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the bulletin of the Bernard van Leer Foundation FEBRUARY 2001 NO.97
photo: Rob Pollock, Early Learning Resource Unit (ELRU) Men in Families: exploring the impact of men and reproductive health
and choices in Mexico 22
Inside front cover: Belgium: Maman, papa - making words on
Redefining fatherhood: a report from the Caribbean 25
the felt board
photo: Mons project
Janet Brown and Barry Chevannes
_____________________________________________________________ The father in San culture: oral histories from Botswana and Namibia 38
As well as Early Childhood Matters the Foundation produces
Willemien le Roux
a wide range of publications about early childhood
development. All are available – free of charge for single
Helping fathers find their roles: an exercise from Southern Africa 46
copies – to organisations or individuals interested in this Margaret Irvine
field. A publications list is also available: please contact the
Foundation at the addresses above and on the back cover.
Fathers matter too
“ Parents have joint primary
responsibility for raising the
child, and the State shall
• fathers have always been involved
with their children. An overview of
the research shows us that at any
time over the past 40 years when
bond as easily with their fathers as with
their mothers. A parent’s gender is far
less important in affecting child
development than broader qualities as a
draws out the key issues in fathering
and discusses how these are understood
and acted on. Third it offers a survey
of what is being done, strategically and
fathers’ activities have been parent, such as warmth and kindness. via direct work, to support fathers as
support them in this. The best
measured, some men have always Fathers themselves also reported that they move towards the parenting roles
interests of the child will be been reported as highly involved. ‘being with their children is the most that they, and their families, cultures
their basic concern • They are sensitive and responsive to fulfilling part of their lives’. and societies determine that they
”
(The Convention on the Rights of the Child)
their young children.
• Most fathers say they enjoy having
close relationships with their
children.
This survey may have been conducted
in the United Kingdom, but its findings
reflect what is widely accepted
should have.
Over the years, the Foundation has • They provide vital practical support elsewhere: that when men fail to engage Although the need for work with
chosen to support work with families as around the time of birth, and many with their children, it is not something fathers is coming more sharply into
one of the main strategies for state that they feel deeply moved by that is inherent in the fact of being male focus now, considerable efforts have
enhancing young children’s the experience of childbirth. – although, as some of the articles in already been made. Some of these are
development. However, in the majority • They are often the main carers for this edition show – it may well be outlined in the first article ‘The
of the approaches being developed, children while mothers are working. something that is inherent in changing roles of fathers’ (page 7) of
‘families’ stands for ‘mothers’. This is In 36 percent of dual earner families perceptions and understandings of this edition, and some – along with
despite an increasing recognition, it is the father, more than any other manhood. others – are discussed in more detail in
worldwide, of the need to support the individual, who cares for children. the remaining articles. The Foundation
role of fathers within the family, • Many fathers assume the major Against this background, this edition of itself has supported a range of
and in particular in relation to parenting role when the need arises. Early Childhood Matters serves three initiatives with fathers since the mid
children’s development. And it is purposes. First, it offers an overview of nineteen eighties. These include work
despite clear evidence that men want to The same survey also confirmed that it the state of play on work with fathers, in: Zimbabwe; the Caribbean (see page
be engaged with their children – and is beneficial to the young child to be tracing how and why fathering has 25); the Middle East/North Africa
indeed, as a recent survey 1 confirmed, raised by more than one carer; and emerged as a key focus for effective region; South Africa; the ; Ireland;
often are engaged: went on to point out that babies usually work with young children. Second, it the United Kingdom; East Jerusalem,
Fathers are a vitally important resource to children and families on a huge number of levels. When
that resource is missing or is underused, children and families are greatly disadvantaged1.
This article is drawn from an in-house discussion paper of the Bernard van Leer Foundation. It is
exploratory: designed to identify the issues that will help us to determine the Foundation’s approaches
to fathering and fatherhood.
