happens, where all your new knowledge of the female psyche comes into
play.
Youve got to know the truth, sizing up men is a fun past time for any girl. (Hey, youre
doing it to us its human nature.) Its in our blood to decide right away if a guy is worth our
attention, so here are the cold hard facts: we rate you, we checkout your profile to decide if you
are worth our time as a sexual option.
Ok, so what every girl first looks at is your cover picture and your profile picture, and then
shes onto scrolling through your wall quickly to see who youre chatting with (this is social proof
scouting which well get to shortly), and then, she may check out a few pictures from your photo
album. Facebook will also politely display if you have any mutual friends (which is a valuable
asset for you, but well get to chatting about that soon enough.) These are the basic elements of
any Facebook stalking session and Im going to show you how to use them to attract hot girls.
Remember that the game of seduction is all about creating a desirable perception of yourself,
and Facebook is the perfect place to do this because you can control what she knows about you.
Also, you can use this to your advantage and create massive intrigue surrounding yourself, so
that by the time you two meet up, she is already majorly interested in knowing more about you
at this point she is chasing you, seeking your approval.
What you post about yourself on Facebook is really important in the game of seducing
sexy girls, and being able to score hot dates, so pay attention here and do things the way I tell
you to.

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Pictures: your face, your name and everything else in between

Your profile picture has got to be your best shot and has got to look as bad-ass as you can
make it.
Fact: girls appreciate and respond to men of action. Statistically, the best profile pictures
are those of men doing something they love to do boating, reading, fishing, skydiving basically
whatever you enjoy doing in your spare time, get a GREAT picture of you doing it and make that
your profile picture, however and this is the most important point concerning your profile
picture - its got to be your best picture possible. This means nothing lame such as: you pulling a
gross face, a bad angle pic of you and your buddy downing as much beer as humanly possible, no
implied nudity and sure as shit, dont use another beautiful girl as your profile picture if youre
not actually in the picture yourself (this is intimidating for the girl youre hitting on and obnoxious
for more reasons than one.)
Your profile picture should be a shot of you being and looking awesome. Your picture is
one of the first things that a girl will see when first visiting your profile, and as Im sure youve
heard, a picture is worth a thousand words and this is especially true in the case of wanting to
get hot girls on Facebook. Sure, looks dont count on a guy, but everyone appreciates an
attractive person so, no matter what youre working with get a great picture of yourself
(preferably doing something awesome) and make that sexy-fine picture your Facebook profile
picture. Do it now!
The Facebook Cover Photo
Since Facebook has done us all the courtesy of introducing the relatively new time-line and
accompanying cover picture, you now have the equivalent of a billboard on your profile to
advertise what youre all about. However, if your goal is to attract and seduce hot girls then
there are a few rules you need to follow when choosing which picture to display as your cover
photo.
Unless you are an Abercrombie and Fitch model of some sort (aka: ripped as hell, and you
make wearing boxer briefs look like youre wearing too much material) then I strongly
recommend that you DO NOT use a picture of yourself as your banner advertisement.
No pictures of hot girls (without you in the picture) it makes you look like a desperate frat
boy who is more obsessed with looking at boobies then actually being able to feel them.
You dont want to use general pictures of your family, unless its a REALLY great picture
(an action shot.) In general, Id recommend AGAINST family pictures being used as your
cover photo (your personal advertisement of you) because it just looks rather dependant.
Youre trying to create the illusion of presence, independence and capability.
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 Animals and other cute stuff: you can totally use these but tread lightly, you want to still
look super manly. A picture of your cat as your cover photo may make your heart sing,
but even a hot girl with a cat may look at that and think, Ok, heres a man who clearly
doesnt have a life. The old lady with 9 cats stereotype exists for a reason. (Dont be that
person.)
Offensive slogans and pop culture sayings such as M.O.B (money over bitches)
although, your buddies may find this hilarious I promise you, any girl regardless of
sense of humor will look at that type of slang on your cover picture and instantly click
away. Youll just end up looking like a loser when you plaster potentially offensive slang
all over your Facebook domain.
Sparkles and anything that looks, well, not heterosexual. (Yeah, there are hot chicks who
are into bisexual guys, but I PROMISE you, these types are incredibly rare on any surface
level interaction. So until you know the girl personally, no pictures of you in drag. Cool
beans?)
A good cover picture contains any of the following elements:
Motivational phrases
You doing something incredibly awesome where you are NOT the focus, but the thing you
are doing (or looking at) is the focus
Sunsets, space pictures anything cool from this world we live in.
Bad-ass movie and music references (tread lightly here, make sure your chosen picture
doesnt violate any of the dont use rules.)
Thats about it, other than that have at er! Just remember, its better to choose a cover
picture that will blanket over many niches, genres and appeal to many different types of people
(aka: different types of hot babes) versus a picture that strictly expresses the uniqueness that is
you.
A personal note to any mamas boys: Im telling you right now, ONLY your MOTHER will love
you for you and Im pretty sure your mom is not anywhere on your hot female fantasy list so
stop acting like shes the queen of the party. Scrap that mamas boy mentality (at least when
youre on a quest to make your downstairs area sing with joy) and make sure that not only your
mom thinks your Facebook profile is awesome.

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How to use shirtless photos

Are you super cut, super buff and just extra delicious when you take your shirt off
yourself? Id love to see that! However, there are discreet ways to use sexy fine pictures which
increase your sex appeal and DONT make you look like a desperate dude who is simply looking
to get some random play. You want to look cooler than that, and here is how you do it when it
comes to using topless pictures of yourself.

Thou shall not take an Iphone picture of yourself in a full length, or bathroom mirror
and post it on Facebook! Ive only seen ONE example out of all the other thousands of
topless mirror pictures that have worked to increase excitement and sex appeal of said
gentleman. Generally speaking you just look desperate for attention and really, really vain
when you do this. Most girls will frown on these types of shots because it screams all
types of insecurity. Youre trying to bed a super hot girl, right? So you want the focus to
be on her, not on you. Trust me, if youre that delicious looking without your shirt, shes
going to notice and want you even more when you do things the right way.

This is the correct way to use shirtless pics of yourself:

Have a buddy take a few pictures of you with some friends playing beach
volleyball/soccer/rugby whatever sport you enjoy, however you got so ripped stage
it. Have an action shot (or a few) of you doing the thing that got you so manly looking
buff.
Show yourself shirtless at the beach, at a boat party, at a protest (if you do those types of
things) or any other place where its appropriate to be shirtless. The key here is that youre
not taking the picture of yourself. Obviously, someone else has taken the picture and you
just happen to be shirtless.
Photo Albums
Ok, so because youre a smart man I know youre picking up on the trend here when it
comes to posting pictures of yourself: youre optimizing them to appeal to hot girls. So, obviously,
you want your pictures to be optimized to convey the message of Im a super cool dude a
hunky man of delight who has a life and can handle stuff on his own. Ive got this awesome life
(look and see re: photo album pictures) and if you play your cards right, lady, you can be a part
of it.
Your photo album pictures serve as social proof (which we will get to in a minute) of you
having fun and being socially approved by other people in society namely hot girls.

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Important note: If you can throw in a few pictures of yourself with, or surrounded by, some other
good looking girls even better! This again, is social proof meaning, youve been approved by
other good looking females (because clearly, youve gotten pictures with them), which means
that the good looking girls patrolling your profile are going to instantly raise your social status in
their own minds. Being perceived as cool is just about strategic positioning, never forget that.
The goal is to have a 50 or so quality pictures of you doing cool and interesting stuff,
surrounded by other awesome people. I know its tough, everyone adds a hundred billion
pictures of you on Facebook and it all heaps up over time, but youve got to clean that stuff up
because your pictures create a perception of who you are.
Pictures of you with kids (your nephew, niece, brother, sister) or whatever are good, also
photo album pictures where puppies, kittens and other cute animals are involved are good (it is
here that you can post that treasured picture of you and fluffy cuddling.)
Mix in a few motivational quotes and phrases, weird art chicks love that shit because it
demonstrates that you have a deeper side to your personality. Read: youre not only concerned
with getting your freak on.
If youve traveled somewhere foreign, or been on any type of trip include a few teaser
photos, but dont upload every single picture from your trip. You want to create an element of
mystery surrounding yourself, so dont give it all away in your photo albums. You want to show
that youre cool, that youve been places, done things, and that youre awesome but shell have
to get to know you personally if she wants to know more. A few strategic pictures of you having
an awesome time will pique her curiosity and thats the general goal regarding your pictures:
you want to pique her curiosity to find out more about you and your awesome life.
Side Note: I dont care if your life is not actually awesome, she doesnt need to know this,
not if you want to get her into your bed. If she feels sorry for you, I can tell you right now that
she will not let you go anywhere near her lace bra and panty set. So, no to posting pictures which
make you look depressed, moody, sad or like you seriously need a therapist. Thats just creepy
save those pictures for your friends and family who actually care and have no desire to shower
naked with you.
Important note: De-tag any unflattering pictures of yourself. Get those off your profile by untagging yourself from any pictures that violate any of these guidelines I have been nice enough
to lay out for you. You can also set your profile settings to first approve any pictures that are
tagged with you in them. Youll find these settings under Privacy Settings below your Facebook
Account Settings option.

