Sex Tips to Drive Him Crazy

How to Be a Sex Goddess and Blow His Mind

By: Rochelle Stavi

Copyright2009byRochelleStavi Allrightsreserved.Nopartsofthisbookmaybereproducedinanyform orbyanymeans.

Table of Contents
Chapter1UnleashingtheSexGoddessinYOU4 Chapter2How,WhenandWheretoTouchHim6 Chapter3EverythingYouEverNeededtoKnowAboutForeplay.12 Chapter4HowtoGivetheBestBlowJob...19 Chapter5AnIntroductiontotheMainEvent:Sex...25 Chapter6Positions,Positions,Positions..27 Chapter7SexTipstoDriveHimCrazy..35 Chapter8HowtoMakeHimHaveanOrgasmHellNeverForget..40 Chapter9AfterSex:HowtoNotRuintheMomentandKilltheBuzz..43 Chapter10FakinganOrgasm46 Chapter11HowtoGiveYourMantheRomanceHeWants..48 Chapter12HowtoBetheBestHellEverHave.51 Chapter13BadGirlsOnlyZone..53 Chapter14TheFinale:YourInitiationtoSexGoddessStatus..58 AbouttheAuthor..60

Unleashing the Sex Goddess in YOU

Inordertotrulypleaseaman,wehavetostartwithYOU.Youmaythinkthat focusing on you has nothing to do with sex, oral sex, fondling, dirty talk, or passionatekissingbutitabsolutelydoes.Yoursexualconfidencehasalottodowith howyoudoallofthesethingstoandwithyourpartner.Withoutsexualconfidence, youwontbeabletotrulypleaseyourmanandyouwillneverfeelpleasureyourself. Youhavetoworkonyoubeforeyoucanworkonhim. Sexualconfidenceinonesselfisthenumberoneproblemthatwomenhavewhenit comes to sexual activities with their partner. When you are worrying about your body,yourhair,thatblemishonyourfaceandvariousotherproblemsgoingonin your life, your focus is not where it should be on him. He can tell when you are thinking about something else. He can detect when you are distracted. He knows when something is on your mind and he can especially tell when you two are makingloveandyourfocusisnotonhim.Thiskillsthemomentinstantly.Yourman deservestohaveALLofyourattentionwhenyouareintimate.Inordertogivehim allofyourattention,youhavetobeconfidentandforgetaboutthelittlethings. Aswomen,weliveinasocietythatsuckstheselfesteemrightoutofus.Everyday, we are faced with images of women who are perfect by the medias standards. Thisimagemakesussecondguessourselvesallthetimeandmakesithardforusto loveourbodiesandalloftheimperfectionsthatwehavecomparedtothisperfect woman.Whenyouareintimatewithyourman,youworryconstantlyifhewould prefer the ideal woman. You worry that your body is imperfect and that you just cantcapturehisattention.Thismakesintimacyimpossiblebecauseyoucannever trulyletgoandgetlostinthemoment.Yourmanisabletodothiseverysingletime youareintimate.HedoesntworryaboutthemeninHollywoodandwhatyouthink ofthemheisworryingaboutyouandyourpleasure.Hisonlyconcernisensuring that you are sexually satisfied and pleased. This is an important idea that us, as women,canlearnfrommen.WeALLneedtoforgetaboutsocietysnotionsofwhat isperfectandstarttoloveourselves.Thisishowyougetlostinthemomentwith yourmanandallowtwotobecomeone.Thisishowyoubecomeasexgoddess. Take simple steps to start to love you since it wont happen in a day. Look in the mirror and be thankful for what you have. When you wake up each morning, be

thankfulthatyouarealive,healthy,inalovingrelationship,successfulandthatyou areyou.Youareoneofakindandauniqueindividual.Thisissomethingthatyou shouldpraise.Youareabletowakeupeverymorningandappreciatelife.Youhave agreatmaninyourlifethatlovesyouandtrulycaresaboutyou.Forgetwhatsociety wantsyoutobelieveandlearntolovethewaythatyoulook.Whenyoucanaccept your flaws and focus on the good, then you can start to become not only a better lover,butalsoabetterperson.Whenyoucanforgetaboutthelittlethingsaround you and completely get lost in the moment with your partner, thats when the fireworksgooff.Whenyoustopworryingaboutyourappearance,youcangetthat passionandfirewithyourmanthatweareonlyusedtoseeinginthemovies. Asyoursexualconfidencestartstoskyrocket,youcanbecomealittlemoredaring andadventurousinthebedroom.LookoutforBad Girls Only tipsasyoureadon, onceyoursexualconfidenceisoffthechartsifyoudare. Yourjourneybeginsnow

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How, When and Where to Touch Him
Onceyouareabletoloveyourself,thenyoucanshiftyourfocusfromyouto him.Thisisthemainideathatwehavetohithome.Ifyoutrulywanttopleaseyour manandgivehimanorgasmthathewillabsolutelyneverforget,thenyouhaveto focus on him. Men are always focusing on us in the bedroom. They want to make surethatwearefullyenjoyingourselves.Theywanttoensurethatwearepleased andthatwearesexuallysatisfiedsoitistimethatyoudidthisforhim. Inordertogivehimgreatpleasure,youhavetolearnallthatthereistoknowabout themalebody.Youhavetoknowallofthebigerogenouszonesthatwilldrivehim wildandallofthelittlehotspotsinbetween.Youhavetoknowwheretotouch,how totouchandwhentotouch.Youhavetoknowallofthetipsandtricksofthemale orgasmandhowtosendhimintoastateofcompleteandtotaleuphoria.Thismay sound like a bigtaskat the moment, butthisisoneofthemanystepsinvolvedso youcanbeonyourwaytobecomingthesexgoddessthathehasalwaysdreamedof. Theeasiestwaytoexplainthemalebodyistobreakitdowninbodyparts,starting fromheadtotoe.Thiswillgiveyouacompleteguideofhisbodysotherewontbe an inch of skin on his body that is untouched. You will learn all of the major erogenouszonesofhisbody,aswellassomesecretspotsinbetweenthatyoumay have never ever heard of before. With this detailed, head to toe list you will learn everything about his body and be able to give him total and complete satisfaction.

Scalp.Youmayhaveneverthoughtofthisbefore,butthescalpisahugeerogenous zoneforalotofmen.Ifyouveeverbeentothehairsalonandamancomesintoget his hair cut, he cannot wait to get all shampooed up because of the hair stylist massaging his scalp. If you have ever noticed, a man usually doesnt speak at this point in time because he is so overwhelmed with pleasure. Although this is not a sexualexperience,itisjustonethatmakeshimfeelgood.Itmakeshimfeeltinglyall over.Thesensationofherfingernailsworkingdeepintothescalp,feelsamazingfor men. A scalp massage feels great for most men and he will dig his head into your nailslikealittledog.Plus,thisissomethingthatyoucandoallofthetime.Youdont havetobehiddenawayinthesecrecyofthebedroomtogivehimsomefeelgood pleasurewithaheadscratch.Youcangivehimasmallheadscratchwhenyouare casuallyoutwithfriends.Feelfreetogivehimalittlejoltofpleasure.

Ears. The ears are a huge hot spot for men. Small kisses on the ear, tonguing the lobeoreventuggingonthelobeofhisearwithyourteethwilldrivehimwild.Some maybelievethattheear/neckcanbeconnectedtothepenisinawaysincewhen youstimulatehisear,hewillmostlikelygetanerectionimmediately.Playingwith his ears the right way, will certainly make him hard in a second. You can also massage the ears between your fingertips. This may not get him aroused, but it certainlyisacutegestureandwilllethimknowthatyoujustwanttotouchhimand tobeclosetohim. Averysexythingtodotohisearsistowhisperinthem.Althoughhemaygigglea littlebecauseittickles,ifyouaretellinghowbadlyyouwanthim,guaranteedheis goingtostopgigglingandfocusonyourwords.Youcanhavealotofcontrolinthis positionandcandefinitelygetthedirtytalkgoingwithyourlipsrightbyhisear. Neck.Itisbelievedthatalmost everymanlovesagoodkissontheneck.Thisisa hugeerogenouszoneandshouldnotbeignored.Alotofwomenmayskipthisarea becausetheythinkthatonlyfemalesenjoythis.Inthemovies,weseealotofmen kissingawomansneckpassionatelyasshehassuchanorgasmicandpleasedlook onherfacebutthishotspotjustisntforthegirls.Thisisanareayoucannotmiss outon.Theneckisfilledwithallsortsofnerveendingsthatareverysensitivetothe touch and to the kiss. Give him the kind of stimulation on the neck that he would givetoyou.Guaranteedheisgoingtoloveit. Kissing him all over this spot and using the well placed suck on his neck (not a hickeythough,wearentingradeschoolanymore)willdefinitelygethimashardas a rock in a matter of seconds. You can also blow on the spots where your kiss lingeredtogivehimalittlechillheprobablyneversawcoming. Dont forget the back of the neck too. For some men, the back of the neck is filled with even more nerve endings than the sides and front. Your fingernails or your mouth can stimulate the back of the neck. Dont miss out on this secret gem to pleaseyourman. Lips.Thelipsareeasilyoneofthebiggesterogenouszonesonallmen.Thisisaspot that you cannot miss and that you can work to your advantage on a daily basis. A great,passionatekisscanreallygoalongway.Thisishowyougetintimacystarted. Kissing is so intimate and very romantic. It brings the two of you closer. You can spice up kissing by sucking on his bottom lip. You can add a little bad girl flare to thatbybitingonhisbottomliptoo.Thelipshavenerveendingsinthemtoosobe careful to not bite or suck too hard. You want to add just the right amount of pressuretokeepthingssexybutsafe. Somethingthatisextremelysexyiswhenyouandyourpartneraremakingloveand whenyouarejustabouttoorgasm,orheis,youpresslipstogether.Thisisntakiss butyourlipsarepressedandyourmouthsareopenandasyoumoaninpleasure.

This is a moment that the both of you will never forget. Feel free to use this little moveandtocallityourown. Never overlook the lips or tongue because these are essentially your fire starters andhowyouaregoingtogethimrevvedupforsex.Remember:Agoodpassionate kissgoesalongway. Back.Yourmansbackisagreatplaceforyoutodigyourfingernailsinto.Thisisa placethathecannotreachtoooften,soifyoucangivehimagoodbackscratch,then youcangivehimsomegreatpleasure.Thisisntahugelysensitivearea,butitcan definitelybecomethatwayifyouchangeitupandgivehimsomekissesontheback. Sayyouaregivinghimahandjobfrombehind.Youhaveahandwrappedaround hismemberandyouarebehindhim,strokinghimtoclimax.Takethistimetoplace somegentlekissesonthebackofhisneckandonhisback.Youcanalsorevthings up by scratching his back at this point in time too. It will definitely be a pleasant surprisethatheneversawcoming. You should especially, scratch and kiss his lower back. This is a spot that he probablydidntevenrealizethathehaduntilyoudiscoveredthatitwasahotspot for him. The skin back there is thinner and therefore, more sensitive so you can reallygethimgoingwithafewscratchesandsomegentlekisses. Massageisalsoanimportantthingtokeepinmind.Gettingintothosedeeptissues withyourfingerscanreallygethimgoing.Plus,massageisagreatwaytoenhance yourintimacyandcanbereallygreatforeplay.Youcanlearnmoreaboutmassagein foreplayinthenextchapter. Nipples.Thisisaspotthatyouhavetobecarefulwith.Somemenareverysensitive abouttheirnipplesandtheydonotlikethemtobetouched.Itisawiseideatohint attouchingandsuckingonyourmansnipplestoseeifhewillevenenjoyitandifhe will allow you. If he is game, then you can touch. You have to respect his level of comfortsoyoudontgooverboard. Whenyouarestimulatinghisnipples,begentlewiththem.Theyareverysensitive and it is believed that a mans nipples are even more sensitive than a womans so keepthatinmind.Lightlykissandtouchthemandneverusetoomuchforce.You wanttobringyourmanpleasure,notinflictpainonhim. Chest. The chest isnt filled with a lot of nerve endings, it isnt very sensitive or wontreallygethimarousedormakehimfeelpleasure,butthisisanotheroneofhis feelgoodspots,suchasthescalp.Hischestisagreatplaceforyoutorestyourhead asyousnuggleorembracebecauseitisrightnearhisheart.Hecanresthisheadon yoursasyoulayyourheadonhischest.Thisisagreatwaytofeelconnectedandto feelloveforoneanother.Itisalsoaverycomfortablepositiontocuddlein.

The chest can also be a very sexy spot, especially while having sex. In the cowgirl position,youcandigyournailsdeepintohischestasyouridehim.Then,thechest becomesahugeerogenouszoneforhim.Hewillwantyoutotakeoutsomeofthat forceonhimandhewillloveit.Aswell,youcanuseyourhandstobalanceonhis chestandthismakeshimfeellikeheisevenmoreofapartofyou. Arms. This isnt a sex spot for men, but it does bring him a lot of pleasure and happiness.Ifyoustrokehisforearm,itisbelievedtobringhimhappinessandtoput him at ease. It soothes him and makes him more relaxed. Be careful of getting too closetothemiddleofhisarm,sincethatisabigticklishspotforalotofmen.Using thepadsofyourfingerscandefinitelybringhimalotoffeelgoodpleasure. Youcanalsofocusonhisbiceps.Whenthetwoofyouarewalkingtogetheroreven sittingonthecouch,wrapyourarmaroundhissoyourhandisonhisbicep.Ifyour manishittingthegymandtryingtogetinshape,squeezinghisbicepandgivinghim acomplimentcanreallygivehimareinforcingegostrokethatwillassurehimthat you are noticing him and that you like his body. Men tend to worry about their bodiesattimesaswell,sothissmallactofkindnesswilldefinitelymakehimhappy. Armpits.Thearmpitsmightsoundlikearidiculousspotforyoutostimulate,butit can get him excited and feeling good. Keep in mind that the armpits are typically very ticklish spots for most people. If you are going to stimulate his armpits, then rub them with pressure. You have to be a little rough with the armpits if you are goingtotouchthem.Ifyouarecaressinghisarmsandyouwanttomovetohischest, thenrubthearm,gooverthearmpitandthenhitthechest.Thattinysecondofyou rubbinghisarmpitwillfeelreallygoodandhewouldnthaveexpectedit. Fingers.Theymayseemsoinsignificantbuttherearethingsthatyoucandotoyour mans fingers that will drive him wild. They are small and sometimes subtle, but theypackapowerfulpunchandcangetyourmanrockhardinamatterofseconds. Youhavetomaximizeeverysinglepartofhisbodyinordertogivehimpleasure,so thefingersmayhavebeenabodypartthatyouoverlookedbutnowyouknowthat youcandefinitelygethismindandheartracingbystimulatinghisdigits.

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Whenyouandyourmanareinforeplayandthingsaregettinghot,slidehisfingerin yourmouthandsuckitasyouwouldhispenisduringoralsex.Thiswilldrivehim wildandwillonlyfuelhisfiretoravishyou.Youcanalsosuckonhisfingerduring sexifheistakingyoufrombehind.Thiswillbealittlesurprisethatheneversaw comingandthatwillintensifyyoursexsession.Hellwanttogoharderanddeeper into you because he was so turned on by that little move of you sucking on his finger.

