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Refreshing Your Relationship: Give 100%

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A common expression is Ill meet you halfway, and we often take that attitude into our marriage. I hear frequent complaints from couples in trouble that their partner isnt pulling their fair weight, that one is giving more than the other. Whoever determined proposition? that life is a 50-50

Some give more than others. Some take more than others. On every level of society from politics to business to social interactions, there are discrepancies of effort, economics, and emotions. Going into a marriage with the expectation that contributions will be fairly shared is to court disaster. Over a span of time, a certain amount of evenness will develop through a process of giveand-take and ups-and-downs. But at any specific point, one may be giving while the other needs to just take for a while.

If the relationship is healthy, and both partners are committed to the 100% investment, eventually it will work out somewhere in the middle -probably never 50-50 but somewhere in the broad bell curve of averages: 30% to 70%. At different times, the equation adjusts as careers, children, and other responsibilities change. If you are the individual giving 70% and your other half is falling a little short, remember that you swore to give 100% so you are much better off than you expected. Can you see how such thinking changes the framework of your marriage? Youre not getting cheated, youre getting much more support than your original bargain called for!

How to Enter Marriage

We all need to enter the most important relationship of our life with the foreknowledge and determined commitment to give 100%. Once we have internalized that concept, we can avoid the

You Can Use This New Attitude in Any Aspect of Your Marriage
Many couples develop resentment over their relative monetary contributions. If you have the initial anticipation of being the sole breadwinner, then any contribution by the other, however small, is a great big bonus. If you enter the union with the
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expectation that you will handle all the cleaning and parenting chores required, then anything done by your partner is a plus. If one of you handles your mutual social obligations, then the participation of your spouse, even if limited to just showing up and being there, is more than you expected. You may feel, as many of my patients do, that you are not getting the support and good strokes that you deserve. Reframe the sense of deprivation within the 100% concept and you find that even occasional support and positive feedback is an unexpected gift. We all need to feel loved and appreciated and cherished. We also need to give love and appreciation to others. If we give more than we get, we can harbor anger at our being cheated or we can love and appreciate our own selves for having a greater capacity to give. This one single change in your outlook towards your relationship can transform the hidden resentments that result in nagging, negativity, and verbal putdowns into a deep satisfaction that leads to overt affection, positive support, and mutual respect.

How Can I Find Love? Find Your Hidden Obstacles

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By Lubov Skurina So, youve created the vision of your ideal relationship. Perhaps youve crafted a comprehensive soulmate wish list. You know what you want (at least you think you do). But HE IS NOT SHOWING UP. Why do they tell us to create a list of what we want? You ask yourself. To make it clearer that I want the impossible? If he hasnt shown up for 15 years that Ive been waiting, maybe, its just not meant for me to have the love I want. And you close your doors Please, dont be in a hurry to resign. If its not happening, there are very clear, distinct reasons for that. Your task is to identify these reasons and adjust, shift your mindset to remove the blockages that stand in the way of your desire. What kind of blockages?

Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time Take a moment, step aside of your usual flow of thought, and ask yourself a question: How open am I really, to the reality of meeting and uniting my ideal life partner? You may be open to it consciously, but on the subconscious level you are pushing away the fulfillment of your desire.
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Our belief system is formed based on our life experience. Often, strong beliefs and reactive behavior patterns come as a result of childhood trauma. If you havent been able to create a successful relationship for many years, this has probably strengthened your unconscious assumption that you are not destined to have it. So, what keeps you from attracting your ideal relationship, is a set of limiting beliefs about yourself and others. These beliefs reside deep in your subconscious mind, and control most of your behavior. Throughout my work with clients Ive identified clusters of most common issues that stand in the way of attracting love. I say clusters because they usually are related to each other forming a chain reaction of negative behavior patterns that sabotage your relationships. Your number one enemy: I am not worthy. Lack of self-worth is the most common and most damaging belief. Before you can have a healthy relationship with someone else, you have to learn to love and value yourself. This was my problem for a while and it was destroying my relationships until I gained awareness and was able to clearly see that thats what had been driving my choice of partners. If you believe that there is something wrong with you, that you are not as good as others in some way, that you are not complete and need to find a partner to complete you; then you become too attached to the relationship. You cant lose it; it feels if you lose it, youll lose yourself. This dramatic undercurrent shows through. Your partner will sense it and he will feel trapped. At some point he will feel the need to break out from your hold and leave. If you have a pattern of attracting men that cant commit to you, if you feel that you give a lot and get very little in return, it is likely that on some level you dont feel worthy of having a great relationship. Another way in which this issue shows up is that you will tend to choose partners who are damaged in some way, for whom it would be difficult to find another woman. You know they will be really attached to you, value you, and never leave you. Relationships that are based on co-dependence may last for a while, but they wont make you happy.