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This brings me back to the issue of social proof: using pictures of you with your friends.
Ideally, it would be best if all your friends looked relatively good(ish) in the pictures you post. If
you happen to have a 500 pound buddy with no style, Id recommend against using that picture
(if its a really bad angle) just dont do it. You want to surround yourself with pictures of your
buddies from good angels. Its just more aesthetically pleasing to the roving hot girl eye because
it makes you look like you roll with the cool crowd social proof. There is a reason that the hot
cheerleaders date all the jocks in high school because they are associated with the illusion of
cool. Facebook is a genius tool for picking up hot girls because you can make yourself look like
you hang with the cool people, even if you dont who cares. I personally love me some nerds,
Steve Jobs and his blue jeans, and white runners turn me on in massive ways, but Ill admit
when Im stalking a man on Facebook, I want to see that he has some sense of style and that his
buddies are marginally cool. It just makes me feel safer, because some baseline feminine instinct
demands that I fit in to survive socially (I blame my reptilian brain stem) so either way, make
yourself look cool in your pictures without trying too hard. The art of seduction simply lies within
a carefully constructed illusion remember that.
Content
Your About section on Facebook should be filled out as follows: Minimal.
Let me explain: girls love a good mystery (the tall, dark, mysterious stereotype is like cat
nip for the female brain) you dont want to give too much of yourself away, otherwise shes not
going to need to find out more about you. The goal is to get her attention by use of the messages
you send (Im going to show you how to do this) and then raise her curiosity about you through
all this profile prep, which will ultimately lead to her needing to meet you in person for a date.
So this is how you go about filling in your About section on Facebook:

Work related info, and school info networks: do it, if its impressive enough or simply
leave it blank.
Include one or two sentences about yourself which make you sound like a wicked cool
person, or leave it blank.
Include up to 3 of your favorite quotations under the favorite quotations section. This will
make you seem like there is a deeper, more thoughtful aspect to your personality, or if
you just couldnt care less leave it blank.
Include only a few of your favorite movies and books: you want to look like you enjoy pop
culture and all it has to offer, but you dont want to include so many references and
favorites that it looks like you dont have a life on Friday and Saturday nights, or leave it
blank doing so wont hurt your game.

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Again, sticking with the same themes as with your pictures: nothing offensive. Hot
Bitches Banging the ultimate porn collection is probably NOT something you want to
proudly display in your Facebook About section save that crazy-cray for when you chat
with your buddies.

The general rule here: less is more.

Friends - Social Proof
As we have already discussed, any girl scoping you out will be looking to social proof you.
This means, she wants to know who you know. Are you accepted within the greater community?
Everyone wants to know someone, who knows someone, because it could be a benefit to them
personally in the long run, and this fact has never been truer than with gorgeous girls. They know
that their beauty is an asset, but that it also wont last forever (this is something that plays in
their minds subconsciously), so the men they are looking to connect with are those men who can
provide safety, stability and comfort for them in the long run thats just how the female brain
works, EVEN IF a girl is simply just looking for some fun and great sex, these base biological
instincts drive the way in which she will connect with the opposite sex (it determines how
attractive she will think a man is.) What does this mean for you? It means youve got to broaden
your Facebook circle. A few years ago the New York Times ran an article about a man who threw
a party, inviting every single one of his 1000 Facebook friends and ONLY ONE friend (his best
friend) showed up to this party, and this wasnt a lamely planned party. There was a massive
dance hall, lights, a professional DJ- the works. I tell you this story so that you can understand
the difference between perceived social proof and actual social proof. Since you are using
Facebook to game girls (aka: interact with and attract beautiful creatures of admiration) the
situation you need to create for yourself is one that looks like you know a lot of people, and you
do this by increasing your friend count on Facebook. If you have 600 Facebook friends when a
hot girl checks out your profile, its going to look a lot better than only having 50 friends no
matter the quality extent of these friends.
This is what I recommend:
Start getting names and not numbers. As soon as you meet someone, add them on
Facebook. Get those friend requests sent. Most people will accept your friend requests
because they are also looking to create social proof the illusion that they are someone
who knows someone.
Join groups on Facebook (which we will soon discuss) and add those people (ladies and
gentlemen) to your friendship circle by sending them a friend request.
If youre adding a hot girl on Facebook for the sake of boosting your friend count and your
social proof (every hot girl likes seeing that youre already friends with and pre-approved
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by other hot girls) then keep in mind that she doesnt know if youre making a lame and
creepy getting to know you move on her or whether you just want to add her on
Facebook. Here is what you do:
First: try to see if you can quickly learn something about her from her profile. If she has just
about everything set to private then I recommend a bit of a sneaky-bitch move.
Melanie? Facebook has popped up your pic again as a Friend You May Know. I thought I
recognized you and now I see youre friends with [NAME OF FRIEND]. Did we meet at [NAME
OF A LOCAL VENUE] one night when I was out with [NAME OF FRIEND]? Do you know me, lol?
You can use variations of this type of message, but heres a breakdown of what it achieves:
It gives you a believable reason for why youre contacting and adding her. Even if she feels
its fake, it isnt so blindingly full of bullshit that shed call you on it because its an honest
mistake and an honest question.
You also state how you first found her. Keep in mind, not everyone you add will think Oh
, the Facebook Friends You May Know feature is probably how he found me - many girls
will immediately wonder What the fuck? Were you just creeping [NAME OF FRIENDS]
wall to find random girls to add? Thats gross. So the above gives her a believable reason
as to how you came across her. Hence, you specifically mention Facebook Friends You
May Know connected us.
The sexiest part of it all is this: you play the did we meet at game (which is ages old),
but youre at least smart and polished enough to throw in a specific venue or day (even if
completely made up) and then you end with a question AND a playful lol (or ha, or
smiley face - pick your poison.)
Most of all its SHORT! Nothing says Im a lonely, bored, needy loser better than long
winded messages out of the blue. You want to be like that blue-bird of Twitter (god I
hate Twitter) and keep your messages SHORT. Watch any action hero or cool guy from
any favorite movie of your choice. They arent the always-needing-to-hear-myself-talk
types or the Im-uncomfortable-so-how-about-I-talk-about-nothing types either. The
lesson here is to be like the blue tweety bird and keep your messages to hot girls short
and to the point.
The bottom line: expand your social proof by adding people to your friendship network on
Facebook and monitor your pictures to ensure youre looking like the center of dapper attention
from both guys and girls alike.

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Likes/Interests
The pages you Like matter for 2 reasons
1)

2)

a girl checking you out for the first time, will see a list of your Likes when they
first hit your profile what are they seeing? Comic Book Collectors
Anonymous and 3 Legged Cats Are Funny will NOT win you any good
attention.
on the other hand, Im about to talk to you about how to FIND girls too and
the Pages you Like and the Groups youre a member of will matter there. Well
talk of this in a bit but for now, make sure you clean up any Page Likes that
would be an immediate turn off. Do the same for movies / music / books if you
have some favorites that would seem immediately stupid, childish or gross to
most girls.

Status updates and comments

Since youre putting all this hard work and effort into designing your Facebook profile to
make yourself look like a total stud muffin, a profile that is sure to catch the attention of beautiful
girls, you want to monitor what is actually posted on your Facebook wall by other people and
what you personally post.
Lets start with your updates:
Following the same guidelines as with pictures, nothing offensively lame that screams
frat boy drama should ever be visible on your wall.
Facebook is not twitter. No one cares what you had for breakfast, or that youve had a
rough day, so limit your Facebook status updates to posting about stuff that other people will
actually enjoy reading. You may feel like a celebrity on Facebook, but I promise you, youre not.
As a general rule, you want to be posting about stuff that will interest your general Facebook
circle. Cool movies, witty sayings, personally crafted jokes, opinions about local news (nothing
too ballsy since you dont want to scare away sexy girls who may hold different opinions than
you.) So as a general rule, dont post anything specific to one political party or anything about
religion. You probably care more about her naked body then you do about her beliefs, so make
sure you structure your status updates and other Facebook posts in a way that will appeal to
many different types of people. Basically, always remember, its a status update not your diary.
Here is a great break-down from a friend about what NOT to post (basically, the most
annoying Facebook status updates of all time) he pissed a lot of people off. I recommend NOT
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copying this post, but DO take note on his mentions of useless play by play posts from your day,
the overuse of nothing but those viral photos and motivational photos (you can share them but
dont go crazy overboard). Same with posting none of your own witty one-liners and instead just
copy/pasting a joke or a funny phrase as every status making yourself seem funny yet you never
come up with your own stuff. And finally, I LOVE positive people and positive attitudes but I agree
with him that you dont want to be too over-the-top about it unless thats exactly the type of girl
youre trying to land:
Top 3 worst types of FB status updaters (see if you're one of these). ... the
#3 worst are the ones who post "beautiful day", "Im tired", "mmm hungry",
"lunch! yes", "uhh at work!" and other useless play by play updates. .... #2
worst FB statusers are the boys and girls who post motivational quotes - 3
times per day and nothing of their own ... and the #1 worst status posters
... are the ones who copy/paste jokes and one-liners that aren't even their
original material - 3 or 4 times per day. That's like a flat chested girl posting
pictures of another girl's cleavage... it will get some people excited and
entertained, but it's all just smoke and mirrors and false advertising. If you're
not funny, copy/pasting jokes all day long from your favorite Ha Ha sites won't
help that lack of humor of yours. (oh, and as a bonus... the #4 worst are the
ones that scare me because *every* post of theirs has the word "love" in it.
Heres a sexy-delicious tip for you:
If youre flirting with married girls and sophisticated, domesticated or otherwise
conservative girls, you can skip this part - but if your target girls are fun, excitement and
adventure seeking, nightlife or clubbing types DO NOT plaster status updates, photos,
comments and other activity on your wall (or theirs!!) when you should be out partying. So Friday
night and Saturday night Facebook sessions need to be used intelligently and (preferably)
privately. Meaning, it may be the PERFECT time to private message some of your girls, but its
the wrong time to post 2 Youtube videos and 3 status updates. Im not much for Friday and
Saturday nights myself: too crowded, too much drama, too many wannabes are out - BUT, I
understand that there are those party and let-loose type of nights - so its assumed that you
should be out somewhere, doing something fun... but certainly not creeping Facebook profiles
and posting viral videos.
Other than that, have at er. Update your status on Facebook and be cool. Keep the basics
of female psychology in mind when you do this. Girls like humorous, confident men with
presence. Status updates written with that type of tone and mentality will get a reaction.

