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The Challenge Five misconceptions about communication: 1. People always pay attention when you are talking 2. When people say they are paying attention, they really are 3. When someone says, I know; I understand, they really do 4. Saying something over and over ensures that someone is listening 5. Saying something over and over loudly is more effective than just saying it over and over Everyone FAILS Fears they wont get enough attention. Lose control. Assumptions this leads to communications failure. Insensitivity Labeling negative labeling of groups of people.
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People are not difficult they are just different. They are not going to change. Two types of behavior: Directive and Affiliative. One is not better then the other. 1. Directive: more aggressive. Have the tendency to tell you what to do, take risks. 2. Affiliative: more passive. Ask what to do. Four types of people SELF: S people have a high need to be around people. They have a high need to tell them what to do. Strengths: Persuasive, risk takers; competitive, hate to lose; pursue change; confident; open. Limitations: when they overdo they become push, overbearing, intimidating, restless, impatient; manipulative; uncontrollable. E behavioral style. Strengths: they like to tell people what to do but unlike S people, they have a high need to get things done. Results oriented. Limitations: Dogmatic, stubborn, rigid, unapproachable, distant, critical, and insensitive. They are so results oriented they dont need feedback. They have a tendency not to give any. L people are team oriented, devoted, caring, enthusiastic, helpful, accessible, trusting, and sensitive. Strengths: people orientation is their greatest value. Limitations: they become too other oriented, forget about themselves, indecisive, impractical and vulnerable, hesitant, subjective. Want everyone to be happy.
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