BLUEPRINT Social conditioning-authenticity Its all in your head - Once you have a belief- your mind constantly looks

for evidence to support those beliefs- so set up great foundation!! We live in a socially created reality- we,Hand over our concept of reality to others Ideas no matter how stupid can spread like wildfire e.g. Burning Witches- because others were so certain, congruent and everyone else believed it- so mind thinks this must be true!!!*Its holding you back unless you understand it and appreciate it for what it is(see through others eyes] Value= survival/kids survival + good emotions -decisiveness, fearlessness, dictates reality and does not have reality dictated to him-if you have no confidence= no value Drawn towards value,Woman Looks towards behaviour patterns-the subcommunications- your value is not static-its constantly changing-like a girl becoming ugly.So have a strong fun reality and bring others into it Life so so short- do what you want- how quickly have the last few years gone by? Even if you come up to other peoples standards your still a chode for not pulling people into your own reality 1 0f my values- offering value.If you dont know who you are theres a vacuum and youll constantly be sucking value trying to find out what you think. Make a decision-is this connecting me to whom Im meant to be or connecting me to it- establish pattern of moving towards self-Most people have the self image of Gollum- looking for the precious . If you cant walk up to any girl be in state, say hi my name is ronan and shoot the shit and drag into reality then theres work to be done. When not using this part of brain it gets weaker.
SELF IS ALWAYS COMING THROUGH,NOT DEPENDENT ON RESPONSE VALUE COMES FIRST- COMEDY.RETICULAR ACTIVATION SYSTEMZONES IN ON WHAT DOES HAVE VALUE FOR YOU-FEEL YOURSELF DOING IT EG WITH THE HOT GIRL WITH SEMI MELTED FACE-WHEN YOU GIVE HER VALUE THEN SHE REALIZES YOUR NOT HOOKING UP WITH GIRLS OF HER VALUE-SO BE NORMAL AS IN ACT LIKE SHE HAS NO EXTRA VALUE-THEYRE TRYIN TO GET INTO YOUR RAS.TO BE GOOD- BE OK WITH THE PARADOXES.ACCEPT THAT THE WORLD OWES YOU NOTHING AND THAT YOU WILL GET BACK WHAT YOU DESERVE

Assume you have value in the situation = in the moment vs how can I make the moment better?feeling like this has to work JUST EXPRESS YOURSELF FREELY AND LET THE CHIPS FALL WHERE THEY MAY. Reacting = giving your power away. See world through identity-its what we allow from ourselves. Personality happens in reaction to social feedback

When you know your on someones level you will act natural Be certain of who you are- dont trade it for anything else Be certain of who you are- it puts pressure on you to be a pimp Your mind is constantly pingingasking how much value do I have? And then it allows you access to those imprints---plus girls think he must be having sex. You are source of good emotions, everything clicks, total abundance, mind quiets vs others have the value + emotions and you fear you may bother them, and self conscious- you do care, State subcommunicates value= more authentic communication- as in you say whatever you want-access best selfnot trying to conform Have personal boundaryif Im not in state Im going to do it anyway Resistance-the emotion you experience when you wish the reality in front of you was different and know when to take right actionthis is what it is, whats the right action? Go for itdont identify with it, know my body is having a chemical reaction but dont identify with it= creates spacethat which you resist persists IN OUR SOCIETY PEOPLE THINK BAD EMOTIONS ARE A GOOD REASON NOT TO DO SOMETHING!!!!!---COURAGEOUS PEOPLE WALK THROUGH THE FOG OF BAD EMOTIONITS RIGHT ACTION RIGHT ACTION IS A MUSCLE SO CULTIVATE RIGHT ACTION AND NONRESISTANCE=STATE I demand the fucking manual from my mind I dont seek reaction from others IDENTITY CRITERION- WHERE YOUR mind looks to see how much value you have it has a set of rules that like a thermometer decide whether you can go into state- you can programme that thermometer eg how Im dressed, if I have a good haircut, alliances, competencies, role plays-what circumstances call on you to fulfil a role e.g. how many bones I have in my nose Women could like me for who I am - its a celebration of me Roles-a role is just a role-pay more attention to which roles spike and trough your state

Most guys are chasing after things to have confidence

Core confidence 1- flipping of cause and effect -most people are looking for people to react to them so they will feel confident -unshakeable conviction of who you are and what your entitled too,-know what youve been through -value own opinion of self more highly than others and evaluate own opinion of self by criteria of your own-acceptance in any situation is no threat to own being-you know what your best qualities are, even if nobody else sees them then-offer real value and if they dont see it its their loss-you have a value whether other people recognize it or not PLANT THE SEED