The history of fatherhood cautions us always for the better: that fatherhood to understand the complementarity changes in the labour market that have
to expect change in the roles men play falls short of what young children need of roles within the family. In order to placed increased stress on families; and
in relation to their children. More and if they are to thrive, and often falls develop an understanding of that this has impacted on men’s and
newer models – even ideals – of short of what fathers themselves would complementarity, however, it is women’s roles within the family, a
fatherhood, will emerge as economies like it to be. important to take a closer look at men’s cornerstone of which is childcare. Thus
and cultures, and the nature, structure, roles. From the Foundation’s it is now critical to find ways to support
dynamics and environments of families, Why is there an interest in these issues perspective, there is an even more men taking on expanded roles in
all continue to evolve and shift. For now? One starting point was the specific focus: men as fathers, and their relation to children. It is also important
example, there is an accumulation of Women and Development movement roles in supporting young children’s to reinforce roles that men already play.
evidence in the Western world that that, in the 1980s, highlighted the ways development. In many traditional cultures, men have
indicates that paternal involvement in in which women supported families. always been essential partners in
the lives of children has increased over This evolved and, in the 1990s, began But roles have to be considered in childcare, and often have very clearly
the last three decades, both in to focus on the ways in which an context and part of this context is set by defined roles, based on the age of the
proportional and in absolute terms. understanding of gender issues in the economic factors that, worldwide, child. The Foundation’s idea in
There is also substantial evidence that, development brought men into the threaten the ability of families to supporting project partners around
for a variety of reasons, change is not picture as well. There was an attempt survive. There have been enormous issues of fatherhood, is to find ways to
“
From Fitting fathers into families: men and fatherhood in contemporary Australia; CDFCS fathers is and has always been
immensely varied, paternal imagery has I’m very protective of him
reinforce rather than undermine these transmitted diseases, including and been selective and limited; a main effect because he’s so vulnerable (a)
roles – perhaps especially as cultures are
undergoing change.
fathers felt they had limited competence as intimate fathers tends to be passed
in their role as dads, whereas their over. Yet, men’s commitment to their is still seen as belonging to the mother. the labour market is more subtle than
partners rated them pretty highly. One children is key to the quality of family This can be linked to the reality that, in that and is also shifting: currently there
of the conclusions was that fathers are life and the prospects of the next many parts of the world, fathers are not are many examples of increased levels
doing better than they think or are led generation. living full time with their children. of unemployment for men and
to believe. Some examples of female-headed increased levels of maternal
The family structure of mothers as households in a variety of countries are: employment. In addition, the absence
Fortunately this negative ‘deficit’ caregivers and fathers as income earners Botswana 45 percent, Malawi 29 of the father needs to be looked at in
approach is currently being criticised has become, to a large extent, a myth, percent, Jamaica 42 percent, Peru 23 terms of cultural as well as economic
because it is not very useful as a starting although still upheld by many aspects percent, Thailand 22 percent.2 However, factors. (see ‘Redefining manhood’ on
point for helping fathers to improve of social and economic policy. On the the lack of a resident partner is a much page 25)
their fathering. What is needed is an domestic front, while women have more significant variable if the potential
taken on an increasing role in for fathers’ involvement in their Three indicators which are consistently
providing income to their families, men children’s lives is considered. used to measure people’s ‘success’ in
”
have not taken up their share of
responsibility in family life:
responsibility for children, in particular,
One key reason for this separation is the
need to move away to earn money. But
later life are: moving up in society;
fulfilment of potential; and capacity to
form and maintain rewarding
Fathers’ participation:
observations and reflections
These observations and reflections were collected by the Association for the Advancement of the Ethiopian Child and Family in Israel (), as part of its
work within the Effectiveness Initiative. More information about can be found at http://www.almaya.org.il/content/about/almaya.htm. More
information about the Effectiveness Initiative can be found in Early Childhood Matters 96, October 2000. Single copies are available free on request from the
Foundation at the addresses shown on the back cover.
