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The Laughable Answer: The Right System For Driving Her Insanely Wild

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The Laughable Answer


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Lets get to the laughable answer In high school, there was a guy that all of the girls considered ugly. But nevertheless, he still managed to sleep with just about every girl in high school. Being completely confused, I went on a mission to figure out his secret. Hearing everyone talk about how many girls this guy had, I knew he was doing something magical. And I had to find out So I walked up to him one day and asked him
Me: So how do you do it? Him: (smiling) Me: What are you saying to these girls man?

Thats when he gave me the laughable answer:


Him: All girls are extremely horny all of the time. All of them are dying for an opportunity to have sex. Me: (laughing)

I walked away from the conversation thinking that this guy doesnt know what hes talking about. According to how I felt at the time, the only thing that this short unattractive guy had going for him was his mysterious magic that he had over the girls. The only thing that was more bizarre than his answer was the fact that he actually believed it

According to him, all girls are Sex-Hungry Nymphos!


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________________________________________________________________________ So lets examine the statement (All girls are extremely horny all of the time) And lets refer to it as an Extreme Belief Statements (EBS). The power is in the belief itself, for many reasons. As you probably know, women respond favorably to how a man projects himself And your ability to project sexual confidence is based on your beliefs.
Your beliefs about women. Your beliefs about yourself. Your beliefs about sex.

Lets do a little experiment: I want you to imagine 5 very attractive women that you know. They can be famous women. They can be ex-girlfriends. They can be neighbors. They could be co-workers Pretty simple, right? Now imagine finding out that these women have an intense crush on you. In fact, you were walking by one womans house, and you accidentally look in her window and caught her masturbating to one of your pictures! And then a few days later, you hear one of the other women, say to her friend (while looking her deep in the eyes):
I would do anything to have sex with [fill in your name]. And she says it 3 times in a row! Almost as if she is begging her friend to arrange for it to happen.

Now imagine 5 more attractive women, except these women think you are repulsive. The thing I want you to pay attention to is how you would act around the first group and how you would act around the second group. Pay attention to your internal thoughts as you are talking to one of the women that found you repulsive. ________________________________________________________________________ 2007 CR James All Rights Reserved. http://SexualValue.com
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________________________________________________________________________ Now pay attention to your internal thoughts as you are talking to one of the women that found you sexually attractive. Because as you are talking to her, you might be thinking:
Yeah, I know you want me. [with a little smirk on your face] Youre trying to hide it, but I can tell you want me. You want me so bad. I didnt realize it was so obvious, but you do want me.

Its a natural process. In fact, any guy that is extremely successful with women will automatically say these things as he is talking to a new woman. (to himself, of course) The flipside is pretty interesting as well, because the guys who struggle the most in their relationship are always the guys who believe their female partners arent interested in sex. So an easy way to project sexual confidence with a new woman is by saying things like Yeah, I can tell you want me as you are talking to her. Feel free to be creative with your self-talk. Its that simple. And its easy to do. Lets now take it to another level by looking at this concept from a new perspective. Lets examine the Sexual Duality of Women which has 2 basic rules.
Rule #1: It doesnt matter how much of a nympho a woman is, she still has a Non Sexual Side. Rule #2: It doesnt matter how disinterested she appears to be about sex, she still has a Sexual Side.

Putting this in perspective makes it very easy to understand. For example, a friend told me about at time when he was having lunch with a female coworker in the company lunchroom. While trying to eat his food, the highly sexual woman vividly explained all of the sexual adventures she wanted to share with him. ________________________________________________________________________ 2007 CR James All Rights Reserved. http://SexualValue.com
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________________________________________________________________________ Apparently, she did not believe in being subtle. And because she was a knockout hot babe, he loved every minute of it! She was playing with his feet under the table Quickly their eyes locked into a sexual dance. Then, out of nowhere a fellow employee of the company (that only she knew) stopped by the lunch table to briefly say hello to her. And the second she began talking to him, everything changed! It was like she snapped out of her horny trance. She started talking differently. Her whole demeanor changed. In a flash of an eye, she became a "good girl and even talked about seeing him next week in Church. According to the Guy Who Visited The Lunch Table, she was a woman who does not engage in sex before marriage According to him, she does not talk about sex. According to him, she does not think about sex. According to him, she does not fantasize about sex. Isnt that fascinating? Isnt it fascinating how a woman can be: - A good girl to one guy - And a horny slut to another guy? Dont ever tell yourself its a random process! Its not like a woman will flip a coin every time she meets a new guy. And say:
Its heads. Ill guess Ill be a slut to this guy.

