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Speed Seduction Coaching Program
Ask Me Anything Coaching Call Transcript
Tuesday, May 19, 2009

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Ross Jeffries
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Ross:
It is May 19, 2009. Welcome to the Ask Me Anything call. My apologies, the call was scheduled for yesterday , and I was just flatout exhausted and missed it. Please accept my apologies that were doing the call tonight. Ill do my best to make it up to you guys. Lets get going. I just want to encourage you while Im waiting for you to start asking questions to get on the message board. Eric, whos one of our members, got laid twice in the matter of a week. Erics going strong. If youre not following my blog, you should be. Ive been doing an ongoing series with Basket-Case Bob, who Ive been working with. Basket-Case Bob is about to make some giant breakthroughs in his sarging. The first session with Basket-Case Bob was just assessing him. In the second session, I gave him some assignments to do. In the third session, I took the weaknesses and strengths Id learned from the second session and showed him how to program them in ritually. With us on the phone is Doug. Hes one of my senior stu dents and has been around for some time. Doug I am just now introducing Basket-Case Bobsoon to be Big, Bad Bob or Babe-Banging Bobto ritual magick. I took him to the beach, videotaped it, and showed him how to do rituals. I think Bob is in for something. You got some amazing results when you started doing the magick rituals, did you not?
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Doug:
Yes, totally. The rituals and the meditations were what helped me transition from my old AFC self to just getting out there and using the tools. The magick, beliefs and meditation were the top three that made the biggest difference for me.
Ross:
They power all the other techniques. If youre not doing it, guys, you really should be. Lets go to the next person in the queue. Egotwist, how are you, what can I do for you, and whats up?
Jim:
I had a great experience this past weekend. I was using some of your techniques and they were all working really well. I was having a woman move her pictures around. She still has an ex in her world that shes trying to reconc ile with her daughters. Thats her filter shes seeing things through. I want to get him out of there, diminished, back in the past or moved out of there so she has just her daughters that shes working with. The guys pictures just kept popping up again a nd again.
Ross:
Hold on just one second. Im going to constructively interrupt you. Whenever I work with students, I want them to take on the orientation that theyre going to notice first and foremost what they did right. You said you were doing some stuff and its really working. Lets talk about what it is. Thats for your benefit and also for the benefit of the people on the call who I might invite to ask you questions, as well as reading the transcript and listening to the recording.
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What is it that you did that worked? Tell me all the things you did that worked. Jim: I wish I had taken notes. The main thing that I was doing was asking her about her life, what shes up to, and then riffing off the information she was giving me. Ross: Can I slow you down just a second? When you say riffing off the information, how specifically were you doing that? Tell us how you fed that information back and what you did with it. Jim: For example, shes writing a novel. I asked her to tell me about the novel. Then after she told me a little bit about it and we kidded around about the story, I asked her when shes writing, what voice does she hear in her head? Is it her own voice or someone elses thats working on the novel? Ross: Jim: Very good. From there, I went on to ask her, Is that the same voice you hear every day, or is it a different voice? What are the characteristics of the voices you hear? Ross: What was your intent in doing that? What were you aiming at? I know what you were aiming at, but tell the people listening why you thought that would be a useful direction to take with her. Jim: First off, Im taking what shes telling me and Im acting involved and curious about it. Then Im beginning to reveal to her that there are levels in her mind that shes not aware of that I, obviously, am aware of. Im building my credibility in the process.
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Ross:
How else might it be useful to find out what voice she hears in her mind when shes making up stories?
Jim:
It helps me understand how shes oriented in l ife. If she was hearing, for example, Johnny Carsons voice reading her novel, that would be something different than if shes hearing herself. All of her voices were her own, but the intonation, pace and energy level of the voices was entirely different.
Ross:
Just to give you some future advice, when working with a highly creative person like an actor, writer, painter, artist or novelist, I like to ask them about how they get their ideas. In what way do they first feel an idea coming over them? Do they feel it in their body? If theyre a writer, Ill say, How do you allow a character to come inside you? Take the metaphor for their work, like creating the characters, and mix it with sexual metaphor. Watch their answers. Anchor the answers and mirror them back. I think youre doing quite well. I want to continue to encourage you to move and think this way. She told you there is some other guy in her mind and you moved the pictures of him in her mind, but they kept coming back. Is that correct?
