THE 8th ANNUAL

2009 Program
Eight Years of Support for the Health
of Gay Men in the Southeast
SPONSORS

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 Welcome
Bienvenidos

Dear Participants for 2009:

Welcome to the eighth annual Southeast Regional Gay Men’s Health Summit. You are now a
part of a motivated and concerned group of gay men in the Southeast that believes in the vision
of creating a world in which gay men live healthier, happier, and longer lives. No longer do we
live in a closet of self-denial shrouded by the cloak of unacceptability that weighed so heavily
on those heroes who have gone before us. We are meeting for the third time in sunny Fort
Lauderdale, surrounded by tropical beauty and a staff of volunteers and hotel workers who sup-
port the outcomes we seek for this Summit.

The desire of the Board of Directors of SRGMHS, Inc is that you enjoy your time here in Fort
Lauderdale, a city that embraces our diversity and supports our efforts to promote healthy liv-
ing.

This year’s program is among the most comprehensive in our eight year history. We offer sci-
ence, nurturing, inspiration, self-awareness, thought provoking ideas, disease state information,
and FUN workshops, designed to deliver to you the highest quality of gay-centric health issues.
We trust that you will enjoy your time here and commit to making our next Summit even better
by volunteering to help organize the Southeast Regional Gay Men’s Health Summit 2010!

Sincerely,

Your Board of Directors

Ken Bargar, President

Butch McKay, Vice President
Bill James, Treasurer
David Fawcett, Secretary
Rodney Brown
Michael Corey
Sergio Farfan
Joseph Lennox-Smith
Sherry Meltz
Michael Emanuel Rajner
Joey Wynn

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MISSION
The mission of the Southeast Regional Gay Men’s Health Summit is
to improve the health and well being of gay, bisexual, and trans-
gender men living in living in the Southeast. This is accomplished
through the organization and delivery of quality education and in-
formation programs, utilizing vehicles designed to promote better
physical, spiritual, and mental health

PURPOSE
To enhance the well being of gay, bisexual, and transgender men liv-
ing in the Southeast United States in a way that utilizes educational
programs that enhance physical, spiritual, and mental health, in a
nurturing environment conducive to learning and building commu-
nity .

IMPACT
Summit participants will learn about the health challenges facing
gay, bisexual, and transgender men in the new millennium, create
collaborations, form new friendships, and create new strategies to
enhance positive self-regard and overall health improvement.

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 Acknowledgments

Abstract Review Committee

Michael Corey
John Peter Daly
Sergio Farfan
David Fawcett
Sherry Meltz
Michael Emanuel Rajner

Entertainment Committee
Eric Miller
Joey Wynn
And all entertainers

Program Booklet
Church of the Holy SpiritSong (Format)
COMPASS (Printing)

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 2009 Program Overview
Friday, August 28, 2009

Registration: Hotel Lobby 8:30AM—5:00PM

Display/Information Causeway 10:00 AM—6:00 PM

Welcome & Opening Luncheon 11:30 AM—12:45 PM

Compliments of Gilead Science Terra Ballroom

Breakout Session A 1:00 PM—2:30 PM

Room: Gulfstream A/B Scott Hall

Roderick Hurt
Building Awareness to Stop LGBT Hate-Motivated Violence

Room: Grand Salon A Terence Gorski

Homosexuality and Substance Abuse Relapse

Room: Grand Salon B Steven Dashiell

The Sociology of a "Swimmer's Build": Misrepresentation on
the Internet

Room: Grand Salon C Alvan Quamina

Kevin E. Bynes
ALL Aboard the Underground Railroad-LGBT Youth Health
Conductors, Leading Each Other to Freedom from Health
Disparities

Break 2:30 PM—2:45 PM

Breakout Session B 2:45 PM—4:15 PM

Room: Gulfstream A/B David Fawcett

M. Ross Seligson
Meth and Men: Building Strength and Community Through
Crisis (Panel)

Room: Grand Salon A Craig Spivey

"CHANGING THE TIDES" Incorporating Social Services in
Project Brotherhood A Black Men's Clinic

Room: Grand Salon B Victor Vila

Out of the Closet? Seeking Community Among Latino/
Hispanic Gay men in south Florida

Room: Grand Salon C George Castrataro

Legal Issues for Gay Men (Panel)
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Break 4:15 PM—4:30 PM

Breakout Session C 4:30 PM—6:00 PM

Room: Gulfstream A/B Jeremy Ward

Homophobia in the General Population

Room: Grand Salon A Eric Miller

Creative Fundraising at its Best

Room: Grand Salon B Jesus Felizzola

Culturally Competent Health Care for Gay Men With HIV/AIDS

Room: Grand Salon C Lori Jordahl

Toye Brewer
Picture This: a Visual Tour of STDs and What to do When You See
One

Manager’s Reception –Atrium 6:30 PM—7:00 PM

Plenary, Robert Donnelly-Terra Ballroom 7:00 PM

Sr. Dir., Health Policy, Johnson and Johnson, “Industry/J&J Perspective on
Health Care Reform. Sponsor:Tibotec

2009 Program Overview

Saturday, August 29, 2009

Display/Information— CAUSEWAY 8:00 AM—7:00 PM

Breakout Session D 8:15 AM—9:45 AM

Room: Grand Salon A Jessica Szymczyk

Feel Better Now: think Yourself to a Healthier Place

Room: Grand Salon B Laurence Osband

Other Options for Medical Transportation

Break 9:45 AM—10:00 AM

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Breakout Session E 10:00 AM—11:30 AM

Room: Gulfstream A/B Robert Traut

Jacques Menasche
"Think Sex - Outside the Box" for Young Gay or Bi-sexual Men

Room: Grand Salon A Robert Koehler

Laughter Therapy

Room: Grand Salon B Ray Garassino

Relationship Skills: How to Achieve Intimacy, Passion and
Connection through Dialogue

Room: Grand Salon C Anthony Quaglieri

Eco-Sex: Juice Up Your Erotic Life

Luncheon Plenary Terra Ballroom 11:30 AM—1:00 PM

Compliments of Bristol-Myers Squibb

Breakout Session F 1:00 PM—2:30 PM

Room: Gulfstream A/B Howard Zucker

Self-Image Photography: Discover the Healing Power

Room: Grand Salon A Michael Malette

Be Your Happiest!