Have you ever been the Guy Who Visits The Lunch Table? (In other words, have you ever been the guy who projects good girl-ness on a particular woman only to find out later that her sexual appetite was off the charts!) I know I have ________________________________________________________________________ 2007 CR James All Rights Reserved. http://SexualValue.com
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________________________________________________________________________ Me and my cousin were born 3 weeks apart. We grew up together since we were babies for the most part, but we went to different high schools. Anyway, I was over his house one day and he had a few of his friends over. He told us that his girlfriend was coming over and she was bringing a few of her friends Well they came over, and there was one girl that I had my eye on. Have you ever seen a girl and you just knew something was special about her? And then you start talking to her and the mutual attraction is undeniable. Well that was the case with this new girl. She was really down to Earth and we had a lot in common. Needless to say, I had it in the bag. (You ever get that feeling when you know you got her?) So the question is: How did I know that it was in the bag? What are the powers of instant chemistry? The more I talked to her the more I realized that she was perfect so at that point I started to back off a bit We stopped talking for about a 2 minutes, and in that time, another guy came downstairs, introduced himself as he gestured for her to take his hand she stands up he takes her upstairs into a bedroom - and screws her brains out! And yes, this really happened! (embarrassingly) And meanwhile Im downstairs being forced to listen to the whole thing play it out It was not a pleasant experience! I had to play it off like nothing was happening
Me: These peanuts are the best!

And later on, she returns downstairs with a completely disrespectful smile on her face. It was like she just got off a roller coaster

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________________________________________________________________________ This was clearly an example of me being the clueless Guy Who Visits The Lunch Table because at the party I was talking completely to her Non Sexual Side. Heres a girl that came to a party knowing that her friend was about to get some sex from her boyfriend. And she also knew that his friends would be there. At one point, this sexy girl got up and sat next me on the couch as I continued to blab about nonsense. Also: Just because women have a Sexual Side, doesnt mean they will sleep with a man within seconds of meeting him (but if youre not looking at the complete picture and you fail to realize that all women have a Sexual Side, then youll miss out.) So talking to her Sexual Side has nothing to do talking about sex as soon as possible. Amazingly, this dynamic takes place in marriages where some guys have never seen their wifes Sexual Side. So if that makes sense, its time to get to good stuff! And the only requirement is that you understand the Sexual Duality of Women. Im assuming that you already know this but since everyone doesnt, its something that has to be covered. And obviously there are more parts to the equation. In order to bring out the most sexual side of a woman you need to have:

Right Belief + Right System


Right Belief: You must have the right beliefs about women so that you can project the right signals. Right System: You must have the right system so that you say the things that affect her the right way (psychologically).

We covered the powers of having the right belief (and why its a must), lets now talk about a system that affects her the right way. ________________________________________________________________________ 2007 CR James All Rights Reserved. http://SexualValue.com
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________________________________________________________________________ I refer to this as the P.U.S. Technique One of the most effective strategies for having an amazing affect on a woman is saying things that make her feel incredible about herself. And if you want a particular woman to be more sexual, then you have to increase her sexual confidence And if you want to increase her sexual confidence, you must first make her feel confident about herself. And if you want her to feel confident, then you must make her feel incredible about herself. And heres where it starts: People feel incredible after they have done something that they are proud of. (or when they are thinking about something they are proud of.) Here is the process: The Process

When she is thinking of something she is proud of that leads to


Her feeling good about herself and that leads to The feeling of confidence The moment of confidence is the perfect time to associate the thing she is proud of with sexiness. And that leads to

Sexual Confidence
If you want a woman to be more sexually responsive, then you need a strategy to increase her sexual confidence. If you ever talk to a woman who went from not caring about sex to craving it often, you will find (without a doubt) that something made her experience an increase level of sexual confidence. So if want to increase a womans sexual confidence, the first thing youll want to do is create a Proud Sheet. This is a file (or sheet of paper) that contains a list of the things she is proud of. ________________________________________________________________________ 2007 CR James All Rights Reserved. http://SexualValue.com
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________________________________________________________________________ Heres an example

Her Proud Sheet: Characteristics: 1. Being Creative (Primary) 2. Being Nice 3. Being Reliable Possessions: 4. Her Pet 5. Her Car

This should be very easy to do. Different women have different things they are proud of.
You can easily find out by asking basic questions like: So what are you proud of about yourself? What are your best qualities? What do people like best about you? What are the characteristics that make you special? What are your interests?

