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Index
Marriage Happy living Issues Conflicts & resolution
Objective
To understand divorce & its impact To understand the reasons of incompatibility To strengthen intellectual, emotional and spiritual aspects of your personality To select the best possible ways to save marriage life To be happy in fulfilling your duties and responsibilities towards your spouse & families To be a mature, spiritually & emotionally healthy and committed spouse To prepare for future challenges and conflicts To change & grow to be better person and welladjusted marriage partner
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Gain
Long term relationship & stability Better ritual culture due to common & deep understanding, supportive for next generation Improved family relationship Increased ownership, higher commitments Feeling of proud of relationship Feel of satisfaction & delight from peaceful & happy environment Financially wealthy & successful Active participation for function & celebration Increased morale & no conflicts
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Successful marriage
Reasons for successful marriage Common skills Good emotional & physical health High self esteem High education level High social status Pressure from society & kids
Which scene do you want to see across the breakfast table for the rest of your life?
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Partnering
Caring
Loving Environment Culture Trust Honesty Sharing Way of life Methodologies Partnering
Respect Dignity
Seven vows
7 Vows- Promise to God to be partner throughout the life 1.To walk together throughtout life to get pure food 2.To walk together for a healthy & prosperous life, seeking physical, spiritual and mental health 3.To support each other to be wealthy, asking strength to share the happiness and pain together. 4.Determined for love and respect for each other and their respective families 5.Pray for the beautiful, heroic & noble children 6.Request for the peaceful long life with each other 7.For companionship, togetherness, loyalty and understanding & to be friends for lifetime Marriage is a symbol of purity, union of two different people, community and culture
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Divorce
Divorce or the dissolution of marriage is the final termination of a marital union, canceling the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage and dissolving the bonds of matrimony between the partners! As of 2011, divorce rate in India is 1.01 for every thousand marriages annually, is too high
Reasons
Category
Social
Reason
Dowry harassment, Exploitation, Conservative approach Unbearable mental and physical torture Acceptance of divorced daughters, Change of views DINKS (double income no kids) couples Downfall of Joint family system Misunderstanding of Woman empowerment & equality Non compatibility in social, economical, intellect status Lack of adaptability, lack of patience Domination, egoistic nature, Listen serve to me attitude Extramarital affairs, Western culture influence Ability to be on own, Financial freedom Growth of individualism, High salaries Disputes over managing finance, I can do it better attitude Work-life imbalance, Professional rivalry Lack of ethics and morals, Fashionable life style Lack of affection, Ignorance, Insulting, Disrespect Making earth little softer
Personality
Finance
Professional Behavior
Issues
Lack of understanding Priorities differs Methodologies differs Above results in Disregard & Distrust, cycle continues Missing on Loving, Caring, Sharing, Giving Different values Own world Ignoring & not sharing time Lack approval from family (for love marriage)
Before marriage
We hide the things We ignore We mislabel We agree on irrelevant matters We believe our loved one will change after marriage
Incompatibility
Divorce globally
Avoid divorce
To avoid Unhealthy life, psychological madness Loneliness & unhappiness Social insult over ability to manage Lesser combined income Risk of suicide for both & children Shorter life expectancies For children Suffer physical health Risk of school failure Psychological distress & mental illness Miss on guidance & developing
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Tips
Beautiful tips Do not hit head against wall Know.....who matters Acknowledgement is the first step towards improvement Never try to straighten dogs tail Keep cool & calm, grow and behave!
Accept totally
Lifetime to know each other People do not really know each other well Continue applying corrections & keep aligning Be flexible unforeseen events will happen. Be prepared for change people change, situations shift, relationships take on new dimensions, Couples can cope & adapt Have a positive attitude. Express positive comments most of the time. Criticism about inadequacies eliminates emotional space.
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Key element
Commitment as a symbol, not as a contract Equal focus on win-win, always! Trust which offers closeness, fluent communication & synergistic relationship Mutual goals & objectives can be achieved with deep support Continuous improve Timely communication & responsiveness Involvement of partners with each other , trust & respect for each other, must be magnified
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