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Kisses and Huggs E-Book 1 by Dunamis & Sophia Okunowo

By Dunamis & Sophia OKUNOWO

SEX

AND THE LAW OF PROGRESSION


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KISSES AND HUGGS E-BOOK 1 By Dunamis & Sophia Okunowo SEX AND THE PROGRESSION LAW OF

Angie's heart palpitated and sweat broke forth on her crown. This must be a nightmare! Who included her in this horror-film cast? Her hands shook uncontrollably as she held the small card that confirmed she was three weeks pregnant. Slowly, resolutely and without a sound, tears cascaded down her beautiful face, washing down
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the softly applied brown powder on her face. Anguish filled her soul. She was truly downcast. She reminiscences. On the matriculation day, she had promised her parents she wouldn't let them down. She had even promised God. But now all her promises seemed like water poured into a basket. Sincerely, she never wanted it, but then she was pregnant. She looked at the Doctor who seemed unconcerned about her predicament. The Doctor waved
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his pen in an impatient way. The message was clear. She should decide whether she would keep the pregnancy or abort it. Abort? Oh God! She muttered under her breath. She could never keep the baby. She would rather die. In a dream-like jiffy, faces zoomed past her like an electric train: parents, siblings, her senior sister (she wouldn't even dare face her), her friends (what would Sade say? Oh dear! Brother Holy Moses), her lecturers, oh God, Mr. Ologbenla, Mrs. Kikelomo, Oh
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Jeez! She found it difficult to even imagine the shame of a supposedly trusted child of God now pregnant before marriage. She would rather die. Abortion? Think about it! Murder! She imagined God rewinding the scenes back to three weeks ago; her 'No' would have been stronger, more resolute and resounding. What would she do now? Abort or keep the pregnancy? She looked at the doctor who, of course, would prefer abortion just to make some money. The Doctor looked at Angie squarely
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in the face, but Angie was not going to make any decision. The Doctor decided for her. He collected the card from her and wrote on it, 'Evac' which stands for Evacuation. Sister Angie was a holy, straight forward and serious minded sister until she got engaged to Brother Godwin. Really, the year Angie matriculated into Olabisi Onabanjo University was the best year of her life in her own estimation. But the events of the years that followed were far from her wildest imagination.
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Angie was raised up in a strictly religious home with all the dos and do-nots in place. She was a good girl by moral standards. In fact, Angie wasn't her real name; Angie was derived from the word Angel, because she was an exact replica of an angel in her countenance, dispositions and mannerisms. It was her angelic charm that drew Godwin to her. As a fresher in college, she was a virgin. She absolutely promised herself that she would not compromise her
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virtue until marriage. The first gift she was going to present to her husband would be her virginity. She knew that it would be a sign of covenant between her and her husband when the blood flows out. She prayed, read her Bible, and she was even a potential Executive member in her fellowship until She easily blended into a campus fellowship because of her background. By her second semester, she was engaged to Brother Godwin who also was very spiritual. She thought she
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needed someone spiritual so that she could have a prayer partner and someone that would be praying for her consistently. When they got engaged, everything was okay. In fact, Brother Godwin found it difficult to hold Angies hands, let alone hug her. He was that holy! He would always maintain a Pentecostal distance each time they were together. He was always communing with the Holy Spirit. Their relationship seemed the most perfect thing in the world.
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However, with time, emotions became involved and both of them began to lower their guards. They began to freely hold hands, after all thats not a sin. Body no-be-wood! Emotion is like a wildfire, never satisfied, ready to consume everything on its way. Any emotion that would lead to your spiritual demotion should be avoided. After a while, holding hands became unfashionable and
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unsatisfactory, and gradually, beyond hand-shakes, there were shoulder-shakes, light hugsall sinless gestures, so they thought! But then, the flesh demanded for more. The flesh is never satisfied, it will always ask for more. One night, when Godwin was seeing Angie off, Godwin suddenly pulled Angie close to him and gave her a peck. To his utmost surprise, Angie never complained, it was as if
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Angie had been waiting for it. Angie simply gave him a look that said, Where did you keep this all the while? Was he in the spirit? Somehow, however, Godwin didn't feel right about that in his spirit; but then, the desire of the flesh had dulled his sensitivity to the spirit. He knew he wouldn't want to do that in daylight, it has to be at night time. Immorality is perpetuated in the atmosphere of secrecy. It takes
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closed doors to close up your destiny! Iniquity loses its power once exposed. The pecks continued systematically without any objection until one night, Angie asked Godwin, are you a woodpecker? He seemed initially confused. Cant you see that this side of my cheek now hurts? She asked, touching her right cheek, Godwins favorite spot.

