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MAKING GREAT
DECISIONS
It’s easier than you think
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INSIGHTS
The woman, the prince,
and the dragon
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I
was talking to a pretty young travel
agent the other day, and during the
course of our conversation we began
to talk about God.
“I don’t believe in God,” she said, “but if
there is a God, why is there so much suf-
fering in the world today?”
“You can’t blame God for all the suffer-
ing in the world,” I replied. “It’s not God
who causes all these things. A lot of it is
the work of the Devil. He just loves to right and wrong, good and people’s bad choices. There
hurt people and see them suffer. In fact, evil. Of course He wants us is hope though, at least on
that’s one of his main tactics to try to turn to always choose the right a personal level. God is
people away from God—he tries to give thing, the loving and just ready, willing, and able to
God the blame for his own dirty deeds.” thing, or at least something guide our decision-making.
The young lady was quiet for a moment that won’t be harmful to us You and I may not be able
as she thought about that, and then she or others, but even when to solve all the world’s prob-
asked, “Well, if there is a God and He’s all- He sees that we’re about lems, but we can improve
powerful, why doesn’t He stop the Devil? to make a bad choice, He our own lives and make a
Why does God allow so much evil in the doesn’t usually intervene. positive difference in our
world? Why didn’t He stop Hitler?” Why? Because He has corner of the world—and it
“If God had put a stop to Hitler,” I began, given us the power of free all starts with asking God
“He would have to stop everybody from ever choice and has bound to help us learn to make
doing anything bad. We may not be as bad Himself within certain wise and loving choices.”
as Hitler, but we’ve all been guilty of doing limitations in order to not At that point the travel
bad things from time to time.” interfere. agent was called away to
“Then wouldn’t it have been better if God “Unfortunately, everyone help another customer. “I
had made us all to be good?” she asked. makes bad choices from think you made a differ-
“If God had wanted robots, yes, He time to time, and some ence just now,” she said
could have programmed everybody to do people consistently make as she excused herself,
what was right in every situation. But He bad choices. That is the “because I feel different.
made us with a will of our own and gave cause of most of the prob- I think I’m going to give
us free choice so we could choose between lems in the world today— God a try!” •
The wisest and soundest approach to 1. God’s Word. The Scriptures that shed His
decision-making is a three-step process: first place to look for the light on the issue? That’s
First, realize that you don’t have all will of God is in His words what’s known as hearing
the answers and ask the One who does— recorded in the Bible and the voice of God’s Word. Or
God—to help you make the right decision. other inspired writings. He have you ever been read-
Second, determine that you will accept has put the basic answers ing the Bible when all of a
God’s answer, even if it’s contrary to your to nearly every question sudden a verse or passage
own reasoning or desires in the matter. In or problem we will face in spoke directly to you, as
other words, you need to sincerely want life right there, sometimes though it had been written
Him to help you make the decision accord- clearly spelled out and just for you in regard to
ing to what He knows will work out best sometimes in the form of some situation you faced?
for you and everyone else involved. This is spiritual principles that That is also the voice of
often the hardest part because it requires apply. “Your Word is a lamp the Word. God applies His
you to surrender your own will to God in to my feet and a light to my Word to you personally,
favor of His. path” (Psalm 119:105). and you get the answer you
Third, receive His answer. If you are seeking. “The Word of
sincerely ask God to show you what He 2. The voice of God’s God is living and powerful”
knows is best in any given situation, He Word. Have you ever been (Hebrews 4:12).
will. His answer will probably come thinking or praying about
through one or more of the following something when the Lord 3. Direct revela-
means, which are listed in order of brought to mind a certain tion. God also speaks to
importance and reliability. verse or passage from the us through dreams and
P
erfect decisions are few
and far between because life
is messy. A great decision is
always possible, however. Great deci-
sions don’t all have fairytale endings,
but they do achieve the best possible
outcome under the circumstances.
The most successful decision-makers
don’t act on impulse, intuition, or even
experience alone; they have a system
that they work through step by step.