You really dont need the questions. Its better to just let her talk, because 95% of the time everything will spill out. And all you have to do is pay attention. So let the conversation flow into these topics naturally so that you get the answers without directly asking the questions. If it seems like you have to ask the questions directly, then allow the conversation to flow into similar topics, so that you a reason to ask these questions. If you starting firing away with these questions, out of nowhere, youll come off like an FBI agent and shell feel like shes being interrogated. So always easein the questions. For example, if she is complaining about something, find out why it bothers her. Then you can easily say something like: Oh so youre not the type of person who likes. which then allows you to have a conversation about what type of person she is. And as along as you remain ________________________________________________________________________ 2007 CR James All Rights Reserved. http://SexualValue.com
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________________________________________________________________________ shockingly impressed by her answers, the more you can continue you to ask more questions, because the tone of the conversation will be:
I find you fascinating, tell me more I wouldnt have thought that about you, so let me ask you this...

The more answers you have, the more of an advantage youll have. Most people tend to ask these questions naturally, but no one actually uses the information. The secrets of being effective with the information:
Be subtle Remember the information (thats why it will help to write it down) Sprinkle in the information later on in the conversation Show a fascination about it by asking details Create a connection by showing an appreciation for it or making it out to be bigger than what it is

Also, a large part of having sexual value is having respect for yourself. Im bringing this up, because you cant expect to seduce any woman if she doesnt have respect for youand I see it all of the timeguys trying to seduce a woman who clearly doesnt respect him Having respect for yourself is something that you can get pretty fast. You cant become a millionaire overnight. You cant become a Gold Medal Weight Lifter overnight. But you can start respecting yourself immediately. Lets continue. The secret to having a powerful affect on a woman is by giving her a Powerful Unique Feeling. In other words, women experience emotions differently than men. Theyre more emotional, because their brains are more emotionally complex. To use an analogy, men have a box of 8 crayons. And women have a box of 8,000 crayons. And each crayon represents a specific emotion. For men, blue is blue (emotionally). For women, there is a big difference between sky blue and navy blue (emotionally). ________________________________________________________________________ 2007 CR James All Rights Reserved. http://SexualValue.com
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________________________________________________________________________ If someone gave us 2 apples + 3 bananas, they gave us 2 apples + 3 bananas. If someone gave a woman 2 apples + 3 bananas, they gave her a fruit basket. The combinations produce something completely new. Guys: Red + White = Red + White Girls: Red + White = Pink This is something that not a lot of people are talking about! So get this Anytime a guy has ever had an amazing emotional impact on a woman (from the standpoint of making her feel things she has never felt before) its because he has given her a mixture of powerful emotions which creates a new great emotion inside of her - and she is totally caught off guard. She has to take a moment to adjust. She becomes more vulnerable and theres somewhat of an instant addiction. Her emotional hard-wiring has created a new neural pathway! (In other words, her brain has just been introduced to a new type of pleasure.) And as a result, she says (to her friends) things like:
This guy has made me feel things I have never felt before! I cant stop thinking about him (in other words, she is refusing to let go of these new feelings)

Basically this guy has given her a Blue Crayon + Green Crayon + Pink Crayon + Light Blue Crayon + Navy Blue Crayon + Maroon Crayon + Yellowish Green Crayon

And no other guy has ever done that!

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Thats why some women are still addicted to the first guy they feel in love with. Thats why some women are still addicted to the first guy they had sex with. Thats why some women are still addicted to the first guy that gave her an orgasm.

