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Tweddle talks about the organic skin care lines she carries.
“The line is called Bella Lucce. It has Asian and Arabian products,
both excellent depending on personal preference. The Asian line
has products made from crushed pearls, shitake mushrooms,
green tea and red tea. The Arabian line has ingredients like
sandalwood herbs and sea mud. We are constantly on the
lookout for environmentally safe products for our clients.”
What’s the most challenging part of owning a nail salon?
Tweddle answers,“The hardest part is finding good staff. It takes
a reliable, talented person to develop a following. In this
economy it’s more important than ever to give quality service.
This is really a business where you get what you pay for. The
client learns quickly that discount nail salons are not in their best
interest.”
The cover photo of Bettina Tweddle brings to mind the
Vanity Fair cover of the seven months pregnant Demi Moore
taken by Annie Leibovitz in 1991. At the time, it created quite
a stir. That cover has had a lasting impact on society. It started
a trend for fashionable pregnancy photos and a booming
business. The photograph is one of the most highly regarded
magazine covers of all time. Almost fifteen years after its
publication it was listed as the second best magazine cover of
the last forty years by the American Society of Magazine Editors.
We wish only the best for Bettina, who now faces the greatest
challenge of her life.
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LHP Chamber of Commerce Social
Federal Grille – Lighthouse Point
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
The LHP Chamber of Commerce celebrated its first
Social of the 2009-2010 year. More than 70 members
and guests gathered at the “New” Federal Grille located
at 3150 N. Federal Highway. Chef Luciano Balzano and
Cheryl Schmitt hosted a lovely evening and guests
enjoyed scrumptious samples of their new menu.
Michele Greene, the Chamber’s President, kicked
off the meeting by greeting new members and guests
and advised that the Social Calendar is already filled for
the 2009-2010. For more information on the monthly
Socials, log onto www.lhpchamber.com. Michele also
introduced this year’s Board of Directors which are:
Cindy Tenberg,Vice President – Law Offices of Cynthia
L Tenberg, PA , Susan Gingerich, Secretary - Basket
Garden Gifts, Lou Petrone, Treasurer – Red Fox
Restaurant, Warren Persky, Board Member – Best
Promotions, Julie Wheeler, Membership Chair –
Wheeler Mortgage, Pat Anderson, Board Member – My (L to R) New Members: Dr. Paula Hedglon, Hedglon Chiropractic Center,
Cruising Journal, Dr. Carol McNamara Krauss, Board Fine Nguyen, Avanti Nails Salon, Joanne Massey-Dean, Silpada Design,
Member, Lucille Pignataro, Board Member – Bank Teri Kovacs, Teri Kovacs Photography, Janet Ruffolo, Interiors by Janet,
United, LizAnn Brown, Board Member – Campbell Paul Allert, Alianza Transportation and
Rosemurgy, Rene Sabatini, Board Member – Azure Julie Wheeler, LHP Chamber's Membership Director.
Realty, Sydnee Renaurd, Social Chair - SunTrust Bank
and Virginia Campbell.
Carol Landeau, City Clerk, Lighthouse Point, talked about the The Auction Committee is and will be collecting items for the
importance of everyone taking the time to fill out the 2010 Silent, Chinese and Live auctions. If anyone has anything that
Census. Another important fact to remember is the City of they are interested in donating or has names of companies that
Lighthouse Point gets money per household for the general fund would be, please contact the Chamber at: lhpchamber@
for every completed census and those dollars are use for very gmail.com. Stay tuned for more and let us know what you like.
important improvements to our community. The Chamber will again be participating in the 14th Annual
Michele Greene then recognized this month’s new members Dunn’s Run the first Sunday in October. Our team continues to
which are, Dr. Paula Hedglon: Hedglon Chiropractic Center, Fine grow each and every year.
Nguyen: Avanti Nails Salon, Joanne Massey-Dean: Silpada Design,
Teresa Kovacs: Teri Kovacs Photography, Janet Ruffolo: Interiors
by Janet and Paul Allert: Alianza Transportation and Dr.
Christopher Dean of the Lighthouse Point Animal Hospital.
The 6th Annual Taste of Lighthouse Point will be held on
Tuesday, January 19th, 2010 at the Lighthouse Point Yacht &
Racquet Club. There are many new suggestions that we are
trying to implement. For example, we will be having additional
valet services, possibly having trolleys bring attendees from an
off site location to and from the club, background music
throughout the Club and then three stations for the wine
services and a few others.