These are some of the points that The mothers described this as an will remain unaware of the importance A paraprofessional home visitor also
emerged from a focus group interview unhealthy situation. In their opinion, of education in Israel. In Ethiopia the reflected on the non-participation
with mothers who participated in the this type of situation pushes away the men were responsible for the children's of fathers:
programme. connection between the father and child education.
and only strengthens the connection It's a pity that fathers didn't
The mothers stressed the need to find a between mothers and children. The These are some of the direct reflections participate in the programme; the
framework to incorporate the men, mothers are worried (not for themselves of mothers. fathers needed the programme, in
arguing that, as long as the men are not particularly, but in general) that a order that the child should feel
in the picture and do not participate in situation will develop where the father Develop an appropriate programme supported by both parents and in
the programme, the programme will be will feel himself ‘an outsider’ and the for the men if you wish the Home order for him to establish better
incomplete. respect that the child has for the father, Visiting Programme to be complete. relations with both parents.
will diminish. Violence between father Furthermore, if the father is not in
Sometimes the men are destructive and child may result. The Home Visiting Programme is a the picture, the child treats him with
towards the Home Visiting Programme good example of how to strengthen the less respect. The father is unable to
if they are not partners and aware of its Conflicts between the husband and wife children in their studies and the appreciate the importance of
importance. The mothers reported an may also develop about the type of connection between the children and schooling in the way the mother is.
example that occurred of a child who education that is right for their their mothers. There is a very positive relationship
asked his father to explain to him some children. The man may feel that the between the mother and the child,
games or some other learning activity. It child and the mother are united against If fathers participate, the connection and this can lead to conflict between
was difficult for the father to explain to him. In addition, as long as there is no between the children and their parents wife and husband for they will have
his child. In many cases the father told specific aspect of the programme that would be complete. different views on how the child
his child to ask the mother and not him. deals with the men's needs, the men should be raised. "
gender equality. The next logical step Some foundations have taken the lead balancing investments in a highly children. If we believe that good
for these organisations seems clear: a in advancing the cause of positive strategic manner between piloting, fathering is as important to the growing
focus on the role of men as fathers fatherhood, others have joined efforts as evaluation, research, institutional and and developing child as is good
building on such initiatives as donors to achieve maximum impact. network building, and advocacy for mothering, then a great deal more
reproductive health programmes. As For example, in the , the 20m policy change. effort has to be invested in helping
recent projects in Mali, ‘Strengthening Fragile Families fathers to naturally fulfil their fathering
Nicaragua and India on gender Initiative’ of the Ford Foundation (ix) has But clearly nothing like enough is being roles. The United Nations International
sensitivity and reproductive health paid off both domestically and done: huge numbers of fathers, in a Year of the Family is in 2004. What
demonstrate, men’s behaviour can be internationally. One key factor here was very considerable range of settings, are better opportunity for advancing the
altered, provided they themselves are its long term and multi-dimensional not as central as they should be in the cause of good fatherhood? "
strongly involved. approach: seven years of forceful work, development environments of their
This article results from the author’s work in reviewing a number of studies, carried out in a wide range of countries, that examined factors
determining fathers’ commitment to their children, and theories which could explain patterns of commitment. It is extracted from Patrice Engle’s
contribution to Wealth and Well-being by R Blumburg and others, and concentrates on ‘non-western’ countries and/or cultures. The original
article also contains a highly detailed summary of two studies, one in Nicaragua, the other in Guatemala. Wealth and Well-being was published by
the Westview Press in 1994. Further details about the book and other Westview Press publications can be obtained from Westview Press Inc, 5500
Central Avenue, Boulder, 80301, ; and http://www.westviewpress.com
Studies identify the following major Cultural factors are important; for and in male privilege and an increase in relationship with the children’s mother
factors that determine fathers’ example, in patrilineal ethnic groups of television viewing and a demand for is a ‘package deal’.4 Rising rates of
commitment to their children: Cameroon, it is acknowledged that the purchased goods, combined with rising divorce and children born out of
father’s role is one of providing his women’s labour force participation, wedlock are increasing dramatically the
• cultural norms in the society toward children with lineage connections; the have resulted in a rapid and dramatic number of children raised by single
the fathering role; economic ability mother’s responsibility is to provide alteration in the traditional mothers. The culture with the highest