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Comments On Hot Girl Photos:

I like girls, and I love beautiful girls, so naturally I LIKE any photo of them, but hitting like
on all (or even most, or hell even many) of their photos is obviously a no go. So before we go any
further I want to have a personal little rant about this topic. If you like a girl, please I am
absolutely begging you not to comment on every single one of her damn pictures. Do not, and
I repeat, do not respond to every freaking status update she posts, and sure as shit dont post
on her Facebook wall every damn day, its called ACTUAL stalking and makes you seem like the
embodiment of desperate. Nothing kills a sexy flame quicker than clingy, emotional neediness.
On Facebook, those types of qualities are exhibited by being up in her space all the freaking
time. Back off man, and watch her come to YOU. The key to remember with comments and posts
on her page is to show interest, be funny, be helpful but not over bearing and desperate. As
always, when it comes to the game of seduction and attraction, less is more. Have some self
control and only comment and post occasionally on her posts.
To really demonstrate how serious I am about this issue Im going to give you a delicious
little example (because, if I dont drive home this point youre going to f*ck up your game and
thats me saying it in the politest way possible) This is what you need to know:
There isnt a single girl on planet Facebook who needs a desperate, lonely, infatuated,
needy man chasing her. and while were on the topic of hot girl photos posting a Marry me
quote like every other guy wont score you gold stars (trust me, you WANT gold stars) but if you
know her well, a polished compliment This is a great photo of you, Anne or Well I cant say Im
surprised another photo where you look beautiful, Anne. Or a more playful I see you clean
up well these are perfectly awesome comments and make us girls feel fantastic. Just only
comment and like a few select photos, EVEN if you want to like every single one of her pictures
for all eternity she doesnt need to know that it can be your little secret.
Top level wizardry:
You know what annoys me even more than the creepy bastard who likes all the photos I
post of me and my girlfriends? Its the guy who NEVER reacts to my sexy photos, but I know he
always notices them because he does this sly move (and trust me, my girl friends can tell similar
stories)
The scenario is:
I post a hot photo.
I mean its the type of photo that if you wrote in saying I just played with myself to your photo,
Id reply with: obviously. Like tits popping, legs showing, back arching delicious photo
Naturally, the shit-for-brains entourage quickly all like it and post Wow, youre hot, I want
to fuck you, look at those tits and other words of charm.
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But every now and then I end up with one guy friend or a friend of a friend who posts something
completely off topic like Hey, coming out to The Lounge on Friday?
It would be negatively annoying if they stole my show for every photo. So Id resent and block
this guy if every time Im posting my best goods, hes up there replying with something off topic
but he doesnt do that, he keeps this sly little move for very select moments.
He throws in a completely off topic, or a SLIGHTLY off topic remark, into the collection of
Id tap that running commentary and he IMMEDIATELY stands out and gets my attention
because who the hell is this guy to not notice that Im rocking my most edible self? He doesnt
notice? But he obviously saw the picture since hes commenting on it! He doesnt care? It doesnt
impress him? It doesnt phase him? Who the hell is THIS guy and what makes him so special??!!
So now Im curious and yes, sweetheart, girls are like cats. Youve got to spark our
curiosity and get us to think What the hell, let me creep YOUR profile let me stalk you WHO
ARE YOU?
and that, my fuzzy little sex crazed monkey is where you want to step up your Facebook game
to. If that doesnt make perfect sense yet, no worries youll get it eventually and then you can
thank me. Youre always very welcome.
Simply remember my rant for now, were going to come back to this issue of commenting
and how you can use it to your advantage and increase your sex appeal by doing it properly.
Also, since I really like you for reading this far (the world could use more guys who know
how to interact with hot girls) I am giving you a gift recommendation a devilishly naughty little
app you can use to find ALL the bikini pics from all your Facebook friends. Got hot friends? Did
they post any bikini photos in their albums? This app finds them all. Go play with it (and then
possibly with yourself):

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Badabing! Details: http://techcrunch.com/2012/10/28/badabing-for-ios-helps-youfind-all-of-your-facebook-friends-bikini-pics/

Youre welcome.
More lady getting tricks coming up soon Im on a mission, remember: youre going to
adore me forever by the time youre done reading this book because Im going to show you how
to make your manhood happier than its ever been (Im talking about your ego head out of the
gutter playa...)

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Finding the Hot Girls

Hunting ground rules
There are two parts of your mission here:
Phase 1: Increase how many hot girls you know and how many know you in a favorable way. Its
called planting seeds.
Phase 2: You want to go in for the harvest so to speak. You want to turn introductions and flirts
into dates, hot girls with you at parties and sex etc. This phase also includes getting warm
introductions through her network and friends to find more hot girls.
Remember, technically, you are only separated from every hot girl on the planet by 6
degrees of separation and Facebook makes your job incredibly easy in your quest to find them in
your local area and local hangouts.
Groups: search and location
If its been a dry few months, perhaps years, and you need to get back out there (or start
getting out there all together) kudos to you for reading this book. Id recommend that you start
by searching on Facebook for groups, meet-ups and singles related sites within a 15 mile radius
of your home.
How to use Facebook singles related Pages and Groups in your area to meet hot girls
Step One:
You want to search for singles related groups in your area. For example, if you are from
Toronto search Toronto Singles, or Singles in Toronto its like using Google, except youre
searching the Facebook database for hot girls in your area, checking out which groups they
belong to and then joining those groups accordingly. You want to join any groups which pique
your interest and are related to the topics of: singles, dating, drinking, socializing and meeting
new people.
Step Two:
You want to like the Pages and join the Groups, then check out the other members
obviously, find the hot girls. This is a brilliant way to find girls because you now know four very
important things about them: they are hot, single, local and interested in meeting men so really,
if you play your cards right (and Im teaching you the skills needed in order to do so), the sky is
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Introducing yourself to these girls:

Do not introduce yourself by giving her a compliment. Every bubbling idiot messages her
with shit like wow, youre beautiful or wow hot or will you marry me or the other 100
million other ways you dudes try to approach a pretty girl by complimenting her on appearance.
If you want to message one of these sexy ladies in one of these groups and actually have
a healthy success rate, this is what you do:
You creep her profile briefly and see what information about her is available (everyone
does it and she does it to other people, so dont feel bad) does she have pictures, did she take
a recent trip, what are her recent status updates? What pages does she like? Basically, what can
you reference in your message to her? The goal is to form a connection, a bond over similar
interests, because you want to create a point of reference between the two of you. This message
should be kept short, but be crafted confidently and with a slightly humorous touch.

A side note about using the Poking option on Facebook: there are countless articles
available online which tell you to just simply send her a poke if you dont know what to say, or if
she has a very private profile and you cant figure out how to establish a shared connection.
Personally, I think the poke is the LAMEST invention EVER and I know that droves of hot
girls agree with me. For starters, just the word poking conjures up images of you wanting to do
things to her which, at this stage of the game, are inappropriate. Secondly, it kind of makes you
look lame and unoriginal. Are you that hard pressed for time that you couldnt take two minutes
to send her a message? Third: many men are sending her the good old Facebook Poke your goal
here is to stand out, which means, should she check who poked her recently (most chicks just
ignore the poke section of their profile sometimes for weeks on end), shes not going to respond
to someone who doesnt already have her interest, and since EVERY single interaction with her
is an opportunity to make a good impression, you dont want to look like you dont have the
social skills to send her a half decent message.
Most importantly: if shes even marginally good looking, I can promise you that your
poke is going to get lost in the sea of countless other pokes she receives. So, gentlemen, the
bottom line is simply this: ignore the poke option (unless she pokes you, then poke her back and
send her a cute and short message), but in general, stick to the wisdom I am imparting to you
about this stupid feature.