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You can also stimulate his fingers with your fingers. As you are holding hands, strokehismiddlefingerasyouwouldhispenisifyouweregivinghimahandjob.He may not catch on immediately, but after a few strokes he will get what you are hintingatandhismindwillgotoaverydirtyplace. TreasureTrail. Thisisthespotthatislocatedjustbelowhisnavelandabovehis penis.Itiscalledthetreasuretrailbecausemostmenhaveatrailofhairthatleads from their navel to their pubic region. This spot is filled with all sorts of nerve endingsbecausetheskinissosensitiveandthin.Itisagreatplaceforyoutotease himandpleasehimbecauseitissoclosetothemainevent,butfeelssogood.You cancreatealotofanticipationbecauseyouaresoclosetohispenisbutsofaraway. Youcanreallyteasehimandgethimrockhard.Bytheendofit,hewillbedyingfor youtotouchhim. Notonlycanyouuseyourfingernailstopawatthisareaandtoteasehimbutyou canalsokisshere.Lick,suckandblowonthisspotandhewontbeabletocontain himselfsincehewilldesperatelywanttofeelyoursoft,warmmouthonhismember. Thisisaspotthatyoucannotmiss. Bum. This typically is a no no zone for a lot of men because they are very uncomfortablebytheideaofyoutouchingdownthereandthethoughtofanything goinginsideofthemfreaksthemout.Likethenipples,thisisaspotthatyoushould talk to your man about beforehand. There are all sorts of sex toys on the market suchasvibratorsandanalbeadsthataredesignedformen,butifyourmandoesnt wantanythingtodowiththem,thenyouhavetorespectthat.Thebumcanevenbe aregionthatuswomendontwanttouched,soitisunderstandableifthisisnono zoneforhim. Ifyourmanisgameforalittlebumplay,thentrystimulatinghisprostategland.You have to insert one or two fingers into his rectum, with a sufficient amount of lubricant and start caressing. The prostate gland is also known as the Aspot for men, similar to our Gspot. If he is comfortable with you inserting fingers into his anus,thenhittheAspotandhewillbegladthatyoudidsincethiswillgivehiman orgasmthatheneverhasexperiencedbefore. Penis.Themainevent.Thisisthespotthatallmenwanttouchedbecauseitisthe powerhouse of the male orgasm. When you tease him, bite his lip, caress his treasure trail and show him your naked body, these are all events that make the bloodflowtohispenistomakeiterect. Thepenisissoversatileandtherearesomanythingsthatyoucandotoit,thatwe cant give away all of the secrets right now. Youll learn more about the penis and how to make your man shake with pleasure in the oral sex, positions and sex tips chapters.

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Testicles. A lot of women forget or are just simply disgusted by the testicles, but thisisanotherhotspotformen.Thisistheemostignoredpartonhisbodyandit shouldntbe.Thetesticlesarejampackedwithnerveendingsthatcanbestimulated bylightlycaressingandbylickingandsucking.Whenyouaregivingamanoralsex, youcanchangethingsupbyrubbinghistesticlesasyousuckonhismember.You canalsochangeitupbigtimebyusingyourmouthtostimulatehistesticles.Youcan suck and lick them in order to give him more pleasure. This has to do with confidence,soonceyouaresexuallyconfident,youcanventuretodothesethings. Since your man isnt expecting you to venture to his testicles, he probably wont keepthatareatooneatandtidy.Onceyoudotouchhimthere,hecancleanitupand ridthehairoffofhistesticlessoyouareabletostimulatehimwithabitmoreease thenexttimethatyoudecidetotakethatpath. Innerthighs.Onceagain,thereareallsortsofnerveendingsinhisinnerthighs.You canrubhisthighs,scratchthemwithyourfingernailsandevenlickandkissthem. Hisinnerthighsmaybethickerthanyours,buthegetsthesamepleasurewhenyou rubthemlikehedoesforyou. Youcanalsorubhisinnerthighsinpublic,overhisjeansorpants.Ifyouarehidden behindatable,youcanmoveyourhandsoverhisthighsandgethimthinkingabout sex with you because you will be so close to touching him, yet so far away. This creates great anticipation for sex and allows you to create a little foreplay before youevengetclosetothebedroom. Toes.Thiscanbeahitormissspotforalotofmen.Somemenwantyoutosuckon theirtoesandgivethempleasurethatway,whileothermenareextremelyticklish ontheirfeetandcantstandtohavethemtouched.Othermenhavebadfootodor andtheydontwantyounearthem.Again,thisisaspotthatyoumusttalktoyour manaboutaheadoftimebeforeyougoforit. Onceyouvelearnedallofthehotspotsandsecretgemsofthemalebody,thenyou canlearnhowtostimulatethemindividually,combinesomeofthemandusethem alltoyouradvantagesoyoucangiveyourguythegreatestpleasure.Maximizethe use of the secret spots that were described above, so you can give him a little surprisethatheneverevenknewwasthere. Someoftheerogenouszoneslistedarealittlemoreadventurousthanothers.Once again,youneedtofocusonyourselfbeforeyoucanfocusonhim.Learntobecome sexuallyconfidentsoyoucanfullypleaseyourmanandnotleaveasingleinchofhis bodyuntouched.

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Everything You Ever Needed to Know About Foreplay

Foreplayisallaboutthepsychologicalstimulationbetweentwopeopleto createsexualarousal.Mostpeopleassumethatforeplayisonlyusedtogetwomen excitedandreadyorsex,butforeplayisjustasimportanttomen.Withoutforeplay, menarenotattheirsexualarousalpeakandtheirorgasmwontbeasstrong.Ifyou cangethimsoreadyandexcitedforsexorpleasurethateverytinyhaironhisbody standsup,thenyouhavedoneforeplaycorrectlyandtothefullest. When using foreplay, there are so many different things that you can use to your advantage.Aswomen,wehavemostofthecontrolandpowerinthebedroom,even ifwedontknowhowtouseit.Mostofthetime,wedecidewhenitstimeforsexand whatkindofsexitisgoingtobe.Wealsodecidewhereitisgoingtotakeplace.Once youknowthepoweryouareabletohold,youcanreallymakeyourmanshakewith pleasure. As previously stated, there are many different things that you can do to get your manexcitedforsex.Youcaneithercombinetheseideasorusethemontheirownto getyourmanallhotandheavyforyou.Themoreanticipationyoucreate,thebetter sexwillbehandsdown.Themoreyoucravesomethingandthemoreyouwantit, themoreanimalisticyoubecomewhenyougetit.Iftheanticipationforsexbecomes totallyoutofthisworld,thenwhenhefinallyentersyouthesparkswillflyandyou will be in store for one of the most passionate, hot and all around orgasmic sex sessionsyoulleverexperience. Here are some great ways to create anticipation and to use foreplay to your advantage: Text messaging. We have the world at our fingertips and we are able to communicate faster than ever before. With this new technology, we may as well maximize it to its fullest potential. If you and your guy text message each other throughout the day, then this wont be a problem. If you do not, then you need to start because sending a little dirty text his way will definitely perk up his interest andgethimthinkingaboutsex. AllittakesisanIwantyouoranIcantwaittotasteyoutogethimallfiredup. Tellinghimwhatyouwantwillpaintthissexypictureinhismind.Thissimpleactof foreplaycanbedonewaybeforesexandbeforeyouevenseeeachothertoreallyget himexcitedandtogethimcravingyoubad.Plus,itdoesntinvolvemuchefforton

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your behalf. It is a simple text message sent to him and it does all of the work for you. This is an easy and fast way to start foreplay and to get him and you in the moodforsex. Animportantthingtorememberistoalwaysdoublecheckthenumberyousend your message to. The worstcase scenario is that you are texting your man some reallydirtythingsandallofasuddenyourealizethatthemessagesarenotgoingto him.Thisisgoingtoleadtosomemajorembarrassmentandwilldefinitelyturnyou offfromdirtytextingeveragain.Alwaysdoubleandtriplechecktomakesurethat yourdirtylittlemessageisgoingtotherightrecipient. Ifyouarealittlestuckforwordsherearethetopfivesexiestthingsyoucantextto yourman: 1. Imfeelingalittlenaughtytoday.Icantwaittogethometoyou. 2. Iwantyousobad. 3. Ireallywanttofeelyouinsideofme. 4. Icantwaittotasteyoutonight. 5. Imgettingsowetjustthinkingaboutyou.

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Ifyouhavethatsexualconfidencesoaringandyouareonyourwaytobecominga total sex goddess, then this bad girls only tip is perfect for you. Again, using your phone,takeasexylittlepictureofyourselfandsendittoyourman.Thiscaninclude nudityorjustimpliednudity.Allthatmattersisthatitisalittlesneakpeakforwhat isgoingtohappenlateron.IfyouhaveaphonethatiscompatiblewithMMSthen thiswillworkeasilyforyou.Someotherphonesmayhavetosendphotosthrough emailsoknowhowyourphonesendsthesemultimediafiles. This is when you definitely have to be careful and double check that he is the recipient. Also, be cautious about your mans surroundings. Send him the picture whenyouknowhesonabreakorwhenyouknowhellbealoneforawhileatwork. Theworstwouldbeforsomeoneelsetoopenhisphoneandcatchaglimpseofyou inaverycompromisingposition.Becarefulwiththisbutonceyouknowyouhave thegreenlightandyouarefeelingfriskyenough,definitelymakeithappenforhim. Lingerie.Womenneedtokeepinmindthatthefemalebodyisaverypowerfultool. All sorts of companies use images of beautiful women in scantily clad clothing because the female body sells. Sex sells. Use this to your full advantage. Surprise yourguybyslippingintosomesexylingerie.Althoughitneverseemstostayonlong enough,itgiveshimplentyofvisualstimulation,whichiswhatmenneed.

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Men are very visual creatures, and this comes to them by nature. They were born thiswayandthereisnothingthattheycandotochangethat.Thatiswhymenlook atotherwomenfromtimetotime.Whentheyseeabeautifulwoman,theyhaveto look.ItissimplyintheirDNA.Thisisthereasonwhytherearesomanymagazines outtheredirectedtomen.Menliketolookatbeautifulwomen;itisjustapartoflife. Youmayaswellworkthistoyouradvantage.Useyourbodyandyoursexualityto tantalizeandteasehimandtomakehimwantyoubad.

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Therearecrotchlesspantiesthatyoucanpurchasetospiceupyourlingerielook.It gives the visual of lingerie but when you start straddling him and he feels the warmth of your genitals on his, he is going to go wild. Plus, this is easy access for himandhedoesnthavetofusswithanycomplicatedunderwear.Hecanalsostart stimulatingyouthiswayandhecanevengiveyousomeoralplay.Ifyouarebrave andabadgirl,thendefinitelyinvestinsomecrotchlesspanties. Massage.Massageisagreatwaytogethisbodyarousedandtogethimalllimbered upforsex.Youdonthavetobeamassageexpertinordertogetyourmanexcited. Allittakesisafewrubsandyourownlittletwistonit. Haveyourmanliedownonhisstomachwithhisarmsunderhishead.Thiswillbea very relaxing position for him and gives you full reign on his back. You can spice thingsupbysittingonhisbum,straddlinghim.Makesurethatyouusesomelotions soyoudontenduphurtinghim.Itisverypainfultorubskinandendupwithskin burn because of too much friction. That is an immediate mood killer. Lotions are veryimportanttouseandalittlegoesalongway.Youdontwanttocoverhisback inlotionbecausethatishowthingsgetmessyandhowyoucankillthemoodvery fast.Thereareallsortsofproductsthatyoucanchoosefrombutsticktoonethatis warming so you get him all warmed up and maybe look for one that is edible and safe to use on genitals. This will be a 2 for 1 deal that will help you out for other sexualactivitiesthatyouwillwanttodoafterthissexymassage. Aswell,stayawayfromanyfloralorfemininescentedlotions.Heisntgoingtowant tosmellfemininewhenallissaidanddone.Stayawayfromfemininefragrances. Whips,Chains,Handcuffs.Bondagecandefinitelybeveryhot,ifitisusedinsmall doses.Goingoverthetopisnotfunandcanactuallybefrightening.Inordertouse bondage,youhavetotrustyourpartner.Beingblindfoldedandtiedupsoundsfun butwhenitisactuallyhappeningtoyou,itlosesitsexcitementveryfastandyoucan becomeveryclaustrophobic.Youcanusebondageforforeplay,aslongasitisokay withyouandyourpartner.Thisissomethingthatyouwilldefinitelyhavetodiscuss. Startbydoingsomelightbondageliketyingyourpartnerupwithfuzzyhandcuffsor silk scarves. Now you have all of the power but dont go crazy with it. Respect his

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body and only give him the kind of pleasure that you would want in return. You dontwanttomakehimfeelviolatedorendupticklinghim. Asthetwoofyoubecomemorecomfortablethenyouspicethingsupevenfurther withbondage.Therearegagproducts,whipsandotherdevicesthatyoucanuseif bondageworksoutinyourrelationship. Edible Delights. It sure is interesting to bring in all sorts of tasty treats into the bedroom.Lickingsomechocolatesauceoffofhisbodycanreallymakethingssweet andsticky.Notonlydoesitfeelamazingforhimtohaveyourwarmtongueonhis body,butitalsomakesyourjobeasiersinceyougetsomethingtastytosnackon.If you are going to bring in whipped cream and all sorts of sauces to create sexual arousal, then be sure you are using some sheets that you can easily wash because things are going to get messy. As well, have some hot and damp towels or washclothsonhandafterwardsbecauseyouaregoingtohavetodosomecleanup. Youcanalsopurchaseedibleunderwearthatyoucanwearasyourmanworkson satisfyingyou.Hecankissyoualloverandeatawayatthatunderwearuntilhegets tothegoods.Thisgiveshimachallengethatisbothexcitinganddelicious. Toys.Sextoysareonthemarketforareasontheyworkandtheydefinitelyspice things up. There are all sorts of sex toys that you and your partner can check out thatwillnotonlyhelpwithforeplay,butalsomakesexalotmoreenjoyabletoo.You canbrowseonlinethroughanumberofdifferentsextoysitesandalso,youcanhost yourveryownpassionparty.Apassionpartyismorecommonlyknownasasextoy party.Youinviteaconsultantoverandshebringsherarsenalofsextoysandother treatsthatcanheatupyourlovelife.Youcaninvitesomefriendsoveraswelland have a girls night in. This is a great way to learn more about some products and how they can help to give you more sexual confidence and also to help you better pleaseyourman.Aswell,youareinacomfortableenvironmenttolearnmoreabout sex toys and with your friends surrounding you, you know you are in for a great laugh. You can also let him use toys on you as a great way to create anticipation and arousal for the both of you. He can watch you feel pleasure and it will make him enviousofthatvibratorortoy,asitfillsupeveryinchofyou.Hellbedyingtoget insideofyoubytheendofit. Therearealotoftoysthatcanbeusedonhimaswell,butyouhavetogettheokay fromyourmanfirst.Toysspooksomemenandhewouldgetalittlefreakedifyou justintroducedthisbrandnewtoywithouttalkingaboutitwithhimprior.Watching himgetallbugeyedatthisgiganticsetofanalbeadswouldntbeasightthatyoud be willing to see. This is when trust comes into play. When playing with sex toys, you have to trust one another. Without trust, the whole situation can go downhill and will easily become one that you will want to forget, instead of creating memorableoneslikewearetryingtodo.

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Onceyougetreallyconfidentandcomfortablewithyourbody,putonalittleshow forhim.Youcanlieacrossfromhimorrightnexttohimandstimulateyourselfwith avibratororothertypeofsextoy.Lethimwatchyouinyourmostintimatemoment possible.Thisiseasilysomeoftheehottestformsofforeplayandsexualarousalhe couldeverwanthisownprivatepeepshowfromyou. Making Out. This is as old school as it gets. There is no better way of creating foreplayandintensesexualarousalthanmakingout.Feelingyourmanstongueon yoursandhishandsalloveryourbodyisthehottestthingsomakesurethatyoudo thisandoften.Betheonetotakethereignsandtomaketheexperienceyourown. Since you have this newly found sexual confidence, it is time to work with it. Give yourmanasexy,deeppassionatekissandstartpeelingthelayersofclothingoffof hisbody.Moveyourkissingtohisearandtohisneck,likewetalkedaboutearlier and this will really get him hot. You can use all of his hot spots that you learned aboutearliertomaximizemakingoutandreallymakeithot. Neveroverlookmakingoutasawaytocreateforeplay.Withallofthesenewideas andproductsouttheretohelpusimproveandenhanceoursexlives,wesometimes forgettotakethetraditionalwayandenjoythesimplerthings.Trytomaketimefor moremakeoutsessions.Yoursexlifewillbenefitandyourmanwillloveit. Dirty Talk. Forget about whispering sweet nothings in his ear and start getting dirty.Tellinghimhowbadlyyouwanthimorhowbadlyyouwanthimisgoingto drivehimwild.Menlovetohearawomansaysomethingsexyanditdefinitelygets theirjuicesflowing.Now,therearelimitationswhenitcomestodirtytalkandafine linebetweensexyandoverthetop.Refrainfromusingreallygrotesquewordsand sticktophrasesthatyouthinkaresexybutnotgross.Keepitsimpleandclassy.Less ismore. Aswell,youcanalsousehiseartomoaninto.Ifduringforeplayheisrightbeside you,caressingyourbody,youcanletoutasexy,softsighormoanintohisear.He willlovethatsoundescapingfromyourlipsanditwillassisthimingettingaroused.