Room: Grand Salon B Richard Mayora

Find Mr. Right, not Mr. Perfect

Room: Grand Salon C Tom Millner

Homosexism and the Quest for Intimacy

Break 2:30 PM—2:45 PM

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Breakout Session G 2:45 PM—4:15 PM

Room: Gulfstream A/B Joseph Lennox-Smith

Exercising and Eating for Fitness: You Look Fabulous Darling!

Room: Grand Salon A Michael Kasten

How MSBR (Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction) Improves Our
Health

Room: Grand Salon B David Forrest & Dano Beck

Tackling Unawareness: Overcoming Challenges to HIV Testing among
MSM Populations in South Florida with High Rates of Undiagnosed
HIV Infection

Room: Grand Salon C Robert Reynolds

Be Empowered!

Reception: Atrium 6:30 PM

Dinner: Terra Ballroom (Gilead Sciences) 7:00 PM
Entertainment: Tiffany Arieagus & Nikki Adams, DJ Jimmy P 8:00 PM
Talent Show: Hostess, Delores Cartier 9:00 PM
2009 Program Overview
Sunday, August 30, 2009

Prayer & Meditation—pool deck 8:00 AM—8:30 AM

Breakout Session H 9:00 AM—10:30 AM

Room: Gulfstream A/B Jamie Moran

Foundations of Flirting for Gay Men: Meeting, Connecting and
Feeling Better About Yourself