Shes had the Red Crayon + Blue Crayon combination thousands of times In fact if you start flirting with a woman by saying something she has heard a few times before, she quickly become turned off.
Tip: Purposely creating Emotional Combinations gives you an amazing tool to make her feel amazing

Thats just something to keep in mind. Thats not part of the system that is being discussed. If you are advanced, you can add that to the whole process. Women are silently begging to hear new things, simply because (on some level they might not be aware of) they want to experience a new emotion. So you have to forget what you know and start looking at things differently You are about to be provided with some fresh insight that will give you an undeniable advantage. I call it the MSS Structure Simply because, you have to start looking at affecting her emotionally in 3 powerful ways: Multi-dimensionally + Sequentially + Serially. Lets use the emotion of love as an example. Keep in mind, this applies to all emotions. Part 1: Multi-dimensionally: Love is not the same as Love + Appreciation So understand that women experience emotions differently and on a more complex level. The more you understand her, the more you will be able to stir up a recipe of emotions custom-fit for her which allows you to make her feel amazing about herself. If you want to give her a Powerful Unique Feeling, then you must understand the individual emotions that affect her powerfully.

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________________________________________________________________________ Part 2: Sequentially: Love is not the same as

Love-AfterAnger

As far as sequentially, there is a big difference between making her feel loved (while she is currently feeling happy) versus making her feel loved after she has been feeling angry If you have experienced make up sex, then you already know this. I remember telling my wife after a very heated argument: I love you with all my heart. You mean everything to me. (something like that) And she nearly raped me afterwards. And Im pretty sure that if I had said the same exact thing (conveying the same message) she wouldnt have responded with the same level of intensity It would not have had the same impact on her (which quickly converts into Passionate Make Up Sex) is a combination of the 2 basic types of emotional pleasures.

Love-AfterAnger

The 2 basic types of pleasure:


1. Basic Pleasure (emotional pleasure)(physical pleasure) 2. Pain Relief (relief from emotional pain)(relief from physical pain)

So with that said: Love is a form of Pleasure Love-AfterAnger is a form of Pleasure + Pain Relief
[Again, this is why Love-AfterAnger (make up sex) is more intense.]

[Guilty Guy protests the importing of untested nipple clamps] So with that said: A Billionaire winning $200,000 experiences Pleasure Homeless Guy winning $200,000 experiences Pleasure + Pain Relief [This is why the Homeless Guy winning $200,000 is going to be happier.] Part 3: Serially (Repeatedly): Love is not the same as Love + Love + Love + Love The feeling of love is pleasurable (to her), but the repeated feeling of love will make her explode. ________________________________________________________________________ 2007 CR James All Rights Reserved. http://SexualValue.com
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________________________________________________________________________ For example: Placing your tongue on a womans clitoris for one second and stopping completely is not the same as Placing your tongue on it for one second + Placing your tongue on there for another second + Placing your tongue on there for another second (over and over again)... In fact if you keep doing this, shell eventually explode into an orgasm - which isnt likely to happen if you placed your tongue on there for one second and thats it Heres something else that is pleasurable: Acknowledging something that she is proud of. (Remember when we discussed this earlier) Most people are proud of something about themselves
Always Remember #1: Humans crave social acknowledgment. Always Remember #2: Humans like to feel good about themselves.

If you can remember those 2 things, and you have done what it takes to have sexual value, everything else becomes a piece of cake Thats why you want to create a Proud Sheet that describes everything she is proud of. And if you are making a reference to several things on the list (plus asking details)(plus showing an interest)(plus showing a fascination), then you are going to effortlessly give her a Powerful Unique Feeling. Think of each thing that she is proud of (or anything that makes her feel good) as a color of crayon. Now lets get to the other half of the P.U.S equation
P Proud US Under Signal

The Next Step: Make a list of her Under Signals. Remember the Proud Sheet is designed to provide her with A Pleasurable Feeling.

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________________________________________________________________________ Now well discuss Under Signals which are designed to give her a type of emotional Pain Relief Ill explain: Theres a concept that I refer to as Under Signals and Over Signals . The more you understand it, the easier it becomes to figure out how to drive a woman wild Remember women want to be rescued. They like escapism. In romance novels, the Sexy Man comes along and sweeps her off her feet. Shes relieved of all worries. So Under Signals is powerful if you are able to see whats happening Heres how it works. For example, if a woman has been spoiled by her parents and ex boyfriends her whole life, then she has an OVER-SIGNAL of "Appreciation"... so when a guy attempts to do something to show her that he "appreciates" her, it has little value to her...

(Have you experienced a woman like this?)


