Академический Документы
Профессиональный Документы
Культура Документы
Ashley La Porta-S00148156
struggled with his spoken and written language as well as with coordination and his
lack of attention span, he is easily distracted while in conversations by objects or
animals, he also struggle in social interactions with other people. As an infant and
through out his childhood he struggled with his coordination as well his ability to use
the spoken language. Coordination is stated in Slee, Campbell & Spears (2012) as
being one of the fundamental areas in Piagets six stages of development, as well
as the communication being an exceptional factor of childhood development.
Through his inability to comprehend and utilize the spoken and written language
brought on bullying from the other children in his sparse years of schooling. It is
positioned in Bowes, Grace & Hodge (2012) that children with learning disabilities
are more likely to experience physical and verbal bullying. Through bullying can
derive the stresses of being behind academically from the children as well as
behavioral problems, which is brought to attention in Westwood (2004) that children
with learning disabilities may suffer from behavioral issues. Which Sam experiences
when he is frustrated he tends to act out, as shown when he gets frustrated with a
little boys statement and grabs him. Though Sam went to a mainstream school
based on his mental capacity as an adult being of a seven year olds the school was
unable to support his needs. Though through his adulthood Sam shows that living
with a learning disability is not always a bad thing, Sam expresses a deeper interest
in helping people in whatever it may be, and according to Shessel and Reiff (1999)
many adults believe that the learning disability helped shape who they were,
whether creatively or with their desire to help people, as Sam shows unknowingly.
Ashley La Porta-S00148156
mother wasnt the only family member impacted by Sams learning disability, his
seven year old daughter is also greatly impacted. As stated in Seligman and Darling
(2009) childhood disability is expensive and being a single parent can cause a
struggle financially to keep up with the costs that come with a child with a disability.
Based on all these costs furthers parents, especially single parents, to work longer
hours, and could cause them to be deprived from social settings, and cause stress.
Though that is not the only aspect of affect of having a child with a disability can
bring to families. Some families in Bostrm, Broberg & Hwang (2009) state that
having a child with a disability can be hard but they wouldnt change it for the world
because they are such a pleasure to have them in their life, and they have learnt so
much from the child and other families in the same situation. Though this was not
the case for Sams mother, she has taken on the expression of resignation, which
are parents who are doubly isolated and the never become integrated into
alternative support groups depending on other factors in their life like poverty or
terrible mental health due to stress. Though Sams mother is not the only family
member affected Sams learning disability, his daughter, Lucy, is also impacted from
Sams disability. It is stated in Collings & Llewellyn (2012) children of parents with
learning disabilities are assumed to be more at risk of poor outcomes. They state
that if the child themselves doesnt already have a learning disability themselves,
they feel an obligation to take care or their parent because they have a higher
understanding. All these are assumptions and it is not proven that parents with
learning disabilities are unable to care for their child. Lucy expresses that though
she is surpassing her father mentally she wouldnt change him for any other farther
because he creates a loving and caring environment for her to grow up with.
Collings & Llewellyn (2012) states that parents with learning disabilities who have
contributed and been involved with parenting interventions that are specific for them
to practice newly learnt skills and behaviors have shown that a great outcome and
Ashley La Porta-S00148156
proves that some parents with a learning disability can take care of their children.
Ashley La Porta-S00148156
Ashley La Porta-S00148156
in their surrounding environment and social situations. Within Heiman & Berger
(2008) it states that parents of children with learning disabilities are very protective
with their children and are willing to do anything for them. This goes against the
values of a teacher that we are able to enable the children to form their own
independence if their parents are there to do everything for them. This can hinder
the formation of a professional partnership with a family because sometimes they
are so set in providing their children with all the answers and not allowing them to
find the independence to do it themselves, whereas as a teacher we promote their
own problem solving and independence for the future. I was able to whiteness this
within one of my placements, where at home a child with a learning disability was
always given the answers or the parents provided what he needed without allowing
him to work it out himself, and at school that is what he expected to happen, when it
didnt he went home and told his mother, which ensued an angry parent telling the
teacher what she believed was right for her child. This constitutes how some family
systems can impact on teacher and how teachers and parents should communicate
to form the best possible outcome for the child.