Deliciously Dirty From a Distance

The Power of Turned On Technology

by Lawrence Lanoff

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The Power of Turned On Technology

If you are not too long, I will wait here for you all my life.
Oscar Wilde
When miles separate you from your partner, use the opportunity to get
dirty from a distance.
Rather than look at the separation as a negative, it is possible to use it as
an advantage in your sex life.
It does take effort to maintain a sexual connection across the miles, and it
takes willingness from both of you to keep that connection humming.
Technology plays a key role here. Texting, your phone, and Skype are
your sexy secret weapons.
In this lengthy lesson, I'll give you specific techniques that match your
situation, whether it's an:

LDR - you are in a long-distance relationship where miles

separate you 24/7, except when you have planned visits.

LTS- long-term separation with a specific date to be reunited

(such as a military deployment or a 3-6 month employment
contract)

STS - you have a short-term separation due to a business trip or

other circumstance (generally a few days to a few weeks)

Sexting
Sending sexual texts is the easiest way to get dirty when miles separate
you. You can say crazy perverted things without showing your nerves.
And you don't have to worry about privacy or scheduling logistics like you
do with a phone call or Skype.

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Creating a Sext Starter

Its a good idea to start out with something playful that requires a
response.

If you were here . . .

Guess what Im doing . . .

Wish you were here . . .

Stop . . .

Mmmm . . .

You have me soooo . . .

I have an idea . . .

Using the ellipsis after the thought tells her there is more to the thought.
She may feel confused at first, but soon, they will become a powerful
trigger for her erotic brain.
From there, you can steer the conversation in any direction you like. You
can jump right into the action with a sexting quickie or draw it out for a
long sexting tease.
Here are some possible ideas for you:
Playfully innocent
If you were here . . .
. . . I wouldnt be able to control myself.
. . . youd see just how much you turn me on.
. . . Id have you bend over
I wish . . .
. . . I was inside you right now.
. . . you could see how much you turn me on.

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. . . I had you in my mouth.
Mmmm . . .
. . . do you have any idea how much I want you?
. . . the things I want to do to you are so naughty.
. . . my cock is throbbing so hard.

Jump into the action

If you were here. . .
. . . Id be licking and kissing you all over.
. . . I would bend you over my knee and spank you for being such a
naughty girl.
. . . I would be pressing your body hard against mine.
Stop . . .
. . . making me so horny. I cant concentrate on work!
. . . hard right now.

Sexting Quickie
If you were here . . .
. . . Id be licking your wet pussy until you beg me to fuck you.
. . . Id have your ass up in the air and Id be pounding you hard.
. . . youd be enjoying my big, hard cock.

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Mmmm . . .
. . . my cock is so ready for you, baby.
. . . I want to tongue fuck your pussy right now.
You have me so . . .
. . . horny right now. I need to fuck you badddd.
. . . turned on and hard, omg I want to be inside you so bad,
fucking you hard.
Hopefully, she'll decide to jump into the action and provide her own dirty
commentary back to you. Unless you are delivering a pre-written movie
script (like the PS in Module 6 Erotic Porn-Script Technique), let her
have a hand in steering the dialogue. Both of you being active participants
is part of the process of building the connection across the miles.
If your woman is shy or not totally comfortable sexting, asking questions
that only need a simple yes or no response is perfectly acceptable. Things
like:

Does that feel good?

Want me to keep going?

Would you like that?

Are you wet/turned on?

Sometimes you might not get a response right away after firing off a sextstarter. You can decide to continue on and send the second part of your
message after a few minutes, or you can simply wait. Perhaps turn it into a
tease when you see or speak to her next. Ask if she saw your text.
When she says, Yes, what were you going to say?" you can say, Only
good girls who reply back get to know what was on my mind, and change
the subject. This trains her to pay attention and reply if she wants the
reward.

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When you get ready to send that first sext-starter, here is what I want you
to do . . .

Take a deep breath

Let go of the expectation of what will happen next

Remember that you are confident and in control and will

handle things as they come.

Memory Recall Texts

Using the power of shared memories in your texts is a great way to
immediately get her mind exactly where you want it. These also boost her
confidence by letting her know just how great a job she does at sexually
satisfying you!
With these texts, you are going to paint a vivid picture about an intimate
moment you've shared.
You can start these with a curiosity hook or just launch into the story, the
choice is yours!