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Striptease, Pole Dance and Lap dance. This is major turn on for any man. Once youareasexuallyconfidentandpowerfulwomaninthebedroom,useastriptease or a lap dance as way to capture his attention and to create some of the hottest foreplay of his life. This is the hottest foreplay that you can create. Position your manonachairinaroomandgrindupalloverhim.Usesomesensualmovements and dances to really capture his attention. Be sure to swing around that hair and show him what you are working with. As things heat up, slowly peel off some

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clothingtorevealyournakedbody.Bytheendofit,hewontbeabletokeepitinhis pants and he will have the biggest and hardest erection waiting for you. To really spice things up, tie those hands of his behind his back so he cant touch you. Hes goingtobereadytobreakthosetiesaroundhishandssohecangettoyou. Poledancingcanalsobeagreatwaytoenticeyourmanwithforeplay.Thereareall sorts of customizable poles that you can purchase that will fit perfectly in your home. Not only will this get him all horny for you, but also this is another way to revealyourinnersexgoddess.Almosteverywomanwhohastriedpoledancingor hastakenafunclasswithhergirlfriendswouldagreethatitisaveryempowering experience.Thiswillhelpyoutogainsomemoreconfidenceandtoreallymakehim wantyoubad.Plus,itisagreatworkoutsoyoucannotlose. Be Adventurous. The best thing about foreplay is that you can do it anywhere. It canbeassubtleasalookorasfulloutasagrab.Youcanusethistoyouradvantage and let your man know that you want him, wherever you are. If you are out for dinnerwithfriends,youhavethetableasyourguardsoyouslideyourhandover hiscrotchtoplay.Thiswilllethimknowthatassoonasyougethome,thegloves areoffandheisallyours. Aswell,ifyouareoutinpublic,youcangoinforahugandmakeitsexybymoaning slightlyinhisearortellinghimhowbadlyyouwanthimrightthenandthere.Topit offbywalkingawaywithacoygrinonyourface.Thiswilldrivehimwildandhewill wanttogetthehelloutofwhereveryouare,sohecanfinallyhaveyoutohimself. Even if you are in close quarters with one another, use your other foreplay techniques and send him a little dirty text message. If he is busy conversing with otherpeople,onelookatyourmessageandhewillturnred. Experimentwithusingforeplayoutsideofthebedroom,butmakesurethatyouare discreet. There is something about being in public that makes things feel a little daringandbold.Youhavetheanxiousfeelingorworryaboutbeingcaughtandthat makes it a little spicier. Creating some foreplay in public can really get things hot andgetyoursandhisjuicesflowing,beforeyouhitthebedroom. Foreplayisatimethatisextremelyimportanttoyou,asawoman.Foreplayisused for women a majority of the time because the female orgasm is based upon psychologicalstimulationmorethanactualphysicalstimulation.Awomanneedsto beintherightframeofmindinordertobepleasuredproperly.Youcanagreewith this because if anything is bothering you or you dont feel comfortable, then you wont have an orgasm. As you are using foreplay on him to get him excited, keep yourselfinmindaswell.Yoursexualsatisfactionisimportantaswellsomakesure thatyouareallreadytogo. Keepinmindthatamanisgoingtogetanxiousafterawhileandsoareyou.Dont useallofthesetipsatonce.Youaregoingtowanttosavesomeforlater.Although

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combining them is not a bad idea, sooner or later you are both going to be so sexually aroused that you will want to have sex and fast. The whole purpose of foreplay is to create anticipation. You dont want to overdo it and give your man blueballsbeforeyouevenstart.Thatbeingsaid,youalsodontwanttorushthrough foreplayeither.Youwanttofindtherightbalancesoyougettheperfectanticipation and get him craving you bad. You will be able to tell when he has had enough foreplayandwhenheisgoingtobereadyforthenextevent. Asyougetmoreconfidentandasyoureadon,youwillcomeupwithyourownideas forforeplay.Somecouplesthatareverycloseandbondedcanactuallydoforeplay withouteventouching.Thisisalookthatshecansendhimacrosstheroomthatlets him know that she wants him bad when they get home. As you become a sex goddess and make this transformation work for you, you can really get foreplay goingandmakeitsomethingpersonableandyourown.

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How to Give the Best Blow Job
Oral sex is the number one thing that all men want to have. If you can be really good at giving a man oral sex, then you can essentially dominate him in the bedroom forever. He can turn into complete and total putty in your hands and mouth. There is no better feeling than having a beautiful womans soft lips on his rockhardmember. Alotofwomenaregrossedoutbytheideaofgivingamanhead.Theyworrythatit isntgoingtotastegoodandthatitisgoingtobeacompletelyandterriblyhorrible experience.Womenworrythattheyaregoingtogethairintheirmouthfromhim, thatheisgoingtogotoodeepintheirmouthandtheyaregoingtovomit,thatheis goingtocumandtheyhavetoswallowitandotherendlessnumbersofworries.If you feel this way about giving your man a blow job, then are about to get a crash course in giving oral sex, because you ARE going to give your man this kind of pleasure.Itisimportanttoyoursexlife.Ifyoucangiveamangreatoralsex,thenhe willwanttodothesameforyou.Heisgoingtowanttogiveyouthesamekindof pleasureandthiswillbringouthiscompetitiveside,whichisgoodforyoubecause itdefinitelyspicesupyoursexlife. This is a chapter that is jam packed with all sorts of Bad girls only tips. You are goingtowanttolookoutforthemasyoureadonsoonceyouarecomfortablewith givingyourmanoralsex,youcanspiceitupeachandeverysingletimetokeephim onhistoesandtokeepyoursexgoddessstatushigh. Firstofall,womenneedtorealizethatthisissomethingthatyourmanreallywants youtodo.Iftherewassomethingthatyouwantedhimtodotoyouandherefused, youwouldbeoffendedandhurt.Thisisthesamething.Hewantstofeelyoursoft mouth on his member and he wants you to please him. By refusing, you are only creatingissuesinyourrelationshipandyouarenotstickingtruetothebrandnew, revamped,andsexuallyconfidentYOU.Assoonasyoustartedreadingthis,youhave transformedintoasexuallyconfidentandverysecurewoman,soitistimethatyou banishedallofyouroldidealsfromyourmindandthatyougotontherighttrackto beingatotalsexgoddess. Keepinmindthatoralsexdoesntmeangivingoralsexliketheydoinpornography. Youarenotapornstarandnooneisexpectingyoutogiveheadthatway.Youcan giveyourmangreatoralsexwithoutgoingoverthetopandputtingonashow.He

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doesntexpectthatofyou.Thatisaveryunrealisticexpectationandyouaretheonly onewhoisputtingthispressureonyourself.Youaregoingtoforgeteverythingyou everthoughtyouknewaboutoralsexandyouaregoingtolearnhowtodoitthe rightandtheverysexyway,righthereandrightnow. Before you start, use some of the foreplay techniques that were stated in the last chapter. Make out with him and press your body against his. Whisper sexy things intohisearandmakehimgetaraginghardonfast.Themoreforeplayyouuse,the easieritisgoingtomakeyourjob.Youwonthavetoworryaboutstrokinghimto gethimhard.Usingasmuchforeplayaspossible,butnotoverdoingit,isgoingtobe yourkeytostartingstimulationoffontherightfoot. Whenyougoinforthemainevent,startoffslow.Thisisjustlikesexyoudontgo wildoffthebat.Youhavetoslowlyeaseintothingsandmakeastoryoutofit.There has to be a beginning, middle and an end. This is the beginning so make it the foundationforwhatisabouttohappen. When he enters your mouth, it is going to be very dry. This is when going up and downafewtimeswithyourtongueandwithhiminsideofyourmouthisgoingto loosen things up. The more saliva you are working with, the easier it is for you to stimulate him and the better it feels. This is just like sex the wetter you are, the better it feels for him. The wetter oral sex feels, the better as long as it isnt overdone. A total buzz kill is if he is drenched in your spit afterwards and if it is running down to his pelvic region. You dont want to cover him in your saliva. Remembertokeepagoodbalanceandtoswallowsometimes.Thiswillmakethings workmoresmoothly. As you get a rhythm and the right amount of saliva, you can start incorporating someothermovesintoit.Forexample,useyourstronghandtostrokehim.Usethe hand that you would to write as it is the one that is going to give you the most strength.Justbecauseitisoralsex,doesntmeanthattherearerulesinvolvedand eveniftherewererules,youareasexuallyconfidentwomannowandyouaregoing tobebreakingrulesleft,rightandcenter.Youareallowedtouseahandtostroke himandyouaregoingtowantto. Thereasonwhyyouaregoingtobeusingahandtostrokehim,isbecausehewants aroughtouchandtheonlywayyoucangivethatiswithyourhand.Youcannotsuck hard enough to give him the feeling that he wants. Plus, your hand is able to go fartherdownonhismemberthanyourmouthis(unlessyoucandeepthroat,more aboutthatlater.)Menpreferaroughtouchtoasoftonebecausethatishowaman isbuilt.Whenamanmasturbates,hegoescrazyonhisbody.Ifyoueversawwhat yourmandoestohimself,youwouldthinkhewasinflictingpainuponhimself.This is just how the male body is constructed. He is built tough so he wants something roughandtheonlywaytogivethistohimiswithyourhand.

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This is when the wetter, the better comes into play. Before you start stroking the shaftwithyourhand,youhavetomakesurethatthereissomesortoflubrication involved.Ifthereisnothing,thenyouruntheriskofcreatingtoomuchfrictionand hurtinghim.Ifyoudontwanttouseyoursaliva,youcanusealubricantonhisshaft withyourhand.Thereareflavoredlubricantsavailablesoitmakesgivinghimoral sexthatmucheasier.Ifhetasteslikeacherry,thenyouwillhavenoproblemgoing downonhimforawhile.Justmakesurethatitiswetenoughsoyoucanstrokeand stimulatehimwithoutcausingpain. While you are working on the shaft with your tight grip, there are things that you canbedoingwithyourmouth.Thewholepointoforalsexistoteaseandplaywith his member with your lips and tongue. (Now, remember JUST the lips and tongue. Using your teeth during oral sex is a COMPLETE and TOTAL NO NO. Youcanneveruseyourteethduringoralsexbecauseyoucanseriouslyendup hurtingyourmanandthatwouldruinoralsexforever.)Thereisthisareaona circumcised mans penis where the two folds of skin meet. In that area, there is a fold of skin that is highly sensitive. Think of this area as your clitoris because it is filledwithallsortsofnerveendings.Youdontwanttooverdoitbutyoudowantto stimulate it from time to time. Use the tip of your tongue to flick against this part occasionallytogivehimalittlesurprisejoltofpleasure. Ifyourmanisnotcircumcised,thewholetipofthepeniswillbeextremelysensitive soyourtongueandyourlipswillmakehimfeelgoodallover. Usingyourmouthtosuckandblowonhimaregreatthingstodoaswell.Sucking hard on the tip of his member will definitely be a pleasurable experience for him. Making that tip wet and then blowing on it will send little tingles throughout his bodyandwillonlyaddtothewholeexperience. Youcanalsouseyourmouthandlipstokissupanddownhisshaft.Moveyourhand awayforamomenttoallowhimtofeelyoursoftlipsalloverhismember.Thiswill beanicereleasefromtheconstantpleasureandwillallowhimtobreatheforabit. Keep in mind that his orgasm is a lot like yours. When you are masturbating, you liketotakeafewbreakstoregroupandthencontinue.Keepthisinmindforhim.He isgoingtoneedafewofthesemomentssochangeituptolethimmovearoundabit andgetregrouped. Notonlyishegoingtoneedamomentbutguaranteedyouareaswell.Yourjawis goingtogettiredandyouaregoingtoneedamomenttobreatheoutofyourmouth. You cannot stop altogether so this is the filler moment. You need something to do thatisstillgoingtostimulatehimbeyondbelief,butsoyoucanregroupandletyour jawrest.Thetwistisagreatmovetouseatthispointintime.Whenyoucomeup fromoral,placeyourotherhandonhisshaftaswellandstackthemoneontopof theother.Fromthispoint,youaregoingtotwistyourhandsinoppositedirections andthisisamomentintimethatyourmanisnotgoingtoeverforget.Thesensation ofyourhandsmovingintwodifferentdirectionswillfeelAMAZINGforhim.Itwill

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makehimpicturetwowomengivinghimahandjobandcaressinghismember.This isafantasythatmostmenhave.Theyhavethisfantasyofthreesomesallthetime and this sensation makes that fantasy come true, to a certain extent. This will be yoursecretweaponthatyouuseonhimanditwillbesomethingthathewillwantto bragtohisfriendsabout.Usethetwisttokeephimhardandstimulatedwhileyou take your break. You can also just stroke his shaft while you take your moment if youdontwanttodothetwist. Nowyouareintothemiddleoforalsex.Thisisrightbeforethegrandfinalesoyou needtopulloutallthestopsnow.Thisiswhenyoustartspeedingupandgettinga littlerougher.Rememberthetesticles.Youlearnedaboutthishotspotbefore. Thisisaprimetimetorubhistesticleswithyourfreehandsoyouaremaximizing his pleasure. If you want, you can also suck and lick on his testicles during your breaksoyoucanletyourjawrelaxandstillgivehimplentyofpleasure.Thisisalso a time when you really should let out a few moans and groans. Making sounds duringoralsexletsyourmanknowthatyouareenjoyingyourself.Toomanymen worry that their woman isnt enjoying herself and is only doing this for him. You arentthatkindofwoman.Youaregivinghimheadbecauseyouwanttomakehis toescurlandyouwanttobethebesthehaseverhad.Plus,makingsomesoundswill sendvibrationsthroughhispenisandwillbeanotherlittlesurpriseduringwhathas alreadybeenanamazingoralexperience.Letyourmanknowthatyouareenjoying yourselfandspicethingsupagainbymoaningsensually.