Room: Grand Salon A Joseph Lennox-Smith

Hiding in the Light: The Secrets of Abuse

Room: Grand Salon B Sherry Meltz

Reinventing the Self part II: Ten Tools for Positive Change

Room: Grand Salon C Ranier Deramus

Elethiana Mobley
The CBNCafe: Positively Living

Closing Session: Grand Salon E 10:45 AM—12:15 PM

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Scott Hall
Roderick Hurt
Building Awareness to Stop LGBT Hate-Motivated Violence
Many states, particularly in the South, do not have an infrastructure to report anti-LGBT hate crimes. Bro-
ward County has the highest rate of anti-LGBT hate crimes in Florida. Hate motivated violence can be effec-
tively addressed through community mobilization and awareness. The presentation will provide handouts,
information on the current situation in southern states regarding anti-LGBT violence and provide opportuni-
ties for discussion. Violence is a health issue faced by gay and bisexual men which impacts health in many
ways, such as unsafe sexual behaviors, community self-esteem, and feelings of disempowerment.
Scott Hall is the Executive Director, and Dr. Rodrick Hurt is on the Board of Directors of The Gay
American Heroes Foundation, a national organization committed to honoring and remembering LGBT vic-
tims of hate crimes. Through community education campaigns to bring about awareness, support for victims
and families of victims of violence, and the promotion diversity the Foundation hopes to affect change both
inside and out of the LGBT community. The Foundation aims to build the largest memorial to the victims of
LGBT violence in the world as a tool to organize.
Terence Gorski
Homosexuality and Substance Abuse Relapse
This presentation addresses the relationship between acceptance of homosexuality and the tendency to relapse
to addictive disorders. In addiction, gay men often use their drugs of choice to deal with their pain of being
gay in a straight society. The addictive drug of choice can be used to manage feelings of shame, guilt, anger,
and pain that often emerges during the acceptance process of being gay in a straight world. It will also ex-
plore why many men fail to integrate their sexual orientation in sobriety by compartmentalizing their recov-
ery from their sexuality. They often become unwilling or unable to act out their true sexual orientation while
sober. Some even fall back into denial of their homosexuality and refuse to become involved sexually with
men. This can result in periods of self imposed abstinence from affection, intimacy, and sexuality and violates
the first principle of addiction recovery, which is rigorous honesty. Approaches to managing and resolving
these problems within a Relapse Prevention context will be explored.
Terence T. Gorski is a pioneer in the development of Relapse Prevention Therapy, who has achieved
international acclaim for his work. He is the Director of Relapse Prevention Services for Challenges in Fort
Lauderdale, Florida and is also the Founder and President of The CENAPS® Corporation. He serves on the
Board of Directors of the Florida School of Addiction Studies and Florida NAADAC and the South East Flor-
ida Chapter of the National Association of Addiction Counselors. He has developed special expertise in help-
ing gay men and lesbians avoid relapse during the crucial early recovery period where acceptance of both ad-
diction and sexual orientation are critical to recovery. Mr. Gorski has a BA Degree from Northeastern Illi-
nois University, and a MA Degree from Webster University in St. Louis, Missouri, and is a Certified Addiction
Professional in Florida, a Master Addiction Counselor (MAC) and Nationally Certified Addiction Counselor
(NCAC II) by NAADAC, and a Senior Certified Addiction Counselor (CSAC) in the State of Illinois.
Steven Dashiell
The Sociology of a "Swimmer's Build": Misrepresentation on the Internet
The internet plays a key part in the lives of many American citizens, with a disproportionate number of people
getting “online” at any given time during the day. The internet has quickly become a common locale to meet
both friends and potential sex partners. Research has looked at the quality of such connections, but few have
looked at the inherent honesty that goes along with internet interactions. Individuals have come to expect a
bit of “stretching the truth” with the internet, but how much is too much? And what are general ideas about
misrepresentation among future partners? This will lead to a discussion as to "why", and if someone is not as
advertised upon meeting, why does the encounter still go on?
Steven Dashiell, MA, is adjunct faculty for CCBC and Towson University in Maryland in the field of
Sociology. His research concentrations are in the fields of health sociology, communication theory, and urban
sociology. He has completed research on the concepts of internet misrepresentation, and is doing research on
the concept of male commercial sex workers before embarking off to a PhD program. He has worked in com-
munity based organizations in Maryland and currently works for Baltimore City government and Johns Hop-
kins University.
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Alvan Quamina
Kevin E. Bynes
ALL Aboard the Underground Railroad-LGBT Youth Health Conductors, Leading Each
Other to Freedom from Health Disparities
In the gay youth community there are innovative and brilliant thinkers who have everything they need to be
the leaders in an LGBT health movement that centrally includes but is bigger than HIV/AIDS. LGBT Youth
are impacted by a variety of health issues at rates far beyond their heterosexual peers. Substance abuse, tobacco
use, violence and domestic violence, depression and mental health, are all issues that greatly affect LGBT youth,
although there are few programs that address these health issues. Presenters will review the Youth Health Con-
ductors Program and facilitate an interactive discussion implementing health education services that are broad
yet inclusive of HIV and AIDS. There will be a conversation about working with youth to create diffusive health
behavior changes within gay youth communities including underlying theories and the pros and cons & do's and
don'ts of implementing the LGBT Youth Health Conductor's Curriculum.
Alvan Quamina, JD, Ph.D is Executive Director and Kevin E. Bynes M. Ed is Director of Programs of
AIDS Project of the East Bay. Working closely with the Sexual Minority Alliance of Alameda County, and with
funding from the City of Oakland, AIDS Project of the East Bay has developed a program that taps into the
brilliance and creativity of LGBT youth and works with them to address health issues in their own community.
To date the program has served hundreds of youth and has made several operational adjustments based on our
experiences. Three groups of youth have graduated totaling about 50 in the first 5 months of the program.
David Fawcett
M. Ross Seligson
Meth and Men: Building Strength and Community Through Crisis (Panel)
This panel discussion will explore the south Florida gay community’s response to methamphetamine, a contrib-
uting factor to the nation’s highest rates of HIV infection. Meth’s arrival in 2003 was atypical, seen first in the
offices of HIV practices, psychotherapists, and 12 step rooms. It was quickly determined that a serious epidemic
was developing, the course of which was evident from similar patterns on the west coast. Meth and Men South
Florida grew out of the South Florida Meth Task Force as a specific set of interventions for the gay community.
It serves as a model for community-based response, a successful and rare collaboration of multiple agencies, tire-
less volunteerism, and grassroots participation. This panel discussion will discuss lessons learned from this ex-
perience and their applicability to other emerging health concerns for gay men.
Dr. David Fawcett is a social worker and board certified sex therapist in private practice in Fort
Lauderdale. He also serves as Clinical Coordinator of SunServe’s Meth and Men Project, is chairman of the
Emerging Issues Task Force of the United Way/Broward County Commission on Substance Abuse, and facili-
tates the “Connections” series on gay men’s wellness, sex, and relationships at Fusion, a center operated by the
Broward County Department of Health. He is a frequent speaker both locally and nationally on gay men’s
health issues.
M. Ross Seligson PhD is a clinical and forensic psychologist in private practice in Ft. Lauderdale. He
also is on the faculty at Nova Southeastern University and has many years of community service for the LGBT
community. He is Chairman of SunServe's Meth and Men South Florida project.
Craig Spivey
"CHANGING THE TIDES" Incorporating Social Services in Project Brotherhood A Black
Men's Clinic
Project Brotherhood is a multidisciplinary men's health program designed to integrate black men into health
care. Project Brotherhood offers an array of services that, in combination, offer a comprehensive circle of health,
mental health, job readiness, HIV testing and education, and a complimentary hair cut. Project Brotherhood
understands the need to provide services for African American MSM men who practice high risk behaviors in the
south side community of Chicago. Our main goal is to connect with the men with prevention intervention that
precedes STI’s and HIV/AIDS. We are currently in collaborated with the AIDS foundation and the Chicago
Black Gay Men’s Caucus Taskforce Prevention Services, on reaching and connecting with the men for medical
and social services. We have a proposed theoretically based conceptual model to improve our outreach efforts of
connecting with the men.
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Craig Spivey (Continued)
Mr. Spivey serves Project Brotherhood as the Director of Social Services, specializing in serving men who are
disenfranchised. With over fifteen years of professional experience in social services. Mr. Spivey is a key mem-
ber of the leadership team who develops, organizes and implements vital social programming within Project
Brotherhood. Mr. Spivey has a Masters of Social Work degree from the University of Illinois at Chicago and
holds certifications as an American Red Cross HIV/AIDS educator and HIV Prevention and Test counselor.
Mr. Spivey also serves as a local board member of the Joint Commission on Accreditation of Health Care, a
Congressman Danny Davis Health Task force committee member.

Victor Vila
Out of the Closet? Seeking Community Among Latino/Hispanic Gay Men in South Florida
Individuals who have multiple subordinate identities are subjected to harsher penalties in society. This in-
cludes gay men who are of African, Asian and or Latino/Hispanic descent and may also apply to elderly, dis-
abled or low income. This places them at higher risk for emotional and physical health problems and greater
isolation. These individuals must navigate contested identities; ethnicity and sexuality while adapting to life
as a minority in the U.S. The Centers for Disease Control: Hispanics/Latinos comprise 15% of the US popula-
tion, but accounted for 17% of all new HIV infections occurring in the United States in 2006. According to
the 2000 census, blacks make up approximately 13% of the US population. However, in 2005, blacks ac-
counted for 49% of new HIV/AIDS diagnoses in the US. Community centers, outreach and support can make
a huge difference. Through interactive discussion this workshop will explore successful ways that Hispanic/
Latino gay men in south Florida promote health while maneuvering multiple identities.
Victor C. Vila is an advocate for LGBT issues in South Florida. He received a M.A. in comparative
sociology from Florida International University and continues to research issues facing LGBT people and as-
serts the importance of education, community centers and public spaces as correlates to over all LGBT health.

