EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE Self — awareness Being aware of a person’s feeling. Skills of monitoring oneself, observing oneself action. Recognize your emotion when it changes and constantly monitoring your emotional state.EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE Self — management The ability to manage one’s own emotions and impulses. Understand the emotion and deal with it productively. Need to have a preplanned reaction to anger before you get angry. Begin reacting before or even during a thinking-brain shutdown and handle the situation more intelligently .EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE Self — motivation The ability to persist in the face of setbacks and failure. Recognize and using available sources of motivation to enable you to effectively work. through opportunity as well as adversity . The most important is to have overall positive attitude.