Do you think that there isnt the right man for you out there? A negative generalization like men are (fill in the blank), or all the good ones are taken, represent another cluster of commonly observed limiting beliefs. Statistically, you may be right. At a certain age there are probably fewer available men who are up to your standards and willing to be in a committed relationship. Maybe But statistics is the law of large numbers. It has nothing to do with your unique ability to find The One. You need only one, remember? You have to open yourself up to that possibility. If you believe its impossible, you are pushing him away. Dont be attached to a particular image of him that you created for yourself. He may not look like your image, but he will have the qualities that are most important for you. He should be able to give you what you most yearn for in a relationship. Are you too busy? I work primarily with professional women. I often hear I am too busy to date. If you are a career woman or a business owner, you know it takes dedication to create a change in your life, to achieve any goal. Transforming your relationship patterns and attracting a life partner: how big of a change do you think that will be? How important is it to you? How much of a commitment will this require? You have to make a space in your life for the new relationship: a space in your mindset, a space in your thought process, a space in your heart, and a space in your schedule. When I meet the right man, I will stop being too busy. It doesnt work that way. You have to create a room first, and then you will be making choices that will lead you to meeting the right man. You will literally attract him if you create the space, and you will severely limit your chances if you dont. So, what are your obstacles? The trick is to be able to step aside, identify the specific beliefs that stand in your way, and dissolve them; shift your mindset and take a different perspective on these things. You will then become a different person, someone who is open, warm and inviting; someone who is magnetic to love.
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From Sarah: We just discovered Lubov, and we love her! Shes an amazing, transformative relationship coach you can read all the wonderful things her clients say about her and how shes helped them when you follow this link OH and be SURE to pick up Lubovs free ebook 4 Steps to Soulmate Attraction its a complete step-by-step guide to attracting your ideal life partner and thats her specialty. Just go here to get your free book and discover and enhance and live in your feminineside>>

First, this isnt a complete list. Of course! But I think these are the two biggest ones. (Im working on more articles about a few of the others) Second, Im not telling you so you can shame him. Im doing this so you can help him. But you have to be sneaky, so that he doesnt know. Be nice to your man he worships the ground you walk on, and believe me, he knows a few of your dirty dark secrets, too. On to the juice, shall we?

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The Things Your Man Fears

GUY FEAR #1: My sexual desires are NOT okay I wont tell you that old thing about how guys want waaay more sex that women do, because its actually not true. Women want it, we just want it under different terms. He just wants it. Every possible way he can imagine it. With your sister, your mom, the librarian (definitely the librarian), the teenager snapping her gum behind the cash register. Hes even had a dirty fantasy about that weird shopping cart lady. Sex movies of every description (multiple lovers, bondage, fetish, you name it) run in his brain nearly all the time, and sometimes whats showing on the screen shocks even him. Deep down, hes terrified that he wants sex too much, or in the wrong ways, with the wrong people. His sex drive is a formidable machine, and its a testament to his power that he doesnt let it drive his life, only his brain. What YOU can do to help your man: Creating an atmosphere of openness in your intimate life with him is the first step in making him feel less scared about his sexual desire. Im not saying you have to DO everything that he THINKS about, but be willing to ask him to talk about his fantasies. Invite him to give you steamy details.
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Top 2 Things Men Are Terrified Of

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by Claire Casey Your man will never tell you any of this. In fact, hes dying to read this article, but he would never let you catch him doing it, and he certainly wont admit to wanting to know if his deep, dark secrets are hanging out like underwear on a clothesline. In the front yard. In the middle of a busy city. (Hah!) Well, your man wont tell you, but I will. But first, two warnings:

Even the act of sharing can be a tremendous gift of sexual energy between the two of you. Help him learn to make YOU the star of his sexual mind shows, even if all you do is tell him a dirty story during foreplay. And finally, dont forget to let him know youre sexually satisfied! If you can do this, hes going to become so riveted by you hell never want to let you go. EVERY man wants to know he can sexually satisfy a woman. GUY FEAR #2: Other men will think Im weak You gotta feel for the men of our world. Theyre expected to get a respectable paycheck, make us feel secure, (not think about sex so much), beat out the other guys, support the winning team, be tough, overcome all the obstacles in their way, scare away the bad guys, and never show fatigue, fear, or ANYthing except sheer strength and confidence. Its a lot to live up to. Its impossible to live up to, actually. And yet thats the challenge they hear every single day. And if they dont answer it actually DOMINATE it their fear is that they will be publicly shamed, humiliated, despised Not so much by you or by other women (although they hate the idea of that, too), but by other MEN. But that doesnt mean YOU dont have power. Every man wants a woman who is unreservedly, wholeheartedly ON HIS SIDE. Your support actually adds to his power in the world of other men. What YOU can do to help him I have a question for you: if hes fighting away on the field of his life, do you ever even show up at his game? And if you do, can he hear your enthusiastic, genuine support for him? Im not saying you have to actually get out your cheerleader skirt and shimmy and shout (although hell probably appreciate that, see #1 above!), but there IS a way to let him know youre seeing how hard he works, and you want him to win. Encourage him to tell you about his daily battles. Lean in and attentively soak up every bit. Ask for details. Dont multitask while youre doing this; give him your full focus. Be his raving fan.