I cant stop thinking about . . .

Remember that time . . .

My mind keeps drifting back to . . .

Follow up with the memory:

When you showed up at my work and nobody was in the office

...

Last summer when we were on that hike and you were wearing
those hot, little, booty shorts and how I shoved you in the
backseat of the car after the hike and fucked the hell out of
you?

When you woke me up by giving me the best blowjob ever.

You know exactly how I like it. Wet and dirty.

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Obviously, I don't know your specific memories. I just created a few
examples. For longer memories, you can break them up into sentences and
send them one at a time.
With memory recall texts, she might not respond, which is OK. At the end
of the memory, you could ask a simple question that only requires a yes.

Wasnt that a great night?

Want to recreate that memory soon?

Are you as turned on as I am now?

If you want to get a dialogue going, you can ask something that requires a
longer reply:

What was your favorite part of that night?

What memory of our sex life turns you on most?

Clear Directions Sexts

These texts get straight to the point. You are going to tell her exactly what
you want her to do to you OR what you plan to do to her.
Basically, you can construct these texts using the following formulas or
ones that are similar.
Almost like Mad Libs. Very naughty Mad Libs.

I cant wait for you to _____ in my _____.

I cant wait to slowly undress you and lick you.

I cant wait to bury my hard cock in your tight little pussy.

Tonight, Im going to ______ your _______ until you ______.

Tonight Im going to stroke you with my wet, hot tongue until

you go over the edge into orgasmic bliss.

Tonight, Im going to eat your pussy until you come.

Tonight, Im going to fuck you from behind until you cum so

hard, baby.

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I want you to _____ my ______ until Im ______.

I want you to suck and tease my cock until you have me

begging to fuck you.

First, Im going to _____. Then I want you to _____.

First, Im going to torture your clit with slow, soft licks. Then,
when you cant control yourself one more minute, Im going to
have my way with you.

First, Im going to slather whipped cream all over your tits.

Then Im going to take my time licking it off.

These are just a few basic formulas that make it easy for you to get started.
And as you can see from the examples, sometimes you have to tweak them
slightly so they make sense for the specific instruction you are giving.
As you grow comfortable, by all means unleash your creativity and write
out your own explicitly specific texts!

Phone Sex
Lots of people talk about phone sex but have no idea how to initiate it or
how to actually do it. The good news is that it's easy to learn.
Talking dirty over the phone adds other elements that digital
communication lacks. Your voice and the immediate back and forth of
conversation definitely add another level of sexiness. The bonus is that
you still have the safety of appearing confident without her actually seeing
if you are nervous, but it's slightly more risky since it's live.
Phone sex is engaging in explicit sexual conversation for the purpose of
sexual gratification (orgasm). Now that can certainly be a goal for some
conversations, but not every sexy phone call needs to end with a big
finale. I'm going to have you build up to the main event. We will start out
just by getting comfortable bringing up sex over the phone.

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Here's Exactly How To Start:

Start with having a back-and-forth conversation. These conversations may
or may not end up with one or both of you masturbating, so don't focus on
the end result. Yet.
The main point of talking dirty over the phone is to paint the visual picture
in her mind of what sex with you feels like. How turned on you are. What
you are wearing (or not wearing). Letting her know through your words
and the sound of your voice that you are full of desire on the other end of
the line.
Desire for HER. Remember, this is your golden ticket to making her feel
deeply connected to you. When you show her how irresistible you find
her, she feels worshiped, a feeling she deeply craves.
How you initiate the conversation is actually the same way you initiate via
text or email. Start out with an open-ended question.

Guess what Im doing right now?

Know what Im thinking about?

Those are two really great ways to start. When she asks What? you
launch into a dirty description.
You: Know what Im thinking about?
Her: What?
You: That way you get all flushed when we have sex.
Her: Oh really?
You: Your chest turns all red and I know you are really turned on.
It makes me so horny to think about you looking that way.
From there, you can decide to continue the sex talk, launching into more
description. She might decide to take the lead and start asking you
questions or feeding the conversation.

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Like you practiced in the porn script, getting comfortable saying these
words is important. If you haven't already done so, using your porn script
is PERFECT for long-distance phone sex. Practice saying the lines in sexy
ways. Alter the tone and cadence of your voice to find what feels good and
sexy to you.
Again, you will likely feel really silly at first. But it's important to play
around with how your voice sounds. The more you get used to verbalizing
dirty phrases, the more confident you become.