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Beforeheisgoingtoorgasm,deepthroatinghimwouldbeagreatwaytopushhim over the edge. Deepthroating a man allows him to feel a sensation that is unlike anythingelse.Itfeelssimilartosexbutisevenbetterbecauseitismuchtighter.The tighterandthewetter,thebetternow.Ifyouhavetheabilitytodeepthroatandyou know that your gag reflexes arent sensitive, let him go deep in your mouth a few timesandthiswillmakehimcuminnotimeatall. Nowyouneedtoprepareyourselfforthegrandfinale.Thisisamomentwherealot of women dont know what to do. Women dont know if they should let him ejaculate in their mouth and then swallow it, or spit it out. They dont know if he shouldejaculateonhimselforiftheyshouldjuststopandlethimfinishhimselfoff with masturbation. Some women will let their man ejaculate on their breasts or stomachs.Thisiscompletelyuptoyou.Ifyouarecomfortablewithhimejaculating inyourmouth,thenlethim.However,ifyouaregoingtodothis,thenyoushould swallowbecausespittingisahugeinsulttoyourman.Ifhelefttheroomtospitout something after he went down on you, you would be insulted as well. If you are wondering,theejaculatetastessaltyifanythingelse.Itisnotgrotesqueandwont makeyouvomit.Ifyouworrythatcanthandleit,thenlethimejaculateonyou.You can get your man to snack on foods such as pineapple and other sweet fruits becausethischangesthetasteoftheejaculateandmakesitmuchsweeter.Ifyouare

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usingoralsexasaprecursortosex,thenyouhavenothingtoworryabout.Justdont ruinagreatblowjobbymakingitendinapoorway. Oral sex can be a really passionate and intimate moment. It involves a lot of trust andbringsthetwoofyouclosertogether.Plus,ifyougivehimreallygreatoralsex, then guaranteed he is going to want to do the same to you. This will spark up his competitivesideandhewillwanttoshowyouwhatheismadeofaswell.Youcan onlybenefitfromgivinggreatoralsex,sowhatareyouwaitingfor?

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If you want to spice up oral sex, then do the 69. This is where you are orally stimulating your partner and he is doing the same thing to you, at the same time. The easiest way to go about this is to have him lie down on his back and you lie downontopofhim,facinghisfeet.Lethimstimulateyouandyoudothesamething tohim.Althoughtheanglemaybeawkward,thisiswhenyoureallyletyourhand worktheshaftandjustuseyourmouthonthetip.

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Really drive your man wild with oral sex by giving him road head. Road head referstogivingyourmanoralsexasyouarebothtravellingbycar.Ifheisdriving, thenthisgivesyouaperfectopportunitytoputyouroralsexskillstowork.Thiswill beanintenseexperienceforhimbecauseheisgoingtohavetofocusondrivingand hewillwanttofocusonallofthispleasurefromyouatthesametime.Itisbetterto give him road head at night so you arent taking chances with the police. At night youhavemoreprivacy,asyouaredowntheregivinghimhead.

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Giveyourmananimagethathewillneverforgetbyglancingupathimwhileyou are giving him oral sex. With his rock hard member in your mouth and your eyes looking into his, this will be an image that he will never forget. You dont have to stareathimcontinuously,butjustonesexylookwilldothetrick.Youcanalsoflash aglanceathimasyouaretakingyourbreakandyouaredivingrightbackintoit. Before he is completely in your mouth, play with the tip of his penis with your tongueandflashhimacoylook.Itwilldefinitelyspicethingsupandreallygethis heartracing.

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soitwillbealittlecooler.Pairthiswithsomewarminglubeonhismembersoyou arentchillinghimtotheboneandruingoralsex.Rubandstrokehismemberwith thewarminglubesohecangetallwarmedupandthensurprisehimwithyourcool mouth.Hewontknowwhathithimanditwilldrivehimabsolutelywild. Aswell,youcanalsousemintasagreatwaytomakehimtinglealittle.Suckona peppermint before you give a blow job and this will send a very sexy tingly sensationthroughouthispenis.

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Nomatterhowgoodoralsexfeelstoyourman,sometimeshecantseewhatisgoing on and he is missing out on part of the experience. Rememberthatmenare veryvisualcreatures,soyouhavetogivehimvisualstimulationaswell.The easiestwaytodothisistogivehimheadinfrontofamirror.Dependinguponyour mirror,hecanliedownormaybeyouhavetogethimtostandup.Nomatterwhat yoursituation,justmakesurehecanwatch. Watchingyougivehimheadplusfeelingthewarmsensationswillbetoomuchfor him.Itwillbelikehisownlittleprivateporn.Hewillgettowatchyoulickingand suckinghimalloverashefeelsyourwarmmouthonhim.Pairthiswithyougiving himoralsexcompletelynudeandhewontknowwhathithim.Yourguyisgoingto beinasensoryoverloadifyoudothistohim. You can also do the 69 in front of a mirror as well. Then not only does he get to watch in between stimulating you, but you get to watch as well. This puts a little spinonoralsexandcanreallymakeitextremelysexy. Trysettingthislittlesexyscenarioupforhimandhewillcuminnotimeatall. Makeoralsexsomethingthatisfun,enjoyableandcomfortableforyou.Withallof these tips and tricks, you should feel better about performing oral sex and have a littlebitmoreconfidencewhenitcomestogoingdownonyourman.

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An Introduction to the Main Event: Sex

Since sex is the biggest event of them all, it will be broken down into four sections: positions, sex tips, his orgasm and after sex. Each one will help to transform you into the sex goddess that you are slowly becoming. Youve already learnedallofyourmanshotspots,howtogivehimthebestheadandnowyouneed to learn how to give him the best sex that he has ever had. You are going to use everythingthatyouhavelearnedatthispoint,andthensome. Sexisaveryintricatepartofbecomingasexgoddess.Youcanrockallofthesteps up until this point and completely lose it at the end. This is when your self and sexualconfidenceneedtobothbeatanalltimehigh.Thisiswhyyouhavelearned howtoloveyourself,learnedabouthisbody,aboutforeplayandoralsex.Theseare allthestepsthatleaduptothemaincourse.Thisiswhenyouwanttoshowyour man what you are all about and to prove to him that you can give him a mind blowingorgasmeachandeverysingletimeyouarestimulatinghimand/orhaving sexwithhim. Alotofwomencanbecompletelyadventurousandwildrightupuntilsex,andthen they lose it. For some reason, sex is incredibly intimidating for women and it shouldnt be. It is an experience that brings you and your partner much closer. It allows you both to explore each others body and to be bonded on a much deeper levelthaneverbefore.Youneedtothinkaboutsexasintimacybeforeyoucanthink of it as something fun and sexy. This is a moment when you and your partner becomeone.Youbecometwopeoplemovingasone.Itisaverysensualmomentand itshouldbetakenthatway. Ofcourse,sexisntalwaysgoingtobethisserious.Mostofthetime,sexcanbereally goofy.Sometimesthingsdontgoasplannedandmaybehislegstartstocrampup. Maybethingsaregettingreallyroughandallofasuddenyousmackyourheadon the wall or headboard. There can be instances when your bodies are moving togetherandalittlesweatplusskinequalsabodyfart.Therecanbesomepretty nastysmellsandtastessometimesandofcourse,theworstofthemall:thevagina fart. We have all had this happen to us. It is when a little air gets caught in our vagina and when he goes to enter, a foghorn goes off. It is easily one of the most embarrassing sounds thatcanhappen during sex,but these areallmeaninglessas longasyougoaboutittherightway.

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Sexcanbeembarrassingbutifyouatruesexgoddess,youhandleittherightway. Sexisntgoingtobeperfecteachandeverysingletime.Wehavetoliveinareality where we know that this isnt possible. Our reality isnt like the movies where everythingissoslowandsensualandperfect.Ussexgoddessesneedtoknowthat themajorityofthetime,sexisgoingtobeamazingbuttherearethosefewinstances thatyouhavetobepreparedfortheworst. Theworstthingthatyoucoulddowhensexgoesalittlewrongistoletitbotheryou. Your man isnt going to get turned off by this and it isnt going to ruin the whole session, unless you make it into a big deal. A sex goddess laughs, shrugs it off and thencontinues.Alotofwomenareextremelysensitiveaboutthesekindsofthings butremember,youarentthatkindofwomananymore.Fromthefirstchapterabout releasing your inner sex goddess, you learned to love yourself and to forget about thelittlethings.Thisisaperfectexampleofwhenyouneedtoforgetaboutthelittle thingssoyoucanfocusonthegoodthings,suchasmakinglovetoyourpartner. Rememberthatsexisfun.Itisatimewhenyouandyourpartnerletoffsomesteam and forget about the days events. It is a time when you focus on one another and whenyoutrytogetthemostpleasureoutofthesituation.Yourfocusshouldbeon lettingloose,enjoyingyourselfandmakinganightormomentintimethatthetwo ofyouaregoingtowanttocreateagainandagain.

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Positions, Positions, Positions
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willplayout.Somepositionsarelessintensethanothersandarentasstimulating. Thepositionthatyouchoosehasalottodowithyouandyourpartnersmoods.The positionalsohastobecomfortableandbefittingtoyourbodytype.Withsomany different sexual positions it is tough to choose just one, which is why it is fun to switchitupandincorporatemanyintoyoursession. There are positions that put him in charge, give you all of the power and evenly divideupthepoweramongstthetwoofyou.Therearepositionsthatarebasicand onesthatpushthehumanbodytoitsgreatestlimit.Therearepositionsthatcanget him off in no time at all and other positions that allow him to last for a long, long time.Withallofthesesexualpositions,itcandefinitelybeveryoverwhelmingand youalwayswanttochoosethebestonetofityourmoodandtosuittheatmosphere ofwhatyouwanttocreate. The easiest way to go about describing the different sexual positions that you and yourpartnercantry,istogointoeachoneingreatdetail.Thisishowyouaregoing tolearnhowitisdone,whatyoucandotospiceitupandwhatyoucandotototally andcompletelyblowhismind. Missionary (Man on Top). This is the most traditional sexual position that most couples use. It has your man on top of you, thrusting into you in a downward motion. It is sometimes the best position for him since he is able to be the dominatingoneandcontrolhowfastandhowhardheentersyou.Hereallycantake thereignsonthisoneandhaveallofthepower.Eventhoughyouarebecominga sex goddess, you can let your man control and dominate you in the bedroom at times,soifhewantstomakelovelikethis,thenlethim.Plus,havingamaninpower andbeingthesubmissiveoneisafantasythatmostwomenhave.Allwomenwantto bedesiredandwanttohaveamanunabletokeephishandsoffofher,soletyour manhavethepowerattimes.Itlldefinitelybesatisfyingtoyou. The only problem that men have with the missionary position is that they feel as thoughitallowswomentojustliethereandtakeit,whichiswhatalotofwomendo. Women feel as though they dont have to put in a lot of effort to make sex great, sinceheisdoingallofthework.Itwillfeeltohimlikeheishavingsexwithadead

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fish if you just lie there and dont make any sounds or touch him at all. This may havebeenwhatyoutypicallywoulddo,butnotanymore.Startingtoday,ifthetwo ofyouaregoingtohavesexinthemissionaryposition,youaregoingtospicethings up. Inordertospicethingsup,thereareavarietyofthingsthatyoucando.Youhave bothhandsfreetoroamalloverhisback,neck,arms,chestandshoulders.Youhave allsortsofareasonhisbodytotouchsoyoumayaswellmakethemostofit.Notto mention,youalsoarefacetofacewithhimsoyoucanreallymakethesexintense by kissing. A very sexy French kiss is perfect to give him during the missionary position.Youwillnoticerightawaythathisthrustswillbecomeharderandfaster. Hewillgainmoremomentumwithjustonefierykiss.Youcanalsomovehisheadto thesideandgetatthatneck.Feelfreetosuckonhisneckandkissittospicethings up.Youcanalsolickandsuckonhisear,asweknowthatisahotspotforalotof men. As well with the ear, you can whisper some sexy things to him. As he is thrusting into you, tell him how good it feels. If you are at a loss for words, here are a few thingsyoucanwhisperintoyourmansearduringthemissionaryposition: 1. Youfeelsogoodinsideofme. 2. Goharder.Gofaster. 3. Iwantyoutomakemecum. Alittlesexyandplayfuldirtytalkcantotallyrevyourmanupandgettinghimgoing crazyinbed,especiallyifyouputalittlesexytoneinyourwhisperasyoudoit. Plus,itspicesupthetraditionalmissionarypositionandaddssomeflaretoit.Now he really cant say that you just lie there and take it as you are trying your damnedesttomakethingshotterandtobeasexgoddess,evenwhenyourepinned beneathhim. Ifyouwanttocompletelyandtotallyblowhismind,useyourlegstowraparound hisbody.Thiswillliftupyourhipsandallowshimtogetevendeeperinsideofyou. Plus,thisactofbodylanguageletshimknowthatyouwanttobeevenclosertohim. It shows him that you are enjoying yourself and that you are trying to get him deeperintoyou.Withtheaddedleveragehejustgot,hewontbeabletolastmuch longerandwillwanttousethemissionarypositionmoreoften,sincenotonlydoes itfeelamazingforhim,butnowheseesallofthesexypotentialyoujustaddedtoit. Cowgirl(WomanonTop.)Thecowgirlpositionisanotherpopularpositionthata lotofcouplesuse.Itallowsthewomantohaveallofthecontrolandgivesthemana greatview.Heisabletowatchyouridehimuntilyoubothcanttakeitanymore.He getstoseeyourbreastsbounceupanddownasyouthrustdeeperanddeeperwith pleasure. This is still considered a rather traditional position, but it certainly isnt boring,especiallyifyouknowhowtospiceitupright.

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Youhaveallofthecontrolinthisposition,soyoumayaswellmakeitworktoyour advantage.Youareabletocontrolhowdeephegoes,andhowfastyoumakelove. With all of the power and domination, youd think that women would love this position,buttheydont.Alotofwomenworrythattheylookunappealingfromthis angle. They worry that their man has to stare at their flabby belly or their double chin.Theyworrythatthisjustisntaveryflatteringpositiontobeinanditcanbe really embarrassing. For most women, this position feels like it totally and completelyexposestheirbodyandthiscanbeaveryuncomfortablepositiontobe in. However, you need to remember that you are on your way to becoming a sex goddessnowandyoudontworryaboutthosethingsanymore.Allyouworryabout ismakingsurethatyourmanissatisfiedandthatyouaresatisfiedaswell.Youare not concerned about your body because your only concern now is if your man is going to orgasm or not. You are giving your man a spectacular view of you riding himsilly,somakeaspectacleoutofit. Inordertospiceupthecowgirlposition,thereareafewthingsthatyoucando.You canplaceyourmanshandsonyourbreastsoronyourhipsasyoubounceontop. Hewillbeabletomassageandfeelyourbreastsbounceasyouridehimandthisis goingtobeahugeturnonforhim.Aswell,ifhishandsareonyourhips,heisableto helpyoualongtobounceharder.Itmakeshimfeellikehestillhasabitofcontrol andmenlikethat.Youalsohavebothhandsfreetoroamalloverhisbody.Digthose nailsdeepintohischestasyouridehimhard.Hewillwanttoputhishandsbehind hisheadandjustenjoytheshowandthegreatsexheisgettingfromyou.Ifyouare feeling extra spicy, you can reach a hand behind you and start stimulating his testicles.Thiswillmakethesexevenmorepleasurableforhimandwillreallygethis heartracing.Thesensationofhimbeinginsideofyou,thestimulationofhistesticles andtheviewofyournakedbodywillbealltoomuchforhimtobearandhewont beabletocontrolhimselfmuchlonger. YoucanalsochangeupthegirlontopbydoingtheReverseCowgirl. Thistypically isntapositionalotofwomenuse,whichiswhyitdoesntgetitsowndescription, butitisagreatpositiontouseifyouarereallyconcernedaboutyourbody.Ifyou cant put your tiny flaws or imperfections behind you for the cowgirl, then you shoulddefinitelytrythereversecowgirl.Thispositionrequiresyoutobeontopof him, but you are facing his feet instead of his face. That way you are still on top stimulatinghiminthisposition,butyoudonthavetoworryaboutthebadangleof yourbody.Hestillgetsagreatviewthough,becausehecanseehimselfstillentering you.Plus,hegetsagreatlookatyourbehindinthispositionandhewilldefinitelybe grabbingatit. Youcanspiceupthereversecowgirlabitbyglancingbackathimfromtimetotime. Thisletshimknowthatyouareenjoyingyourselfandwhenhelooksintoyoureyes, itwillsendshiversdownhisspine.Aswell,ifyouturnyourbodyalittletotheside andputyourarmsup,hecanseethesideofyourbreasts.Sometimesjustapeekis