And offer him your sincere admiration. Let him know how strong you find him, how amazing his accomplishments and abilities are. If you can make him feel like you believe in him and are on his side no matter what, you are going to ADDICT him to you.

3 Steps To Make A Man Love You

Take a look at this free video from Michael Fiore about Claires new program Capture His Heart its just gangbusters, and we love Claires program. Shell help bring you and your man closer with quick tips thatll have him eating from the palm of your hand, and have you feeling more connected to him than ever. Go here to find out 3 Steps to get close and stay close with your man->>.

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If You Want To Fix Your Marriage: DONT Have An AffairWhy?

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by Kate Dixon If you are in a sexless marriage, then you have probably already thought of having an affair, right? But, how much good do you think it will do to your marriage? None! Different people have different excuses for that one wild fling. Let us look at them one by one:

From Sarah Sometimes, when youve been living without sex in your marriage, it seems like everything is over. But, because Ive read Kates stuff, I KNOW this is fixableits about WAY more than sex, or any one thingso, if youre not getting the sex you want in your relationship READ Kates book Get Him In The Mood right here and fix your sexless marriage>>

Bring Him Close Free Report... The need for intimacy: Some people coping with a sexless marriage seek out illicit intimate relationships, or affairs, because they want to fulfill their desire for intimacy. But the problem with an affair is that it seldom stops where you want it to. Soon, physical proximity leads to emotional dependence, and before you know it, one or both of you want to leave your partners. It is the story of the forbidden apple all over again. The need to get away from it all: If you think that you can put the pain of your sexless marriage out of your mind by engaging in an affair, think again. Any person who is in a dedicated relationship is deeply attached to their partner, regardless of the sex. Indulging in a fling only adds to the burden of guilt, resentment and pain. The need for a change: Some people believe that an affair can lead them to Mr. or Ms Right. In most cases, you cannot build a new relationship on the ashes of an old one. Besides, finding a person who is the opposite of your spouse will make you resent your spouse even more. In the end, the affair will only widen the gulf without assuring any permanent solution. An affair can leave you burnt at both ends. Instead, look for ways to mend the bridge. After all, you are in the relationship because at some point in your life, you believed that your other half was worth it. Can you just replace him or her because youve run into a major roadblock? Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time

Is Your Cyber Relationship Going Anywhere?

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With the introduction of home computers and the Internet, the dating and relationship experience has gone to an entirely new dimension. For example, its now possible for someone living in the United States to be in a relationship with someone living in Australia. The entire relationship was begun online and is maintained online. Its not surprising that a significant percentage have never even met in person. They talk online, by Skype, instant messenger, video cameras, through email and probably on cell phones. However, theyve never even touched each other physically.
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Believe it or not, relationships such as these are quite common these days, and new ones are being formed every day.

Can This Kind of Relationship Be Satisfying?

People seem quite happy being in these relationships for the most part. It gives them something to look forward to first thing in the morning and when they get home in the evening.

Are you inherently selfish or self-centered and dont want to have to look after someone else? Do you like the company but also the freedom that you have by not being in a true physical relationship? Do you like the romance but arent so fond of sex? You really need to address these questions before making the final decision of being in a pretend relationship where you both talk about a someday that will never come. When you remain in a cyber-relationship such as this, you always run the risk that your cyber partner will decide that he wants more and wants something he can touch. Are you ready to make the move for that to happen? Youre the only one that can decide whether or not youre ready for a real, mature relationship. It could be that youll be happier having a pretend one. You should, however, be honest with your cyber partner once you decide. Yes, some men are more naturally romantic than others. Some men have a heart for romance thats even bigger than yours, and some couldnt care less (though the tips in this article will help you melt the heart of even this kind of by the book man. If you want to know if a man has a romantic bone in his body as a starting point for you, youll want to check out our Attract The Hell Out Of Him Crack The Secret Code Of His Personality ebook right here, and get the relationship you want->

They set up dates on the weekend and even go so far as to prepare the same meals so that they can have dinner, lunch or breakfast together by webcam. This is all very romantic and exciting, even, but it does beg the question of just where this type of relationship is going. Does one of you plan to fly across the world in order to meet the other one? What happens if you suddenly decide you cant live without each other? Does it even make sense to up and quit your job and trade your life in for someone that youve never even kissed? These are all questions that will need to be addressed at some point in time, unless, of course, youve decided to just maintain this virtual relationship and never make it anything more than it is now. Believe it or not, there ARE those couples that seem to have no plans for the future. They just live in the here and now, enjoying the company of someone over their computer.

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Why Is This Kind of Relationship Appealing?

If a relationship of this kind is truly enough for you, it may be time for you to examine the reasons for not caring if you have a relationship in the truest sense of the word.

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