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Does Your Family Trigger Your Emotions?

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Inspire His Intense Desire For You

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Family relationships can challenge us to the core. They trigger us often to act in ways we do not want to act. Think of a family member that triggers something unpleasant in you. Notice how you protect yourself by your typical reaction. This week, ask yourself to open up when typically you might close off or protect yourself. Stay open to your experience of that person even if it is uncomfortable. Choose to feel that feeling and release it as opposed to react around it. With this mindset, it gives you more options in how to relate to that particular family member.

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Yes, as you look at that relationship and reframe it from a negative one to one that can allow you to grow, you can even embrace that family member! Heres to getting the love you want! Todd
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From Sarah: Todd Creager is an accomplished Speaker, Therapist, Consultant and Author. At his website: The Todd Creager Center for Successful Relationships, you can find out more about how to have a successful relationship.

Death doesnt really mean someones going to die. Rather dreams about death are interpreted as symbolism for something once thriving in the dreamer that is somewhat dying, or no longer living up to how it used to in the past. Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time Dream Themes Regarding Vehicle Trouble Common Dreams of this caliber mostly symbolize the sentiments of a dreamer, relating his/her waking life as going out of control. Regardless if the dreamer can drive a vehicle or not, Vehicle Trouble is among the most common dreams. Dream Themes Involving Property Loss Dreams which deal with property loss, like ones house being destroyed by fire, is interpreted as a dreamers fear of possible loss of something in the dreamers waking life. Dream Themes Involving Poor Performances As an entry into the roster of common dreams, dream themes involving poor performances are interpreted as reflections towards a dreamers feeling of being tested in the waking world. Other psychologists see dreams like these as fear of poor sexual performance. Dream Themes Involving Drowning or Falling As among the most common dreams, dream themes involving falling or drowning happens when a dreamer feels overwhelmed in his/her waking world. Drowning dreams, particularly, are interpreted as the survival instinct of a person to breathe. Dream Themes Involving Being Nude in Public The meaning behind nude dreams are somewhat relative, considering which part of the body was exposed in the dream. Dream themes of this breed oftentimes indicate feelings of vulnerability. Dream Themes Relating Missing the Bus or Other Means of Transport
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The Ten Most Common Dreams

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Though dreams are experiences unique to each person, there is such a thing as common dreams. Common dreams are dreams that pretty much border on similar themes.

Here are the ten most common dreams, as well as their brief interpretations:
Dream Themes about Being Attacked or Chased Eighty percent of those who took part in Garfields survey note dreams about being pursued or attacked, and is interpreted as the effects of stress, experienced by the dreamer in the waking world. Dream Themes about Dying or Getting Injured

When a dreamer is missing out on something in the waking world, dream themes involving missing the bus, train, or airplane commonly come in. Dream Themes Involving the Malfunction of Machines, Particularly Telephones Dreams of this sort commonly happen when a dreamer is feeling he/she is loosing touch with someone in the waking world. They could also be interpreted as problems in ones body. Dream Themes Involving Natural Disasters Dreams of this sort are usually refer to personal problems ranging out of control, as disasters pretty much are.

It is not unreasonable to assume that everyone gets caught up in the hustle and bustle of a holiday celebrated around the world. Notwithstanding the pomp and circumstance of the Christmas Season, there are two distinctive sets of anticipation that are influenced by all of the activity, rituals, decorations, and other expressions associated with the celebrations. On one hand, there are millions of people who are anticipating the Joy, Peace, and Goodwill that is the spirit of Christmas, while there is another group that is dreading the entire season and all that goes with it. Just like the spirit of Joy, Peace, and Goodwill that many people anticipate will spread throughout the world during this time of the year, so will the spirit of dread, angst, and depression.

The Christmas Season Is Part of Another Season

The feelings of dread, angst, and depression do not magically appear at Christmas time. The Christmas Season just happens to take place at the time of the year when things have accumulated, are compounded, or when some people feel the full effects of burnout from a hectic year. The end of the year is one of those periods when people are reflective and evaluative.

