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May the days in the coming year fill your heart with happiness beyond measure.
My face in thine eye, thine in mine appeares, #And true plaine hearts doe in the
faces rest, #Where can we finde two better hemispheares #Without sharpe North,
without declining West? #What ever dyes, was not mixt equally; #If our two loves
be one, or, thou and I #Love so alike, that none doe slacken, none can die.#
The two lovers find their respective worlds in each other�s eyes.
ALWAYS LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST
2. If you don't design your own life plan, chances are you will fall into someone
else's plan.
3. To different minds, the same world is a Hell and a Heaven.d same wrld is a hell
n heven
5. The discipline of writing something down is the first step towards making it
happen.
6. Someone's sitting in shade today , because someone planted a tree a long time
ago.
7. You are never given a dream without also being given the power to make it true.
8. Luck is dividend of sweat. The more you sweat, the luckier you get.
vivekananda cotes:
�We are responsible for what we are, and whatever we wish ourselves to be, we have
the power to make ourselves. If what we are now has been the result of our own
past actions, it certainly follows that whatever we wish to be in future can be
produced by our present actions; so we have to know how to act.�
�Do not stand on a high pedestal and take 5 cents in your hand and say, "here, my
poor man", but be grateful that the poor man is there, so by making a gift to him
you are able to help yourself.It is not the reciever that is blessed, but it is
the giver.Be thankful that you are allowed to exercise your power of benevolence
and mercy in the world, and thus become pure and perfect.�
�We are what our thoughts have made us; so take care about what you think. Words
are secondary. Thoughts live; they travel far.�
�IT is good to love God for hope of reward, but it is better to love God for
love�s sake; and the prayer goes: O Lord, I do not want wealth nor children nor
learning. If it be Thy will, I shall go from birth to birth. But grant me this,
that I may love thee without the hope of reward - �love� unselfishly for love�s
sake.�
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We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby,
then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't enough and we'll be more
content when they are. After that we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal
with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage. We tell
ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act
together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation, when we
retire.
The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when?
Your life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to
yourself and decide to be happy anyway. One of my favorite quotes comes from
Alfred D Souza. He said, "For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about
to begin - real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to
be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt
to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles
were my life". This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to
happiness. Happiness is the way. So, reassure every moment that you have. And
treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to
spend your time...and remember that time waits for no one...
So stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school, until you
lose ten pounds, until you gain ten pounds, until you have kids, until your kids
leave the house, until you start work, until you retire, until you get married,
until you get divorced, until Friday night, until Sunday morning, until you get a
new car or home, until your car or home is paid off, until spring, until summer,
until fall, until winter, until you are off welfare, until the first or fifteenth,
until your song comes on, until you've had a drink, until you've sobered up, until
you die, until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than
right now to be happy..
People can be divided into three groups � those who make things happen; those who
watch things happen; and those who wonder what happened.
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THOUGHT FOR THE DAY: "Treat everyone with politeness, even those who are rude to
you, not because they are not nice, but because YOU are nice!.
Never Blame A Day In Your Life. Good Days Give You Happiness. Bad Days Give You
Experience. Both Are Essential In Life. All Are Gods' Blessings.Good Morning
Mitti meri kabr se churata hai koi, mar kar bhi yaad ata hai koi, ae khuda ek pal
ki jindagi aur de mujhe, udas meri kabr se jata hai koi
Ek pal me bhula diya hamko, ek pal me juda ho gaye, abhi to mere saath the, abhi
na jane kahan kho gaye, kahi soh to nahi gaye?
Forward by Raja
1.The story began when I was a child;
I was born as a son of a poor family.
Even for eating, we often got lack of food.
Whenever the time for eating, mother often gave me her portion of rice.
While she was removing her rice into my bowl,
she would say "Eat this rice, son. I'm not hungry".
That was Mother's First Lie
stranger, a passerby?
�You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the
ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty.�
�The only devils in this world are those running around inside our own hearts, and
that is where all our battles should be fought.�#
�If all Christians acted like Christ, the whole world would be Christian.�
Know, though, that things worth doing#seldom come easy.#There will be good
days.#And there will be bad days.#There will be times when you want to turn
around,#pack it up, and call it quits.#Those times tell you#that you are pushing
yourself,#that you are not afraid to learn by trying
Love has its own time, season and own reasons! You can't ask it to stay, you can
only embrace it as it comes and be glad that for a moment in your life it was
yours!