Jim:
Yes. Shes separated. Shes still getting over the last hurdles of the divorce and things of that nature. Her message to me when we started was, Im just looking for a casual, friendship thing. Shes not into, I have to find Mr. Right next week. She h as a much more distant horizon. 4
Ross: Jim:
Does that rule out fucking? No, but if Im listening correctly, then Stage 1 is to get her to forget about him.
Ross:
I dont know how much you ought to aim at her forgetting about him. I perfectly agree with you aiming at her focusing on you. I dont know that I would give too much attention to getting her to forget about him. I would get her to focus on you and what she enjoys about you, giving her great sex and having her enjoy herself with you. That will give you leverage into her mind. When it comes time that you feel you might still want to work at getting rid of him, then you can do it. Youve got the cart before the horse, so to speakor the cart before the whore, if you like. What youre trying to do i s get her to forget about him and then youll get into her mind. Since hes already somewhat in the past anyway, get into her mind, get into her pants, and then it may be less necessary to work him out of there. If you do decide to do it, youll have some leverage. Do you understand what Im saying?
Jim:
Sure. One of the things I said to her is, Sometimes when youre working with your own pictures and you want to do something, because she had expressed the fact that she wanted to stop thinking about that so much, you could throw a blue cloth over it or move the picture back behind your head. You could just shrink the size of it.
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Those are things you can do that may help you to change the filter youre seeing things through. I was trying to give her tools that she could work with when I wasnt around. Ross: I appreciate that. First of all, I applaud you in your explorations. I applaud you for thinking, There are some tools in Rosss bag of tricks. Lets whip them out and see how they work. This i s the orientation I want to you have. This is the orientation that leads to great success over time. This is the point of having a coaching program. Dont worry too much about getting rid of him. Dont even bring it up. Dont put it on the table or open that door. Instead, just focus on turning her on and letting her have fun. Fractionate her in terms of the different vibes you present her, and fuck her silly. You also have to think in terms of molecules. When you think of women, think of molecular biology. Think of what molecules are going on in her head. Once you start fucking her and the endorphins and the oxytocin get released, shell be thinking about you with a different part of her brain. Then youre going to have a lot more leverage. What youre trying to do, which is basically change the submodalities of her internal image, works a hell of a lot better if a person has motivation to make it work and make it stick. If doing those sub-modalities aligns with a persons values, beliefs and whats of interest to them, youre going to have a lot more ease doing it. The best leverage you can have to get her to want to change is to fuck her silly.
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You were the guy who told me you are in your 60s. Is that correct? Jim: Ross: Jim: Ross: Jim: Ross: I am 60. How old is this woman? 53. How do you know her? Believe it or not, I connected off Match.com. Theres a poem I wrote that will do fantastic for you. Its called Essence. I will post it in the members area tomorrow, but it goes something like this: As I look at you closely, So clearly I see Two of you there, One that yearns to be free. One that longs to find someone To show your true face Without any masks Just beauty and grace. A person to lead you To that special door That helps you to come From the passionate core. A person to help Break the old, heavy chains Free of all judgments, Free once again 7
To drink deeply of passion, A bright scarlet kiss Tasting of ex <inaudible 13:14> That youre mine and youre mine There still is a place to feel totally loved And accept this embrace Open your spirit, your longing, desire <inaudible> Feeling totally free, released from the past Step beyond who you were Into freedom at last. Into a new future that you now clearly see Come, take my hand. Come, soar and feel free. Say this to her, Someone sent me something on the internet. For some reason, it just resonated with me. I thought, as you listen to it, it will really start to accord with you. Can I share it with you, Debbie? Call her on the phone and say it to her. Then say, The interesting thing about poems is how sometimes by taking a deep breath and letting out, all the best images and most beautiful feelings from that can come flooding through you again. My friend says sometimes its like each breath you take, each moment that goes by, the better you feel in this wonderful place where all that matters is whats ahead of you now, all the ways you want whats ahead of you to touch you wonderfully. The past melts