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The Best Christmas Ever

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They may be reflecting back over a period of time when things may not have gone as anticipated or desired throughout the year or throughout their lifetime. They may have set certain goals that have not been achieved. There may have been financial setbacks that prevent them from celebrating the holidays in the festive manner in which they have in the past. There is the dread of disappointing family members by not being able to purchase gifts, or having the finances to host a huge dinner or holiday party.
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by Pam Reaves

Then there are those people who sink into various stages of depression, thinking about loved ones who have passed away. Broken relationships also haunt some people in the Christmas Season. So once the Christmas Season roles around, those who are dreading the holiday suffer from the weight of all these losses, broken relationships, or never-ending periods of loneliness. To add salt to a wound that has been festering all year, during the Christmas Holiday Season, the media starts feeding us with a steady stream of imagery depicting happy families caroling through the snow, decorating huge Christmas trees, and showing up on doorsteps with arms full of beautifully wrapped presents.

photograph capturing a precious childhood memory; a love letter (no love letters are not always romantic) expressing how much you value your relationship, how much the other individual has enriched your life, or how much you enjoy your time together; an offer to run errands for someone who may be disabled; or coordinate a family gettogether where everybody is required to just bring one food item, or their favorite recipe. Heck, one dozen of eggs can create 24 deviled egg pieces. So the cost of the ingredients is probably less than $10.00, but your family and friends will love your special way of preparing deviled eggs.

New Discoveries in the Christmas The promotion of the Christmas Holiday by the Season
media can create some overwhelming feelings for someone who feels that not only has everything gone wrong in his or her life during the course of the year, but now he or she wont be able to participate in celebrating the Christmas Holiday Season because there are no material possessions or the finances with which to celebrate the Season like marketers would have us to believe is the perfect way to celebrate. Then, the saddest cases of all are those people who dont have any good memories (Christmas or otherwise) to celebrate or share. Christmas, for them, is just one more reminder of what they dont or never have had. Now the really good news is that if these financial, relational, employment circumstances and feelings of isolation that at face value, appear to be Christmas Season Misfortunes are viewed through a different lens, they could turn out to be the very circumstances that re-direct you to a lifestyle lift. You will look back and declare that the best Christmas ever was the Christmas that your misfortunes wound up being the catalysts responsible for propelling you into a lifestyle change with results more fulfilling, longer lasting, and more substantive than anything you may lost. Use the circumstance of limited finances to give loved ones different gifts. These gifts may include: a cake that you baked from your own secret recipe; a framed picture of you and friends or family members at some other event that was really enjoyable, or a By doing these things from the heart, you may discover a new talent or the worth of a talent that you have unconsciously been honing over the years and is now ready for you to apply to a business venture. When the Christmas Holiday Season is over, you will not be included in the group that becomes stressful over the amount of money they spent, or the additional credit card debt they created because you spent little to nothing. If you are bothered because you cant participate in some tradition that costs a lot of money, you can create a holiday tradition of getting back to the basics. Most of us value and love to reminisce over the old days when life was simple, when we may not have had much money, but had plenty of good times, wonderful memories, and received inexpensive gifts and toys that continue to have special meaning to us. By creating a tradition such as this, you are creating a comfortable and treasured environment in which people look forward to spending time. The mere mention of a Good Old Fashion Christmas sounds comforting. Since life is complicated, schedules are busy, and spending quality time throughout the year is minimal, this back to basics tradition is a wonderful way for a group of close friends and loved ones to close out the year. If any of your relationships have suffered over the past year (or for years), use the Christmas Holiday Season to extend the olive branch, or if the olive
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branch is extended to you, take it. No matter how ugly the fight or disagreement was, or who was at fault, people do suffer from the disappointment and heartbreak of a broken relationship. Our pride may keep us from openly expressing our disappointment about the broken relationship, but inwardly we sulk and grieve because we miss whatever the relationship brought to our lives. As time go by, we cant even remember what the fight was about, and if we do, time has a way of diminishing the importance of the disagreement. The feelings of that you may be feeling do not recognize who was right and who was wrong. So if you refuse to let go of these lingering feelings, they will only serve to weaken you emotionally and physically. Use this opportunity when the distractions of the hustle and bustle are not present in your life (quiet time) to reach out, re-connect and embrace any love lost. If you value harmony, reconciliation with friends and relatives will lift your spirits as you start spending precious time with them based on the heart and not the finances. If you are dreading the Holiday Season because of feelings of loneliness, do something courageous and selfless like visiting a nursing home, volunteering at a shelter, or participating in a toy drive by handing out toys to disadvantaged children.

when youre interacting with people who are real characters and do crazy things that make this world a fun place to be in, regardless of lifes challenges. Besides, this stuff will provide you with memories to laugh about throughout the coming year. See when you take control of those things that made you dread the Christmas Season, and decided to look at them from a different perspective rather than allowing them to control your happiness, youve turned a dreaded Christmas into the Best Christmas Ever. Even better the Best Christmas Ever can happen every year. From Sarah: Pam Reaves is an amazing coach, and has a tremendous track record helping clients get healthy and happy human experiences in life and love. We truly want to recommend her coaching and her wonderful, powerful book Is It LoveOr Merely a Sick Attachment? Pam is no-nonsense, and breaks down big, important relationship concepts into direct, straight-shooting, tell-thehard-truth real help for you (just like her book title). Go here to check out Pams coaching and what steps you can take after the Christmas Season>>

Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Although you may be apprehensive about approaching other people whom you are not familiar with, once you get started in the activity, there will be little to no time for you to focus on your loneliness. If you are involved in any one of these outreach initiatives throughout the Holiday Season, by the time the Season is over, you will be too exhausted to dwell on what you thought was a dismal time of the year. So much happens when were engaged with other people. Trust me, you will find plenty to laugh about
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Relationship Column: What It Feels Like To Love Him So Much

normally keep locked doors. Now, I only look the door when I get in the shower. But I digress.) * It feels HORRIBLE that John chose someone else. It feels so horrible that I cant even wrap my brain around it. * Sometimes I feel like he just wants to keep me on ice as his back-up plan. Hes not devious enough to do that consciously. He thinks he just wants me in his life. Once, I told him that I couldnt talk to him any more until something changed on his side and he cried. And I could only make that stick for four days, because I felt like Id just handed him over to the other girl on a silver platter. * I dont want to go on having a phone and text only relationship with him. I want to SEE him. Thats a visceral, immediate WANT I experience. But its also trying to control the outcome, because I feel like if we were in the same room more often, he would decide he needs me in his life. When hes with me Oh, its great. When Im with him, when Im speaking to him I feel so incredibly loved. I have never once felt like he didnt love me or was less than completely on my side. He has never once been sarcastic, evasive, unkind. If he has to tell me something I wont like, he says, Okay, youre not going to like this, but Im not going to lie to you. And every single time Ive spoke to him with a Rori Raye Feeling Message or let him know that Im vulnerable, hes stepped up to protect me, however he can. So as a result, of course I feel WONDERFUL when Im with him, and so puzzled about why I cant have that more often. * And I WANT him physically. The pheromone cocktail is intense. Which is why he tries NOT to be in the same room with me. I know Ive covered all this ground before. I just dont know what to say or do. Do I HAVE to break all contact with him, when I know Im going to see him around town? And when my shrink would say thats not the right move because what I should be doing is familiarizing him with me, letting him know it doesnt have to be high intensity to be with me? Even when he came over for that ta-aalk that day it was pleasant and fun. At least until the
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by anonymous Why am I so tied up in this man John? * I feel like an idiot because I like him so much and maybe hes just a big waste of my time. * I feel like hes my only friend up here. (Actually thats not a feeling. Its kind of a fact. The only other friend I have is a guy whos my neighbor, whos married. Hes always appropriate In fact, he never comes over without someone else with him. Because hes in love with me. (He told me this. Im not making it up.) So thats kinda weird. He tried to fix me up on a friends date with his wife. Didnt go over so well.

She said, I cant wait to tell our daughter that you have a bunny rabbit! Shell want to come over and meet him! I said, Oh, shes met him. Really? When was that? She and your husband came over the other day and she was hanging out with the rabbit. And smoke starts coming out of her ears because he didnt happen to mention that he and his daughter came over. (Ohby the waycame over while I was in the shower, so I came out and theyre hanging out in my living room. Because in my town we dont

interruptions started. (And what I didnt tell you about that, is that its not just that the garbage truck came and the plow guy came to do my driveway Its that for SEVEN DAYS before that, and FOUR DAYS after that not one single vehicle drove past my house. Those were the only three vehicles to pass my house in eleven days, and they all came at the same time. I have dates planned for this week with a couple of other guys, and I am looking forward to them. But I dont know what to do with him. Obviously, I still have feelings for him and lust for him. When I say Ive Given Up, its simply that I really dont think anything is going to change. I dont know why it is the way it is, and I know I probably never will. In August, when I went back down to NYC, he told me hed started hanging out more with the other girl because it was a good way to detach from the intensity of being with me. The thing is the time we spend together, and our conversations, has never been intense. What he meant was the feeling of connection, which freaked him out. That was August. Maybe hes more used to it now. I dont know. I only know that I dont know what to say to him. Sometimes I feel like running away from him, not answering any texts or calls until he shows up at my door. And sometimes I feel like showing up at his office at quitting time and throwing him on the desk and saying, Lets just get it over with, DAMN IT!!!! You can feel bad about it later but lets just find out what were missing!!

