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43 Ideas for Starting, Growing, and Deepening Relationships With Teenagers Outside of Traditional Youth Group
Programs
By Nick Arnold
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Special thanks to the following for their inspiration, contributions, and thoughts (in no particular
order). I would highly recommend checking out their blogs for more great ideas and thoughts on
youth ministry:
I would also like to thank the following people for believing in me and giving me a chance to grow
in ministry:
Jon Thomas
Scott Brewer
Doug Widger
Johnny May
Section 1
1 Visit a student at school during lunch. I've never been turned down by a
principal. It's all about your approach!
This is the first way I ever met up with kids outside of the youth Meet with the principal in the summer,
group. I was an intern at the time and I tagged along with my before staff reports. Ask them if you can
boss, the youth pastor, who began to show me that youth help at lunch, in any way. Every single
ministry was more than just speaking in front of kids on time the principal has said something
Wednesday nights. like, “We'd love a positive role model on
campus at lunch. Just let us know when
Visiting a student at school shows that you get here, sign in, and pitch in help
where you see it's needed.”
you think about them during the week
-Adam McLane
and allows you to meet their friends.
Variations: You can also buy them lunch and bring it on campus, though be ready to share with their
friends! Or if your kids go to a closed campus, you might consider meeting up with kids after school for
tacos at Jack in the Box® or something similar. Breakfast before school is an option as well, if you can
convince the student to get up early! Check out more thoughts on visiting students at lunch.
9 Go to a sporting event with some students and invite them and their
friends out for ice cream afterward.
Might cost you a bit, but students usually go for free ice cream. If you’re on a tight budget, you can hit
up McDonald’s® or Burger King® rather than the more expensive ice cream places.
Tips: Balance your time online. Teens typically have social networking accounts but don’t always
spend a lot of time online. Spending too much time will communicate negatively. Don’t comment on
everything they say or post. Use good judgment if you’re going to talk to them in real life about
something they posted online.
Teens don’t use email, instant messaging, or Twitter much. What they do use is Facebook, MySpace,
and the chat clients built into those two systems. Teens also use text messaging a lot (see previous
idea).
Talk with all type of kids. Talking with kids will allow for you to
identify where they are and understand their world.
Ask a lot of questions. You shouldn't be doing a lot of the talking,
rather you should be doing a lot of asking of questions.
-Jeremy Zach
Section 2
Ideas 30-43
Jesus did not stop with going out to meet the disciples where they were at. He invited
them to follow Him and enter into the greatest story ever told.
Paul kept saying “Follow me as I follow Christ” to the churches he wrote to. This section is
about allowing students to see into your life and your walk with God.
36 Ask a student to give you a ride somewhere. together, it was a blast and they all
bonded over it. Don't be shy in asking
Similar to the previous idea, asking for help from a student allows teens to join you in ordinary “boring”
projects. (Just be sure that's not the
them see their value. You could ask for a student to give you a
only thing you ever ask them to do with
ride to and from the mechanic, the grocery store, the mall, or you or else you'll come off as just
another errand. You might actually need a ride, or you might need looking for free labor.)
to arrange for yourself to need a ride (i.e. wife or husband has the
-Tim Schmoyer
car, “I need a ride”).
“This is especially useful for youth workers who forgot to renew their license. Just kidding. Actually, I
made this a regular habit because our family has one car. I always bummed rides from my students
after youth group because walking was no fun!” –Adam McLane