The Restaurant Committee is contacting the many restaurants
in the city. We will be reconfiguring the entire club and the
number of restaurants should be about the same as previous
years with a little variety.
The Sponsorship Committee is contacting our current listing
of previous sponsors and is always looking for additional new
names of individuals and businesses that would be interested.
Federal Grill Social Hosts,
Michele Greene and Chef Luciano Balzano
There are more party invites in November and Accessories — They say accessories make the outfit and
December than in the previous ten months combined. So “they” are right! You have a lot to play with — jewelry,
now is the time to freshen up your party-wear so there’s bags, shoes, belts and wraps. And remember you can over-
something in your closet when you get your next invite. do. If the top or dress has a busy pattern, or a higher
There’s nothing worse than running out last minute to find neckline, keep the jewelry simple. Invest in a nice clutch
something to wear — and everything you find is too small, in a neutral color — black, brown, beige, silver or red.This
too tacky or too overpriced. Where to start? How about will be your most used accessory all year.
right in your own closet. You may have a few pieces to
Work Parties — Make sure your clothing isn’t too
build on that you haven’t worn in a while because you
revealing. Remember you (or your husband) have to work
don’t have the perfect top to go with it, or shoes that
with these people the other 364 days of the year.
match. Well now you have a little time to start looking.
Start by trying on to make sure those pieces still fit.And the Millie Walsh is the owner of Body & Soul Boutique,
best thing to do is keep those pieces in a bag in the trunk located in The Shoppes at Beacon Light, 2430 N. Federal
of your car so you have them with you when you go Highway, Lighthouse Point.
shopping. There’s no better way to see if those pants really
match that top than having them with you. Plan for several
dress levels — casual outdoor party, holiday house party,
office party, and cocktail party. Here are a few tips to help:
Color – The holidays are the perfect time for rich jewel
tones. Red is always a holiday favorite. This season deep
rich purples and greens are hot. And black is always in,
especially accented with sequins or jewels for the holidays.
Metallics are the perfect accent — how about a silver
jacket for your little black dress?
Bling — Whether it’s in your jewelry, or on your clothing
the bling this season is sequins, jewels, stones and metallics.
I wouldn’t say crystals are out, they’re just more subdued.
Instead of covering the entire shirt they’re used more to
accent the print or silhouette of the piece.
Dresses — Long or short, dresses haven’t been this hot in
decades. Dress it up, or dress it down with a change of
accessories and shoes the same dress can take you to many
parties. Throw on a wrap, or wear it with tights or boots
for a completely different look. With so many different
styles, dresses can show off your attributes and help hide
the parts you’d rather not flaunt.
Jeans — Jeans can take you almost anywhere. At the
holidays that is a big almost. Even the dressiest jeans aren’t
appropriate for cocktail parties and black tie affairs. Call
me old fashioned but I think we need to keep our jeans in
the closet for the dressier holiday fare. As an alternate
try a wide palazzo pant or a fitted black pant with a
metallic shine.
Floored
By Alan Williamson
I can t stand this carpet anymore, it’s disgusting,” my wife chalk on the floor. I presumed this was to mark his territory,
said one day out of the blue. Not quite hearing her right, I which seem plausible when, in a move reminiscent of tribal
thought she said “I can’t stand this country anymore, it’s rituals I’ve seen on National Geographic specials, he danced in
disgusting” and wholeheartedly agreed that we should take the ever widening circles through the chalk before tracking its
initiative and do something about it. indelible stain to far off corners of the house.
“I don’t like what I’m seeing either, haven’t for quite a while,” Meanwhile, the carpet guys, inspired by the wood guy’s
I confided.“I’m glad we’re on the same page with this. Let’s put mystical approach to project planning, set about carrying out
our heads together, commit some real time and energy, and do their own ingenious strategy of installing carpet in the living
something meaningful, something transformational.” room first and then relentlessly trashing it on their 115 trips
“Great,” Sherry said.“I was thinking of putting a wood floor back and forth to do the bedrooms.
in the dining room and berber or frieze carpeting through the After installing approximately 12 planks during a six-hour
rest of the house.” shift, the wood guy decided to quit while he was ahead, and
“I’m sorry, what?” Suddenly, that “same page” I thought we rode off on his bicycle (yes, his bicycle).The carpet guys, who
were on was a page in a whole different book written in had arrived three hours late, asked if we minded if they worked
another language. late into the evening. After eight hours of carpet-laying chaos,
“I know, I know, I’ve never been a wood person, but I was we minded.
thinking it would really set the dining room off from the rest Things didn’t go any better the next day when the crucial
of the house,” Sherry clarified. merging of the wood floor and the carpet was to be executed.