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Welcome Change to Attract a Perfect Relationship

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By Lubov Skurina Holidays are the time when we feel the need to share ourselves with a loved one. Its the time for connecting with our family, remembering our roots. It is also the time for reflection: Another year has gone by What were my hopes for this year? Have I progressed in the direction I wanted to? For single people who are hoping to find a life partner this may be a bitter realization: Another year has gone by; I am still single. The relationship I want hasnt happened What if I told you that you are only a paradigm shift away from attracting your ideal partner? Its a common misconception that finding a perfect mate is a matter of fate or luck. In reality, it is entirely in your hands to bring this relationship into your life. It is a matter of looking inside yourself and removing your inner barriers to love.

What Barriers Are in the Way of This Relationship?

Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: If you havent been able to create the love you want for many years; if you attract the same man in a different body over and over again; then it is likely that on some level you are pushing love away. I know that this statement is not something that is easy to accept, or even understand.
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breaking through your inner blocks and shifting your old perspectives. Change doesnt mean that youll have to become someone you are not. On the contrary, when you let go of beliefs and behavior patterns that dont serve you, youll become more yourself. Then youll be able to attract into your life a partner that is uniquely right and perfect for you. This happens on the subconscious level, and is not your fault. In order to get a clear picture of what is causing your negative relationship experiences, you need to first, identify patterns or similarities in the type of partners that you tend to attract. Then ask yourself: What are my beliefs and thought patterns that sabotage my relationships, or make me a magnet for the wrong guys? How can I change that? If you take an honest look at your life, let go of the temptation to blame your former partners (or yourself), you will easily see the inner blocks that are keeping you stuck. Most of my clients quickly come up with a list of obstacles that they see standing in their way to a successful relationship. Some of the common barriers to love are: low self esteem, a belief that you are not good enough to be loved, fear of intimacy; or preconceived notions about men, like: all the good ones are taken, there is no one out there who is up to my standards, and so on. From Sarah: We just discovered Lubov, and we love her! Shes an amazing, transformative relationship coach you can read all the wonderful things her clients say about her and how shes helped them when you follow this link OH and be SURE to pick up Lubovs free ebook 4 Steps to Soulmate Attraction its a complete step-by-step guide to attracting your ideal life partner and thats her specialty. Just go here to get your free book and discover or enhance your relationship >>

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Change Is the Solution for Finding Your Relationship

Most of us are aware of these issues, but we often dont see their full impact on our life. Its so easy to continue your dating routine under the assumption that all you need to do to find a partner is to look good, play the dating game and meet a lot of new people. As years go by, you start to notice that this old strategy isnt working for you. As you become more and more aware of the fact that you create your own reality, you understand that in order to step out of old patterns and create a kind of relationship that you havent been able to create in the past, youll have to initiate this change first within yourself,

Conscious Eating And Healthy Weight

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Conscious eating is the path toward a healthy weight.

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Naturally thin people eat differently from the rest of us. They eat only when theyre hungry, they eat exactly what they want, they eat consciouslyaware of what theyre eating and how its affecting their body, and they stop eating when they stop being hungry.

1. The ways I use my weight to keep me from being completely successful are 2. The ways I hold myself back in life in general are 3. The ways I play for small stakes are About your Fat Person/Thin Person 1. The voice of the fat person inside me yellsor whispersin my ear 2. I can best deal with the things the fat person inside me says by About Choosing 1. I choose to be fat and unhappy. 2. I choose to be thin and unhappy. 3. I choose to be fat and happy. 4. I choose to be thin and happy. Whenever you make a choice, you have to give up the other options. Thats the stress, the anxiety of choosing. Thats what keeps you stuck in one position for a long time. We dont want to give up the other possibilities. Whatever the payoffs for any of the alternatives on the list and youve already discovered that there are plenty of goodies in all four possible choices we dont want to give them up. We dont want to let go. This is where we come to COMMITMENT. Conscious eating requires commitment. In other words, choose. At least for the moment, decide on a track. Go full steam ahead in one direction only. Let go of the other choices, let go of the goodies, suffer their loss, and move in your chosen direction.

