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+ Refuse to worry about negative elements in your life over which you have no control. + Don't try to live other peoples' lives for them. They make their own choices and must take the responsibility for those decisions. + Take care of small, nagging problems quickly. Don't let them drag on. Break bigger problems down into smaller parts that can be solved. + When starting the day, think about the good things that can happen. + When ending the day, replay in your mind the accomplishments of the day, no matter how minor. + Help others focus on the positive. For example, when greeting someone ask about the "bright spot" of the day. Most likely, you are not aware of all the choices you make. An important first step in being positive is to become more aware of your choices. Don't blame fate, your parents, your boss, or anything else for who and where you are. You are the architect of your own destiny. It is not what happens to you that causes you to feel and act the way you do. It is what you choose to think and believe about what happens that generates your feelings and actions. You control yourself by the choices you make. Choose wisely. A century ago, Robert Louis Stevenson devised a number of rules to help people live happier, more productive lives. These rules may be over 100 years old, but they are still excellent guidelines to helping you have a winning attitude: Make up your mind to be happy. Learn to find pleasure in simple things.
Make the best of circumstances. No one has everything, and everyone has something of sorrow. Don't take yourself too seriously. Don't let criticism worry you--you can't please everyone. Don't let your neighbors set your standards. Be yourself. Do things you enjoy doing, but stay out of debt. Don't borrow trouble. Imaginary things are harder to bear than actual ones. Since hate poisons the soul, do not cherish enmities and grudges. Avoid people who make you unhappy. Have many interests. If you can't travel, read about places. Don't hold postmortems or spend time brooding over sorrows and mistakes. Don't be the one who never gets over things. Keep busy at something. A very busy person never has time to be unhappy.
The Optimist Creed - To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own. - To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future. - To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and give every living creature you meet a smile. - To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others. - To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble. Source: Optimist International
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