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away to nothing. All that opens up in front of you is this wonderful present. This wonderful present, get it? I found that with women who are hurting from breakups, they cream themselves and run over to fuck me. Im going to give you that. See if that works. Sometimes you have to haul out the big guns, you know? Can I just say something parenthetically? I want to say thank you to you. Im going to say this officially, on the record. For the last few weeks, Ive just been exhausted. My works has not bee n a lot of fun because Ive just been so tired. Finally getting back to giving guys real results that are going to turn it around makes me happy. Thank you for giving me this opportunity to share my talent. Do you get the sense that that poem might turn her around? Jim: Ross: If that wont, nothing will. Thats heavy artillery. I know. The thing is, dont claim its yours. Be honest about it. Say, I saw this on the internet. Someone sent this to me, and its so beautiful. I just got the feeling that it applies to you. Listen to this. Do you have anything else before we get to the next call? Jim: I just wanted to mention something that may help your other guys. I just listen to your Gold Walk-Up and The Secrets of Irresistible Arousal. I started running the Twins comparison on her. I got to the first one. Shes smart. Shes an ex-attorney. She said, Im going to have to think about that one. It was great answer. I backed off. Then I ran 9
the Snack Quiz and got her into the mode again. I think the other one was too heavy for her. I just wanted to pass on my experiences. The next time I use this, Im going to try starting with the Snack Quiz, the really light stuff, then move into the other stuff once they get used to the pattern. Ross: What youre doing is taking feedback from what you see in the real world and adopting and changing the order and the sequence, which is fine. A lot of NLP is about changing the sequence of things. When you change sequences, you get a different result. If you make a cake and you mix the dough and put it in the oven, and then when you take it out you crack in the eggs, its going to be a different result. Good on you. I want to applaud you for your spirit of exploration. Thats what I want to see more of. How did you find my program? How did you hear about me? Jim: I did your first set 10 years ago. That led me to two of the best women Ive ever known in my life. The second one was just so good, I hung around with her for eight years. Ross: Good for you. I love that. Thank you. Please post how you do in the forum. Stay on the call. If we run out of callers before the end of the hour, Ill come back to you. Lets take the next caller. Eric: Ross: This is Eric in New York. Hey! Youre my hero, the guy getting laid. Good for you, man. 10
Eric:
There was another girl I was interested in, but I did not close the deal with her. I think I heard you go over this with someone else. He was getting resistance where the woman said, Im not going to sleep with you tonight. She didnt say that, but she said, Im not going to spend the night with you tonight. What was that you said?
Ross:
My formula for this is as follows. I ask myself, What is the real emotional need being expressed? Is the real emotional need, Im not interested in you at all. Im leaving, or is it, I like you. Please dont make me feel pressured? My current girlfriend told me this the first time we were together. She said, Why do you think Im here? Do you think I came here just to fuck you? I said, Im not sure why youre here. What I know is that I only want to do what feels good and comfortable for us both, so lets just see whatever that is. Thats my standard response. The other thing you can do is humor her. You can say, Thank goodness, because I was afraid you might expect something that Im not ready for. Discharge it like that. Reflectively apply it back to her. It sounds like youre doing well. You got laid twice. What are you doing differently thats causing these results? Are you picki ng hornier women? Whats the deal?
Eric:
What I think it might be is that Im not using all that many of your patterns. I think it has a lot to do with attitudes.
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Ross:
When you have the attitudes right, you dont have to do a whole heck of a lot. Im sure youre using some kind of commands, suggestions on some level or phonetic ambiguity.
Eric:
A lot of times, if Im not sure about something, Ill just go ahead anyway. Ill do something and see what happens.
Ross:
Thats the best attitude to have. That is the single best position to take. Lets see what happens. Often thats the only thing you can rely on. Even me, with all of my skill, experience and years, I say, Lets see what happens. I have a theory about what to use, but maybe I wont have to use that technique. Maybe it will work. I dont know if it will work. Youve got to maintain that open-minded attitude and say, Lets see what happens. Good for you!
Doug:
Ive been in Asia. Ive been using some of your methods over there and have been doing really well.
Ross: Doug:
Where in Asia have you been? I went to China, Hong Kong, Laos, Vietnam, Cambodia and Thailand.
