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#
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2#

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3#

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4#

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logical,#and#clinical##and#not#
remotely#sexually#exci@ng.#
#
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ir1ng#with#her##in#a#very#sexual#
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5#

Her:#Ive#always#wanted#to#try#scuba#diving.#
Him:#[sexual#voice]#Hmm#[pause]#what#else#have#
you#always#wanted#to#try?#
Her:#[laughing]#Youre#bad.#
Him:#And#do#you#like#bad#men?#
Her:#I#like#good#men#
Him:#Then#I#guess#there#must#be#something#about#
the#man#in#front#of#you#that#compelled#you#to#make#
an#excep@on#to#talk#to#him.#
7#

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##innuendo.#Innuendo#asks#a#woman#to#do#a#
#li`le#interpreta@on##a#li`le#detec@ve#work,#if#
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# ##At#this#point,#its#become#par@cipatory#
# ##and,#hence,#fun.#

8#

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your#ques@on#or#statement#logically#then#realizes#what#you#were#
really#driving#at.#
#
For#instance:#
#
Him:#[sexual#voice]#Hmm#what#else#have#you#always#wanted#to#try?#
#
Her#rst#thought#will#be,#You#know,#Ive#always#wanted#to#go#
skydiving#and#then#a#moment#later#it#will#hit#her#that,#judging#by#his#
tone#of#voice#and#facial#expressions,#he(doesnt(care.#Hes#not#asking#
her#logically;#hes#ir1ng#with#her.#
#
And#she#laughs#and#is#turned#on.#
9#

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this:#you#dont#just#make#sexual#references#with#it#you&
make&reference&to&her&pursuing&men&in&general,&or&you&
specically.#
#
Her:#I#like#this#place.#
Him:#It#does#seem#like#a#good#place#to#pick#up#cute#boys.#
#
The#implica@on#here,#of#course,#is#that#the#reason#she#
likes#this#place#is#because#its#where#she#comes#to#hunt#
for#a`rac@ve#men.#Just#like#you.#
#
10#

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just#said##and#she#thinks#that#you#think#shes#sexR
crazed,#or#chases#a>er#men,#or#is#chasing#you,#she#will#
a`empt#to#correct#you.#
#
Thats#part#of#her#social#programming;#a&woman&
must&always&appear&reserved&and&without&
passion.#When#you#paint#her#dierently,#she#
snaps#to#a`en@on#and#a`empts#to#correct#your#
faulty#interpreta@on.#
#
Only,#here,#you#never#give#her#correc@ons#any#
acknowledgement,#and#only#con@nue#to#irt#or#talk##
so#what#she#experiences#mentally#is#your#impression#
of#her,#enduring.#
11#

Okay#now:#I#want#you#to#NOT#think#about#two#old#people#having#
gentle#old#folk#sex.#
#
Youre#thinking#about#it#now,#arent#you?#Thats&what&chase&framing&
does.#It#introduces#a#concept#to#her#head#that#wasnt#there#before.#
#
Doesnt#ma`er#if#she#was#thinking#about#you#sexually#or#not#prior;#if#
# # #######she#even#likes#you#that#way#or#not.#As#soon#as#you#
# # # #start#men@oning#it,#its#in#her#head.#
#
& & & & & & &&&And&the&longer&she&s4cks&around&and&the&
& & & & & & &&&&&more&she&listens&to&you&say&sexy&things,&
& & & & & & &&&&&&&the&deeper&in&there&it&gets.&

12#

Whats#the#dierence#between#these#two#dialogues?#
&
Her:#I#like#this#place.#
Him:#It#does#seem#like#a#good#place#to#pick#up#cute#boys.#
&
Her:#I#like#this#place.#
Him:#Do#you#come#here#for#sex?#
&
The&dierence&is&that&the&rst&is&fun&and&irty,&and&is&enjoyed.#The#second#is#
just#extremely#logical,#boring,#and#insul@ng,#and#will#be#rejected.#
&
Because#the#rst#is#enjoyed,#the#statement#is#not#rejected#like#the#oensive#
ma`erRofRfact#second#statement#is,#and#the#woman#remains#open#to#more#
chase#framing#from#the#man#a>er#this.#She&allows&herself&to&be&seduced&by&
him.&
13#