George Castrataro
Legal Issues for Gay Men (Panel)
This panel will discuss topics of special interest to gay men that directly and indirectly impact issues of health and
wellness.
Born in New York, George moved to Florida in 1992 where he pursued his undergraduate degree at
the University of South Florida, subsequently receiving a Masters Degree in Public Health. Following gradu-
ate school George worked extensively in the public health field both as a manager with the Florida Depart-
ment of Health and later at the National American Red Cross in Washington, DC. While at the Red Cross,
George oversaw operations for one of the largest national disease prevention programs in the country. George
has published research and numerous scholarly articles in the areas of public health and infectious disease. In
2001, George founded Non-Profit Capacity Builders, Inc (NPCB) and simultaneously pursued his Juris Doc-
torate at Florida International University. During NPCB's first year, it secured in excess of $2,000,000 in
grant funding. After graduating law school, George accepted the role of Supervising Attorney for Legal Aid
Service of Broward County, Inc. where he managed the Consumer and HIV Law section, and subsequently
created the Human Rights section. As an attorney, Mr. Castrataro is a nationally recognized expert in con-
sumer law and foreclosure defense. His work in consumer law has been featured by the Associated Press, CBC
Primetime News, and numerous local media sources. In 2007, he spear-headed the creation of a Blue-Ribbon
Foreclosure Panel and co-chaired the panel with Broward County Mayor Lois Wexler. In 2008, George created
the Law Offices of George Castrataro, PA where he provides legal services in a wide array of areas ranging
from civil litigation, bankruptcy, discrimination, small business and health law.

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Jeremy Ward
Homophobia in the General Population
This workshop presents the findings from a study wherein community attitudes toward homosexuality and fear of
HIV/AIDS were examined. Various social and demographic factors of participants were assessed and compared
with their responses regarding their attitudes toward both homosexuality and HIV/AIDS in an attempt to see
which factors might be predictive of homophobia and fear of HIV/AIDS in the general population. Workshop par-
ticipants will gain a better understanding of homophobia in the community at large, including information that
will help them to avoid stereotyping others and continuing the cycle of prejudice. Also, participants will learn
about factors associated with increased and decreased homophobia, suggesting ways to successfully challenge ho-
mophobia and encourage tolerance among heterosexual individuals.
R. Jeremy Ward, M.A., is a Northwest Florida native who completed his undergraduate work at Florida
State University before getting his Masters in Psychology at The University of West Florida. He has worked in
HIV prevention for the past 6 years and currently resides in Pensacola Florida managing HIV prevention inter-
ventions for Okaloosa AIDS Support and Information Services (OASIS).

Eric Miller
Creative Fundraising at its Best
Fundraising and staffing constraints are something we all know and experience during such hard economic times.
As grants sunset and less funds are coming in to LGBT centers, we must think out of the box to expand our efforts
with less staff and money. Social networking is where it is at in the HIV Prevention arena. Delores Cartier will
take you through this drag extravaganza and presentation to help you in solving these issues.
Eric has been on the Compass team since October 2001, and currently fulfills his passion as the HIV Pre-
vention Coordinator. He is involved with local, regional, and national level HIV related organizations, including
prevention, testing, care, advocacy, and activism. Eric also provides education to various community organiza-
tions in Palm Beach County. Eric coordinates outreach and community organizing as well as educational interven-
tions at the group and individual level. He pioneered an Internet outreach program at Compass targeting MSM
and has coordinated the CTL, and POL interventions. Currently Eric is coordinating Social Networking Strategies.
Eric has been instrumental in building the LGBT recovery community, instituting LGBT support and social
groups at Compass. In addition, Eric is co-chair of the Names Project of South Florida, as a board member that
brings the AIDS Memorial Quilt to South FL many times a year. Eric is also a Representative for the Names Pro-
ject Foundation.

Jesus Felizzola
Culturally Competent Health Care for Gay Men With HIV/AIDS
Cultural competence in the delivery of health care services for diverse population is positively associated with pa-
tient satisfaction, treatment adherence, and health outcomes. The purpose of this presentation is to familiarize
participants with cultural practices that may influence the way MSM with HIV utilize health care and manage
their conditions. The BESAFE Model of Cultural Competency is proposed as a framework for providers working
with MSM. The presentation will cover: Culture and gay culture; The BESAFE Model for MSM (Barriers to
care, Ethics, Sensitivity of the Provider, Assessment, Facts, Encounters); Using the BESAFE Model; Conclusions;
Questions and comments. Participants will 1. Understand the basic principles of cultural competency in HIV
care for MSM 2. Recognize the six domains of the BESAFE Model 3. Become familiar with approaches to im-
prove one’s ability to provide culturally competent care to MSM with HIV.
Jesus Felizzola, MD is the Cultural Competency Program Manager for the National Minority AIDS Edu-
cation and Training Center (NMAETC) at Howard University College of Medicine. He has served as a Principal
Investigator for a HRSA grant to evaluate HIV outreach models in South Florida and Co-Principal Investigator
for NIH grant to develop research infrastructure with Latinos in South Florida. He has served as Associate Direc-
tor for the Latino HIV/AIDS Behavioral Sciences Center at Florida International University and Evaluation Ser-
vices Manager with Care Resource in Miami, FL. He has consulted numerous organizations including Wake Forest
University School of Medicine and Tri-County Community Health Council in North Carolina, the National Asso-
ciation of People with AIDS, The Village South, Miami AIDS Project, and the Haitian American Nurses Associa-
tion. He participated in the development of a community-mobilizing intervention targeting gay men of color in
Miami, Florida.
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Lori Jordahl
Toye Brewer
Picture This: a Visual Tour of STDs and What to do When You See One
Among men in Florida from January to June of 2009 there has been a 36% increase in infectious syphilis compared
to 2009 (much higher in counties such as Miami - Dade) among men. Over half of the MSM diagnosed with syphilis
are HIV positive. Not recognizing or looking for rashes or sores in yourselves or partners contribute to the growing
spread of STDs/HIV. This "visual tour" will begin with a PowerPoint presentation of Syphilis and other STDs in
Men who have sex with Men in Florida and the Southeast along with some contributing co-factors. What to do
when you see one, or not, as: you may be asymptomatic or have been told you were exposed, will also be covered.
Participants will be given an opportunity to participate in an "Ask the Doctor" segment.
Lori Jordahl MBA-HA., works for the Miami Dade County Health Dept STD Program. She has extensive experi-
ence working with sexual health as an educator, counselor, manager, researcher, author and speaker. As one of the
first HIV counselors and trainers in Florida, Lori remains an advocate for the sexual health of MSM.
Dr Toye Brewer is currently Medical Officer and Epidemiologist for the CDC, STD Prevention Florida
Field Unit. She has extensive experience in and outside of the U.S. as an Infectious Disease Physician, STD/HIV
clinic manager, researcher, author and speaker. She is currently engaged in research on Florida’s syphilis epidemic.