Ross:
Which one of those countries, pound for pound, person for person, has the most beautiful women?
Doug:
All of them are really surprisingly beautiful. Theyre stacked, too. Most people think Asian women arent. In China, there are 1.3 billion people. There tend to be huge cities that youve never heard of with eight to 10 million people. There are women all over. If you like Asian women, you just go nuts. 12
Ross:
I imagine youre something of a superstar there because you look so different from the normal population. My understanding, and my experience, is that many Vietnamese women are large breasted because they have some of the French blood in them.
Doug:
I was just amazed how beautiful the women were in general. It was not every one, but there are so many beautiful ones that you dont really care about anything else except looking at women and meeting women. I was pretty lucky using your system.
Ross: Doug: Ross:
Its not luck. Thats skill, my friend. I was lucky to learn it. How did you do with the language barrier? How did that come across?
Doug:
That seemed to not be too big a problem, especially if theyre up in your hotel room. You basically hug them and kiss them. They might fight a little bit.
Ross:
The issue is getting them up into your hotel room without shelling out any money. What were you doing to get them up in your hotel room?
Doug:
I did a lot of email and chatting with them online. I set them up for the whole thing. Meet me in the lobby. Call me in my room and come up to my room. Well get together and go out to dinner. Of course, dinner came or didnt come. It didnt matter. I didnt mind taking them out to dinner if they were going to sleep with me or had already slept with me. 13
I just wish I could have the same results here. Thats what my question is. Im starting to see more of the whole picture of what you do. I like the idea of using what they give you, but sometimes my mind is not quick enough yet or in tune well enough yet to know your stuff and use what they give me. Afterwards, or five or 20 minutes later, I say, I should have said this when she said that. Ross: One of the things I suggest you do is go to my website. By the way, the website is changing back to the original site,
www.Seduction.com. Go to www.Seduction.com tomorrow and click on Video Proof. Youll see a video of me working with women. You can see how I feed their language back to them and mix their language in with sexual metaphor and a very hypnotic, strong, commanding tonality. Youll see the results right there. Theyre wetting their pants. Theyre coming on stage. I think thats a really good example to see. Youll say, Oh, theres the pattern I can follow and the general overall way it works. Okay. I can do that. Those are perfectly free. If you want to buy a product that goes into it in great depth, buy the Irresistible Arousal DVD, which will show it. Its a video of me working with these girls onstage. Theyre coming all over themselves. Youll also see a lot of free stuff on the site. I encourage you to watch it. Thats how you pick it up. Watch me do it. Doug: Sounds good. Ive started going back to Whole Foods in the area.
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Ross: Doug: Ross:
Lots of pretty girls there. Its unbelievable. Its not that there arent beautiful women around. Its just that they exist in pockets or pools. Youve got to go to those local pockets or pools where there tend to be a lot of them. I know where my local pockets and pools are. I hung out with an old friend. We were at a Starbucks on the Third Street promenade at Wilshire and 3rd from 2:00 to 4:00 p.m. These beautiful girls wouldnt stop. Model quality women kept walking in to get coffee. Our heads were spinning. My head was spinning because I have a girlfriend. His head was spinning because hes too old and tired to be doing anything right now.
Doug: Ross:
Most people would say Im too old. Youve got to find the pockets of where they tend to congregate and just work those. Dont try to work all of them. Find two or three, to use a metaphor, watering holes that are filled with game. Get two approaches that work for you, and polish those approaches.
Doug: Ross:
You dont need to have a bagful of 20 or 30, just two or three. Get good at two or three of them. Thats how the big cats hunt. Some cats hunt by ambush. Some cats hunt by running down their prey. Some cats hunt by direct attack. Some cats hunt in groups. Figure out what works for you and stick with that. You dont see the leopard hunting with a lot of different styles. It has one. Its the same with lions. Lions dont do the leopard style. Find what wor ks for you, find the venues that work for you, and use them. 15
Doug:
Ive got a couple of other venues. Ive got this place where there are two bookstores. Theres a Borders and a Barnes & Noble about a block apart.
Ross:
Go for it, man. Please report in the members area. Get on the discussion groups and say how you do.