of the father to support a family; food and economic support for both authoritarian male role in urban, lower- rate of father/infant interaction ever
• the nature or warmth of the father and children.2 He has little class families.3 The result has been reported (the Aka pygmies) appears to
father/mother relationship; and contact with young children. However, men’s flight from their responsibilities be based on a subsistence system which
individual psychological factors of the cultural ideal of non-involved for child and family support. requires husband and wife to cooperate
the men – the notion that only fathers is in rapid flux. Many countries and communicate in order to obtain by
mothers are biologically report emerging beliefs that fathers Lack of father responsibility has been hunting needed food.5
programmed to attend to their should be involved much more in child associated with poor income-earning
children has not received support; care and nurturing than previously, power in the United States, and in the A few programmes have attempted to
• a substantial body of literature although actual change is slow. rapidly urbanising areas of developing increase father responsibility, both
suggests that although fathers in countries. Father commitment has also among intact families and with non-
most cultures do not perform much Other economic and cultural changes been found to be associated with the resident families. Whereas the majority
child care, they can attend as warmly have resulted in less father quality of the husband-wife have been in developed countries,
and responsively to their children responsibility. For example, in Chile a relationship; for some men, the efforts are beginning in Jamaica,
as mothers.1 decline in the authority of the Church responsibility to children and the Lesotho, Bangladesh, Colombia, and
The author is Director of The Trust of Programmes for Early Childhood, Family and Community Education. Following a pilot
project in East Jerusalem, The Trust has accumulated 16 years of experience in development work in Arab Israeli communities,
and in Palestinian communities in the Palestinian Autonomous Region. Throughout that time, it has included a focus on early
childhood education. Generating and sustaining the involvement of parents – including fathers – has been central to the work
from the beginning and, in this article, the author discusses the approaches that have proved successful.
In 1984, when the Trust of Programmes on social security. The houses were very Activities and achievements graduation, were instrumental in
for Early Childhood, Family and poor, and the neighbourhoods were all building the Trust’s network.
Community Education began poverty-stricken. Predictably, children The project began with a pilot phase
operations, there were almost no early couldn’t meet the expectations of the that included: training para- Over the years, and with continued
childhood educational programmes for schools. In addition, relations between professional workers; family daycare; support from the Bernard van Leer
the Arab population in the Old City of the schools and the parents were non- home visiting; and leadership courses. Foundation, The Trust has expanded its
Jerusalem except the very basic health existent: there was a sort of hostile At the same time, the project sought to programme with Palestinian Israeli
education. The school system expected dependency of the parents on the influence policy makers and communities. It has also gained support
children to be enrolled at school with schools, and the schools often blamed professionals. In 1988, the scope and from other funders to disseminate its
basic educational background the parents for the poor achievements institutional base of the Trust’s work pilot programme in Palestinian
experiences, and to follow the school of children. Recognising this reality was extended and new components communities across the Palestinian
curriculum: ‘We have a book that should provided us with our point of were added to the programme. These Autonomous Region (West Bank
be finished by the end of the semester’ departure and enabled us to discover included: the creation of a strategically and Gaza).
summed up the teachers’ attitudes. our role: to not only prove that parents placed resource centre in the North of
should not be ignored, but to Israel; health and nutrition education; The actual work targets disadvantaged
We were dealing with 10,000 demonstrate that parents are the and a component for slow learners. A families and children and is tailor made
community members of whom a high school’s major partners in their postgraduate course was also developed to the local situation. Incorporated are
percentage were unemployed and living children’s education. for community workers who, after early childhood education and
Janet Brown is Tutor/Coordinator of the Caribbean Child Development Centre, School of Continuing Studies, University of the West Indies.
Barry Chevannes is Dean and Professor, Faculty of Social Sciences, University of the West Indies. In this article, they review the systematic focus of the
University over 13 years on the differences between what mothers contribute to childrearing and the contributions of fathers. To do that, they discuss
what has been discovered across Caribbean countries through a regional survey (1987); a pilot study called ‘The Contribution of Caribbean Men to
the Family’ (1991-92)1; and a participatory research project called ‘The Gender Socialisation Project’ (1993-1995) 2. They then reflect on some of the
outcomes of this continuing work, showing the breadth and depth of the approaches that are necessary if there is to be effective change 3.