LET THE ROOTS SLOWLY COME OUT AS IT COMES OUT MORE AND MORE- YOU GATHER MORE REFERENCE EXPERIENCE AND YOUR MIND WILL ACCEPT THAT THIS IS THE TRUTH AND IT WILL REALLY BLOSSOM Rootedness in self doest need to extend beyond into other things Its a life ideal to reach towards

don t self seek in others- self seek in self

Reality,All cause and effect relationships that allow you to predict the world How world works, how they should respond to you and your view of what you deserve The stronger your beliefs the more you will suck people into that reality-ie infectin them with your mood.The dominant reality wins out- people react as you expect them to.Tends to go off 1st hand experience rather than 2nd- doesnt pinggets his own reality and not from others. Nonreactive-:Who is screening, who is trying to get a reaction Feeling good= authentic communicationWho cares about someones emotional acceptance and who would feel effected if they leftActually having fun on your own timeresistance stops that---feeling warm and pleasant inner body---very attractive because your not needy and youre the party Dont have the need for validation.Feel good naturally leads to unreactiveness Dont let own emotions get thrown off by other persons reality Responding to world-acting through own intentions Are you changing who you are to get value from someone else?? Its about asserting reality over your selfhave dominion over own mindbeing self possessed=strong reality----trust in own faculties Most people look to othersthey need to be told what to do, they dont trust their own eyes---interpret the world through eyes of others****** Giving power away = reacting too much to peoples criticisms/worrying about others opinions= they have a lot of value to you= I dont trust my own faculties enough= I value others faculties more than my own= seeing the world through your own eyes= creativity= you have to have trust in own eyes, own standards Most unwavering certainty and least emotional reaction to conflicting viewsmost peoples concept of reality is uncertain=walking through life in a walking daze----always looking for most certain person and are drawn into the reality Be the island not the ship not could you dictate my reality to me?? STRENGHT OF YOUR REALITY IS A MUSCLE- IT SHOULD BE GROWING ALL THE TIMECERTAIN IN SENSE OF SELF

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WHO YOU ARE-WHAT YOU DESERVE- WHAT YOUR ENTITLED TO YOUR VALUES-SENSE OF HUMOUR,KNOW WHAT YOU VALUE YOU WONT BE INTIMIDATED BY HER SUPERFICIAL STANDARDS DONT ACCEPT SECOND RATE BEHAVIOUR FROM SELF OR ANYBODY ELSE HOW PEOPLE REACT AROUND MEDO I EXPECT THEM TO BE FUN, WHATS THE PRICE TAG I PUT ON MYSELF? DO I TOLERATE GIRLS WHO DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT EG THEY HAVE TO BRING BEST SELF TO ME,BE AUTHENTIC,

SO ALWAYS LEAN INTO YOUR FEARS, IN ORDER TO GROW OR YOU WILL STAGNATE--REALITY GETS STRONGER ONLY IF YOU LEAN INTO YOUR FEARS CONTINUOUSLY WHEN YOU LIVE LIKE A CHODE YOUR CHODLINESS INCREASES DIFFICULT TIMES YOU GO THROUGH GET YOU IN TOUCH WITH THAT STRONG REALITY AND IN TOUCH WITH YOUR COREMOST PEOPLE RUN AWAY FROM THE PAINFUL THINGS THAT WILL MOULD THEM------GIRLS

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COULD LIKE ME JUST FOR WHO I

Masculine polarity Man; action----woman; reaction Act through own intentions (not programming, neediness or lack) Own everything you do Be authentic-be the person your meant to be ---have fun Be source of Grounding energy,Strong purpose,Not that effected Be at home in the environment and everybody here is my friend-incl her Be self amusingmove conversation where he wants to go Positioning self as already chosen and your picking the girl you want to choose I see what I want then I take it---women love this!!!!---just walk up and say who are yoube the selectorand thats all you need.As a man you should draw state from within not from environment -what is cool about this, memories, appreciation, shift attention to your breath, into body,slow down the breath---you can feel good independentlyyou dont need to draw state from outsidethat is where the polarity comes from---connecting to your masculine power Be conscious is beautiful, when you become too aware of the petty little me, and your little problems thats the suckful part Breath in ---feel happy!!!be good!!!!yeeheeehaaww!!- but first slow down perception.Its not I am the doerthis is happening through me Change physiology---ie stomping feet, jazz handsyou can pump own state at will***really good guys do thatAnd crying out like INDIAN war cry!!! Do it until you connect with your primitive wild man You bring it from within not from outside or from others ----it makes you naturally follow your own intentions Social conditioning disconnects you from thatit constricts perception and makes you self conscious.You must be drawing it from within or you cant be a grounding energy.You should draw it from within always for you to do it with women.You have a reality about who you are and you need that reality validated by others.

