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The best way to handle ights in a nightclub is to a"oid them in the irst place..n martial arts! $ung u or e4ample! you master the martial arts to ma$e amend with yoursel and your enemy so you no longer ha"e to ight.
The best way to handle ights in a nightclub is to a"oid them in the irst place..n martial arts! $ung u or e4ample! you master the martial arts to ma$e amend with yoursel and your enemy so you no longer ha"e to ight.
The best way to handle ights in a nightclub is to a"oid them in the irst place..n martial arts! $ung u or e4ample! you master the martial arts to ma$e amend with yoursel and your enemy so you no longer ha"e to ight.
By: Gabriel Angelo http://www.socialnatural.com Feel ree to pass this along to anybody who is a nightclub addict! the "ictim o bullies and douchebags! or will beneit rom this! and any other reason and all the reasons! or #ust to ma$e yoursel eel good. %hey&ll than$ you or it. :' Be sure to "isit http://www.socialnatural.com or more great tips and ad"ices on the art social s$ills dynamics mastery. Handling Nightclub Fights ( Social Natural %he nightclubs) Ah yes! the scene where you*ll ind the hottest girls around! all dolled+ up! loo$ing their best as they can be)unortunately! with the added unpleasantly o aggressi"e! testosterone+ueled guys under the inluence o alcohol wanting to start shits! ma$ing your lie o getting with these girls a li"ing hell. %hese guys won*t hesitate to ruin your night and want to start ights with you! and it is going to happen once in a while i you go out regularly to the nightclub scene. ,-o what am . suppose to do when . get into a ight in a nightclub/0 %he best way to handle the ight is)to avoid them. ,1hat Gabriel/ %hat*s it/ %hat*s all you ha"e to say/0 . $now. . $now. You want me to show you some ancy mo"es and techni2ues to $noc$ them dead. But all seriousness! the best way to 3 Handling Nightclub Fights ( Social Natural handle ights in a nightclub is to a"oid them in the irst place. .n martial arts! $ung u or e4ample! you master the martial arts to ma$e amend with yoursel and your enemy so you no longer ha"e to ight. You get good in martial arts to a"oid ha"ing to use it. ,But Gabriel what i somebody actually do ta$e a smac$ at you/0 5$! o$! now on those rare occasions! when that actually do happen! you ha"e the right to deend yoursel. . ha"e tal$ed about %he Art o 6on"ersational+6ombat 7u#itsu! when somebody bullies or "erbally attac$s you! you turn it right bac$ on them to ma$e they the ool they set out to ma$e you to be) A popular term or this is ,amogging0 8alpha male other guy' or #ust being ,amog0 8alpha male o the group'. 9 Handling Nightclub Fights ( Social Natural But when it in"ol"es physicality! that*s a dierent story. .t wouldn*t hurt to teach yoursel some martial arts)and it will also ma$e you more conident $nowing you can deend yoursel at the sight o trouble. . ha"e only been in one actual physical ight in a nightclub in my lie. .t was 3::;am. . was dancing by mysel obli"ious to e"erything around me! and these douchebags 8yes! they were douchebags' $ept wal$ing bac$+ ; Handling Nightclub Fights ( Social Natural and+orth intentionally bumping into me! and then apologi<ing. (* As an important side-note: one thing . want you to be aware o is that these ol$s will intentionally do things that seem supericially accidental 8such as a bump! drin$ spill on you'! and then gi"e an ,insincere sarcastic apology0 #ust to not push you o"er your boiling- threshold. You want to get right bac$ at them! but that ,insincere sarcastic apology0 is a way to dilute some o that anger! otherwise you*ll be seem as the bad guy i you get boiled up ater their supposedly apology. %his is a way o how they control you. 7ust be conscious o this.) As . said beore! the best way to handle a ight is to)avoid it! so the irst couple times . let it go)no big deal= howe"er! they persisted! and . told them politely to stop and e"en tried beriending li$e they were my bros and mo"ed to a dierent area on the dance+loor. . thought or sure they would stop! but the ith+time inally rolled around! and . had enough and conronted the guy that bumped me)and the ne4t thing . $new! . got punched in the ace rom one o the riends rom behind and pushed really hard rom the other side rom another riend. %hey grouped together and tried to ganged up on me! but . $ept doing the roundhouse $ic$! pushing them bac$ until the bouncers came and threw them out or initiating the ight! and . beriended the bouncers! and whene"er . hit up that club those bouncers always ha"e my bac$. > Handling Nightclub Fights ( Social Natural (MARTA! ARTS T": 1hen you*re in a group ight! especially by yoursel! you want to $eep your distance away rom your opponents as much as possible and $ic$ them instead o punching them. . you engage yoursel in close pro4imity with one person! you*re already ocusing too much attention on that one person! and his buddies will surround you and attac$ rom all sides)not to mention when you*re grabbed on to. %hat*s why you would want to $ic$ to ta$e them down as 2uic$ly as possible instead o punch! as $ic$ing can reach a greater distance and ha"e more orce upon impact than punching.) But once again! as . ha"e stressed! the best way to handle a ight is to a"oid it and pre"ent it rom occurring. %he $ey is to beriend a lot o the guys so they won*t be the ones messing with you later. Now . want to introduce you to a techni2ue . called! ,paralleling the past.0 .*ll demonstrate using that ight . had) ? Handling Nightclub Fights ( Social Natural Because . had this happened to me! this is a story . always tell in a nightclub to beriend guys who loo$ li$e they might cause trouble with me later. .*m really riendly to them! and . tell them this story how . got in a ight in a nightclub with these douchebags. By telling this story o what happened! they will consciously dissociate themsel"es rom it by not wanting to be li$e those guys! by trying not to be douchebags and starting a ight with me! or else they*re end up li$e those guys. .t*s $ind o li$e what you want to a"oid! you tell what would happen i it does but in another scenario in the past. @i$e or this e4ample! i these guys acted li$e douchebags! they would get into a ight would me! and . would beat them up! and the bouncers would still throw them out= thereore! they won*t act li$e douchebags 8not to me anyway' and pic$ a ight with me. A parallel story o the past. . their beha"iors start to coincide with this! history would repeat itsel. %his is paralleling the past to a"oid the same uture. Asing this techni2ue ,paralleling the past!0 you can a"oid a lot o potential ights! and e"en ma$e riends that night with a lot bu guys who would ha"e your bac$. B Handling Nightclub Fights ( Social Natural Hope you ha"e en#oyed your little handy+dandy guide to nightclub ights. Cemember please eel ree to pass this along to anybody you li$e. Gabriel http://www.socialnatural.com D.-. . you e"er ha"e any 2uestion! send them to me at as$gabrielEsocialnatural.com. .&ll be sure to read them.