And as a result... the "thing that he does to show appreciation" does not have any (beneficial) affect on her. Because again, she has an OVER-SIGNAL of "Appreciation". And some womens Appreciation Receptors are burnt out! And these women dont appreciate anything you do! And naturally, they become conditioned to respond to guys that ignore them On the other hand, let's say that you are seeing a completely different woman (equal attractiveness) that has never had anyone (i.e. parents, ex-boyfriends, bosses, etc.) show her appreciation, then doing the EXACT SAME THING "to show appreciation" to this woman is going to have a totally different affect on her... In this case, your desirability goes up simply because you were able to impact her. This particular woman has an UNDER-SIGNAL of Appreciation... ________________________________________________________________________ 2007 CR James All Rights Reserved. http://SexualValue.com
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You are filling a void. You are completing the puzzle. You are giving her exactly what she craves (emotional).

Heres another example So if you discover that a particular woman has an UNDER-SIGNAL of Acceptance and an UNDER-SIGNAL of Importance (meaning that it has been a while since she felt accepted and important)... It's really all about doing things that make her feel accepted and important... Examples of making her feel accepted (so that you can see how its done): 1. Telling her that you are lucky to have a woman like her. And to add even more fire power, you could start off by talking about women that you do not accept. For example, during a conversion you could have a discussion about types of women that you don't like/accept. After you have done this, you could talk about how you are lucky to have her - for the purpose of making her feel accepted... I hope that makes sense. If a crackhead hasnt smoked crack in a week, and he normally smokes it every day, what is his Under Signal at that moment in time? Answer: crack. In fact, you need to start thinking of emotions as drugs, because drugs produce a biological reaction in a persons body just like emotions do In fact, drug addicts arent really addicted to the drugs; theyre actually addicted to the feelings produced by their own body when they take the drugs. Another thing you can do (once you get the hang of it) is make the woman feel accepted WHILE linking it to a sexual gateway.

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________________________________________________________________________ So you could tell her that she has been "selected" [acceptance] for your world famous backrub - which gives you a reason to set up an intimate environment WHILE providing her with one of her UNDER-SIGNALS.

So use the Under Signals as a way to initiate sex. In fact, if you use Over Signals to initiate sex, she quickly get out of the mood.
Have you ever been around a woman that made it clear she wanted sex, but when you initiate it, shes no longer in the mood? Heres how it works
[Under Signals are the signals/emotions she crave.] [Over Signals are signals that cause stress and irritability.]

So if a woman has an Over Signal of Selfishness and her husband initiates sex in a way that sends her the message give me sex right now, because I want it, it wouldnt matter if she was horny 3 seconds ago. Emotions can change instantly. Think about it for a second. A woman has a full time job working for a selfish boss which means she is getting an excessive amount of the I hate selfish people Signal. Then the husband successfully does what it takes to turn her on, but then at the magic moment of initiating sex, he fires off the OVER SIGNAL of Selfishness and ends up turning her off instantly. Hopefully that makes sense. So its always a good idea to use the UNDER SIGNAL part of the equation as the sexual spark If a couple is angry with each other (in other words, they temporarily hate each other), they essentially have a mutual UNDER SIGNAL of love. The make-up sex is a result of the Sexual Spark (the mutual agreement that they should begin loving each other again). So the question becomes: ________________________________________________________________________ 2007 CR James All Rights Reserved. http://SexualValue.com
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________________________________________________________________________ What are her UNDER SIGNALS? Is it appreciation? (a very popular UNDER SIGNAL) Is it power? Here is a list of potential UNDER SIGNALS
Appreciation Power Fame Status Attention Importance Independence Achievement Confidence Dominance Connection With Others Pride Beauty Love Sexiness Intelligence the list goes on forever

Women enjoy feeling a certain way. There are always more than one UNDER SIGNALS going on with most women Life creates them naturally. People create them naturally. If her boss hasnt told her shes doing a good job after a few days of hard work, she could develop an UNDER SIGNAL of appreciation. If she catches you checking out the young girl wearing the sexy miniskirt, she could develop an UNDER SIGNAL of sexiness.

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________________________________________________________________________ Next Step: Create a list of UNDER SIGNALS (try to create at least 3 - with the first one being the main one)

Her UNDER SIGNAL Sheet: Emotions 1. Appreciation (Primary) 2. Sexiness 3. Importance 4. Trust Specific Requests (Cravings) 1. A vacation 2. A back rub 3. A romantic dinner

In some cases, the emotion may be unknown to you. For example, she may tell you that she wants a back rub which could mean she is craving closeness, relaxation, intimacy or physical pain relief. So even though you dont know the specific emotional craving, you at least know that the specific request is likely to satisfy her need . With that said, there are ways to finding her emotional UNDER SIGNALS: Ask her:
Whats bothering you? How do you want to improve? What do you really want? What do you really want to do? What are the things that would make a job considered perfect? What are the characteristics of a good relationship? And which characteristic is the hardest to achieve?