Friends are like stars. You can't always see them, but you know they are there.
Have great hopes and dare to go all out for them. Have great dreams and dare to
live them. Have tremendous expectations and believe in them.
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it
is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion
generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation. #A
telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. � She answered,
"Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still
no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh,
so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know
whose number it is." #Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the
couple if � the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either
prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech.
When a couple is too close with each other we always forget mutual respect and
courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other
party. #A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A
worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, "Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to
date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased
her, "Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction
worker." She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he
will be the millionaire and not you." #Frequently exchanging these remarks plants
the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands
too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their
spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case.
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape
a mountain or a river than a person's character." #It is not easy to change. Thus,
having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment
and unpleasantness.#It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our
expectations..
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am
looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer
said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty,
knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day
at home during my #leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories
when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The
officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television." #There
is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf
husband because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf
husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at
the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately,
when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is
not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins. #
A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage.
Could you please share with me your secret?" #The father-in-law answered in a
smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something
wrong. Always bare in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she
could not find a better husband than you." #We all look forward to being loved and
respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a
mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is
the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a
person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves. #If we forgive the
others, others will ignore our mistake too. #
Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's
poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy
commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?� Upon hearing
that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later,
an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of the family. How can
the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife
quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey. #Further on the way home,
they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let
the wife walk. He is no gentleman." #The husband thus quickly asked the wife to
join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey,
how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing
that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it
on their shoulders. #It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow
bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell
into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn
you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future. #Thus, do
not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to
admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily
hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked
him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father
calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. #Although the doctor tried
desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from
both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged
stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked,
"but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed
suicide. #Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or you
wish to take revenge. Think first before you lose your patience with someone you
love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often
we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We
forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.#People make mistakes. We are
allowed to make mistakes.
But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.
"Good Life starts only when you stop wanting a better One"
The one who takes your hand but touches your heart is a true Friend
Don ' t cry because it ' s over now, # laugh because it happened
Don't make
an effort
because
the best things happen,
when you
least expect them
The most difficult lesson to learn is:# Which bridge in life to use or which one
to break off
Everybody sees how you seem, #however, only some know who you are
Perhaps God would want you to become acquainted with many different people in the
course of your life, so that when you meet # the right ones,
you can appreciate and be grateful for them
Air to breath,
Fire to warm you,
Water to drink and
The earth to live in
Being happy can be hard work sometimes.#It is like maintaining a nice home -
you�ve got to hang on to your treasures and throw out the garbage.##Being happy
requires looking for the good things.#One person sees the beautiful view and the
other sees the dirty window. Choose what you see and what you think.
Do you recall watching �boy meet girl� movies? Titanic would be a famous example.
As the boy and girl struggle through thick and thin, you hoped and prayed the
whole time that everything would work out even in the outcome of imminent doom. We
gulped and dried our tears as the curtains came down.
We cry at these movies because at our deepest level, we care.
We hurt. There is an inner core in all of us which is simply beautiful. When we
see the plight of the starving around the globe on t.v., we ache for them. We all
care. Accept that you have these capacities to love and emphatise and be HUMAN.
Recognise your own worth and constantly remind yourself that you deserved to be
treated well!
Ever notice how good you feel when you give a compliment?
Even if people are awkward in receiving them, they appreciate them.
When we make it a habit to GIVE genuine compliments, we�ll always be looking out
for the good in people.
Everything has ups and downs - nothing travels in straight lines. This applies to
your own progress in any project. Keep your eye on your target, keep putting in
the effort and you reach your target despite the ups and downs.
Successful people realise that they reach their goals by continuously correcting.
We get off course, correct, and get back on course. Ships do it. Rockets and
missiles do it.
Correct. Correct. Correct.
The key to happiness is not that you never get upset, frustrated or irritated.
It is how quickly you decide to snap out of it.
Spend time with children. Learn more about laughter, spontaneity, curiosity,
acceptance, resilience, trust, determination, and your imagination.They are here
to teach us!
Until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back.
She also told him that she cannot visualize any future for both of them,
so let�s go their own ways there and then�
Heartbroken, the guy agreed.
But when he regains his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his
body and mind just to make something out of himself.
