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Mara J. Briere
What is the immediate or future problem that needs resolution? (The problem)
This past year, I had the pleasure of working with several pre-adoptive foster parents. They were all graduates of the
Massachusetts Approach to Partnership in Parenting (MAPP) training program (2009, DCF) which teaches potential pre-adoptive
parents about the difficulties faced by the children in the Department of Children and Family’s (DCF) custody. MAPP training also
covers how the prospective parents’ family life will be impacted. Skill development that is covered includes communication, building
self-esteem, child guidance and discipline. In spite of MAPP participation, which occurs prior to a child’s placement in the home, the
families I worked with were unprepared for the costs of adopting beyond those expected of taking a child into their homes. In addition
to providing skills training and community resources, case management required that parents were offered further information about
In the beginning of working with these families, the focus of the work was on parenting skill development including clarifying
rules, roles, structure, and defining expectations of each family member. As the work unfolded in the weekly 2 hour sessions, it
became clear to this worker that the parents required additional information. They would say, “We did not realize how time
consuming all of this would be.” “I did not know that we would have to supervise the child 24/7!” “Getting a babysitter is a lot
harder than we thought since s/he has to be CORIed (criminal investigation background check).” “We did not know about the cost of
child care, especially therapeutic child care!” As such, this worker started gathering information and discussed it with the parents.
This included the relational currencies (Galvin, Bylund, & Brommel, 2008; pp. 122-125), non-monetary resources (Ferguson, 2007),
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and of course, monetary resources as outlined in the DCF Guide for Foster and PreAdoptive Parents (2003) and through the direct
This worker integrated the rational problem-solving model as described by Vuchinich (1999) noting that the problems that
appeared were not emotionally-laden for the families. They wanted and needed information and resources and support as they were
developing their new family constellations. For example, one couple was surprised that the cost of their adoptive son’s therapeutic
after-school program was $12K, almost double that which non-therapeutic programs in Massachusetts cost. When informed that this
is a deduction that they could take on their taxes, and that their companies may have pre-tax incentive programs, they endeavored to
This worker organized information and resources for the families including the brochure in this paper. Recognizing the needs
for adoptive families to identify and assess their resources, this worker developed a plan to include this discussion in the family
stabilization work with the families. The brochure is a first step. Using the ABCX Model, as introduced by McKenry and Price
(2005), is another useful tool. Offering clients a regularly updated fact sheet is another way to implement information, resource, and
support services.
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References
Ferguson, S.J. (2007). Shifting the center: Understanding contemporary families, 3rd Edition. Boston: McGraw-Hill Higher
Education.
Galvin, K., Bylund, C., and Brommel, B. (2008). Family communication: Cohesion and change, 7th Edition. Boston: Pearson
Education, Inc.
Massachusetts Department of Children and Families, (2009). Becoming an adoptive parent. Retrieved on April 3, 2009, from
http://www.mass.gov/?pageID=eohhs2terminal&L=4&L0=Home&L1=Consumer&L2=Family+Services&L3=Adoption&sid=
Eeohhs2&b=terminalcontent&f=dss_c_ad_adoptparent&csid=Eeohhs2
Massachusetts Department of Social Services (2003). A guide for foster and pre-adoptive parents. Retrieved on April 3, 2009, from
http://www.mass.gov/Eeohhs2/docs/dss/c_fp_ap_guide.pdf
McKenry, P., & Price, S., (2005), Families & change: Coping with stressful events and transition, 3rd Edition. California: Sage
Publications, Inc.
Vuchinich, S. (1999). Problem solving in families: Research and practice. California: Sage Publications, Inc.