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women are the fruit of feminine caution. A woman's sexuality is like Miss Marple's Detective Agency; it mulls over a variety of evidence, weighs clues from the physical and social environment, and examines her own experiences and feelings before permitting or pursuing sex. The female brain is designed to play it safe because the odds of a woman reproducing are very good. Today's human population is descended from twice as many women as men. Historically, 80% of women reproduce, versus only 40% of men. In other words, men who don't take chances, are likely to end up childless Women face a different problem--the odds are good that men will offer sex. All that matters is choosing the best offer The agency includes four detectives: Emotional, Social, Cultural, Physical Emotional: Women encode emotions through the left amygdala, while men process emotions through the right amygdala. The right amygdala enhances memory for the "big picture" of an experience, while the left amygdala enhances memory for peripheral details. The right amygdala is active in men (but not women) when viewing pornography; the left amygdala is active in women while processing erotic narratives. Social: Women are more verbal than men, a superiority that appears as early as age five. Teen girls send and receive 80 texts per day; teen boys 30. 59% of teen girls call a friend every day; only 42% of boys do. There are more connections between the language centers and subcortical reward systems in the female brain, suggesting that talking is more rewarding for women than for men. Cultural: Men's porn sites have no explicit politics; female-targeted porn sites contain an abundance of political messages. "Women's sexuality appears to be more plastic than men's, relying on social framing and cultural conditions when making decisions regarding relationships. Men's sexuality seems far more driven by simply physiological mechanisms." The Man (coconut) Virtually every serial killer received love letters from large numbers of female fans Women don't want a nice guy, they want an alpha who learns to be nice to her. They want to tame, heal, or soften the alpha hero's wild heart. "In the same way that women often find the breathless gasping and moaning of female porn stars to be absurdly inauthentic, male readers of romances might find the emotional confessions of romance heroes to be strangely unfamiliar." Just as men are convinced that porn stars are having real orgasms, women are convinced that bad boys are hiding a secret tenderness. Money and Material resources are arousing to females across all the animal kingdom. Female chimpanzees prefer males with the largest quantity of meat. In modern romance novels, successful independent women need a hero who is even richer, or is a total macho badass. Here are the 10 most common professions of the hero, based on an analysis of 15,000 Harlequin romances Doctor, Surgeon, Boss Prince, King, Knight, Cowboy, Rancher, Bodyguard, Sherriff These professions are associated with status, confidence and competence. Women are attracted to alpha males. Women prefer the voices, scent, movement, gait, and facial features of dominant men. Women are far more interested in older partners than men are. Preselection : women + The popularity cue is also powerful, which is one reason many women find married men attractive Chapter 8: Female Visual Cues Testosterone based- Deep voices, masculine scents, chiseled jaws, more defined cheekbones, and muscular bodies Women also express a preference for men in uniform and well-dressed men, which may be because they connote confidence and dependability. Women want tight, athletic butts "Little attention is paid to the details of male genitalia. Instead there is far greater emphasis on the activity of the blood within penis Chapter 6: The Heroine One of the most fundamental and influential psychological cues for women is irresistibility: the feeling that you are sexually desirable." Donald Symons and Bruce Ellis found that more than half of women's fantasies reflect the desire to be sexually irresistible Women frequently fantasize about being a stripper, harem girl, or Las Vegas showgirl and 'delighting many men.'" "The psychological cue of adorability--a woman's desire to feel loved for her unique and special qualities--is as fundamental as irresistability. "Twu Wuv" is about a woman's specialness as a human being. The hero must demonstrate that his love is steady, irrational, and everlasting. The main narrative arc of any romance consists of the hero gradually coming to terms with the powerful and inexplicable love he feels toward the heroine." "The climax of every romance novel occurs when the hero finally confesses his heartfelt Twu Wuv to the heroine in a sudden gush, often accompanied by a marriage proposal" "The male brain is designed for sexual jealousy. Men are suspicious about whom a woman has slept with and frequently press their partner on how many time's she's previously had sex; most women are savvy enough to round this number down. Likewise, the female brain is designed for emotional jealousy. Women usually push their partner to reveal how many times he's previously been in love; men are often foolish enough to provide a figure other than zero." Men's desire is like an OR gate; meet one criteria, pull the trigger. Women's desire is like an AND gate; meet all criteria, or reject the suitor A single 60-second clip can compel a man to masturbate to ejaculation. But the single most popular artifact used by women to generate arousal takes the form of a 250-page book that requires hours to digest." The male brain splits Sex and Romance; the female brain unites and intertwines them.