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Cohabitation has received increasing bart, 1979). Since many marriages are
attention from researchers during the apparently preceded by cohabitation, it
past ten years. The vast majority of seems reasonable to wonder what effect
studies have attempted to describe the this cohabital experience has on the qual-
differences between individuals and cou- ity and character of the subsequent mar-
ples who cohabit from those who choose riage. There has been some speculation
not to cohabit(e.g., Macklin, 1972; New- (e.g., Danziger, 1976; Peterman, 1975;
comb & Bentler, 1980; Yllo, 1978).Other Ridley et al., 1978), but only few scien-
researchers have tried to examine the tific investigationslookingat theeffect of
role cohabitation plays in the courtship cohabitation on marriage (Budd, 1976;
and dating process (e.g., Lyness, 1978; Olday, 1977; Clatworthy & Sheid, Note
Ridley, Peterman & Avery, 1978). 1; Lyness, Note 2). Cohabitation before
Macklin (1974) sees cohabitation as an- marriage and 'trial' marriage cannot be
other stage in thecourtship sequence, oc- assumed to be synonymous in intent al-
curring between steady dating and mar- though they may be functionally equiva-
riage: A phase of 'going very steady', as lent. Contrary to the situation ten years
she puts it. There is some support forthis ago, the majority of today's cohabitors
contention. Lewis, Spanici, Storm At- do not enter their cohabital relationship
kinson, and Lehecka (1977) found that as a planned prelude to, or trial, marriage
commitment levels were similar between (Hobart, 1979). Although it is clear that
cohabiting couples and engaged nonco- many marriages are preceded by cohabi-
habiting couples. It has also been found tation, most did not begincohabitingasa
that almost one-half of a sample of mar- testing ground for a possible marriage.
ried couples had cohabited with their Many effects of cohabitation on mar-
current partner for some period of time riage have been proposed. Urie Bronfen-
before marrying them (Newcomb & brenner fears that cohabitation may un-
Bentler, 1980). dermine the family structure and allows
Although not currently the behavior the circumvention of the requisite com-
of the majority (Clayton & Voss, 1977), mitment and obligation necessary to
cohabitation is being practiced by a large build a relationship that is viable, mean-
and increasing number of people (Ho- ingful and fulfilling (Schwartz, 1977).
12 Two Aspects of Cohabitation and Marital Success
Harper (1975) claims that once a cohabi- before marriage had no apparent effect
ting couple marries, many of the attrac- on whether a couple stays married or
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tions of cohabitation are goneand there- eventually divorces (Bentler & New-
lationship may suffer as a consequence. comb, 1978). This says nothing about
He asserts that these attractions include any specific quality differences or ef-
rebellion against parental and societal fects of differing lengths ofcohabitation.
mores, ease of termination and theshirk- Ridley et al. (1978) stressed that it is the
ing of responsibility regarding parent- quality and character of the relationship
hood. He feels cohabitation too often ac- formed while cohabiting, as well as the
centuates temporariness in meaningful maturity of the partners, that make the
relationships instead of fostering an en- experience a positive building block for
during union that can be relied upon. marriage.
There is conflicting evidence in regard to Unlike speculations, which are abun-
if and what type of change a relationship dant, there is a paucity of research find-
undergoes in a transition from premari- ings that are addressed to what differ-
tal cohabitation to marriage. Usinga ret- ences actually exist between marriages
rospective design, Berger (Note 3) found that are preceded by cohabitation and
that the self-reported quality of a rela- those that are not. A few, generally in-
tionship remained largely unchanged in conclusive studies have been done con-
the shift from cohabitation to marriage. trasting these groups. Lyness (Note 2)
Kenough (1975), on the other hand, looked at variables related to concepts
found that cohabitors who married re- from open marriage and Olday (1977)
ported pressures to return to traditional examined satisfaction, conflict, egalitar-
roles and an accompanying loss of iden- ianism and emotionalclosenessand both
tity. found few significant differences be-
Returning to the broader issue of co- tween marriages that were and were not
habitation's effect upon marriage, others preceded by cohabitation. Budd (1976)
contend that cohabitation can serve an also found few differences between her
important and possibly essential role in sample of similar groups in regard to .
