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lfyou cando theseTWO, you shouldbeableto walk to anyoneandbe

INTERESTING.IMHO, thatis AIL you needto getyourselfstartedon the

b6sics.I meetpeoplewhohavebeenonnASF for ayear,butSTILLdo

NOT whatto saywhenthey speakto a girl. Gettheaboveshit down'

Sure,you cangoto bootcampandstoplisteningto Barry Manilow

songs.ButalsoLEARN someshi1.STUDYAND IMPLEMENTit Onceyouget

thesedown,youshould:

3. Havea systemfor gettinga #close

4. Beableto *close withoutfearor nervousnessonceyourealizethat

thetimeisripeto doso.

5.Workthesubtletiesintoyourgame:c/f,challenges,screentng'

rapport,etc.

Ifyou've beenin thiscommunityfor overayearaoddon'thavethese

five pointsmastered,thenyou might wantto takea look athow

you'vebeenspending yourtime Readingis nolthesameasleaming;

andlearningis notthesameasdoing;anddoingisnotthesameas

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them,

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example,

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mrnd.

Paps

as

a

grear

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bright.

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and

gimmicks.

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fearless

a.bout approaching

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people

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but

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are

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what

is

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he's

got

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want

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a

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friends

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trusted

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you

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routines

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gimnicks

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interesting

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next

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post

 

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interesting.

 

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sort

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reframed

 

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thoughLs

I

had about

you.

 

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nocice

the

way you

post

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newsgroup.

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my mind,

you

ale

a

TAKER. Every

thread,

you

are

ASKING for

something.

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some pattern,

some help

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your

game, some way to

fill

in

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misslng

 

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here.

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I

even

click

on one

of

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posts,

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can

always

guess

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bums them

off

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best

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this.

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give.

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any

more

cigarettes'

people

and

ends

up

what

is

interesting

is

don't

have

the

coNFIDENcE

IN

YOURSELFto

and

want

and

reftane:

do

this.

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to

respond

selfishness,

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suggest

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to

your

threads

it's

buying

the

insecurity'

you

in

more

more

book

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interesting.

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a

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talk

to,

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once

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brings

us

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stuff

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to

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find

what,

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smokinees

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tiredness

it's

vour

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fear

of

success,

state

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normal

problem.

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whole

idea

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just

be

I

like

people

advenEureg,

but

I

don't

feel

Epecial

or

furl

and

or

time

interesting

to

other

people.

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enjoying

wibh

my friends,

I,m

never

attention.

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SEltIe

tesgondE

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should

be

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phrase

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share

those

parts

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you

write

this,

you

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worry

that

others

things

in

you.

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best

parts

of

yourself,

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thoughts

won,t

RECOGNIZEthe

are

not

special

are

special

and

interesting,

and

true.

dude.

It's

part

of

being

human and

having

an

ego.

You

worry

that

others

won't

GET IT

right

away.

You

have

to

a

r^ray to

help

them

GET II

right

away-

And

not

to

take

i

personally

when the

rare

HB doesn't.

 

Dude,

from

what

you

say

here,

you're

perfectly

normal.

 

You

have

an

interest

in

people,

you

like

to

to

say

about

life.

You don't

need

to

be

learn

what

they

have

juggling

fire

while

riding

a

unicycle

while

playing

lhe

kazoo

to

get

alcent1olt.

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relax;

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be

interested

rn

other

people.

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the

opportunity

share

for

and eniov

a routine

the

or

attention

gimmick

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it

and admiration.

SO worried

about

ENTERTAIN all

the

HAVING to

be

time,

you're

the

CENTER OF ATTENTIOIiI

going

to

come off

as

a

flawed

person

 

if

it

doeen't

eome naturally.

 

A11 you

have

to

do

is:

BE INTERESTED AND II{IEREST]NG.

 

Like

I

said

in

a

post

above,

NOTICE what

stories

you

te1l

and

lines

you

use

that

get

a

good

response.

Write

them

dowD

and

make

them

part

of

your

routine.

 

Atld

learn

from

those

others

that

you

think

have

more

experience:

write

down

their

good

lines

and

routines.

Model

them-

 

Dude,

if

you

are

TRULY interested

 

in

other

people,

you

itill

have

No problem

being

in

groups

as

long

ae

you

can

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sense?

 

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what's

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everythlng

working

for

you

in

this

newsgroup as

gospef.

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out

and

lrho you

are.

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because

someone

has

found

THEIR way

to

PUA-dom doesn't

mean it's

THE way.

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I

think

my biggest

inner

fear

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in

groups

I

feel

i6olated

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alone

and

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stop

to

think

about

ic,

I

can't

think

of

any

reagon

why

anyone

Ehould

like

me or

think

I'm

special.

 

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thatrs

YOU, not

THEM. It's

in

YOURmind.

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relax

and

go

wiLh

the

flow

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the

group.

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PRESSURING

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