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Annette Pairsh, CFS Educator Purdue Extension Service, Delaware County 200 W. Main St., Room 202, Muncie, IN 47304 765-747-7732 apairsh@purdue.edu
Developed by
Cindy Hartman, CFS/4-H Youth Development Educator Fayette County Extension Office 401 Central Ave., Connersville, IN 47331
765-825-8502 hartmacm@purdue.edu
Which of the following traits fit you best? Remember you may not totally fit in the, category but which letter fits you best? A. Perfectionist, reliable, conscientious, list-maker, well organized, hard-driving, natural leader, critical, serious, scholarly, logical, doesnt like surprises, loves computers. B. Mediator, compromising, diplomatic, avoids conflict, independent, loyal to peers, many friends, a maverick, secretive, unspoiled. C. Manipulative, charming, blames others, attention seeker, tenacious, people person, natural salesperson, precocious, engaging, affectionate, and loves surprises. D. Little adult by age 7, very thorough; deliberate; high achiever; self-motivated; fearful; cautious; voracious reader; black and white thinker; uses very," "extremely, or exactly a lot; cant bear to fail; has very high expectations for self; more comfortable with people who are older or younger. What letter did you pick? If you picked A you are probably the oldest; B chances are that you are the middle (second born of three children, or possibly third born of four). If C seemed to relate best to who you are, its likely that you are the baby of the family. D describes the only child and why they are different than the first born children. Its important to remember that this is not an exact science many things can affect birth order traits, like: Spacing between sibs Sex of each child in what sequence males and females are born Physical differences or disabilities Birth order position of parents first-born parents tend to run a much different ship than later born Blended families certain birth orders often get stepped on Relationship between parents and the parenting style they use as they pass on their personal values Sibling death which, if occur early, can cause the child below to be bumped up to the next level Adoption may or may not have an effect it depends on how old the child is when adopted.
MIDDLE-CHILD CHARACTERISTICS
Mediator, avoids conflict, extremely loyal to peer group, has many friends, misunderstood, balanced, gives and takes, and may be opposite of the first born.