Breakout Sessions Saturday, August 29, 2009

Jessica Szymczyk
Feel Better Now: think Yourself to a Healthier Place
The “Feel Better Now” workshop is designed to demonstrate specific cognitive/behavioral techniques that will im-
prove participants’ mood immediately. These techniques are easily practiced and repeatable both during and after
the workshop. Participants will have the opportunity to create their own “emotional scale” during the workshop,
which can serve as a visual tool to manage mood on a daily basis. The workshop will be interactive and will explore
the internal dialogs that many non-heterosexual people “play in their minds” which contribute to depression and
anxiety.
Jessica Szymczyk is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with a MA from Rollins College in Winter Park,
Florida. She works at the HUG-Me Program, affiliated with Orlando’s Arnold Palmer Hospital, counseling indi-
viduals infected and affected by HIV. She has worked with the GLBT community for over eight years and is an
advocate for understanding and education for underserved populations in Central Florida. Jessica has a warm pres-
entation style and infuses her talks with humor and self-disclosure. Jessica currently lives in Kissimmee Florida and
shares her life with two horses, three cats, three dogs, a cockatiel and one husband.

Laurence Osband
Other Options for Medical Transportation
This workshop will provide an overview of available medical transportation services and will include information on
how to improve systems for tomorrow in both urban and rural areas. We will discuss how programs of other disabil-
ity groups are already providing services that most people don’t know about.
After 30 years of service in all fazes of the transportation industry from driver to fleet operator; then hav-
ing major health issues, I became a Healthcare and Transportation advocate. The combination of the two makes for
being able to work with over 30 nonprofits in the Palm Beach County area to provide the best information for the
clients we serve. I currently attend all meetings of the Palm Beach County Transit Authority on behalf of the cli-
ents in the Ryan White Healthcare programs.

Robert Traut
Jacques Menasche
"Think Sex - Outside the Box" for Young Gay or Bi-sexual Men
The MGroup is a focus group where we will talk about our community and what's going on in it. We discuss the dif-
ficulties of meeting people in our community, the facts about safe sex, and how to negotiate safe sex. MGroups are
designed to be fun and interactive and are very different. It’s a safe place to talk about your concerns regarding

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your relationships and sex. The MGroup is not a lecture – it is an open dialogue between all participants, with
a few games tossed in here and there to add to the fun! So come join us for this chance to openly talk about the
challenges affecting our community. The MGroup is not a lecture – it is an open dialogue between all partici-
pants, with a few games tossed in here and there to add to the fun! So come join us for this chance to openly
talk about the challenges affecting our community.
Robert Traut moved to South Florida in 1990 from Connecticut and lives with his partner in Fort
Lauderdale. Robert’s many years of leadership experience with American Express has recently led him to the
Broward House. The Broward House is a county wide non-profit social service organization that provides a
number of services to individuals living with or at risk for HIV/AIDS. Currently Robert is the Director of the
MProject. The MProject, a community-level HIV prevention intervention for young gay men ages 18-30 seeks
to build a strong, supportive young gay community where men nurture and protect each other, particularly
regarding HIV prevention. The MProject promotes a norm for safer sex through a variety of social, outreach
and small group activities. Robert is also a certified HIV/AIDS counselor. He became an ordained Deacon in
2005. He serves as a Board Member at Church of the Holy SpiritSong in Wilton Manors. Other community
volunteer commitments include the local GLBT Task Force Group, Broward County HIV/AIDS Prevention
Plan, Men & Meth SFL, and Big Brothers Big Sisters of Broward County.
Jacques Menasche is the program specialist for the MProject, a program of Broward House. He is a
certified HIV/AIDS counselor and runs all of the activities for the group. Jacques has been an active member
of the MProject for two years and has been working for the MProject since 2008. He is currently a full time
student at Broward College and is happily engaged to his life partner Chris Smart.

Robert Koehler
Laughter Therapy
“Laughter Therapy” We are all bombarded by thousands of negative thoughts every day. In order to deal
with the negative effects of stress, this fun, energetic and innovative session will help participants to under-
stand the health benefits of laughter and learn how to incorporate laughter into their everyday lives. Partici-
pants need only an open mind and a willingness to learn. Laughter exercises are combined with gentle breath-
ing and stretching exercises for a holistic healing effect. Come join in the fun and laugh your worries away!
Robert Koehler: Robert Koehler is a certified Laughter Therapy leader and conducts classes for re-
treats, corporate events, health and wellness centers, faith-based groups, and special events. A native Atlan-
tan, Robert has over 20 years experience in marketing research, computer consulting, and management in
both the corporate and non-profit arenas.

Ray Garassino
Relationship Skills: How to Achieve Intimacy, Passion and Connection through Dialogue
Many gay men have experienced that building intimate, committed, satisfying and enduring relationships
with other men has been elusive and difficult. This workshop will explore some of the issues that prevent suc-
cessful relationships and give some tools for strengthening and building long-lasting intimacy. Special atten-
tion will be given to communication skills, as well as discussion of essential ingredients needed to make a rela-
tionship flourish. Participants will learn how to create safety in communication, the three necessary ingredi-
ents in dialogue that leads to connection, and then have the opportunity to practice these essential elements of
communication. Handouts will also be given with a discussion of tips and pointers of making a relationship
work.
Ray Garassino, LCSW, ACSW is in private practice in Wilton Manors, FL. He is a Certified Imago
Relationship therapist, and specializes in work with gay male couples. He and his partner of 30 years, Tom
Millner, also raised two adopted children from infancy, and have one beautiful 6 yr. old granddaughter. Ask
Ray to show you a picture.