Heres#what#weve#got:#
#
1.
Innuendo#gives#her#an#exci@ng#jolt#of#realiza@on#as#she#realizes#theres#a#
double#meaning##this#is#fun#and#amusing#
#
2.
Because#she#interprets#the#sexual#double#meaning,#she#is#also#in#
on#the#joke#(and#guilty#of#its#sexual#content)##so#she#feels#more#
sexual#
#
3.
The#structure#of#the#chase#frame#posi@ons#her#as#pursuing#
men#or#pursuing#you##which#makes#her#think#about#and#
entertain#this#thought#
#
4.
When#she#tries#to#correct#you,#but#isnt#able#to,#the#thought#becomes#
more#deeply#embedded#in#her#mind#
#
5.
Chase#framing#implants#sugges@ons#in#her#mind#even(if#she#hadnt#
remotely#thought#of#those#sugges@ons#before#
#
6.
Because#chase#framing#is#fun,#its#also#okay#to#do##and#she#will#give#
you#her#permission#to#keep#doing#it,#and#keep#seducing#her#further#
and#further#
14#

Her:#Ive#never#been#much#of#a#reader.#
Him:#You#more#prefer#to#put#your#hands#on#things.#
Her:#Yeah#I#guess#you#could#say#that.#
Him:##And#really#get#a#feel#for#them.#
Her:#[catching#on]#I#really#like#to#get#a#feel#for#them!#
Him:#I#was#wondering#who#grabbed#my#bu`#earlier.#
Her:#You#totally#caught#me.#
Him:#If#it#happens#again,#I#may#have#to#spank#you.#
16#

How#do#you#put#together#a#dialogue#like#
the#one#on#the#last#slide?#
#
If#youre#not#in#the#habit#of#gekng#sexual#
#####with#women,#or#you#dont#have#a#very#
######good#sense#of#humor#yet,#this#may#
# #seem#beyond#you.#
#
# ##In#fact#though,#that#last#slide#is#the#
# ##result#of#taking#just#a#few#simple#
# ##steps.#
17#

The#sec@on#of#dialogue#that#sets#up#the#chase#frame#here#was#the#reac@on#to#the#
(totally#unsexual)#statement#Im#not#much#of#a#reader:#
#
Her:#Ive#never#been#much#of#a#reader.#
Him:#You#more#prefer#to#put#your#hands#on#things.#
#
In#this#case,#the#male#knew#that#when#a#woman#make#a#casual#Im#not#a#or#I#never#
really#statement,#that#leaves#room#to#retort#with#an#educated#guess#about#what#she#
is.#
#
If#she#says#I#cant#stand#working#in#an#oce,#she#probably#likes#freedom,#adventure,#
and#spontaneity.#
#
If#she#says#Ive#never#been#much#of#an#animal#person,#she#must#get#her#
companionship#needs#met#from#people#instead.#
#
You#simply#pick#an#alterna@ve,#and#phrase#it#in#a#way#you#can#get#sexual#shortly.#
18#

Because#she#didnt#catch#his#meaning#the#rst#@me#around#
with#the#comment#about#really#pukng#her#hands#on#things#
(pre`y#common#for#her#to#miss#innuendo#when#shes#thinking#
more#logically),#he#makes#another#pass:#
#
Him:##And#really#get#a#feel#for#them.#
#
This#@me,#she#gets#it:#
#
Her:#[catching#on]#I#really#like#to#get#a#feel#for#them!#
#
#and#plays#along,#which#is#always#fun.#
#
19#

Because#shes#playing#along#and#agreeing#that#she#is#sexual,#
its#now#@me#to#set#the#chase#frame:#
#
Him:#I#was#wondering#who#grabbed#my#bu`#earlier.#
#
This#is#harmless#enough#that#itll#t#into#most#light#
conversa@ons#without#oending#her#(e.g.,#youre#not#saying,#
I#was#wondering#who#stroked#my#tes@cles#a#minute#ago,#
although#that#will#work#in#some#situa@ons),#but#its#naughty#
enough#that#it#sets#the#frame.#
#
At#this#point,#hes#now#painted#her#as#being#in#pursuit;#shes#
the#one#who#grabbed#his#bu`,#which#means#she#desires#him.#
20#

