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"Happiness is not out there for us to find. It's inside of us," says author Matthew parfitt. People blame others and outside circumstances for their unhappiness, he says. Just taking a couple minutes to reflect, many can find their happiness by clearing their thoughts.
"Happiness is not out there for us to find. It's inside of us," says author Matthew parfitt. People blame others and outside circumstances for their unhappiness, he says. Just taking a couple minutes to reflect, many can find their happiness by clearing their thoughts.
"Happiness is not out there for us to find. It's inside of us," says author Matthew parfitt. People blame others and outside circumstances for their unhappiness, he says. Just taking a couple minutes to reflect, many can find their happiness by clearing their thoughts.
is the point of it, to get our attention and maybe even connect with what the reader is saying to us.
happiness is not out there for us to find
Its inside of us (pg 185, paragraph 2)
I think others could take something from
reading this quote, like I have. It is a common saying that people need to go and find things for happiness. In reality they need to look inside them for what makes them happy.
elements that determined our happiness in
the past, and can make for future happiness, are with us right now and are right here waiting to be taken advantage of (pg 185, paragraph 3)
People blame others and outside
circumstances for their unhappiness but it is their reactions to these circumstances that make all the difference. Just taking a couple minutes to reflect, many can find their happiness by clearing their thoughts.
the first step you should take toward
reaching greater lasting happiness is to put those things aside in your mind for nowtry not to reflect on them (pg 186, paragraph 1)
I know that clouding my mind usually made
more stressed out and think about my unhappiness more. I found that when I took the time to clear and distract my mind and relax I felt better afterwards.
A susceptibility to clinical depression has
also been found to be partly rooted in our genetic makeups (pg 186, paragraph 3)
I never would have guessed that depression
was connected to our genes. I thought it was environmentally influenced. I was diagnosed with depression but no one else in my family was so it never crossed my mind.
The correlation between happiness and
income is very small (pg 188, paragraph 2)
I figured this to be true because people who
are poor dont have to be depressed and people who are rich dont have to be happy.
identical twins were extremely similar to
each other in their happiness scores, and
Identical twins have the same genes, which
doesnt surprise me that they would develop
Rodgers
remarkably, the similarity was no smaller if
the twins had been raised apart (pg 189, paragraph 2)
the same characteristics and similar
happiness capacities.
each of us is born with a happiness set
point, a characteristic potential for happiness throughout our lives (pg 190, paragraph 1)
I never though about happiness as being a
set scale or level that we are born with. I thought everyone had the same potential for happiness, some people were just higher than others.
Our genes do not determine our life
experience and behavior (pg 190, paragraph 3)
Environment determines our experience and
behavior. Behavior by definition is learned from society and close associates.
The stressful experiences led to depression
only among those participants who carried the bad short allele of the 5-HTTLPR gene (pg 192, paragraph 2)
To think that a simple gene can cause a
person depression over others who have the more superior gene is interesting. Some people are genetically programed to be more depressed in certain instances than others.
depression is associated with a particular
gene, 5-HTTLPR, long and short (pg 192, paragraph 1)
A specific gene is connected to depression,
and it is associated with the length of the gene and not the abundance of it.
each of us has a natural set pointhappy
people show greater activity in one side of their brain than the other. (pg 193, paragraph 1)
I have read articles about parts of the brain
that are activated by different stimulate. Different parts of the brain light up on an eeg to show happiness and sadness when their specific chemicals are produced.
Happiness consists in activity. It is a
running stream, not a stagnant pool (pg 194, paragraph 1)
I take this quote as the mind constantly has to
be a work and being active in things a person likes in order for someone to be happy.
The foundation of happiness is not in
changing our genetically determined set points, for they are, by definition, resistant to change, influence, or control. (pg 195, paragraph 2)
I found this to be a little contradictory from the
article. Throughout the article the author mentions changing outlooks and finding our happiness in ourselves, it seems like we are trying to control ourselves to find our happiness. It kind of seems that we are just trying to find ways to deal with what we are given.