(or better yet, find out without asking) Its that simple. Lets look at the question What are the characteristics of a good relationship? And which characteristic is the hardest to achieve? ________________________________________________________________________ 2007 CR James All Rights Reserved. http://SexualValue.com
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________________________________________________________________________ Look at what this question is designed to do. It leads to her saying something like Well trust, because its hard to find trusting guys. And at that point, you wouldnt debate with her. You would simply agree. You are right. It is hard to find trusting guys. Since she perceives trust as being rare, it automatically has more value to her. Just like with the Proud Sheet, you want to let the answers spill out naturally during the conversation. Here are some other ways to find Under Signals. Talk to her and just listen for anything that she is complaining about. If she is complaining about her job, then figure out the qualities of the perfect job (according to her). So listen for something that she is complaining about. For example:
You: How was your day? Her: My day was ok. My boss is a complete asshole. He treats us like babies. Bingo! Under Signal = Independence What you can do: Wait a while maybe even a few minutes later when the conversation has changed and talk about how you are impressed with her independence. You could find reasons why you admire her independence and then lay it out for her. Almost as if you are saying let me explain to you why you are so incredible.

Find out her complaints about every aspect of life


Whats Whats Whats Whats Whats Whats your your your your your your biggest biggest biggest biggest biggest biggest complaint complaint complaint complaint complaint complaint about about about about about about the world? guys? guys in relationships? women? your friend? your parents?

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________________________________________________________________________ Obviously, the context of the existing conversation will determine whether you can get away with asking these questions. You could be very generic with this:
Whats you biggest complaint? If she feels that she doesnt fit in, then the Under Signal is Being Understood. If you show her that you understand her, while also agreeing with her belief that most people dont get her, then shell melt right before your eyes. If she feels that most women are jealous of her, then the Under Signal is Superiority. She wants to feel superior, so make her feel as though she is better than most women, and you could even go into details about why she is. If you do this, youll see her relaxing more (this is a sign that she is getting the relief that she needs). If her biggest complaint is that she does what she is suppose to do, while others are always screwing up, then her Under Signal is Being Right. Youll notice that these type of women hate when someone disagrees with them. Make her feel as though she has it all figured out. Deep down inside, these women really want guidance and structure so keep that in mind. If her biggest complaint is others are out to take advantage of her, then her Under Signal is trust. Agree with her about the world being a battle field and compliment her mental strength and assertiveness. Even if she isnt, it will drive her wild. If her biggest complaint has to do with people pressuring her to change, then her Under Signal is Stability. Make her feel as though she is stable even though shes not likely to be. And make her feel as though she is fine the way she is. And if you also compliment her on being easy going and down to Earth, shell swear that you have an amazing connection with her.

Another method for uncovering UNDER SIGNALS is looking at the things that she fears, the things that make her uncomfortable, and a specific request Whats Whats Whats Whats the the the the scariest scariest scariest scariest thing thing thing thing about about about about the world? guys? relationships? dating?

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________________________________________________________________________ about life will be her Long Term Under Signal. For example I fear being all alone means that one of her Long term Under Signals is social interaction. And if these she goes a few days without serious people-interaction, shell be twitching and foaming at the mouth until she gets around some people. All you would have to do is take around a group of people and share some laughs for a few hours, and youll be her hero. Just understand that the Under Signal could be anything. For example, a woman who is shy around other people has an UNDER SIGNAL of being comfortable in social situations If you are talking to a woman and she says she wants to eat a plate full of worms because its been awhile since she has had it, then that is her UNDER SIGNAL. (Technically, the actual UNDER SIGNAL is unknown, but it doesnt matter because you know that the plate full of worms will provide her with a feeling that she is craving.) Remember the purpose of finding her Under Signals is so that you can offer Relief of Pain (in a pleasurable way) When you combine Relief of Pain (Under Signal/Thing She Is Craving) with Pleasure (Thing That She is Proud of) it has an amazing effect on her.