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If you are soaring past all of these tips and you really just want to shock and awe your man, then while riding him in the cowgirl position, touch yourself. You have freehandstotouchhim,butifyouwanttogivehimarealshow,touchyourself.You canrubandsqueezeyourbreastsandalsostimulateyourclitoris.Ifyoustartdoing this,hewontknowwhattodo.Hegetshisownprivateshowandfeelspleasureat thesametime.Ifyouaregoingtoorgasm,makeitreallybigandflipyourheadand hair back, arch your back, and rub your body all the way from your lips down to yourhips.Thiswouldbeanimagethathewouldneverforgetfortherestofhislife. Sinceyouhaveallofthepowerinthisposition,youmayaswellworkit. Doggy Style (From Behind.) A lot of women dont like doggy style because they feelasthoughitisdegrading.However,youarebecomingasexgoddess,soyouwill rockanypositionthathewantstotry.Plus,doggystylecanactuallybeoneofthe hottestpositionsthatyouuse.Itallowshimtogetverydeepinsideofyouandthisis whenyoustopmakinglove,butstartgettinghotandrough.Sexwithdoggystyleisa completelyandtotallydifferentstyleofsexanditisperfectforthosenightswhen thereissomuchpassionthatyoujustwanthimtodrillyou.Thisiswhenyouthrow yourheadback,talkdirtytohimandmoanandscreamoutloudinpleasure. Thispositioninvolvesyouinfrontofyourmanonallfoursandheisbehindyouon hiskneesthrusting.Therearesomevariationsthatyoucantrysuchaslyingonyour stomachasheliesrightontopofyou,oranothervariationisifthetwoofyouareon yourknees,facingthesamedirectionandheentersyoufrombehind.Ifbeingonall foursdoesntinterestyou,hecanstillgetatyoufrombehindbyusingsomeofthose slightbutstillverysexyvariations. Asstatedbefore,doggystyleisessentiallyperfectforhavingroughsex.Ifyouand your man are in the right type of frisky and playful mood, then this is a perfect positionforyou.Thisistypicallydoneroughandwithlotsofforceonhisbehalf.He isgoingtowanttograbyourassandsmackit.Heisalsogoingtowanttosayalotof dirtythingstoyoubecausehehasallofthepowerinthisdominatingposition.He willwanttoscratchatyourback,pullatyourhairandwraphishandaroundyour bodyandsqueezeyourbreasts.Asyouarebecomingasexgoddess,youknowthat youcandividethepowerandcontrolattimes,solethimhavehisfunbutmakesure thatyouareenjoyingitaswell.Ifitdoesstarttohurt,tellhimtoslowdownalittle oryouhavethepowerofyourlegsandhipstoslowhimdownandpushintohim. Men can get a little carried away in the doggy style position so dont be afraid to speakupandgethimtoslowitdownthetempo.

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Since doggie style is already pretty spicy on its own there arent too many things thatyoucandotospiceitup.Sinceyouarentfacingoneanotherorabletotouch him, you have to rely on your voice to enhance the experience. This is when dirty talkisperfect.Sincethistypeofpositioncreatesverynaughtyandroughsex,spice up your dirty talk a little more and include some words that you previously wouldnt have said. If you arent sure what to say in this position, here are a few thingstoguideyoualong: 1. Harder,faster. 2. Doyoulikethis? The raunchier the words you use, the hotter it will be. It will boost his adrenaline andhewillwanttogetdeeperinsideofyou.Dontsayanythingthatyouwouldnt wanttohearthough.Althoughdirtytalkisfunandengaging,itcangetreallyweird, really fast. Use your own discretion to put a filter on what you say so it doesnt becometooweirdandheloseshisarousal.Dontletdirtytalkbecomeabuzzkiller. Thesimplerandclassieryoukeepit,thebetteritwillbe. Inordertoreallyblowhismindinthisposition,useyourPCmuscles.Thesearethe musclesthatyouusetoholdinyoururine.WhenyousqueezethePCmuscleanduse these muscles, you make your vagina even tighter. Squeeze his member as he is insideofyouandhewillflipalidbecauseitwillfeelsoamazing. Ifyourvaginaislosingelasticityduetochildbirthorage,thenyoucanworkonthem soyoustrengthenthem.Youcandothisbyengagingthosemusclesandholdingit for510seconds.Repeatthisaround20times.Thisisalsoknownaskegelexercises. Asthemusclesgetstronger,increasethetimeinwhichyoucontractthemuscleand theamountofrepetitions.ThestrongeryourPCmusclesare,thebettersexfeelsand thestrongerorgasmsyouhave.

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If you are feeling up to it, then try anal sex. This is for the most daring women of themallbecauseanalsexcanbealittlestrangeandmaynotbethatpleasurableof anexperience.Ifyouaregoingtohaveanalsex,usetonsoflubricantandacondom sinceyouaredealingwithaverysensitiveareaandthepossibilityforinfectionto comefromit.Startoffreallyslowtoseeifyoucanevenhandleitthenyoucanspeed itup.Youmaywanthimtoinsertafingerortwoinsideofyouranusbeforehegoes in with his penis. That gives you a better indication of what you can handle and if thissensationisevengoingtobeapleasurableone. If you are having anal sex, and you decide to stop, have him change the condom before he enters your vagina again. You do not want to get a bacterial vaginosis infectionfromfecalmatterenteringyourvagina.Ifyouandyourpartnerdontuse condoms, then get him to at least wash himself before he goes back inside of you.

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This may sound like a lot of work but you really dont want to get a urinary tract infection or a bacterial vaginosis episode from switching from anal sex to vaginal sex.Youhavetobecautiousandlookoutforyourbodyandyourhealth,sodobe carefulwhenitcomestoanalsex. Spoon.Typically,womenandmenthinkthatthespoonpositionisusedforcuddling aftersex.Thespoonpositionhashimbehindyouandyouarebothfacingthesame direction,resemblingspoons.Althoughthisisagoodpositionforcuddling,itisalso greatforsex. Thispositionisincrediblyintimateandisgreatforthosenightswhenyoubothjust wanttoliedown,butyoustillwanttohavesex.Itfeelsgreatforbothyouandyour man and it is incredibly sensual and erotic. Your bodies move as one in a very intimate way and he has free roam to touch your body. He can stimulate your clitorisandyourbreastsashethrustsintoyou. Sincethisisalyingdownpositionforyou,similartothemissionary,dontbecome the woman that men dislike in bed. Remember to keep moving and to not just lie thereandtakeit.Thisisagreatpositionforyoutomoveyourhips.Hecanbethe onetostaystillandyoucanhaveroomtomoveyourhipsalloverhimasheisinside ofyou.Youcanmoveincircles,whichwouldbeanamazingexperienceforhimthat he probably has never had before. Moving circles with him inside of you will massageandstimulatehispenisallover.Youcanalsomoveupanddownbutmake sure that you are moving your hips. This will feel great for your man and it also givesyoualittlepowerandcontrolinthebedroom. The Bad Girls Only tipthatyoulearnedaboutinthecowgirlposition,whereyou stimulateyourclitorisasyouhavesex,canbeusedhereaswell.Youhavetwofree handstostimulateyourbodyasheentersyou.Hewontgetaclearviewlikehedid last time, but if he knows that you are touching yourself and hearing the moans escapeyourlipswilldefinitelyspicethingsup. TheLotus.IfyousawthemovieLastTangoinParisthenyouknowallaboutthe lotusposition.Thisiswhereyouandyourpartnerarebothsittingfacingeachother andyouareontopofhim,legsoverhislegsandfeetonthesurfacebeneathyouand his legs are under yours and feet on the surface as well. This is called the lotus because your legs are in opposite directions of one another, which resembles the pedalsandthetwoofyoutogetherresembletheinsideoftheflower. Thisisanextremelypassionateandverysensualposition.Youarefacetofaceand bothhavetwofreehandstoroamfreelyallovereachothersbodies.Youcantouch hischestandhisbackandnothaveanylimitationstowhatyoudo.Heisalsoableto do the same to you. You can kiss him passionately and move to his ear, neck and chest. There are so many endless possibilities with this position and it is one that isntusedtoooften.

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Ifyouwanttospicethispositionupabit,thenputyourhandsbehindyourbackand open your body up a bit more. This will give him the same view of you from the cowgirlposition,whereheisabletowatchhimselfenteryourbody.Heisalsoable to see a very candid view of your naked body on his. Since this position is more romanticthanthecowgirl,youwillwanttomakeitverysensual.Thisisaposition whereyoutakeyourtimeanditisallaboutlovemaking.Youwanttofocusonmore thanjustsexandstimulatehisbodyallover.Thisisonepositionthatyoudefinitely dontwanttomissoutonandthatyouwillwanttoincludeinyourarsenalofsex goddessweapons. Standing. If your man has the arm strength, then you can try some positions standing up. Up against the wall is a popular and favorite position that a lot of coupleswanttotrybecauseitissohot.Thereisnothingsexierthanyouandyour man having so much passion for one another that you cant even make it to the bedroom and you undress one another, completely or just enough to expose what youneed,andheliftsyoubyyourbum,pressesyouhardagainstthewallandtakes yourightthenandthere.Thereisnotapositionthatishotterthanthis. Theonlyproblemisthatthispositionrequiresalotofarmstrengthonhisbehalf.If you know what your man cant handle it, then dont try it because it will end in disaster. You will want to make sure that he can do it before youtry. If you know that your guy can hold youup,thenup againstthewallisa positionyoumust try becauseitwillbeonethatyouwillwanttodooverandoverandoveragain. You can make it easier for him by bracing yourself against the wall and wrapping yourlegsaroundhim.Useyourlegstrengthtokeepyourbodyupsohedoesnthave todoallofthework.Aswell,youcanhavesexupagainstthewallandmakeiteven easierforhimifthereissomethingforyoutoputalegon.Ifyouarebyawallwhere thereisachair,thenputaleguponthat.Itgivesthetwoofyouevenmoresupport toensurethatnoinjuriescomefromthisposition. Usingfurniture.Youmayneverlookatyourkitchencounterthesamewayagain after you learn about using furniture to enhance your sex life and to create some sassy new positions. Any surface that is about hip level can definitely be used to youradvantage.Itmakesitincrediblyeasyforyourmantopropyouuponitandto makelovetoyou. Thekitchencounterisjustanexample.Thinkaboutmoreareasinyourhousethat youandyourmancanmakeloveandquicklyjotafewdownhere: 1. _______________________________________________ 2. _______________________________________________ 3. _______________________________________________ 4. _______________________________________________

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Not only can areas in your house be used to maximize your sex positions but also thereareproductsknownassexfurniturethatcandefinitelymakeyourpositionsa littlespicieranddriveyourmanabsolutelywild. Sex furniture consists of foam beds or other surfaces that maximize and definitely enhanceyourlovemaking.Theycontourtothehumanbodytogetthemostoutof sex. There are some positions that are nearly impossible to get into because you donthavetherightsupportbutwithsexfurniture,youcantakesextoawholenew levelandreallygetsomegooduseoutofit. Now,therearevariationswithallofthesepositionsthatyoulearnedabout.These arejustguidelinesthatyoucanstarttofollowsoyouhaveabetterunderstandingof the benefits of each position and what you can do to spice things up. Changing up theangleofyourhipsorplacingyourlegsadifferentway,changesthewaythatthe positionwillworkandmayenhancenotonlyhis,butyourabilitytoorgasmaswell. Forexample,duringthemissionaryposition,ifyouweretoputyourlegsuponhis shoulders,thiscompletelychangesthesensationofmissionary.Heisstillontopof youbutthisnewangleisenhancingeverything.Heisabletogosomuchdeeperinto you and he can hit your gspot. This is how a lot of women can have an orgasm duringsexandthistinyvariationdefinitelyspicesthingsup. Hereisanotherexampleofavariationforsexinvolvingthewomanontop.Thisis totallydifferentfromthecowgirlpositionbutyouarestillontopofhim.Ashelies onhisback,lieonyourbackontopofhimandlethimenteryou.Youhavetouse yourhipsquiteabittothrustonhimbutthisgiveshimtotalcontrolandfreerange toroamhishandsalloveryourbody.Hecantouchyourbreastsandstimulateyour clitorisallwhileheisinsideofyou. Therearevariationsforalmosteverypositionlisted.Asyoustarttohavebetterand hottersex,youwillknowwheretoputyourlegsandcomeupwithallsortsofwild positionsthatyoubothwilllove. Remember that sex is fun and you should bring a good attitude with you into the bedroom. Every single time that you have sex doesnt have to be so serious and passionate.Sometimesthemostmemorabletimesarethegoofyonesbecausethatis howyoubecomecloserandhowyouhavethemostfuninthebedroom.

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chapter,youmaythinkthatthereisnothinglefttotalkabout,butthereabsolutely is.Whileyouarehavingsex,therearesomanylittlethingsthatyoucandothatwill reallyspicethingsupandgethisheartrategoing.Youmayhavethoughtthatyou officially knew everything there was to ever know about becoming a sex goddess, butwearejustgettingstarted.Thischapterisgoingtohelpyoutorefineyourskills soyouwillgiveyourmangreatsexualexperienceseachandeverysingletimeyou becomeintimate. Therearethelittlethingsthatyourmandoestoyouthatdriveyouwild.Itmightbe asexyglancehegivesyouwhenheisabouttogodownonyouorhowhebiteson yourbottomlip.Thischaptermaybethemostimportantofthemallbecauseitisthe littlesextipsthatyoulearnandthatyoumaster,thatsetyouapartfromthewomen of his past. This is when you start to become your own, unique sex goddess and when you start to master the art of lovemaking and of pleasing your man indefinitely.Thisiswhenyousetyourselfapartfromanywomanhehaseverbeen withandwhenyoureallystarttoblowhismindandhoneinonyourownskillsin thebedroom. Since every single womans own personal sex skill is going to be different, the easiest way of helping you to obtain your own is to give you a list of all the sexy thingsthatyoucandotohimthatwilltotallyandcompletelydrivehimwildinbed. Youcantakethesetipsandstarttodevelopyourownvariationsonthem.Aswell, youwillfindsomehelpfultipstomakesexmoreenjoyable,toincreaseyoursexual confidenceevenfurtherandtomakesexsomuchhotter. Bevocal.Yourmanneedstoknowwhatheisdoinginordertopleaseyou.If you keep your mouth shut, then you wont get what you want out of the situation.Yourmantellsyouwhathewantsandheisveryopenaboutit.This makes your job pretty easy. You have to do the same for him. This doesnt makeyoubossyorcontrollingbyanymeans;itonlyhelpstomakesexbetter andtomakeyourbondcloser.Yoursexlifecanreallybenefitfromyoubeing morevocalandopenaboutwhatpleasesyou.

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37 like he is the best looking man in your eyes and that you cant keep your handsoffofhim.Makehimfeelthiswaybyinitiatingsex.Betheonetogoin for the kiss or to slide your hand down his pants. Make the first move and thiswillbeasextipthatwilldrivehimwild.Nothingissexierthanawoman whoknowswhatshewantsandwhogoesandgetsit.Asyoubecomemore confident, making the first move wont seem like the daunting task that it currentlyis.Yourconfidencewillclimbwithtimeandexperienceandmaking thefirstmovemightbecomearegularroutineforyou.