Entertainment and disrupting a girls reality are the two top ways to get a girl and to achieve that masculine polarity---but we must draw from within. Proactive social strategy-Be authentic, let chips fall where they may, say whatever you feel like-Living up to own standards, and yes caring about others in a good way Reactive social strategy- changing self for situation= performance anxiety Understand that this works Have total trust- best to approach a girl with nothing in your mind- just feeling good What you say is valuable purely because it comes from you**** Not because of the content but because shes Interested in what your interested in Lets see if shes cool,lets expand the party.-is what you should be thinking When she senses you arent thinking ahead she sees it as confident----keep eye contactstay with the tension---A CHILDLIKE I SEE I TAKE ATTITUDE DONT JUDGE,COMPARE,LABEL ,INTERPRET HERSEE THE DEPTH IN HER AS WOMAN AND THIS CAN BUILD INSANE INFERNO.TRUST yourself to respond you dont believe it- you understand- you are not the doer it is happening from beyond you- you are the intermediary- be happy in the moment= your not reaching for an outcome-be your own style.Be in moment-trust in faculties-not a belief but an understanding In the moment your faculties will support you= walking through the world with ease- convergent point Core confidence, Strong reality, Own intentions-------------------------world is a light place, moving with the current not Above not below just part of the whole-melt into It- the way forward exists in each moment-Everything will be fine=SELF FORGETTING=spontaneous ,non straining, makes people look to you as a source of grounding energy-innate thing which girls look towards Masculine polarity,Be present THE BEARINGS THAT MAKE YOUR WORLD;WHO YOU ARE ,WHAT IS POSSIB LE,WHAT PEOPLE ARE LIKE BUT SUCCESS BARRIERS MAKE YOU FEEL ANXIETY-BRAIN HAS LOTS OF BLOCKS TO YOUR SUCCESS----IF THIS REALITY HAS KEPT ME ALIVE FOR THIS LONG, ITS EASIER TO BURY MYSELF IN THIS REALITY THAN TRY ON A NEW ONE= DOUBTS,NAUSEOUS THAT YOUR GOING BACKWARDS IN UNDERSTANDING-INSTINCT THAT PEOPLE MAY NOT ACCEPT THE NU U If you think youre a chode- youll focus on the negative feedback SO focus on the good things you do. See the best in your self and see the best in other people ( cut ourselves some slack). MOST PEOPLE ARE HAPPY TO HAVE THEIR BELIEFS CONFIRMED EVEN IF YOUR LIFE SUCKS YOUR MIND DOENST CARE BE LIKE WATER,REORDERING PERCEPTION TO PRESERVE THE MAP--BEING ABLE TO JUMP BETWEEN MAPS---EVERY CONCEPT WE HAVE IS ONLY A CONCEPT/LABEL ITS NOT REALITY.EGO---LETS GET TO THE FUTURE BARRIERS;ITS EASIER TO be high status than low status where you deal with self hatred etc.High status is about the social proof.Do you think you dont deserve the girl?? Eh why??.Life is about moving towards the authenticity even though its tough to get theretheres a journey to get there and thats life

Anticipated responses.Is there abundance of people who like me,A person of my status deserves to be treated well,People friendly or mean. DO I LIKE MYSELF,WOULD I HANG OUT WITH A PERSON LIKE ME, IF I SAW A GUY LIKE ME WITH A GREAT GIRL WOULD I ASK MYSELF WTF?----BASICALLY CAN A GIRL LIKE ME FOR WHO I AM---CAN I ANTICIPATE THAT A GIRL COULD LIKE ME FOR WHO I AM??-----THIS IS THE WHOLE DEAL( DEF AN ARGUMENT TO SAY THIS) Put personality on the line.Its not a big fucking deal dude Christ!!! Unstifle is like when I guy starts breakdancin and the crowd goes nuts-4 women its insane when u r unstifled and just walk up State is addictive-memories are state active dependentThe thoughts arise to you as opposed to you dig them up Am I being who IM meant to be?----moving towards core confidence Draw state from within-feel breath, inner body,yeehaa!! Non resistance right action=state Anticipated responses-would I hang with me,girl with me, Everyone is my friend, abundance of women who like me, World is a light place Going with the flow, world is a light place Identity criterion -----core confidence My opinion is more important about me than others Trust in the NOW, trust in faculties, be self forgetting Identity is arbitrary---it depends on how accepted it is, are you accepting me??? I have high value whether people see it or not. The halfway point between total belief and chode is indifference--- you can gather evidence that it really doesnt matter what anybody thinks of you---until eventually you cross the indifference threshold letting go of the outcomeloss of neediness Dont give your value away Hey who are you?This is key: You need to pummel your brain with so many references until it explodes and then your mind goes it doesnt matter what anyone thinks of me--- and wow!!! Ting ting ting!!!.Dont try to be confident, just try to be indifferent = no more pinging Unstifle every 5mins arrghhh happy birthday to you!!! Sing it and feel for stifling( cos its subtle)---do something that isnt really me, and expand out energetically with noise Imitation game-star jump-rooster-YELL MORE Girls can like me for who I am Sex is a natural consequence of energy and an inevitability