“You want to change the flooring throughout the whole According to Sherry’s vision, there would be a gently sweeping
house?” curve that would define the transition from the dining room
“Well, not the kitchen and family room, but everything else. wood to the living room carpet.When the moment of creative
Did you have something different in mind? conception came, we were, to put it succinctly, “floored.”
“Well, since you asked, I was thinking of influencing social Instead of a soft, graceful curve, the meeting of the carpet and
and economic change through a personal investment in wood resembled the jagged outline of an eroded beach during
political activism,” I cheerfully professed. low tide.
“Excuse me?”The testiness of those two words didn’t bode “I can’t stand this flooring, it’s disgusting,” Sherry said,
well for Sherry’s openness to go in a different direction. surveying the carnage.
“Or wood in the dining room, carpet in the rest of the house “Isn’t that what you said before we started this project?” I
— what you said,” I countered, slickly correcting course. asked, trying to sort out the forensics of our misadventure.
“Good I’ll make some calls.” “Yes, but that’s before we spent money trying to improve it,
So began our home reflooring project, or to put it more so now I’m even more disgusted.”
accurately, our “Move Everything We Own From 90 percent of “Let’s never do this again,” I proposed, running my toes along
the House and Put it in 10 Percent of the House While We the eroded coastline that was supposed to be the border of
Camp Out in a Tiny Corner of the Kitchen Project.” our new carpet and wood floors.
When you’ve lived in the same house for a long time, things “Never do what again? Make a home improvement?”
have a way of accumulating. In our home, the contents can be “No, never use a company again that charges half the price
divided into three distinct categories: furniture and accessories, of their competitors and sends guys as inept as me to do the
home electronics, and the staggering flea market-size collection work.”
of things my wife has crammed into every inch of closet space. “I think that’s a change in policy worth making,” Sherry
In the small guest bedroom closet alone we have four boxes of acknowledged. “Now what do you want to do about this
gift wrapping materials, an assortment of hats (some of them eroded beach of a floor border?”
straw), extra blankets and pillows, an oscillating ceramic heater, “Well, since you asked, I was thinking we could buy some
a battery-powered black and white TV, a hurricane kit, a first-aid rubber sand crabs and jellyfish from one of those tourist shops
kit, a sewing kit, board games, two pair of binoculars, a tripod, out by the pier and make it into a whole ‘bad day at the beach’
fake leaves made of silk, “silk” shirts made of polyester, duffle theme.”
bags, tote bags, store bags, luggage, tax records, old record “Maybe add some beer bottles, cigarette butts, food
albums and six large plastic storage boxes of photos — three wrappers,” Sherry brainstormed.
of them quite possibly not of people we know. “Yes, excellent! Maybe some medical waste, too. And odd
The upheaval of transporting all that stuff from the closets items of clothing — a glove, a girdle, a straw hat, one shoe.”
to the dumping ground formerly known as our family room “Wait here,” Sherry nodded.“I’ve got some stuff I was going
was unsettling, but not nearly as unnerving as the installation to cram back in the closet”
of the carpet and wood. I’m not a flooring expert, but I sensed “Bring out those boxes of old photos,” I yelled. “Especially
we were in trouble when the “wood guy” kept reading the box the ones of people we don’t know!”
the planks came in and making puzzled grunting sounds. After alwilly@bellsouth.net
a couple of hours of grunting, he snapped several lines of red © 2009 Alan Williamson
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With 60-80% of residential and commercial real estate listed and offered is a principal residence, or bankruptcy has taken place or the mortgage is
as short sales, I decided in my first LPM monthly article to alert sellers and a non-recourse loan.
buyers of the crucial short sale elements. The short sale has been hailed as the savior of credit worthiness but in
About 10% of short sale listings receive lender approval and sell as short the real world, lenders do not make a distinction between a short
sales.All three parties, the seller, buyer and lender must agree on the price. sale and a foreclosure as it relates to credit worthiness.