the individual's maturation and the suc- problems experienced, self-disclosure,
cess potential of a subsequent marriage. and commitment. She did find that
Peterman (1975) and Peterman, Ridley, couples who did not cohabit premarital-
& Anderson (1974) claim that cohabita- ly reported more difficulty with loss of
tion offers an individual a uniqueexperi- love than couples who had cohabited be-
ence in intimate relations that is not pro- fore marrying. Finally, Clatworthy and
vided through traditional educational Sheid (Note 1) reported that although
institutions and courtship practices in couples who had cohabited premaritally
this society. Cohabitation can allow a considered it a positive influence on their
person to develop a degree of 'hetero- marriage, there was little evidence that
sexual competence' that is necessary for these couples had better or less tradi-
the endurance and fulfillment of any tional marriages or that they had chosen
meaningful intimate relationship. So, to more compatible partners than couples
the extent this can be accomplished dur- who had not cohabited premaritally.
ing premarital cohabitation, a subse- They did find that those who had co-
quent marriage will benefit. Danziger habited showed more tenacity in argu-
(1976) feels that the most important ments, more independence from their
function cohabitation can serve is as a partner, and more often disagreed on fi-
screening device to assure that two peo- nances, household tasks, and use of lei-
ple are compatible before they marry. sure time than those who had not co-
These varied points of view predict dif- habited premaritally. Regarding the
ferent success potentials for marriages marriage itself, those who hadcohabited
preceded, and not preceded, by cohabi- saw their marriage as a less vital Dart of
tation. Empirically, it has been found their lives, had sought marriage cciunsel-
that, on a gross level, choosingtocohabit ing more often and had temporarily bro-
M. D. NEWCOMB and P. BENTLER 13
ken up more often than those couples tosubject motivation,and that thework-
who had not lived together before mar- ing sample is representative under the
rying. All of these studies were descrip- constraint of realistic field conditions.
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divorce rate for the noncohabitors. parent that those who are inclined or at-
Whereas, overall, noncohabitors as tracted to cohabitationarealso less inter-
compared to cohabitors had a slightly ested in producing children, once mar-
higher success rate, in terms of fewer di- ried.
vorces, a more detailed analysis suggests Among the cohabitors there was a dis-
that some cohabitors actually have a tinct difference between those who had
higher success rate than noncohabitors. lived together a short period and those
Marital Adjustment who had lived together a longer while be-
fore marrying. Thirty-five percent of
We next looked at whether the degree those couples who had cohabited for 10
of marital adjustment differed between months or less had children, while less
cohabitors and noncohabitors, using the than 6% of those who had cohabited for
composite adjustment score - a combi- I 1 months or longer had children. This
nation of the Locke-Wallace scale and difference was also found to be signifi-
the lack of problems score- to represent cant (x*(,,= 4.50, p < .05).
marital adjustment. A two-way analysis
of variance showed that there was vir- Problem Ratings
tually no overall difference between co- In order to determine more specifical-
habitors and noncohabitors(F=.07, ns). ly the quality of these marriages we ana-
This lack of a reliable difference on mari- lyzed our problem rating checklist, area
tal adjustment between cohabitors and by area. Differences in problem ratings
noncohabitors mirrors the results re- were looked at in three ways: (a) it was
garding divorce rates. first determined whether there were any
The main effect of outcome -married mean differences between cohabitors
vs. divorced -revealed a large, albeit ex- and noncohabitors in regard to each
pected, significant difference ( F = 73.0 1, problem area, (b) then the interaction of
p < .001). Of greater interest,however, is cohabitation and marital outcome by
the significant interaction effect of co- each problem area was looked at, and (c)
habitation with outcome ( F = 6.66, within group differences among cohabi-
p < .05). Cohabitors who remained mar- tors wasexamined, regarding how length
ried had a lower level of marital adjust- of cohabitation affected the various
ment than noncohabitors who remained problem areas.
married. Conversely, cohabitors who di- The total problem score did not signif-
vorced had a higher level of marital ad- icantly differentiate those whocohabited
justment than divorced noncohabitors.