Breakroutines.Ifyouandyourpartnerhavesexatnightalot,spicethingsup withsomemorningsex.Lethimwakeuptoyoustraddlinghimorstroking his penis to get him hard. This will definitely be a great way to start your morning. Breaking routines keeps things fresh and exciting. No matter how good your sex may be at night, being spontaneous never hurts and will alwayskeepyourmanonhistoes.Italsohelpstogivehimconfidencetobe spontaneousaswellsothisisonlyawinwinsituationforyourrelationship. You dont want to ever fall into a rut with your lovemaking. You want to alwayskeepthingsasexcitingastheywerewhenyoufirststarteddatingso breakroutinestokeepthingsnewandfresh. Bootycall.Ifyoudontlivetogether,thenpopinonoccasionjustforsex.You donthavetostayoverandmakeanightoutofit,butjuststopby,headright tothebedroomandgetwhatyouwant.Youcanevenstopbyforaquickieon yourlunchbreakoranyothertimeofthedaywhenyouhaveafreehourfor some hot sex. This will leave him speechless and will definitely make him rememberthatmomentforever. Talk about your fantasies. Since you are gaining more confidence, you and yourpartnercantalkmoreaboutsex,thekindofsexyouwanttohaveand yourfantasies.Thisiswhentrustcomesintoplaybigtime.Apersonssexual fantasies are very personal. You cant laugh or be disgusted by what his fantasymaybe.Ifhementionssomethingaboutathreesome,thenacceptit. It doesnt mean that you havetomakehisfantasy cometrue,butyoumust respect it. You would feel hurt if there was a fantasy that you had and he giggledorwasrevoltedbyit.Ifthereissomethingthathewouldlikeyouto do,watchyoudoorwhateverelseitmaybe,figureoutwhatyoucandoin ordertomakehisfantasyarealityandtospiceupsexevenmore. Givehimahandjob.Somemaythinkthatahandjobisjuvenileandsillybut itcanstillbeverysexy.Inbetweensexororal,givehimafewtightstrokes withyourhand.Youcanalsomakeaneventoutofitandjustgivehimahand job.Positionyourselfnexttohimandgettojerkinghimoff.Youcankisshis chest,whisperinhisearandmakeoutwithhim.Addsomenewtwistsonthe traditionalhandjobandyoucanmakeitreallyhot.

38 Public places. If you are feeling confident and adventurous then take your sexyskillsoutsideofthebedroom.Youcanexploresexandsexualactivities inpublic.Thereisanaddeddangerandexcitementtobeingalittlenaughty inpublicbecauseyouhavethefearofgettingcaught.Allofyoursensesare heightenedandyouhavetobereallystealth.Youcanpulloveronthesideof theroadandgetnaughtyinthebackseat.Ifyouareatafriendsplace,you can sneak away into the bathroom and have a little fun. As well, if you are really feeling dangerous, you can wear a skirt when you and your man are outataclubandlethimenteryoufrombehindonthedancefloor.Justmake sureyouarecarefulsoyoudontgetthrownoutorcaught.Keepthingsvery stealthandexploringeachotherinpubliccanbeasextiptodrivehimcrazy. Roleplaying.Dressupasthelittlenurse,teacherorschoolgirlthathewants youtobeandtotallygetintocharacter.Youcangetalittlewildbecauseyou are playing a different persona. You are able to mask yourself in a disguise and this always makes women feel sexier and more powerful. There are all sortsoflittlecostumesthatyoucanpurchasesothismaybesomethingthat youwanttolookintosoyoucansurpriseyourmanwithasexylittleoutfit. Showersex.Ifyourmanishavingashower,ambushhim.Hopintherenaked withhimandhavealittlefuninthewater.Hecanpushyouupagainstthe showerwallandtakeyoufrombehind.Theslipperysurfaceofyourskinplus the hot water will definitely heat things up. You have to be careful though since most couples are accident prone in the shower. Since things are very wetandslippery,movewithcaution.Youdontwanttoslipandbringyour man crashing down with you. Move slowly and you will be fine. Plus, this makescleanupeasyaftersexsoshowersexmaybesomethingthatyouwant totry. Wear his shirts. If he comes home to find you sprawled out on the bed or couchinhisdressshirtorsportsteamjersey,thisisanimagehewontforget. Notonlywillhewantyouatthatverysecond,butalsoyouputyourscenton thatarticleofclothing.Thenexttimehewearsit,hewillsmellthefinescent ofyouonit.Thiswillinstantlyremindhimofthatmomentandthatimageof youanditwilldrivehimwild. After you have sex you can also slip into something of his. This is a sexy gesture that he will love because it shows that you still want to be close to himandwearsomethingofhis.Wearingyourmansclothingdefinitelyspices upyourlovelifeandkeepsthingsinteresting. Sex outdoors. Take your lovemaking to the great outdoors. If you have a balcony,adeckorabackyard,exploreit.Theseareareasofyourhomethat you can enjoy and that you can learn to love. A cool, crisp breeze on your naked skin as you are making love can definitely spice things up. Plus, you are in semipublic so that adds a little more excitement and danger to the

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Sextape.Thisisforthereallydaringwomen.Ifyouarefeelinguptoit,record oneofyoursexsessionsandwatchitatalaterdate.Makelovetoyourman andtothecameraandreallyputonashow.Thiswillbesomethingthatyou andyourmancandefinitelywatchtogetherandtorelivethatmomentagain. Plus,itissomethingthatyoucanwatchwhenyouarealoneandgetaroused andhecandothesame.Makesurethatyoutrustyourmansothistape doesntgetleaked.Onlydothisifyouknowthatyourguyisntgoingtogo andshowittoallofhisfriends.

Asyoubecomeatruesexgoddess,youaregoingtocomeupwithallsortsoflittle tips and tricks that define you and separate you from the rest. Although we are supposedtoforgetaboutthelittlethingsinourliveswhenweareintimatewithour loved one, it is the little things that you do in the bedroom that make sex memorable. Youllcomeupwithyourownsextipstodrivehimcrazyasyouhavemoresexand trynewthings.Youwilldevelopyourownlittlesignaturemovethatwilldrivehim wildinthebedroomandkeephimcomingbackformore.

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How to Make Him Have an Orgasm Hell Never Forget
Themaleorgasmissomethingthatyoumustmasterifyouwanttobecomea

sex goddess. You have to know how to give him a mindblowing orgasm to make him scream with pleasure and to make his toes curl. You have to know how to be abletodothisandhowtomakethathappen. You may assume that the male orgasm is just about rubbing the penis until he ejaculates, but you are very wrong. The male orgasm can definitely fluctuate just ourscan.Somenightshisorgasmcansendhimintoblisswhileothernightshejust hasatinyoneandbarelyfeelsathing.Thisdoesntmeanthatyoudidntdoitright; it just means that it wasnt his night. Men can have an off night as well so be preparedforthisandknowthatitisntyourfault. It is important to know that just because your man ejaculated doesnt necessarily meanthathehashadanorgasm.Attimes,amancanejaculatewithoutfeelingany pleasure and other times, he may have an earth shattering orgasm and shoot a blank. Dont use the ejaculate to determine whether or not he climaxed. A lot of women dont know this little tiny bit of information, so you will be glad that you learnedit. Inordertomakehimhaveanorgasmhellneverforget,thereareafewthingsthat youcando.Firstofall,youhavetobuilduppressure.Youhavetogethimrockhard andmakehimwantyoubad.Youneedtobuildupanticipationlikecrazysohecan barely control himself. This is when you use the foreplay techniques that you learned and that you also stimulate some of his hot spots. You want to get him so hard that he wont be able to stand it. The more anticipation you build, the better becauseitheightensallofhissensesandmakeshimincrediblyaroused. Onceheisrocksolid,nowyoucanbeginstimulatinghim.Ifyouaregivinghimoral sex, change it up from going really fast to slow and sensual. The changes in speed willchangethepressurebuildinginsideofhim.Youcanalsobuildupthepressure ofhisorgasmbyholdingoffrightatthemomentheisabouttocum.Ifheishinting that he is close, stop what you are doing and wait for his orgasm to go away. He wont know what you are doing, but when you go back to stimulate him it will be secondsandthenhewillhaveoneofthegreatestorgasmsofhislife.Bystoppingat therightmoment,youpreventhimfromhavinganorgasmandallofthispressure

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and tension builds fast. When you go to touch him again, everything goes off like fireworks and this will drive him crazy. This isnt a tip you will want to use repeatedly, but pulling it off every so often will definitely make him climax and ejaculatehard. Youcanalsosqueezehisbigtoeasheisabouttoorgasm.Forsomemen,thebigtoe isahugehotspotonthebodyanditisadirectlinktohispenis.Whenheisaboutto orgasm,makeitevenbiggerbysqueezingonthatbigtoe.Thisisperfectforwhen you are in the reverse cowgirl position since you are facing his feet. If your mans toes are too ticklish then refrain from this tip but if they arent, then this is somethingthatyoumusttrybecauseitwilldefinitelystrengthenhisorgasmandbe onethathewillrememberforalongtimetocome. Whileyouarehavingsexwithyourpartner,therearesomethingsthatyoucando togivehimanorgasmthathewillneverforget.Firstofall,ifyouareincontrolthen youcantellhimwhatyouwant.Ifyouwanttogoforlonger,thenmakesurethathe isntgoingtoblowhisload.Agreatwaytopreventhimfromhavinganorgasmisto change up positions. This gives him a little break from constant stimulation and whenheentersyouagain,itwillbeadifferentsensationandfeelingfromwhathe hadpreviously.Keepchanginguppositionsandthiswillkeepbuildinguppressure. Beforeheknowsit,hewillbedyingtohaveanorgasmandwhenhedoesclimax,he isgoingtoexplode.Heisgoingtomoanandscream,shakeandkickandthoselittle toesofhisaregoingtocurl. Makesurethatyouaredoingthisingoodtaste.Youdontwanttodothis5timesin arowbecauseyourmanisntgoingtobeabletohandlethat.Onceortwiceisjust finebeforeheisgoingtolosehismind.Youwoulddothesamethingifithappened toyou.Ifyoureallywantedtocumandhepreventedyoufromdoingso,thenyou would be dying to climax. Use your discretion and your soontobe sex goddess statustobuildpressureinsideofhimtherightway,soyoucanmakehimhavean orgasmtorememberandmakehimejaculatehard. WespokeabouttheAspotearlier(theprostategland)andthisisanotherpowerful way to make a man orgasm. However, he must be okay with you stimulating this spotsincetheonlywaytoaccessitisthroughanalstimulation.Ifheisokaywithit, then you can definitely stimulate the Aspot and the penis simultaneously to give himonehellofanorgasmthatwillblowhismindandbeoneofthebesthewillever haveinhisentirelife.YoucanalsouseatoyknownasanalbeadstostimulatehisA spot.Youinsertthemintohisanusandasheisabouttocumfromstimulationofhis penis,youpullthemoutasheisclimaxing.Thismakeshimhavethatdoubleorgasm likeuswomencanhavethroughclitoralandGspotstimulation.Weallknowhow greatitfeelswhenthathappenstous,soimaginehowhewouldfeelifithappened tohim. The male orgasm is one of the many important steps to master in becoming a sex goddesssolearnouthowyourmanlikesitbest.Youcantalkabouthisorgasmand

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thethingshedoeswhenheisalone.Ifyouusehismasturbationtechniquesonhim whilegivingahandjobyouaresuretoblowhismind.Youcanlearnalotfromhim andhowhelikesthingsdonesotalktohim.Heknowswhathelikesanditdoesnt hurt to get him to open up to you. This brings you closer and helps you to learn moreabouthisbodyandhisorgasm.

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After Sex: How to Not Ruin the Moment and Kill the Buzz
After youandhimorgasmorhoweverthesituationworksitselfout,thisis whenyoudontwanttoruinanythingthatjusthappened.Youjusthadgreatsexand you need to keep that in mind. A lot of women can completely blow the after sex momentandruintheamazingandmindblowingsexsessionthatyoujusthad.Since youareneartheendoflearningallthereistoknowaboutbeingasexgoddess,you willknowthatthisisamomentthatyouwanttorelishinandremember,insteadof ruiningit. ItisbesttobreakthischapterdowninDOsandDONTs.Therearesomethingsthat youcandoaftersexthatwillshockandamazehimandtherearethingsthatyoucan dothatwilltotallyturnhimoffandmakehimforgetallabouttheamazingsexyou justhad.Youdontwanttoruinthemomentandkillthebuzzsohereisalistofwhat NOTtodoorsayaftersex: DO NOT ask him how that was. He doesnt want to talk about it. The only thingthathewantstotalkaboutishowgooditwasorhowgooditfelt.You arenottheworrywartthatyouusedtobe.Youarentgoingtorolloverand startbombardinghimwithquestionslikeWasthatokay?orDidthatfeel goodforyou?Thesearequestionshedoesntwanttohear. DONOTcuddleuptohimimmediately.Chancesareyourmanisextremely hot and he doesnt want your body heat on his body right now. He needs a momenttocooloff.Donotgetoffendedbythis.Hestilllovesyouandthinks whatyoujustdidwasmindblowing,soifhedoesntwanttobetouchedright now,thendontgetoffendedorsadbyit.Ifyouweresweatyandtired,you wouldntwanttobetouchedeither.Afterafewminutespasses,holdhishand ortouchhislegandseewherehisbodylanguagegoesfromthere. DONOTcomplainaboutanything.Ifheenteredyouinanawkwardwayand youdidnttellhimrightawayandyouaresavingituntilthismomenttodo that, just dont. If he tasted weird, wait a while to tell him. This is a big moment and you dont want to ruin it. His ego is high right now and so is yours, you might as well relish in this moment and talk about the awkwardnessatalatertime.

44 DO NOT start changing the subject. You might start thinking about plans tomorroworheadingtothateventthatthetwoofyouhavetogoto,butnow is not the time to start flapping your jaws about something else other than theamazingsexyoujusthad.Thisisgoingtototallyruinthemoment.Hewill thinkthathewasntgoodenoughorthatyoudidntenjoyyourselfsinceyou startedtalkingandthinkingaboutsomethingelserightaway.Hellquestion ifyouwereevenintothesexthatyoujusthadandifyouweredistractedthe wholetime.Savethebuzzkillandwaittochangethesubjectforawhileafter sex. DO NOT joke about something he may have said or done after sex. When talking dirty, if he got a little wild and said something Rrated or he did somethingelsethatdidntfloatyourboat,donttellhimrightnow.Youdont wanttoruintheperfectmomentbyinsultinghim.Thiswillbeahugeshotto hisegoandrightnow,hisegoissoaringhigh.Letthemanhavehismoment andenjoythemomenttoo. DONOTtellhimthatheshouldhavedonesomethingdifferently.Youarent supposedtobehiscritic.Youaresupposedtobehisloverandtoenjoywhat the two of you just finished. Dont start telling him that he should try this next time when he just had an orgasm. You should let some time pass and bring it up the next time that you are about to make love. Make it a suggestion rather than a critique and this is a much better way to get your point across. You never want to be rude and hurt his feelings, especially in thisvulnerablemoment.