Here,#she#plays#along:#
#
Her:#You#totally#caught#me.#
#
To#reward#her#par@cipa@on#in#a#irty#way,#he#mockRthreatens#her#if#she#does#
it#again:#
#
Him:#If#it#happens#again,#I#may#have#to#spank#you.#
#
This#both#serves#as#an#acknowledgement#that#yes,#if#you#get#physical#with#me,#
I#will#with#you#as#well,#which#makes#her#feel#safe#enough#with#him#that#she#
will#con@nue#to#escalate#things#rather#than#pretend#to#be#a#good#girl#like#
she#does#with#most#men#who#do#not#make#her#feel#safe#being#sexual#around#
them#while#also#invites#her#to#do#it#again#(and#then#get#spanked##a#very#
playful,#sexual,#and#dominant#ac@on#that#she#may#want#to#make#happen).#

21#

The#most#likely#thing#to#happen#next#at#this#point,#
with#her:#
#
Par@cipa@ng#in#the#chase#frame#
Feeling#safe#to#escalate#the#chase#frame#
Being#invited#to#escalate#the#chase#frame#
#
#is#for#her#to#grab#his#bu`,#and#then#laugh#
and#wrestle#and#resist#when#he#makes#her#
stand#up#or#bends#her#over#his#knee#to#spank#
her.#
#
Hes#not#far#from#invi@ng#her#back#home#with#
him#at#this#point#(and#almost#certainly#gekng#a#
yes).#Heres#another:#
22#

Her:#I#love#horses#so#much.#
Him:#They#dont#in@midate#you?#
Her:#No!#How#could#a#horse#in@midate#anyone?#
Him:#Well,#you#know#they#have#really#big#penises.#
Her:#I#never#look#at#their#penises!#
Him:#So#you#prefer#smaller#penises?#
Her:#No!#
Him:#Oh,#okay,#thats#good;#you#had#me#worried#for#
a#second#there.#
23#

Now,#what#do#you#do#if#she#
resists#lekng#you#set#up#a#chase#
frame?#
#
Thats#simple#enough;#you&
just&hold&a&stronger&frame&
than&her&anyway.#
#
Just#keep#misinterpre@ng#
what#she#says#(and#have#fun#
with#it!).#
24#

You#can#turn#almost#anything#sexual#in#just#a#couple#of#statements#if#
youve#tuned#your#mind#to#look#for#ways#to#do#this.#
#
In#this#case,#the#moment#she#men@oned#horses,#the#rst#thing#the#
male#here#thought#about#was#giant#horse#penis.#
#
Which#he#could#then#transi@on#into#talking#about#her#like#large#penises#
in#general#and#imply#thats#why#shes#chasing#him.#
#
Her:#I#love#horses#so#much.#
Him:#They#dont#in@midate#you?#
Her:#No!#How#could#a#horse#in@midate#anyone?#
Him:#Well,#you#know#they#have#really#big#penises.#
25#

###Note#on#that#last:#why#ask#the#dont#horses#in@midate#you#
#ques@on#rst#and#instead#just#jump#in#to#talking#about#horse#
########penises?#
#
#######The#reason#why#is#because#going#from#I#love#horses#to#
#########horses#have#large#penises#is#too#far#a#leap##you#need#a#
#
#bridge#to#take#you#there,#to#avoid#coming#across#oddly.#
#
In#this#case,#you#use#confusion#and#curiosity#to#switch#her#out#of#a#
Horses#are#magnicent#creatures!#mindset,#and#into#a#more#
open#mindset#of#What#is#he#talking#about?#I#need#more#
informa@on#from#him.#
#
Furthermore,#because#he#baited#her#into#asking#him#how#a#horse#
could#possibly#in@midate#anyone#(by#asking#her#something#she#
didnt#fully#understand),#shes#asking#him#for#this#(rather#ribald)#
explana@on.#

26#

She#isnt#ready#or#doesnt#want#to#talk#about#sexual#things#with#him.#
He#may#not#be#doing#a#good#job#turning#her#on#with#his#body#
language,#touch,#and#voice,#or#she#may#be#a#sexually#repressed#person.#
#
Her:#I#never#look#at#their#penises!#
Him:#So#you#prefer#smaller#penises?#
Her:#No!#
#
Either#way,#rather#than#be#ustered#by#her#denials,#he#simply#keeps#
twis@ng#about;#rst#asking#if#she#likes#smaller#penises,#then#saying#hes#
relieved#that#she#doesnt#(implying#she#likes#larger#penises#and#that#
his#is#among#those):#
#
Him:#Oh,#okay,#thats#good;#you#had#me#worried#for#a#second#there.#
27#