To convince the lender to approve the price, select a credible The above are the crucial elements of the short sale. What about the
Broker with experience and negotiation skills. The seller must seller who wants to sell property on a regular basis (not a short sale) in an
complete an application (with Broker assistance) to include a hardship area with many competing, lower priced short sale listings? This regular
letter, tax returns,W-2s, payroll stubs, financial and bank statements. seller needs a Broker who has expertise in what I call SVA or Specialized
Most short sale listings are NOT lender approved. Consequently many Value Added Marketing and Sales strategy.
sellers and buyers travel “the long and winding road” of disappointment and
There has never been a better time to buy residential property.
heartache. If you’re a buyer, make sure the price of a short sale listing
Regular sellers can hedge their losses by buying low. And commercial
is lender approved.
properties are now beginning to bottom out.
What lenders consider a hardship: Unemployment; medical emergency;
bankruptcy and death. There’s a caveat. The seller still cannot possess Finally, compare investment alternatives. The DOW mysteriously rose
income or assets. Insolvency is almost essential for lender approval. The 50% in the last 6 months. Many economists believe that the fundamentals
seller needs a Broker with credibility and negotiation skills to convince the for this increase do not exist. But real estate prices are at the bottom,
lender to sign what I call a DSR or Deficiency or Shortfall Release clause. ripe right now.
This is the most important clause for the seller. Richard Michael Abraham, a founder of the REDI Foundation,
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Dear Healthcare Reformers and Worriers, “No, see, that was this afternoon,” I said as patiently as possible. She
About five years ago, my wife spent a week at a hospital so filled with shouldn’t have had any food this afternoon. But she’s having the ultra sound
hapless bumblers, I dubbed it “The Benny Hill Hospital.” now, so she will want dinner.”
It seems that Benny Hill Enterprises is now franchising its expertise. “No one told us.”
Since my wife’s stay, I have discovered all kinds of hospitals, clinics and The ultra sound took less than a half-hour. My wife was back in her room
healthcare facilities employing Benny Hill techniques. by six o-clock. After much badgering, they brought my wife’s dinner at 7:40.
The latest happens to be the clinic where most of our doctors practice.
The ultra sound revealed some cysts in my wife’s liver, so the doctor
Last month, after trying to reach several doctors, I called the clinic’s
scheduled a CT scan for the next afternoon, with orders she was to have
office and asked to speak to the administrator, a person I will call
Freddy Fumbles. nothing to eat or drink beforehand.
“Fumbles here. May I help you?” I was there the next morning when the kitchen brought breakfast. “She’s
“Yes, I would like to report one of your assistant nurses for violating not supposed to eat until after her CT scan!” I shouted.
clinic policy.” “Oh. No one told us.”
“Goodness. What did she do?” I suddenly realized I hadn’t really learned how to communicate in Benny
“She answered the phone.” Hill language. Testing the waters, I said,“But make sure she gets her lunch
“Excuse me?” on time.”
“She answered the phone. Clearly, a criminal offense at your clinic.” They didn’t bring her any. It worked!
“Sir, I — “ I had it! I now had a glimmer of how Benny Hillspeak works!
“But she may be new, so please don’t be too hard on her.” Someone says “do,” you don’t. Someone says,“don’t,” you do. And if you
“Sir, we do not have a policy — “ get something wrong, you just say, “No one told me!” How easy is that?
“In her defense, she did put me on hold for seventeen minutes. So please
My wife’s CT scan revealed an irregularity in the liver; she was also
give her credit for that.”
diagnosed with diabetes. The doctor scheduled a liver biopsy the next day,
“Good-bye, sir.”
Two weeks ago, after once again trying to reach several doctors, I called and ordered a special diet with insulin pills.
the Gynecology Department. The next day at noon, nurses gave my wife insulin and heparin, a blood
“Gynecology, this is Martha, how can I help you?” thinner. When she went down to the lab to have the biopsy, the doctor
“Martha, I promise not to report you for answering the phone.” asked her if heparin had been given to her.
“Excuse me?” “Yes,” she said. “An hour or so ago.”