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Pecks soon turned into light kisses, then heavy kisses, and so on. At this point, the angels had fled; their eyes would not behold evil. Conscience had become seared, and kissing was normal. It became just one of those things. When moral principles that govern a person's thoughts and actions have been violated, and there is conformity to one's own sense of right conduct, sin has taken a hold. With heavy petting and kissing every came other
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unspeakable stuff other than actual sex. Sin will never come with a bang; it will always come stealthily and subtly so that it can be perceived as normal. The secret of the deception of sin is in its entrapment method, subtlety. The devil never appears in black with two horns on his head and a long ugly fork in his hand; that is why he is called angel of light. It was steadily progressive. The spirit of lust had taken over while they were still acting in their fellowship. It was all so
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slowly progressive that it looked normal. Unconsciously, they figured out that God understands. The parachute may slow down the fall, but it is a matter of time; fall is imminent. The landing may be soft, but it is a fall all the same. Her filthiness is in her skirts; she remembereth not her last end; therefore she came down wonderfully: she had no comforter. O LORD, behold my affliction: for the enemy hath magnified himself.
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(Lam 1:9 KJV) In time, they ended up in a sexual experience. Angie had tried to resist, but Godwin was as vigorous as a lion, lost and consumed with lust. After the first time, they cried and repented; however, each time they got together, there was another session of sex. And then, they would repent again, admitting they had grieved the Holy Spirit. By the next time they meet, it would be the same story. This continued until Angie began to feel funny in her

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body. They decided to see a doctor secretly As Angie was being wheeled into the theater by an unemotional nurse who actually looked like a man, she cried the more. She was given some dose of anesthesia. The nurses brought out ugly looking surgical equipments, and as soon as Angie set her eyes on those, she passed out In what could pass for a dream or some form of vision, she saw herself cuddling a baby. What a beautiful boy. The little boy was
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giggling all the time. All of a sudden, she saw creatures that looked like elves, leading her to a very high cliff. She followed reluctantly even though she knew she shouldnt follow them. She wondered why she wasnt resisting, or praying or running away. Interestingly, the creatures looked powerless, almost begging her to move on. At the top of the cliff, the creatures pointed down the cliff and told her to throw the baby down. She refused.

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She started to negotiate and explain, but before she knew it, the creatures turned into fearful, monster-like beings and suddenly pushed her, still carrying the baby. It was at that moment she remembered God. She screamed The nurses calmed her down, and said it was over! They were through. There was blood all over and once again, she passed out. It has been two weeks since the abortion; she had broken

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her relationship with Godwin, intending to start all over again. As she sat before Pastor Dunamis in a counseling session to know the way forward, this is a summary of what Pastor Dunamis told her. Dunamis speaks to Angie You fell into three errors. You had three assumptions. There are three things you need to know about sex. Interestingly, there are also three ways you can move forward.
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THE THREE ERRORS 1. Your relationship was not mentored. You need mentors to avoid tormentors in life. When you are in a relationship, have a Pastor over your relationship. Make sure you are mentored. Have someone that speaks into your life. Mentoring does not make you a subordinate; it places you at the top among your contemporaries.

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If your intended spouse does not have a pastor or mentor, he or she is a disaster in the making. Submission to a higher spiritual authority is the pathway to accountability. Accountability shows responsibility. Mentoring is not an attempt by someone to poke into your affairs; rather it safeguards your relationship. The idea is that your mentor has gone through what you are struggling with right now. If he has gone through it successfully and he is still alive, there must be wisdom in his heart on how
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he overcame. wisdom.

