Step 1.Be confident. Every boy seeks for a girl that is confident and loves who she i s.

That catches every boy's attention first. Especially when you don't act like it but know it. So remember, confidence, confidence and confidence. But if you a re a shy girl, then seek for a shy guy or otherwise, become less shy and feel co ol and free about yourself. 2.Act yourself! Even if you like someone that is almost completely different tha n you, always remember; you are who you truly are. Not some snobby girl that thi nks she is better than everyone. But a nice beautiful girl that everyone wants t o talk to. 3.Be a conversation starter. Even before dressing up into cool clothes, start a simple conversation with your crush. If you are in the same class, maybe pretend that you lost you pen or pencil and ask him if he has one that you can borrow. But if he is not in your class, then bump into him one day and ask him what's up ? Maybe he will see how confident you are then. 4.After a few days, become friends! Once he knows that you aren't scared to talk to him, he will for sure talk to you more often! So talk to him about random th ings that pop up into your mind, or maybe even share friends and hang out with e ach other at outdoor time. 5.Once you feel a connection, here comes your mall day! Go shopping to the mall with a best friend or your mom. You can try Aeropostale or Hollister. Maybe you' re an athletic girl, so try Coach or Lululemon. But if your family can't afford those clothes or maybe you don't have enough allowance, then try The Bay or Walm art. Those aren't bad either! But make sure to dress up the way you like it and clothes that represent who you truly are. 6.Try different hairstyles! Discover one evening, how you look without your plai n ponytail or your hair let down! I don't have many suggestions but maybe you ca n curl or straighten your hair to give it a twist. Or maybe you want to try a Fr ench braid or a side ponytail. Whatever you like, you may try! No one's stopping you. 7.Unique smell. Everyone smells so put some deodorant every morning before schoo l. Especially if you're an athletic girl or you have physical education that day . Try to brush your teeth twice a day or at least once a day. Which makes your s mile white and bright. Maybe after lunch at school, grab a piece of mint gum or a breath mint if you had tuna. That will help a lot! If you have some perfume or body mist, you may spray some in the morning too! Guys love to smell girls, so enjoy that! 8.Smile at him. When you smile and he notices that will make a special bond/conn ection between you two. 9.Show him your hidden talent. Enter a talent show. If you have a hidden talent like singing, acting or playing an instrument then sign up for your upcoming sch ool talent show! But if you are too shy to go up there in front of the whole sch ool, then pull him into a corner one day or invite him over to your house to sho w him your hidden talent privately. _______________________________________ 1.Try to be with your crush. Unless you have any classes with them, it might be hard to get to know them. Try having a casual conversation with them or sitting next to/near them at lunch. 2.Become gradually closer with them. Earn their trust. Do something they like; i f they play sports, show up at a game. If they are in a club, join that club. Do n't fake loving it, but supporting it will catch their eye. And don't go to ever ything they do. It will freak your crush out and make them avoid you. 3.Decide on whether you want to take it slow or dive straight in. If you are tak ing it slow, be careful, because they might start to think of you too much as a friend. But don't take it too fast, because then you will make them uncomfortabl e.

4.Dress nicely. For girls, a skirt or jeans,a nice t-shirt, and some jewelry, if your school allows it. For guys, some shorts or jeans and a Finland t-shirt wil l work nicely, anything that sets you apart from the rest. Just don't try and dr ess "sexy" to get their attention; it will make you look desperate and you'll at tract the wrong type of people. 5.Greet them every now and then, at first warmly, then a bit more flirtatious. s ay hi in the halls or talk to them a bit. 6.Smile at your crush and make eye contact, but don't be creepy about it. For ex ample, if you do not know your crush very well, get to know him/her slowly (Aski ng them for the time, talking about a book they are reading, etc.). If they are a friend, start flirting slightly. 7.When conversing with your crush, make sure that you spend at least as much tim e listening as you do talking. 8.Pay attention to hygiene. Dress in clothes you feel comfortable and attractive in. Also, shower every day. You don't want to smell bad. If you are a girl, kee p yourself clean in your "other places" as well. Keep some pads and/or tampons i n your purse for emergencies. You should use these after gym or in the bathroom. Plus take off your coat when you get the chance, because if you wear to many la yers you will sweat fast. 9.Spend time with your crush, but do not stalk them. i.e. No pictures of them in your locker unless you are friends and the picture is of both of you. 10.Always try to be nice and be positive. Also, ask about what he likes to do. 11.Avoid drama. Don't get your friends to ask them out for you, and don't get yo ur friends to ask if they like you, etc. 12.Be careful when asking friends to ask them if they like you. This only works if they are mutual friends, loyal to you, and preferably girls so they won't kno w that you put them up to it. 13.Don't tell them that you like them. Once you are on a flirty basis you may as k them out, just don't actually say "I like you". Doing so leaves you open for r ejection. But if you did, that's fine. That doesn't mean he will reject you! 14.If your crush says they like you back, cool. You are now dating. 15.Don't fear if you are rejected. Here is where the asking out technique is pre ferable to outright declaring your love for them. If you say "Want to see a movi e Friday night?" and they say "I don't like you in that way" you can respond "Wo w, no offense, but I wasn't asking you out, a bunch of us are going." Make sure that a bunch of your friends come to the movie. If they can't come, just tell th em they all canceled and make sure they know you did all this so if they ask her , she won't find out you were just making it all up. 16.Make sure that, if a bunch of you go somewhere, you sit next to them if you g o to a movie/concert. If a concert, talk to them between songs. If at a movie, a s you're leaving the theater, talk to them about subjects slightly more personal (but nothing TOO personal) such as a lack of understanding of a subject in scho ol. This is great because it'll help you realize if he's/she's really right for you, because if he/she is sensitive enough to comfort you, it's very likely that you're not wasting your time. If he/she fails to do so, forget about them. 17.Help them/be kind/helpful If they need help opening their locker, by all mean s help! But make sure you know how to do it too! Don't offer to help open their locker if it takes you twenty times to open your own! ________________________________________ Hmmmm.... first off... i think we all know what crush means.. its an admiration towards someone... either a celebrity, a player, or even your classmate or schoo lmate! It's either you like him 'cause he is smart, he is good at something, his personality... or just like everyone else.. 'cause of his cuteness! i know we all want our crushes to like us just the way we are, right? and we kept glancing at him every time we have a chance... but has he ever caugh t you looking? *smiles* wooohoooo! and when you see him.. you blush and do that "guppy effect" (it means you tingle