‘The Contribution of Caribbean Men to girls. Further, a search of materials on on behalf of the family; investigations in Jamaica and other
the Family’ A pilot study in Jamaica the Caribbean family produced • survey and describe the current Caribbean countries that could
considerable literature on women and attitudes and behaviours of a cross- provide data to complement the
A survey of early childhood mothers, but almost nothing on men section of men in Jamaica; Jamaican study.
programmes conducted in eleven and the family. Instead, stereotypes • use ethnographic/participatory
Caribbean countries by the Caribbean about men’s attitudes and behaviours methods to generate data and local This initial study probed a range of
Child Development Centre ()4 in in relation to their families – mostly analysis and problem solving related issues related to men’s attitudes and
1987 determined that, despite growing negative – were substitutes for to the topics of the study; behaviours about family life and
recognition of and support for informed data. • make research findings available in childrearing, through a questionnaire
organised child care programmes formats that would serve not only administered to 700 Jamaican men
around the Caribbean, on average 85 As a result, set out in 1990 to professional research/teaching from two urban and two rural
percent of children below the age of examine men’s contributions to the interests but also the concerns of communities. Complementary series of
four remained at home, in the care of family in Jamaica, undertaking to: public educators, family life discussion groups with men and
parents or other family caregivers. It workers, and gender studies women were conducted in the same
also showed that parenting education • provide a socio-historical groups; and communities as those surveyed or in
efforts in the region were primarily perspective on the roles men in the • design formats and materials to be adjoining ones.
directed toward women and teenage Caribbean have played within and used in conducting similar
Caribbean manhood
Sexuality/sexual identity
This was usually measured by the
Trinidad & Tobago: Father and child in preschool
number of serial or concurrent female
photo: Servol sexual partners; and by the resultant
number of children. Fear and disgust of
• high and rising crime rates, In many ways, the research project can psychological development of children, homosexuality were commonly
particularly for young males; be seen as a conceptual extension of the and in sharing financial responsibility expressed, with many parents believing
• the number of male street children; Jamaican study. It started from the view for family welfare, has not been well that certain childrearing practices or
• and the disproportionate number of that the male’s role in family and understood. It then went on to consider child behaviours could lead to this
males in penal institutions and community decision making, in how cultural and economic factors at ‘deviance’. Demonstrating manhood
children’s homes. influencing the nutritional and both local and regional levels – which enhanced the self-image of young males
For 12 years, the author worked in different positions with the Kuru Development Trust, the last eight
years as Training Coordinator. Kuru is a community-owned development organisation for mostly San
people1. Towards the end of her time with Kuru, she undertook a study on the educational situation of
San children in Southern Africa, interviewing many community members in Botswana and Namibia.
San people from each of the various language groups worked closely with her on the interviews, and
also on formulating the conclusions. Among these collaborators was Kamana Phetso, one of the most
prominent young leaders of the San in Botswana. He had been with Kuru since 1992, and was
Secretary of the Kuru Board for the past six years. Tragically, he was killed in a car crash in January
2001, on the eve of his departure to Australia to work with an aboriginal programme for a year.
This article shows the real challenges that face parents and children in environments that constrain
and devalue them, and that also weaken ancient practices and beliefs that have traditionally provided
positive support for the healthy development of their children. A number of clear themes run through
the article. These include: the interface of San children with the education system and the clashes that
result; and the differences between San and non-San with respect to discipline.
Willemien le Roux is currently coordinating an oral testimony programme with the San people for
2, assisting community members to use tape recorders to record their own and their families’
experiences and thoughts about a range of topics, many of which they suggest themselves. For her, an
important aspect of the collecting is to take this information back to the communities. The programme
therefore includes workshops and other devices to allow people to reflect on who they are so they can
inform their own decisions.