Go after that

Jethro mentored Moses. Moses mentored Joshua. Samuel mentored David. Elijah mentored Elisha. Jesus mentored twelve disciples. Paul mentored Timothy. Get mentored. Without counsel, purposes are disappointed: but in the multitude of counselors, they are established. (Pro 15:22 KJV)

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2. You did not understand the purpose of relationship. Where purpose is not known, abuse is inevitable. During courtship, your bodies are not meant to come together in sexual intimacy. What should come together are your minds, an aligning of aspirations, dreams and visions. When your bodies come together outside the sanctity of a marriage covenant, you break Gods principles. Confusion then sets in.

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A believer is not a sinner. He might fall into sin once in a while, but he asks for forgiveness and never goes on living in that sin. But it is a different case when you are a habitual sinner and you are supposed to be a believer. Something is wrong then. A believer is no longer a sinner who is trying to be righteous; he is the righteous who is tempted with sin. People conceived and brought into life by God don't make a practice of sin. How could they? God's seed is deep within them,
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making them who they are. It's not in the nature of the Godbegotten to practice and parade sin. (1Jn 3:9 MSG) When sin has been given a foothold in a relationship, things will not always work out because sin is supposed to be an anathema to a believer. So what do we do? Keep on sinning so God can keep on forgiving? I should hope not! If we've left the country where sin is sovereign, how can we still live in our old house there? Or didn't you realize we packed up and
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left there for good? That is what happened in baptism. When we went under the water, we left the old country of sin behind; when we came up out of the water, we entered into the new country of grace--a new life in a new land! That's what baptism into the life of Jesus means. When we are lowered into the water, it is like the burial of Jesus; when we are raised up out of the water, it is like the resurrection of Jesus. Each of us is raised into a lightfilled world by our Father so that we can see where we're going in our new grace-sovereign country. Could it be any clearer?
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Our old way of life was nailed to the Cross with Christ, a decisive end to that sin-miserable life--no longer at sin's every beck and call! What we believe is this: (Rom 6:1-6 MSG) 3. Your relationship with God was not consistent. If your relationship was consistent, you would have been able to draw strength from God. Whatever sin you fell into was not imposed on you, you yielded. Each time you yield to your flesh or the devil, you have not been yielding to God.
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You have not been programmed to succeed on your own. With the arrival of Jesus, the Messiah, that fateful dilemma is resolved. Those who enter into Christ's being-here-for-us no longer have to live under a continuous, low-lying black cloud. A new power is in operation. The Spirit of life in Christ, like a strong wind, has magnificently cleared the air, freeing you from a fated lifetime of brutal tyranny at the hands of sin and death. God went for the jugular when he sent his own
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Son. He didn't deal with the problem as something remote and unimportant. In his Son, Jesus, he personally took on the human condition, entered the disordered mess of struggling humanity in order to set it right once and for all. The law code, weakened as it always was by fractured human nature, could never have done that. The law always ended up being used as a Band-Aid on sin instead of a deep healing of it. And now what the law code asked for but we couldn't deliver is accomplished as we, instead of redoubling our
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own efforts, simply embrace what the Spirit is doing in us. Those who think they can do it on their own end up obsessed with measuring their own moral muscle but never get around to exercising it in real life. Those who trust God's action in them find that God's Spirit is in them-living and breathing God! Obsession with self in these matters is a dead end; attention to God leads us out into the open, into a spacious, free life. Focusing on the self is the opposite of focusing on God. Anyone completely absorbed in
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self ignores God, ends up thinking more about self than God. That person ignores who God is and what he is doing. And God isn't pleased at being ignored. But if God himself has taken up residence in your life, you can hardly be thinking more of yourself than of him. Anyone, of course, who has not welcomed this invisible but clearly present God, the Spirit of Christ, won't know what we're talking about. (Rom 8:1-9 MSG)