Doug: Ross: Eric:
I think I need to do some more studying of your methods. Watch the video. That will show you me in action, doing it. I think I might be struggling with something similar to the last gentleman who spoke. You talk about eliciting what her hot words are and shooting them back at her.
Ross: Eric:
I wouldnt call it shooting, but yes. My mind isnt nimble enough in the moment to be quick like that. Can you give some pointers on how to develop that skill?
Ross:
I think I already did an instructional video module on this. Fundamentally, first and foremost, its about having a different orientation and a different way of looking at people. Thats the first thing.
The orientation is that you look for process. What other people consider to be things, like love, attraction and desire, youre automatically going to turn into a process. Youre going to say, No, theres no such thing as love. Its an ongoing process with little segments to it. Each segment has a different piece of content. There may be sounds. There may be words that have special meaning to that 16
person. Youve got to learn to take a different view on people. Youre not going to view people as a conglomerate of things. Rather, people are an ongoing process. I forget how Shinzen puts it, but his teacher refers to the activity known as Eric, not Eric. Its not, Eric is smart, but, The activity called Eric is engaging in the activity of using intelligence. Take what other people turn into nouns and turn it back into verbs or processes. Look for processes in people. The second understand is that there are certain words that dont refer to anything clearly identifiable in the world. There are certain words that do refer to things that are clearly identifiable. If I say wheel barrel, you can I both have a pretty good idea of what object I mean, correct? Eric: Ross: Yes. If I say wheel barrel, you dont visualize an elephant or machine gun. But if I say, Eric, respect is pretty important to me, do you know what Im visualizing when I say respect? Eric: Ross: No, I dont. There is a certain class of words which have no fixed consensus meaning. They only have individual, unique meaning to the person using them. These are words like respect, desire, connection and fascination. One of the reasons why these words dont have a specific meaning is because the word themselves refer to an action and that action can be looked at in a lot of different ways.
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What looks like fascination to you may look different to me. You learn to understand that there is a certain set of words that dont reflect any concrete, specific, objective reality. Rather, they are statements about the persons deeply held, deeply felt, internal reality. You learn to hear when people are using those and learn to recognize, Oh, she just said fascination. Thats a vague word that has personal meaning to her. Do you use Windows or Mac? Eric: Ross: Eric: Ross: Mac. You know what a desktop looks like, right? Sure. When you want to fire up your web browser, do you type in a million lines of code to get it running? Eric: Ross: No, I click on a little icon. Exactly right. Words like fascination or desire are the icons on her desktop. When she uses those words, its clicking on a lot of code much deeper in her emotional body and activating that. Shes sort of handing you the desktop icon and telling you, Please click it. Thats another metaphor. Learning to view people in a profoundly different way is difficult at first because were not taught this. Were taught in the English language to think in terms of things and what a person is. We think in terms of identification. I am a liar. I am honest. Thats not the 18
essence of you. Its simply behaviors that you frequently engage in or dont frequently engage in. Learn to look at how language can either free people or freeze people. When people use language, often, particularly if you get them talking about an emotionally charged subject, these words will come out. Learn to become alert to those words and get curious. Say, Really? Tell me more about when you feel destiny. Where do you first feel destiny in your body? Im just curious. Its a different orientation and a different set of understan dings, not just about how women work, although first women because we want to get laid. Thats what I would encourage you to do. When you watch my products and videos, watch when Im working with women on stage. Watch how I feed things back to them. This is crucial. When you see me do it, youll understand how it works. Thats my suggestion to you. Keep on posting. Doug, are you doing any sarging lately, buddy? Doug: A little bit. Ive been focusing mostly on my business for the last month or so. Ross: Youre coming to my MindFrame Persuasion event. Youre focused on business. Doug: Theres a girl that Im sleeping with. Ive known her since summer. Im not going out as much as Id like to sarge. Im focused on making that money. Thats basically what Iv e been doing. 19
Ross:
I understand. Doug, your first priority is never relationships This is my opinion. There is no right or wrong answer here. I believe as a man our first priority is our spiritual grounding, our physical health, then our career, and then our relationships. Women have to make relationships first, but not us. Its not our job to make it first.
