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Emotional Intelligence (EQ): Five Key Skills for Raising Emotional Intelligence
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Memory is also strongly linked to emotion. By learning to use the emotional part of your brain as w ell as the rational, youll not only expand your range of choices w hen it comes to responding to a new event, but youll also factor emotional memory into your decision-making process. This w ill help prevent you from continually repeating earlier mistakes. To improve your emotional intelligenceand your decision-making abilitiesyou need to understand and control the emotional side of your brain. This is done by developing five key skills. By mastering the first tw o skills, youll find skills three, four, and five much easier to learn.
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Can you experience intense feelings that are strong enough to capture both your attention and that of others? Do you pay attention to your emotions? Do they factor into your decision making? If any of these experiences are unfamiliar, your emotions may be turned dow n or turned off. In order to be emotionally healthy and emotionally intelligent, you must reconnect to your core emotions, accept them, and become comfortable w ith them.
Emotional intelligence (EQ) skill 4: Use humor and play to deal with challenges
Humor, laughter, and play are natural antidotes to lifes difficulties; they lighten your burdens and help you keep things in perspective. A good hearty laugh reduces stress, elevates mood, and brings your nervous system back into balance. Playful communication broadens your emotional intelligence and helps you: Take hardships in stride. By allow ing you to view your frustrations and disappointments from new perspectives, laughter and play enable you to survive annoyances, hard times, and setbacks. Smooth over differences. Using gentle humor often helps you say things that might be otherw ise difficult to express w ithout creating a flap. Simultaneously relax and energize yourself. Playful communication relieves fatigue and relaxes your body, w hich allow s you to recharge and accomplish more. Become more creative. W hen you loosen up, you free yourself of rigid w ays of thinking and being, allow ing you to get creative and see things in new w ays.
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The ability to manage conflicts in a positive, trust-building w ay is supported by the previous four skills of emotional intelligence. Once you know how to manage stress, stay emotionally present and aw are, communicate nonverbally, and use humor and play, youll be better equipped to handle emotionally charged situations and catch and defuse many issues before they escalate.
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Helpguides Bring Y our Life Into Balance Toolkit is a free training course that can help you develop your emotional intelligence skills. The toolkit is a step-by-step guide for progressively acquiring the skills you needrapidly reducing stress and connecting to your emotionsto improve your emotional intelligence, achieve your goals, and bring your life into balance. Go to Toolkit Related Articles Resources & References
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Improving Emotional Health You can be your best self w hen you are emotionally intelligentemotionally self-aw are, empathetic tow ards the feelings of othersand include this emotional aw areness in your decision-making process. Effective Communication W hile communication may seem simple, there are skills you can learn to avoid misunderstandings and improve your relationship w ith your spouse, family, or cow orkers. Relationship Help: Loving Relationships By understanding the principles of a healthy romantic relationship, you can help make your relationship more fulfilling, exciting, and meaningful.
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Stress Relief in the Moment Identify your ow n stress responses and learn how to quickly and effectively reduce stress in the middle of any challenging situation. Developing Emotional Awareness Learn more about the role your emotions play and how you can better manage them. Nonverbal Communication As the majority of the messages w e send are nonverbal, its important to understand and use body language in a w ay that builds better relationships at home and w ork. Successful Relationships How humor, laughter and play can be pow erful tools in building successful relationships. Conflict Resolution Skills - W hen handled positively, conflict can provide an opportunity to strengthen the bond betw een tw o people.
Authors: Jeanne Segal, Ph.D., and Melinda Smith, M.A. Last updated: March 2013.
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