“I’m calling to find out about this PMS thing.” “What! Why? You can’t have heparin! That’s a blood thinner, for God’s
“For your wife?” sake! I can’t give you a biopsy now.”
“No, for me. See, every time I call the clinic, someone puts me on hold They wheeled my wife back upstairs at 2:00, where I was waiting
and the next thing I know, I’m listening to a recorded announcement about impatiently to take her home. We had to wait another day.
your gynecology department, and ways to handle PMS.” After the biopsy the next day, my wife said, “We should be out of here
“Sir, I’m busy —” by 6:00.”
“Look, I’m really worried about my PMS problems. I mean, I ate an entire
However, we were at a Benny Hill franchise. I was taking no chances.
three-pound salami yesterday.”
At 5:00, I marched out to the nurses’ desk and said, “Okay, who do I have
“Good-bye, sir.”
And then there’s the new Benny Hill Hospital. Before Benny and his to sleep with in order to get out of here at 6:00?”
minions took over, I spent some time in it myself. Superb experience. Run Threatened by the mere thought of this prospect, the nurses galvanized
so impeccably, I sent a letter to the chief administrator telling him what a into frenzied action, calling doctors, phoning the lab, sending nurses'
fine staff of nurses and technicians he had. assistants scurrying into the nether regions of the floor, popping into the
He never responded. room with papers to sign, unfastening Carol’s IV, showing up with a
Last week, my wife spent 26 years in this new Benny Hill version. wheelchair, and zipping us out of there by 6:20. I haven’t seen any woman
She entered at 1:00 p.m. on the first day. They brought her lunch, which move that fast since I tried to kiss Audrey Stern after our first date.
she was eating when the technician from the lab showed up. We have been home now for five days. On the second day, I called the
“Hey, you’re not supposed to eat that!” he said. “You’re scheduled for an hospital administrator to tell him how unhappy I was with everything.
ultra sound! You can’t eat before you have an ultra sound!” No one answered. Benny Hill would be proud.
“No one told me. And apparently, no one told the kitchen.”
“Well, now we’re going to have to wait another four hours.” Cantankerously Yours,
We waited another four hours. They came with a wheelchair, and as they Wendell Abern
wheeled my wife out of her room, she shouted, “Don’t let the kitchen forget
to bring me dinner.” Wendell Abern can be reached at dendyabern@comcast.net.
I called the kitchen. They told me my wife wasn’t supposed to have any
food because she was having an ultra sound. The opinions expressed in this article are not necessarily the opinions of this magazine.
I was talking with a friend of mine a few days ago, and she was when I have plunged deeply “into the water,” as it were, impelled by
saying that she would very much like to make friends here, but that a momentary flash of courage, I have always been able to swim until
she is so shy and intimidated. As we explored it a bit further, I was I got my feet on the ground again.
somewhat taken aback. This is a very attractive, intelligent, winsome Boldness, you know, is not reckless or foolhardy, not at all.
lady. She is a wonderful mother and wife. I shared with her that I too Boldness requires a deliberate decision to, perhaps, bite off more
feel those pangs of shyness or intimidation, and that sometimes I just than we have ever been able to chew before. Boldness is not vague
needed to “hold my nose,” as it were, and jump into the deep end. or mysterious. It requires us to call up the latent powers of energy,
I am not certain why, but since then, that conversation has been — and maybe even physical strength and endurance.
rolling around in my head. I suppose I have been thinking about it That idea of being bold works, I think, in almost any area we might
so much because from time-to-time we are each caused to face consider — finding a friend, creating community, taking on the chair
those aspects of our personality that are challenging and difficult, of some committee, perhaps, or taking a new job. And unless we are
and that are holding us back from being the person we might want hopelessly unqualified, I am suggesting we will deliver, our pride, our
to become. Why is that; I wonder. competitive instinct, our sense of obligation will see us through.
Is it fear? Is it the fear of being rejected, or not being smart Isn’t it curious how spiritual laws carry-over into almost any
enough, or clever enough, or…? Basil King, many years ago wrote aspect of life.
a book with the arresting title of The Conquest of Fear, and in it he Now, with all this said, this personality trait — this putting
offers this most startling comment, BE BOLD — AND MIGHTY ourselves in a position where we are required to extend ourselves
FORCES WILL COME TO YOUR AID. — is not achieved overnight. It takes practice. It can be taught to
I wonder? children and developed in adults. Confidence though is a
The more I have pondered that, the more I have to admit that in cumulative thing.
the past whenever I have fallen short, it has been almost never One of the most astute observations I have ever heard is
because I have tried and failed, and it is almost always because I Love life. Be grateful for it always. And show your gratitude by
have allowed fear to stop me from trying at all. On the other hand, not shying away from its challenges. Try always to live a bit
beyond your capacities. You’ll find that you never succeed.
