HOW TO TEXT HER FOR GOING OUT Sending the first texts : How to compel her to respond.

So, you have the girls number & youre ready to send her a text. (But are you really ready?) Do you ask yourself; What do I say? How should I phrase my wording? Should I ask her a question? Before you start typing on the keypad, think about whether or not your text is going to have an emotional effect. The BEST first texts are always the ones to make her laugh. If you normally send girls messages saying, Hey whats up? or How are you doing? or Hi, how was your day? etc STOP!! Smack yourself on the hand, and promise to NEVER do that again. How does it make you feel when you read those? Most likely, completely unaffected. So guess how SHE is going to react Do you think its enough to make her want to respond? NOPE! The secret to sending a bangin first text is to use something you already know about her or something you already talked to her about. For instance: If she mentioned that she LOVES movies & TV shows about paranormal stuff, you could text her something like: Hey ghost girl, I hope youre in good spirits today ;-) Its just a quick, fun text to say hello instead of saying how are you? Or Hows your day? Its the playful vibe that shes going to remember, and the added *nickname will make her smile. (*more about nicknames later) Here are a few more examples of fun, flirty, silly, totally random texts you could use, to get her smiling & make here WANT TO text you back: (I JUST sent this one to my GF moments ago while Im here at work.) ME: 10:00 Break sunshine + humidity = uncomfortable. HER: Just wait. This evening things are going to get even hotter But wont be so uncomfortable! ME: Wow! You would be the most amazing meteorologist (and sexiest too!) HER: Well, you should see tomorrows forecast! (See how this was more effective than if I wouldve said hey, just wanted to check on you & see how your morning is. Talk to you later ?) Here are some other ideas: (These are actual texts Ive sent at one time or another) A basket of puppies & an ice cold beer I could use ONE of these things right now. Hey chicken little, its lunchtime. FOOD CHECK! Send me a pic of what youre eating. Hmmm do you smell that? Its trouble I hope youre looking forward to it Ugh! Rush hour.. people playing bumper cars on the interstate. Be there ASAP This Friday me & you.. g-string showdown! Bring youre a-game! Ahhh ice cream nothing sweeter on a day like this. (except your lips!) Cant wait til later! FYI, I feel like a mad-scientist today are you feelin like a super-hero? hey whats up? (THIS is NOT a text youll ever get from me, just so you know) whats new puddy tat? Whoooooaaahhhh!! Where is this text going? outie

All of these are pretty much random nonsense, with only one goal in mind: Make her laugh! They dont have to be cool, they dont have to be clever (although in a sense, they kinda are) they dont need to ask how she is, or what shes doing Thats not the point. We just want her to feel an emotional reaction when she opens her phone & reads our message. Thats all. You can also stir up curiosity & suspense by sending a cliff hanger text. The purpose of that is to get her mind & emotions kick-started and her imagination working to create anticipation, drama, and uncertainty. They make great hooks that virtually guarantee she WILL respond. Examples of cliff hangers would be: Hey little munchkin, youll never guess what happened Hey, I have a great idea Ohhh, if I had one wish right now, it would be... So, I have to admit Ive been thing about Oh jeeeez! I cant believe it So, Im driving to work today & one thing kept going through my mind All of these messages are designed to pique her curiosity & intrigue. Women just HAVE TO know stuff! And when they dont know, it drives them crazy. In turn it affects her emotionally, which is the key to flipping her attraction switches. So using this technique will result in a very high success rate for getting her to respond to your texts. How to ask her out / Setting the meeting: So, youve been texting & getting her to respond. You understand the importance of NOT sending lifeless texts, but instead youre creating fun & emotional messages. Now its time to set up a time & place to meet up. Dont blow it here! If you go back to old habits of being traditional in asking her out, shell quickly lose interest. If you text her anything remotely like this, smack yourself in the head with a small hammer: So, I was wondering if youre not busy Saturday night, would you maybe want to go out? Seriously! Thats a No-No! Remember; think about how to speak to her on an emotional level. Get her attention with something unique & interesting. And by all means. BE A MAN about asking her out & setting the date. No more of this timid, wussy approach. You want to have a plan in mind ahead of time. Women LOVE plans & hate indecisiveness. Women love confidence & men who are sure of themselves. So when you text her about getting together; be sharp, have a plan, be confident & make the text itself FUN. A little tip for these sort of texts is, use *odd times. So, instead of saying 7:00 or 7:30, tell her 7:11, or 8:03 etc. (*I started using this technique after reading about it in two other amazing text game guides b4utxther & HOW2TXTHER you should check those out too! They go into even more detail about texting game)