Heres an example: (real life dialogue) http://sexualvalue.com/pus.html Youll notice the subtle use of Under Signals and Proud Signals, plus depending on what other stuff you have read of mine, youll see some of other stuff featured as well. Plus theres a couple things going on that I have never taught, but if you know most of my seduction philosophies you might figure it out. And even still (depending on how much of my other stuff you own), youll notice that Im only using 1.5% of what I publicly taught. Which brings me to a very important point that I hope will help you. And that is only use what you need to use.

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One of the best ways to make someone feel comfortable is to appear to be shocked for the purpose of saying Really? YOU are shy around other people. I would have never thought that because you are so confident. And all you are really doing is Projecting Belief which has a way of making the person feel at least more comfortable than they did before. And in many cases, that is enough to make her feel good (relieving the pain) So lets put it all together So reflecting back on affecting her emotionally [ Multi-Dimensionally + Sequentially + Serially ] youll want to first of all, talk to her Sexual Side (having the belief) Thats the first ingredient. Then the basic formula becomes:
(PROUD + UNDERSIG) + (PROUD + UNDERSIG) + (PROUD + UNDERSIG)

This is the step by step formula. And you should be able to see: the multi-dimensional aspect of it (PROUD + UNDERSIG) the sequential aspect of it: UNDERSIG [Relief from emotional pain] and the serial aspect: (PROUD + UNDERSIG) + (PROUD + UNDERSIG) + (PROUD +
UNDERSIG)

If this is confusing, then lets make it easy to understand. Well for the first portion (PROUD + UNDERSIG), this is the same as saying something that acknowledges something that she is proud of (thats why its important to know what she is proud of), while also relieving her of (making her comfortable about) her UNDER SIGNAL in a way that converts it to sexual confidence thats if the particular woman needs sexual confidence. In fact, you should be able to see how this could be used to assist her in non sexual goals

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The Laughable Answer: The Right System For Driving Her Insanely Wild

________________________________________________________________________ So as a rule of thumb, the role of the proud portion of the equation is to allow her to experience an incredible feeling about herself Youre installing self-empowerment (Thats one way of looking at it.) You want to be after the blushing look where shes thinking/saying: Wow I guess I am pretty amazing.
And just when she is feeling glowingly amazing, you then link the proud item to sexiness. And since women tend not to reject the perception that theyre after (for example: sexiness), it becomes virtually impossible not to end up making her experience the feeling of sexual confidence

Please read that again (because its the CODE for making women feel sexy). And if making women horny is important to you, then you should realize the value of making them feel sexy). As far as the Under Signal portion of the equation, it can be used to provide relief from pain and that can eventually be converted into a sexual gateway (if you need that) Just so you really understand whats going on, I want to show you just how easy it is Heres a quick snap shot of how its done. All you have to do is think about all of the things that she is proud of and then show an interest/fascination in that. Be sure to give her credit (emotional reward) for the things that she is proud of And then you want to covert that into Sexiness. Your goal really is all about giving her a tool for becoming confident at the right moment. In other words, you don't need her to be extremely confident 100% of the time just times when it benefits her to be confident. For example, when she becomes increasingly aware of the importance of turning into a steamy sex partner for you.

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The Laughable Answer: The Right System For Driving Her Insanely Wild

________________________________________________________________________ This is equivalent to understanding that you don't need to be sexually desirable with every woman on Earth to experience a happy sex life. So if she is creative, then tell her that's what makes her amazing and why you think its amazing and so on... I always like to take it to level where she goes: Wow I didnt realize being creative was so great. When her face starts glowing with that special blushing smile, you know you have created a new neural pathway. In so many words, you want to communicate that she is exceptional for the purpose of getting her to feel exceptional. Then while she is feeling exceptional, you want to let her know that she is sexy for that and that you are glad to have a creative wife....you could even talk about how some women aren't creative.... to create CONTRAST for a more powerful affect. You could have a conversation about how you could never marry a woman who wasnt creative because that's not exciting (as you can see, you can now use that to implicitly send the message that CREATIVITY = EXCITEMENT) Then she indirectly gets the message that you BELIEVE she is exciting... Then she says to herself 'Wait a minute, I am exciting' and subtly shell hypnotically lives up to that... Then basically you are going to have ongoing conversations that are designed to re-organize her beliefs (that way as a long term approach, she begins to feel sexy any time she feels proud of herself) Just trying to go though the process isnt that important Its more important that you continue to get good job at:
identifying the PROUD OF things identifying the UNDERSIGS saying things that make her feel proud/good about herself saying things that allow her to experience emotions that she has been craving [UNDERSIGS] (or even making her feel comfortable/adequate about herself)