The difference between the twostill-mar-
,
from those who did not (t = .84, ns).
Mean differences were compared on
ried groups was not significant(r,,,,= 37, each problem area between those who
ns), but the difference between thedivorced did and did not cohabit, by using two-
groups was found to be significant (r,,,, = tailed t tests. These t values are shown in
-2.56, p .c .05, two-tailed). It seems ap- column I of Table 1. Fourareasgavesig-
parent, then, that cohabitors divorced nificantly greater difficulty for the co-
with a significantly higher level of mari- habitors compared to the noncohabi-
tal adjustment, or fewer problems in tors. These four problems were adultery,
their marriage, than couples who did not drunkenness, drug abuse, and indepen-
cohabit before marrying and divorced. dence. Only one area, bickering, was sig-
Birth of Children nificantly more of a problem forthe non-
Twenty-five of the 68 couples (37%) cohabitors than the cohabitors.
had at least onechild born to themduring Column 2 of Table 1 shows the Fval-
their first four years of marriage. Fifty- ues for the interaction of cohabitation
three percent of those couples who did and marital outcome. Six of these inter-
not cohabit had children, whileonly 21% actions were significant. Four of these
of those who cohabited had children. six significant interactions: nonsupport,
16 Two Aspects of Cohabitation and Marital Success
Table 1
Problem Areas
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friends, bickering, and career conflicts, nificant, they are reported heresince they
were caused by a small difference be- address a very criticalquestion regarding
tween the still-married groups and a cohabitation: specifically, does length of
large difference between the two di- cohabitation have a beneficial or detri-
vorced groups, with thedivorcedcohabi- mental effect on problems commonly
tors reporting substantially lower dt- faced in marriage? Looking at correla-
grees of difficulty than the divorced non- tions greater than. IS, it can be seen that
cohabitors. The remaining two signifi- the longer one cohabits the less difficulty
cant interactions, on adultery and drug will be faced during marriage regarding
abuse, had a similar form as the others sexual relations, friends, ill health, and
except that the divorced cohabitors re- career conflicts. On the other hand, the
ported greaterdifficulty, rather than less, Ion er one cohabits the greater was the
on these problems, compared to the di- di!f ~cultyreported in regard toattention
vorced noncohabitors. As in the other in- being paid to another, adultery, drug
teractions, there was essentially no dif- abuse, gambling, and bickering.
ference between the ratings given by co- Simple Predictive Correlations
habitors and noncohabitors that had re- The longitudinal predictability of
mained married. marital quality and outcome was exam-
Among cohabitors, correlations were ined for each background and personal-
used to determine the effect length of co- ity trait variable by sex and by cohabital
habitation had on ratings of the various experience. The composite marital suc-
problem areas. These correlations are cess score was used as the indicator of
given in column 3 of Table 1. While none marital quality and outcome since it in-
of these correlations were found to be sig- corporates the Locke-Wallace scale, the
M. D. NEWCOMB and P. BENTLER
Table 2
Simple Predictive Correlations
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Males Females
Noncohabitors Cohabitors :Between r Noncohabitors Cohabitors z Between r
df = 34 df = 34 N = 68 df = 34 df = 34 N = 68
Background
Age -.07
Education -.25
Occupation .07
Pre-divorce -.33*
Pre-children -.22
Parent Divorced -.34*
Personality Traits
Ambition -.37*
Art Interest .I0
Attractiveness .04
Clothes-con. -.38*
Extraversion -.56***
Intelligence .06
Invulnerability -.28
Law Abidance -.03
Leadership -.39*
Liberalism .27
Masculinity -.07
Religiosity -.09
Self-acceptance -. 14
Stability .15 .02 .52 .34* .13 .88
problem score and marital status. This the males (top portion of Table 2) there
was correlated with all independent vari- were two significant correlations for the
ables for male and female cohabitors and noncohabitors and four for the cohabi-
noncohabitors. These four sets of corre- tors. The presence of a previous divorce
lations are given in columns l,2,4, and 5 and parental divorce, for males, both
of Table 2. Two-tailed significance tests negatively influenced the success of a
were consistently'used. Using the Fisher marriage that was not preceded by co-
r to Z conversion, the Zdifferences were habitation. For those males who did co-
obtained between correlations on male habit premaritally, the older they were,
noncohabitors and cohabitors, and fe- the higher the educational level they had
male noncohabitors and cohabitors. achieved and the more often they had a
These are given in columns 3 and 6, previous divorce and previous children,
respectively, of Table 2. These Z differ- predicted a positive outcome for their
ences essentially represent measures of marriage. There were four significant
interaction between cohabital experi- differences in predictability for males, on
ence and the composite marital success background variables, on age, educa-
score in reference to each independent tion, previous divorce, and previous chil-
variable. In other words, a significant dren. In each case, the effect of the vari-
Z value indicates a reliable difference in able had an opposite influence for each
predictability on that variable for nonco- group. All were negatively related to
habitors compared to cohabitors. marital success for the noncohabitors
In regard to background variables for and positively related for the cohabitors.