Doug:
Thats another thing Ive changed around. Ive gotten so much more energy. Im still working my butt off, but my energy level is rocking. Im exercising every day. Im finding that its not that I dont have the urge to run out and sarge. Im feeling more like I want to do things for myself lately. Im pretty content. I have somebody. The sex is good. Everythings cool that way.
Ross:
Its good if you have somebody youre pumping. You get to dump your load. Good on you, man. Doug, Doug, dump your load, make her open wide, spray it all around her face and stick your piece inside. Thats why I get paid the big bucks.
Doug:
I have a question about after I signed up for seminar. I ve got the downloads. Ive been listening to those. Im really interested. I want to start using that, but then my business gets more business. I have a vague question. Ive been trying to figure it out on my own. My business does take up a lot of my time and energy. I do see myself in the future in a year or two still with the same business, but doing something different. Ive been using the Magick rituals and schedules.
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Ross:
Ill tell you what. When you come out to C alifornia, you and I will have dinner together. There are some things I want to talk to you about. I cant talk anymore now, but well talk.
Doug: Participant:
Cool. Thats good enough for me, sir. Youve got so many different programs and so much stuff. Ive been on awhile with you, but still not long enough. Is there any particular way you would recommend we go about getting your products or listening to them, or is it just basically we should take it as we find it and assimilate it the best we can?
Ross:
Doug, youve been around for many years. You tell him. You have all of my products.
Participant:
Ross has different types of information and ways he tries to disseminate his information, conferences, conference calls like this and meetings. Im wondering what products or things you would suggest for somebody relatively new. Its been about five or six months for me. Over six weeks of that , I was in Asia. What do you recommend as the best products to get into early that I dont want to miss, and where do I go from there?
Doug:
I would say Nail Your Inner Game for a student thats fairly new like you, within six months or so. I first started learning around the time Ross started sharing the meditation. That really helped quiet my mind. I was able to learn better. I think Nail Your Inner Game is number one. Its not the most glamorous. There are no crazy language patterns or any of that stuff. Once you learn it, its simple. You learn equanimity. 21
Basically, I learned to have that equanimity. I can go into a situation and I can be nervous or scared, or any emotion thats going through my body, and its natural. Its hard to explain. Participant: I think I know what you mean. Youll be talking to a woman and she says something and without even thinking, your mind pops out what you thought would have been good to say. Youve been studying, repeating and hearing it. Youve heard it enough times so its in there and you didnt even realize it. Ross: The word Im thinking of is immersion. Immerse yourself in this material. Have CDs constantly playing in the background. I had a student who had a waterproof CD player that he put in his shower. He had CD players all over his apartment. It was playing everywhere. I also think you should get the latest material firs t. If you dont have the 3.0 course, you should. The DVDs come with transcripts. It all depends on how you learn. There are also CDs. Make a sound file and listen to it on your iPod when youre falling asleep at night. Watch the DVDs. Play the CDs in your car. Read the transcripts. Immerse yourself in it. I would say that 3.0 is the most clearly spelled out. Its the most linear. It goes step by step into decision trees and which way to go if you try this or that option. As a member of this group, you have access to the Speed Seduction video modules. There are five of them. It seems to me
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that you have not watched the Getting Up to Speed With Speed Seduction video modules. Participant: I think youre correct, although I have tried to immerse myself. When I went to Asia, I had an extra iPod with your stuff. I have CDs I listen to. I have some of your DVDs. Youve got a lot of stuff. Ross: Ive been doing this for 20 years. I dont know how to stop learning and teaching. I could have quit back in 1997. Youll see where it says Home on the site, then Resources. Im talking about the www.SeductionProgram.com website. You also are a member of my coaching program. Have you been to www.SeductionProgram.com? Thats the official website of the coaching program. Participant: Ross: I think so, but Im not positive. When you signed up, you got an email that gave you a username and a login. Participant: Ross: I just went to it. I have a username and login on my database. Once you log in, you will see Resources. Click on that. If you scroll around youll see, Getting Up to Speed With Speed Seduction video course. The other place you can find it is if you go to www.SpeedSeductionFree.com. The advantage if you get it on the coaching program is you can also download the audio files and transcripts. Its really important that youre aware of this.