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Anthony Quaglieri
Eco-Sex: Juice Up Your Erotic Life
Gabriel Rotello’s book (1997) about the impact of AIDS on the destiny of gay men, "Sexual Ecology," advocates a
systemic/ecological approach to our sexual expression, centered on the principles of respect, balance, and conscious
use of resources. Eco-Sex embodies this sentiment in action. We live on a totally juicy planet, so why shouldn’t
expect more juice from our sex lives? When men come together for sex, they join as individual eco-systems in pur-
suit of sustenance and a shared exchange of resources. This session will explore our erotic lives from an ecological
viewpoint: how you can choose to run your sex life through the principles of sustainability, regeneration, reciproc-
ity, and stewardship; in the service of making your erotic life as juicy, fun, and satisfying as it can be. Lecture and
brief exercises. Sharing and participation will be encouraged but not required.
Anthony Quaglieri, Ph.D., has been a licensed psychotherapist in private practice in Tampa since 1975. In
addition, he has taught sexuality education in treatment centers, clinics, and at the university level. Dr. Quaglieri’s
workshops on transforming erotic habits and the conscious pursuit of ecstasy are well attended in Tampa. His pro-
fessional work and creative life is inspired by mindfulness practices, ecopsychology, yoga and Kundalini, psycho-
drama, transpersonal psychology, Developmental Play, and Tantra.

Howard Zucker
Self-Image Photography: Discover the Healing Power
Have you ever felt that the camera is your enemy or that photography can change your life? You do not have to be
a supermodel to admire your image. Consider that what you imagine and what is in the mirror may be different.
Howard Zucker will explain how his innovative concept of SELF IMAGE PHOTOGRAPHY can be a powerful tool
to raise self-awareness and self esteem. It can promote self-discovery, address issues such as body image and aid in
healing past traumas. In conjunction with psychotherapy, we find that the results can be dramatic. A panel com-
prised of therapists and clients who have been through the process will take questions and discuss their experiences
and personal impacts as their photos are displayed. Strictly on a volunteer basis, a limited number of attendees will
have the opportunity for a first hand account of what has been presented through a mini photo shoot. Upon conclu-
sion, participants will have developed an enhanced understanding that in the right environment photography can
have tremendous therapeutic value and discover the camera can be your friend!
Born and raised in New York City, life has given me a wonderful perspective on the diversity of our coun-
try in general and the gay community. With a degree in business, I worked 15 years as Manager for a Wall Street
International Banking Software Firm. When my longstanding passion for photography became my driving priority,
I became a professional photographer, working with a wide range of clients for over 10 years. In May 2006, having
overcome a near death illness, I relocated to Florida for a new beginning. Since that experience I am even more
committed to making a difference, individual by individual, through my photography. I have found that by con-
necting with a person’s essence, the photographic experience can be instrumental in bringing about a significant,
positive change in each individuals’ understanding and acceptance of themselves and the way they view their body
image -- both in an overall positive way and in their everyday lives.