18 Two Aspects of Cohabitation and Marital Success
For previous divorce, both simple corre- or else both groups had substantial cor-
lations were significant but in opposite relations but in opposite directions as
directions. with clothes-consciousness and liber-
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Table 3
Marital Outcome Predictive Equations
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Cohabitors Noncohabitors
Variable
Beta Sien Beta Sien
tive influence of these variables was neu- had cohabited from three to 10 months
tralized when thegroups werecombined, prior to marriage had relatively low di-
we compared the Beta-weights between vorce rates. Apparently three to 10
the cohabitor and noncohabitor equa- months is an optimal length to cohabit
tions. It can be seen that four of the six premaritally, in order to minimize the
variables have opposite directions of in- possibility of divorce. It must be kept in
fluence. For the cohabitors, education, mind that these differences in propor-
previous divorce, clothes-consciousness, tions only reflect trends that are not sta-,
and law abidance each have a positiveef- tistically reliable and thus must beevalu-
fect on marital success, whilefor the non- ated cautiously and definitely have fu-.
cohabitors each has a negative effect. An ture cross-validation.
even more striking contrast can be seen The entire issue of why a couple will
when comparing the tri-weight vectors. decide to marry after cohabiting is large-
None of the variables has a similar in- ly unexamined in the literatureand needs
fluence in both groups. Age and law abi- more attention in future research. One:
dance have a positive effect for cohabi- speculation is that cohabitors will marry
tors and virtually no predictive influence when they decide to have children. This
for noncohabitors. Education, ambi- was not borne out in our data. In fact, sig-
tion, and clothes-consciousness all have nificantly more couples who did not co-
a positive influence for the cohabitors habit bore children during their first four
and a negative influence for the nonco- years of marriage, compared to those
habitors. Ambition, on the other hand, who did cohabit. This is consistent with
has virtually no predictive power for the the findings of Bower and Christopher-
cohabitors, but has a negative influence son (1977) which indicated that cohabi-
for the noncohabitors. It seems remark- tors planned to have significantly fewer
ably clear from these analyses that the children in their lifetime, than individ-
prediction of marital success is strikingly uals who did not cohabit. It is apparent
different depending on whether or not that most cohabitors do not decide to
the couples cohabited premaritally. marry in order to provide a basis for hav-
ing children.