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Im a little perturbed that you arent aware of these resources. Im not blaming you. I thought I had established a process with my team to make sure that everyone who joins knows about these resources. If you click on Resources, youll see the Getting Up to Speed With Speed Seduction modules and the Speed Seduction Starter Kit downloadable tools. Click on the Getting Up to Speed With Speed Seduction instructional videos and go through them. Theyre fantastic. Participant: Ross: Participant: Ross: I see them now. Have you watched them? I have not, but I will tonight. Take a couple of weeks to study them. This will make the whole thing so much easier. What you see there, combined with Speed Seduction 3.0, will skyrocket you to where you want to go. Do you have Speed Seduction 3.0 yet? Participant: Ross: Participant: Ross: Is that the nine CDs? Its got DVDs as well. I think I have 2.0 from a few years ago. This is a new course. I just came out with it six months ago. You need to get it. If you watch the DVDs, listen to the CDs and go through the video modules, youll tear a new hole into everything you find.
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By the way, Im not in any way perturbed with you. Im just a little perturbed that we have not gotten the message clearly to people about the resources. I really want people to get results. Im fanatically dedicated to people getting results. Participant: Ross: Participant: Swoop: Ive got a thick skin. You can yell and scream at me. I would not do that. I know you wouldnt, but Im from New York City. Ive picked up the Shinzen Young material an d Ive started going through it. Ross: Swoop: Its brilliant. It is very good. Im very impressed. Ive also been inspired listening to this call. Ive been looking for better locations. As I mentioned to you, Ive been going out to bars and clubs. Im going to change my venues. I have a question about the order of putting some of your patterns together. What is the best format? What are the best patterns to start running first? Whats most appropriate? Ross: The first thing is to understand how this all works and get my mindset. Have you been on the call the whole time? Swoop: Ross: I have. You heard what I said about looking for process rather than looking for things. Did you understand that distinction? Swoop: Yes. 25
Ross: Swoop: Ross:
Ill keep coming back to this. Do you have the 3.0 course? No, I dont. It sounds like Im trying to sell more stuff , but the reality is that the 3.0 course is the most modern course. It has the most linear presentation of Step A, Step B, and if this doesnt work, go to D or E. If you dont have the 3.0 course, you should really get it. It represents my best and most current thinking. Have you watched the archive of all the video modules in the members area for the coaching program?
Swoop: Ross:
Yes, I have. My suggestion is to start with the stuff that I teach in the Gold WalkUp DVD. Start with the Snack Quiz and the Twin Brothers Scenario. From Twin Brothers and Snack Quiz, its pretty easy to move into either doing a demonstration like the Cube or the Blow Job Pattern or Discovery Channel. Start with Twin Brothers and or Snack Quiz, and from there move to Discovery Channel and/or the Blow Job Pattern. Thats what I suggest since you want direct sequence of patterns.
Swoop:
That seems to get very sexual very early. I dont mind. Im comfortable doing it.
Ross:
Its not, really, but so what? The whole point is to screen people. Its not saying, Fuck, fuck, suck, fuck, cunt, piss, motherfucker, pussy. Its being suggestive. The right kind of person is going to respond well to that, and the wrong kind of person is going to run away. 26
Another question you have to ask yourself is what is the emotional pattern? What is the energetic pattern? What is the mentality and psyche of the kind of woman you want to attract? Swoop: Ross: Sexual. Im with you. You asked for the sequence, so I gave you the sequence. Thats what I suggest you do. Swoop: Ross: Im totally comfortable with it. How does this time of day work for you? What time is it in Australia? Swoop: Ross: Its midday. I love doing this. I would do it all the time if I could afford to. I appreciate having you guys as my students. Its great. Im back teaching and doing what I love to do. There was a while there when I was too tired to enjoy any of this. Now Im back to enjoying it. Guys, Im going to conclude the call. I want to thank you for being with us. If you have not already posted your question on the discussion board so I can do a video for you, will you please do it? Id like to get those all knocked out by the end of the week. Thanks much. Keep on sarging. And remember, keep it clean or it will fall off! Bye now.
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