Interpersonal Skills

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Very much like our fingerprints or our DNA, every personality is
unique and has varied characteristics

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 Behavioral skills that help an
individual connect with his/her
surround people.

To be able to deal with different personalities and be accepted by

everyone around is what makes a person known for his
interpersonal skills

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 Pre existing

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Attitude towar Oneself

I’m OK — I’m OK —
You’re not OK You’re OK

I’m not OK — I’m not OK —

You’re not OK You’re OK

Attitude toward Others

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 Thank
you

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Skills
 Transactional Analysis
Everyone has three
P
ego states that are
based on childhood
experiences and role
models. A
‹ Each ego state is a
separate and distinct
source of behavior.
C

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 Transactional Analysis
P PARENT Ego State

ADULT Ego State A

C CHILD Ego State

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Finding and controlling your ego states,
hints:
‹ If you are being critical, or nurturing and using a lot of
P
shoulds, must, etc., you are coming from your parent

‹ Say you Computes Dispassionately to access your adult. A

C ‹ If you are emotional, scared, etc., you are in yours child

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How ???
• Be a good human being

• Sound listening Skills - 80 – 20

• Trustworthy

• Know what you say

• Positive attitude

• Accommodating

• Managing indifference

• Don’t criticize people

• Cooperative

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