How to use any parties and other Events to meet hot girls in advance
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Step One:
Check out the Event page and look through who will be attending the event, especially if
they already wrote on the wall for the event.
Step Two:
Introduce yourself, get on her radar by doing the following:
Write something fun or witty in response to her event wall post (or on her wall if youve already
sent her a friend request and shes accepted it)- here are two great examples:
Please do NOT wear a tubetop with the Carebears on it. Ill be wearing that exact same top,
Id hate to have us show up wearing the same thing. PS: Hi
I see youre going to big bad Seans birthday party I figured we should coordinate our dresses
so we dont end up showing up wearing the same thing. Ive got a yellow sun dress in mind.
You?
The idea here is to establish a point of connection between you and some of the cute girls
pre-event. Its known, as building rapport, so that when the two of you are actually interacting in
person, a witty and fun association with you has already been established.
By now you should realize that the name of the game here is about increasing your
attraction and worth in her eyes (on Facebook, and through messages and interactions) before
actually meeting in person. This is brilliant because it gives you a real opportunity to be witty,
funny and mysterious without having the added pressure of interacting in person you can take
your time and actually come up with smart openers and responses. So take advantage of this
opportunity here, dude, Im giving your dick a free pass for the rest of its life.

How to use local venues, hangouts and past jobs to flirt with local girls
How to use a past job:
Lets use serving or bartending at a local pub, restaurant or club as an example here you
could have worked any place where youre required to interact with people on a regular basis,
maybe a tanning salon or a coffee shop etc.

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Here is an example introduction you can use when you find a good looking girl on
Facebook who lives, or spends time, in your local area. Im giving you an entry point here (hold
the jokes on that one)
Message her:
didnt I see you in ____________ the other day?
.but add some wit and pizazz to your own message, make it personally cool and relative. I know
youre a lot smarter than me, so Ill leave the specifics up to you but use my template as the
backbone for crafting your message to any local girl youd like to connect with.
Local events and hangouts:
As is the case with a specifically organized group or event on Facebook, the same is true
for any other event, hangout or party that shows up on your social radar. I have many guy friends
who have used this exact method to meet MANY hot girls by using the following tactic:
Message her:
Weve met somewhere right? We met at xyz
or

Hi, I think I remember you from (insert place name) from a couple of weeks ago. Thursday I
think.
What you did in that statement is (1) you gambled that she was there sometime in the
past 2-3 weeks. You stated a very generic statement, but you made it feel specific by throwing in
the Thursday I think. It will have her thinking about when she was last there.
What you want is not the girl who ignores the question or writes back No, wasnt me.
The only reply you care about is, What? Two weeks ago? I was at Cactus with my girlfriends last
week (or a few weeks ago, or on Saturday or whatever.)
Now you have an opening to simply convince her you were there at the same time and
you noticed her several times. Let her know whatever XYZ bullshit you ate and which friend of
yours you were with (make it up, its irrelevant.) Flirting isnt about truth just like parenting your
children is not always about truth. You tell kids about Santa Claus because its what they enjoy
hearing. Dress up a basic, simple, believable story about whatever - it makes the girl feel
comfortable about talking with you. You have plenty of time to stick with honesty if/when that
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Basically, just have some freaking fun with the whole thing, dont take yourself too
seriously. Theres no point in getting stuck in your own mind and making everything a seriously
important interaction. Its not. Girls love humorous guys who keep things playful and fun because
they are already dealing with their own serious life bullshit. Its your job not to take interactions
with her too seriously, make the introduction and just have fun with the entire process.
How to properly flirt with her friends
Hot girls usually hangout with, or know, other incredibly stunning girls; its all about social
proof. Gorgeous girls congregate together like penguins in the winter. So, getting to know one
sexy female is a gateway drug to getting to know other stunners in her network. There is a trick
to the whole thing though. You want to introduce yourself to her friends, and you want to let
them know how awesome you are (by way of your witty comments and interactions on Facebook
etc.), but you dont want to piss off the first hot girl you met, because if you dont do this properly,
and discreetly (in a seemingly innocent manner), youre going to run into massive problems.
Im warning you right now: girls talk amongst themselves about everything, especially men,
in explicit details. If girl number one knows you, and even remotely likes you, her friends will
know about it. So this is how you want to approach flirting with other sexy females in her
entourage:
1) If you met her through girl number one, you want to appear friendly, witty and awesome
but NOT come onto girl number two, three or four at all. If lady number one is still in your
rotation (or whatever), your goal is simply to put yourself on this other girls radar. Back
off, keep interactions to a minimum, and touch base on irregular intervals through the
use of a smart, witty or interesting post on her wall. This way youre doing it in the open,
so girl number one doesnt find out about your messages and lose her shit (or patience)
with you this is especially true if the ladies are both good friends.
2) The overall idea here is to put yourself on these other girls radars, but to do it in a way
that doesnt raise any red flags for hot female number one. Apply the same psychology
principles we have already discussed, follow the Facebook rules Ive laid out for you (keep
reading to increase your game and learn how to do the whole thing smoothly) and set
yourself up as the cool, fun, witty guy that they all know. This will do wonders for your
social proof and increase your pool of hot girl options to choose from, over time this
really adds up.
Reputation management
One of the greatest aspects about using Facebook is that it acts as your own personal
news service and you are the publisher, which means that you get to control almost everything
that is circulated about you. Every time you comment, like or interact with anyone, or on a
picture, it will show up in your news feed which means that everyone can see your recent
activity on Facebook. The same goes for pages you like and the groups you join. Its broadcasted
to everyone in your network. You can simply delete these news blast interactions as they show
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up (on the right hand side of your profile) next to your wall posts or you can change your privacy
settings to limit who sees what. You control what shows up on your Facebook profile and for how
long. You decide how you want to be perceived, so go forth and craft a reputation of sexy
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The Attention Getting Game

The Approach: First Messages
You best believe that those hot pictures she posts which you try not to jerk off to, or
maybe you do jerk off to (I dont really care) are strategically chosen pictures to make you lose
your marbles and message her stuff like this:
holy cleavage
Omg you are so beautiful
wow hot
Incredible ass
Could you be any more beautiful?
Youre gorgeous
The list of annoying, stereotypical compliments about her physical appearance could
continue on for an entire chapter. The point is this: every male she interacts with, and most men
who creep her page, message her say stuff like that, so again as we have already discussed - it
doesnt do anything to help you stand out from every other guy who is trying to gain access to
her perfect body. By messaging her stuff like this youve already lost the game because she now
knows that she has you by the balls, so to speak, and this means that she has WON and because
any good looking girl enjoys a challenge, making you want her is all part of the emotional roller
coaster she seeks. She now knows that she has the power to seduce you and have you in any
which way she wants (because you gave your game away by messaging her a stupid phrase
related to her physical appearance), which means that she can now toy with your emotions, and
mind because congratulations, she now knows how your dick feels about her.
Heres my hot little tip for you: keep most of your compliments and comments regarding
her physical appearance for when you two are actually getting better acquainted re: bedroom
action or similar. You want to bring her to the point where she actually wants to hook up with
you before complimenting her physical appearance. In fact, doing so when youre getting physical
will help her to feel more comfortable with you (funny how that works.)
Alternatively she also gets LOTS of boring messages like this (these guys think they are
being polite and smart, but they are just wasting their time by sending any message that looks
even remotely close to these examples:
Hey beautiful how's it going with you would u like to chat and see what happens
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Hey there, how's it going? What are you up to tonight? Would you be interested in going out
tonight?
Hey how's it going? Hey my names Jason, I'm 6"2, 30 years old and Im a gamer lol. Hit me up if
you want to chat.
Hi. (Really, you cant think of anything else to say??!!)
Hey Baby, whats up?
Hi, you are so beautiful. How about I take you out to eat at your favorite restaurant?
I know that I am probably not your type, but if you would just give me a chance then I will show
you that Im the nicest guy you could ever meet.
Usually these messages are short one liner, and include guys asking to buy her in one way
or another. These types of messages are very vanilla and do not give her anything of value. They
do not make her feel anything about the sender. Weve already discussed this important fact:
you want to get her attention and separate yourself from every other guy that hits on her by
making her feel something unique and exciting about you.
So, this is how you want to approach crafting your first message to a hot girl:
You want to be witty, you want to be unique, and you even want to be outrageous. If you
succeed at being humorous, playful and unique (no matter how weird or outrageous), she WILL
respond. The goal is, of course, to entice her to respond and if youve properly prepared your
profile to look awesome (as we have already discussed), youve just opened a thread of massive
flirtation possibilities that could lead almost anywhere you want it to.
The goal is to (1) get her attention (2) communicate all the right things about yourself so that,
even if she hasnt responded yet, you are now on her radar in one way or another. This is
important because you are placing your foot in the door. The next step is nudging open that
door with pristine skill. Pay attention here, Im showing you exactly how to do it properly.
Here are example messages which, although incredibly random, got a great response rate:

(Katie Model)