normally do. If you did not listen to in order to draw a hypothesis on the
these taboos, you were responsible for basis of which further action could be
the downfall of everybody, and judged. ‘Look at this spoor. Can you
everyone cared for the well-being of guess how old it is? How far would the
the whole group. (Naro San man, animal be ahead of us?’ The consequent
Aminuis Corridor, Namibia) finding and killing of the animal
tracked, would prove the hypothesis or
The cornerstones of San traditional qualify it, making an indelible
education were experiential learning impression on the participating child’s
and observation, integrating the child mind. Little boys were allowed to
in every aspect of life. The San child, experiment with hunting by setting
even as young as two years old, would snares, using tiny bows and arrows to
be allowed to experiment with what kill mice, birds, and so on. When they
many other cultures view as dangerous were old enough, they would use arrows
objects, such as fire, knives, and needles. with poison, an act that would also
The adults would always be close by, announce the advent of manhood
however, and would either be busy with and be celebrated by all, by praising
the same activity alongside the child, the young hunter's skill with song
demonstrating care, or would be and dance.
encouraging the child verbally on how
to handle such items without Although a distinction was made
endangering themselves. The father’s between the father’s and the mother’s
craft making (bows and arrows, axes, teaching roles where boys and girls were
of the father with regard to discipline or disapproval which could result in leather work, wooden tools or crafts) concerned, in the past this distinction
behavioural instruction. There were ostracism. would be copied by the boys, while the only concerned the food-gathering
exceptions, especially in more mother’s beadwork, preparation of wild activities. It was based on the division
integrated societies, but the majority of Discipline had to do with the laws of food, thatching or clay building would of skills needed for survival in an often
the San people interviewed still vowed nature. Some children were not be copied by girls of all ages. hostile and harsh environment: the
that corporal punishment was allowed to eat certain berries and most effective use of energy and human
undesirable. They said that disciplinary roots, so that nature would keep on The child’s ‘lessons’ consisted of resources was an issue of life and death.
methods were based on community providing. If these laws were broken, discussions with adults on equal Today, many San people emphasise the
approval of good behaviour, and group the rains would not come as they grounds, analysing a practical situation importance of story telling, dance and
This contribution has been reprinted from Materials needed 5. All the presentations are
Early childhood education: a training Group 1: paper and crayons; recorded by the groups
manual by Margaret Irvine, published in Group 2: case study written on paper; and, after all presentations
1999 by the Bernard van Leer Group 3: case study written on paper; have been made, a general
Foundation/ Group 4: written instructions for a drama discussion is opened and a
(http://www.unesco.org/general/eng/publish). to act out; synthesis of the learning is
The manual grew out of training events Group 5: board game (see instructions for made.
conducted within the ‘Early childhood joint making and playing); flip-chart, paper and
training initiative’ in Africa, conducted by pens. Watch points
the Foundation, , and Save 1. This activity is especially
the Children . The initiative aimed to Methods used designed for groups of
train cadres of trainers who, in their turn, • group work of different kinds; fathers, but can be
would train early childhood practitioners. • plenary discussion. adapted for use with
trainers.
All the activities described in Early Steps 2. Be aware of participants’
childhood education: a training manual 1. The facilitator introduces the topic and cultural beliefs and
were tested over a period of three years at asks the participants to state briefly how customs and ensure that
international level within the Joint Training they see fathers behaving towards their this sensitive subject is
Initiative, at country level with national young children. Responses are written handled in a way that will
early childhood trainers, and with early quickly on flip-chart paper. lead to honest and
childhood practitioners at family and 2. Groups synthesise these comments into a supportive discussion.
programme level. This extract covers an statement of their experience of the 3. Positive perceptions about
exercise with fathers to help them to opportunities and challenges facing them. behaviour can be used to
understand and develop their childrearing 3. Participants form five groups and the discuss and possibly change negative age, together with the mother who is
roles. It was adapted from an original facilitator gives each group an activity to perceptions about fathers’ behaviour. usually the central figure in the baby’s
training session with participants from do (see following five group activities). early months.
Namibia. 4. Each group is asked to report back on Key learning points on the role of fathers 2. Some interactions that do take place
the findings of their group, except for in early childhood development between fathers and young children
Objective Group 4, which presents the drama to 1. The father is a very important figure in include (in Africa for instance) the
To identify effective ways to encourage the group and the questions for the life of the baby and young child, and following:
fathers to be more involved in early discussion after all the other reports there is a need for strong ties to be - fathers and other male relatives assist
childhood development. back have been made. developed between them from an early in socialising male children;