Here is one such system:
• Define the issue. A problem well stated Welcome alternatives and • Be open to change if
is a problem half solved. Employ the “who, opposing views. Remind circumstances change.
what, when, why, and how” regimen of the yourself that the goal is not Once you make a decision
journalist, although not necessarily in that to prove yourself right, but and begin to act on it, a
order. Why is the decision necessary? What to make the right decision. better option may open up.
is the objective? How can a great decision This is sometimes referred
change things for the better? Whom will it • Consider your options. to as the “boat-and-rudder
affect? When does it need to be made? Write down the pros and effect.” It’s not until a
cons for each option and boat is in motion that the
• Take a positive approach. Make a see how they stack up rudder can come into play,
conscious effort to see the situation as an against each other. Try to but when it does, it makes
opportunity rather than a problem. determine both best-case greater maneuverability
and worst-case scenarios possible.
• List your options. The more alterna- for each option. See if
tives you consider, the more likely you will there is some way to • Ask Jesus. Last but
be to not overlook the best solution. combine several promising certainly not least, pray
solutions into one potent for guidance at each step
• Gather information about your solution. of the decision-making
options. You will not only make better process. The answers to
decisions if you have investigated thor- • Be true to yourself. Do all your questions and
oughly, but you will also have more peace any of the alternatives com- problems are simple for
of mind as you carry out your decision. promise your values? If so, Jesus, so if you’re smart,
scratch them from the list. you’ll be like the man who
• Be objective. If you already have an said, “I may not know all
opinion on the matter, the natural tendency • Make a decision. When the answers, but I know the
will be to look primarily for evidence to you’re convinced that Answer Man!” Jesus has
confirm that opinion. That works if you you’ve found the best alter- all the answers. He is the
happen to be right, but if you’re not… native, commit to it. answer! •
I
t may surprise you shouldn’t do it, no matter are possible to him that
to know that God likes what anybody says; and if believes” (Luke 1:37; Mark
you, His child, to make you’re not sure that a thing 9:23). However you must
your own choices within is God’s will, then the best be personally sure, and not
His will. As long as you thing to do is to wait until merely swayed by others. It
delight yourself in the Lord the Lord reveals His will to must be your own personal
most of all and want to do you one way or the other. decision, what you truly
His will, it is His delight to In the meantime, don’t have faith for, in which case,
also give you the desires of let anybody else tell you if it were in accordance
your heart, because He’s with God’s Word, it would
the One who puts them be “of God.”
there when you’re pleas- When making a major,
ing Him! His Word says, life-changing decision
“Delight yourself also in the such as you are doing, time
Lord, and He shall give you is often the great tester.
the desires of your heart” I’d certainly advise you to
(Psalm 37:4). If you love the wait until you’re sure in
Lord with all your heart, your own mind and heart
your personal desires are of God’s will. As Paul
usually the right ones, says, “Let each be fully
because you want most of convinced in his own mind”
all to please Him. So your (Romans 14:5).
personal desires in the In affairs of the heart,
matter have a great deal I do not believe in acting
to do with God’s will. He merely out of a sense of
gives us what we want and duty. There must be a great
have faith for. deal of genuine love, per-
As my mother used to sonal love as well as love for
say, “When in doubt, don’t.” God. If it’s God’s will, He
The Bible warns us that gives us this kind of love,
By Joyce Suttin
F
aith permeated my life as a been taught as a child. I smiled and told me that
child. I never doubted the exis- saw my parents and their they were willing to listen,
tence of a loving God who was faith in God and the Bible but that they couldn’t be
concerned about my life, answered prayer, as fallible, and I began a deterred from what they
and helped me on a daily basis. I prayed quick slide from believer to knew to be right.
from the time I could form words. I sang doubter to agnostic. What My spiritual searching
songs about Jesus and loved Him. He was I heard and saw in the coincided with moving
a very real presence in my life. When my world around me no longer from a small town in
great uncles died, it wasn’t a grievous made sense alongside the upstate New York to
occasion but a celebration of their passing simple childlike faith I had Boston, Massachusetts.
on to a better world. been taught. As I emphati- One day I was to take the
But when I was a teenager, I began cally stated my new belief train home for the holi-
to question the principles of faith I had system, my parents just days. I had called ahead
made
immaculately in a tailor-made suit and
looking every inch the tycoon he was, he
reflected on how far he had come from his
humble beginnings.