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Hey Katie,
Thanks for accepting the random friend request! If you ever out and about in Boston and
want to meet for a drink let me know it's always good to meet new peoplethis city is
wayy to small. Take care.
The next day:
Are you going to let me buy you a drink or coffee sometime?? It's random, I admit. I
have five older sisters that would beat me up if I didn't treat you well...may be worth a
shot :) Also, I am NOT a typical Boston frat guy!
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(Sexy Sportscaster)
Hi Kristine!
Just wanted to introduce myself, I have a friend that knows your friend Kathryn, and I'm
pretty sure we were the topic of discussion at some point ;) Anyway, it sounds as though
things are a bit complicated but if you want to meet at some point for a coffee, drink or
whatever, I know we'd have a good time getting to know each other at least. If you're
interested just reach out. Take care!
---------------

Meridith (model)
Did I just see you in the Back Bay possibly? Your head isn't nearly as big as it looks in
your profile pic...totally kidding ;)

Message Writing Tips

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You want to be original; use your unique wit to stand out. The goal is to get a reaction
from her by first getting her attention. (A message crafted to get a reaction will spur on a
message response.)
Context is key reference something specific in her profile, mutual friends etc, but do
NOT talk about her physical attractiveness in the first message interaction to her.
Emotions: use her emotional nature to your advantage by using your messages to inspire
her to feel something different about you (it doesnt matter what that different is you
just need her to respond, then youre in the game, dude!)
Sometimes, youre gonna want to roll like twitter and keep your message simple and to
the point: if you cant creep her profile because all her settings are super private, which
is going to prevent you from crafting a relevant and interesting message specific to her
then you can simply send a short message such as:
Will you join my wolf pack? (Hilarious! Enough said more often than not youll get a
reaction because youre being weirdly cool and illusive. What is this guy talking about
I have to find out Then the ball is in your court.) Mission accomplished.

What to do if she has NOT responded

At the beginning of this book I said that you are to approach finding and interacting with
hot girls as a mission with three distinct phases: research, strategize, execute.
Once your interactions with her have gotten to this level, you have now (obviously)
researched your target (that hot girl you want youve checked out her profile and you know
what shes up to in general.) Youve crafted your message of brilliance (strategy) and sent her a
shout out which is sure to get a response, so now you have to execute on the entire deal by
continuing to plant seeds before you can harvest the fruits of your labor.
Youre going to do this in 3 different ways:
-

Flirting and interacting by the way of wall posts

Strategic comments on her status updates
Private messaging magic

Wall Posts
Im going to go quickly here since we have already discussed ways in which you are not to
interact with her aka: fervently and helplessly like a desperately small man-boy. Youre taking
control and will, once a week (if appropriate and she responds positively), share something
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Keep comments on these posts minimal; just be the cool guy that shares something funny
or awesome with her, no big deal. Take a very casual approach to the whole thing.
If she doesnt respond at all then you stop posing. Just stop. Ill show you what to do if
she doesnt respond, and how to get her attention back again in a super sneaky way but for
now, keep reading.
Comments and her Status Updates
When youre first getting to know a hot girl on Facebook you want to keep comments on
her wall and status updates to a minimum. If something of interest shows up in a thread she has
commented on, or if she posts something which warrants a witty reply or comment go ahead
and do it, just remember this all important rule: less is more. Make every interaction with her
count by ensuring that you maintain a playful and aloof attitude whenever you post or comment
on threads in which she is involved.
Private Messaging Magic
Ok, so when she messages you back how do you deal with that?
(1) You stay cool and remember that your job is to remain mysterious and playful. The goal
now, since she is messaging you back (obviously some sort of base line interest is being
shown) it is time to raise your rapport with her.
(2) Get her number and get a date.
The dating debacle debate: listen gents, I know asking a girl out for a date can be a nerve wrecking
process, and really, I agree that its all just too much pressure. Its stressful for you, its stressful
for her and massive walls come up on both sides of the table not the ideal panty dropping
situation because then stupid 3 date rules come into play and comfort levels go down. This is
what I say you do the best results. You want to approach the whole dating thing as a casual
hangout/meet-up with sexual potential. So, in your mind, its a date but youre structuring the
interaction as a fun meet-up with her. You want to ask the girl out, when the conversation
indicates that it is the right time to do so, to a specific venue, night party, concert, event etc, but
never actually use the word date. Asking for an actual date puts too much pressure on the
meet-up. Also, simply saying Hey we should have coffee is lame. Its too boring, too drab
everyone does it. Its not cool enough and wont make you standout or seem awesomely fun.
You want to say something like, Hey, Ill be at xyz bar Friday night and you should meet me there,
bring your friends. This shows that you have a fun social life and youre not at home, in your
mothers basement, scamming girls online. Approaching it this way takes away from the pressure
of an official date because of the group setting. If she doesnt end up going, but she invites you
to meet her and her friends at a bar later that week you ALWAYS GO. She obviously wants to
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meet you, but she also needs the comfort/security of her friends in a place she chose, just in case
things get awkward. If you pass the test, youre 100% in.
Here is an example of a thread I found particularly amusing take note, gentlemen, this
is the continuing interaction with the model Katie from above:
Her:
Well lucky for you I don't date frat boys ;) I also don't date via Facebook, but 5 sisters? Sounds
like you deserve a break haha. Come here often? :)

Note: she is putting a question back in his court, which means that she is interested, but
unsure this is one of the ways a girl will test a guy she starts interacting with (more
soon about bullshit female tests and how to spot them so you can pass with flying
colors.)

Him:
Haha, I totally understand. Unfortunately I do spend more time on FB than I'd like! I'm starting
a company, and the majority of our ads will be on here...it's exciting! 5 older sisters3 older
brothers. Youngest of nine kids. God bless my mother :)
Her:
WOW, she must be quite the lady. I noticed your company, I have been in the dietary supplement
business for quite some time. I broker for a brand called DreamWater, also has 5htp etc. Congrats
on your venture and good luck!
Him:
Yes, she's the best. That's great! I know Dreamwater well, cool product. Good luck also! You
know where I am if you change your mind about coffee :)
Her:
I hadn't made my mind up yet, just trying to make you seem like less of a stranger with small
talk haha
Him:
Hm, let's see. I have a couple questions...do you live in Boston, do you like it? How long have
you worked at Dream Water?
Her:
Yes and I like it. City gets smaller every day but it's my home. Where do you live? I was with
DreamWater singularly until this past August. Now I just broker because I took on another brand,
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Avitae, Josh beckett's caffeinated water.

Him:
Born and raised in Gloucester MA but live in the North End, which I love. You're right-Boston
definitely feels small at times, but it is a great city. I've lived in a few different places before finally
moving back. Interesting, someone mentioned Beckett's new venture recently. You are plugged
in! Hopefully Mind-EZ will take off and we can work together :)
Her:
There are so many things I want to do in Boston, that I feel like tourists do but that I don't haha.
I'd like to actually enjoy it versus running the clubs (which I do weds and sats) I'd love to help
you with your brand! Let me know when you're ready for pharmacy chains! :)
Her:
I used to work in the North End, at Stanza the Cigar bar for over a year.... because of that I don't
think I could live there haha
Him:
I totally agree. There are a ton of things I'd like to check out that I see tourists enjoying haha.
#1 being the infamous Duck Tour! Running clubs sounds fun but I'm sure demanding on your
personal time. Stanza is one of my favorite places, I love cigars. But I would probably never
smoke one again if I had to work there haha. And yes, you will be the first person I call when,
not if, I get to that phase :)
Her:
I still go to Stanza once in a while to visit the girls and have one, let me know next time u go :)
I've never been on a duck tour either, but I'd need to involve alcohol, that's just a given. The
clubs can sometimes be a real pain in the ass, and at other times I make my weeks salary in a
night. Can't complain. I've gone out in the city long enough, might as well use my contacts to
make money doing it!
Him:
I will let you know next time I go, possibly this weekend its a birthday weekend. Couldn't agree
with you more on the duck tour, stiff drinks are absolutely mandatory! I'm not a big club guy but
go every once in a while...always good to change it up from the usual places. Good for you for
taking advantage of your contacts to make good money, you sound like a true entrepreneur ..
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How to Read a Girls Response

Youre going to need to draw her into your world, create a sense of curiosity surrounding
yourself. If youre doing your job correctly shes going to get wrapped up in you and this is
where things could get complicated if youre not paying attention. As you can see from the above
conversation Katie is starting to warm up to the man who first contacted her. His game: being
friendly, interested and patient. The ball is in her court, but he is not laying down at her feet like
a lap dog. Did you also notice that NOT ONE mention about her gorgeous physical appearance
has been referenced? Hes holding his own in his conversation with her, leveling the playing field
approaching her with openness and curiosity.
You can tell that Katie is interested in this man because she keeps responding with
relatively detailed and specific answers to his questions. She is also fully engaging with him one
of the first signs of this unsure interest (as Ive already pointed out) is that she threw out a
question for him to answer. This man took the ball and ran with it good show! This makes me
proud.
What to do if she doesnt respond
Now check it out, Katie has not responded for a while so what does this man do? He lets
sleeping dogs lie. He doesnt contact her for a while and then, a week or two later he sends her
this simple message:
Him:
How is your week going?
Her:
Just saw your message. Very very busy but good, and yourself?
Him:
Ugh!! Crazy busy. Finalizing our company website. Hired an amateur designer, sucks. Coffee or
Stanza, you name the date I'll be there

Again, she does not respond. Notice that coffee was mentioned and since she is still
unsure about how she feels about him, she is simply choosing to ignore him - not willing to
commit to any type of date yet. He waits and does not contact her in any way and then, a week
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Him
How was your Christmas?
Her
It was really nice. Time well spent with family. Yourself?
Him
Good to hear, mine was great, got some stuff done around the house for the folks which is always
good. Have a good night if we don't talk
Her
You as well :)
Him
How about we kick off the New Year right and get coffee together? Time and place of your
choosing?
Her
Persistent, I like it. Although, I'm intrigued to know why...my annoying promoting Facebook
profile is it that attractive? Haha

Note: another test. An attractive girl is used to having men hit on her. Its a natural
defense mechanism, making him work for that coffee date. If hes worth it he wont give up
(this is how her brain works is he the hero? Is he worth her time?)