Michael Malette
Be Your Happiest!
Happiness isn’t a shapeless myth that you throw around like a Frisbee. Being happier isn’t all about money, par-
ties and social status. With the facilitated skills in this workshop, you can find that if you pay attention to doing
things that make you happier, keep an open mind and put in the effort, you can experience others ways to loving
your life. Sometimes there’s a fear of failure that gay men encounter when it comes to being happier. Often we en-
counter men who exist out there that are mired in their own misery and refuse to "be happy", we will talk about
that. First, you have to assume you have the power to make anyone happy! In truth, you are kind, understanding
and delightful, and again, this interactive workshop will dwell on your own well-being with communication, listen-
ing and mindset skills to develop your happiness.
Michael J. Malette, LSC Michael Malette is a gay man and Life Strategies Coach that broadcasts on
blogs, facilitates, writes and reads because he loves to. “Active gratitude, counting my blessings and actually taking
time during the day to do so, is probably my single most important practice.” To live a happier life with personal
tragedies, he has educated and facilitated in clinic, group and individual settings for the Homeless, Prison Release,
American Red Cross HIV Education and Toastmasters International. With advanced education in Psychology,
Public Speaking and Spiritual Living, he continues to pursue motivational speaking, workshops and group facilita-
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Richard Mayora
Find Mr. Right, not Mr. Perfect
Finding a suitable mate can be very challenging in the gay community, particularly when some men may not be
suitable relationship material. This workshop examines relationship readiness, some self-exploration to understand
the mate selection process and barriers to finding that special person to share your life with. In this very interactive
session, participants will explore past patterns of behavior to develop some insight on how to improve their selec-
tion process. They will also learn some dating skills which focus on breaking down some social barriers. Workshop
participants will engage in large and small group exercises to share their experiences and offer other group members
feedback. Participants will explore more venues to meet a potential partner. They will also examine their own
readiness to making a commitment. The group also attempts to help the men focus on what qualities they actually
seek in a partner and to learn dating skills to like n the chance of finding Mr. Right.
Richard Mayora is a licensed therapist and a certified addictions counselor. He supervised the clinical ser-
vices at Community Healthcare CenterOne and currently works at Broward General . He teaches at the Institute
for Addiction Studies and The Academy for Addiction Professionals and works at Destination Hope, a men's sub-
stance abuse treatment center.
Tom Millner
Homosexism and the Quest for Intimacy
We interpret our world based upon our perceptions of reality. Much of what we term as homophobia is largely het-
erosexism. Most gay men undergo the process of "coming out" as overcoming what are often termed as barriers, ex-
isting as a result of a heterocentric environment. In most cultures, the majority rules, resulting in challenges to
those in minority situations. We will explore those elements of the heterosexual milieu that influence our own inter-
pretation of what it means to be gay. We will look closely at how our perceptions of what constitutes our subculture
is often the result of our own defensive mindset that creates another often oppressive environment that thwarts our
quest for true intimacy. Operational definitions will be explored as we seek to better understand how to achieve our
heart desire for intimacy in relation to self, our love, our lives.
Reverend Tom Millner is one of the founders of the Southeastern Gay Men's Health Summit and is cur-
rently the Senior Pastor at Church of the Holy SpiritSong in Wilton Manors, Florida. Before becoming a minister,
Rev Millner created a consulting business for organization development (The Thrivalist). He retired from the Phar-
maceutical business after 32 years in 2005. He and his partner of 30 years, Ray Garassino (a local licensed Imago
Therapist) have lived in Fort Lauderdale for 12 years. They have reared two children (adopted at infancy), and en-
joy the life of grandparents to the most lovely grandchild living! (Just ask about Vanessa)
Joseph Lennox-Smith
Exercising and Eating for Fitness: You Look Fabulous Darling!
“If I had known that I was going to last this long I would have taken better care of myself;” I don’t remember who
said it but it is so true. While many of us are “boomers” others are just getting started staying in shape is what it is
all about in our community (not that we are shallow or anything). It is particularly important for those of us who
are getting older, or who are HIV positive. Working out without damaging ourselves in the process, and eating
properly to naturally control cholesterol, triglycerides, sugar and high blood pressure is quite a trick. We also want
to maintain flexibility and range of motion (just in case we should get lucky). For the younger guys it is also impor-
tant to do it correctly from the beginning. Participants will learn how to maintain health through diet and exercise.
This is not about building bulk; it is about staying in shape and living a healthier life.
Joseph L. Lennox-Smith. M.Ed., a PLWH since 1987, has been active in the HIV community as a speaker,
instructor, advocate, and volunteer since 1993. He has served on many state and local planning bodies, and is the
founder and ED of Positive Education, Inc., and is currently pursuing his doctorate at USF.
Michael Kasten
How MSBR (Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction) Improves Our Health
Throughout this unique workshop, we will 1) Uncover what science currently knows about how our mind works
specific to stress; how stress actually occurs, how and why we produce it, and reveal the latest research information
about the physical and mental effects that stress has on us. 2) Explain what Mindfulness is; what the practice of
MBSR (Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction or Insight Meditation) looks like and what Mindfulness can do for us as
a practice in reducing stress in our daily lives. 3) Engage in a guided meditation. 4) Provide time for discussion.
5) Leave participants with good, quality information about how they can begin their very own Mindfulness Medita-
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David Forrest
Dano Beck
Tackling Unawareness: Overcoming Challenges to HIV Testing among MSM Populations in
South Florida with High Rates of Undiagnosed HIV Infection
Previous research indicates that the majority of new HIV infections in the U.S. are occurring among men who have
sex with men (MSM) and are transmitted by persons unaware of their HIV infection. Preliminary data from the 2008
National HIV Behavioral Surveillance (NHBS) study among MSM in Miami-Dade County reveal alarming rates of
HIV infection and of previously undiagnosed HIV infection. Five groups of HIV-positive MSM stand out as having
significantly higher rates of previously undiagnosed infection: recently or currently homeless MSM (83%), bisexual-
identified MSM (82%), recently incarcerated MSM (73%), black (non-Hispanic) MSM (72%), and younger MSM (ages
18-34) (66%). These data will be used to discuss ways to promote regular HIV testing among these populations. Data
on the risk behaviors and other prevention needs of study participants will also be used to inform discussion in this
interactive workshop.
David W. Forrest, Ph.D. is a Research Assistant Professor at the University of Miami School of Medicine. He
oversees field operations of the Miami-Dade County site of the National HIV Behavioral Surveillance.
Dano Beck, M.S.W., is the behavioral surveillance coordinator for the Florida Department of Health, Bureau
of HIV/AIDS. In this position, he coordinates an ongoing study to monitor behavioral trends among populations at
high risk for HIV infection in South Florida. Prior to this role, he has held various research, project coordination, and
consulting positions at health agencies and non-profit organizations.
Robert Reynolds
Be Empowered!
You are taking control of your health, not letting your health control you. Will it be tough? Yes. The roller coaster of
fears, emotions, unfamiliar experiences lie before you. Whatever your initial response was to testing HIV positive,
remember that you have more control than you think. It's easy to forget. You might choose to jump in and learn
everything you can about the virus. You might choose to take a vacation from HIV for a time, knowing you'll deal
with things later. Or you might just pretend you never tested HIV positive in the first place. It's your call. It's up to
you to decide what course you want your life and your HIV to take. We will discuss how to take charge of your life
when it is right for you!
Robert Reynolds is an Ombudsman/HIV Advocate, an Elder Advocate and Safe and Secure Housing Advo-
cate. My first contact with this disease dates back to 1978 through the National Gay Lesbian Hotline (New York) as
Chairman of the GLBT Community Center of Cleveland (GEAR). We developed close ties to the major hospitals and
the Infectious Disease Dept including the Cleveland Clinic by 1980. I have been an outspoken advocate for the Gay
Community for over 30 years and an activist as a teenager in the 1960's.

Breakout Sessions Sunday, August 30, 2009

Jamie Moran
Foundations of Flirting for Gay Men: Meeting, Connecting and Feeling Better About Yourself
Many gay men experience difficulties connecting with other men. Common obstacles include: strong self-critique, self-
consciousness, lack of “viable” options, fear of embarrassment and humiliation (among other factors). Common reac-
tions to these obstacles include: staying “stuck”, being made fun of and/or not taken seriously, making it a self cri-
tique, and isolating and/or giving up attempts to meet others. Gay men have had potentially difficult experiences in
group interactions; the opportunity to be in a group environment and learn from others in a safe and supportive envi-
ronment can be invaluable and healing. Utilizing these frameworks, we will share stories of both successes and chal-
lenges, promote specific skills tailored to the participants, have fun and end the workshop with a working plan.
Jamie Moran, LCSW, is a Psychotherapist, Consultant and Workshop Leader practicing in San Francisco.
He co-developed the "Foundations of Flirting" Workshops in 1997 and has since led over eighty seminars focused on
this topic. As a therapist, Jamie has worked primarily with gay men in a variety of settings, and has emphasized
group work as a powerful experience in helping gay men re-learn tools, skills and confidence in their adult lives