Now,therearesomethingsthatyoucandoorsayaftersexthatwillsealthedealon ensuring that the sex you just had was amazing. Plus, there are a few little things thatyoucandoaswell,thatwillmakeyoutheperfectwomaninhiseyes.Hereisa listofsomesexy,sexgoddessesquethingstocompletesexwith: DOcomplimenthim.Ifhedidsomethingthatfeltamazing,thentellhim.This willboosthisconfidenceandhaveitsoaringthroughtheroof.Chancesare, hellcomebackwithacomplimentforyouthatwillmakeyoufeelgoodabout yourself as well. Compliments are great, but dont go into a story. He is reflectingonwhatjusthappenedsoheisalittledistracted.Keepitshortand concise. DOofferhimsomethingtoeatordrink.Thisissomethingthatweseealotin movies or TV shows, where the chauvinistic male asks for a sandwich or a beer after sex, so why not make this tiny little fantasy come true? You are probablyalittlehungryorthirstytoo,sogetyourlittlenakedbuttupoutof thebedandgetthetwoofyousomethingtosnackon.Notonlywillhelove thislittlegesturebutalsohegetstowatchyournakedbodyleavetheroom. Itisasighthewilllove.Thislittleactofkindnessalsoputsyouinaleague above the rest. Any woman in his past probably never did this or was

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DO let him get up and leave the room. Your man probably wants to have a littlebreakafterthatandhemightwanttoleavebutthatisokay.Lethimgo and do what he wants. Typically, men dont want to talk much after sex becausetheirbrainsareinadifferentstateofmind.Heisntgoingtobethe thoughtful and intense listener that he sometimes might be, so dont get offendedifheleavestoshowerorwatchsomeTV. DO let him sleep. Your guy is going to be exhausted after sex and he might justwanttorolloverandsleep.Thisdoesntmeanthathedidntenjoysexor that he doesnt love you. The male orgasm takes a lot out of a man and it usually leaves them quite exhausted. This has nothing to do with you and everythingtodowithhischemicalmakeup.Heisgoingtobetired,solethim gotosleep. DO try and go for round two. If your man looks like he could get aroused againandthengoforit.Youwillhavetowaitawhileforhimtogetoutofthe refractoryperiod(thetimethepenisneedsforallofthebloodtoflowoutof it and for the body to calm itself down), but once he is out of that you can starttotouchhimandseewhathisresponseis.Makesurethatduringround two,youaredoingthemostworkbecausehewillbeprettyweakortryafew moves on him to get his adrenaline pumping so round two can be just as goodasroundone. DO have a shower with him afterwards. A shower together doesnt always havetobeasexualthing.Youcangetintheretogetherandletthehotwater caressandsootheyourbodies.Everyinchofyourskinandhisisgoingtobe verysensitivetothetouchrightnow,soyoucanusethistoyouradvantage. Youcanhelptowashhisbodyandmakeitsensualratherthanasexything.If youjusthadmorningsex,thenhavingashowertogethercandefinitelybea greatwaytomakeyourmorningonethatbringsyouevencloser.Plus,you getsomegreatimagesandmemoriestothinkaboutduringyourday.

Itisimportanttogaugehowyourmanisfeelingaftersex.Ifhehasabigsmileonhis face,thenyouknowtolethimbeandtoexperiencethemomentwithhim.Ifhehas alookofconcern,thenyoumightwanttotalktohimandseewhatisonhismind. Youknowyourmanbestsoyouknowhowtoeitherletthemomentplayitselfout orkillitdeadinitstracks.Nomatterwhatyoudo,dontbeabuzzkillsousethese smalltipstoavoidthatbecauseasexgoddessdefinitelyneverkillsthebuzz.

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Faking an Orgasm
Thereisanimportantrulewithfakingorgasms:

DONTEVERDOIT
Fakinganorgasmdoesnothingpositiveforyouoryourman.Itislyingand steering him in the wrong direction. You should never fake an orgasm because it doesnt solve anything. It only makes situations more complicated and adds frustrationinyourrelationship.Arelationshipshouldalwaysbeabouthonestyand trustandyouarebreakingtwohugerulesbyfakinganorgasm. Whenyoufakeanorgasmtomakehimhappy,youarebetrayingyourman.Youare not being honest about the kind of pleasure that you want. So you will fake your orgasmandthenbeunhappyaboutthepleasurethatheistryingtogivetoyou.If you want your manto givepleasure thatisout of this world then youhave totell him what to do. Men are not mind readers and they do not know what we want unless we tell them. This is when being vocal and honest with your man is important.Youmaywanttostrokehisegoalittleandmakehimhappy,butyouare doing it in a very betraying and lying way. This wont do you any good. You dont wanttoseehimsmilingeartoearandknowdeepdownthatitwasntreal.Theguilt willkillyouinsidesoavoidit. If you are faking an orgasm so youcan getsex over with, then you shouldnt have started having sex in the first place. When you have sex with your partner, you shouldwantittogoonforaslongaspossiblebecauseyouareinaeuphoricstateof mind that you cant escape from. You should be so involved and overwhelmed by sex that stopping is the last thing on your mind. Unless you and your partner are havingaquickie,youshouldwanttokeepgoingandgoinguntilyoubothcanttake itanymore.Fakinganorgasmtogetsexoverwithisabignono. Theworstthingthatcouldhappenfromfakinganorgasmisthatyourmanknows that you are faking it. Then this opens up Pandoras Box and starts all sorts of conflictbecauseyouwerelying.Itmakeshimfeellikehedoesntknowwhatheis

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doing and that you dont want to have sex with him. Men take fake orgasms very seriously and it isnt an issue that you play around with. He is going to feel very inadequate and feel like a total loser. Hell wonder why you ever would think of fakinganorgasm.Yourargumentabouttryingtomakehimhappyisntgoingtohelp you here because it will make things worse. You need to be honest with him and insteadoftryingtomakehimhappy,betruthful. Gettingawomantoorgasmisaproblemthatalotofmenfaceandwhenyoufakeit, itonlymakeshimfeelevenmoreinadequatethanhedidinthefirstplace.Youwant toliftyourmansspiritsupandmakehimfeelliketheconfidentandsexymanthat youknowheis.Whenyoufakeanorgasm,itislikeashottohisselfesteemthatyou arefakingsomethingtojustgetitoverwithandtotryandmakehimhappy,when youdothecompleteopposite.Youhithimhardandthisisoneofthebiggestshots toamansselfesteem. Ifhedoesntknowthatyouarefakingit,thenyouhavetolivewiththeguilt.Youget tolookathissmilingfaceandhowhappyheisthathefinallygotyouoff,whenyou know that it is a big lie. It is simple NEVER DO IT. If he isnt giving you the satisfaction you are looking for, then you need to tell him. A sex goddess knows what she wants and she gets it. She tells her man to do something to her and he listens.Thisishowasexgoddessusesherpowerinbedtodotherightthing.Asex goddess knows that lying never solves anything and doesnt enhance your sex life onebit. Nothingpositivecancomeoutofthissituation,sothebestthingforyoutodoisto justnotfakeanorgasmever.Youareonyourwaytototalsexgoddessstatus,anda sex goddess knows that her pleasure is important too, so she is going to help and instructhermantomakehercuminsteadoflyingandfakingit.

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How to Give Your Man the Romance He Wants
Romanceisjustasimportantforyourmanasitisforyou.Hewantstofeel

loved, cared for and pampered just like you. Although the romance a man craves differsfromawomansneeds,hestillwantssomeromancefromyou.Hewantsto knowthatyoucareandthatyouwillgooutofyourwaytoplanspecialoccasionsfor him.Hejustwantstofeellikeheisimportanttoyouandthatheisworthyourtime toplansomethingspecialforhim. Romancehelpstokeepthepassionandsparkinyourrelationship.Ithelpstokeep thetwoofyouclosertogetherandhelpstokeepthingsexciting.Withoutromance, then there is no purpose for your relationship. Without romance, you are just friends.Romanceiswhatmakesyouacoupleandwhathelpstokeepthingsspicy andalive.Youmaystilllovehimandnothaveromancebutthatdoesntmeanthat you are in a functioning relationship. Romance is important and you need to be romanticwithhim.Itisnotalwaysuptothemantocreateromanceandsinceyou arealmostasexgoddess,youneedtoknowhowtogiveyourmantheromancehe wants. Yourguydoesntwantflowersorcandyfromyou.Instead,hewantsromancethatis alittlesubtler.TheoccasionalIloveyoucangoalongwayinhisbooks.Itletshim knowthatyoucareandthatyoustillhavefeelingsforhim.Thosethreelittlewords areextremelypowerfultomenandtheywillmeanalottohim,comingfromyou.To him,thatistheequivalentofhimbuyingyoudiamondring.Hejustwantstoknow thatyoucareandthatyoulovehim.Thisisimportantinhisselfesteemandoneof themostimportantdynamicsofyourrelationship. Romance can also be expressed in the form of a vacation. If you plan out an excursion for the two of you to hit up his favorite football or hockey teams next homegameandyouincludesomeotheractivitiesthathewouldreallyenjoy,thisis romantic to him. It allows him to know that you care enough to want to include yourselfinsomethingthathereallylikes.Italsoshowshimthatyouarelisteningto thingsthathetalksaboutandthatyoutooknoticeofoneofhisinterests.Itisthe same as him taking you out for dinner and then taking you to that new chick flick youvebeendyingtosee.Chancesare,hedoesntwanttowatchthisfilmbutheis doingitforyoubecauseheknowsthatitmeansalottoyou.Showhimthatyoucare andgivehimsomeromance.

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Unfortunatelynotallofuscanspendthousandsofdollarsonourmantoshowhim some romance and to get two thumbs up in his books. Thankfully, there are some frugalwaysofexpressingromancetoyourmanthatworkjustaswell.Youcangive him some romance by cooking a special dinner for him when he comes home one night. If you have the time, prepare his favorite meal and treat him to a special dinner.Haveeverythingallreadyforhimwhenhegetshomeandgreethimatthe doorwithakiss.Takehiscoatfromhimandinvitehimtositdownandenjoyagreat mealwithyou. Romance can also be as simple as a love letter. Since technology has expanded beyond belief, we sometimes forget how to express ourselves through other mediums.Ifyouhavethetime,writeyourmanaloveletterandleaveitbyhiskeys one morning so he can read it before work. This little act will give him butterflies andsendhisheartracing.Thisiscutebutnottoosappyandjusttherightamountof romancetoshowhimthatyoureallycare. Youcanalsowhispercutethingsintohisearasyouarecuddling.Asimpleitfeels so good to be in your arms or I want to lay like this forever is great and to the point. You dont have to tell him a huge story to get the point across and he will remembertheselittlemoments.Theywillmeanalottohimsoshowyourmanthat youcare. Menarealwaysdepictedasthestrongersexandtheoneswhothinkthatromanceis bullshit,butthisisnottrue.Whenamanisinatrustingandcaringrelationship,like the one he has with you, then romance is extremely important. You have to make himfeelspecialandpamperedexactlyhowhemakesyoufeeloryouwonthavea happy relationship. Without romance, there is no relationship. You may still love eachotherbutfriendsloveeachothertoo.Youneedromanceasakeyingredientin yourrelationshiptokeepitworking. Since you are becoming a sex goddess, you know that sex is about more than just what happens in the bedroom. Great sex is all about your daily activities and routinestogether.Themoreromanticandcloseryouare,thenthebetteryoursex willbe.Themoreyouknowhowmuchhecaresandviceversa,themorewillingness youaregoingtohavetowanttostripdownandgetdirty.Showyourmanhowmuch youcareandhewillwanttodothesamethingforyou.Youlearnedhowtomakethe firstmoveandtogoaftersomethingthatyouwant,soifyouwantsomeromancein return,thenyouhavetobetheonetoputitouttherefirst.Thenyourmancanfeel moreconfidentandbewillingtodothesameforyou.Somemendontknowhowto beromantic,soifyoucansetthebarforhimthenheknowswhattoexpectandhow hecangiveyoutheromancethatyouwantaswell. Dontgiveyourmananysappyromance,unlessheisintothat.Ifyourguywantsthe storybookromance,thenyoucandothatforhim,butthisisreallyrareformen.For someguys,havingpizzaandbeerandwatchingthegamewithhisarmaroundyouis

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How to Be the Best Hell Ever Have
Thebestcanbeaprettylooselytermtodefine,butwhatmattersthemost toyoushouldbewhatmattersthemosttohim.Youonlywanttobethebestinhis eyes and you should forget about what anyone else says or thinks, because their opinion truly does not matter. If you want to be the best hell ever have, then you needtobethebestHELLeverhave. Alotofwomenfocusongivingamanpleasurewithaverynarrowviewbecausenot everymanlikeseverything.Menhavedifferenttastes,justlikeuswomendo.Some womenwantanalsexwhileothersthinkitisdisgusting.Somewomenwanttohave sexoutsidewhileothersfeelmorecomfortableinthebedroom.Thesamegoesfor yourman.Heisgoingtobeexcitedtodosomethingsandmightrefrainfromothers. Itisimportantthatyouhaveanideaofwhathelikessoyouarentintroducingnew ideasthataregoingtofrightenhimorspookhim.Inordertobethebesthellever have,youhavetoknowyourmanonadeeperlevel. Ifyouhavebeentogetherforawhilenow,thenthiswillbeeasyforyoubecauseyou willhaveanideaofwhatgetsyourmangoingandwhatstopshimdeadinhistracks. Ifyouarewithanewguy,thenyoumayhavetodoalittleresearchwithhimfirstto findoutifhemightbeokaywiththefreakythingsyouwanttodo,orifheisamore traditionalman.Itisagoodideatofindoutwhatyourmanwantsandlikesbefore you start throwing all of these wild ideas at him. This might make him feel really uncomfortableandthisissomethingthatyoudontwanttodo.Ifyouwanttobethe besthelleverhave,thenyouhavetomakesurethathefeelscomfortableandthat heisokaywiththesituation.Hisfeelingsandviewsmatter,justasmuchasyours do. There may be something that you are dying to try but if he doesnt feel comfortablewithit,thenyoumustrespectthat. Now,therearesomethingsthatallmenlikeandthatyoucanbankonworkingin yourfavorsoyoucanbeknownasTheBestEverinhiseyes.Givehimapassionate kisswheneveryoupossiblycanbecausemenlikekissing.Menlikemakingoutand feeling their partner grow more and more aroused. He wants to feel passion eruptingfromyouandnomatterwhatkindofmanheis,thisissomethingthathe will love. Making out doesnt always have to lead to sex but being the best in his eyes,willprobablyincludealotofpassionatekissing.Kissingmakeshimfeelloved anditallowshimtoknowthatyoudocareabouthimandthatyouwanttobeclose with him. It makes him feel romance from you and that is important in a

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relationship,becauseremember:Withoutromance,thereisnorelationshipandyou arebasicallyjustfriends. Inordertobethebest,itisaboutlittlethingstooandtheseareprobablythemost important of them all. The little things that you do will set you apart from any woman that he has ever been with. The little things that you do are what really matters most and what makes you unique. If you make him breakfast in the morning,packalunchforhim,sendhimaromantictextmessageduringthedayor beingabletolaughandjokewithhim,theseareallwaysofbeingthebest.Maybe the two of you have an incredible amount of little inside jokes that only you two knowabout.Althoughthelittlenegativethingsinlifearesupposedtobewhatwe forgetaboutaswetransformintoasexgoddess,thelittlepositivethingsarewhat we want to focus on. There might be a certain way that you touch your man that only you are capable of and this is a trait that you have that no other woman will have.Thelittle,sweetthingsthatyoudoforyourmanarewhatmakesyouspecial andwhatwillholdyouabovetherest.Thesearewhatmakeyouthebest,themost memorableandthemostunforgettableinhiseyes. Youshouldknowthatifheisheadoverheelsinlovewithyou,thenyoualreadyare thebesthelleverhavebecauseyouaretheonlyonehelleverwanttohave.Instead ofalwaystryingtoimpressyourman,knowthathelovesyoujustthewaythatyou areandwillloveyouevenmoreonceyouareabletoblowhismindinthebedroom. Menjustwantustobeourselvesandtonotalwaysputonashow24/7.Thesexiest womenoftheworldarethewomenwhodonttrytoactperfectallofthetime.They aretherealwomenoftheworldandtheyarecomfortablewiththat.Inordertobe thebestinhiseyesbetherealyou,becausethatisthewomanthatheloves.