Taking it over the top

Like I said, every time you talk sexy on the phone it will not end up in
orgasms for you both. But setting out with that as your specific plan is
something I want you to try.
The first time you do phone sex with the goal of orgasm, it's best to plan it
out a little bit. First, tell her you want to talk on the phone at a time when
she is alone and not distracted. If you are in a long-distance relationship,
this can become a key part of your sex lives.
So you've selected the time for the call. She might have an inkling of
what's to come, especially if you've been naughty texting. This is good
anticipation is your friend here.
Before you call her up:

Take some deep breaths.

Think about what turns you on.

Read through some of the dirty text conversations youve had

with her.

Get naked.

Dim the lights.

Make sure all distractions and interruptions are at bay

(children, pets etc.).

Have some lube handy. Coconut oil is a great natural lubricant.

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Remember: you are confident and sexy and about to totally

blow her mind!

I find that the best way to do this is to plan on following a bit of a script.
There are countless variations, but what needs to happen is that you
describe the scene, give her lots of juicy details with adjectives, and talk
through having sex.
Here is an example script you can follow. This is just a guideline; I want
you to read it through and then determine ways you can make it personal.
Recalling intimate memories of times you spent together in the past is a
great way to personalize the experience.
Her: Hi!
You: Hello, are you alone?
Her: Yes. What did you want to talk to me about?
You: I want you to close your eyes, sit back and relax, and listen
very carefully to everything Im about to tell you.
Her: OK.
You: Im lying on my bed, naked, thinking about you. What are you
wearing?
Her: Im sliding out of my clothes right now. I will soon be naked,
too.
You: Good girl. Im thinking about some very naughty things right
now. Want to know what they are?
Her: Yes.
Now you are going to run the show, narrating in detail step by step what
would be happening if she were with you.

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You: Im imagining you running your hands all over my body.
They are so soft and small. You are alternating between lightly
caressing my chest and lightly scratching.
You: Your hands start to explore, lower tracing my abs and
drifting over my pelvic bones. I moan in anticipation of where you
are headed. I am already stiff and waiting.
You: You wrap your hand around my cock. You can see how
turned on I am by how rock hard Ive become. This makes you
happy doesnt it?
Her: Yes. (if she can even speak)
You: You start at the base of my cock with your tongue and slowly
lick the length of me, flicking and swirling once you reach the
head. Damn, baby, you feel good. You know just how I like it.
You: You take my whole cock in your mouth now. Sliding up and
down at first, slow but then speeding up the pace. Take me all the
way down your throat. So tight. So slippery.
You: Oh God, you drive me crazy! (moan)
You: But I know you are a horny girl with a juicy wet pussy who
needs my hard cock inside. Deeep inside. (moan)
You: You straddle me and I have the most gorgeous view. Your
breasts are jiggling, begging me to squeeze them.
You: You slide my cock in and let out a loud moan. Then you stop
and look me in the eyes with that determined look you get, and I
know you are about to fuck the shit out of me.
You: You start teasing the head of my cock. But every few strokes
you slam down hard taking me all the way in.
You: Oh baby. Do I feel good to you? Do you like fucking me?
Her: Yes.

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You: Yeah. You like how I feel. Because, I love how you feel. Your
tight, wet, little pussy taking me deep. I love how you fuck me. Oh
baby! . . .
At this point, you are both likely furiously getting yourselves off. Keep the
conversation going if you'd like, or you can just let it dissolve into moans
of climaxing.
To reiterate, you can use this script or adjust to anything that feels good to
you. I do recommend practicing it OUT LOUD a few times. Just like an
actor knows his lines, the more you've said these words, the easier and
more natural it will be during the phone call.

Skype Sex
Skype sex is powerful and fun! It is the most intense way you can share
your bodies with each other when you can't be face-to-face or touch each
other.
And as I've mentioned all throughout this program, women yearn to feel
desired. They want to know that you find them irresistible and that they
have the power to turn you on and drive you wild. Allowing her to witness
your unbridled passion because of her sexual prowess, and letting her see,
uncensored, just how fucking turned on she gets you is probably one of the
most powerful ways you can bridge the distance between the two of you.