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The Laughable Answer: The Right System For Driving Her Insanely Wild

________________________________________________________________________ If you really get good at it, you can take it to a new level

OPTIONAL: A more pleasurably intense version of the PUS System


(PROUD-2 + UNDERSIG-2) + (PROUD-3 + UNDERSIG-3) +(PROUD-2 + UNDERSIG-2) + (PROUD-3 + UNDERSIG-3) + (PROUD-2 + UNDERSIG-2) + (PROUD-3 + UNDERSIG-3). [Once you observe the tension building, you would begin inserting the primaries (the most important items on the Sheets) ] + (PROUD-1 + UNDERSIG- 1) + (PROUD- 1 + UNDERSIG-1 )

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Proud-2 could be one of the things on the Proud Sheet Proud-3 could be another thing on the Proud Sheet UnderSig-2 could be one of the things on the Under Signal Sheet UnderSig-3 could be another things on the Under Signal Sheet Proud-1 is the thing she is most proud of Under Signal-1 is the biggest Under Signal

This is the oral sex equivalent of noticing that she is about to climax and inserting a finger and massaging the G-Spot (because as you can see the primary signals (the red ones) are at the end providing a more intense feeling as the tension builds.

Again, when you are building your PROUD Sheets and UNDERSIG sheets, youll want to identify the primary/main/biggest thing she is proud of along with the biggest/primary UNDERSIG So thats it Remember the 3 Power Laws of Female Emotions Multi-Dimensionally: Love is not the same as Love + Appreciation

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The Laughable Answer: The Right System For Driving Her Insanely Wild

________________________________________________________________________ Sequentially: Love is not the same as

Love-AfterAnger

Serially (Repeatedly): Love is not the same as Love + Love + Love + Love Basically emotions are like drugs Becoming a Super Seduction Master (with women)(or with that special woman) is all about having mastery over making her feel special plus strategically & indirectly defining the rules of how she gets her emotions.

Warmly CR James

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The Laughable Answer: The Right System For Driving Her Insanely Wild

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:: Summary + Extras ::
Right Belief: Communicate with her Sexual Side and believe that she has the ability to be turned on. Do not be the Guy Who Visits The Lunch Table.

Find out what she is Proud of [Create your PROUD Sheet]


You can do this by asking her: So what are you proud of about yourself? What are your best qualities? What do people like best about you? What are the characteristics that make you special? Note: Then you can practice making her feel a combination of proud + other emotions (crayons) to make her feel things she has never experienced before.

So the formula (PROUD + UNDERSIG) + (PROUD + UNDERSIG) + (PROUD + UNDERSIG) becomes :


(SUPER-PROUD-COMBO + UNDERSIG) + (SUPER-PROUD-COMBO + UNDERSIG) + (SUPER-PROUD-COMBO + UNDERSIG)

Find out her UNDERSIGS [Create your UNDERSIG Sheet]


You can do this by observing: What are the things that she complains about? (think about the feeling that she is seeking that would make her stop complaining) What is she trying to do with her life? (Whatever her answer is, think about how she wants to be perceived) What are the things that she is insecure about? (Think about what would have to happen in order for her insecurities to disappear)(if its not possible to magically change her, create the perception that she can overcome it, or make her feel comfortable about it in a different setting. For example a woman may feel insecure about her appearance. You can either make her feel optimistic about her ability to improve her appearance and then tell her that improving is what true sexiness is all about. Or you can compliment her intelligence (or an inner quality) and say thats what true sexiness is all about. When you combine the two types of pleasure, it creates sexual tension. Its undeniable. Its predictable. When a woman rips off you clothes in the act of make-up sex it is because you have supplied the tender woman with Pleasure + Pain Relief. Thats exactly what (PROUD + UNDERSIG) is!
(PROUD + UNDERSIG) = The Right System

In order to bring the most sexual side of a woman you need to have:

Right Belief + Right System ________________________________________________________________________ 2007 CR James All Rights Reserved. http://SexualValue.com
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