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really are and what you want. By experiencing ups and downs, victories and defeats
within the relationship schematic, you give yourself the ability to learn more about what
you want in a lifelong partner.
You also give yourself the opportunity for introspective and adventurous experiences of
singledom, which allow you to learn more about yourself.
Here are 25 reasons why you shouldnt settle on just any guy before turning 25:
25. Focus on your education
Dont get so hung up on a guy that you neglect your studies. There is nothing you will
regret more than not putting your best foot forward in school because you sacrificed your
time for a guy (who you were probably totally in love with at that point in time).
I had one sucky semester my sophomore year of college because I was too busy devoting
my time to a guy with whom I was enamored. Clearly, he is no longer in my life, but the
distraction still cost me an A in accounting.
24. The first guy who says, I love you usually doesnt
Lets get real; Im not saying that there arent genuine guys out there who actually mean
what they say, but the ones who say the right things ruin it for everyone else.
In college, I love you is a really nice way of saying, I want to get in your pants, so Im
saying exactly what you want to hear. Learn how to tell the difference.
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20. Experiment
A close friend once told me, You need to go out there and date someone completely
wrong for you in order to realize who the right ones are. Though I didnt necessarily
agree with that philosophy, its exactly what I wound up doing.
In fact, we couldnt have been less compatible if I had tried. Though it wasnt the best
ever situation, it was probably one of the most important life lessons that Ive learned so
far.
It showed me that my pickiness and discriminating nature was necessary [for me] in
terms of dating. Experiment with people and situations and figure out whats important to
you.
Big shout out to the first guy I dated during college for teaching me this important lesson:
There are plenty of other fish in the sea.
9. Demand respect
Dont settle for a guy who treats you with mediocrity. You need to command respect
because you deserve it.
If this precedent is not set up front, you will wind up being a doormat. Be strong and
learn that respect is crucial to any healthy relationship.
Do you want to buy a house in the suburbs prior to getting engaged? Have four kids?
Decide exactly what you want before you fully commit to someone.
You can always change your mind, but its important to find someone who shares your
aspirations.
7. Financial independence
Invest in stocks and money markets. Place your money in savings accounts and CDs. See
if your company has a 401(k), and invest funds there, too.
Obtain your own financial security before settling down with someone. In addition, it
doesnt hurt to figure out if your significant other is savvy when it comes to saving vs.
spending.
6. Learn to cook
One of my grandmothers always asks me, When you get married, will you know how to
cook for your husband?
I always respond with, I will be able to, and he should be able to do the same for me.
Become comfortable in the kitchen so that you will be able to contribute to this facet of
life. Plus, good food is usually the way to a mans heart.