Finally with all these hardwork and the help of friends, this guy had set up his
own company�
One rainy day, while this guy was driving, he saw an elderly couple sharing an
umbrella in the rain walking to some destination.
Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched.
It didn�t take him long to realize those were his girl�s parents.
With a heart in getting back at them, he drived slowly beside the couple, wanting
them to spot him in his luxury sedan.
He wanted them to know that he wasn�t the same anymore, he had his own company,
car, etc.
Before the guy realized, the couple was walking towards a cemetary, and he got out
of his car and followed�
and he saw his girl, a photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him before her
tombstone�.
And he saw his papercranes besides her�
Find time to realize that there is one person who mean so much to you,
for you might wale up one morning losing that person who you thought meant nothing
to you.
Her parents saw him. He asked them what had this happened.
They explained, she did not leave for France at all. She was ill with cancer.
She had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not want to be his
obstacle� therefore she chose to leave him..
Just because someone doesn�t love you the way you want them to,
doesn�t mean they wont love you with all they have.
She wanted her parents to put his papercranes beside her, because, if the day
comes when fate brings him to her again� he can take some of those back with him.
The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can�t
have them� hope you understand.
In life, it doesn�t matter who you are but whether someone appreciates you for
what you are, accepts you and loves you unconditionally.
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks away.
cya...........Subbu
No one is born happpy... But all of us are born with the ability to create
happiness...So today, make others happy...Flash your sweetest smile GOOD MORNING
and have a day full of smiles.....
Now, say you're sorry...and MEAN it!-
Love is always having to say I'm sorry.
If I've done anything I'm sorry for, I'm willing to be forgiven.
It is easy to look back, self-indulgently, feeling pleasantly sorry for oneself
and saying I didn't have this and I didn't have that. But it is only the grown
woman regretting the hardships of a little girl who never thought they were
hardships at all. She had the things that really mattered.
You can make up a quarrel, but it will always show where it was patched.
The most important trip you may take in life is meeting people halfway.-
Friendship isn't a big thing - it's a million little things.-
Not the fastest horse can catch a word spoken in anger.
If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make, who
would you call and what would you say? And why are you waiting?
The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and for deeds left
undone.
An apology is a good way to have the last word.
Forgiveness is the sweetest revenge.-
There's one sad truth in life I've found
While journeying east and west -
The only folks we really wound
Are those we love the best.
We flatter those we scarcely know,
We please the fleeting guest,
And deal full many a thoughtless blow
To those who love us best.
Never ruin an apology with an excuse.-
Keep your words soft and tender because tomorrow you may have to eat them
When you realize you've made a mistake, make amends immediately. It's easier to
eat crow while it's still warm.
Wife: one who is sorry she did it, but would undoubtedly do it again.
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Remember, we all stumble, every one of us. That's why it's a comfort to go hand in
hand
Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.-
Apology is a lovely perfume; it can transform the clumsiest moment into a gracious
gift.
The only correct actions are those that demand no explanation and no apology.-
An apology is the superglue of life. It can repair just about anything.
When asked:
�what is forgiveness?�
LoVe iS LiKe QuiCkSanD - ThE DeEpEr yOu FaLL iN iT ThE HaRdeR iT iS tO GeT OuT.
Love is to think about someone else more times in a day than you think about you
Every part of me wants you, maybe because I was made just for you!
missing you
Last nite I tryd 2 rite u a letter bt I cud rite "noh ss!w" Read it upside down
My eyz r hurting coz I can't see u & my heart is breaking coz I'm not with u.
Don't forget that some1 somewhere is wishing for ur happiness. Missing You!
4getn u is hard 2 do, 4gtn me is up2 u, 4gt me not, 4gt me nvr We're gr8 2gether
If u feel tired & pain in legs, its bcz u come & go many tyms in my mind Miss U
U r such a nice person 2 think of, like the way I'm thinking of u now. Missing U
Do al ur duties in the world, but kep ur mind on god
Do not spend ur energy in talking but meditate in silence and become a dynamo of
spirtually
Roses of red grow in my heart and they will never wither...'Cause they bloom every
time I see your smile, hear your voice or just think of you!
broke ups
I get so emotional when your not around.. I think the emotion is called happiness.
Have I told you latley how much I am in love with you??? No?? Think about it, have
a great life...
Heart Is Similar To Mirror
&
And . . .
Said 2 Me,
Myworld
You are my friend through thick and thin,
I know I can count on you to be there,
till the very end!!