One quick note about the odd time technique: It works because its silly & stands out. Shell notice it right away & laugh. Plus shell remember it! (I mean really, WHO says 7:27 instead of 7:30??? YOU DO! Cool? Cool.) Here are a few ways to text her when you want to meet up: Craving pizza! Roll with me this Fri @ 8:13 youll love their hand-tossed crust! Sushi time... tomorrow 6:06 PM. you GOTTA try the yellowfin roll!! Hey my little dancin queen, new club opening tomorrow. Get your boogie shoes ready - Pick u up at 7:33 =) Hey mamacita, margaritas Sat nite. Come to my place & well roll @ 7:27 adios mi amiga! Tomorrow - Hot, 95 & sunny Ill be poolside with a cold drink. Bring your sunscreen! Aloha little mermaid, get your tail-fin ready cuz Its beach time! Ill get u @ 1:02 These types of messages show her you have a plan; that youre already going to be doing something & she should come along for the fun, AND are presented in an entertaining, interesting way that she wont just ignore. If you were to ask her, Hey, I was wondering if you might want to get some pizza with me sometime? Just let me know ok? Thanks. Shes most likely going to decline. You havent done anything to spark interest or flip any switches. DONT send those kinds of texts. OK, Moving on. When to respond/How soon to reply back: Whenever a girl sends you a text, you want to change up the amount of time it takes for you to respond. Why? Because you dont want to be "predictable", and you want to establish the frame that you are a busy guy and arent sitting around waiting for her to text you. Sometimes youll reply back within a minute or two; sometimes after an hour maybe longer. Sometimes youll shoot a text back immediately. By changing up your response time youre creating suspense. Its going to hit one of those emotional buttons like weve been discussing. You want her to experience a wide range of emotions to keep her interested. When youve just spent 10 minutes in Rapid Fire Reply(RFR) mode, & then sort of drop off for a little while, shes going to feel a bit of uncertainty; wondering things like, Is he mad? Did he lose interest? Did I say something wrong? Did I send the text to the wrong person?? etc

This is good! Seriously. Because, when you DO text her back again maybe 20 minutes later, or an hour later, shell feel that sense of relief & excitement. Shell get butterflies from the adrenaline rush that your text delivers. Its that kind of pleasure you feel, ONLY AFTER youve had a feeling of loss (or at least potential loss). Yes it IS totally OK to respond right away. In fact, you SHOULD from time to time. Its also perfectly fine to go into RFR for a while. So dont make the mistake of thinking you always have to wait a long time to reply. Shell just get tired of texting you altogether if she knows shes going to have to wait forever to hear back. Just be unpredictable, & youll be golden! Nicknames / pet-names: Girls LOVE little pet-names; especially if theyre personal & significant between the two of you!! In many of my example texts youve seen how I incorporated the use of a funny, cute, playful nickname to call her. This technique is great for bringing a smile to her face when she gets your message. My favorite method of coming up with nicknames is to connect it to something specific about her; maybe something related to her personality, or one of her favorite activities, or even about her looks. On PUAForums.com we had a thread about favorite pet-names/nicknames weve used with girls. Some of them are classic, traditional ones that everyone has heard & used before. Then there other that are more unique, more creative & definitely more humorous! Heres a list of great examples (including some of a more "sexual" nature) you can use, taken straight from the Pet-names thread on the forum. Some also have explanations about their origin. (Try interchanging bits from different ones to come up with more!) Sugar Baby Honey Buttercup Cupcake Firefox Sneakplay Pussy Galore Snorkle Bum (use your imagination) Honey whacker (she smashes all the girls out the park) Indiana Jones (because she is the boss and likes to whip you into shape, at least let her think this it will show youre not controlling) Tongue Slider (kissing her is like the best theme park ride ever people queue up from miles around but there is a height restriction) Sassy-Pants (This one has always been great!) NerdBall Skitty (after I call her my little "sex kitten/sex kitty") Rubber ducky *Dork Butt (Ill include an actual text exchange where I implemented this one)

Tiger Baby Speed Racer (for the girls who drive to my apartment in record time!) Little Brat Sexy Face Turtle Dove Nutty Ninja Pooh Bear Sugar Lips Sweet Face Naughty Pants Firecracker CheeseBall Monkey Toes Chatty Cat (when she won't shut up) Baby Seal Banana Smuggler Dirty Girl Magic Mouth Little Candy Striper Motor Crotch (This one is great for sexually confident girls... not so much for the shy ones) Little "Squirt" Gun (for "those" types of girls) Giggle Goose Pixie Dust Little Chipmunk Sugar Glider (for the petite, little cuties) Cranky Puss (when she's getting b1tchy) "Moaning Lisa" (named after the famous painting, but with a twist - for those girls who are vocally talented in bed) Bigfoot (when the girl has TINY feet!!) Lap doggy (semi-sexual, for the ones who constantly sit on your lap) Kitty Face Love Bomb Juicy Fruit / Juicy Lucy (for the girls who get really wet during foreplay) Ditzoid Cyber Slave (for the ones who send you "naughty texts") Goofy Loo Stupid Head(when you're being playful & both razzing each other) Little Sucky Face (for the good kissers) Crazy Legs / Little Pretzel (for those extremely flexible girls) Grabby Hands (for the ones who always touch you) Squirmy Pants (when she's all aroused & can't sit still) *Heres how I came up with Dork Butt... during a text exchange: It was totally on the fly & the spur of the moment: I was texting with my current chicky-poo. (Lots of playful bantering/razzing each other) & I told her about my "House Rule" the day she was coming over, which is: "Clothing is NOT permitted. Period!" She texted back: & said, "I don't like your house rule"

My reply: "Bite me Dork Butt!! That rule is AWESOME!" Her: OMG that made me spit coffee out my nose! I hate you now!! LOL There you go. Dont be afraid of using little special nicknames when youre messaging your girl. In fact, I highly suggest it! It adds so much fun to what might otherwise be a boring text. Plus, when you throw these in from time to time, shell absolutely want to join in & shell start making up crazy names to call you. So, let the fun begin!!