Him
Haha yes it's definitely the promotions. No, you seem nice and definitely smart which is really
attractive.

Note: still no focus on her physical appearance, he is finding other things to compliment
her on. This is another test on her part, What does this man REALLY want from me?

Her
Nothing to do with my butt huh? bummer. hahahaa
Him
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Hahaha! I hadn't noticed. All about the personality :)

Her
You know it's never good to start a relationship on lies ;)
Him
Haha! I noticed your butt. You look absolutely incredible in that dress. Now we're off to a good
start.
Her
haha I was just messing with you...but thank you very much.
So I noticed we have mutual friends. How do you know Monica P?

Note: yet another test. Social proof BUT she is also carefully fishing for more information
about who and what this man is all about. (This shows that she is very much on the edge of
wanting to meet-up with him, her curiosity is getting the better of her but first: she is throwing
out yet another typical female shit test.)

Him
Monica and I dated briefly, I doubt she'd give the best reference, our personalities didn't match
up.
Her:
Oooooh, enough said. Sorry to pry! I'm a TAD more laid back than she. lol
Him:
You're not prying, but that's good to know!
Her:
So how many first dates has the "kissing the baby" pic gotten you thus far? haha
Him:
Haha, I haven't tried that angle before. I have a special bond with that one :)
Her:
I tend bar at my friend's new place Julep tonight at 6 if you happen to be in the area. My schedule
is all over the place, but if you'd like to try to get together mayyyybe we can configure something
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soon :) 508-809-xxxx

Side Note: and he scores!! He now has her phone number because he successfully passed all
her tests (carefully constructed honesty being one of them.) Also notice how the mention of
another girl quickly made her jump to plate. Typical female competition mixed in with a weird
amount of social proof. She now wants to prove to him that she is worth his attention. He has
successfully gotten her to the point where she is now chasing him. Double score!

Him:
Sounds good-I'll stop by if I head out tonight. Mine is 617-312-xxxx
Her
Great, enjoy your evening.

That, gentlemen, concludes a flawless execution process. Let me help you further analyze
this conversation, so that you can also grab yourself some sexy ladies and models for hot date
opportunities.

Conversation Tips
Above all remember this: loose lips sink ships.
Notice how our hero in the above scenario did not have to even ask for her number, she
gave it freely. Now, this wont always be the case but patience and mystery worked very well
for our man. He was open, friendly, responsive, persistent and NON CREEPY approaching her
in a genuine way and not as a sex object (regardless of what he actually wanted from her.)
A good conversation thread is like playing poker. You do not reveal all your cards at once,
instead you wait (ideally) for that sweet royal flush, but other (lower) combinations will also get
the job done and put you on the winning streak, so you wait for your best hand and then you
make your move.
Remember these top tips when chatting with hot girls:
You always want to leave her wanting more; this will turn the tables on her and eventually
have her chasing you. This is always the goal. Shes got to feel like she needs to work for
your approval. Notice how Katie was very cautious of our man at first, acting like she held
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all the cards but by the end of their slow interactions, a few weeks later, she was the
one open and willing to show him her cards in order to see his. Our man above stayed in
control of this interaction with her not being needy or dependant on her responses, and
Ill say it again having the patience to wait for timing to play out in his favor.

The timing factor is very important for any girl. She needs to feel like she is ready and willing
to meet you. Especially for a girl who is used to being hit on all the time (read: being propositioned
for sex almost every day), shes going to take a while to warm up to you so she can figure out
what you really want from her. Its your job to remain patient and hold your ground. If you do
this, like a magnet attracted to its sticking point, she will gravitate back towards you when she is
ready.
Communication
I cannot over emphasize the following points more strongly regarding your interactions
with beautiful girls: consistency and active listening are solid keys to your success.
Words are tools for the female brain, as is your emotional state is the key to her comfort
level with you. Dont try and win the verbal game with any girls. Ladies are wired to know more
about words then any man ever will know. On average, a man uses around 10,000 words a day
a girl can use up to 50,000. Your job as a man is to listen to her, and if you learn to listen correctly,
you will get all the information you need to make her feel happy and comfortable in your
presence: which means, inevitably, shes going to drop it like its hot, and show you whichever
other skills she has - all in an attempt to impress you.
Questions
Your greatest weapon of seduction and charm both online and offline lies in your
ability to ask questions. The very essence of charm lies in making the other person feel like they
count, like they matter and you do that by asking questions about them. Everyone loves to talk
about themselves (its human nature) so make her the center of your attention and watch as
she eats out the palm of your hand.
The trick to asking great questions and getting interesting responses, which will be the
building blocks for a fun and interesting conversation, lie within the flow of conversation. A
typical conversation will take on the following pattern flow:
1. Surface level stuff: Where do you live? What do you do for a living? etc.
2. Slightly more personal: Favorite food? Favorite movies? etc.

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3. Personal: Where did you grow up? Family life? etc. (A note of caution here: you want
to avoid the heavy, relationship, serious, soap opera type questions and keep the entire
mood and tone of the conversation light and playful.)
4. Sometimes, if the mood is right and she seems open to the flow of the conversation this
forth element of conversation and light hearted questioning can be swapped with number
3 this element is all about sexually suggestive, flirtatious, erotic and racy themes. Of
course, these are the best types of questions and as soon as a lady and a gentleman start
discussing these types of things, its a gateway drug to other types of sexy games.
Some playful (sexual) question examples:
1) Whats your favorite body part on a man/woman?
2) Any nicknames your past partners have given you? Sexual or other? :p
3) Whats your favorite thing about connecting physically with another person?
and so forth. Be careful about when you introduce these types of questions into the
conversation. More often than not, it will be AFTER you have gotten her number. Refer back
to the conversation with Katie, no sexual questions were exchanged: the conversation flow
had not yet progressed to this level. Its all about the warm up my friend. Patience begets
panty dropping results; repeat that mantra to yourself if you find yourself focusing on the
sexual areas of conversation only. Listen to her answers, respond accordingly. Let her lead
the tone, feel the general direction of the conversation. Your role is simply just to listen as
she does the talking and revealing of herself this will leave you as a memorable and
mysterious entity in her mind.
A worthy side note about conversation topics: honestly, you should never run out of anything
to talk about with anyone no matter how boring that person is. I dont care if youre talking to
the equivalent of a cardboard box (trust me, Ive been there), you can find subjects of common
interest and heres the catch: even if you dont have any subjects of common interest with a
hot girl youre trying to bed who cares! Shes hot, you want her body, thats all that matters at
this stage in the game, so talk about things that she likes. I know youre a smart man, you will
figure it out. Think about subjects which relate to your life: food, music, movies, clothes, pencils
you can get very random here but you can talk about it and again youre just asking the
question and shes doing all the talking my friend. Whats your favorite color pencil? What?
I want to know what your favorite color drawing pencil is? Why does it matter? Its a secret,
but I promise it will blow your mind its a question worth answering. Red. Cool, that means
youre a passionate person. Blah, blah, blah you just killed a minute of time. Practice begets a
good conversation skill set, and using Facebook Chat is the perfect place to practice because
there is less pressure of a face to face conversation, you have a little time (and privacy) to practice
being a conversational ninja.
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A final note about messaging: Spelling. It really matters (because to her, its a sign that you
are intelligent.) No girl with half a brain cell will be impressed by a guy who writes, hey baby
what u up2 2nite, dat concert looks sick wanna cum wit me? or even a long (unique) message
plastered with such English delights, not in this modern age of spell check. Im just bringing you
the facts from the latest Harlequin Romance report (yeah, I read that stuff for you) good
spelling came out on the list of the top 3 factors that are most important to any girl interacting
with a guy online. Spelling and basic grammar matter. Im just telling you what the important
survey collecting people said. You cant fake the data. Do with it as you will.
The game SHE is playing
I know getting rejected, on any level, really sucks I know, and I get it. Thats why I want
to walk you through the different types of mind games any hot female is playing. She probably
doesnt even know that she is purposely playing these head games with you but Mr. let me
tell you RIGHT NOW, that she IS testing you on many different levels. Her tests come in many
different forms and every freaking female on the planet does it whether she is bisexual, gay or
straight shes testing you, undoubtedly so.
This idea of a girl testing you is a very vast psychological topic and I would need an entire
book this size to fully brief you on all the finite intricacies, so what I have done for you here is put
together a general summary of the topic, which will help you navigate your way through
interactions on Facebook with hot girls - so you can get her number and a sexy delicious date.
Following is a break down on how to spot her little tests so you can ace them every time
and propel yourself into hot girl naked games world:
The four main types of emotions that girls feel when they throw a test in your direction:

Playfulness
Frustration
Disgust
Dismissal

Playful testing is an emotion she feels when she is on the fence about a guy and not yet
dead-set on considering him a sexual option altogether. All the other 3 emotions (frustration,
disgust, dismissal) are an auto-rejection response and shes throwing him a lifeline at
redemption. Her thought process is pretty much, I hope he says, or does, the right thing so that
I can change my mind about him.
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1) To weed out the men from the little boys she wants a man to feel up on her, not a little
boy inside the body of a man.
2) Shes hoping to throw you off balance with her playful little tests in the hopes that shell
turn her views of you into a negative association (when she does this she is on the edge
of stepping into the middle part of the formula where her emotions drive her attraction
for you.)
Lets review what we have already learnt about girls and their mind tests thus far:
o She will question you
o She will make you wait, shut you down and see if you are man enough to pursue again
o She will purposely not respond and see how you handle that (do you weakly chase her,
bombarding her with messages because she paid even the smallest shred of attention to
you?)
o She will be slightly cold, at first beautiful girls do this very often. If they were to respond
openly to every man that hit on her, she would never get anything done (this is just a
defense mechanism and below we will go through how to deal with this)
o She will test you to see what you really want from her.
o Information fishing who is THIS man?
Heres the deal: beautiful girls get hit on so many times they dont have to put up with weak
men, theyve also dealt with enough men to quickly fish out the real men from the little boys
trapped in big men bodies. You dont want to be one of these men in her eyes, so youve got to
learn to recognize her tests.
Different types of girls will test men for different things (depending on what is of most value
to her.) Some girls will test to see if you have money, others will test to see if youll spend money
on her, some will test to see if you are intelligent and others will test to see if you are loyal but
mark my words, the most important test, and the one you need to learn how to spot and ACE
every damn time is this all encompassing fact: a gorgeous girl will test you to determine if you
are a weak wussy, a little pussy boy who can be easily whipped into submission and respond to
her every little demand. I can tell you right now, she does NOT want that from any man she
spends time with. Its unattractive. Think back to all those what you are doing wrong things we
discussed at the beginning of this book they all boil down to this one simple fact: they make
you look like a little trainable puppy dog. No girl with options wants, or needs to, put up with that
(and since she has a pretty little vagina): she has plenty of options every single day.
Throughout this book we have already discussed why you dont want to look like a
submissive, ass-kissing boy who has no balls, and weve already gone through the details of
ensuring that you become, and are, an Alpha male so you should be able to pass any of her
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tests with flying colors once youre finished reading.

Almost all of a girls little tests will fly below your radar and are incredibly subtle and
seemingly innocent. That is why you need to start learning to pay attention to your gut. If youre
getting that tight, panicked feeling in your gut when she throws a question, or demand, your way
I promise you this shes probably testing you in some small (yet important) way.
Passing her tests will determine whether you get into her panties or not, so the general rule
when it comes to acing any test that any girl throws your way is: OWN YOUR SHIT. Thats right;
you want to own EVERYTHING you do.
Heres a classic example:
You are at a bar and a cute girl makes eye contact with you. What is your natural reaction?
You look away.
Well, you just FAILED my friend. Sure, you may sneak a glace again when you think she is
not looking, but that doesnt help you. She already knows youre not confident enough to own
the fact that you were checking her out.
Its a process to start understanding and recognizing these tests especially in person
but that is why, yet again, Facebook is the most awesome hook-up tool ever invented because it
gives you an opportunity to pass her tests behind a screen where you can calculate your words,
and analyze her responses to ensure that you craft an image of yourself that is desirable.
Here are a few important examples of tests to look out for:
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When a girl tells you what to do (in any shape or form) she is testing you.
When a girl tries to change plans or cancel at the last minute, shes testing you.
When a girl asks you to buy her something, shes testing you.
When a girl nags, whines or complains, shes testing you.

MOST men will respond to a beautiful girl by trying to win her approval. If she cancels plans,
youll say Oh, no problem.
If she complains about something, youll say Im sorry, let me fix it.
These are all early stage tests aka: BEFORE she has met you, or before she has invested
emotionally in you. Once she has invested in you she will test you again are you kind? Do you
approve of her? Etc.
Dont worry about that type of are you relationship material tests that is beyond the scope
of this book. What you need to know is this: you DONT want to bend over backwards to her
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requests, whims and demands. Most of her tests during these early phase interactions are simply
tests to see if youll allow her to control you and remember its your job to be in control of
yourself and of your interactions with her. Now let me make myself perfectly clear: this does not
mean that you need to understand her perfectly good luck understanding any girl, we hardly
understand ourselves sometimes. What you simply need to strongly grasp in order to navigate
the mine field of traps beautiful girls place and throw out as defense mechanisms (because she
has so many men vying for her attention promising her the world) is simply this:
-

An arsenal of knowledge about a girls core needs (which I have already given you earlier.)
Follow the instruction I have already given you throughout these pages and when you get
to dealing with her tests you will pass with flying colors if you remember the following
thing:
She wants you to be valiant, she wants you to be the hero she wants to use her charms,
seduction and gorgeous body to please you, but shes testing you to see if you deserve it.

Heres my greatest gift to you yet: you can SKIP ten levels of initial testing, and accelerate the
process of getting together with any girl if you do the right things (as we have already discussed)
to trigger her emotional attraction for you. Its really that simple. Sure, you can show her that
you are a real man, a leader, self-confident blah, blah, BUT that all means absolutely nothing, if
it doesnt accomplish the thing you absolutely have to make her feel if you want to get with her:
ATTRACTION.
This is the crucial part of the equation my friend, and attraction for any girl all starts in the
mind. Triggering a girls emotional attraction for you simply lies in learning to be patient. Your
job is just to plant a seed in her mind and respond as a strong, confident man who can hold his
own.
Girls dont go through a logical process to decide if theyre going to feel an attraction for you,
because, for her, attraction isnt a choice, its a result. It just happens, but it doesnt happen very
often for her (think about it hundreds of men in the course of her life will hit on her in some
way or another this is especially true in a digital age, but maybe about 20 will really spark her
attraction and interest, only a hand full will drive her crazy. You can be that guy, that guy that she
wants in crazy desperate ways, if you work her emotions correctly. So keep reading Im about
to reveal the top 3 secret tests every hot girl on this planet will throw your way.
The top 3 tests any hot girl will throw your way when chatting on Facebook:
1) She will ask a lot of questions. This is a sign of interest, but it is also a test. If youre overly
eager to give up the information she wants, then shes going to quickly get bored with
you. Its very low value to be so eager to answer all her questions. This is what you want
to do: challenge her by keeping your answers flirtatious and playful. If a girl asks you three
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questions, for example, you need to at least make one of your answers challenging, cocky
and funny.
Her: What do you do?
You: Oh Im an incredible mixture of super hero and deep sea diver - highly skilled at hunting
the most dangerous of marine life for the US Space Museum.
Obviously, shes going to know youre joking.
Her: haha, no really what do you do?
You: On a scale of 1-10 how much would you really like to know?
Her: 10 out of 10.
You: Ok Im xyz (now you can turn the tables and ASK HER a question remember, you
want to get her talking, you dont want to give up all your mystery by answering all her
questions too easily.)
2) Test number two: she tells you what to do. For example, lets say youre a magician (and
for whatever reason you have your deck of cards with you) I know youre probably not
a magician, but the principle is still the same regardless of what shes asking you to do.
Her: Show me your best card trick.
You: Im off the clock hun, but maybe later if you play your cards right
Know this: when she throws a command your way she is taking a leadership role in the
interaction, and she will maintain that lead if you go along easily and do whatever she demands
or asks. You always want to be the one leading the interaction, youre the one always in control
when youre talking, flirting and picking-up girls. Always, throw back her question to her have
fun with it and retake control of the frame of the conversation.
The bitch test: as already discussed, shes tired of men (weak men) hitting on her too easy
and boring for her, no excitement and no challenge. If shes gorgeous, know this: she has her
guard up and its your duty to see through this defense mechanism and call her on it. If shes
being bitchy, or acting stuck up, with you then say something like this:
Look Im sure you have men hitting on you all the time, but you can drop the act with me,
we can just be real you dont have to play games with me sweetie lets try this again Im
Ethan

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Immediately this sets you apart from the pack because it shows her, on whatever subconscious
or conscious level, that youre used to being surrounded by beautiful girls, which is immediately
going to raise her attraction factor for you.
Diminish the times where you look like youre dealing with little boy syndrome and
show her that you are a REAL man by being confident and taking the lead of the interactions, and
conversations, you have together. Practice this, do it and you will officially be able to add serious
panty dropper to your social resume.