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Bad Girls Only Zone
As you read through this book, you came across a number of Bad Girls

Only tips that may or may not have intrigued you. These tips were designed and

intendedforthewomenwhoalreadyhadskyrocketingsexualselfconfidenceand whoreallywantedtodiverightintoincreasingthenaughtyfactorinthebedroom. Thesearethetipsthatreallyspicethingsupinyourlovelifeandgetthingsworking onawholenewlevel.Nowthatwearenearingtheendofyourjourney,wearegoing togooverallofthosetipsthatyoureadaboutearlierandputthemintotheirown little Bad Girls Only chapter. As well, you may have more confidence about yourself now than you did at the beginning of this book so you may want to take anotherlookatthesetipsandseeiftheycandoanythingforyou. Here are all of the tips that we learned about so when you want to really WOWyourman,thischapterisaneasyreferenceforyou: HotSpotsandForeplay:Whenyouandyourmanareinforeplayandthings are getting hot, slide his finger in your mouth and suck it as you would his penisinoralsex.Thiswilldrivehimwildandwillonlyfuelhisfiretoravage you. You can also suck on his finger during sex if he is taking you from behind.Thiswillbealittlesurprisethatheneversawcomingandthatwill intensifyyoursexsession. You can also stimulate his fingers with your fingers. As you are holding hands,strokehismiddlefingerasyouwouldhispenisifyouweregivinghim ahandjob.Hemaynotcatchonimmediately,butafterafewstrokeshewill get what you are hinting at and his mind will go to a very dirty place. He wouldneverexpecthisfingerstobeahotspotbutyouaregoingtoshowhim otherwise. Foreplay: If you have that sexual confidence soaring and you are on your waytobecomingatotalsexgoddess,thenthisbadgirlsonlytipisperfectfor you.Again,usingyourphone,takeasexylittlepictureofyourselfandsendit toyourman.Thiscanincludenudityorjustimpliednudity.Allthatmatters isthatitisalittlesneakpeakforwhatisgoingtohappenlateron.Remember that men are very visual and they can get very aroused from visual stimulation.Usethistoyouradvantagetogethisheartracing.

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Thisiswhenyoudefinitelyhavetobecarefulanddoublecheckthatheisthe recipient of this dirty and very naughty text. Also, be cautious about your manssurroundings.Sendhimthepicturewhenyouknowhesonabreakor when you know hell be alone for a while at work. The worst would be for someone else to open his phone and catch a glimpse of you in a very compromisingposition. Foreplay: There are crotchless panties that you can purchase to spice up yourlingerielook.Itgivesthevisualoflingeriebutwhenyoustartstraddling himandhefeelsthewarmthfromyourgenitalsonhis,heisgoingtogowild. Plus, this is easy access for him and he doesnt have to fuss with any silly underwear. Lingerie can definitely be hot, but if he is spending lots of time tryingtogetyououtofit,itlosesitsheat.Hecanalsostartstimulatingyou thiswayandhecanevengiveyousomeoralplay.Ifyouareabraveandbad girl,thendefinitelyinvestinsomecrotchlesspanties. Foreplay:Onceyougetreallyconfidentandcomfortablewithyourbody,put onalittleshowforhim.Youcanlieacrossfromhimandstimulateyourself withavibrator.Lethimwatchyouinyourmostintimatemomentpossible. Thisiseasilysomeoftheehottestforeplayandsexualarousalhecouldever want his own private peep show from you. He also gets to see how you stimulateyourselftogetpleasuresohecantakeafewnotesfromthislittle showandbeabetterloverforyou. Foreplay:StripteaseandLapdance.Thisismajorturnonforanyman.Once you are a sexually confident and powerful woman in the bedroom, use a stripteaseoralapdanceaswaytocapturehisattention.Thisishandsdown thebestthingtouseforforeplay.Positionyourmanonachairinaroomand grindupalloverhim.Usesomesensualmovementsanddances.Youcanget right up close to him or be a few feet away and let him watch your hips swing. The closer you get, the more his anticipation will grow. Be sure to swingaroundthathairandshowhimwhatyouareworkingwith.Asthings heatup,slowlypeeloffsomeclothingtorevealyournakedbody.Bytheend of it, he wont be able to keep it in his pants and he will have the biggest, hardesterectionwaitingforyou.Toreallyspicethingsup,tiethosehandsof hisbehindhisbacksohecanttouchyou.Hewillbedyingtotouchyouand thefactthathewontbeabletowilldrivehimnuts.Whenyoudogivehim the green light and you slowly untie those hands, watch out because he is goingtobegunningforyouandwillhavearaginghardontoproveit. Poledancingcanalsobeagreatwaytoenticeyourmanwithforeplay.There areallsortsofcustomizablepolesthatyoucanpurchasethatwillfitperfectly in your home. Not only will this get him all horny for you, but also this is anotherwaytorevealyourinnersexgoddess.Almosteverywomanwhohas triedpoledancingorhastakenafunclasswithhergirlfriendswouldagree

55 thatitisveryempowering.Thiswillhelpyoutogainsomemoreconfidence and to really make him want you bad. Plus, it is a great workout so you cannotloseeitherway. OralSex:Beforeheisgoingtoorgasm,deepthroatinghimwouldbeagreat way to push him over the edge. Deepthroating a man allows him to feel a sensationthatisunlikeanythingelse.Itfeelssimilartosexbutisevenbetter becauseitismuchtighter.Thetighterandthewetter,thebetter.Ifyouhave the ability to deep throat and you know that your gag reflexes arent sensitive,lethimgodeepinyourmouthafewtimesandthiswillmakehim cuminnotimeatall. OralSex:Ifyouwanttospiceuporalsex,thendothe69.Thisiswhereyou are stimulating your partner and he is doing the same to you, at the same time.Theeasiestwaytogoaboutthisistohavehimliedownonhisbackand you liedownon top of him, facinghis feet.Stay on yourkneessoyouhave someleveragesohecanperformoralonyou.Lethimstimulateyouandyou dothesamethingtohim.Althoughtheanglemaybeawkward,thisiswhen youreallyletyourhandworktheshaftandjustuseyourmouthonthetip.As well, you have to have some sexual confidence in order to perform the 69 becausethewaythatyourbodyispositionedyouaretotallyandcompletely exposedtohim.Heisabletoseeeverythingthatyouhavetoofferandthis maymakealotofwomenfeelviolated.Besurethatyouarecomfortablewith thispositionbeforeyouagreetoit. OralSex:Reallydriveyourmanwildwithoralsexbygivinghimroadhead. Road head refers to giving your man oral sex as you are both travelling by car.Ifheisdriving,thenthisgivesyouaperfectopportunitytoputyouroral sex skills to work. This will be an intense experience for him because he is going to have to focus on driving and will be receiving all of this pleasure fromyouatthesametime. OralSex:Giveyourmananimagethathewillneverforgetbyglancingupat him while you are giving him oral sex. With his rock hard member in your mouthandyoureyeslookingintohis,thiswillbeanimagethathewillnever forget.Youdonthavetostareathimcontinuously,butjustonesexylookwill dothetrick.Youcanalsoflashaglanceathimasyouaretakingyourbreak andyouaredivingrightbackintoit.Beforeheiscompletelyinyourmouth, playwiththetipofhispeniswithyourtongueandflashhimacoylook.Itwill definitelyspicethingsupandreallygethisheartracing. Oral Sex: Another sexytipto use during oralsex is tospice things up with somedifferentsensations.Suckonanicecubepriortogivingyourmanoral sextogivehimawholenewsensationtoexperience.Theicecubewilldrop thetemperatureofyourmouthsoitwillbealittlecooler.Pairthiswithsome warminglubeonhismemberandhewillloveit.Rubandstrokehismember

56 with this warming lube so he can get all warmed up and then surprise him with your cool mouth. He wont know what hit him and it will drive him absolutelywild. Aswell,youcanalsousemintasagreatwaytomakehimtinglealittle.Suck on a peppermint before you give a blow job and this will send a very sexy tinglysensationthroughouthispenisandentirebody. OralSex:Nomatterhowgoodoralsexfeelstoyourman,sometimeshecant see what is going on. Rememberthat menarevery visual creatures,so you have to give him visual stimulation as well. The easiest way to do this is to give him head in front of a mirror. Depending upon your mirror, he can lie down or maybe you have to get him to stand up. No matter what your situation, just make sure he can watch. The combination of watching and feelingwilldefinitelybesomethingthathewillneverforget. Sex Woman on Top: While riding him in the cowgirl position, touch yourself.Youhavefreehandstotouchhim,butifyouwanttogivehimareal show, touch yourself. You can rub and squeeze your breasts and also stimulateyourclitoris.Ifyoustartdoingthis,hewontknowwhattodo.He getshisownlittleshowandfeelspleasureatthesametime.Ifyouaregoing to orgasm, make it really big and flip your head and hair back, arch your back,andrubyourbodyallthewayfromyourlipsdowntoyourhips.Dont beafraidtogoalittleoverthetopandtomilkyourorgasmbecauseinthis situation,thebiggerthebetter.Thiswouldbeanimagethathewouldnever forgetfortherestofhislife. Anal Sex: If you are feeling up to it, then try anal sex. This is for the most daringwomenofthemallbecauseanalsexcanbealittlestrangeandmight notbethemostpleasurableexperienceofthemall.Ifyouaregoingtohave anal sex, use tons of lube and a condom since you are dealing with very sensitiveareaandthepossibilityforinfectiontocomefromit.Startoffreally slowtoseeifyoucanevenhandleitthenyoucanspeeditup.Youmaywant him to insert a finger ortwoinside ofyouranus before he goes in with his penis.Ifyouaregoingtohaveanalsex,makesurethatyourmanknowstobe carefulandthisiswhenbeingvocalisveryimportantbecauseifhegoesto hard,hecancausetearing.Makesurethatthereisacertain,establishedlevel ofcomfortandtrustbeforehavinganalsex. Sex tape. This is for the really daring women. If you are feeling up to it, recordoneofyoursexsessionsandwatchitatalaterdate.Makelovetoyour manandtothecameraandreallyputonashow.Thiswillbesomethingthat you and your man can definitely watch together and to relive that moment again. Plus, it is something that you can watch when you are alone and get aroused and he can do the same. Make sure that you trust your man so

57 this tape doesnt get leaked. Only do this if you know that your guy isnt goingtogoandshowittoallofhisfriends.

These are just some guidelines and small tips on how you can become a very naughtygirlinthebedroom.However,therearesomanymoremovesandtipsthat you will come up with that will blow his mind. As you start to become more and more sexually confident in the bedroom, you are also going to become more adventurousandyouaregoingtowanttotrybiggerandbetterthings. If you want to keep track of all of the bad girl tips that you are going to create on yourown,thenusethesespacesrightheretocreateyourveryownBad Girls Only tipstoreallyleaveyourmanspeechless: 1. _________________________________________________________________________________________ 2. _________________________________________________________________________________________ 3. _________________________________________________________________________________________ 4. _________________________________________________________________________________________ 5. _________________________________________________________________________________________ 6. _________________________________________________________________________________________ 7. _________________________________________________________________________________________ 8. _________________________________________________________________________________________ 9. _________________________________________________________________________________________ 10. _________________________________________________________________________________________

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The Finale: Your Initiation to Sex Goddess Status
Hopefullythisbookhashelpedyoutobecomeamoreconfidentandsecure
woman,notonlyinthebedroombutalsoinyourregular,dailylife.Theshortand concisechaptersweredesignedspecificallysoyoucanreadthisbookinadayand gettopleasingyourmantonight.Youneededsomereassuranceandacrashcourse inbeingatotalsexgoddessandhopefullythisbookhasdonejustthatforyou. Mostimportantly,Ihopethatthisbookhaschangedyouroutlookandyourviewof yourself. You have qualities that can drive any man wild and it is time that you honedinonthoseandreallymadethemworkforyou,insteadofhatingthemand despisingflawsthatyoumayhave. Too many women arent comfortable in their own skin and I hope this book has changedyouropinionofyourself.Themediaandsocietycantrulybreakuswomen downandforceustosecondguessourlooks,ourpersonalitiesandourbodiesona constantbasis.Youmaynotlooklikethosewomeninthemagazinesbutyoudont havetoifyouhaveselfconfidenceandifyouloveyourself.Menandwomenwould agreethatthesexiestqualityaboutapersonistheirconfidence.Aslongasyoukeep a fine balance between confident and cocky, you can take on the world. Your self confidencecanspeakvolumesforyouandcanmakeyouamoreattractiveperson becauseotherpeoplewilllookuptoyou,menincluded.Ifyouaremoreconfidentin frontofyourman,thenyouwillbemoreattractivetohim. Women who ooze with sexual confidence are sexy women because people can tell thatthereissomethingdifferentaboutthem.Theyhaveauniquenesstothemthat cant be seen with the naked eye, but something is there. You have seen those women before who just look like they know what they are doing in bed and that they are very comfortable with their sexuality. They arent considered a slut but rather,asexywoman.Thisisawomanthatyounowareandthatyoucanbe.You can ooze with sexual confidence and get people to notice you because of the way thatyoucarryyourself.Youcannowwalkwithyourheadheldhigh. YoumustrealizethatyouAREabombshell.Youhavecharacteristicstoyourbody and your personality that make you special and that make you unique. Instead of wanting to change those and to fit in with everyone else, it is our uniqueness that setsusapartfromtherestofthecrowd.Toomanywomenwanttohideawayfrom the world and become masked by what the crowd is doing, but you arent that

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womananymore.Youaretheonewhoisgoingtoriseabovetherestbecauseyou areanindividualandbecauseyoudomatter. Yoursexgoddessstatusthatyouhavealmostachievedwillhelpyoutobebetterin life. This new sense of confidence can change your whole world and make you a bettergirlfriendorwife,asisterordaughterorafriendoramom.Youwillhavethis newoutlookonlifeandeverythingwillseemalittlemoreinvitingandlessdaunting. Youcangetmoreoutoflifeandyoucanstartthattoday. I hope that your new sex goddess status, which you have nearly obtained, makes you love life. I hope that you go out there and get everything that you have ever wanted because you deserve it. You do matter and what you want is important. I hopethatthisnewfoundconfidenceandallofthesetipsreallydomakeyoursexlife better and help you to be more comfortable in the bedroom. You deserve to feel pleasureandsodoesyourman,soIhopethatthesetipshavehelpedyoutodothat. BeforeIcrownyouasexgoddess,thereisaninitiationthatyoumustdoandthatis to love yourself. You cannot love anyone else until you love yourself. You cannot pleaseanyoneelseuntilyoupleaseyourself.Selfloveisthemostimportantthingin your life that you must obtain before you can be truly happy. Before you can give yourmananorgasmhewillneverforgetorgetdownanddirtyandgivehimalap dance you have to love yourself and be comfortable with your body and your abilities.Ifyoucandothatforme,foryourmanandforyourself,thenyouarenot onlyasparklingnewsexgoddessbutyouareahappyandfulfilledwomanwhichis whatyouhavealwaysdeservedtobe. Nowgoforth,sexgoddess,andhavesomedirty,sexyfun.

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About the Author

Rochelle Stavi hasnt always been this outspoken and confident when it comestothetopicofsex.Infact,shetriedtohideawayfromthesubjectasmuchas possible.Afterdivorcingforthethirdtime,shehadfinallyhadenoughandstarted askingherselfWhatkeepsgoingwrong? Stavirealizedthatherfailedmarriageswerenotonlydotomanyotherfactorsbut they were mainly due to the fact that she never loved herself. This is when she began researching and actually learned the importance of selflove. After this importantdiscoveryinherself,Rochellefinallyfoundtheonepersonshewasmeant to be with and has been happily married for 5 years now. Not only that, but they definitelyhaveonehotfireignitedinthebedroom. Fornearly10yearsnow,Rochellehasmadeitherneverendinggoaltohelpwomen whoareinsimilarsituations.Sheknowstheimportanceofselfloveandhowones confidence affects more than just self esteem. She knows that without confidence andselflove,thepotentialtodamagearelationshipisatanalltimehigh.Shealso knowstheimportanceofhavingagreatsexlifeandhowsexualconfidenceaffects morethanjustyourabilitytopleaseyourpartnerinbed. Rochelle has studied all sorts of magazines, websites and other sources of informationthatisoutthereforwomentogainmoreknowledgeaboutsexandhow tobeabetterlover.Insteadofforcingwomentoreadallsortsofuselessknowledge and to read in between the lines, Stavi wanted to make a concise and tothepoint guide that would steer women in the right direction and give them the tools and knowledge that they needed in order to become the sex goddess that they know theyhavethepotentialtobe. Rochelle currently resides in beautiful Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada with herhusbandandtheir2children.