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Joseph Lennox-Smith
Hiding in the Light: The Secrets of Abuse
Childhood abuse of all kinds is an affliction of our community which manifests itself in poor self-esteem, emotional and
physical problems. Suicide alcoholism and drug abuse, spousal abuse and high risk behaviors are higher in our commu-
nity than others. There are no easy answers; however, living in denial and hiding from the truth of our lives certainly
contributes to this ongoing cycle of poor decisions and unhealthy lifestyles. In this session we will talk about the na-
ture of abuse in its many facets, as well as the nature of shame-based thinking. We will discuss coping skills, as oppose
to hiding skills. We will also discuss pathways to breaking self destructive cycles and learning to say no, and no more.
This presentation will be an up-beat format by a motivational speaker that has been doing this work for the more than
15 years in varying formats. Participants will leave this presentation with a better and more honest idea of what
makes them tick, and ways to choose happiness.
Sherry Meltz
Reinventing the Self part II: Ten Tools for Positive Change
Many of us have a look at our behaviors and know that some change is in order! As a result of this realization, we can
go on a "Reinvention Tour" to make changes relating to behaviors that just aren't working for us! In this session we
will explore ten rules for reinvention of self! When we ask ourselves "How's that behavior working for you?" and the
answer is "It's not!" here are the solutions for making positive change that enhances the positive experience of positive
living to the fullest!
Dr. Sherry Meltz has been working within the gay community for more than twenty years. After initiating the
effort, successfully to create a non-profit organization in 1994, Absolutely Positive+, Inc. became a lynch pin for
smaller organizations in the Atlanta Metropolitan area and rural communities which were underserved. In 1999, Bran-
don Abernathy and Dr. Meltz opened the BRAC Center, a wellness center for those both directly and indirectly chal-
lenged with HIV disease, those who provided care for those family and friends. The BRAC Center was one of the larg-
est AIDS Service Organizations in the southeast with more than 700 client members. For the past ten years, Dr.
Meltz has provided programs to the HIV+/Gay community to offer educational, emotional and spiritual support to
clients and family members. Currently, Dr. Meltz is providing services at two Atlanta locations in Atlanta, a wellness
“spa” setting and an infectious disease clinic. Sherry is a breast cancer survivor and programmatically focuses on the
life “reinvention process” after a fearful diagnosis.
Ranier Deramus
Elethiana Mobley
The CBNCafe: Positively Living
The CBNcafe presentation promotes building on-line networks that can be carried to respective local communities. The
network, which will have it’s origin at the Southeast Regional Gay Men’s Health Summit 2009, will keep participants
abreast of issues surrounding the Gay communities. Initial thought provoking topics will include: Community Plan-
ning Bodies, City/State Legislative Action, and Non-Gay Allies. This network will also offer information on living
positively with HIV. Positively Living means living a healthy life, filled with happiness and hope for the future. This
section will guide affected individuals on what one can expect physically, emotionally, socially, occupationally and
spiritually. It also provides helpful tips and practical advice to help an individual live his/her best life possible. The
workshop encourages interest in learning and sharing; creates an infrastructure for learning through addressing com-
mon issues, asking relevant questions, solving problems collectively; and providing opportunities for developing social
skills and promoting political action.
Ranier Jharrod DeRamus is a successful public speaker from Montgomery, Alabama. He is an HIV and AIDS
Educator. He has served three years as a volunteer leader for AmeriCorps Vista. Ranier started the Hale County Cam-
paign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy. He has ten years experience of working with those infected with HIV and AIDS.
He has served as a lobbyist for the AIDS Drug Assistance Program (ADAP). Ranier attended Auburn University
where he received a BS Degree in Counseling. He is pursuing a Masters Degree in Continuing Education from the Uni-
versity of West Alabama. Ranier is a Certified Alcohol and Drug Professional in Alabama and Florida as well as being
ICRC Certified.
Elethiana is a New Yorker residing in Georgiana Alabama and devotes much of her time to mentoring and
nurturing young people regardless of sexual orientation. Ms. Mobley developed cooperative relationships with com-
munity leaders in several counties, while serving as an Americorps*AIST Member and VISTA for the Alabama Cam-
paign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy. She earned her B.S. in Management of Human Resources at Faulkner University in
Montgomery Alabama. Ms. Mobley has held positions as an adult case manager and a behavioral specialist for children.
Awards include a 2 year Service Award and honorary member of the Conecuh County Children’s Policy Council.
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Contact Information for Presenters:
PRESENTER EMAIL LIST
BECK, DANO Dano_Beck@doh.state.fl.us
BREWER, TOYE Toye_Brewer@doh.state.fl.us
BYNES, KEVIN Kbynes@apeb.org
CASTRATARO, GEORGE George@gclaw.com
DASHIELL, STEVEN Sdashiell@ccbcmd.edu
DERAMUS,RANIER Ranierjderamus@aol.com
FAWCETT, DAVID Davidfawcett@earthlink.net
FELIZZOLA, JESUS Jfelizzola@Howard.edu
FORREST, DAVID Dforrest@med.miami.edu
GARASSINO, RAY Rgarassino@aol.com
GORSKI, TERENCE Craigbenoit@challenges-program.com
HALL,SCOTT GayAmericanHeroes@yahoo.com
JORDAHL, LORI Lori_Jordahl@doh.state.fl.us
KASTEN, MICHAEL Mindfulnessmethod@gmail.co
KOEHLER, ROBERT Rkatlanta@gmail.com
LENNOX-SMITH, JOSEPH Task@pos-ed.org
MALETTE, MICHAEL Michael954@bellsouth.net
MAYORA, RICHARD Laudram@aol.com
MELTZ, SHERRY Docmeltz@bellsouth.net
MENASCHE, JACQUES JMenasche@browardhouse.org
MILLER, ERIC Eric@compassglcc.com
MILLNER, TOM PastorTom@cohss.com
MOBLEY, ELETHIANA Papillion314@camelliacom.com
MORAN, JAMIE Jammoran@aol.com
OSBAND, LAURENCE Osbandco@bellsouth.net
QUAGLIERI, ANTHONY Anthonyquagleri@gmail.com
QUAMINA, ALVAN Aquamina@apeb.org
REYNOLDS, ROBERT RWR2668@aol.com
SELIGSON, M. ROSS MRossS@aol.com
SPIVEY, CRAIG Crgspivey@aol.com
SZYMCZYK, JESSICA Jessica.szymczuk@orlando.health
TRAUT, ROBERT Rtraut@browardhouse.org
VILA, VICTOR Plutodrvv@hotmail.com
WALCH, SUSAN Swalch@uwf.edu
WARD, JEREMY Rjward80@aol.com
ZUCKER,HOWARD HowZucker@aol.com

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