The#next#step#a>er#this#is#for#him#to#ip#the#conversa@onal#ux#and#go#right#back#into#
deep,#meaningful#connec@on#again.#
#
Most#likely,#that#means#hell#now#ask#her#a#serious#ques@on#about#her#love#for#horses#
and#drop#the#horse#penis#topic.#
#
However,#since#he#never#retracts#or#apologizes#for#it,#but#simply#shrugs#o#her#denials#
and#keeps#talking#to#her#about#other#things,#the&thread&is&leG&open&in&her&mind,#and#
she#con@nues#to#think#about#penises#and#wonder#if#his#
is#as#large#as#he#claims#it#is#(and#really,#it#doesnt#ma`er#
if#your#penis#IS#large#or#small,#because#by#the#@me#you#
reach#the#point#where#pants#are#coming#o,#shell#want#it#
regardless).#
#
One#more#example:#

28#

Her:#Do#you#always#play#with#your#ngers#like#that?#
Him:#Why?#Whats#it#making#you#think#of?#
Her:#[laughs]#I#was#just#asking.#
Him:#Or#would#you#rather#I#was#playing#with#your#ngers?#
Her:#Yes.#Thats#exactly#what#I#want.#
Him:#All#right#here;#give#me#your#ngers#and#Ill#play#with#
them.#
Her:#Here#you#are.#
Him:#Now#that#Im#not#playing#with#the#ngers#on#my#
other#hand,#where#would#you#like#me#to#put#them?#
29#

This#was#a#case#of#a#woman#asking#a#rela@vely#innocent#
ques@on,#but#allowing#herself#to#be#backed#into#the#corner#
of#having#some#pre`y#heavy#sexual#innuendo#thrown#at#her.#
#
Not#that#she#isnt#enjoying#every#moment#of#it,#
of#course.#
#
The#man#knows#he#can#be#bold#here#
because#shes#asking#him#this#ques@on#
about#himself#which#means#shes#paying#
him#pre`y#close#a`en@on.#He#takes#that#
and#runs#with#it.#

30#

If#you#were#paying#a`en@on,#youll#no@ce#that#
mul@ple#dierent#frames#are#embedded#in#this#
dialogue##they#are:#
#
What#is#it#making#you#think#of?#
Would#you#rather#I#played#with#your#ngers?#
Where#should#I#put#these#other#ngers?#
#
Because#none#of#these#are#expected,#the#male#
is#able#to#keep#throwing#in#new,#humorous,#
scandalous#statements#and#the#woman#just#
keeps#laughing#and#accep@ng#them.#
31#

He#begins#with#pouncing#as#soon#as#she#ques@ons#him#about#something#
hes#doing#with#himself#the#trap#was#set#and#the#bait#has#been#taken:#
#
Her:#Do#you#always#play#with#your#ngers#like#that?#
Him:#Why?#Whats#it#making#you#think#of?#
#
She#laughs,#partly#into#it,#partly#not,#so#he#tries#another#angle:#
#
Her:#[laughs]#I#was#just#asking.#
Him:#Or#would#you#rather#I#was#playing#with#your#ngers?#
#
This#@me#she#buys#in#and#plays#along:#
#
Her:#Yes.#Thats#exactly#what#I#want.#

32#

Now#hes#got#her.#Shes#said#yes,#and#even#though#its#in#
jest,#she#more#or#less#has#to#give#him#her#ngers#to#play#
with:#
#
Him:#All#right#here;#give#me#your#ngers#and#Ill#play#with#
them.#
Her:#Here#you#are.#
#
He#frames#this#almost#as#if#he#is#doing#her#a#favor#here##
she#is#pursuing#him,#and#he#is#giving#in#to#her#pursuit.#
33#

Her#giving#him#her#hand#in#this#way#with#this#level#of#joking#
and#ir@ng#back#and#forth#between#the#two#of#them#has#le>#
her#wide#open#for#his#third#and#nal#sexually#loaded#remark:#
#
Him:#Now#that#Im#not#playing#with#the#ngers#on#my#other#
hand,#where#would#you#like#me#to#put#them?#
#
Shell#crack#up#laughing,#and#tell#him#to#leave#them#on#the#
table#or#something#along#those#lines,#but#the#frame#is#set:#he#
has#these#ngers,#and#she#would#like#him#to#put#them#
somewhere.#
#
Everyone#knows#where#ngers#usually#go,#of#course.#
34#