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The Friend Zone

The JUST FRIENDS zone
Heres the deal, often times a beautiful girl is going to stick you in her just friends line of
non-eligible pursuers if youre not careful about how you approach your relationship with her.
Being in her just friends zone means youre not going to get any action, homie. Zero, none,
nada. I know its a very painful thought. Beautiful girls are not short for male attention or male
friends and on any given day she has at least a dozen male friends who she can call to hang
out with. If you want to tap that or if you dont care about any further interaction with her,
besides sexy time and dating potential, then youve got to avoid her friendship circle with all
ferocity that resides within you, my man.
Fact: men often mistake friendship for chemistry and you need to be able to distinguish
the difference between the two if youre going to stand any chance of removing yourself from
her just friends zone. If you do happen to find yourself in her just friends circle, youve got to
GET OUT OF IT stat or you will never ever get past first base with her.
Following are a few signs you need to watch out for, and if you notice any of these tell
tale youre just my friend signs youve got to rectify the situation immediately by stating your
intentions with her firmly, strongly and clearly. Youre leading the interaction, No were not just
friends. This is how it works:
Youre in her Friendship Zone if:

She tells you what a good friend you are, or will, make. If this is happening you need to
shut her down right away by saying something like, Were not just friends nope dont
even think about it. The idea here is to stay open and friendly with her, but make it very
clear that you are indeed flirting with her. You want to make it clear that yes, although,
she is great and wonderful and all that good stuff, you are pursuing her for more than just
friendship. She may throw up defenses and protests, but shell respect you more for being
man enough to stand your ground with her.

She talks about other guys a lot. If the two of you have been chatting for a while and
she constantly references other men that she is interested in, Im telling you right now,
buddy, youre in her friendship zone. Again, youve got to state your position with her
clearly, youve got to be direct and make it clear that you are, in fact, wanting more than
just friendship from her. The trick, at this point, is to back off a bit. You dont want to
make yourself too available. You want to maintain a flirtatious, fun and playful attitude

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with her, but youve got to step away from any emotional neediness she may be
associating you with (friends rely on each other emotionally.)
There is a flip side to this point though: IF she only occasionally mentions other
dudes then she is, more likely than not, just testing you to see if you show any indication
of jealousy. This testing mechanism is most definitely a strong indication that she wants
you all up in her zone if you know what Im saying.

She tries to set you up with her friends. Heres the catch, this could also be a test
depending on how she approaches the whole deal. If she is randomly making this offer, it
could be genuine since she considers you just a friend or shes trying to see how you will
react what type of man are you? Will you jump at the chance to meet new p*ssy?
Regardless of her motive, youve got to stand your ground by making it clear that its her
youre interested in, Youre sweet, but Im not interested in your friend, Im interested
in you. and youre just going to have to deal with that

You invite her out, and she wants to bring other people along: Im not referring to an
obvious double date, Im referring to a conversation that looks like this:
You: Lets go to a movie on Saturday night.
Her: Yeah, that sounds fun. My girlfriends and I were looking for something to do.
Any response that involves her friends is a deflection; its her way of saying Sure, we can
hangout as friends. In this case you need to restate that you are interested in her, and
not her friends.

There's no awkward silence. Lastly if she felt anything sexual for you at all, there would
inevitably be an awkward silence between the two of you, at some point, on your first
date or meet-up. So, lets assume you got that first date and she wants to take things
slow which means that no panty dropping action has occurred yet, and all of a sudden
shes calling you a friend this and a friend that think back to that first meet-up. If
there was, at any point, that moment where you both pause and kind of just stare at each
other and then quickly look away this is a sure sign of serious baby-making chemistry. If
that never happened, she's not into you truth. One thing you cannot fake is I want to
rip your clothes off right now chemistry. Sure, if you play your cards right, a girl can feel
sexual attraction for you based on other things, but if she is too comfortable around you
during that first meet-up (aka: no awkward silences, or cute little flutters of the eyelashes
etc.) shes not feeling you, man. The beauty of all this is that you CAN avoid that were

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just friends syndrome if you lure her into feeling that type of attraction to you over
Facebook interactions before you actually meet-up in person (remember, you want to
capture her mind her imagination and then her emotions will follow.) If, and when, the
two of you meet up and she has already invested in her attraction towards you, regardless
of physical chemistry, shes going to want to make it work, because after all she knows
that she already felt all that attraction for you. Remember, the example with Katie,
slowly her mind opened up to the attraction possibilities with our man in those IM
messages, and then her emotional curiosity and excitement compelled her to casually
suggest they meet up. No matter how small, Katie had started to develop an attraction
for this man, and my guess is that she would over look any flaws or red flags she sees on
that first date, because girls dont like to admit to themselves that their attraction radars
were way off. Facebook kinda screws that up for us, but for you - using your new found
hot girl getting skills you can now throw a serious sex party in your pants whenever you
damn well choose to.
How to avoid her Friendship Zone
Youre a good guy, I know you are and thats why I want to help you to not get trapped
in the biggest detriment to your unbridled happiness and sexy pleasure with beautiful girls.
Following are things you can do to avoid her friendship zone from the very first
interaction. The trick here is that you always want to be very clear about your intentions from
the beginning keeping the rules and guidelines in mind which we have already discussed re: her
psychology.

You want to ask her out right away: when you first start chatting with her you dont want
to be too subtle about your intentions with her. Youre leading the interaction which
means you approached her for a reason for a date. Keep this goal in mind and always
circle back to it no matter which tests, roadblocks or barriers she puts in front of you.
Youre a man on a hot girl getting mission, always remember that.

Friendliness and allure is the name of the game: youre not her buddy goofiness and
self depreciating humor can make a girl laugh (which we have already covered), but when
youre first chatting on Facebook you want to create an image of being cool, in charge
and aloof. This means, save your extremely self-depreciating (although funny) remarks
for when you get to know her a little better, in the beginning you want to remain friendly,
open and alluring by working that mystery angle all girls love so much. Who is this guy?
Dont be too available: a girls curiosity will drive her on towards wanting to get to know
you better. Being overly available and easily figured out (aka: she gets an essay from you
regarding her questions etc.) is going to result in a loss of interest on her part. My number

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one tip about this: always be the first to leave. Follow the 3 hour rule on a date, cutting
the interaction off at its peak point, Im having a great time, but I promised a friend wed
meet up for xyz lets do this again? Doing so ensures that you leave at the height of the
interaction, which means you leave her with a great first impression. The same goes for
instant message chats, say goodbye first. If she writes you a private message, there is
nothing wrong with taking a few hours even a day or two to respond if needed.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

If a girl is really harping on her just friends thing with you, make yourself scare. If she
doesnt want to date you, in whatever capacity youre setting forth, she doesnt get to
hang out with you, or message you for hours shes got to go out with you to gain access
to that delicious wit, intelligence and Sauve youre working with. Stand your ground here,
or youre never going to tap that. Some girls like to play it cool, which means youve got
have patience, and she will (more often than not) come over to your view of things if you
show (via your actions) what does and does not get your attention. Shes got to want to
get vertical with you, in some small way at least, if she wants you to keep sending her
soliloquies.

Youre already in her solidly established Friendship Circle now what?!

This may be tough to do at first, but youve got to back away. Youve got to give her time
to miss you and you do that by being less available, less interested. No one likes to have
something taken away from them, in this case your attention and affection. Shes probably
going to keep contacting you when you do this, in fact she WILL do this when you start ignoring
her all of a sudden shes going to clamor to get your attention back. Stay cool. Dont budge. Tell
her youre busy, be nice about this youre not trying to ice her out completely or be mean, you
just want to make sure that she knows you have other things going on besides her. This is human
nature: people are attracted to the pursuit. No one likes a sure thing. Shell eventually come
around or not. If not, accept it gracefully and dont throw a little rejection pity-party in your
pajamas on the coach. Deal with it like a man and ACCEPT IT put her in your own freaking
friends zone and ask her to hook you up with one of her hot friend, or be your wingman at a
social gathering. Beautiful girls make the best damn wingmen of all time social proof
psychology. Being friends with a gorgeous girl has its advantages not to be ignored.
If you get rejected, be graceful and move on its what a real man which real hot girl
getting SKILLS does. Ive taught you well, so yes, you are both a real man and now a hot girl getting
wizard. Act like it shake it off and move on.

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A Few Final Words

Congrats, youve passed my test by getting this far in the reading process youre probably
going to become a master at picking-up hot girls because clearly, you have the patience to do so.
This is one thing I know without a doubt: youre going to rock this sexy lady finding, delicious
panty dropping show like no-ones business I know this because its working for me, for my guy
friends, and many other men worldwide. Also, Ive given you some serious SKILLS to be successful
with almost any gorgeous girl you meet. Always get her Facebook info, and then let your master
seduction skills and brilliance flow forth. Youre now part of my elite inner circle of fearless men
who know how to approach, attract and bang I mean bag pretty ladies with sexy bodies.
As a side note: If you do happen to bag a super-hot, super awesome girl as your girlfriend
from all this sexiness Ive been teaching you how to surround yourself with treat her well, its
probably a lot harder to find her type of quality amongst all the beautiful faces in this world.
I know Im right, so dont even try and argue that fact.
Sending you a salute of acknowledgement, my fellow lover of gorgeous womankind, youve got
this. Go patrol the realms of your Facebook Kingdom and make me proud!

Ann Onymous ;-)

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