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You will always need Gods help. That is why Jesus sent us the Helper. Any attempt to sort out sexual sin by your own strength would result in frustration. You will need God. And the way to have God is to have a consistent relationship with Him through His Word and prayers. THE THREE ASSUMPTIONS 1. That you are spiritually strong enough. When it comes to issues that have to do with relationships,
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you are as strong as how much you know that you are not. Don't be so naive and selfconfident. You're not exempt. You could fall flat on your face as easily as anyone else. Forget about self-confidence; it's useless. Cultivate Godconfidence. (1Co 10:12 MSG) Strength only comes from God. Iniquity is a mystery. It takes a higher mystery to combat it, not resolutions. 2. That there are little sins and big sins.
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Sin is sin. A car might be big or small, but a car is a car. All the stuffs you did before actual sex were as bad as having sex. Every act of uncleanness is an act of sin. Sin has no class, colour or level. 3. That somehow, everything would be okay. Everything will only be okay when you have not violated Gods principles. Once you disobey Him, I can assure you that everything will go awry. Everything might appear good
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for a while, but I can assure you, every act of unrighteousness will culminate in shame. Uprightness and right standing with God (moral and spiritual rectitude in every area and relation) elevate a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people. (Pro 14:34 AMP) The man that fell and the one that landed with a parachute, both came down. She played fast and loose with life, she never considered tomorrow, and now she's
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crashed royally, with no one to hold her hand: "Look at my pain, O GOD! And how the enemy cruelly struts." (Lam 1:9 MSG) THE THREE THINGS ABOUT SEX 1. Sex nature is progressive in

You dont always decide to have sex outside marriage if you are born again. But most believers end up having sex because they do not understand the law of progression as it relates to sex.
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The law says that you always move towards greater physical intimacy with your partner unless you consciously decide against it. What satisfied you the last time you met will not satisfy you the next time you meet. So there has to be a conscious agreement on what not to do during the period of engagement. This agreement must necessarily agree with Gods word. 2. Sex is not love

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Whoever wants you to prove your love by consenting to sex outside marriage is a compound fool! There is no love in that context, only gratification of a hormonal rush that will bring unprecedented heartaches. That sex is equal to love is an eternal aberration. So this is my prayer: that your love will flourish and that you will not only love much but well. Learn to love appropriately. You need to use your head and test your feelings so that your love is sincere and intelligent, not sentimental gush. Live a lover's
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life, circumspect and exemplary, a life Jesus will be proud of: bountiful in fruits from the soul, making Jesus Christ attractive to all, getting everyone involved in the glory and praise of God. (Philippians 1:9-11 MSG) 3. Sex is not important thing. the most

Food is more important than sex. You cannot survive for a year without eating, but personally, I survived for twenty-seven years without sex! I never had sex until I got married at twenty seven.
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Sex appears urgent, but what is urgent is not necessarily important. Sex can wait. You can wait. God wants you to wait. Sin doesnt have to lord it over you. Sin can't tell you how to live. After all, you're not living under that old tyranny any longer. You're living in the freedom of God. (Rom 6:14 MSG) Walk in the spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh.

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THE THREE WAYS TO MOVE FORWARD 1. Take a decision. Decisions create events. Decide for God. If you are in a relationship and your spouse wants to compromise all the time, it is better you call it off before harm is done. Sex is not what you do to cool off outside marriage. It is a sacred union to be enjoyed in the sanctity and sacredness of marriage.

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Honor marriage, and guard the sacredness of sexual intimacy between wife and husband. God draws a firm line against casual and illicit sex. (Heb 13:4 MSG) Let marriage be held in honor (esteemed worthy, precious, of great price, and especially dear) in all things. And thus let the marriage bed be undefiled (kept undishonored); for God will judge and punish the unchaste [all guilty of sexual vice] and adulterous. (Heb 13:4 AMP) 2. Start afresh
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This is the incredible thing about God. No matter how many times you blew it, God generously gives another chance. This then means that the power of guilt has been broken. You dont have to feel bad about what has happened, because in God, you never did all that. When you were stuck in your old sin-dead life, you were incapable of responding to God. God brought you alive--right along with Christ! Think of it! All sins forgiven, the slate wiped clean,
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that old arrest warrant canceled and nailed to Christ's Cross. He stripped all the spiritual tyrants in the universe of their sham authority at the Cross and marched them naked through the streets. (Col 2:13-15 MSG) Aside, your failures and trials become your strength, for He anoints you in the very place where you messed up and invariably, a message is birthed that sets others free who might be in situations in which you have been. The broken become masters at mending and your

