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by Nick Notas to Texting Women v1.0 - By Nick Notas - The Dating Specialist! The Gentlemans Guide TheDatingSpecialist.com
Table of Contents
Introduc)on
10
Rules
to
Smart,
Successful
Tex)ng
Frequently
Asked
Ques)ons
Shouldnt
I
follow
the
three
day
rule?
Why
isn't
she
responding
to
my
texts/messages?
Why
didnt
she
just
say
she
wasnt
interested
instead
of
ignoring
me?
I
can
get
a
girls
number,
but
why
does
it
go
nowhere?
We
have
a
date
in
a
few
days,
should
I
text
her
before
then?
Ive
been
tex)ng
a
girl
for
a
while,
how
do
I
keep
her
interested?
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The Gentlemans Guide to Texting Women v1.0 - By Nick Notas - The Dating Specialist!
Introduction
My
names
Nick.
I
love
talking
to
women
and
I
always
have.
Thats
why
I
became
a
da:ng
coach.
To
help
great
men
meet
great
women. When
I
was
young,
I
enjoyed
hogging
the
landline
speaking
with
girls
from
school.
Eventually
when
everyone
got
cell
phones,
tex:ng
took
over
as
the
primary
way
of
communica:ng
with
the
girls
I
liked.
I
soon
realized
that
the
same
rules
that
applied
to
the
phone
didnt
apply
to
messaging.
Rather
than
having
deep
conversa:ons
that
lasted
for
hours,
I
was
beFer
o
keeping
it
concise
and
lighthearted.
Instead
of
asking
her
thought-provoking
ques:ons,
it
was
smarter
to
hold
o
un:l
we
went
on
a
rst
date.
I
spent
years
succeeding
and
failing
to
gure
out
what
actually
worked. Without
that
experience,
I
might
not
have
messaged
my
girlfriend
the
day
aKer
mee:ng
her.
Further
than
that,
I
might
not
have
ended
up
with
her
like
I
did.
And
theres
a
good
chance
you
wouldnt
be
reading
this
eBook
either. The
purpose
of
this
guide
is
to
take
my
years
of
trial
and
error
and
show
you
how
to
turn
text
messages
into
real
dates.
Its
great
when
you
get
a
girls
number,
but
it
doesnt
mean
much
if
you
never
see
her
again.
Lets
start
with
the
basics... Note:
This
assumes
youve
already
goFen
a
girls
number.
If
you
havent,
feel
free
to
read
my
5
Lessons
in
GeRng
Her
Number.
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The Gentlemans Guide to Texting Women v1.0 - By Nick Notas - The Dating Specialist!
The Gentlemans Guide to Texting Women v1.0 - By Nick Notas - The Dating Specialist!
Why
didnt
she
just
say
she
wasnt
interested
instead
of
ignoring
me?
The
majority
of
women
don't
enjoy
rejec:ng
a
guy
or
get
o
hur:ng
his
feelings.
Women
aren't
very
confronta:onal
and
in
fact,
hate
awkward
moments.
Most
girls
feel
bad
about
having
to
tell
a
guy
that
they
aren't
interested
and
don't
want
to
hurt
them.
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Is it right to do it? No, but when you're scared or nervous some:mes we take the ight response. And it's because oKen when a girl does tell a guy no, they get something like: "But I thought we hit it o. What the hell? I was so nice to you and this is how you treat me?" Ive even seen guys lash out and call a girl a bitch for telling them the truth about their feelings. Do you think a woman really wants to be yelled at, insulted, and guilt- tripped about her decision? No, it's stressful and uncomfortable. But it happens and it leads to girls having to ignore guys so they get the picture. Dont take it personally and move on.
The Gentlemans Guide to Texting Women v1.0 - By Nick Notas - The Dating Specialist!
Ive
been
tex6ng
a
girl
for
a
while,
how
do
I
keep
her
interested?
You
dont...didnt
you
read
the
rst
rule?!
The
longer
you
spend
tex:ng,
the
less
chance
youll
have
of
anything
happening.
Youre
not
going
to
sweep
her
o
the
feet
by
a
few
words
on
a
smartphone
screen.
Take
a
step
forward
and
ask
her
out
already!
The Gentlemans Guide to Texting Women v1.0 - By Nick Notas - The Dating Specialist!
LeRng a girl know youre bored and wai:ng for her is not going to make her want to see you. Give her the benet of the doubt and stay posi:ve. Show her its not a big deal and playfully irt with her to reschedule.
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sat next to a girl on the bus reading Hunger Games haha. Did you nish the series? Assume that its her number and shes going to pick up. The best way to ease back in is by referencing a good experience you had or something specic about her. Dont lie about it -- be honest, what made you think of tex:ng her?
Youve
texted
back
and
forth
and
want
to
get
her
on
a
rst
date.
You
shouldnt
say: You:
Hows
your
essay
going? Her:
Ughh,
I
cant
get
past
the
rst
page. You:
That
sucks,
I
know
how
that
feels. Her:
Yeah,
I
cant
wait
un:l
its
done
and
over
with. You:
Dont
worry,
youll
do
great. Her:
Thanks! You:
No
problem,
good
luck
and
talk
soon. You
should
say: You:
Hope
you
can
s:ll
concentrate
on
your
English
paper
while
thinking
of
me! Her:
Lol,
I
so
am
but
I
cant
get
past
the
rst
page. You:
Pssh
youre
smarter
than
that,
Im
cheering
for
you.
Lets
celebrate
with
drinks
when
youre
done
:) Her:
Haha,
Id
love
to!
I
could
use
a
margarita
aKer
this. You:
Awesome,
tomorrow
night
around
8? Her:
Sounds
perfect,
Ill
see
you
then
:)
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The rst example has no chemistry and reinforces the stress of her work. You should be a source of posi:vity and enthusiasm that gets her wan:ng to have fun with you. She wants an excuse to take a break and smile a liFle. Guys have these platonic, dead-end conversa:ons that demonstrate none of their inten:ons. Shes busy so you wait for a beFer :me to talk about seeing each other. Theres no right :me -- you create the opportunity yourself. Be forward, playful, and express your interest in seeing her.
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Contact
Me
I
really
hope
you
guys
enjoyed
reading
this
eBook
as
much
as
I
did
wri:ng
it.
If
you
ever
have
any
ques:ons
or
just
want
to
talk,
please
e-mail
me.
Every
message
is
extremely
important
to
me
and
Ill
respond
within
48
hours. If
youre
interested
in
da:ng
coaching, please
go
to
my
services
page
and
ll
out
the
form
for
a
free
ini6al
session.
I
promise
theres
no
pressure
to
move
forward
unless
you
want
to.
All
sessions
are
100%
conden:al. Nick
Notas The
Da?ng
Specialist nick@theda:ngspecialist.com TwiFer
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Facebook (781)
473-0330
Copyright 2011 The Da:ng Specialist. This guide is totally free and you may give it away to your friends, neighbors, and everyone else in between. In fact, I encourage it :)
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