Barnes settled into his leather chair and
surveyed the inner sanctum of his growing
empire. Plaques on the wall proclaimed his
success as an entrepreneur. Every item in the
man
room was top quality, from his latest hi-tech
gadgets to the rich mahogany paneling and the
plush carpet. Each detail was impressive on its
own, but together they had an overpowering
effect on those Barnes invited there for private
negotiations.
Only the most observant noticed that there
were no pictures of family. In truth, Barnes
stayed remotely in touch with only one relative,
his father. The elder Barnes had been in a
senior’s home ever since Alzheimer’s papered
over reality, leaving him oblivious to his son’s
success. Perhaps that’s why Barnes stayed in
contact. His father was the one person who
didn’t try to sponge off of him.
Barnes kept himself so busy with his
expanding business that he seldom thought
about just how alone he was. Apart from busi-
ness contacts, there was only one person he
spoke to most days, and it wasn’t Magda, the
housekeeper who arrived each morning after
he left for work and finished before he returned,
or the doorman or security guards, whose exis-
tence he barely acknowledged. The one person
he was more or less forced to speak with was
his secretary, Dorothy.
A
mysterious woman, a child The first thing that dragon, tried to do just
destined to be a king, comes to most people’s that. His assassination
and a hideous hydra-headed minds is that she is Mary, attempt was thwarted
dragon. These are the principals in the Jesus’ earthly mother, who and he died a few years
mysterious book of Revelation, chapter gave birth to Him in a later, but not before he
12. It reads like one of those fabulous Bethlehem stable. Mary had shed the blood of
mythological stories from antiquity. But was, as said the angel many innocent children
it is not a myth. It is a true allegory of the who told her she had been in his maniacal quest to
past and the near future. chosen to bear God’s kill the child who was
The apostle John, the author of Son, “highly favored” and foretold to become “King
Revelation, sees a beautiful woman in the “blessed among women” of the Jews” (Matthew
heavens, clothed with the sun, wearing (Luke 1:28). But as we read 2:16–19). Jesus eventually
stars in her hair, and with the moon at her further, it becomes clear did die so that we could
feet. She gives birth to a royal child as a that Mary does not fit the all be saved, but He was
dreadful fiery red dragon lies in wait to description of this woman. resurrected three days
slay and devour. But before he can pounce, This heavenly woman is later and spent another
the child is whisked away into Heaven. someone else. forty days on Earth being
We are soon told that the dragon is The dragon tried to seen by hundreds of people
Satan, the Devil, the notorious serpent kill the child at birth. The before being “caught up
from the Garden of Eden, and it becomes Gospel of Luke tells us into Heaven” (Acts 1:1–9;
clear that the child who ascends into that King Herod, no doubt 1 Corinthians 15:4–7). He
Heaven is Jesus. But who is the woman? inspired by this Devil will return soon, after the
Q uietness of spirit
As you wait on Me in prayer, I am able to fill
you with My strength. What does it mean to wait
on Me? It means to give your thoughts and will
to Me and to accept Mine. Often I do not reveal
My will—what I know will prove best in the long
run—all at once. That is often a step-by-step
process. You surrender your thoughts and
plans to Me, whether they be your plans for the
day, your personal desires, your opinions on a
certain subject, or whatever the case. But even
after that initial yielding, it’s still a step-by-step
process as My plan unfolds. As I reveal more
and more of My will, you must give Me more
and more of yours.
As that process takes place, you are filled
with My strength and My grace for each step. It
is only when you begin to buck against My will
or insist on keeping some of yours that you find
you don’t have the strength to keep up. As long
as you’re yielding and accepting, you’ll receive
all the grace and strength and peace of mind
you need; you’ll never lack. This is the simple
principle of operating in My strength. To do it
right, you must acknowledge Me and listen for
My instructions at every turn.
It’s a three-step process. First, you humbly
give Me your will; second, you ask Me to show
you My will in the matter; and third, you take
action by asking Me for strength, yielding to My
will, and doing it. As you do these things, My
Spirit flows into you, supporting you and giving
you exactly what you need in that situation. It
is a beautiful state—the state of perfect peace
with Me.