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mess eventuates message.

into

For our light, momentary affliction (this slight distress of the passing hour) is ever more and more abundantly preparing and producing and achieving for us an everlasting weight of glory [beyond all measure, excessively surpassing all comparisons and all calculations, a vast and transcendent glory and blessedness never to cease!], (2Co 4:17 AMP) 3. Always be sincere with yourself.
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Never be caught in the web of self-deceit. Be straightforward so that your destiny can be straight. One degree away from truth is also falsehood. When fire is brewing under you, dont act as if youre in an air conditioned enclosure. You can only correct what you confront. Seek help. Dont hide. Talk to a man of God you trust. Once you talk about it, the power of sin is broken. Rev. Albert Femi Oduwole often says that when you stay in isolation, you die in desolation.
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The extent of your vulnerability is the degree to which you are secretive about your weaknesses. Sophia speaks to Angie Most of the people who eventually got pregnant before marriage would always tell you that they never planned for it. Almost all first-time sexual experiences outside marriage were a mistake. Its always the same storyone event led to the other and to the next and so on until it was done. This shows

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that sex nature.

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Sex is not an involuntary action; its usually preconceived and carried out in full consciousness of the activity. My husband always says that five minutes before you had sex, you already knew it would happen. People in love should learn to deliberately prevent such events from occurring. It is wise to have proper guards, and measures should put in place right from the onset of the relationship to ensure that you
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dont fall victims of pre-marital sex. When emotions are stirred up to the zenith, reasoning and common sense disappear. Listen ladies, you know and pray that someday youd meet a godly, handsome man whod ask you to be his wife. You know that someday youll be in love, and the climax of expression of feelings between two people in love is having sex. Do not try to ignore this fact; dont pretend it doesnt really mean anything to you, and dont turn away from it.

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Love is real, and the sexual feelings you have for the man you love is part of the love. So, face this fact and find the right way to handle those sexual drives. Set tangible, real and measurable standards for yourself. Set standards like: no touching below my neck region; no late night visits; no careless dressing and body language around him and so on. Most importantly, you should work on your mind. The Bible says to guard our hearts with all diligence since the issues of life
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flow out of it. Everything you do or would ever do is first preconceived in the heart consciously or unconsciously. If you are sincerely concerned about being a godly lady, keeping your virtue as God commands, then never stay away from Gods Word. Let the Word saturate the deepest parts of your mind. This single endeavour can save you a life time of woes. How can one keep a straight path? By hiding your Word in my heart! When Gods word is consistent in your heart, you think about it and
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meditate on it always, then youd become successful in all. This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success. (Josh 1:8 KJV) Gods Word in your heart will be a guard in your path; it will be your light in the darkness of temptations. It will become
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wisdom and strength to you when you need to take a stand. It will over-ride every emotional weakness because it is full of living power, sharper than a two-edged sword, piercing to the dividing of the soul and marrow, discerning our deepest thoughts. To the young men now, you need to take charge and assume your responsibility as the leader in the relationship. John Maxwell said that everything rises and falls on leadership. To a very large extent, the outcome of the relationship depends on
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your integrity. Take the lead, set the guide-lines. Even when you get together to pray, make it just that, and at holy hours too! What pictures do you have about the outcome of the relationship? Are you entertaining compromise? Do not let your guards down; do not allow for a lowered standard. Do not indulge your fianc. My pastor, Dr. Femi Oduwole, said, it doesnt matter + it doesnt matter = it matters. Remember, sex doesnt just
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happen. The events leading to it occur progressively at a very conscious level. If you dont allow these events, they wouldnt happen. The problem is that most men do not guard their thoughts and actions. Men! Be sincere; learn more about your sexuality. Know your extent of self-control so you can act within safe limits. If she makes you uncomfortable, then talk to her about it. Does she usually dress in a particular manner that gets you turned on? Just tell her to adjust her dressing pattern. Do not
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secretly enjoy such sexy appearances, thinking that the law of progression wont set in someday.
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