! haha) okay these are the ways.. i've gathered it up! and i think it really helps! only if your crush is at the campus... haha... 1. Have eye contact! but! don't make it too obvious.. :D When you pass by him... try to look in his eyes.. notice how amazing they are... :D but then quickly look away! 2. Call his name! Everyone reacts when someone calls his name... but one thing that will make him notice you without intentionally calling him is that... when you see a person yo u know (with the same name as your crush) and your crush at the same place.. you shout his name! Then both your friend and your crush will look but then your cr ush notice that you approach your friend who has the same name.. (believe me! th is works every time!) :D 3. Smile at him... *smiles* This is the simplest and most effective of all! Just simply smile at him and you 'll never know your crush will smile back! *smiles* *smiles back* *faints* NOTE: but make sure you smile at him at the right time so that he won't think th at you've gone mad by looking at him in a long period of time.... 4. Know his great buds! Just be friendly with them... You'll have lots of friend to be with in time of n eed... Just talk about everything naturally... Except the part of your crush! An d you get to talk to him too!! and the bonus is that.. you get to see your crush in their environment when they are all oh-so-comfortable! 5. Dress nicely... :D Choose clothes that fits your personality so that he will be able to know what k ind of person you are... You gotta stand out in the crowd! And the hair.. you ca n experiment what style you would like! Be creative! I don't know if you feel this way too but does your crush stands out in the crow d? Like, you really know if he's there or something? Oh well! it does to us! :D haha! 6. Join contests at your school where you can display your talent! Join some contests that you will be able to win! Like declamation, Art contests, dance contests or even quiz bees! And your crush will be like "Woah! He is good at this! Cool!" Show them what you're good at! 7. Talk a lot! It really pays off being a talkative person! Talkative = lots of people will lis ten! And you gotta be funny too! And the best thing that can happen is seeing yo

ur crush listening and laughing! And that makes your heart jumps, ain't that rig ht? 8. Earn a nickname that everyone knows! Earn a nickname.. a positive nickname! Like "Miss/Mister Linguistic" and it does pay off knowing different language! :D or even "Einstein"... or simply just you r nickname.... you never know he might start calling you with that nickname! 9. Know what your crush likes! Know what his hobbies... whatever he likes to do.. you gotta show interest! I gu ess we all know that if you have a crush, you look for something you have in com mon! Even though its senseless! Like, you have the same favorite color..stuffs l ike that.... But things begins with these stuffs! :D Kinda true ya' know! 10. And last! Just be yourself when you are around him! Don't try be someone you're not.. 'cause that's just like living a lie! And beli eve me..that's horrible at the end! Just act natural! Try not to blush! And forg et that you will just blabber in front of him! He might even think it's funny! : D

So what's you waiting for? Go and let your crush notice you! ________________________________________ Tips >Become friends with him. He won't like you if he doesn't know you exist! >Most important tip of all: there are of plenty of fish in the sea (so to speak) and chances are, there will be one who loves you for you and you will be very h appy. >This always works: get a TRUSTED friend to go and tease him about you liking hi m! Then, get that friend to ask him if he likes you! He might not tell her right away, so give it some time. Let him be free, don't be mad when he flirts with other girls because if you are n't dating then you can't get mad at that. >Accidentally bump into him. This may be a good time to start a conversation or even try and get close to him. >Keep on hinting that you like him. >Make sure that you are clean and tidy as one's appearance can matter! >Don't try too hard. If you do, the guy might think you're desperate. Be confident. >If your crush doesn't like you it might be hard but you can always try someone new! >Don't feel rejected if he doesn't like you back