AL’S COR N ER
How Reliable Are The Internet Ratings
For Advertisers?
By Al Siefert
When you Google Electricians, Electrical Contractors, Plumbers, company has a service department. Many service companies require
Air Conditioning Companies an information page will come up background checks of their employees and provide ongoing training,
showing information about those companies. Some pages will have uniforms and a drug free workplace policy.They should also arrive to
ratings with testimonials from customers about the service they your location in a well marked vehicle. In today’s world people need
received. Of the ones I looked at, there were some really upset to be sure that they are safe with anyone they let into their home.
people making comments. There were also some positive reviews While the internet is a way to find companies online, it does not
that appear to be written by someone to promote their business by offer any reference to the quality of the work that they do.
saying good things. Unfortunately, there is no way to be sure which Quality is not just the ability to fix your problem. Quality also
comments are true. For example, anyone could write something involves how the technician behaves in your home.
negative about a company, even if they never did business with We learned this lesson several years ago. We used the son of a
them.When you read a comment like this you would probably move friend to fix a toilet at the house. We assumed that he would do a
on to the next company.
good job for us because he was just starting his own business. He
People who want reliable references should check with the Better
Business Bureau or Angie’s List for a rating.The Better Business Bureau was a good plumber, however he was task oriented with more of a
requires the business to be a member. With their membership they construction background. His focus was to fix the problem and
earn a rating based on comments from their customers.With Angie’s forgot that he was a guest in our home. He did a good job fixing the
List I believe businesses sign up for free, but consumers must be a toilet but he used the bathroom hand towel as a rag to wipe his
member for access to the comments. In either case the business has hands.This left a stain that would not come out. Linda, my wife, was
the ability to challenge the complaint or satisfy the customer. outraged when she found it and I am still hearing about it.
Your friends and neighbors are also good sources for As a service company, we always try to exceed your expectations
recommendations. Companies that have been around for a while by being on time, respecting your property and paying attention to
should also be considered as reputable. When you have someone your priorities. If you do not know who to call for any type of
working inside your house you should check to be sure that the service, call us. We may know someone to recommend.
TH E EYES HAVE IT
“Optomap” A revolutionary way to examine eyes!
By Dr. Gary Goberville
Many adults and children are unaware Many vision problems begin at an early age in childhood, so it’s
that they could have a significant eye important for children to receive proper eye care from the time they
disease. This is due to the fact that good are infants. The standard of care is having an eye exam at 6 months
vision does not translate into healthy eyes. of age and then around 3 years, if their eyes are healthy. Early
This is why we take time to evaluate the inside of your eye during detection and treatment are essential to preventing conditions that
your annual exam. could potentially cause problems or vision loss
The Optomap exam gives doctors an exciting way to view of the The Optomap retinal exam can assist in the diagnosis and
inside of the eye that was never before possible. Optomap is monitoring of serious eye conditions (e.g. diabetic retinopathy,
a Panoramic Scanning Laser that provides a totally revolutionary retinal tears, detachments and macular degeneration) that often first
retinal eye examination. Optomap exams can image nearly the whole start in the periphery and progress without symptoms. Signs of
retina (the back of the eye) in about a second. This scan of the retina general health problems such as heart disease, stroke and certain
is far superior to the traditional keyhole view seen by conventional cancer can also be detected in the retina. Because of its success, we
eye examination techniques. A father of a young boy, whom recommend that an eye exam include a complete view of the inner
developed a retinal detachment and went blind in one of his eyes two eye, for every person, every year, regardless of age.With the Optomap
days after having his eye examine, developed the Optomap. our patients and doctor can instantly view his/her entire eye. The
A typical dilated eye exam only provides about a 35-degree view of doctor will review it with the patient to make sure everything looks
the retina. This dilation procedure can be inconvenient for the patient healthy in your eyes. Results are kept for reference and
due to light sensitivity and blurry vision, which can last several hours. comparison of future eye exams. Make sure you and your children
The Optomap instrument generates a 200-degree high resolution, get your annual eye exams. Don’t forget to ask for the Optomap. We
digital color image of your eye in less than a second. The image encourage you to visit www.optos.com for more information.