Skype Sex Prep

Install the app and do a trial run. This is just a non-sex Skype call to make
sure you know how to connect online and can position your webcam and
microphone.
When you are alone and not connected online, practice seeing yourself
from different angles on your webcam. On your webcam dashboard, you
can view yourself and how you look on the receiving end. Also,
experiment with lighting and ambiance. It boosts confidence to feel you
are looking your best.

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Schedule your Skype call when you know that you both have privacy,
time, and no distractions from kids, pets, or roommates.
Make sure you have everything you need nearby lube.

Initiating Skype Sex

I believe it is best to not make Skype sex a surprise. Women want the
opportunity to make sure they look sexy and have everything they need for
a Skype sex session. When she feels prepared, she will be much more
confident and adventurous. So, I suggest that you text or call and ask her
when would be a good time for a Skype sex session. You could even tell
her to wear that bra and panty set you really love. Or ask her to have her
favorite vibrator nearby because you want to see how she fucks herself
with it.
1. Start out by telling her you miss her and wish she was there.
2. Just like phone sex, you are going to let her know where
your mind is.
Some ideas could be:

Just looking at you is getting me turned on.

Do you have any idea how sexy you look right

now?

Are you wearing any panties? I bet you are already

really wet.

Your tits look amazing in that shirt, and I bet they

look even more amazing without it.

You turn me on when you look at me like that.

You know exactly how to get me hot/hard/in the

mood.

3. Segue into touching yourself. Removing some or all of your

clothes is natural. Tell her what you would want her to do to

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your body if she were there, and describe what you'd be doing
to her.
You can go into descriptive dialogue like you'd use in
sexting/phone sex, such as:

If you were here, Id be licking and biting your

nipples. Then I would lick my way down to your
wet little pussy and suck on your clit until you cum.
You taste so good.

I want to turn you over, grab your hips, and slowly

bury my cock in your pussy. I would start off by
slowly teasing you until you were begging me to
pound you hard.

I want you to suck and lick the head of my cock,

teasing me until Im begging you to take me all the
way down your throat.

If you were here, youd suck and lick my balls

while holding onto my hard cock, jerking me off
fast.

You can also use shorter sentences if you find it tricky to

carry on dialogue while you are touching yourself.

I love it when you/how you . . .

Lick my balls.

Suck my cock.

Take it in the ass.

Ride my hard cock.

Eat my ass.

Deepthroat my cock.

Take my cock deep inside you.

Like me to fuck you hard?

Beg me to fuck you harder.

Feels so good to be inside you.

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I love how good your pussy feels.

4. Solo- or mutually-masturbate to climax.

5. Vocalize what is happening and what you are feeling. Make
sure to give her encouragement if she's masturbating at the
same time. If she's not being vocal, you can get her to talk by
asking questions or making demands.

Do you like what Im doing?

Do you like this?

I want you to . . .

I want you to cum for me.

6. Enjoy a little pillow talk afterward. Just like you would if

you were face-to-face, revel in the afterglow. Let her know
how wonderful it felt or what you liked best. Talk about other
desires and things to try next time.

A Couple of Variations
If she is timid about talking, Skyping, and masturbating at the same time .
. . or if you are into the dominant/submissive angle with sex . . . you can
do this: Tell her you want to do a Skype call where you direct her to
orgasm. You will tell her the dirty things you want to do to her body while
she closes her eyes, leans back, and gets herself off to climax while you
watch.
The Reversal
If she is flat out uncomfortable with masturbating on camera but doesnt
fear talking dirty, you can do the opposite. Let her talk you through a sex
scene while watching you masturbate.
Either of these options still accomplishes the goal of sharing a sexual
experience together.

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Cautions and Concerns
If you are doing Skype sex with a new partner, it is a good idea to discuss
and agree on your rules, such as not grabbing screen shots to share online
or with other people. Ive found that most womens main concern is this
issue of privacy. If you make sure to agree to these boundaries (and keep
your promises), she will be much more open and willing to try Skypesexing with you.

Summarizing Dirty From a Distance

You can keep a strong sexual connection even if miles separate you.
Using tools like texting, phone, and Skype keep you connected.
Introduce novelty and surprise by varying the raunch factor.
Use other lessons from the program to fuel your sext, phone, and Skype
activities.

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