Discussion In regard to marital adjustment, the
Our results indicate that there are no significant interaction obtained between
significant differences in divorce rates or cohabital experience and marital out-
degree of marital satisfaction between come is very interesting. We found that
couples who did and did not cohabit be- for couples who remained married after
fore marriage. Although there was a four years, there was no significant dif-
trend for those who had cohabited to ference in marital adjustment between
have higher divorce rates and lowermar- cohabitors and noncohabitors. This was
ital satisfaction than those who did not not the case for couples who divorced
cohabit, these two differencesdid notap- during that period of time. Couples who
proach being reliable. Clatworthy and cohabited premaritally divorced while
Sheid (Note 1) found that couples who experiencing less difficulty, compared to
had cohabited before marriage more couples who divorced and had not lived
often sought marriage counseling and together before marriage. Cole and Vin-
more often had temporary separations cent (Note 4) found that living together
than couples who had not cohabited pre- unmarried couples reported significant-
maritally. These findings are not incon- ly fewer barriers to terminating their re:-
sistent with the trends observed here. lationship than married couples. Appar-
Our more detailed analyses did reveal ently, the act of marrying does not aug-
some interesting possibilities. Among ment the number of perceived barriers
cohabitors, it was found that those who to separation for previous cohabitors to
had lived together for less than three any great degree. The number and
M. D. NEWCOMB and P. BENTLER 21
experienced four years into their mar- regarding their needs and interpersonal
riage, we correlated duration of cohabi- functioning than older people. Ifcohabi-
tation with each problem rating. Al- tation can be considered to be at least
though none of these correlations were functionally equivalent to a trial mar-
significant, tharends observed are infor- riage, one of the most importantfeatures
mative. The longer a couple cohabited it has to provide is knowledge and infor-
premaritally the less difficulty they re- mation pertaining to the interpersonal
ported in theirmarriagewithsex,friends, compatibility of the couple. Older co-
health, and careerconflicts,and the more habitors apparently have the maturity
difficulty with attention to another, and interpersonal competence to utilize
adultery, drug abuse, and bickering. The the information obtained fromcohabita-
exacerbated problems seem to relate to a tion in order to assure the selection of a
non-mutual satisfaction between a mu- compatible marriage partner, that might
tual sharing, while theameliorated prob- lead to a more successful marriage.
lems are ones of individual satisfaction. Younger cohabitors are apparently
This may be due to the independent and much less successful in utilizing the infor-
possibly self-centered attitudes of cohab- mation from cohabitation effectively.
itors. Yet, thesecorrelations wereneither The lack of a relationship between age
significant nor large, and thus we must and marital success for noncohabitors
conclude that the length of cohabitation points out the power of the information
may increase or correct specific prob- cohabitation can provide. Noncohabi-
lems to a small extent, but not toany dra- tors did not have this additional infor-
matic degree. In other words, cohabita- mation about the intimate, day-to-day
tion cannot be damned nor blessed for interactions with their potential mate.
preventing the problems in marriage. Lacking this critical information, their
The power to predict marital success age or level of maturity could not use or
was evaluated by correlating each vari- misuse data that was not available.
able with our dependent measure of mar- The presence ofa previousdivorce had
ital success in four groups. Rather than different effects upon marital success for
attempting to interpret each significant cohabitors and noncohabitors. For both
predictive correlation, which may have male and female cohabitors, being pre-
the result of grasping at straws where viously divorced was beneficial to the
there is no adequate theoretical hay- outcome of their current marriage. Per-
stack, we will examine a few results that haps the personal and interpersonal
seem to have particular interest and im- knowledge gained from a previous un-
portance. successful marriage - regarding per-
Previous research has consistently sonal needs, wants, and vulnerabili-
shown that age is a significant predictor ties - allowed the cohabital experience
of marital success (e.g., Luckey, 1966; to be a real testing ground for a possible
U.S. Bureau ofthecensus, 1973). We ob- marriage. In other words, the informa-
tained a similar result but only for indi- tion provided through cohabiting was
viduals who cohabited premaritally. Age more effectively utilized, in the sense of
at marriage was virtually unrelated to producing a more successful marriage, if
marital success for people who had not the individuals had been previously di-
lived together before marrying. If pre- vorced. Cohabitors who did not have a
marital cohabitors marry young there is previous marriage and divorce had a rel-
less chance for them to havea successful atively worse marriage. They a p rently
marriage than if they had cohabited and
married at an older age. There are two
P"
were not able to benefit asmuch rorn the
cohabital experience when deciding to
critical factors to understand wheninter- marry. This parallels our results on age
preting this phenomenon: The implica- and may be due to older people more
tions of age and cohabital experience. It often having a previous divorce, com-
M. D. NEWCOMB and P. BENTLER
pared to younger people. The exact op- the presence or absence of cohabitation
posite effect for previous divorce was has no direct influence on theoverallout-
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