becomes part of the patient’s permanent computerized record and is Dr. Gary Goberville is a board certified Optometrist and is located
used as a reference to track any changes in the eye over time. Children at Eye Site Vision Center, 2490 N. Federal Hwy. Lighthouse Point
especially love Optomap because the procedure is painless and simple. (954) 943-3779, Coral Springs (954) 344-3937 and Boca Raton
No eye drops are needed, no dilation in most cases (NO OWL EYES!). (561) 479-1411; www.eyesitevision.com
Today there are all sorts of predators and con artists who your career and sympathizes when you share your life
spend their time creating new ways to get you to fall for experiences. She laughs at every joke you make —
their con. A con artist is like a shady door-to-door whether funny or not — and compliments you on your
salesperson. Both use high pressure sales tactics to get you clothes or the color of your hair. This goes beyond mere
to buy something you neither want nor need. Both make courtesy. She is trying to be your friend. You would never
promises they have no intention of keeping and both offer suspect a “friend” of being a con artist. Be wary around
a third-rate product. Recently successful scams have been anyone who acts like your best friend after knowing you
perpetrated on unsuspecting victims by con artists claiming for mere minutes.
to be a utility company worker insisting they are there to
work on phone, cable or electric lines, a condo association Beware the “Sucker List”
repairman claiming there is a leak or even and IRS This is exactly what it sounds like — a list of victims of
representative or in some cases a police officer.All of whom fraud. When a person falls for a fraud scheme, his name is
used these titles to trick their way into the homes, and bank added to the sucker list. A con artist then sells this list to
accounts, of trusting citizens unfamiliar with these scam other criminals. Why is this list so important? If someone
techniques. Con artists don’t only reach you by phone or falls for one fraud scheme, odds are he will fall for another.
email these days; they will also come knocking at your door. You can never take your name off the sucker list, but
They have one goal — and that goal is to con you. you can avoid making the list twice. Always protect your
The con artist relies on pressure tactics. The “act now or personal information, and never reveal personal infor-
you’ll miss out” deal is designed to pressure you into mation when someone solicits it from you. Think twice
making a hasty decision. Hasty decisions are often foolish before doing business with an unknown company;
mistakes. Given a minute to think, most people wouldn’t research the company on the Better Business Bureau’s
reveal their banking information over the phone. A con website, and type its name into a search engine to learn
artist steals that vital minute away; he catches his victim more about its history. And never let politeness get in the
off-guard, enabling him to steal bank account numbers and way; it is okay to be rude to a con artist. Hang up the
passwords. A trustworthy business or charity will never phone if you feel someone is trying to swindle you. Don’t
ask you to make an immediate decision. If someone offers open your door to strangers. Sadly, while the economy is in
you a limited-time opportunity, think twice. a downturn, crime isn’t. Criminals continue to find
Sometimes, a con artist poses as a government official, a creative ways to con you out of your money, your data and
lawyer, or a manager — and he benefits from the respect your very identity.
and fear that the position garners. Most people would If you can spot the con artist, before he or she spots you,
refuse to give personal information to a telemarketer. Yet chances are you will avoid becoming a victim of fraud.
when on the phone with someone claiming to be a National Consumer Empowerment Conference and
senator’s aide, many people reveal their private financial Expo in S Florida this month!
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The media often portrays criminals as rude and scruffy. to S Florida from around the country to share knowledge,
Yet many con artists are charming and polite. The expertise and resources on an array of financial topics. I’m
contradiction makes it hard to spot a con artist. A con artist proud to Co-host this event with Americans for Fairness in
often reveals herself through her eagerness. She is Lending, a national coalition of non-profit advocacy groups
extremely excited about giving you a loan; she is so pleased working to fight predatory lending. For more information
to be able to offer you this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. on this event, please feel free to contact me directly or go
She asks you personal questions about your family and to GiveMeBackMyCredit.com/blog.