Here Are Some Things to Think About Where You Fall Short of Conscious Eating
Read the following and think about each suggestion and blank. 1. This is what Im afraid would happen to me if I stayed conscious of every bite I ate 2. What prevents me from stopping eating the moment my body stops being hungry is

3. Visualize yourself as a thin you. Take yourself through a typical day, slowly, in detail. Feel everything youd feel. Notice what youd do, how youd be with people, how youd eat. Make it exactly the way youd like it: If I allowed myself to live as a thin person, things that would be different about me, about my life and my relationships with people are . Think about Fat and Sexuality 1. The ways in which being overweight influences how I approach sex and relationships are 2. Is weight an obstacle to relationships for you? How? About Attention 1. All the ways I get attention from people for being overweight are . 2. All the ways I get more attention FROM MYSELF for being overweight than I would if I were thin are About Success -

Breaking Through Conscious Eating

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Breaking Through This means looking at life in a new way. Its leaping to a whole new level of awareness, as though blinders were just taken off your eyes. Its a shift inside you, inside your feeling sense. You seem brand new to yourself. And you are. Shifting from a person who thinks of him/her self as fat to a person who thinks of him/her self as thin is like leaping from one world to another. It means an adjustment.
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So, here are some new questions: 1. Who are you losing weight for? Are there people for whom youve wanted to or tried to lose weight in the past? 2. Now I want to lose weight for myself. I want to do it for myself because giving yourself a thin body is a gift. You are worthy to accept this gift. Give yourself something. Imagine yourself receiving it. How does it feel? Happiness is not out there. It is inside. It is something you carry around with you from point to point, place to place, not something you get when you get to a destination. It is not something you chase or look for. It is something you make. For yourself. Every day. Every moment. Despite where you are, how else you may feel, and how it looks to anyone else. Its not where you go, its how you get there. You may as well enjoy the ride! -From the Editors If you want someone to keep you on the right track toward a more healthy outlook and weight loss routine, Andrea Albright is the woman for you. Andreas an amazing coach with her own amazing story of how she transformed her body into the one she has now (and her site and great ebook is called Amazing Body Now a strong body that keeps her healthy and happy. Shes focused her life on helping others achieve the same goal. Check her out if youre struggling with belly fat or want to quickly succeed at conscious eating-

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Forget Your Circumstances & Put Aside Your Problems

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Life is challenging and everyone is saying it these days. The economy has just added to a myriad of stresses that people are dealing with. I saw numerous couples just today alone whose relationships have become too mundane and serious. We are far from know our more free and easy wild self. Of course, there are problems and I would be the last person to make light of the pains and frustrations that come our way. I spend much of my work time helping individuals and couples deal with these challenges more constructively. However, an often neglected skill or habit that needs to be developed is the ability to put aside our troubles and metaphorically defy the emotional gravity that we sometimes run into in our lives. You are more than your problems and your pain and they surely dont have to define you and your behavior. You can break free of reacting to the less than wonderful circumstances you may be in. If you find yourself in a worried or serious state of mind, how about trying this little exercise to shed some of the heaviness and experience your wild self.

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Say to yourself, No matter how dire my circumstances are, for the next few moments, I am going to act like I am carefree. Thats right, for the next few moments allow yourself to be frivolous and non-productive. Out of the hundreds of people I have asked to do this exercise, not one has had a calamity because of a few minutes of taking their eyes off their problems and pretending that everything was alright. After giving yourself permission for the next few minutes to be wild, crazy and reckless and defy your problems, do one of the following or make up your own activity.

In the play Wicked, the star character who is the Wicked Witch of the West (or is it East, I think it is West), is most definitely in dire circumstances towards the end of the play. She breaks into a song titled, Defying Gravity. She is able to use her powers and fly on her broomstick as well as summon her courage to better deal with the challenges that await her. Lets face it; life is an adventure and there are many twists and turns. Remember you have the power to defy gravity so that you can enjoy your life more and go through the twists and turns with more poise and balance. From Sarah: Todd Creager is an accomplished Speaker, Therapist, Consultant and Author. At his website: The Todd Creager Center for Successful Relationships, you can find out more about how to have a successful relationship and enjoy and share your wild self.

Ways You Can Enjoy Your Wild Self:

1) Skip with as much energy as you can, leaping in the air as your legs permit and swinging your arms forward and backward 2) Sing loudly 3) Play songs on your musical instrument or pretend to play one if you dont know how 4) Invite your partner to dance on your living room floor 5) Shoot some baskets at your gym or local playground 6) Play a game of charades with your family 7) Fake laughing (try it even if it seems weird to do so) Whatever action you take, allow it to lift you past your mood. Experience your own ability to redefine who you are. Dont let your circumstances define you. Of course, face reality and do whatever you need to do to take care of business, but that does not mean 24/7. As a matter of fact, you will probably be far more effective if you experience some blood and life energy coursing through you. You will be more alive, more creative and more attractive from the inside out. Just as important, play helps you stay in the present moment.

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