DEFINITION OF LOVE

By Naveed Yar Khan

Maybe it is tough to define love in a sentence, but it is not at all
difficult to list the things people do when they love someone. For
example, when you truly love someone:
You hold that person very dear in your heart. You respect
him/her. You miss that person when you are away from him/her. When
you are in love, you fear nothing more than losing the one you love.
ven the thought of losing him/her ma!es your heart miss a beat. You
do what this person does and hate to do the things he/she does not li!e.
You want this person to be always in front of your eyes or near you.
You want to see, hear, touch and hold him/her. You want to give even
your most dear and expensive things to him/her. You believe in him/her
and have trust in him/her. You !now deep down in heart that love is
synonymous with belief and trust. You feel yourself incomplete
without this person. You want to live and die for him/her. You thin!
and dream about him/her endlessly such that this person is always in
your mind and heart. You cannot to forget him/her even for a moment
even if you want to. You absorb all of his/her attributes, habits, li!es
and disli!es and try to be "ust li!e him/her. You hate what this person
disli!es and love what this person li!es. You are happy in his/her
happiness and unhappy when this person is unhappy. You
unconsciously copy this person#s style and everything. Your only
purpose in life is to please the one you love$ in other words % his
purpose is your purpose. You love this person#s friends and hate his/her
enemies. When you are truly in love with someone, you are finally
one person in two bodies.
When you do all these things and many other things for someone,
you say you love such and such person because all these things put
together ma!e definition of love complete. &his definition of love is
synonymous with definition of faith because you cannot love someone
without F'()& having faith in them. *ow as! yourself do you love
+od and whom ,e loves in this way- 'f you do not, then be sure that
your faith is mixed with ,Y./0(0Y and 1/23&. 3ut unfortunately
you are not even conscious of self4deception 56uran 7: 89:.
DEFINICIJA LJUBAVI
Naveed Yar Khan
Mo;da "e te<!o definisati l"ubav, ali uop<te ni"e te<!o
pobro"ati stvari !o"e l"udi rade !ad su =al"ubl"eni. *a primer, !ada
ne!oga is!reno volite:
8. >ama "e ta osoba veoma draga u srcu
7. .o<tu"ete tu osobu
9. &a osoba vam nedosta"e !ada niste pored n"e
?. @elite da ta osoba bude uve! ispred va<ih oAi"u ili bli=u
vas
B. @elite da "e vidite, Au"ete, dodirnete, dr;ite
C. >eru"ete u tu osobu i imate poveren"a u n"u
D. @elite to" osobi da date sve, Aa! i svo"e na"dra;e i
na"vredni"e stvari
E. /seFate se nepotpunim be= te osobe
G. &a osoba "e uve! u va<im mislima i srcu
8H. @ivite i umirete =a tu osobu
88. )an"ate "e
87. 2pi"ate sve n"ene osobine, navi!e i na!lonosti i
po!u<avate da budete !ao ta osoba
89. *e mo;ete i ne ;elite da =aboravite tu osobu Aa! ni
"ednog trenut!a u svom ;ivotu
8?. *e volite ono <to ta osoba ne voli
8B. )reFni ste !ad "e ta osoba sreFna a nesreFni ste !ad "e ona
nesreFna
8C. Iada ste =al"ubl"eni, niAega se vi<e ne pla<ite nego da
i=gubite tu osobu
8D. Iopirate onoga !oga volite u svemu i Aa! ;elite da
budete !ao on/ona
8E. J!o ne mo;ete da veru"ete u ne!oga, ne mo;ete ni da ga
volite
8G. >a<a "edina svrha ;ivota "e da ugodite onome !oga volite$
drugim reAima % n"ihova svrha "e i va<a
7H. >olite one l"ude !o"e ta osoba voli i mr=ite one !o"e ta
osoba mr=i
8?. Iada is!reno ne!oga volite, vi ste "edna osoba u dva tela
/va definici"a l"ubavi "e ta!oKe definici"a vere u 3oga,
meKutim, da li vi mo;ete da volite i da li =aista volite 3oga i
Muhammeda 5s.a.w.s.: na ova" naAin- J!o ne, onda ste
licemeri !o"i ;ive ;ivot samo obman"u"uFi sebe.