No Seeds Please
By Barbara Silkstone
Recently, my daughter and I pulled up to the drive- turned into laughter as I imagined the bucket-fillers
through window of a Cluck in a Bucket fried chicken hunting down eight-legged chickens. I guessed there to
restaurant. My passion for fried chicken is legendary. be a shortage of the octo-fowl.
There is nothing, that gets my juices flowing like fried We looked at the menu board again and there plain as
chicken. We scanned the red and white poster board the nose on the clerk’s face were the words: “4 piece
menu and decided that the eight-piece bucket would be dinner – $6.99.” I whispered to my daughter in a voice that
perfect — six pieces wouldn’t be enough and ten would sounded as if I’d broken the DaVinci code. “We can get
be a pig-out, besides the price of ten chunks of cholesterol two of the four piece dinners and sides and beat them at
was equal to half the down payment on a used car. Since their own game.”
when had chicken become so expensive? My daughter said, “Most people would lose their cool
Knowing the challenges of drive-through window over this over this, but I understand why you’re laughing so
communication, I spoke distinctly and slowly into the hard.” Part of our family legend is my obsession with fried
speaker box as if I were talking to the customer service chicken. When I was pregnant with my daughter, the local
department of AT& T,“I would like the eight-piece bucket.” A&W Drive In served the crispiest, saltiest fried fowl in the
The voice responded over the tin can and string world. I had such an extreme craving for…well you
speaker. “We can’t sell you the eight-piece bucket. Would know…that A&W actually painted my name on a parking
you like the ten-piece?” My daughter and I exchanged bumper so I would have a reserved space for nine months.
befuddled looks. Twice a day I inhaled an insane amount of chicken
“I just want eight pieces of chicken.” I heard grumbling saturated in peanut oil and never lost my girlish figure.
from the squawk box. “We are not allowed to sell you eight The clerk handed us two boxes of four pieces never
pieces. Do you want that original or extra-crispy?” realizing he’d been out-witted. That was the day I bested the
Dazzled by the illogic, I snapped at the squawk box.“I Chicken Ponzi. I could take the knowledge of making eight
don’t want the ten-piece.” I’m wise to this chicken pieces from two-fours with me no matter where I traveled,
upgrading ploy, it happened to me before. I refused, and as long as there was Cluck in the Bucket, I would beat
assuming they would give in. They didn’t. them at their own game. As I write this I realize I have driven
As I argued my case for the pieces of eight, cars lined myself into a fry-frenzy and will head over to the giant red
up in back of me… hungry chicken nibblers waiting for and white bucket as I type the last word of this story.
their share of the greasy feast. “We can’t sell the eight-piece Now that I’ve conquered the chicken scheme, I still
buckets today. We can sell you six pieces or ten pieces,” need help with the burger-barns. I don’t frequent them as
the garbled voice persisted. often but when I do the frustration sends my normally low
I don’t do well under pressure and knowing those blood pressure inching upward. Try telling the tin-can-on-
behind me were salivating, I snapped. “Never mind! I’m a-string ordering box that you want your burger on a
coming inside.” I pulled into a parking space and turned to seedless bun, please. It can’t be done.
my daughter. “I think I’ve lost it.” I was in a pre-orgasmic No matter how many ways you say seedless please —
state, the smell of fried fowl aroused my food trail they hear cheese. “Without cheese?” The voice confirms.
pheromones. Nobody stands between me and fried chicken. “No, I say. With cheese, but on a seedless bun.”
My off-spring followed me into the chicken shop. We “Got it! No cheese.” The box responds.
perused the billboard menu. The sign offered what I I try graphic descriptions. Take a bun, a roll if you prefer,
wanted, eight pieces of blinking chicken for $13.99. The and make sure it doesn’t have any seeds.
counter person repeated the argument I had heard at the “No cheese.”
window adding that corporate would not allow me to have Somebody tell me how to say no seeds please and be
it my way. “Six or ten, lady. Take it or leave it.” understood. No sesame doesn’t work…the squawk box
I turned to my daughter with tears of laughter in my doesn’t know what sesame is. ‘Plain bun’ is not understood.
eyes. Once again I was trapped in a Monty Python episode, I have stopped saying please as “no seeds please” sounds as
the story of my life.“We can get six or ten pieces… but not if I’m reading Dr. Seuss. I’m open to suggestions. How to you
eight. In what demented part of the universe does that express No Seeds Please?
make any sense?” We both began giggling. The giggles
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