Picking#the#right#things#to#say#in#your#chase#framing#
is#important.#However,#theres#a#li`le#more#nuance#
to#it#than#words.#
#
That#nuance#is#your#suite#of#nonverbals:#
#
Facial#expressions#
Body#language#
Voice#tone#(voice,#not#words##not#verbal)#
36#

The#dierence#between#a#chase#frame#delivered#
with#right#nonverbals#and#one#delivered#without#
these#is#massive.#They#arent#even#in#the#same#
ball#park.#
#
In#fact,#if#your#nonverbals#are#in#serious#need#of#
an#overhaul#you#should#focus#on#that#FIRST,#
and#the#verbal#element#of#chase#framing#
SECOND.#
37#

You#know#they#have#really#big#penises.#

You#know#they#have#really#big#penises.#
38#

Smile,#rst#and#foremost##you#want#a#sexy#one.#
#
No@ce#how#in#the#model#the#lips#
are#slightly#pursed,#the#lips#are#
closed#(closed#mouth#=#sexy;#
open#mouth#=#friendly),#and#
the#smile#is#just#a#hint#of#a#
smile,#rather#than#a#full#blown#
one?#
#
Thats#what#youre#going#for.#
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Right#a>er#smile#is#eye#contact.#
#
If#you#want#to#challenge#her#directly#(if#shes#being#very#playful#OR#very#
deant),#you#will#look#dead#in#her#eyes#as#you#deliver#your#punchline.#
#
# # # # ##If#you#want#less#intensity,#you#will#look#in#her#eyes#
# # # # ###as#you#set#it#up,#then#look#away#to#the#side#as#you#
# # # # ###make#the#nal#humorous#remark.#
#
# # # # #Either#way#though,#you#must#lead#with#strong#eye#
# # # #######contact##she#needs#to#know#you#meant#what#you#
# # # #####said#and#you#arent#ashamed.#

40#

A#head#held#straight#up#and#down#looks#very#
serious.#
#
# # # ####Since#thats#not#what#were#going#for,#
# # # ####youll#want#your#head#@lted#slightly#
# # # ###to#one#side#or#the#other#here#which#
# # # # #####gives#you#a#playful,#inquisi@ve#
# # # # # ####look#instead#perfect#for#
# # # # # #####chase#framing.#
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Its#o>en#useful#to#have#one#of#your#
hands#thoughrully#stroking#your#chin,#or#
res@ng#in#a#thoughrul#posi@on#against#
your#forehead#or#temple.#
#
The#contrast#of#the#thoughrul#
posi@on#with#a#chase#frame,#in#which#
you#thoughrully#speculate#about#
her#sexuality#/#pursuit#of#men#/#
pursuit#of#you#adds#in#more#fun#
and#absurdity.#
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Your#voice#is#a#tremendously#important#element#of#your#
seduc@on#arsenal.#With#the#right#amount#of#resonance#and#
purr,#it#alone#can#make#women#swoon.#
#
##The#easiest#way#to#think#about#this#is#to#use#the#same#voice#
####youd#use#with#her#in#the#bedroom##now,#just#use#that#
#####while#you#chase#frame#(or,#be`er#s@ll,#just#use#that#all#the#
######@me).#
#
#####If#you#need#good#examples,#see:#
#
Brad#Pi`#
George#Clooney#
Sean#Connery#

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#and#you#are#one#sexpot#of#a#man.#
#
When#you#have#a#sexual#presence#put#
together#very#well,#with#all#of#these#
items#@ed#in#together#(plus#good#
general#posture,#fashion,#hair,#and#
facial#hair),#you#will#ooze#sex#whatever#
you#say#and#do.#
#
You#could#say#I#like#to#wear#green#shoes#and#
shell#get#aroused.#
#
Now,#couple#that#with#chase#framing,#and#
youve#got#some#sexual#dynamite#on#your#hands#
indeed.#
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The#book#is#over,#but#I#have#an#assignment#for#you.#
#
I#want#you#to#go#out#and#drop#a#chase#frame#on#two#(2)#
new#women#today.#
#
And#then#I#want#you#to#repeat#this#exercise#at#least#twice#
more#over#the#course#of#the#next#seven#(7)#days.#
#
Are#you#game?#
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